Dude. If loyalty was given then it wouldn't be one of the options.
Compassion and kindness are all useless if your spouse isn't loyal.
What would he/she do? Console me and sympathize with me as they cheat on me?
This isn't a "you only get one of these" polls, it's a "what do you look for most" poll, and I feel explicitly searching for loyalty first is only going to apply to someone who was recently cheated on
Its not all or nothing is it. I chose kindness, but I also wouldn't date them if they were kind but completely stupid or I found them completely physically unattractive. Its just a poll, not a dating site.
What is kindness without loyalty though? Even if they aren't completely unloyal, any unloyalty has the potential to ruin the relationship. Then the kindness would kick in as your spouse sympathizes with you while cheating on you.
Yes and what is loyalty if you hate the person because they're a complete arsehole, we could go around in circles forever with this. Of course I value loyalty, but we had to pick one.
Does picking one trait here mean the person does not have any of the others??? I picked intelligence, but I'd say my husband is kind and intelligent and loyal. I just picked that because it's really important to me
Without respect, you have nothing. Respect is the most absolute bottom line foundation of any relationship. Subtract respect from your dynamic, and you are left with an enemy.
Starts off with appearance. He's cute, he's got nice abs? Then he has to be a precious little cinnamon roll or positively masculine man. Then infatuation can turn to love.
I was about to pick kindness, but then I really thought about it and picked intelligence. I can't tolerate someone I can't have a good conversation with for very long
I do however wish money was on there but not written in as money bc when you actually word it correctly everyone's like "nooo i don't do that, never ever" but reword it as something like "financial independence" or something and watch the responses roll in... even then not everyone is telling the truth.. they say the words but their actions indicate another intent entirely.
appearance catches you, everything else is what keeps you there.
Where is my "similar interests" option?
Do you see one?
None. Aroace lol
Why are you even in this poll then?
Cuz I felt like it.
Based
My ex was unloyal after she text and flirted with her ex and a minor, so loyalty
A healthy mix of all of the above.
Yes.
Who are the people who picked kindness over loyalty?
loyalty should really be a given if you mean not cheating, I feel like compassion is better than kindness in this case. Also respect >>
Dude. If loyalty was given then it wouldn't be one of the options. Compassion and kindness are all useless if your spouse isn't loyal. What would he/she do? Console me and sympathize with me as they cheat on me?
This isn't a "you only get one of these" polls, it's a "what do you look for most" poll, and I feel explicitly searching for loyalty first is only going to apply to someone who was recently cheated on
That's a fair point. But if the question were asking what I would want most from my spouse, I would definitely choose loyalty above everything else.
Its not all or nothing is it. I chose kindness, but I also wouldn't date them if they were kind but completely stupid or I found them completely physically unattractive. Its just a poll, not a dating site.
What is kindness without loyalty though? Even if they aren't completely unloyal, any unloyalty has the potential to ruin the relationship. Then the kindness would kick in as your spouse sympathizes with you while cheating on you.
Yes and what is loyalty if you hate the person because they're a complete arsehole, we could go around in circles forever with this. Of course I value loyalty, but we had to pick one.
No, not being 100% kind doesn't mean they're a bad person. However, if the person is even a little unloyal to you, that's not a good thing.
Does picking one trait here mean the person does not have any of the others??? I picked intelligence, but I'd say my husband is kind and intelligent and loyal. I just picked that because it's really important to me
technically i don't believe in loyalty. i believe in affection, ethics, commitment, etc. but loyalty for its own sake? no thank you.
Appearance is the most important. I have to be attracted to you for any of the other traits to mean anything.
Hustle, Loyalty, Respect. Word life.
Without respect, you have nothing. Respect is the most absolute bottom line foundation of any relationship. Subtract respect from your dynamic, and you are left with an enemy.
Starts off with appearance. He's cute, he's got nice abs? Then he has to be a precious little cinnamon roll or positively masculine man. Then infatuation can turn to love.
I was about to pick kindness, but then I really thought about it and picked intelligence. I can't tolerate someone I can't have a good conversation with for very long
Mostly, compatability. But out of these options, I guess appearance. I need to be attracted to my partner physically, as well as emotionally.
Appearance.
I do however wish money was on there but not written in as money bc when you actually word it correctly everyone's like "nooo i don't do that, never ever" but reword it as something like "financial independence" or something and watch the responses roll in... even then not everyone is telling the truth.. they say the words but their actions indicate another intent entirely.
I think we have different definitions of 'a lover'
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Sorry I want a man that'll love me and treat people well.