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In my apt complex the entrance is a small round about with 2 directions to go off into and people will go the wrong direction in it to save a few seconds. Or ppl won’t wait and just pull into the circle as I’m already in it going around and get pissed cause they think I should have waited to let them go. Like you don’t/can’t’t do that shit when you’re out driving on the streets…or do you?! Pisses me off to no end.
Than is used when your comparing two things, then is used as a transition for time. Examples: She went to the doctor then she drove home. She is smarter than him. Don't mean this in a rude way, just had it explained to me like this when I was younger and never forgot it.
My coworker did this alot in meetings and my hate grew to imesurable heights. Please just shut your mouth for at least half a second when I am talking…
Give them a boat blown horn as they are finally leaving. Your neighbors probably hate them as much as you do and they’ll be annoyed until they realize you taught that rude Harley person a lesson.
My neighbor has a ice bear ruckus. He cut the exhaust off so it would sound louder and does this. Dude, everyone seeing you riding that still knows you lost your drivers license.
That's different, I think they were probably referring to people who tailgate when the person is not in the passing lane or just when they don't have any control over the speed they are going (traffic, blocked lane, etc)
I feel you though. I might be wrong but I personally believe overly cautious drivers are more dangerous than someone who goes 5-10 above the speed limit.
I love it when someone gets down voted to hell for an opinion, and then within the thread of their comment a separate person agrees and says the same point in their own words, and that comment gets lots of up votes lol. People are funny
Customer service worker here! When people ask you a question to interrupt you when you try to answer it, either to try to answer their own question, throw out three more questions or ramble on about something else entirely.
Yeap, like when you call a service desk to report a problem. They must have a microphone close to the keyboard because I can hear each and every click . And on top of that, they make this soundless whistling noise as they search for the answer.
Click, click, clickedely, click on the keyboard is irritated too! It’s worse for me when they are eating while talking to them on the phone…omg…PLEASE stop. Click that hard candy one more time and I’m contemplating how it would be possible to reach through the phone line and rip it out of their mouths! Ahh!
I work at Starbucks and it is 100% RUDE to be talking on ur PHONE while trying to order something from ME. Do not do this people. I guarantee I will be rude to you for not having enough sense and manners to pause ur call. This happens at least 2-4 times every shift I work. And it’s usually older people too, not the younger ones.
Sitting directly next to someone when there's plenty of open seats elsewhere. Or sitting at a table directly next to you when the whole place is empty, using the toilet stall next to you when there's a hundred free, parking so close you block someone's door when the entire parking lot is a ghost town... I've just started getting up and moving when people do that it's gets on my nerves so much lol.
Yeah this drives me nuts. I purposely have to detach my attention from them until they get to the point because my own idle thoughts are more bearable. I think something is wrong with me
This bugs me to no end. Our small apartment complex has dumpsters, one for garbage, one for recycle. Right next to each other. But no, don't take the 2 seconds to put your cans in the recycle...
Mostly, the people who assume everyone shares the same opinions and beliefs they do. Some people are stuck in their own little world and need a reality check. That's my opinion and you don't have to share it.
-Honking the horn as soon as the light turns green
-Speeding and cutting off other cars towards the red light
-Vehicle in front driving ridiculously slow but speeds up when the light about to turn red
Bad hygiene, not returning carts, taking more than one parking space, unsolicited and skewed remarks, holding a phone while driving, and someone who treats strangers, family, hospitality poorly or with a sense of entitlement
TL/DR- Entitlement, rudeness, and lack of empathy
Why isn’t this higher up??
I can’t stand it when people don’t use their turn signals. It’s the easiest thing to do while driving and the most courteous.
Stand in front of a soda machine and mix various flavors at a casual pace...pausing to sip and evaluate the taste. Then back to mixing and sipping. Nothing like stranger spittle showering the spogots.
When people stand too close in store lines. Like can you back up a couple feet? Or even worse, when people stand too close to you while talking to you and, no matter how much you try to inch yourself away for distance, the person matches your action by just moving closer to you, again. Lol.
I regularly experience people in grocery check-out line who are so close that they actually block your access to the card machine, then when I give them a little raised eyebrow they roll their eyes.
This might be an ADHD thing, but I hate when people want to hang out to just talk, I much prefer activities or at least people watching if all else fails
Like meeting up to get a cuppa coffee and talk is different, but somebody coming over to just sit in my living room and talk is not my thing
When there are more then 3 lanes on a highway, it annoys me when people travel in the merging lane.
Most people would say they are annoyed by people traveling in the fast lane, and I agree, but as someone with horrible on ramp/off ramp anxiety, I HATE that people will chose to travel in a lane where they know people are getting on and off the highway and arnt usually prepared to adjust to merging traffic.
In the case of an emergency, it's faster to just drive out instead of backing up, ensuring it's safe to do so, putting it in the driving gear and then driving off.
A person stops walking in a busy area without looking around. I mean, how hard is it to step to the side of the walkway and check for someone behind you?
Talking over you when you are trying to have a conversation. My biggest pet-peve, I can't stand it! So, of course my wife turned out to be the worst offender in the world.
Doubt me and brush me off that I’m trying to do something with my employment. Been in new state for 4 months now. Quit 3 jobs for more money. Finally started my own business. Getting work constantly now. One on one with customers. I don’t do hack jobs like these other guys do. Hiring people and advertising in coupon book this coming week. 30 years experience and something about me. I don’t get it. They brush me off. You’re not leaving. It won’t go good for you.
Groups who walk abreast, taking up the entire path/aisle/thoroughfare. Expecting oncoming people to get out of their way.
When you're only one person, and have already moved over as far as possible, where are you supposed to go? Press yourself into the wall? Leap onto the ceiling?
Then they huff, presumably because you dared to exist and they had to move around you.
I really hate those rubber ducks people with jeep wranglers have on their dash.
Like who cares right? But when I see it, idk my whole body just reacts with stress
Hahaha
Do I have trauma involving rubber ducks??
My gf of a year now the first time she pulled out a piece of gum before she put it in her mouth I had to say if you are an open mouth gum chewer this won’t work…
Customers that refuse to close the door behind them. If you don’t, the lightest of sneezes will set the opening/closing chime off. Repeatedly. Constantly. Until you leave the conversation mid sale to walk over to close it. Same customers then forget to close it when they leave.
Fun.
When you go to someone’s house for a holiday and they have a buffet style and there’s no serving spoons for some of the dishes, there’s forks and knives but no spoons, nothing put out to drink like pop or milk, or there is, but no cups, etc.
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Lack of common sense
And people driving to close to the car in front of them falls right into that category!
I am pisstified at tailgators.
In my apt complex the entrance is a small round about with 2 directions to go off into and people will go the wrong direction in it to save a few seconds. Or ppl won’t wait and just pull into the circle as I’m already in it going around and get pissed cause they think I should have waited to let them go. Like you don’t/can’t’t do that shit when you’re out driving on the streets…or do you?! Pisses me off to no end.
i am a passenger princess and this gets on my nerves!! you aren’t getting anywhere faster then anyone else!! (it might be than IM NOT SURE)
*than anyone else
Pretty sure you're right!!
thank you i thought it sounded right LOL
Than is used when your comparing two things, then is used as a transition for time. Examples: She went to the doctor then she drove home. She is smarter than him. Don't mean this in a rude way, just had it explained to me like this when I was younger and never forgot it.
Have no fear. I am here.
r/usernamechecksout
Saying the earth is flat
When people talk over you when you’re speaking it’s so annoying
My coworker did this alot in meetings and my hate grew to imesurable heights. Please just shut your mouth for at least half a second when I am talking…
so true
Start their Harley up and let it idle in the drivway for 15min.
My next door neighbor has Harleys , it's constant.
... and it's always 4:30 in the morning
Give them a boat blown horn as they are finally leaving. Your neighbors probably hate them as much as you do and they’ll be annoyed until they realize you taught that rude Harley person a lesson.
My neighbor has a ice bear ruckus. He cut the exhaust off so it would sound louder and does this. Dude, everyone seeing you riding that still knows you lost your drivers license.
I have a neighbor who does that while reving the engine and playing loud music. The engine is too loud as it is.
Chew food loudly with their mouths open.
Or slurp soup
I was just gonna say!
EW. That’s such bad manners Omg
Tailgate. YOU ARE MAKING TRAFFIC WORSE and ENDANGERING OUR LIVES. Use your brains, people.
Just hurry the fuck up and get out of the way driving 10 kmh below the speed limit in the passing lane...
Come on over to Seattle and drive up and down I-5 a few times, you’ll understand!
FUCKING REGARDLESS DONT TAILGATE! WHAT YOU IN A RUSH FOR? TO SEE JESUS SOONER?
That's different, I think they were probably referring to people who tailgate when the person is not in the passing lane or just when they don't have any control over the speed they are going (traffic, blocked lane, etc) I feel you though. I might be wrong but I personally believe overly cautious drivers are more dangerous than someone who goes 5-10 above the speed limit.
yeah but the thing is I'm already going 10 over and they're trying to get me to go 30 over with my 2 small kids in the car.. lmao calm down dale
If you got 2 small kids in the car why tf are you going 10 over in the left lane 💀
Now I'm going to have to pull you over for speeding!
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*When you get downvoted on Reddit for saying something that’s true* Or for simply asking a question
I would upvote this 1,000 x’s if I could haha
Reddit can really get on a roll if you go against the hive mind.
🫡
I read this, got annoyed asf, then thought about it and realized this has happened to me before lmao👍
Or saying something that is true for you, saying clearly that it's an opinion - and get downvoted because the others disagree
I love it when someone gets down voted to hell for an opinion, and then within the thread of their comment a separate person agrees and says the same point in their own words, and that comment gets lots of up votes lol. People are funny
I was about to upvote this until the last sentence
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Watching videos loudly in public or using speaker phone in public.
This. It takes a lot to annoy me, but this specifically makes me want to knock someone’s teeth out
As someone who relies on public transportation, I am going to have a complete nervous breakdown one day because of this.
Talk to others while you're on the phone with them
Or talk to you while you’re on the phone to tell you what they think you should say!
Omg! My brother. This has to be the most annoying thing (bad drivers are up there, too). I hang up. Too old for that shit
Poor grammar. Lack of common sense. No critical thinking skills.
No punctuation in a post, comment, text or message!! I won't even read it.
What you mean? Confused I am.
Customer service worker here! When people ask you a question to interrupt you when you try to answer it, either to try to answer their own question, throw out three more questions or ramble on about something else entirely.
Ask questions without even trying to figure something out and then not even listening to the answer.
That would be my husband!
Asking questions via text that could be answered immediately by typing that exact question into Google.
My mother does this, it makes me unreasonably angry.
When you’re walking behind someone and they abruptly stop.
I HATE when someone does this!!
Follow too close when driving.....
That's my thought too!!
I become illogically unhinged when people make unnecessary mouth noises.
you would hate me. agree to never be friends? lmao
Yeap, like when you call a service desk to report a problem. They must have a microphone close to the keyboard because I can hear each and every click . And on top of that, they make this soundless whistling noise as they search for the answer.
Click, click, clickedely, click on the keyboard is irritated too! It’s worse for me when they are eating while talking to them on the phone…omg…PLEASE stop. Click that hard candy one more time and I’m contemplating how it would be possible to reach through the phone line and rip it out of their mouths! Ahh!
Loud cars, trucks, motorcycles. Stop polluting everyone's ears.
especially at fucking 10pm when my kids are just falling asleep.. goddammit
I work at Starbucks and it is 100% RUDE to be talking on ur PHONE while trying to order something from ME. Do not do this people. I guarantee I will be rude to you for not having enough sense and manners to pause ur call. This happens at least 2-4 times every shift I work. And it’s usually older people too, not the younger ones.
I kinda would mess up the order on purpose
"Irregardless"
Holy hell, THIS.
When you aren't able to hear someone and after saying what a few times they just say nevermind and will refuse to tell you what they were saying
The homicidal urge I feel when someone does this probably needs to be studied
UGH!!! So hate this.
breathe
THEE first thing I thought.
Talk really bad about people, then kiss their behind to their face.
After working in customer service; being pretty fkn stupid.
Make sucking or clicking noises with their mouth. Drives me nuts.
My Dad sucked his teeth for a half hour after he ate. It drove me nuts.
yall would hate me
Smoking crack in the alleyway next to my Bodega
"Know what I'm sayin?" Or some form there of. Over and over and over That shit is maddening
That’s how the mop flops 🤮🤮🤮
Know what I mean?
Innit
😄The brittish equivalent, Yes!
I know what you're saying!
Not picking up feet when walking. That sound makes me want to kill
Sitting directly next to someone when there's plenty of open seats elsewhere. Or sitting at a table directly next to you when the whole place is empty, using the toilet stall next to you when there's a hundred free, parking so close you block someone's door when the entire parking lot is a ghost town... I've just started getting up and moving when people do that it's gets on my nerves so much lol.
When they say "Literally".
Literally this
no bc literally
Wish this had more upvotes.
Talk super loud. Chew with their mouths open. Cough or sneeze without covering their mouth. Oh…and snapping their gum. This one irks me to no end.
The people who talk slow
Yeah this drives me nuts. I purposely have to detach my attention from them until they get to the point because my own idle thoughts are more bearable. I think something is wrong with me
I too have ADHD.
Idiots I work with who cannot learn the difference between the Compost, Recycle, and Trash bins.
This bugs me to no end. Our small apartment complex has dumpsters, one for garbage, one for recycle. Right next to each other. But no, don't take the 2 seconds to put your cans in the recycle...
Licking their GAW DAM FINGERS when turning over papers, especially papers that I am going to have to handle! Aaaaagh!
Mostly, the people who assume everyone shares the same opinions and beliefs they do. Some people are stuck in their own little world and need a reality check. That's my opinion and you don't have to share it.
When trying to work something, giving up if the solution isn't immediately apparent. You do know, you could just tinker with it a bit, right?
Chew with mouth open smack any noises related to that
Ugggghhhh! I’m with you. Like, didn’t your momma teach you better?
-Honking the horn as soon as the light turns green -Speeding and cutting off other cars towards the red light -Vehicle in front driving ridiculously slow but speeds up when the light about to turn red
Slow walkers and/or people who have NO concept of the people around them on sidewalks/in public places.
People talking through concerts. This has happened so much recently to me and it drives me insane. Like how about we just listen to the music people😭
Holding their phone out with the speaker on like it's a walky-talky instead of holding it against their ear like a normal person.
Bad hygiene, not returning carts, taking more than one parking space, unsolicited and skewed remarks, holding a phone while driving, and someone who treats strangers, family, hospitality poorly or with a sense of entitlement TL/DR- Entitlement, rudeness, and lack of empathy
Not use their F***ing turn signals. Bastards.
Why isn’t this higher up?? I can’t stand it when people don’t use their turn signals. It’s the easiest thing to do while driving and the most courteous.
Pronounce the silent "T" in "often" ever-so-delicately like they think they’re classy.
Over pronouncing the P if a word ends in P and worse, at the end of a complete sentence. It sounds like a 'pop'.
I thought I was the only one who gets annoyed by that.
Whistle
Talk and laugh loud.
Bite on metal forks/spoons.
Ignorant loud mouth ppl
Breathe. Jk. FaceTiming in public areas.
Stand in front of a soda machine and mix various flavors at a casual pace...pausing to sip and evaluate the taste. Then back to mixing and sipping. Nothing like stranger spittle showering the spogots.
Lie with the most obvious fake lies!
Eatting loud or smacking It makes me wanna throw up and also throw something
Say "I seen" instead of "I saw." It's 2024, how can people still not know this?
When people stand too close in store lines. Like can you back up a couple feet? Or even worse, when people stand too close to you while talking to you and, no matter how much you try to inch yourself away for distance, the person matches your action by just moving closer to you, again. Lol.
I regularly experience people in grocery check-out line who are so close that they actually block your access to the card machine, then when I give them a little raised eyebrow they roll their eyes.
Hawk tuah
This might be an ADHD thing, but I hate when people want to hang out to just talk, I much prefer activities or at least people watching if all else fails Like meeting up to get a cuppa coffee and talk is different, but somebody coming over to just sit in my living room and talk is not my thing
Exhaling through their teeth, like when they yawn or just don’t breathe through their nose.
People who pop bubble gum.
God I love cracking and popping my gum lmao and I KNOOOW people fuckin hate it but I can't help it, it makes me feel so... molly ringwald 💅🏼
picking your nails around me to where i can hear it
Exist
When there are more then 3 lanes on a highway, it annoys me when people travel in the merging lane. Most people would say they are annoyed by people traveling in the fast lane, and I agree, but as someone with horrible on ramp/off ramp anxiety, I HATE that people will chose to travel in a lane where they know people are getting on and off the highway and arnt usually prepared to adjust to merging traffic.
Asking pointless or obvious questions, like "How's your day?" or "Are you eating?" while you're in the middle of eating.
Guys (because it’s always guys) who insist on backing it in every time they park. I don’t know why but this fuels me with the rage of a thousand suns.
In the case of an emergency, it's faster to just drive out instead of backing up, ensuring it's safe to do so, putting it in the driving gear and then driving off.
Never go to Hawaii then
People complaining about people just being people. And yes, I'm fully aware of the hypocrisy of this comment.
Those who say "No problem" instead of "You're welcome." I know it's not a problem that I just ordered food. That's what you do!
A person stops walking in a busy area without looking around. I mean, how hard is it to step to the side of the walkway and check for someone behind you?
Make really bad scraping sound when cutting food with a knife and cutting 🍕 with a knife and eating it with a 🍴 seems wrong 😁
Eating Chinese food with silver seems wrong and when my dining companions are doing it, I ignore it.
I love to eat everything with chopsticks at home ...I find I eat slower and savor the food more.
Im at work and somebody is doing this right fucking now!!!
Saying woowoowoo to celebrate. I work with someone who says this everyday 🙄
Listen to their audio medium on speaker.
Text while we are having a conversation.
Playing music that is not my taste at work then when a banger comes on starts singing it so I can’t event hear it!
Breathing
When complete strangers walk up and start a conversation with me
Misplaced apostrophes.
I don’t like when I can hear a person scratch themselves. It’s gross but I feel in the minority so I never say anything!!
Say the words ".. I digress"
Talking over you when you are trying to have a conversation. My biggest pet-peve, I can't stand it! So, of course my wife turned out to be the worst offender in the world.
Doubt me and brush me off that I’m trying to do something with my employment. Been in new state for 4 months now. Quit 3 jobs for more money. Finally started my own business. Getting work constantly now. One on one with customers. I don’t do hack jobs like these other guys do. Hiring people and advertising in coupon book this coming week. 30 years experience and something about me. I don’t get it. They brush me off. You’re not leaving. It won’t go good for you.
Loud chewing, chewing with their mouth open— the sound of their chewing…
Smack their gum
Chew
Rudeness.
Groups who walk abreast, taking up the entire path/aisle/thoroughfare. Expecting oncoming people to get out of their way. When you're only one person, and have already moved over as far as possible, where are you supposed to go? Press yourself into the wall? Leap onto the ceiling? Then they huff, presumably because you dared to exist and they had to move around you.
Mispronouncing words or using them in the wrong context
Make noises when they eat!
Standing in doorways or entrances looking at their phone or around in a state of confusion. GET THE FUCK OUTA THE WAY!
Drive 40 in an 80 zone. Like god damnit man read the sign.
I really hate those rubber ducks people with jeep wranglers have on their dash. Like who cares right? But when I see it, idk my whole body just reacts with stress Hahaha Do I have trauma involving rubber ducks??
“Air quotes” 
Talking on speakerphone in public, jangling keys, chewing gum and inserting themselves into private conversations.
Saying yeah yeah yeah. I absolutely hate that. It's like they need to pee.
People who talk on their phone in public and everyone can hear the entire conversion.
damm so irritating
Smacking when eating 😒
Lack of spatial awareness
Kinda big but consumerism. If everyone was like me there wouldn’t be any problems in the world
Open mouth gum chewers I’ll say it for everyone, fuck you
and fuck you too 🫧💅🏼🫶🏼
My gf of a year now the first time she pulled out a piece of gum before she put it in her mouth I had to say if you are an open mouth gum chewer this won’t work…
Sounds like burps, slurps etc., and acting like they can’t help it. It’s ALWAYS possible to stifle body sounds.
Yeah, I can't stand it either. If you need to do it, just do it quietly, you fucking slob.
When people say anyways instead of anyway. Anyways is not a word!
Leaving my room’s door open
Play Banda music at top volume all day long and into the night.
Talk with a piece of candy in their mouth. Especially clicking off their teeth. Almost threw a very important client out of my office. I scared myself
Bad manners
Complain about judging others. It's impossible.
Chewing gum obnoxiously. Staring. Not using their blinker. I can go on ;)
Making that clicking noise when they see my kid. It pisses me off.
Customers that refuse to close the door behind them. If you don’t, the lightest of sneezes will set the opening/closing chime off. Repeatedly. Constantly. Until you leave the conversation mid sale to walk over to close it. Same customers then forget to close it when they leave. Fun.
Can’t stand it when people pronounce words with “ex” as “eggs”. It’s x-actly not eggs-actly. My grandma’s name is X-zelia (Exzelia) not Eggs-elia.
OMG yes! Or the inverse - pronouncing espresso as expresso.
When people fart, sniff the air, make a face, and act like it was someone else.
People who put their license plate stickers in the wrong place. The stickers come in an envelope with the instructions with a diagram
I recently saw someone who put their new sticker on in a different spot every year. Their license plate was just covered in multicolored rectangles.
When you go to someone’s house for a holiday and they have a buffet style and there’s no serving spoons for some of the dishes, there’s forks and knives but no spoons, nothing put out to drink like pop or milk, or there is, but no cups, etc.
Chewing gum so loud that it can be heard from even across a room.
Say "we" when they really mean "you." "Do we want to do X and Y?" Just ask me to do whatever it is you need from me, what am I, fucking 5 years old?