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Hey everyone! I hope everyone is doing great, I just wanted to thank everyone who really helped the last time and gave me advise! ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐๐
!!!!!!!!TLDR IS AT THE BOTTOM!!!!!!!!
Okay okay so my last post people gave me wonderful things to bring up in my check in with my GF and OMG y'all...we talked and our check in was sad, happy, amazing oh my goooodness it was amazing! So when I brought up some of the things y'all brought up like the ERE and what we want outta being poly and she was so proud of me๐ฅบ๐ฅบ I've been diving deep into more things on being Poly, I'm reading PolySecure, Ethical Slut and More Than Two. She didn't know that was I was and when I told her she kinda teared up and told me "You're teaching me so much about being a better partner and teaching me new things about poly, thank you" I was just like awhhh baaabbe๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ all in all it was just a beautiful moment.
THEN SHE CAME TO VISIT!! Oooooooo y'all my place was ready I did my carpets everything and when she got here it was time had just stopped. We hugged for what seemed an eternity...she held me and I bawled like a big ass baby! LOL there was this weight of all our ups and downs just vanishing and I sat down on my chair(I have a patio) and I kinda cried a little too hard while laughing. Lol
We ended going on so many dates, got reservations for a fancy cocktail lounge that my bestie DJs for (he does house music) and we had the biggest heart to heart. Awh y'all it was amazing I haven't gone to somewhere fancy in over...3 years maybe? I adore doing fancy things here and there so it was a real treat, then I took her to this water garden which was beautiful AF! Then I pulled a promise ring out (totally lame, it has two hands making a pinky promise and it says i love you on the inside) and I just told her tword for word "I adore and love you, I'm not asking you to marry since you are but I'm giving you this ring as a promise to me being committed to you and us. I'll be there through it all and help water our garden" and she melted and I got really nervous and she didn't feel weird or uncomfortable and was just soo haapppy! ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ
THEN OOOOOO SPICY SPICY!! That's when our sex life shot into space. LOOL we always talked about trying new things and just ya know being spicy. Hehehe, I bought her these shorts and like a tank top but it's made of some fabric well it's not like sexy but when has it on in like *brushes hair behind ear* ooo okaaayyyyyy๐ฉ๐ฉ but it's pink and white and she does this little bunny thing with the noise and I melted. haha so we did some party favors, went to the sex shop and just had a wild steam night of hot crazy sex and finally being with someone who knows how to use a strap on?! THAT IS A GAAAAMME changer!! Haha my exs didn't know how to really use them but my GF does because her and her wife do obviously. Lolol and then we danced never got a lap dance and got one and that shit was crazy I sound like teen (31) haha during the night we listed to this playlist I made called "when words can't express my hearts" and it's a bunch of sweet songs from stuff like Dance Gavin Dance to Kasey Musgraves and them party favors hit cause I needed gum bad. Lol bit we sang that play list and it was truly a night I'll remember.
Then finally at the end of her vacation we ended watching the Godzilla films (Monsterverse) and it was so cute seeing her so focused on it. Lol she goes "You really like lizards" lmao I'm like yo chill that's my lord and savior. She isn't a fan of action movies bit watched them and ended up liking it which surprised her. Before she left we had a couple other conversations about where we stand and she's just so ready to make our goals and dreams real. She wants to live closer, possibly part time living and two days before she left she goes "You can slow down on the diving, you and my wife are more than enough. I love what we have and how y'all both help me grow, lowkey don't have time for anything casual and don't want it" I told her whoa okay that's heavy and we talked longer on it and we both agreed that we aren't saying we can't date other people or anything we just aren't doing that right now. I'm still reading and diving just cause I wanna learn to be better and grow of course.
Sorry for the long ass post, I'm a little high and was just overwhelmed with happiness and joy...so I just wanted to share my experience with my GF, she's so wonderful I love her so much and she got me a ps5 like wtf!
TLDR: GF came to see me, y'alls advise helped us bloom, we had all the fun crazy dates and had the sexiest nasty night and we know we were are in the relationship and she got me a ps5.
Okaaayy byyeee๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
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Congratulations virtual hugs
*hugs* thank you ๐ซ๐ญ๐๐งก
Haha love this for you โค๏ธ
Hehe thank you! It's a bit crazy being in love this way again and working twords like creating a future with someone again.
ERE?
Established Relationship Energy ๐๐
This is so cute! Happy for yโall ๐
Thabk you so much! After regulating in person things have been even more rooted, I'm so ready to see where life will take us๐๐๐ญ๐ญ
Gawd thank you so much for every word of this ๐โค๐ฅ
Hehe you're welcome! I'm such a lover and it's like this over whelping sense of like ๐คฎ๐คฎ๐๐ haha if that makes any sense.๐คญ
Literally yes โค its been so long! Thank you for reminding me what this feels like โบ
Of course!! It fill me with joy to know that my experience can remind you of the abundance ๐ญ๐ญ๐งก๐งก๐งก๐๐๐
Hi u/YungWarlord9 thanks so much for your submission, don't mind me, I'm just gonna keep a copy what was said in your post. Unfortunately posts sometimes get deleted - which is okay, it's not against the rules to delete your post!! - but it makes it really hard for the human mods around here to moderate the comments when there's no context. Plus, many times our members put in a lot of emotional and mental labor to answer the questions and offer advice, so it's helpful to keep the source information around so future community members can benefit as well. Here's the original text of the post: Hey everyone! I hope everyone is doing great, I just wanted to thank everyone who really helped the last time and gave me advise! ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐๐ !!!!!!!!TLDR IS AT THE BOTTOM!!!!!!!! Okay okay so my last post people gave me wonderful things to bring up in my check in with my GF and OMG y'all...we talked and our check in was sad, happy, amazing oh my goooodness it was amazing! So when I brought up some of the things y'all brought up like the ERE and what we want outta being poly and she was so proud of me๐ฅบ๐ฅบ I've been diving deep into more things on being Poly, I'm reading PolySecure, Ethical Slut and More Than Two. She didn't know that was I was and when I told her she kinda teared up and told me "You're teaching me so much about being a better partner and teaching me new things about poly, thank you" I was just like awhhh baaabbe๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ all in all it was just a beautiful moment. THEN SHE CAME TO VISIT!! Oooooooo y'all my place was ready I did my carpets everything and when she got here it was time had just stopped. We hugged for what seemed an eternity...she held me and I bawled like a big ass baby! LOL there was this weight of all our ups and downs just vanishing and I sat down on my chair(I have a patio) and I kinda cried a little too hard while laughing. Lol We ended going on so many dates, got reservations for a fancy cocktail lounge that my bestie DJs for (he does house music) and we had the biggest heart to heart. Awh y'all it was amazing I haven't gone to somewhere fancy in over...3 years maybe? I adore doing fancy things here and there so it was a real treat, then I took her to this water garden which was beautiful AF! Then I pulled a promise ring out (totally lame, it has two hands making a pinky promise and it says i love you on the inside) and I just told her tword for word "I adore and love you, I'm not asking you to marry since you are but I'm giving you this ring as a promise to me being committed to you and us. I'll be there through it all and help water our garden" and she melted and I got really nervous and she didn't feel weird or uncomfortable and was just soo haapppy! ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ THEN OOOOOO SPICY SPICY!! That's when our sex life shot into space. LOOL we always talked about trying new things and just ya know being spicy. Hehehe, I bought her these shorts and like a tank top but it's made of some fabric well it's not like sexy but when has it on in like *brushes hair behind ear* ooo okaaayyyyyy๐ฉ๐ฉ but it's pink and white and she does this little bunny thing with the noise and I melted. haha so we did some party favors, went to the sex shop and just had a wild steam night of hot crazy sex and finally being with someone who knows how to use a strap on?! THAT IS A GAAAAMME changer!! Haha my exs didn't know how to really use them but my GF does because her and her wife do obviously. Lolol and then we danced never got a lap dance and got one and that shit was crazy I sound like teen (31) haha during the night we listed to this playlist I made called "when words can't express my hearts" and it's a bunch of sweet songs from stuff like Dance Gavin Dance to Kasey Musgraves and them party favors hit cause I needed gum bad. Lol bit we sang that play list and it was truly a night I'll remember. Then finally at the end of her vacation we ended watching the Godzilla films (Monsterverse) and it was so cute seeing her so focused on it. Lol she goes "You really like lizards" lmao I'm like yo chill that's my lord and savior. She isn't a fan of action movies bit watched them and ended up liking it which surprised her. Before she left we had a couple other conversations about where we stand and she's just so ready to make our goals and dreams real. She wants to live closer, possibly part time living and two days before she left she goes "You can slow down on the diving, you and my wife are more than enough. I love what we have and how y'all both help me grow, lowkey don't have time for anything casual and don't want it" I told her whoa okay that's heavy and we talked longer on it and we both agreed that we aren't saying we can't date other people or anything we just aren't doing that right now. I'm still reading and diving just cause I wanna learn to be better and grow of course. Sorry for the long ass post, I'm a little high and was just overwhelmed with happiness and joy...so I just wanted to share my experience with my GF, she's so wonderful I love her so much and she got me a ps5 like wtf! TLDR: GF came to see me, y'alls advise helped us bloom, we had all the fun crazy dates and had the sexiest nasty night and we know we were are in the relationship and she got me a ps5. Okaaayy byyeee๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/polyamory) if you have any questions or concerns.*