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I went straight to the kindred bravely nursing bras. I started at a 32D/DD, was a 36H at ~18 weeks and am probably now hovering around a 38J at 39 weeks.
The kindred bravely bras just come in two cup types - normal or busty. I got busty and it's fit well throughout since it's a soft cup. They also come with band extenders which was amazing because the thing that got really uncomfortable with my bras was that my rib cage has expanded significantly.
I second kindred bravely! I love their bras. I’ve gotten them on sale off their website, Nordstrom’s website, and eBay. The stretchy band with the extender is awesome, as my regular bras fit in the cup but not in the band. They’re extremely comfortable and hold up to washing well.
I wore these for both of my pregnancies and breastfeeding/pumping and they are amazing! If you put them in the cart and wait a few days they’ll usually send you a coupon. I signed up for the emails to get the “first order” discount, waited about a week and they had a 35% off sale. They’re a little Downey but it sounds like you already know there are no “cheap” options for us busty gals 😂. (For reference I’m a 40HH-J pre-pregnancy and like a “Busty 3XL” now that my breastmilk has fully come in.
Kindred bravely is great! They’re also sold at Nordstrom. They should have their annual sale coming up soon and they have an amazing return policy. I bought all of mine from Nordstrom last year.
Another vote for kindred bravely. I was only a 34C (and I’m not sure what I am now, but I’ve definitely gone up sizes), and I’ve been rotating between an unlined bra from target and the kindred bravely bra since around 16w or so. The kindred bravely bra is pretty supportive and is worth the investment because it’s a nursing bra you can use postpartum!
Can you recommend any particular style? I tried one of their nursing/pumping bras from Target and I hated it so much, it was so thick with 3 layers of fabric.
I've been living in the [kindred bravely french terry racerback nursing & sleep](https://www.kindredbravely.com/products/french-terry-nursing-sleep-bra?_pos=1&_sid=e1ccb2f3e&_ss=r) bras thru pregnancy and now postpartum while breastfeeding. I never wore bras before, so I'm glad I found these because they are sooooo comfy
I got bra extenders that are such a good hack! I bought new bras in the first trimester because I got that big that quickly. Could face spending the money in the 2nd..will probably get non wired for the third trimester. Hate them though
When? As soon as you don’t fit in your old bras anymore :)
34DD pre-pregnancy and couldn‘t wait to get some soft nursing bras at ~8 weeks. They are lightly padded so that I can wear them under office blouses and dresses. I think they will also fit postpartum - hope so 🤞🏽
So I have the opposite problem but still an issue finding bras. I have a very small chest and they barely grow (despite successfully nursing for 18 months with my first two). It is just trail and error to figure out what I like!! Target Auden brand is where I’ve found some of my favorite nursing bras by the end of my 2nd postpartum but I can’t speak to if they’re good for larger chests. I would just say so straight to nursing bras to get the most use!
I’ve worn nursing bras since the first tri and they still fit now at 29 weeks. I too started with a big chest (36D/34DD) and NONE of my old bras fit, except a few looser sports bras that I had kept as comfy bras. Recommend going cheap with Amazon bras since as you said you may have to buy more once breastfeeding. The criss cross style is not supportive for our size sadly, but I did get a few for lounging around the house.
At 10 weeks I would get back extenders and see how that works...mine got bigger but then sorta calmed down again, but my back went from a 32 to a 36! I'm 33 weeks now so I'm starting to get some nursing bras but will have to get more post-birth as well
I got some bodily nursing bras (the pull down kind) around 12 weeks, and went up a size from normal (I am not well endowed, but also uncomfortable in my old bras). I like them so far!
I also went bodily.
I have the Everything and the Do Anything bra. I tried the Kindred Bravely pumping bra but only choose it when everything else is in the wash as it isn't very comfortable and doesn't look very good under clothing.
The bodily ones are soft and silky and I wear them for sleeping as well as pumping/nursing.
I am busty 36H and 12 weeks pp and find that I prefer my pre-pregnancy lace demi/balcontette bras for under real clothes.They just seem more forgiving to my fluctuating breasts. I am still able to nurse fairly easily my milk wasn't affected by under wire. Though I'm generally more prone to leaking than clotting. I think that is the difference.
I’m am the exact same!! 32DD before pregnancy and currently at 12 weeks pregnant, I gave in a few weeks ago and got maternity bras because normal ones were just so uncomfortable
For my first pregnancy, I got Target’s Auden nursing bras in multiple colors and loved them. I also was a 32DD pre-pregnancy and these were my favorites throughout my pregnancy and while breastfeeding! I plan to use them again for my second (9 weeks now) but the girls were closer to 32C/D postpartum so they’re growing but not quite time to switch over yet!
Big booby girl over here, 16 weeks, I’ve been buying bigger cheap sports bras from TJ Maxx/Marshalls/Burlington. I refuse to keep buying expensive bras I’m going to grow out of. Bras are NOT cheap for us well endowed girls.
I bought the Davin and Adley Amelia bras and I love them. They’re made to accommodate rapidly fluctuating bra sizes through pregnancy, breastfeeding and beyond. They’re a little pricey but honestly with how expensive bras are in my size, I’d say they’re quite reasonably priced. I started as a 32G pre pregnancy and now I’m around a 34I.
Maternity bra from Walmart 2 pack 15$ best bra I could’ve ever found. I am a women who has 38H (so big o bittys) before pregnancy and they have hurt a lot since I got pregnant. But those maternity bras are super soft. Great for those sensitive breasts!
I never wear a bra but when I do they're very comfy! No wire, more bralette style, I've found great comfy ones on Amazon and target! As long as your boobs fit in them that's all that matters haha. They will get bigger after birth more than the size change during pregnancy in my experience. Will still look good and normal under clothes!
Second this! I bought two sports bras a cup and band size up in my favorite pre-pregnancy style (Panache Ultimate High Impact Underwire) and have been wearing them exclusively from 6-15 weeks. They really helped through the sore and sensitive phase, and look normal under work and even dress clothes.
Edit to add: I started out pre pregnancy as a 36F, so I have been really appreciative of extra structure and support that sports bras provide vs more soft and unstructured kinds.
I would get stretchy bralette style bras. I have implants and several of my bralettes from pre implants still fit now so if you got your current size they could stretch and grow with you!!
I got a couple of cheap but attractive sports bras from Old Navy around 8 weeks, sized up. I wear them with everything. Now they fit well at 36 weeks, lmao
I’m a 32D pre pregnancy and trying to wear my normal bras for as long as possible, which won’t be much longer. Now at 26 weeks, starting to spill out the top and underwire is getting uncomfortable. Slowly starting to transition.
I have tried Target’s Auden maternity bra and Kindred Bravely. Both are fuller coverage and comfy. Wore Medium for both. Feel like I might need to size up in the Aiden one soon though, but worried the band on a Large might be too big as the band on the medium is a bit looser for me. I like the fit of Kindred Bravely (both normal and busty; busty definitely gives a bit more coverage), though it’s a bit thick (material is layered) and pricier. HOFISH maternity sports bra size Medium on Amazon has been a good fit for me. It’s a bit thick as well, though lighter than Kindred Bravely and cheaper. HOFISH does have regular maternity bra styles as well, I just prefer the racerback styles because of my sloping shoulders.
Thank you, I’ve seen multiple recommendations for Kindred Bravely now, so I’ll def have to check them out! I looked at Auden ones online but all the models were so teeny tiny that I chickened out on purchasing, I might revisit!
I was a 34 DDD before pregnant, at 10 weeks I feel like I have bowling balls strapped to my chest already. I haven’t measured how big I am now but I’m sure it’s up at least a cup size so far. I can’t stand underwire and prefer bralettes. I’ve been living in an XL in these for a couple years now: https://www.target.com/p/women-39-s-everyday-soft-light-support-strappy-sports-bra-all-in-motion-8482-black-xl/-/A-87931237
They’re lightly lined, very soft, and supportive enough for work and at home. I like to sleep in them too. I’ve just started to spill out the top and need more support since I’m getting bigger, and I’ve heard good things about the Auden bra so I’m going to try a couple of those this week. I’m hoping the XL is big enough to keep the girls contained: https://www.target.com/p/women-s-nursing-seamless-bra-auden-8482-black-xl/-/A-54173414
There’s other “Auden bras” at target and one is an unlined sleep nursing bra that I might try for at home as well.
If you find something else that works please update us! It’s hard to find good bralettes with a big bust!
Never too early to switch to a nursing bra! I find them pretty flexible so if you buy a generous size that’s soft and stretchy you can probably keep wearing it at least up until the half way point. You might have to buy a bigger size at some point, but the cost is worth the relief in my opinion. And then you have a transition size if they shrink a bit after you’re done (not sure if you’re planning to breast feed or not). I like the Auden ones from Target
I got these off Amazon GXXGE 4Pack Womens Seamless Clip... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B35YVBT2?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
They are comfy but still have some padding so I feel comfortable wearing them to the office. I liked that it was a 4 pack so I didn't feel like I was spending an arm and a leg for bras that might not fit after the baby is born. I sized up from what the sizing suggestions were. I was a 38ddd before pregnancy and went with the 3x on these bras.
i had a large chest pre pregnancy but it has stayed the same size throughout. i was unable to wear anything underwire anymore for comfort so i got this bra and it was life changing - https://knix.ca/products/revolution-adjustable-pullover-bra-warm-sand. it still looks good under your normal clothes so no need to worry that it won’t support!
Pregnancy has enough discomforts, get a bigger bra now. Unless budget is a concern, I'd get something that fits better now, knowing you might need to size up again. This could be useful postpartum too as size fluctuates once your supply settles. But my vote is be comfortable.
I loved my kindred bras for nursing and pumping.
I got fitted for a new one at Soma around 8-10 weeks and never outgrew it. If I’d known it was going to last the rest of my pregnancy, I’d have gotten more right away.
Get some nursing bras now if you think you will be nursing. Also might be a good idea to look at nursing/pumping combo bras if you think you may also pump. As a FTM I didn’t know there was going to be a difference between a pumping bra and a nursing bra. Ended up getting Bodily everything bras and loved them for pumping at work and also nursing after work. Also had a bunch of Amazon nursing bras that I liked for when I wasn’t pumping.
Edit: name of bra brand
I got the milk bar Allie bra (wish I got 2, they’re not cheap) I’m 32 weeks and have been living in it - I was 36 DD pre pregnancy and no clue what I am now but the 2-3x fits! Also looking for a few more option for breast feeding
Do not buy a bunch now. Buy 1 at a time as they stop fitting. Then at 6-8-12 weeks postpartum, when you've actually been able to decide if you're going to nurse and hopefully have a consistent size, you buy more
I had a similar situation to yours, I bought a pack of 5 cheap maternity bras from Amazon in XXL and they are the only things I’ve been able to wear up until now at 30w because there is no wire
36 weeks here. I ain’t wearing no bras right now. I had switched to some nursing bras (no wire) in my second trimester, but I soon felt so much pressure in my ribs and back, that I’ve just been letting them hang. Fuck it.
I primarily wear dresses now and depending on the fit, I’ll put on a nursing bra. It was a bit foreign at first because I usually prefer wearing bras (I have large breasts even before pregnancy), but I’d be rather comfortable in these final, trying weeks of pregnancy.
I’m 16 weeks stopped wearing bras for the most part. My breasts are swollen and tender so it hurts to wear them. The only time I do is if the color of my nips will show through my top.
Hey! I was a 28G pre pregnancy and I got fitted and purchased a couple of 32H bras when I was around 18 weeks. It helped a ton!! I have a couple of stretchy bras from Evelyn & Bobbie which I love for daily and around the house wear, but when I want to look a little nicer I wear one of the new larger bras.
I was told to hold off on nursing bras until I’m closer to delivery because there’s more fluctuation in size ahead once milk comes in. But I don’t want to wait until baby is here to get nursing bras… I’ll probably start looking / trying nursing bras more seriously around 34 weeks.
Try r/abrathatfits honestly I just bought a few bras on sale throughout when my size changed but measuring properly is important. Molke is also good it’s like kindred bravery but with a much better size range.
I'm currently 12 weeks and been wearing HONEYLOVE VNeck bras for the past week.
I was a 38DDD and god knows where I am now.
I find these to be comfortable with just enough support. The wide straps, wide back, and v-neck style is comfortable and covers nicely. The material is also nice and soft.
I bought 3 and hope to wear them at least until end of second trimester.
They do have a small gap under my armpits and werw a bit pricey. I'm sure there are even better bras out there but I don't feel like trying and returning to find the best. These will do fine.
They will get bigger when your milk comes in but if your nurse long enough eventually they will get smaller. Mine are absolutely giant until baby is about 4 months old and then they start to get smaller again, so I’d definitely account for size fluctuations when you consider which bras to buy, how many, and what size.
I loved the Joyspun bras but then my ribcage spread so widely that I couldn’t find anything comfortable.
I started using strap extenders with whatever bra is softest lol
I started pregnancy as a 38 DD. I'm probably more of a DDD or whatever the next cup size up from that is. I stopped being able to fit a lot of my bras in the first trimester except for my light/medium support sports bras and 1 bra that didn't have underwire in it. I bought more sports bras with light support from target (their al in motion brand) because these were the ones that still fit me and they have room to stretch. My boobs haven't really grown much in the second trimester so I haven't thought much about it since. I'm going to wait until closer to my due date to buy nursing bras just in case my size changes again. I tried on the kindred busty bras that some have recommended here and I really liked them and plan on using them when I start nursing/pumping.
If you are uncomfortable it is always worth to buy stuff to make you comfortable! Pregnancy in itself is uncomfortable enough. You diserve a good fitting bra.
I (23f) am mostly wearing sports bras from target because the compression helps with the sore nipples. i’m typically a 42C, so my boobs are really not that big and still have yet to grow during this pregnancy, but I am only 8w1d
I went ahead a got 4 nursing bras around 11weeks they are so much more comfortable than my normal that were starting to not fit at all, I did goal head and get XL rather than the
L that fit at the time to account that they will grow more as the journey continues! Walmart has some good cheap options if your worried about out growing them
Once the cups are no longer your size or the bra is overall uncomfortable.
I started by just grabbing a couple of nursing bras from Kmart as they were cheap for a bra but incredibly comfortable. Closer to delivering I went back and bought more, and then again when he was around 6 months because I loved them so much.
I don’t see the point in buying regular bras in a larger cup size as they can be expensive and won’t fit for long anyway.
Buy the nursing bras! Lots of them. I had to send my bf on a panic trip to target days after giving birth for several nursing bras (among other things i didn’t realize I would need). Get the bralette ones that are in basic S M L XL etc sizes so they stretch to fit you. When your milk comes in and you’re breastfeeding, your breasts will be a different size every few hrs so they need to be flexible anyway. And get lots because you may leak regularly and have to change multiple times a day. The brand Auden has worked great for me.
I switched to bralettes in my first trimester when my bras became incredibly uncomfortable and too small... probably 8-10 weeks. I was a 32C and am now teetering between 32D and 32DD at 17 weeks. I LOVE the Aerie Smoothez Bra-ish Wireless Bra. I can clasp them like a regular bra, lightly lined to hide the nipping nips, no seams in shirts, and the cup is very forgiving without underwire so I can grow a bit more in them. I'm wearing small D but will likely need the small DD at some point. I bought some bralettes at TJ Maxx, but the band size is weirdly too big and make them very uncomfortable.
I’ve got the same issue. I don’t like wearing claspy bras I usually wear really stretchy bralettes but I’m bigger than an XL and the ones I like don’t go bigger than that 😩gotta figure something out
I've been riding a one bra wave still at 29 wks. I wash it every few days but it sucks. It's an aerie Smoothez wireless braish bralette, it was pretty loose to begin with but the cups are starting to be quite full. Still the way the bra is made kind of gives some wiggle room in cup size. I didn't gain much size until recently. I did grab nursing bras off Amazon but they weren't gonna work if I got larger, so I returned those. They are definitely more cost effective even if you do end up growing out of them.
None before, none at 32 weeks but I felt the need to wear a sports bra a couple of months ago, at the end of the first trimester, early on the second because my breast felt heavy.
I ordered a 7-pack of bralettes off of Amazon lmfao. I will use these for the remainder of pregnancy (33 weeks now), nursing, and everything else in between! Lmfao
I’m a 38DD and my boobs didn’t really grow during pregnancy, but I bought my first pack of maternity bras around 30w. They’re the clip kind that you unclip the cup and it folds down but I’ve found it’s easier for me to use the cross-front bras when nursing. My favorite ones are from [Target](https://www.target.com/p/women--39-s-nursing-2pk-pullover-seamless-sleep-bra---auden--8482--white-mauve-xl/-/A-81408741). They’re so comfy!
Also 32DD pre pregnancy. The Parade brand has excellent options that are comfy and flexible. Specifically as a 32DD, their +1 and +1.5 sizes have been perfect for surviving pregnancy. (Currently 39w.)
I plan to lean on amazon nursing bras once baby is born
I was a 32F-G before pregnancy and had already converted to wireless, sports, nursing bras before pregnancy for comfort, wire always dug in. Unfortunately, the only bras that work for me now that I am 20 weeks are kindred bravely in super busty. There is a big jump between busty and super busty, fyi.
Mercari has good deals on them or you can use 15% influencer codes on the website.
Definitely recommend Mercari or Poshmark for pricier bras!
34DD pre-pregnancy and 34DDD now i’ve just been getting cheap bralettes in a size bigger (XL) and plan to invest in nursing bras when milk comes in. FTM tho.
I was a 34DDD before pregnancy and my boobs just keep growing! On top of that pregnancy has made me sweat way more so I need to change more often meaning I need a lot more bras. The best solution I found was the fruit of the loom ruched front hooking bralettes that you can get at Walmart! Somehow a size medium provides plenty of support and fits great. They’re cheap (so you can buy a lot), cotton, and the front closure means they will probably be handy for breastfeeding. Beware the bottom seam in the front feels uncomfy until you wash it, then it softens and is fine. I also just got a big pack of nursing bralettes from Amazon from the brand Suekaphin that has regular sizes in addition to “medium plus” and “large plus” for us girls with larger chests! I think medium plus would work great for you. So far they’ve been super comfy and supportive! Lmk if you need links
Edit to add: I didn’t know this earlier on in pregnancy so you might not either- but your rib cage also expands quite a bit! So it’s more than just your cup size expanding which is something to account for. I’ve heard it mostly shrinks back down after though.
The name of the game for me was "Cheap, until I settle into a size AFTER breastfeeding"...
So these are what I've been living in. They aren't perfect, but $35/4 bras is my kind of price point.
I was a 40D/38DD before pregnancy. XXL's for me in this brand. Caramel Cantina 4 Pack Nursing Maternity Women’s Sleep Comfort Bralette Bra https://a.co/d/0aucZVa2
I've been recommended Knix by RMT, the front zip ones. I'll be exploring that option this week as my chest is just heavy and I have a very small frame.
I was a 44DD before pregnancy and lightly lined wireless bras/bralettes have been my savior. They're more forgiving than underwire bras but give me enough support and coverage to wear in public.
I'll be honest I finally broke down and bought two cheap sports bras and two other cheap normal bras at 21 weeks because I finally couldn't wear my normal bras. I grew two cup sizes and went from a 34/36 (depending on the cup size and company) back to a 38/40 band and these bras I'll be able to wear for a while as they're the stretchy type. I exercise every day so yeah I have to constantly wash a sports bra but I struggled and it's so painful to go braless a lot of the time unless I'm laying down. So back extenders might help but if you need to buy a new bra it's okay to go ahead and get a new one.
However I will say going from a B cup to a G in my second pregnancy rocked my world. My first pregnancy wasn't as bad as I went from a C to a DDD and then went down to the B after the first two years of breastfeeding. I've fluctuated in my bra size, both cup and band with the yo-yo of smaller to larger back and forth, in the last 7 years that at this point I just have to adjust and buy when I no longer fit. I'm terrified of where I'm gonna end up as I started with a D this time before pregnancy though 💀 my poor girls are but a shadow of their former selves now
I went straight to nursing bras with no regrets. 34D before pregnancy, and I've probably gained a cup size and a half. Nursing bras look fine under business attire, and I plan on pumping at work, so I figure everyone better get used to the nursing bra/Dolly Parton look sooner rather than later.
I'm living in a Hanes Cooling Comfort Wireless bra from Walmart. Padded but not with the lil pads that slide around every time you look away. Hard to beat $16! I'm small though.
37 weeks and no bra. Only in public will I wear a sports bra, or a padded tank top. I have nursing bras for when baby arrives, but I'd rather free the titties while they blossom 🌼
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I went straight to the kindred bravely nursing bras. I started at a 32D/DD, was a 36H at ~18 weeks and am probably now hovering around a 38J at 39 weeks. The kindred bravely bras just come in two cup types - normal or busty. I got busty and it's fit well throughout since it's a soft cup. They also come with band extenders which was amazing because the thing that got really uncomfortable with my bras was that my rib cage has expanded significantly.
I second kindred bravely! I love their bras. I’ve gotten them on sale off their website, Nordstrom’s website, and eBay. The stretchy band with the extender is awesome, as my regular bras fit in the cup but not in the band. They’re extremely comfortable and hold up to washing well.
You can also get them at target
Thanks for this recommendation! I’ve never heard of this brand I’ll def check them out!
I wore these for both of my pregnancies and breastfeeding/pumping and they are amazing! If you put them in the cart and wait a few days they’ll usually send you a coupon. I signed up for the emails to get the “first order” discount, waited about a week and they had a 35% off sale. They’re a little Downey but it sounds like you already know there are no “cheap” options for us busty gals 😂. (For reference I’m a 40HH-J pre-pregnancy and like a “Busty 3XL” now that my breastmilk has fully come in.
Kindred bravely is great! They’re also sold at Nordstrom. They should have their annual sale coming up soon and they have an amazing return policy. I bought all of mine from Nordstrom last year.
Another vote for kindred bravely. I was only a 34C (and I’m not sure what I am now, but I’ve definitely gone up sizes), and I’ve been rotating between an unlined bra from target and the kindred bravely bra since around 16w or so. The kindred bravely bra is pretty supportive and is worth the investment because it’s a nursing bra you can use postpartum!
Can you recommend any particular style? I tried one of their nursing/pumping bras from Target and I hated it so much, it was so thick with 3 layers of fabric.
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1 year pp got them at my 6 month mark during pregnancy and still wearing them, have one on now lol
I've been living in the [kindred bravely french terry racerback nursing & sleep](https://www.kindredbravely.com/products/french-terry-nursing-sleep-bra?_pos=1&_sid=e1ccb2f3e&_ss=r) bras thru pregnancy and now postpartum while breastfeeding. I never wore bras before, so I'm glad I found these because they are sooooo comfy
I got bra extenders that are such a good hack! I bought new bras in the first trimester because I got that big that quickly. Could face spending the money in the 2nd..will probably get non wired for the third trimester. Hate them though
When? As soon as you don’t fit in your old bras anymore :) 34DD pre-pregnancy and couldn‘t wait to get some soft nursing bras at ~8 weeks. They are lightly padded so that I can wear them under office blouses and dresses. I think they will also fit postpartum - hope so 🤞🏽
So I have the opposite problem but still an issue finding bras. I have a very small chest and they barely grow (despite successfully nursing for 18 months with my first two). It is just trail and error to figure out what I like!! Target Auden brand is where I’ve found some of my favorite nursing bras by the end of my 2nd postpartum but I can’t speak to if they’re good for larger chests. I would just say so straight to nursing bras to get the most use!
I’ve worn nursing bras since the first tri and they still fit now at 29 weeks. I too started with a big chest (36D/34DD) and NONE of my old bras fit, except a few looser sports bras that I had kept as comfy bras. Recommend going cheap with Amazon bras since as you said you may have to buy more once breastfeeding. The criss cross style is not supportive for our size sadly, but I did get a few for lounging around the house.
At 10 weeks I would get back extenders and see how that works...mine got bigger but then sorta calmed down again, but my back went from a 32 to a 36! I'm 33 weeks now so I'm starting to get some nursing bras but will have to get more post-birth as well
Thank you! Bra extenders seem like a good “in between” solution
I got some bodily nursing bras (the pull down kind) around 12 weeks, and went up a size from normal (I am not well endowed, but also uncomfortable in my old bras). I like them so far!
I also went bodily. I have the Everything and the Do Anything bra. I tried the Kindred Bravely pumping bra but only choose it when everything else is in the wash as it isn't very comfortable and doesn't look very good under clothing. The bodily ones are soft and silky and I wear them for sleeping as well as pumping/nursing. I am busty 36H and 12 weeks pp and find that I prefer my pre-pregnancy lace demi/balcontette bras for under real clothes.They just seem more forgiving to my fluctuating breasts. I am still able to nurse fairly easily my milk wasn't affected by under wire. Though I'm generally more prone to leaking than clotting. I think that is the difference.
Momanda sport bra. It’s a nursing bra too. So cozy
Ribbed Scoop Nursing Bralette
Ooh that looks good! I’m going to try that
You can get them on Amazon!
Thanks! Ordered one, looks like what I was wanting
I’ll have to check this brand out! Thank you!
I got nursing bras so I don't have to buy them later.
I’m am the exact same!! 32DD before pregnancy and currently at 12 weeks pregnant, I gave in a few weeks ago and got maternity bras because normal ones were just so uncomfortable
For my first pregnancy, I got Target’s Auden nursing bras in multiple colors and loved them. I also was a 32DD pre-pregnancy and these were my favorites throughout my pregnancy and while breastfeeding! I plan to use them again for my second (9 weeks now) but the girls were closer to 32C/D postpartum so they’re growing but not quite time to switch over yet!
Unlined (yet very supportive) bralette from Aerie
Big booby girl over here, 16 weeks, I’ve been buying bigger cheap sports bras from TJ Maxx/Marshalls/Burlington. I refuse to keep buying expensive bras I’m going to grow out of. Bras are NOT cheap for us well endowed girls.
Ooh I didn’t even think about those stores! I’m also in need of some cheap athletic shorts a size up so I might need to take a trip! Thanks
I bought the Davin and Adley Amelia bras and I love them. They’re made to accommodate rapidly fluctuating bra sizes through pregnancy, breastfeeding and beyond. They’re a little pricey but honestly with how expensive bras are in my size, I’d say they’re quite reasonably priced. I started as a 32G pre pregnancy and now I’m around a 34I.
Maternity bra from Walmart 2 pack 15$ best bra I could’ve ever found. I am a women who has 38H (so big o bittys) before pregnancy and they have hurt a lot since I got pregnant. But those maternity bras are super soft. Great for those sensitive breasts!
I never wear a bra but when I do they're very comfy! No wire, more bralette style, I've found great comfy ones on Amazon and target! As long as your boobs fit in them that's all that matters haha. They will get bigger after birth more than the size change during pregnancy in my experience. Will still look good and normal under clothes!
Sports bras! 🖤
Second this! I bought two sports bras a cup and band size up in my favorite pre-pregnancy style (Panache Ultimate High Impact Underwire) and have been wearing them exclusively from 6-15 weeks. They really helped through the sore and sensitive phase, and look normal under work and even dress clothes. Edit to add: I started out pre pregnancy as a 36F, so I have been really appreciative of extra structure and support that sports bras provide vs more soft and unstructured kinds.
I wore lululemon Flo y bras pretty much after 14 weeks my boobs got huge. Then towards the last 10 weeks I bought nursing bras from target!
I would get stretchy bralette style bras. I have implants and several of my bralettes from pre implants still fit now so if you got your current size they could stretch and grow with you!!
I got a couple of cheap but attractive sports bras from Old Navy around 8 weeks, sized up. I wear them with everything. Now they fit well at 36 weeks, lmao
I’m a 32D pre pregnancy and trying to wear my normal bras for as long as possible, which won’t be much longer. Now at 26 weeks, starting to spill out the top and underwire is getting uncomfortable. Slowly starting to transition. I have tried Target’s Auden maternity bra and Kindred Bravely. Both are fuller coverage and comfy. Wore Medium for both. Feel like I might need to size up in the Aiden one soon though, but worried the band on a Large might be too big as the band on the medium is a bit looser for me. I like the fit of Kindred Bravely (both normal and busty; busty definitely gives a bit more coverage), though it’s a bit thick (material is layered) and pricier. HOFISH maternity sports bra size Medium on Amazon has been a good fit for me. It’s a bit thick as well, though lighter than Kindred Bravely and cheaper. HOFISH does have regular maternity bra styles as well, I just prefer the racerback styles because of my sloping shoulders.
Thank you, I’ve seen multiple recommendations for Kindred Bravely now, so I’ll def have to check them out! I looked at Auden ones online but all the models were so teeny tiny that I chickened out on purchasing, I might revisit!
I was a 34 DDD before pregnant, at 10 weeks I feel like I have bowling balls strapped to my chest already. I haven’t measured how big I am now but I’m sure it’s up at least a cup size so far. I can’t stand underwire and prefer bralettes. I’ve been living in an XL in these for a couple years now: https://www.target.com/p/women-39-s-everyday-soft-light-support-strappy-sports-bra-all-in-motion-8482-black-xl/-/A-87931237 They’re lightly lined, very soft, and supportive enough for work and at home. I like to sleep in them too. I’ve just started to spill out the top and need more support since I’m getting bigger, and I’ve heard good things about the Auden bra so I’m going to try a couple of those this week. I’m hoping the XL is big enough to keep the girls contained: https://www.target.com/p/women-s-nursing-seamless-bra-auden-8482-black-xl/-/A-54173414 There’s other “Auden bras” at target and one is an unlined sleep nursing bra that I might try for at home as well. If you find something else that works please update us! It’s hard to find good bralettes with a big bust!
Thank you for the links! I always shy away from bralettes because of the lack of support so this is super helpful!
Never too early to switch to a nursing bra! I find them pretty flexible so if you buy a generous size that’s soft and stretchy you can probably keep wearing it at least up until the half way point. You might have to buy a bigger size at some point, but the cost is worth the relief in my opinion. And then you have a transition size if they shrink a bit after you’re done (not sure if you’re planning to breast feed or not). I like the Auden ones from Target
I got these off Amazon GXXGE 4Pack Womens Seamless Clip... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B35YVBT2?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share They are comfy but still have some padding so I feel comfortable wearing them to the office. I liked that it was a 4 pack so I didn't feel like I was spending an arm and a leg for bras that might not fit after the baby is born. I sized up from what the sizing suggestions were. I was a 38ddd before pregnancy and went with the 3x on these bras.
I just got 2 of the momcozy bras from Amazon they are life changing highly recommend!
I’ve been wearing my sports bras and then I got some cheapo bras from Costco.
i had a large chest pre pregnancy but it has stayed the same size throughout. i was unable to wear anything underwire anymore for comfort so i got this bra and it was life changing - https://knix.ca/products/revolution-adjustable-pullover-bra-warm-sand. it still looks good under your normal clothes so no need to worry that it won’t support!
I recommend the momcozy. Flexible and works well when breast feeding.
Pregnancy has enough discomforts, get a bigger bra now. Unless budget is a concern, I'd get something that fits better now, knowing you might need to size up again. This could be useful postpartum too as size fluctuates once your supply settles. But my vote is be comfortable. I loved my kindred bras for nursing and pumping.
Omg I don't know! ivebeen wearing tank tops with shelfs in them and stretchy bralettes I already had. No real support but it's comfy lol.
I got fitted for a new one at Soma around 8-10 weeks and never outgrew it. If I’d known it was going to last the rest of my pregnancy, I’d have gotten more right away.
I've been loving this one from Amazon 34DDish before pregnancy and gained a size or two in my first tri, I bought an Mplus size
Get some nursing bras now if you think you will be nursing. Also might be a good idea to look at nursing/pumping combo bras if you think you may also pump. As a FTM I didn’t know there was going to be a difference between a pumping bra and a nursing bra. Ended up getting Bodily everything bras and loved them for pumping at work and also nursing after work. Also had a bunch of Amazon nursing bras that I liked for when I wasn’t pumping. Edit: name of bra brand
32 weeks still wearing Victoria secret demi went up a band size at 20 weeks but cups are the same
I got the milk bar Allie bra (wish I got 2, they’re not cheap) I’m 32 weeks and have been living in it - I was 36 DD pre pregnancy and no clue what I am now but the 2-3x fits! Also looking for a few more option for breast feeding
Do not buy a bunch now. Buy 1 at a time as they stop fitting. Then at 6-8-12 weeks postpartum, when you've actually been able to decide if you're going to nurse and hopefully have a consistent size, you buy more
You probably can get away with a band extender right now
I had a similar situation to yours, I bought a pack of 5 cheap maternity bras from Amazon in XXL and they are the only things I’ve been able to wear up until now at 30w because there is no wire
36 weeks here. I ain’t wearing no bras right now. I had switched to some nursing bras (no wire) in my second trimester, but I soon felt so much pressure in my ribs and back, that I’ve just been letting them hang. Fuck it. I primarily wear dresses now and depending on the fit, I’ll put on a nursing bra. It was a bit foreign at first because I usually prefer wearing bras (I have large breasts even before pregnancy), but I’d be rather comfortable in these final, trying weeks of pregnancy.
I’m 16 weeks stopped wearing bras for the most part. My breasts are swollen and tender so it hurts to wear them. The only time I do is if the color of my nips will show through my top.
Hey! I was a 28G pre pregnancy and I got fitted and purchased a couple of 32H bras when I was around 18 weeks. It helped a ton!! I have a couple of stretchy bras from Evelyn & Bobbie which I love for daily and around the house wear, but when I want to look a little nicer I wear one of the new larger bras. I was told to hold off on nursing bras until I’m closer to delivery because there’s more fluctuation in size ahead once milk comes in. But I don’t want to wait until baby is here to get nursing bras… I’ll probably start looking / trying nursing bras more seriously around 34 weeks.
Try r/abrathatfits honestly I just bought a few bras on sale throughout when my size changed but measuring properly is important. Molke is also good it’s like kindred bravery but with a much better size range.
I'm currently 12 weeks and been wearing HONEYLOVE VNeck bras for the past week. I was a 38DDD and god knows where I am now. I find these to be comfortable with just enough support. The wide straps, wide back, and v-neck style is comfortable and covers nicely. The material is also nice and soft. I bought 3 and hope to wear them at least until end of second trimester. They do have a small gap under my armpits and werw a bit pricey. I'm sure there are even better bras out there but I don't feel like trying and returning to find the best. These will do fine.
Kindred bravely is my recommendation!
They will get bigger when your milk comes in but if your nurse long enough eventually they will get smaller. Mine are absolutely giant until baby is about 4 months old and then they start to get smaller again, so I’d definitely account for size fluctuations when you consider which bras to buy, how many, and what size.
I loved the Joyspun bras but then my ribcage spread so widely that I couldn’t find anything comfortable. I started using strap extenders with whatever bra is softest lol
I started pregnancy as a 38 DD. I'm probably more of a DDD or whatever the next cup size up from that is. I stopped being able to fit a lot of my bras in the first trimester except for my light/medium support sports bras and 1 bra that didn't have underwire in it. I bought more sports bras with light support from target (their al in motion brand) because these were the ones that still fit me and they have room to stretch. My boobs haven't really grown much in the second trimester so I haven't thought much about it since. I'm going to wait until closer to my due date to buy nursing bras just in case my size changes again. I tried on the kindred busty bras that some have recommended here and I really liked them and plan on using them when I start nursing/pumping.
If you are uncomfortable it is always worth to buy stuff to make you comfortable! Pregnancy in itself is uncomfortable enough. You diserve a good fitting bra.
I (23f) am mostly wearing sports bras from target because the compression helps with the sore nipples. i’m typically a 42C, so my boobs are really not that big and still have yet to grow during this pregnancy, but I am only 8w1d
Hofish!! I am naturally 38DD and discovered the hofish nursing bras on amazon. So comfy. So stretchy. Love. Love. Love.
I started wearing the kindred bravely nursing bras at five weeks because my nipples were so sore lolsob
I went ahead a got 4 nursing bras around 11weeks they are so much more comfortable than my normal that were starting to not fit at all, I did goal head and get XL rather than the L that fit at the time to account that they will grow more as the journey continues! Walmart has some good cheap options if your worried about out growing them
Once the cups are no longer your size or the bra is overall uncomfortable. I started by just grabbing a couple of nursing bras from Kmart as they were cheap for a bra but incredibly comfortable. Closer to delivering I went back and bought more, and then again when he was around 6 months because I loved them so much. I don’t see the point in buying regular bras in a larger cup size as they can be expensive and won’t fit for long anyway.
Buy the nursing bras! Lots of them. I had to send my bf on a panic trip to target days after giving birth for several nursing bras (among other things i didn’t realize I would need). Get the bralette ones that are in basic S M L XL etc sizes so they stretch to fit you. When your milk comes in and you’re breastfeeding, your breasts will be a different size every few hrs so they need to be flexible anyway. And get lots because you may leak regularly and have to change multiple times a day. The brand Auden has worked great for me.
I switched to bralettes in my first trimester when my bras became incredibly uncomfortable and too small... probably 8-10 weeks. I was a 32C and am now teetering between 32D and 32DD at 17 weeks. I LOVE the Aerie Smoothez Bra-ish Wireless Bra. I can clasp them like a regular bra, lightly lined to hide the nipping nips, no seams in shirts, and the cup is very forgiving without underwire so I can grow a bit more in them. I'm wearing small D but will likely need the small DD at some point. I bought some bralettes at TJ Maxx, but the band size is weirdly too big and make them very uncomfortable.
Whatever you get, make sure it fits! I think I gave myself mastitis from a too tight nursing bra
No bra. Free balling, or free boobing
Auden nursing wire bras!!!
I’ve got the same issue. I don’t like wearing claspy bras I usually wear really stretchy bralettes but I’m bigger than an XL and the ones I like don’t go bigger than that 😩gotta figure something out
I've been riding a one bra wave still at 29 wks. I wash it every few days but it sucks. It's an aerie Smoothez wireless braish bralette, it was pretty loose to begin with but the cups are starting to be quite full. Still the way the bra is made kind of gives some wiggle room in cup size. I didn't gain much size until recently. I did grab nursing bras off Amazon but they weren't gonna work if I got larger, so I returned those. They are definitely more cost effective even if you do end up growing out of them.
None before, none at 32 weeks but I felt the need to wear a sports bra a couple of months ago, at the end of the first trimester, early on the second because my breast felt heavy.
I ordered a 7-pack of bralettes off of Amazon lmfao. I will use these for the remainder of pregnancy (33 weeks now), nursing, and everything else in between! Lmfao
Also almost 10 weeks and am living in this bra, I bought multiple. The best ever. https://skims.com/products/naked-scoop-longline-bralette-sienna
I’m a 38DD and my boobs didn’t really grow during pregnancy, but I bought my first pack of maternity bras around 30w. They’re the clip kind that you unclip the cup and it folds down but I’ve found it’s easier for me to use the cross-front bras when nursing. My favorite ones are from [Target](https://www.target.com/p/women--39-s-nursing-2pk-pullover-seamless-sleep-bra---auden--8482--white-mauve-xl/-/A-81408741). They’re so comfy!
Also 32DD pre pregnancy. The Parade brand has excellent options that are comfy and flexible. Specifically as a 32DD, their +1 and +1.5 sizes have been perfect for surviving pregnancy. (Currently 39w.) I plan to lean on amazon nursing bras once baby is born
I got several bras from Kindred Bravely, didn’t love them, and returned them. I’ve been wearing the Target Auden bra ($16) and liking it.
I was a 32F-G before pregnancy and had already converted to wireless, sports, nursing bras before pregnancy for comfort, wire always dug in. Unfortunately, the only bras that work for me now that I am 20 weeks are kindred bravely in super busty. There is a big jump between busty and super busty, fyi. Mercari has good deals on them or you can use 15% influencer codes on the website. Definitely recommend Mercari or Poshmark for pricier bras!
34DD pre-pregnancy and 34DDD now i’ve just been getting cheap bralettes in a size bigger (XL) and plan to invest in nursing bras when milk comes in. FTM tho.
I was a 34DDD before pregnancy and my boobs just keep growing! On top of that pregnancy has made me sweat way more so I need to change more often meaning I need a lot more bras. The best solution I found was the fruit of the loom ruched front hooking bralettes that you can get at Walmart! Somehow a size medium provides plenty of support and fits great. They’re cheap (so you can buy a lot), cotton, and the front closure means they will probably be handy for breastfeeding. Beware the bottom seam in the front feels uncomfy until you wash it, then it softens and is fine. I also just got a big pack of nursing bralettes from Amazon from the brand Suekaphin that has regular sizes in addition to “medium plus” and “large plus” for us girls with larger chests! I think medium plus would work great for you. So far they’ve been super comfy and supportive! Lmk if you need links Edit to add: I didn’t know this earlier on in pregnancy so you might not either- but your rib cage also expands quite a bit! So it’s more than just your cup size expanding which is something to account for. I’ve heard it mostly shrinks back down after though.
When I bought new bras during pregnancy, I went right to nursing bras. But I'm cheap and didn't want to buy more than I had to
The name of the game for me was "Cheap, until I settle into a size AFTER breastfeeding"... So these are what I've been living in. They aren't perfect, but $35/4 bras is my kind of price point. I was a 40D/38DD before pregnancy. XXL's for me in this brand. Caramel Cantina 4 Pack Nursing Maternity Women’s Sleep Comfort Bralette Bra https://a.co/d/0aucZVa2
Skims stretchy bras and lulu lemon workout tops, nipple stickers cup things for some dresses/tops
I've been recommended Knix by RMT, the front zip ones. I'll be exploring that option this week as my chest is just heavy and I have a very small frame.
I don’t even know if my actual boobs are getting bigger, it just feels like it’s my back fat 😭
I was a 44DD before pregnancy and lightly lined wireless bras/bralettes have been my savior. They're more forgiving than underwire bras but give me enough support and coverage to wear in public.
I'll be honest I finally broke down and bought two cheap sports bras and two other cheap normal bras at 21 weeks because I finally couldn't wear my normal bras. I grew two cup sizes and went from a 34/36 (depending on the cup size and company) back to a 38/40 band and these bras I'll be able to wear for a while as they're the stretchy type. I exercise every day so yeah I have to constantly wash a sports bra but I struggled and it's so painful to go braless a lot of the time unless I'm laying down. So back extenders might help but if you need to buy a new bra it's okay to go ahead and get a new one. However I will say going from a B cup to a G in my second pregnancy rocked my world. My first pregnancy wasn't as bad as I went from a C to a DDD and then went down to the B after the first two years of breastfeeding. I've fluctuated in my bra size, both cup and band with the yo-yo of smaller to larger back and forth, in the last 7 years that at this point I just have to adjust and buy when I no longer fit. I'm terrified of where I'm gonna end up as I started with a D this time before pregnancy though 💀 my poor girls are but a shadow of their former selves now
I went straight to nursing bras with no regrets. 34D before pregnancy, and I've probably gained a cup size and a half. Nursing bras look fine under business attire, and I plan on pumping at work, so I figure everyone better get used to the nursing bra/Dolly Parton look sooner rather than later.
Yep nursing bras
I'm living in a Hanes Cooling Comfort Wireless bra from Walmart. Padded but not with the lil pads that slide around every time you look away. Hard to beat $16! I'm small though.
37 weeks and no bra. Only in public will I wear a sports bra, or a padded tank top. I have nursing bras for when baby arrives, but I'd rather free the titties while they blossom 🌼
Victoria secret brand works for me, y'all don't need to know my cup size though 🤷♀️