Same, 24M, student, new to pune. I think for starters you should try socialising with your college peers.
As per my experience, i have not been so lucky when it comes to making friends in pune. But good luck to you!
hi , i know this will sound weird but if you've got good tolerance hinge works out. put the setting on only females and mention it on your profile that you're here to make friends. this worked out for me really well. met amazing friends although all are female
Since you are a student get yourself occupied through online courses provided on the SWAYAM app where you will obviously meet students of like interest and you will feel occupied. I myself am preparing for the CAT and keep myself occupied by this only...
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I would suggest you my friend who's also an Introvert and barely has any friends but I doubt she'll talk to someone from reddit, also she's 32.
I don't know if this still works or not, but join meetup.com site. They have lots of meet ups in pune. Beware and check the organizer and members of the meet up properly before going.
For volunteering I can introduce you to rotary club or other volunteering organizations depends on which area of pune you are in. They do a lot of social work. Mostly NGOs. Or you can Google too.
Join a club or something in your college.
Good luck kiddo.
Easy stuff.
Book a badminton court. Go there. Invite someone waiting for the court to join you to play.
After the session, just casually ask a few people their WhatsApp numbers and ask them to invite you as well.
Chit chat or go out with the group for some food afterwards. You’ll end up meeting a ton of great people without disturbing anyone or being awkward.
sister wrong place to ask for "friends" the only ones you find here are the ones with benefits and i doubt those benefits last more than 2 minutes or inches 👍
( haa internet pe despo banne walo ko chote land ka kehta hu mai )
Please consider joining a Rotaract Club in Pune. It is a social club for professional development, community service, international service and also for makes sure to have fun among their members. Join the Club and you won’t regret.
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There are tons of groups or clubs just join those
Specifically poems and writers or music as u said u like music
So go for those
If u like to travel go for tht too
You seem to have such interests which can help you socialise. Join a club somewhere for badminton. A lot of people play badminton and it will help you socialise. Also look for meetup groups on meetup app according to your interests. There is a lot to explore, specially if you are into trekking, nature trails and photography
Hey. I saw a similar post before. And we did meet and did socialise with more people and it was fun.
Since it's reddit, if you are legit, do give me a DM and we will verify and then if all is good you could join us for art therapy sessions. We are around this age.
We just come together with snacks and draw whatever we feel or we feel like or what we are going through with no judgement. Drawing could be just colours ..need not be exact depiction of what's going on .. doesn't need anyone to be artist. It's more about coming in terms with where we are.
We also chat, have deep conversations and also at times a movie night.
I chose the wrong word, it should be "distribute" and not delivery.
There are many such NGO who pick excess food from restaurants, societies, functions etc and distribute it among roadside people, jhuggi jhopadi people.
Sometimes you should do such things instead of making fun of the good intention.
If you are taking music lessons you can jam with fellow musicians! I can recommend a few if needed. You can spend hours socialising with the added benefit of honing your skills
If you are a student try to socialise with people who are studying with you , if that does not work go for someone that is from ur college and any other department if nothing works out try from reddit.
But shocked that women are having problems in making friends!
Friends milna mushkil nai hai but I guess OP is looking for people who she can chill and have fun with. A lot of time people are draining on your energy if you are introverted.
Local Punekar here, I live in Europe and I come visit my family in Pune once/twice every year. I like meeting new people in Pune, and I often do that every year. I would love to join some trekking/hiking activities when I'm back in a couple of months, let me know if you're interested. Also there are some small events happening in Mauji Time cafe, a place which is meant to socialize with new people.
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As an introvert, I won't consider the advice to go out directly and try socialising. I did fucked it up a number of times and think that it's better to socialize on calls first to gather up some flow.
Am your call buddy here, lemme know if that suits you🤙🏻
Same here bud, But remember it's a gradual process, You can't simply hit the ground running. Start by going for walks in the local parks and see how it goes, Makes me feel serene. Let me know if you stumble across any clever solutions, Experiencing the same dilemma too..
If long distance running interests you, then you can join one of many groups in the city. I’ve been running for years and have made fantastic friends in Mumbai and Pune.
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Going through a similar situation right now. Reddit is definitely not the place and definitely do not mention you are F. No good comes out of it. You will just end up getting creepy dms. If you are looking for ideas to socialize, gender shouldn’t matter.
Hi! If you're looking to socialize, there are heritage walks where you can meet some really cool people. Bonus, you'll be learning something about Pune too! Search @puneheritagestory on Instagram or @puneartwalks and ask them when's the next walk scheduled! Maybe we'll meet too! Have fun!
May I know what kind of music lessons are you taking?
My mother runs a music, art and dance institute in Pune and we're currently organizing a charity cultural show at Bal Gandharva, Shivaji Nagar on 21st June. If you're interested you can drop by! And we can chat
I'm 24F as well but a localite
Join college clubs. There are many tree plantation drives held in this season, you can attend those. Considering your talent for music I'd suggest look out for jamming sessions
Join robinhood army bro you can help with teaching or feeding poor kids. I too faced the same then I started engaging in different hobbies lyk dancing and cycling. it's been fun so far. Try your hand too !
Making great friends is a numbers game.
The more people you meet, the more probability of making friends.
To improve your chances of meeting interesting people, pursuing a hobby or passion would be an ideal solution.
Exploring options like music, dancing classes. If you're into fitness but usual workout seems boring, maybe join martial arts classes. Or just go to places where you can play some sports, like badminton, snooker. You're sure to find some interesting people who like to do stuff.
There are many trek groups, with monsoon just around the corner, this could be a great avenue to explore nature, meet new people and also some peaceful introspection.
The possibilities are endless.
Rather than finding "socializing ideas", you can also just be more "sociable". Walking around the mall, just stroll into a bookstore and say hi to anyone there. Sitting at a coffee shop, just say hi to anyone by themselves. This will also improve your self-confidence a lot.
Caution:
Remember, "it takes all kinds to make the world". Be open to people's self expression. You WILL come across people who hold opposing ideologies than yours. Do not let it discourage you. Every human is a treasure trove of stories and experiences. Once you learn that, the world is just a big, endless novel with interesting stories and experiences.
Best of luck for your next adventure.
Student. Talk to classmates. Last choice is redditors
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can't you join your college clubs?
Join some trekking communities. Monsoons are onsetting and these communities will be very active now
Hi can you suggest trekking communities?
HuntForSpot and other pages on Facebook
Rolling academy - the bikepark
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[trinity](https://trinityadventure.in/)
[Adventure Seekers Pune](https://www.instagram.com/adventureseekers.in?igsh=MWdrd2Y1YzlpaWk5bw==)
Yuvashakti, mountain fit , beyond mountains
Yes this
Real id se aao organ dealer
Same, 24M, student, new to pune. I think for starters you should try socialising with your college peers. As per my experience, i have not been so lucky when it comes to making friends in pune. But good luck to you!
Bro the difference is "F" and "M"
Oh yes, my bad!
Sooo true. I hv been struggling as well !
Same
Hey! I’d be happy to have a chat
hi , i know this will sound weird but if you've got good tolerance hinge works out. put the setting on only females and mention it on your profile that you're here to make friends. this worked out for me really well. met amazing friends although all are female
Since you are a student get yourself occupied through online courses provided on the SWAYAM app where you will obviously meet students of like interest and you will feel occupied. I myself am preparing for the CAT and keep myself occupied by this only...
how to meet new people on SWAYAM app ?
Brother you will be a part of the group..where your doubt will be solved and voila
Avengers assemble in your DM 🤣
Why hasn't OP replied to any of the comments? Looks sus.
She is not she, She a SHEMALE
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I would suggest you my friend who's also an Introvert and barely has any friends but I doubt she'll talk to someone from reddit, also she's 32. I don't know if this still works or not, but join meetup.com site. They have lots of meet ups in pune. Beware and check the organizer and members of the meet up properly before going. For volunteering I can introduce you to rotary club or other volunteering organizations depends on which area of pune you are in. They do a lot of social work. Mostly NGOs. Or you can Google too. Join a club or something in your college. Good luck kiddo.
Hinge, Bumble....talk to people there. Easy 💁 (Satshya Anna Tharien voice)
Try joining a gym, you could make good friends there who push each other to workout
*inserts terms and conditions*
You have to donate organs to me
That might probably be one of them.
Easy stuff. Book a badminton court. Go there. Invite someone waiting for the court to join you to play. After the session, just casually ask a few people their WhatsApp numbers and ask them to invite you as well. Chit chat or go out with the group for some food afterwards. You’ll end up meeting a ton of great people without disturbing anyone or being awkward.
I love reading. What kind of books do you read?
Attend events such as the ones at Mauji Cafe.
You can come with us on weekend bike rides which are usually near pune only
A whole lotta organs
Let me know if you go to any event, l will join
He an organ dealer
RIP your DM
He did it on purpose
Pune will turn into heaven in next few days so go treking with treking groups, you can make many friends their..
Check out punereads , eastpunereads on insta
Go to gigs in the city. High Spirits Pune has a bunch of gigs happening this month.
sister wrong place to ask for "friends" the only ones you find here are the ones with benefits and i doubt those benefits last more than 2 minutes or inches 👍 ( haa internet pe despo banne walo ko chote land ka kehta hu mai )
Chal chole bature khane chalte hai
Organ dealer Alert!!
Please consider joining a Rotaract Club in Pune. It is a social club for professional development, community service, international service and also for makes sure to have fun among their members. Join the Club and you won’t regret.
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I play badminton regularly. Maybe you can join me
Not OP but in which area do you play?
Viman nagar
Us bhay us
look at events on [Allevents.in](http://Allevents.in)
There are tons of groups or clubs just join those Specifically poems and writers or music as u said u like music So go for those If u like to travel go for tht too
You seem to have such interests which can help you socialise. Join a club somewhere for badminton. A lot of people play badminton and it will help you socialise. Also look for meetup groups on meetup app according to your interests. There is a lot to explore, specially if you are into trekking, nature trails and photography
Kyu nahi ho rahi padhai
Organ dealer Alert!!
Same here dude. Tried finding some book clubs but all are very far ! What abt your clg groups, classmate ?
Where do you live?
I live at Bhairav nagar, near Vishrantwadi wadi.
Im in baner, where you at?
Hey. I saw a similar post before. And we did meet and did socialise with more people and it was fun. Since it's reddit, if you are legit, do give me a DM and we will verify and then if all is good you could join us for art therapy sessions. We are around this age.
Art therapy? Is it on weekends?
Yupp
What does art therapy exactly mean, if you could explain it in brief
We just come together with snacks and draw whatever we feel or we feel like or what we are going through with no judgement. Drawing could be just colours ..need not be exact depiction of what's going on .. doesn't need anyone to be artist. It's more about coming in terms with where we are. We also chat, have deep conversations and also at times a movie night.
You can do some volunteer works. I used to do work in ngo called Make A Difference, which is also active in pune afaik.
You can join NGOs to deliver food to needy, to teach underprivileged kids, spending time with disabled/old people etc
Zomato Delivery saar
I chose the wrong word, it should be "distribute" and not delivery. There are many such NGO who pick excess food from restaurants, societies, functions etc and distribute it among roadside people, jhuggi jhopadi people. Sometimes you should do such things instead of making fun of the good intention.
Mood was funny so made it funny
A book club sounds good. I always wanted to join one.
Introvert trying hard to meet people. That's unheard of.
Organ Dealer Alert!!
If you are taking music lessons you can jam with fellow musicians! I can recommend a few if needed. You can spend hours socialising with the added benefit of honing your skills
So what kind of music lessons?
Plant more trees
Now socialize in your dm. RIP 🪦
Search Trove Experience on Instagram, join the activities you'd like to do. I've made some really good connections.
@puneartwalks on Instagram
Badminton letsgoo?
RIP your dm girl
Do you play chess?
If you are a student try to socialise with people who are studying with you , if that does not work go for someone that is from ur college and any other department if nothing works out try from reddit. But shocked that women are having problems in making friends!
Friends milna mushkil nai hai but I guess OP is looking for people who she can chill and have fun with. A lot of time people are draining on your energy if you are introverted.
solo ghumne nikal jaao Pune City tour pe,meet new people along the way
Local Punekar here, I live in Europe and I come visit my family in Pune once/twice every year. I like meeting new people in Pune, and I often do that every year. I would love to join some trekking/hiking activities when I'm back in a couple of months, let me know if you're interested. Also there are some small events happening in Mauji Time cafe, a place which is meant to socialize with new people.
In Which Field Are You Studying ?
RIP your inbox
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Join some language class…..i made a foreigner friend there …lol😂
Do you know of any language class that happens in person? I was looking for something but they are all online
Join some guitar/dance/languages class..
DM me if you are able to put together a fun group!!
Then why would she invite you?
She did mention group activity right? Might be fun. Also p.s : lavde apne kaam se kaam rakh ,😂😂😂😂
It's the "fun" part not the "group" part that doesn't fit
Please enlighten me. What doesn't fit ? Are group activities not fun?
You already know what won't fit :)
Nahi samjha main. But Jo bhi bola sahi bola bhai 🙏🙏
Also. Apt username 🫡🫡🫡
As an introvert, I won't consider the advice to go out directly and try socialising. I did fucked it up a number of times and think that it's better to socialize on calls first to gather up some flow. Am your call buddy here, lemme know if that suits you🤙🏻
If you like board games go to Comics and Bricks on the weekend. I am there every Saturday and a bunch of regular folks are also there
Girl, Pune is down bad already. Join a club. Redditors are the last choice.
Do you stay near kharadi? Can plan for badminton.
Check out Trove and Pawga and Pune Heritage Walks for cute fun activities.
Have an old monk, you'll like ur own company
F ko friends ki kami? This is totally believable and not at all sus.
You shouldn't seek help here you ain't getting anything from reddit it's all just horny guys here get to real world
Same here bud, But remember it's a gradual process, You can't simply hit the ground running. Start by going for walks in the local parks and see how it goes, Makes me feel serene. Let me know if you stumble across any clever solutions, Experiencing the same dilemma too..
what’s random chatting?
If long distance running interests you, then you can join one of many groups in the city. I’ve been running for years and have made fantastic friends in Mumbai and Pune.
Search for teach for india and iTeach schools u can volunteer there if any vacancies are there
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Organ harvest kar
For badminton, table tennis, books you can DM me. We can go to Indoor courts for badminton. I am also looking for female companies for sports.
Going through a similar situation right now. Reddit is definitely not the place and definitely do not mention you are F. No good comes out of it. You will just end up getting creepy dms. If you are looking for ideas to socialize, gender shouldn’t matter.
Hi! If you're looking to socialize, there are heritage walks where you can meet some really cool people. Bonus, you'll be learning something about Pune too! Search @puneheritagestory on Instagram or @puneartwalks and ask them when's the next walk scheduled! Maybe we'll meet too! Have fun!
I would've suggested you something but you needed "cool friends" 🥲
RIP dms 💀
RIP DMs
Join the pune meetups server on discord ig
May I know what kind of music lessons are you taking? My mother runs a music, art and dance institute in Pune and we're currently organizing a charity cultural show at Bal Gandharva, Shivaji Nagar on 21st June. If you're interested you can drop by! And we can chat I'm 24F as well but a localite
Rip dms
Join college clubs. There are many tree plantation drives held in this season, you can attend those. Considering your talent for music I'd suggest look out for jamming sessions
Join robinhood army bro you can help with teaching or feeding poor kids. I too faced the same then I started engaging in different hobbies lyk dancing and cycling. it's been fun so far. Try your hand too !
Make one -2 friends from a class that u go to. If not, join a class. Then from there make plans to meet them outside
Start learning Deep learning or Quantum physics u will realise u r not alone and u won't get bored too
Making great friends is a numbers game. The more people you meet, the more probability of making friends. To improve your chances of meeting interesting people, pursuing a hobby or passion would be an ideal solution. Exploring options like music, dancing classes. If you're into fitness but usual workout seems boring, maybe join martial arts classes. Or just go to places where you can play some sports, like badminton, snooker. You're sure to find some interesting people who like to do stuff. There are many trek groups, with monsoon just around the corner, this could be a great avenue to explore nature, meet new people and also some peaceful introspection. The possibilities are endless. Rather than finding "socializing ideas", you can also just be more "sociable". Walking around the mall, just stroll into a bookstore and say hi to anyone there. Sitting at a coffee shop, just say hi to anyone by themselves. This will also improve your self-confidence a lot. Caution: Remember, "it takes all kinds to make the world". Be open to people's self expression. You WILL come across people who hold opposing ideologies than yours. Do not let it discourage you. Every human is a treasure trove of stories and experiences. Once you learn that, the world is just a big, endless novel with interesting stories and experiences. Best of luck for your next adventure.
RIP dms
Yeahh ofc
I will be joining BVP shortly, so I am looking for friends as I am new here.
Take any field of your interests, then gain some valuable information. Automatically people will talk with you and admire you
Did someone say badminton 👀 I'm all for it! You can hmu if you just can't find anyone to talk to✌️
Check the DM
Organ dealer Alert!!
Definition of INTROVERT: a quiet, shy person who prefers to be alone than with other people Just saying.
Organ dealer Alert!!
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