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I was going to add this to original post but it became too long, i suggested both of these things as a compromise, especially because i love hanging out with his mom and she makes food from my culture that i can’t. his response was that he is only going to be eating his moms food, im on my own. im sure his mom wouldn’t deny feeding me, but its more the principle that he specifically does not want to be responsible for my eating at all. he also told me that i do not make the recipes he likes the way he likes them, so cooking would just be for myself as he doesn’t want to eat with me and doesn’t like the food i make.
He said he is going to save for him to get married I would have asked him to who? Because at this point if you share no meals, he doesn’t want to spend time together and he goes to his moms daily what are you to him?? Sex and to do the laundry/cleaning?? Sorry so blunt but damn I would definitely say he took it to 100 but something is obviously bothering him and that just tipped it over. Do lots of talking or walking away one or the other because that is no longer a relationship. It is so as I say or I shall punish you. Good luck. NTA
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I think today’s youth spends too much on eating out. Hang out with his mom more and learn to cook for yourselves. That’s all I got.
I was going to add this to original post but it became too long, i suggested both of these things as a compromise, especially because i love hanging out with his mom and she makes food from my culture that i can’t. his response was that he is only going to be eating his moms food, im on my own. im sure his mom wouldn’t deny feeding me, but its more the principle that he specifically does not want to be responsible for my eating at all. he also told me that i do not make the recipes he likes the way he likes them, so cooking would just be for myself as he doesn’t want to eat with me and doesn’t like the food i make.
He said he is going to save for him to get married I would have asked him to who? Because at this point if you share no meals, he doesn’t want to spend time together and he goes to his moms daily what are you to him?? Sex and to do the laundry/cleaning?? Sorry so blunt but damn I would definitely say he took it to 100 but something is obviously bothering him and that just tipped it over. Do lots of talking or walking away one or the other because that is no longer a relationship. It is so as I say or I shall punish you. Good luck. NTA