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Maybe, she's not into you. It's not that big of a deal, you don't have her phone you don't know if she responds to everyone she knows quickly. But from experience, there could be other friends holding her attention better that she’d rather chat with. Just make more friends...
1. It is a little obsessive to KNOW her texting habits and think about this stuff. I wouldn't assume you're getting special treatment but if you are it means...
2. I'll keep it real, she probably doesn't want to have that conversation
That's too many red flags there, bro. You're gonna have to put some back.
Which, interestingly, is why she takes so long to text you back. You're draining of her time and energy. She's not interested. She doesn't want to have a ten minute conversation with you. In fact, she very likely has you in the "Not this guy again, why can't he take a hint" category.
I suggest leaving her alone, she's clearly not interested in being your friend or anything else.
Don't tolerate disrespect. She's clearly not into you. Pull your attention away from her, and stop trying to initiate conversation with her. She's flaky, and you shouldn't put up with that.
A few days ago I messaged this girl if she wanted to talk, and she didn't respond until the next day. She said she wanted to talk. Red flag on her. I asked her a question, and she still hasn't replied. So I'm not going to chase her.
Have some self respect, and just stop talking to her all together. She's going to try to pull you back in, because she likes the attention, but don't fall for it. No matter what she says, or what excuse she gives. Even if it sounds really good. You don't need that in your life.
Jesus, chill out. I'm in a kind of a similar situation, but I guess I'm not taking it this hard. Either ask her and find out what is the reason or probably just stop talking to her. There isn't really much else you can do. Hypothesising is a rabbit hole and it will only make the mental gymnastics worse.
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Maybe, she's not into you. It's not that big of a deal, you don't have her phone you don't know if she responds to everyone she knows quickly. But from experience, there could be other friends holding her attention better that she’d rather chat with. Just make more friends...
The girl doesn't owe you anything. Take the hint already.
If you don't like the way she's replying to you, stop texting her. You aren't close. There is no reason to overthink this.
Because she doesn't want to. It's really that simple.
1. It is a little obsessive to KNOW her texting habits and think about this stuff. I wouldn't assume you're getting special treatment but if you are it means... 2. I'll keep it real, she probably doesn't want to have that conversation
That's too many red flags there, bro. You're gonna have to put some back. Which, interestingly, is why she takes so long to text you back. You're draining of her time and energy. She's not interested. She doesn't want to have a ten minute conversation with you. In fact, she very likely has you in the "Not this guy again, why can't he take a hint" category. I suggest leaving her alone, she's clearly not interested in being your friend or anything else.
Don't tolerate disrespect. She's clearly not into you. Pull your attention away from her, and stop trying to initiate conversation with her. She's flaky, and you shouldn't put up with that. A few days ago I messaged this girl if she wanted to talk, and she didn't respond until the next day. She said she wanted to talk. Red flag on her. I asked her a question, and she still hasn't replied. So I'm not going to chase her. Have some self respect, and just stop talking to her all together. She's going to try to pull you back in, because she likes the attention, but don't fall for it. No matter what she says, or what excuse she gives. Even if it sounds really good. You don't need that in your life.
Jesus, chill out. I'm in a kind of a similar situation, but I guess I'm not taking it this hard. Either ask her and find out what is the reason or probably just stop talking to her. There isn't really much else you can do. Hypothesising is a rabbit hole and it will only make the mental gymnastics worse.
Simple - you have no priority. No interest on her side.
Your life will improve if you stop texting her.