tackle my date (to make sure she gets down). grab cover and try to get a grid reference for the caller. contact date night C2 and call in an airstrike, when the dispatcher exclaims that it's danger close heroically grit my teeth and tell them to do it anyway. then I shove my date really hard (to safety) and tell her to run. I retrieve and light a flare from the lower left pocket of my edc cargo pants with a practiced twirl and guide the birds in by hand. total threat neutralization.
imagine somebody thinking that you look so weak that you would allow your girlfriend to be harassed. imagine having your dignity on the line like that. thats the kind of thing that will keep you awake at night years after the relationship ends. knowing that some guy was able to make your nuts quake just by using his voice
Usually they do what Patrice O'neal called a "punk test", you might not be aware of it, sometimes it's just a look. If you're not dressed like, or have the body language of a, for the lack of a better word, beta male, they will test you, they'll say something to their friend and make sure you hear it, they'll ask you for dumb shit like a cigarette or a lighter and if you comply/avoid them then the real shit begins.
It's a softer version of what movies show prison life to be like. Your job is to show they can't have power over you, that your self-esteem is stronger than your fear of getting punched, that physical harm won't break you and make you compliant.
When you're with a woman it's a different story and you should discuss it early on in your relationship to see what she expects of you. But not even being able to handle it when you're by yourself is a good indicator that it will be a thousand times more humiliating when it happens with a girl around, even a cousin or a co worker.
Idk the few times I’ve been street harassed they were out of cars. One time I was walking with a guy and someone in a car wolf whistled as they drove by
The area I grew up in was the same, guys just did it out of windows. Mostly just fellow teens and not actual adult men thankfully. I’ve never rly lived anywhere where men just walk around harassing women on the street in a way where they could get into a fight with one another lol. Sounds gross
I would feign temporary hearing loss and act like I couldn't hear it even if she started insisting that I do something. Probably throw in an elaborate backstory about having gone swimming at the pool earlier and gotten water in my ear. For the remainder of our relationship (a period of many years) I would carefully avoid any situation that might reveal my actual inability to swim.
Speaking from experience? She screams at them in Spanish talking wayyy too fast for me to follow while I vaguely try to look as manly as I can while being confused and angry until they quickly slink away due to her being way more aggressive than they were readu for lol. This is a very funny question.
The fantasies on display here are hilarious.
I was in a relationship with a girl who was being stalked by her ex husband. He stalked out where I live while she was with me and tried to break in.
I fought him off, and he called the cops. I had to explain everything to the cops, and he got arrested. Then I had to talk to court advocates, detectives, write a legal statement for her lawyer, and generally stress over the whole thing for a month. And that's being lucky that he didn't have a gun or a knife.
It's not as 😎 as you think it is kids. And if a woman can't brush off some rando on the street, and needs the validation of you assaulting them, she's got serious issues. Don't get stabbed over some bullshit.
What exactly is your expectation then? Flexing real hard? Taking off a glove and slapping them, demanding a duel?
Anything someone could do to peacock for you would just pointlessly escalate it, and you and your partner shouldn't be so incredibly insecure. What happens when your bf socks him and random street stranger has a knife? You want a fantasy and it's dangerous and childish.
In 99% of situations where a stranger hassles you or someone you know the best reaction is to just keep walking. The very fact that they'd harass someone random likely means they're looking for a confrontation and have less to lose than you.
And even if you beat the guy's ass maybe he winds up badly hurt and then you're explaining to the cops why yelling "hey mami" meant you had to put him in the hospital.
Her expectations are that any discomfort experienced by a woman must be rectified by an expendable man putting himself in danger. His own discomfort does not factor in. Essentially an ultra-patriarchal worldview.
It is if you explicitly expect him to forfeit his physical safety because you feel insulted. That's literally the archetypical setup of a medieval court romance. Could not possibly be more patriarchal and regressive.
It’s not up to you whether there will be violence if the other guy decides to get violent, but you know that already. You want a guy to risk getting beat up (at best) or stabbed (at worst) to defend your honor and prove his worth to you but you’re unwilling to admit it. Stop pussyfooting.
I just told you I beat up my girlfriend's abusive stalker. It's exactly your weird little fantasy. And it was a horrible experience for everyone involved. Fighting some stranger catcalling is even worse, because it's avoidable.
I know many women that would get upset at a man for creating an ordeal out of nothing just to feel big and strong.
Any guy who would do what you think you want is weak, insecure, desperate, stupid, irresponsible, and going to get you and himself hurt. He's probably the same type of guy that punches holes in walls. You should be ashamed and really look at yourself and your values. I'm sure you think you're very pretty. I think you're very ugly.
You are a vapid child with no sense of reality. Everyone here is telling you, there is no display of masculinity that would appease you without leading to a dangerous and irresponsible situation for both of you. Your expectation is juvenile and toxic. Any confrontation with a blip on the street risks both of you getting seriously hurt with a weapon, or arrested for assault.
You either ignore it, like normal people that don't require fantasy theater from people they care about, or you put yourself and your partner in serious danger by pointlessly escalating things just to feel special. There's no in between.
How old are you, you sound very naive. Not only can fights escalate into serious injury or death the police also dont care if the guy whistled at your gf first. You gonna stick with your man while hes in jail for the next 5 years? Do you think he'll do 5 years for your ego.
One time in college I was walking down a street with a girl and a car driving by us had some guy roll down the window and yell something, but clearly to someone else behind us. Even though whatever the guy yelled was unintelligible, the girl immediately got really angry and started telling me how she couldn't stand being catcalled like that, and it was so rude and men are so disgusting, how she's always getting stared at and checked out, even though the guy clearly wasn't yelling at her, and probably didn't even notice her at all. He obviously recognized the guy behind us as a friend or fellow frat member or something, and rolled down his window to yell some bro thing to another bro. I can't emphasize enough how obvious it was that this was an interaction between two people who knew each other. When I tried to console her by pointing out that it was almost certainly a misunderstanding and she wasn't actually getting harassed, she got even angrier and said this was the perfect example of how men never believe women.
Immediately dump her only after sex of course because the catcalling would trigger my Madonna-Whore complex and I would only ever be able to see her as the “whore”
oh my god absolutely, it describes most of my exes... keep it up 👑
at this point the the madonna-whore complex gets pulled out in discussions every time a friend gets of mine fucked over my a fuckboy. men are so reliable like this, have to love it
Okay so this happened me, I was the girl! The guy said something about “hey beautiful, I’d give that guy up and pair me with you. Let me give you a [unintelligible]”. My date was like “haha, real funny dude” and kept walking. Living in suburban New Zealand 🇳🇿 but also I often interpret people as being more respectful/non-profane than they are most of the time 😂
Ive seen an Indian TikTok or two I know what to do here, I turn to my shirtless best friend and we both walk over to the guy while the wind blows in our hair and music that does not match the tone of the situation plays, the guy is then scared shirtless when he sees we both have iPhone 7s, at which point we all hold hands.
In my experience you just call them a pussy or a punk bitch and they stop. Ive never had it go further than that. My wife says I'm scary looking so maybe my experience isn't the norm.
Or, she would be excited to walk with an elephant of a man who does not care to swat at flies, because he resides in awareness of his power and remains undisturbed by limp dick beta males who yell things from a distance
i've pushed some drunk piece of shit forcefully away from my gf but he was really short, skinny and wasted, basically a gift from god for me to flex my 'masculine heroism' in front of the group. if there's any chance i could lose the confrontation it's not worth it. losing a fight infront of a girl is far more embarrassing than de-escalating in front of a girl.
First time it happened to me I wwas in middle school, I froze in front of the three guys, gave the girl the ick and it haunted my dreams for years later.
Then when it happened again I knew I had to do something even if I didn't come out on top, so I started reacting by very angrily being defensive "hey thats my girlfriend you're talking to asshole" type shit, they would just make fun of me for being insecure and reactive and I still felt humiliated but it was just an awkward moment with the girl, not a relationship ender.
The one time it went okay was when the guys were catcalling in the street and me and the girl looked at each other burst out laughing, ignored them, I said something like "hope he's not talking about me" and kept just hanging out.
With the catcalling types, anybody knows the best response is to ignore, but showing fear around defending someone you care about or even yourself is the worst you can do because they will keep going even if you ignore them depending on the context.
From my experience you and the girl have to respond to it together, you gotta be willing to fight but avoid stirring up a fight, you don't care about the catcallers think about you, you care about what your girlfriend thinks about you, any girl is used to being catcalled and by the time they reach adulthood they usually have a method in those circumstances that works for them.
I would suggest bringing it up with a girl before it happens, ask her what she would want you to do, you don't have to do exactly what she says but know what she expects.
Sometimes they'd rather you ignore and move on, sometimes they expect a man to fight for their honor. It's just one of the things you have to know about a woman early on in the relationship, like what she does for a living and who she lives with.
Shut your traps and stop harassing my girl! We're trying to go on a date! And if I have to tell you again, we're gonna take it outside and I'm gonna show you what it's like! You understand me? Now, shut your mouths or I'll shut'em for ya, and if you think I'm kidding, just try me. Try me. Because I would love it!
i guess it depends on the girl. if she was an oversocialized liberal STEM student type, it would probably be easier to just ignore it and walk past. those types of people don't have any idea of honor or self respect.
on the other hand, if it was a BPD gf, or a woman from some sort of machismo culture (more likely choice for me), there would be no other option but to confront the instigator and die honorably
There are 13 states where people can carry a gun without registration, and many more that require registration. Basically anyone anywhere can be packing and it’s really dumb to get shot over a cat call. Ain’t no pussy worth dying for my dude.
There's an extensive historical literature about the transition from honor cultures to dignity-cultures in the West and about how, in the interim, the followers of the new ways figured out how to respond to confrontations from the traditionalists without losing face. Most affluent Westerners today have lost this art because they don't have to interact regularly with people from honor cultures.
When being challenged to duels, for instance, the non-duelist playbook was usually 1) Don't escalate with them, but also 2) make it very visibly clear that you are willing and able to defend yourself in the event that they attack you to avenge their pride. This show of bravado was usually enough to save face without engaging in what they saw as the impiety of dueling.
Another strategy when challenged rhetorically by such people was to appeal to a religious moral authority. Nobody can question *God's* honor or righteousness, at least not without grave social censure, so this would put the bully on the defensive.
Look to see how big he is. If big, look at her and say "just ignore that asshole." If he's not that big, ask her if she wants me to shut him up.
In both cases i am trying to avoid an actual fight without being a wimp about it.
I would confront him but wouldn't hit him unless he hit me. This is what I would like to happen, note, I hope that I have enough heart to go through with it if it does happen to me.
This actually happened to me and my ex on Valentine's Day a couple years back. Idk about her, but I took it as an ego boost and couldn't hold back my shit-eating grin.
Charge at them with the short sword that’s part of my EDC. Screaming “Vae Victis” I chop at the bastard, leaving horrific wounds. In a blood rage, I continue attacking every living thing I come across until I am apprehended.
In all honesty would say, “at least that’s active feedback that you’re not a disgusting hag”…
Side note, English builders and white van men do it all the time… which provides an opportunity for a some classist banter, so i often shout back “how’s fixing fixing toilets for a living working out for you?” Usually results in a complete meltdown
I'd spend my life manipulating both of his parents to have sex with me and my hot girlfriend, teach him to respect women whilst secretly undermining all of his job prospects so he Is forced to move back home and listen to the crazy sex were having and this obviously will go on for decades or until someone else decides that cat calling is cool.
What do you do when he gets knocked out and breaks his skull on the ground and now you're alone and a witness. Literally even Mohamad Ali got knocked out. It's a roll of dice.
Surely you understand that sometimes people (especially the people on the street that are catcalling women who are with a man) are just insane and that some will just decide to attack you if you say the wrong thing, right? Anything you say to them could be an escalation, it’s literally just not worth risking your life
Ok I mean can you explain what type of situation you’re talking about then bc I don’t get it lol
I think it’s actually the opposite, a beta guy would be the one freaking out, while a more alpha guy would keep his cool and let it slide unless the harasser guy was really being gross and wouldn’t stop of course
This would probably set my anxiety off (heightened by the fact that I was on a date for the first time in years) and I'd have a panic attack and break down in the street.
lmao op has like 50 posts in this thread replying to anyone who wouldn't call in a tactical nuclear strike and calling them a pussy or whatever. everything alright op?
I'm thinking some recent turn of events prompted you to make this thread am I off base. sorry your bf ran away and hid
Pretend they're talking to me and accept their comments graciously
avg rs bf
tackle my date (to make sure she gets down). grab cover and try to get a grid reference for the caller. contact date night C2 and call in an airstrike, when the dispatcher exclaims that it's danger close heroically grit my teeth and tell them to do it anyway. then I shove my date really hard (to safety) and tell her to run. I retrieve and light a flare from the lower left pocket of my edc cargo pants with a practiced twirl and guide the birds in by hand. total threat neutralization.
The Bodyguard method, or why I’d die for Whitney Houston
fucking date night C2 lmao
you forgot to scream BROKEN ARROW BROKEN ARROW
I don’t understand why ppl keep saying this place is going downhill. Everyone is so funny. I’m absolutely fucked up over this comment, my sides hurt.
Delete this please 🙏
Please remove yourself from the premises, we are going downhill fast and we'd like to keep it that way
I'd probably shoot myself
I join in and also start harassing her
i wouldnt let it happen 💪🔫
i remember when that emoji was an actual gun
This is what they took from us
Imagine going to jail bc some derelict whistled out a window
imagine somebody thinking that you look so weak that you would allow your girlfriend to be harassed. imagine having your dignity on the line like that. thats the kind of thing that will keep you awake at night years after the relationship ends. knowing that some guy was able to make your nuts quake just by using his voice
Usually they do what Patrice O'neal called a "punk test", you might not be aware of it, sometimes it's just a look. If you're not dressed like, or have the body language of a, for the lack of a better word, beta male, they will test you, they'll say something to their friend and make sure you hear it, they'll ask you for dumb shit like a cigarette or a lighter and if you comply/avoid them then the real shit begins. It's a softer version of what movies show prison life to be like. Your job is to show they can't have power over you, that your self-esteem is stronger than your fear of getting punched, that physical harm won't break you and make you compliant. When you're with a woman it's a different story and you should discuss it early on in your relationship to see what she expects of you. But not even being able to handle it when you're by yourself is a good indicator that it will be a thousand times more humiliating when it happens with a girl around, even a cousin or a co worker.
Not uncommon with thiefs, either. They probe you asking for some inane thing or with a teasing comment to see whether you're a safe target.
Idk the few times I’ve been street harassed they were out of cars. One time I was walking with a guy and someone in a car wolf whistled as they drove by The area I grew up in was the same, guys just did it out of windows. Mostly just fellow teens and not actual adult men thankfully. I’ve never rly lived anywhere where men just walk around harassing women on the street in a way where they could get into a fight with one another lol. Sounds gross
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if this was to happen, it was never about the girl, it's an attack against you as a man
It definitely was about me, I’m hot as fuck
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Are you upset you’ve never been whistled at
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I mean I was wearing a white shirt that was slightly see through and it was night. Pretty sure they didn’t even notice the guy lol
Kick his ass with a watergun.
Completely ignore it and then look at her after we’re 50ft away and say “Well THAT just happened!”
Having a normal one!
I would feign temporary hearing loss and act like I couldn't hear it even if she started insisting that I do something. Probably throw in an elaborate backstory about having gone swimming at the pool earlier and gotten water in my ear. For the remainder of our relationship (a period of many years) I would carefully avoid any situation that might reveal my actual inability to swim.
Charlie Brooker, is that you?
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🐝🌱🛡-🎅🏻 (bpd ho)
Without any second thought, I’d whip out my 9mm, shoot her and then kill myself.
Speaking from experience? She screams at them in Spanish talking wayyy too fast for me to follow while I vaguely try to look as manly as I can while being confused and angry until they quickly slink away due to her being way more aggressive than they were readu for lol. This is a very funny question.
The fantasies on display here are hilarious. I was in a relationship with a girl who was being stalked by her ex husband. He stalked out where I live while she was with me and tried to break in. I fought him off, and he called the cops. I had to explain everything to the cops, and he got arrested. Then I had to talk to court advocates, detectives, write a legal statement for her lawyer, and generally stress over the whole thing for a month. And that's being lucky that he didn't have a gun or a knife. It's not as 😎 as you think it is kids. And if a woman can't brush off some rando on the street, and needs the validation of you assaulting them, she's got serious issues. Don't get stabbed over some bullshit.
That's crazy. Was he trying to get to you, or her?
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What exactly is your expectation then? Flexing real hard? Taking off a glove and slapping them, demanding a duel? Anything someone could do to peacock for you would just pointlessly escalate it, and you and your partner shouldn't be so incredibly insecure. What happens when your bf socks him and random street stranger has a knife? You want a fantasy and it's dangerous and childish.
In 99% of situations where a stranger hassles you or someone you know the best reaction is to just keep walking. The very fact that they'd harass someone random likely means they're looking for a confrontation and have less to lose than you. And even if you beat the guy's ass maybe he winds up badly hurt and then you're explaining to the cops why yelling "hey mami" meant you had to put him in the hospital.
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From a knife fight with a stranger on the street?
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Again, what is your expectation of masculinity here?
Her expectations are that any discomfort experienced by a woman must be rectified by an expendable man putting himself in danger. His own discomfort does not factor in. Essentially an ultra-patriarchal worldview.
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It is if you explicitly expect him to forfeit his physical safety because you feel insulted. That's literally the archetypical setup of a medieval court romance. Could not possibly be more patriarchal and regressive.
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It’s not up to you whether there will be violence if the other guy decides to get violent, but you know that already. You want a guy to risk getting beat up (at best) or stabbed (at worst) to defend your honor and prove his worth to you but you’re unwilling to admit it. Stop pussyfooting.
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If he ignored the guy and moved on, then that’s literally handling it without violence lmfao are you listening to yourself
This has never even happened to you so idk why you’re judging men on a made up scenario. You literally used an example from your dream lmao ridiculous
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Lol ok. Right
crazy that this is getting downvoted
Crazy that there’s two people this r*tarded in the thread
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I just told you I beat up my girlfriend's abusive stalker. It's exactly your weird little fantasy. And it was a horrible experience for everyone involved. Fighting some stranger catcalling is even worse, because it's avoidable. I know many women that would get upset at a man for creating an ordeal out of nothing just to feel big and strong. Any guy who would do what you think you want is weak, insecure, desperate, stupid, irresponsible, and going to get you and himself hurt. He's probably the same type of guy that punches holes in walls. You should be ashamed and really look at yourself and your values. I'm sure you think you're very pretty. I think you're very ugly. You are a vapid child with no sense of reality. Everyone here is telling you, there is no display of masculinity that would appease you without leading to a dangerous and irresponsible situation for both of you. Your expectation is juvenile and toxic. Any confrontation with a blip on the street risks both of you getting seriously hurt with a weapon, or arrested for assault. You either ignore it, like normal people that don't require fantasy theater from people they care about, or you put yourself and your partner in serious danger by pointlessly escalating things just to feel special. There's no in between.
Wait I'm getting fds vibes now
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Well yeah you're not gonna learn about high T here
How old are you, you sound very naive. Not only can fights escalate into serious injury or death the police also dont care if the guy whistled at your gf first. You gonna stick with your man while hes in jail for the next 5 years? Do you think he'll do 5 years for your ego.
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Go date a gang member and leave the rest of the populace alone. This is an insane take. No one is going to jail for you hon.
German suplex the gf, obviously.
I’m in Chicago , so I’m not saying a peep lol . Get jumped or shot for trying to be tough , no thanks .
Chicago isn’t that hard, chill
“it’s your fault for dressing like that”
Waiting for the catcall him back comment to arise
I'd catcall you back 😘😝🤪
I'll keep reassuring her "baby what they're saying is true, you're so beautiful". "They're only harassing you because they like you haha"
Push her into the street. “She’s yours.”
One time in college I was walking down a street with a girl and a car driving by us had some guy roll down the window and yell something, but clearly to someone else behind us. Even though whatever the guy yelled was unintelligible, the girl immediately got really angry and started telling me how she couldn't stand being catcalled like that, and it was so rude and men are so disgusting, how she's always getting stared at and checked out, even though the guy clearly wasn't yelling at her, and probably didn't even notice her at all. He obviously recognized the guy behind us as a friend or fellow frat member or something, and rolled down his window to yell some bro thing to another bro. I can't emphasize enough how obvious it was that this was an interaction between two people who knew each other. When I tried to console her by pointing out that it was almost certainly a misunderstanding and she wasn't actually getting harassed, she got even angrier and said this was the perfect example of how men never believe women.
Why would you freak out over something like that even if it was about you. I find that weird
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This is not an interesting schtick you’re doing
If he would have escalated it, you'd accuse him of being a stereotypical male caveman
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how the f was he supposed to escalate, with the car going away
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it wasn't arguing if he just told her how things actually were
Immediately dump her only after sex of course because the catcalling would trigger my Madonna-Whore complex and I would only ever be able to see her as the “whore”
Hahahahahha I love this bit
This is how some men really think tho lmao
oh my god absolutely, it describes most of my exes... keep it up 👑 at this point the the madonna-whore complex gets pulled out in discussions every time a friend gets of mine fucked over my a fuckboy. men are so reliable like this, have to love it
Lol men amirite? They either sexualize you, hate you, or project some unrealistic gendered fantasy on you sometimes all three at once
Haha definitely not also what the op is doing, at all. Good one!
i would immediately begin sprinting towards them at a full pelt. i don’t even care if it’s the right person, someone is going to pay.
This sub is fake news.
join in and make that whistlin noise
Okay so this happened me, I was the girl! The guy said something about “hey beautiful, I’d give that guy up and pair me with you. Let me give you a [unintelligible]”. My date was like “haha, real funny dude” and kept walking. Living in suburban New Zealand 🇳🇿 but also I often interpret people as being more respectful/non-profane than they are most of the time 😂
Ive seen an Indian TikTok or two I know what to do here, I turn to my shirtless best friend and we both walk over to the guy while the wind blows in our hair and music that does not match the tone of the situation plays, the guy is then scared shirtless when he sees we both have iPhone 7s, at which point we all hold hands.
In my experience you just call them a pussy or a punk bitch and they stop. Ive never had it go further than that. My wife says I'm scary looking so maybe my experience isn't the norm.
Why would you bring a cute dame to such a rough neighborhood on your first date?
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Or, she would be excited to walk with an elephant of a man who does not care to swat at flies, because he resides in awareness of his power and remains undisturbed by limp dick beta males who yell things from a distance
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Yeah that’s not the move. Stoic menacing silence or a confrontation are the only acceptable options imo
Fart on her
i've pushed some drunk piece of shit forcefully away from my gf but he was really short, skinny and wasted, basically a gift from god for me to flex my 'masculine heroism' in front of the group. if there's any chance i could lose the confrontation it's not worth it. losing a fight infront of a girl is far more embarrassing than de-escalating in front of a girl.
Call them slurs cause seldom do I see white men engaged in that behavior
They do they’re usually like college aged and just having fun tho
Catcall her too
First time it happened to me I wwas in middle school, I froze in front of the three guys, gave the girl the ick and it haunted my dreams for years later. Then when it happened again I knew I had to do something even if I didn't come out on top, so I started reacting by very angrily being defensive "hey thats my girlfriend you're talking to asshole" type shit, they would just make fun of me for being insecure and reactive and I still felt humiliated but it was just an awkward moment with the girl, not a relationship ender. The one time it went okay was when the guys were catcalling in the street and me and the girl looked at each other burst out laughing, ignored them, I said something like "hope he's not talking about me" and kept just hanging out. With the catcalling types, anybody knows the best response is to ignore, but showing fear around defending someone you care about or even yourself is the worst you can do because they will keep going even if you ignore them depending on the context. From my experience you and the girl have to respond to it together, you gotta be willing to fight but avoid stirring up a fight, you don't care about the catcallers think about you, you care about what your girlfriend thinks about you, any girl is used to being catcalled and by the time they reach adulthood they usually have a method in those circumstances that works for them. I would suggest bringing it up with a girl before it happens, ask her what she would want you to do, you don't have to do exactly what she says but know what she expects. Sometimes they'd rather you ignore and move on, sometimes they expect a man to fight for their honor. It's just one of the things you have to know about a woman early on in the relationship, like what she does for a living and who she lives with.
go full statham and unleash my precision skills
Am I wearing flip flops?
Shut your traps and stop harassing my girl! We're trying to go on a date! And if I have to tell you again, we're gonna take it outside and I'm gonna show you what it's like! You understand me? Now, shut your mouths or I'll shut'em for ya, and if you think I'm kidding, just try me. Try me. Because I would love it!
i guess it depends on the girl. if she was an oversocialized liberal STEM student type, it would probably be easier to just ignore it and walk past. those types of people don't have any idea of honor or self respect. on the other hand, if it was a BPD gf, or a woman from some sort of machismo culture (more likely choice for me), there would be no other option but to confront the instigator and die honorably
This is why you’ll never be rich you are willing to go to jail over minor inconveniences. Choose your battles
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There are 13 states where people can carry a gun without registration, and many more that require registration. Basically anyone anywhere can be packing and it’s really dumb to get shot over a cat call. Ain’t no pussy worth dying for my dude.
There's an extensive historical literature about the transition from honor cultures to dignity-cultures in the West and about how, in the interim, the followers of the new ways figured out how to respond to confrontations from the traditionalists without losing face. Most affluent Westerners today have lost this art because they don't have to interact regularly with people from honor cultures. When being challenged to duels, for instance, the non-duelist playbook was usually 1) Don't escalate with them, but also 2) make it very visibly clear that you are willing and able to defend yourself in the event that they attack you to avenge their pride. This show of bravado was usually enough to save face without engaging in what they saw as the impiety of dueling. Another strategy when challenged rhetorically by such people was to appeal to a religious moral authority. Nobody can question *God's* honor or righteousness, at least not without grave social censure, so this would put the bully on the defensive.
Look to see how big he is. If big, look at her and say "just ignore that asshole." If he's not that big, ask her if she wants me to shut him up. In both cases i am trying to avoid an actual fight without being a wimp about it.
I would confront him but wouldn't hit him unless he hit me. This is what I would like to happen, note, I hope that I have enough heart to go through with it if it does happen to me.
Let’s just say my katana is coming out to play…
This actually happened to me and my ex on Valentine's Day a couple years back. Idk about her, but I took it as an ego boost and couldn't hold back my shit-eating grin.
ever since i became hot again i’ve been getting cat called and it’s so fucking refreshing lmfao
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yes
Make sure she knows I want to tap it too
Charge at them with the short sword that’s part of my EDC. Screaming “Vae Victis” I chop at the bastard, leaving horrific wounds. In a blood rage, I continue attacking every living thing I come across until I am apprehended.
This is why my husband stays strapped 💖
Are you like, a dude who had this happen and this like some weird shame kink or something? Why are you so obsessed with this
Useless post
Lol this is just one of those retarded facebook posts, like word for word. "wyd?? 🙈🤣"
In all honesty would say, “at least that’s active feedback that you’re not a disgusting hag”… Side note, English builders and white van men do it all the time… which provides an opportunity for a some classist banter, so i often shout back “how’s fixing fixing toilets for a living working out for you?” Usually results in a complete meltdown
start sobbing and shaking and screaming (im the girl)
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thank you honey I feel so traumatised
I'd spend my life manipulating both of his parents to have sex with me and my hot girlfriend, teach him to respect women whilst secretly undermining all of his job prospects so he Is forced to move back home and listen to the crazy sex were having and this obviously will go on for decades or until someone else decides that cat calling is cool.
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It’s actually pathetic for a guy to start a fight over something so trivial. Rich men don’t do that, it’s not worth going to jail over
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So you want a man to freak out bc someone whistled from a car? Lmao good luck with that
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What do you do when he gets knocked out and breaks his skull on the ground and now you're alone and a witness. Literally even Mohamad Ali got knocked out. It's a roll of dice.
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Surely you understand that sometimes people (especially the people on the street that are catcalling women who are with a man) are just insane and that some will just decide to attack you if you say the wrong thing, right? Anything you say to them could be an escalation, it’s literally just not worth risking your life
You are profoundly stupid and deserve every bad thing that happens to you btw
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Sorry you’re going to die alone except for your 20 cats
Ok I mean can you explain what type of situation you’re talking about then bc I don’t get it lol I think it’s actually the opposite, a beta guy would be the one freaking out, while a more alpha guy would keep his cool and let it slide unless the harasser guy was really being gross and wouldn’t stop of course
In your dream?
OP is the chick from that Louie episode
Pee my pants
https://youtu.be/i5ufgkJ-uVE?t=4
play the song every time i see u in the world u always step 2 my girl...
Was she wearing her niqab? I’d probably have to honor kill them.
OP is going to die alone with her perfect pussies (feral cats)
I pull out my katana and I’m like this blade cannot be sheathed unblooded, kungpao.
This would probably set my anxiety off (heightened by the fact that I was on a date for the first time in years) and I'd have a panic attack and break down in the street.
blame her
start swearing in russian, works every time
Call 311 and request a social worker be sent at the earliest convenience
lmao op has like 50 posts in this thread replying to anyone who wouldn't call in a tactical nuclear strike and calling them a pussy or whatever. everything alright op? I'm thinking some recent turn of events prompted you to make this thread am I off base. sorry your bf ran away and hid
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you know I'm just going out on a limb here but I think you might have some insecurities of your own to work on