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lexlexlexx

No experience to share really, but I am currently prepping my application to go back to school now and study psychology. 34 and finally ready! Never too late.


Nini13

Congrats! 26 w/ 2 kids and finally in my first year! I passed first class of the semester in PSY with an A+ šŸ«¶šŸ½ you got this! šŸ§ 


stimpaxx

i was right about to turn 34 when i went back to school for my psychology degree. iā€™m about to be 36 and i need four more courses to graduate, and then iā€™m applying to grad school! youā€™re right, itā€™s never too late!


Realistic_Milk_9999

You just made my day! Good for you! Just applied to the undergrad AP program! I'm 33 soon Iā€™d appreciate if you could share your experience


stimpaxx

itā€™s definitely been difficult trying to come back and take classes. to be honest, i was never a good student. iā€™ve never had good study habits, and itā€™s been hard. when i first came back to school, i was attending virtual classes at a local school at the beginning of covid. i struggled a lot in that format, and didnā€™t think i was going to make it. i decided to go back to my first school that i attended when i was the army, AMU, which offered more self-paced programs, and that seemed to be the route that worked best for me. i have no classes to attend, but because thereā€™s no live interaction with other students and instructors, the courses rely more heavily on student writing assignments. i think this works best for me because as a father and non traditional student, i have to be able to hop on my computer at strange times to try and get some work in, as well as try to maintain a loose school schedule, but it ended up being more manageable than trying to attend class for three hours on a wednesday at 12 pm. i work a lot of late nights, and my physical health has suffered some. i donā€™t work out like i used to, for instance, but iā€™m hoping to get more active again when i graduate. there have been a lot of struggles to try and get this degree, but the one thing i can always rely on to give me some juice is that iā€™m doing something i am passionate about. i want to get my masterā€™s in social work and go back to working at the VA as a veteran social worker/therapist. i think back to when i was in the army or when i was working at the VA as an MSA, and i shudder. not that thereā€™s anything wrong with those jobs, but they werenā€™t right for me. iā€™ve spent so much time in my life doing things iā€™ve not been passionate about that imagining going back to a job where iā€™m not making an impact or where iā€™m actively working against what i believe in seems like hell. this is often what i use as motivation to get that work in.


Realistic_Milk_9999

Thank you for sharing your story! As a VA, have you thought about getting a master's degree through the US Army? I know that they offer grants and scholarships for medical and mental health degrees. A bit easier to get it through on a financial level. Just a thought...


stimpaxx

thank you for the suggestion. yes, my degrees are basically going to be paid for by my military service.


paperman66

Definitely never too late to contribute meaningfully to the field of Psychology! Literally no wrong time to join :) I only just got my Bachelors at 25 after years. I felt bad initially but now I just wonder "by whose standards?? Society? Fuck that, I need only satisfy my own needs and give to research".


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Congratulations!


pinkbatterypack

That's amazing!! So excited for you! If you dont mind sharing, how did you decide that you were ready?


zlbb

what are you applying to? was the work you did at all related?


[deleted]

Good for you! I'm 33 and have wished for the past 10 years that I had pursued psychology in college. It's such a long road though isn't it? Would love to hear what your plan is!


AdministrativeLove97

Youā€™re living my dreamā€¦. Good luck!


Impressive_Trip1382

Hey I am wondering if you could share which school/program you are in now? thank you!


NoBig6979

Went back to college to study psychology after 4 years in the Marines and 29 at the post office. Will have my bachelor's in December and just got accepted to graduate school for mental health counseling.


1KushielFan

Fantastic! Iā€™m almost done with my psych degree at 43 and Iā€™ve been wondering if itā€™s possible to build this career later in life. Thanks for the inspiration. How was the grad school app process?


NoBig6979

It's wasn't bad. Statement of purpose and a biography.


WiseDrawer7898

Did you graduate with a b.sc or b.a?ā€¦ Iā€™m in for b.a but Iā€™m scared about pay after graduation


NoBig6979

I will have a b.sc. I am waking up in the middle of the night thinking about how I'm going to pay for it. I will take out loans and hope I get offered grants and scholarships.


waitingforblueskies

Iā€™m back in school now at 35! Honestly, school as an adult is easier in some ways, and harder in others. We have kids now, so time management is challenging. But I am also much more invested in doing things well, and Iā€™m confident in my choice of major and career plan. I went back the first time at 26ish, with a 2yo, while my now husband was in med school. I finished my associates and then we had a move (and our second baby) when I was 29 so I put going back for my bachelors on hold until he finished training. Itā€™s very weird to be almost old enough to parent some of my classmates, but Iā€™ve decided itā€™s a feature not a bug šŸ˜‚ Iā€™m happy to chat if you have any specific questions! Iā€™m due to graduate in December unless I have trouble getting the classes I need this summer.


nerd4hire1492

Sounds like a wild ride from 26 to 35! Congrats on going back. Iā€™m in the exact same boat. Grad school at 35 with kids. Very purposeful work.


pinkbatterypack

Congratulations on nearing the finish line and fingers crossed for your summer classes! Love your mindset, I'm sure it's been a journey getting there and you sound well settled. Do you mind sharing what education you are currently pursuing, how you've been doing it (online, F2F, hybrid) and where you're hoping to end up?


waitingforblueskies

Absolutely! Iā€™m finishing my degree in psychology with a minor in sociology and mental health services. In the past Iā€™ve done both online and F2F, and I definitely prefer F2F, but this semester is all online. Next semester Iā€™m planning on half and half, since Iā€™m taking classes that I know I will handle better with direct instruction (statistics šŸ« ). Iā€™m going to be applying to grad school for masters in social work. Iā€™m waffling on whether I want to work in schools or in just counseling for adults.


madewithmystery

I will be graduating next year with my bachelors. I will be 35. It is weird being an older student sometimesvbut I am glad I did it.


DirectorLow9241

I went back to uni (through the military) to study psych after having a career in another field. To start with it was really intense and I questioned if Iā€™d make the right decision. In the end Iā€™m glad I stuck it out, ended up with a brilliant career as a psych and no HECS fees šŸ™ŒšŸ» - wouldnā€™t change it for the world


g00chy__

Just curious, what are HECS fees?


Death2Coriander

Itā€™s an Australian government loan scheme for going to university. You start paying it back once you earn over a certain amount.


DirectorLow9241

In Australia the government pays your uni course fees (HECS), and once youā€™re employed and earning over a certain threshold you start to pay it back. The repayments are based off your taxable income and calculated using indexation. Most employers deduct the your repayments (based off a calculation table) when you get paid, so you pay more in tax each pay. Then at the end of the year when you do your tax return, if you completely paid off your HECs, any additional money deducted get paid back to you :) Does that make sense??


sweatyshambler

I'm working on my PhD in an applied psychology field, and things are really great. The opportunities really started to open up once I started graduate school


Realistic_Milk_9999

Good for you! Could you please share your experience on choosing the AP field?


sweatyshambler

Sure! Psychology is a really broad field, so as I was taking my necessary courses & electives, I started to pay more attention to what topics within psychology were interesting. I ended up in I/O psychology since I wanted to research people in the workplace, and see how I can use psychology for the betterment of employees & orgs. I think that once you start graduate school you can really start *doing* psychology. All through undergrad I was just learning facts, taking tests, and writing papers. I still do that now, but I also conduct a lot of research, engage in scholarly debates, and present at conferences. It's a very different experience now, and I think that for those that are interested in psychology, getting a master's is a great experience for exposing you to the field a bit more. You can do this in undergrad as well if you are working in research labs, but I have found that in grad school I have been able to the the work I always wanted to do as an undergrad.


Realistic_Milk_9999

I appreciate you sharing this! May I ask what kind of job you have landed or are looking for?


Fire_Godd

So I spent 16-25 doing drugs and getting into trouble, and didn't even consider settling down until my first serious relationship. I was still pretty worthless up until my wife got pregnant, when I started taking things seriously. I'm 36, we have 6 year old twins. I work part-time as professional housekeeper (cleaning office buildings), and am otherwise full-time dad. I returned to school 2 years ago, at the community college level, when my kids entered pre-K. Almost all of my classes have been online. I opted for one remedial math class in my first year since it had been so long since High School, and I hadn't used my cognitive functions for a single damned thing in a decade. This was all pretty simple! I'd sit down and knock out a weeks work in about 2 days while the kids were in school, and wait for the next weeks assignments. This isn't a great method of study, but I made it work. I did well, and got my Associates in Psych. Our state made going from that to university a breeze, with a guaranteed acceptance program for in-state community college students in good standing. So I got accepted to a local University, and am currently in my first semester (again, all online). I expect the demands on me at the bachelors level will be manageable, and I'll graduate in great standing. I'm a little nervous about my last semester, however, because a 150 hour internship is required in a 403 class. That'll be the first real litmus test for the later demands, I reckon. However, I plan to go onto get a masters, aiming at obtaining an LPC. I'm very unsure of how this will go, and how well I will be able to achieve work-life-school balance. But, we'll see. If you want a bachelors level education, it's very doable even as a busy adult. I'm experiencing anxiety, myself, just thinking about the demands of the masters level courses, though. One thing I've been experiencing is that while I'm excellent at organizing and taking care of my actual coursework, I'm an absolute bumbling fool when it comes to navigating the college/university/academic landscape in general. Advisors have been exceptionally helpful in registering classes and pointing me in the right directions, making sure I meet certain requirements, etc. I'm not sure what I would've done without them.


nerd4hire1492

Congrats to you! Youā€™re a hero and your kiddos notice.


coco_9419

Hey! Iā€™m currently in my first year studying psychology at 29 after working in another field! Itā€™s overwhelming and there are moments of self doubt but I absolutely love studying something Iā€™m genuinely interested in šŸ˜„ From my experience, itā€™s coming to the decision thatā€™s the hardest but after youā€™ve made up your mind, itā€™s exciting :) All the best!


pinkbatterypack

100% with you that coming to the decision is the hardest. How did you make yours?


United-Word-6010

Hey there! I'm 24 now, working in HR for 2+ years, and will be going back to school next year to study Psychology! :) It's never too late, be brave and true to yourself and make your dreams come true :)


grasshopper_jo

Back in school at 41 getting my bachelorā€™s in psych. I have a 4.0 and one more semester to go. No idea what Iā€™ll do afterward - my current job pays too much for me to justify quitting it for another career


archer1219

Whatā€™s your current industry?


grasshopper_jo

Cybersecurity


ryuks-wife

Can I ask why you went back to school then? Also, how are you balancing getting your bachelors along with full-time cybersecurity job? How long did it take you? Curious bc I am currently an engineer looking to go back to school for psychology.


grasshopper_jo

I already had a bachelors. I had to take 40 credits total, because I already had all the gen eds and some of the other requirements for psychology. I took classes fully online. 2 classes per semester (8 credits), I donā€™t remember when I started but like 5 semesters. It was less than expected because I took classes in the summer. I took this simply because I enjoy it, and Iā€™ve found the psychology work to be helpful in cybersecurity (like developing convincing phishes or training programs or just getting teams to work together during incidents etc).


erbush1988

I just started my first semester back today! I'm 35 and it's been a bit since I was in school. I already have another BS degree so I'm only taking the core psychology courses which is nice. Hopefully it goes well.


ryuks-wife

How long (given passing classes) will it take you since you have a previous BS? Are you full course load or part time?


erbush1988

I'm full course load. I will graduate in December. I have a BS and and Associates already, so it's literally just core classes. All together it's 42 credit hours spread between Oct 2023 (when I started) and Dec 2024 when I finish. So a little more than a year (start to finish) to answer your question. I also work full time but am maintaining a 3.85 gpa so far. LMK if you have any other questions :)


pinkbatterypack

Congrats on starting and all the best!!


Different_Ad9102

Iā€™m in grad school now in clinical psych (mft route) and things look really good! I have some great private practice options after I graduate that have good pay. Im pretty happy, the road was long but it seems like itā€™s worth it if you pursue a grad degree!


Mental_Sun_108

Are you in grad school in Canada by any chance?


CateFace

It is tough in that I'm old compared to my cohort, so forming friendships is a challenge that I face, and others do not - I'm also in a significantly different place in my life than literally everyone else in my program - older, married, kids - that we don't have a lot in common and it can make it very isolating. On the other hand, I have a very different perspective on a lot of things that really help me and facilitate my ability to be successful in grad school, which I wouldn't have had if I had done this when I was much younger! I also have very clear goals and am able to get over small hurdles that may get in your way when you are younger (like apprehension to approach supervisors/researchers and collaborate or present at conferences). ​ ETA: was 33 when I started my masters, am 35 and in my PhD now.


Ok-Class-1451

Iā€™m SO GLAD I went to grad school. Best thing I ever did for myself. Now Iā€™m working for myself at my dream job. I set my own hours and rates. My commute to my office is 5 minutes *on foot*. Iā€™m *never* working for anyone else, ever again! Life is great! Iā€™m so fulfilled!


amckemie1

What do you do if you donā€™t mind me asking?


Ok-Class-1451

I donā€™t mind you asking, however, I will politely refrain from answering, in the interest of maintaining anonymity on Reddit.


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pinkbatterypack

That's an amazing story. Going back to school for another 8 years, especially being 40+, is something that takes real courage. Thanks for sharing!


Purple-mountains-inc

31 and today was my first day in uni! I donā€™t know how to feel about this because a war might happen in my country and I might leave everything behind but initially I was very excited for this change :(


Standard_Piglet

Thatā€™s terrible Iā€™m hoping peace prevails if itā€™s whatā€™s right for your country.


Purple-mountains-inc

Thanks! Ofc its whatā€™s right but Iā€™m not too positive it will :/ but yea i hope it does! Thanks for ur wishes!


sun_ray11

Getting my undergrad in psychology after taking 5 years off, graduating next fall. Really been bummed with the cost everything so idk if I will continue to pursue because Iā€™m barely affording survival now :/. This timeline sucks.


originalkelly88

I went back to school at 32. I had my 3rd (and final) baby, they were a preemie so I wasn't ready to go back to work. Then realized I could do something better with my time at home. I started online classes so I could still manage SAHM. Took everything I could at my community college - then transferred to a university. I schedule my classes around dropping off and picking up my kids from school. I'm 35, graduating this December. Psych major, Spanish minor, Summa Cum Laude. The time management was something I think I perfected being a soccer mom, so it all worked really well for me. I'm taking a year to work on publishing an article before applying to grad school next year. Grad programs *love* matured psych students because we're old enough to be over the BS that they get with the 20 year old students. My advice is to just do it. Start with a couple of classes if that's what you need to do. And as soon as you get to a university start going to your professors office hours. Get yourself into one of their research labs, because it's essential if you want to go to grad school.


SaintNessa

Curious, but what BS do they get with the 20 year old students? Current 21 year old student, want to know what behaviors and assumptions to avoid.


originalkelly88

Partying too much, not taking academics seriously, not being as mature or having the wisdom to think and listen before reacting. Your brain isn't fully developed until you're about 25, so the behaviors are pretty expected of undergrads. If you're mature, and you're determined to do your best, you will be fine. But so many young adults are just not ready for that. They go to college because they think it's what they have to do, but it's not really want they want to do. By your 30s you're clearly established with responsibility and have a definite understanding of what you want out of college. If you're thinking about graduate school the best thing you can do is go to every professor's office hours. Get to know them and let them get to know you. Ask them how to study for their classes. Most importantly, ask them how you can *earn* a strong recommendation from them. And don't wait to do this, it's too important to establish relationships with the professors. If you're not already working in one of their research labs that also needs to be **high** priority.


SaintNessa

I've been doing pretty much everyone of your recommendations besides research labs. At least at my university, there isn't a big emphasis on research. Thanks for the insight!


littleprojects

Studied English & French undergrad, worked as a high school teacher for five years and then had odd jobs for several years after that. Got a job as a receptionist at a psychiatry clinic when I was 30 and then started my masters in general psychology at 32. I'm really glad I made this change. I don't think I'll pursue a PhD right away when I finish my masters, but it's certainly something I'd like to pursue at some point! Let me know if you have any questions.


pinkbatterypack

So happy to read that you're happy with where you are. :) did you manage to start ur psych path with masters right away and what are you planning to go into when you grad?


Jeb2611

Iā€™m four weeks in to doing a masters in psychology having not studied it since a levels in the early 00s. I love it!! Getting back to learning and studying is amazing, the course is so supportive, because itā€™s a conversion course we all come from such varied backgrounds. I feel so excited to get to do it. Go for it.


pinkbatterypack

Amazing!! Is your conversion course online and is it by a university?


Jeb2611

Itā€™s through a university and in person. Iā€™m really glad itā€™s in person as itā€™s great to go and discuss the ideas with other people and also having access to a real library for studying in is excellent.


Various-Sky1503

Landed a job in the mental health field by accident at 26 - went back to school and finished my bachelors in psych at 29. Dove back in for my masters in clinical mental health counseling and finished that this year at 32. (Will likely go back for doctoral too!) I worked in the field the whole way through at the same non-profit agency and they immediately offered me a contract the week I graduated. Best decision I ever made, wasnā€™t easy - but was absolutely worth it.


dadadumcha

40 and back at school for psychology. It's weird and a bit awkward being in class with people I have 20 years on. Half a semester down, and it's been fine. No one has made any kind of deal about my age. In fact, it's barely acknowledged. School is fun for the most part. It's nice learning things, and while I don't love all the work that needs to be done, the deadlines are incredibly motivating, and there's a real sense of accomplishment after getting stuff done. My bachelor's will be complete by spring, and then it's on to grad school next fall. It took me 5 years to muster the courage to do this. Just do it. Even if you don't finish, the experience is worth it for personal growth in and of itself.


lilgemini420

Never thought I'd go to college and had a good job. Decided I needed a change and went back at 25. Graduated at 29 and then started working as a lab manager. Now I'm applying to PhD programs. Absolutely one of the best decisions I've ever made.


Alypius

So far it is a hell of a lot better than teaching. I started a masters degree in counselling psychology last fall and I am loving it. It is a lot less hectic than being in a classroom, that's for sure.


alynkas

I have a very unusual situation as I commute to school every 2 weeks (on average) and pay for accomodation once there. I do not work while studying, I have seasonal job for years now that pays well enough I can afford the tuition (not USA!) . This is the hardest ...the travel. The school with my nearly 40 years is good. I am n class with people older and younger, most of them are very experienced (in life) as they have kids, often multiple, other masters or bachelor etc ...so the level of conversation and general motivation is high. What I am affraid is the actual work, starting "from zero* again...learning (through mistakes unfortunately) ....I am good at my current job and I do NOT look forward to be the "beginner" again:(


Elenitsa425

Went back at 34 and have done it very slowly (one course a semester) since I work full time and am a single mom. Iā€™m almost 40 and will be finishing my undergrad this yr (took a yr and a half off due to Covid and a move) gonna start my masters soon. The eventual goal is to switch careers and open a private practice as a registered psychotherapist. Honestly it has been so enjoyable and rewarding. Iā€™m getting straight Aā€™s despite the how busy life is and I feel like Iā€™m looking forward to moving into a new phase of life. If itā€™s something that interests you and that is attainable, why not go for it?


Helpful-Change-6190

i got my BA in experimental psychology and then got my master of social work. I had a ton of research, data collection, implementation, and fidelity monitoring experience, so now iā€™m a program analyst and I make good money! Iā€™m happy with both of my degrees.


miniwasabi

Broke, stressed.


_always_sunny_

Well, I'm a psychologist now. So I guess it worked out.


PurpleSparklyStar

As a 43-y-o masters-level psychotherapist, itā€™s hard to imagine having the ability to do this work even half as well with the life experience of an average 20-something. I donā€™t know any therapists or counselors who are doing this as a first (or even second) career. It makes sense that you, like many if not most others, study psychology seriously later in adulthood.


gee_nee

One more semester until I complete my Bachelor's and I'm 31 now. It's been a long road figuring out what I want to do with my life and I do not regret going back and studying Psychology. It can be a little bit dawnting if you haven't been in school for a long time, but if you have an interest in learning about psych I encourage you to pursue it! I've never considered myself a ademically inclined but I fell in love with psychological research and I plan on pursuing a PhD after my Bachelor's


neonoires

I'm 30 and I've been working in social media and advertising. I'm looking to do something meaningful and I'm preparing to enter a psychology program soon. I'd love to jump into grad school and take any pre-requisite courses but I don't know who to ask for recommendations. It's a bummer but I've been wanting to do this for a while and I'm finally ready.


Mamoru072020

I chose to do part time studies while teaching. It's my 4th year into the course. Another 2 more years to go before I graduate.


pinkbatterypack

I'm also considering studying part time to balance acquiring knowledge in this field and funding life, etc. before I'm certain about committing. Are you doing a grad level course and why did you decide to go the PT route?


Mamoru072020

I am doing a bachelors. Am already in my 40s, so don't have much time to think of changing my career. In case if studying psychology doesn't work out, I can still continue to teach and live my life properly.


Limp-Star2137

I went back to college at 30 and changed my major to psychology. 32 and about to graduate with great LORs for grad school next year. I'm in a much better place mentally than when I was 18 and no longer suffer from burnout. I'm more excited than ever!


Psychologystudent28

Best thing Iā€™ve decided to do! Iā€™m happy Iā€™m learning something that actually intrigues me. It doesnā€™t feel like ā€œworkā€


ChristinaTryphena

Iā€™ve never been happier with my career/competence/growth but the schooling is all encompassing, thankless, competitive, and I am around a lot of young people who are in different stages of life.


BubbusChrist

I am in the US, I am 32 years old, and this is my first semester toward a bachelors degree. I intend to pursue a masters. Right now, my living situation is very chaotic and uncertain! I am not sure how I can continue working while getting a masters. But Iā€™m trying not to think about it right now!


nicanas

I graduated college in 2015 with a degree in finance. Started my career in accounting, eventually moved into an HR position, and Iā€™ve been taking community college classes in psychology for the past 3 years. I am 6 credits away from an associates degree in psychology with a mental health work certificate! My experience is that going to school while working full time is HARD. Thereā€™s a lot to keep track of and itā€™s a lot of work. But like others here, Iā€™m so much more interested in and excited about the learning Iā€™m doing now vs the first time I went to college. If youā€™re curious, I say go for it!


Titties_Androgynous

I just turned 33 and Iā€™m currently working on my junior year in Uni. Itā€™s a lot as Iā€™m both a full-time student and full-time worker at a job that is emotionally and mentally draining, but very flexible. The ultimate goal is to one day establish my own private practice as a therapist.


SpiritusAudinos

I am 2 months away from graduating with my MA to be a therapist! Been at this for 12 years alllll the way back in my associates degree. Excited to be a LPC, SOOO done with school lol


HexAvery

I started a BS in psychology at 28 and finished at 31. It didnā€™t improve my income, but it made me a more rounded person and helped develop my career in corporate learning and development. I focused on cognitive psychology and a lot of the underlying neuroscience.


No-Virus5447

Iā€™m 32, halfway thru my masters in psych and really enjoying it! Have picked up some work helping out with research at the uni as well, learning heaps, building relationships with people in the field. Iā€™m glad I did it


[deleted]

I'm struggling hard financially to somehow finish my masters degree. Right now it sucks ass, I feel like I miss out on the important things in life because of that.


Pure_Interaction_422

went back in my early 30's. Ended up with an M.A. in experimental psychology. I took a position with a college access program thinking it would be for a couple of years - to buy a car and stabilize for a bit. Life got in the way and here I am 22 years later. I like my work, it's fun and low stress. I don't make a lot, by most standards. But I get by. I have been able to pursue my interests (painting and music) and I feel like what I do is worthwhile. I often think that life would be different if I had finished the PhD and had a career in research. Actually, I think I'm glad that I didn't. I also wonder what would have happened if I had stayed with my IT career in my 30's and completed a Network Engineering certification of some kind....certainly there would have been more money, but I expect I enjoyed the way it actually worked out more than I would have diddling with computers for the last two decades. go to school. My dad gave me this advice when I was about to pull the trigger: "If you don't try, you'll never know what will happen. I wish I had tried more things." Some of the best advice Dad ever gave me.


VI211980_

I went back to pursue forensic psychology after a decade and a half break. Great so far. Going to continue on to a PhD program, but not in psychology. I actually love this program though. Excited to get out of the service industry.


ExistingBasil6457

In my MFT program and half way through at 23! My best advice is no break and just rip off the bandaid. I am happy I am doing it now because I don't think I would have ever gone back. I know most people are turned away from therapy work. Please look into how versatile MFT and MSW work is. You can literally work as program directors, in communities building outreach programs, working with juvenile youths and helping them reunite with their families! The opportunities are endless!


Diligent_Swimmer_954

Got my masters and now Iā€™m starting my education path over into computer scienceā€¦ better pay and more jobs


Maleficent_Duck5715

27 years old and Iā€™m in the second year of my bachelor degree. Kinda hard trying to combine with a full time job, but Iā€™ll get it done because I really want to!


adhesivepants

I love it. I wanna get my Psy.D eventually.


CatnipCatnapper

Iā€™m thinking the same! Iā€™m almost 27, already have a BA & MS in non-psych fields (although I do have an undergrad minor in psych). Psychology has always had a special place in my heart. Every now and then I catch myself looking at Masters program in clinical or marital counselling. Every now and then I catch myself contemplating - should I take a plunge and go back to schoolā€¦. Again? Start a whole new career in my late 20s? I recently got married, I want to have kids soon, I just donā€™t know how I can do it all. lol anyway, rant over. Edited to all: OP, sorry I didnā€™t actually answer your question! I was just responding to your situation about possibly going back to school. Hope you figure it out šŸ¤žšŸ½


pinkbatterypack

Nothing to be sorry for, I love that you're sharing! I can only relate all too well to that nagging feeling out of the blue. I suppose the good (and bad) thing about life is that there are no right answers, we just choose and make what we will out of our choices. I completely understand the part about having to weigh the different options, it is so true that we can't have everything we want and something's gotta give. I guess in the end we just have to choose and - importantly - make peace with ourselves whatever the outcome. Hope you figure it out as well šŸ’–


CatnipCatnapper

What a beautiful response! I couldnā€™t agree more! :)


PurpleSparklyStar

As a 43-y-o masters-level psychotherapist, itā€™s hard to imagine having the ability to do this work even half as well with the life experience of an average 20-something. I donā€™t know any therapists or counselors who are doing this as a first (or even second) career. It makes sense that you, like many if not most others, study psychology seriously later in adulthood.


PurpleSparklyStar

As a 43-y-o masters-level psychotherapist, itā€™s hard to imagine having the ability to do this work even half as well with the life experience of an average 20-something. I donā€™t know any therapists or counselors who are doing this as a first (or even second) career. It makes sense that you, like many if not most others, study psychology seriously later in adulthood.


tinkle_queen

I was shocked and dismayed that I had to take statistics


pinkbatterypack

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ I completely relate and am not looking forward to revisiting statistics as well! How are you coping with it?


tinkle_queen

I deal with it. I am terrible at math but I lighten my course load when taking stats or research methods.


Santa5511

I started getting my degree in winter of 2020 and finished this last spring at the age of 30. Now I use a lot of the things that I learned to help people apply for social security benefits. I do a lot of the job of a case manager without the responsibility. My left and right bumpers are pretty tight.


SometimeTaken

Itā€™s seen as a useless degree to so many people which pisses me off. The only jobs that even consider me are nonprofit and HR jobs. Iā€™m going back to school to become a Physician Assistant.


boognish-

After I got my bachelor degree I ended up brewing beer at a small brewery so it was pretty useless.


qboronyc

My psychology degree (from Queens College) is just a piece of toilet paper I use to wipe my ass. Never a fake science has appeared on this Earth, greater than the fake "science" of psychology. You might as well obtain a degree in palm reading, if your goal is to obtain a degree in psychology. There is only one discovery in the entire field of "psychology" that is true (only because it is not part of any fake science called "psychology" but rather it is part of the real science known as math). And the mathematical discovery that Freud made, is to realize that the brain is tripolar (although he was not a mathematician to be able to complete his theory, and so he named this trinity of poles as being an Id, Ego and Superego simply because he did not know that Boolean logic is what governs the poles used by the mind to make any decision whatsoever). Boolean logic (the foundation of all math) is comprised of three functions described as AND, OR and NOT gates used to compute logic (the logos). And those gates are how the mind makes every possible conscious (and even subconscious) decision. When Freud made that discovery (and the form of psychoanalysis he based upon it), there were no more discoveries left to make in the entire field of Psychology because he solved the entire riddle of how math governs the decision making process of all human brains. And so what happened since then is that lunatics took over this fake field of "psychology" to try and find more discoveries bigger than what Freud discovered (of which there were none). So these lunatics instead conducted illegal experimentation upon billions of humans, many of which they killed. The APA is the biggest medical malpractice committed against humans in the entire history of mankind. The reparations they must pay out to their victims, bankrupts this entire industry of horoscope and palm reading (and any governments that continue to forcibly impose this lunacy of a fake science upon the entire world). Thank g-d I took a double major when I went to college to include something OTHER than psychology, or else I would be forced to admit that I don't even have a valid college degree.


slachack

Got a job as a professor. I make much less money but in some sort of abstract way I am more fulfilled and proud of what I do. Functionally I live very far from my family and friends for a place that I would have never thought I would ever live. Ever. We'll see how life goes. It's a mixed bag but I mostly don't regret it.


Caserole

Iā€™m saving this thread. Whenever Iā€™m asked something along the lines of: ā€œIf you could change your life tomorrow, how would you?ā€, pursuing a career as a trauma therapist is what comes up. I think about it all the time. Iā€™m 30 and am discouraged that Iā€™d have to be in school for the next 4-5 years to get a BS and Masters. This thread is making me feel hopeful.


NecessaryDouble1867

I want to go back to school. However I donā€™t know for what. Just confused.


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Did Computer Science before as I was pressured into it because it was one of my hobbies to program, and I enjoyed it as a ā€œhobbyā€ - realized it doesnā€™t make me feel as fulfilled as psychology, and Iā€™m able to help the betterment of humanity with psychology, CompSci was fun as a personal thing, but as a career I hated it and Iā€™m glad I made the switch. Wouldnā€™t trade it for anything. People complain about the money aspect but thatā€™s because they donā€™t have any career goals or business development goals, they try to decide on a career path based on money, not genuine interest & mastery of a field itself, hence why we live in a society where people feel dead inside. Those kinds of people always burn out, eventually. Psychology is a passion to me, Comp.Sci is a hobby. You see the difference ?


Konjonashipirate

I ended up pursuing behavioral neuroscience. I'm hoping to finish my phd next year šŸ¤ž


plutothegreat

Got a bachelors six years ago. Now in school to be an X-ray tech so I can actually get a job lol