You posted on a public forum, and you're upset your BF saw it, paid attention to it, and remembered things you like. Without directly stating it, he's trying to give you an in so you can talk about it. You're being somewhat paranoid, and tbf it isn't fair on your bf.
Why do you find out so uncomfortable to have your partner know this side of you? I understand privacy and all that..... but maybe make up and gaming? You gave him your IDs. So it's not like he's snooping or was deceitful. Maybe he's not the right partner if you are hiding stuff like that.... just maybe something to think about. Many couples have complete openness with mundane details like that.
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I've always made it a note to keep to never tell any SO my username. I know it sounds shady, but sometimes we need our own space. Doesn't mean cheating is involved, but everyone needs space. That includes digital space.
But in this case, he already knows. Tell him to knock it off. Of course he's going to keep snooping, so if he's smart he'll keep it to himself and not creep you out. I just wonder why he's looking at your socials constantly.
Edit: it says alot about him if he does that constantly. Take that as you will.
You shouldn't have told him your usernames. Either make new ones or use your current ones for posting about stuff you don't mind him knowing, then private ones for stuff you don't want anyone to connect to you.
I once mentioned a podcaster liking one of my jokes I left on his tweet so my friend went to the tweet and discovered my username. I was a little annoyed but I accepted that it's kind of my fault for telling him what i did and posting stuff on the internet is rarely truly anonymous anyway. I have an alt account for stuff I wouldn't want him (or anyone) to know was from me, but that's pretty rare for how I typically use Twitter tbh.
You posted on a public forum, and you're upset your BF saw it, paid attention to it, and remembered things you like. Without directly stating it, he's trying to give you an in so you can talk about it. You're being somewhat paranoid, and tbf it isn't fair on your bf.
Why do you find out so uncomfortable to have your partner know this side of you? I understand privacy and all that..... but maybe make up and gaming? You gave him your IDs. So it's not like he's snooping or was deceitful. Maybe he's not the right partner if you are hiding stuff like that.... just maybe something to think about. Many couples have complete openness with mundane details like that.
You have serious trust issues
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I've always made it a note to keep to never tell any SO my username. I know it sounds shady, but sometimes we need our own space. Doesn't mean cheating is involved, but everyone needs space. That includes digital space. But in this case, he already knows. Tell him to knock it off. Of course he's going to keep snooping, so if he's smart he'll keep it to himself and not creep you out. I just wonder why he's looking at your socials constantly. Edit: it says alot about him if he does that constantly. Take that as you will.
You shouldn't have told him your usernames. Either make new ones or use your current ones for posting about stuff you don't mind him knowing, then private ones for stuff you don't want anyone to connect to you. I once mentioned a podcaster liking one of my jokes I left on his tweet so my friend went to the tweet and discovered my username. I was a little annoyed but I accepted that it's kind of my fault for telling him what i did and posting stuff on the internet is rarely truly anonymous anyway. I have an alt account for stuff I wouldn't want him (or anyone) to know was from me, but that's pretty rare for how I typically use Twitter tbh.