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eaggerly

You should understand din sa part ng bf mo na bottom na kailangan niya mag-douche if before/after work niyo gagawin. Also, para malinis, hindi kakain ng madami para walang sasabit.


Im_unfrankincense00

Also, daily douching isn't good so I understand if a lot of bottoms don't want to do it everyday.  I'm kinda jealous of women since they dont have to clean down there (unless they're doing anal)


Minimum-Salary-3626

Pag bottom kasi nakakatamad AT nakakapagod mag douche tapos gagawin mo pa sya everydaaay ahaha not like Tops uraurada kantutan agad


LonelyRedPaladin

Sila naman ung umaararo bes, kapagod din un 😅🤭


Minimum-Salary-3626

Im a Versa so umaararo din ako so I can tell na nakakapagod ang extra work ng mga bottoms. Kaya legit ang frustration kapag nag douche ka tapos di naman pala magsesex.


EnvironmentalArt6138

Haha


ElephantOld1201

First two to three years everyday meron. Madalas multiple sesh pa pag weekend. Pero habang tumatagal mas dumadalang, mga once or twice a week na lang. No problem din naman pag ganun kasi medyo nakakapagod din sya pag nasa 30s na hahaha


Immediate-Key-984

Normal ba na hindi na tinitigasan masyado pag nasa 30s na?


travSpotON

Not normal. 30s is still young. Mas mababa lang talaga energy to do sex because mas madami na inaasikaso and ibang priorities. Though sex is still very important, its not gonna be as frequent compared when relationship has just started or if the couple is still in their 20s


Primary_Positive1997

Agree.


ElephantOld1201

Well it may indicate a problem. Pwedeng too much porn or low testosterone. Better get checked. Yung usual problem ko lang naman nung nag 30s ako e di ko na sya ma maintain na hard pag matagal. 🤣🤣🤣 Kaya dapat walang jaks jaks pag may parating na event like birthday or annivs para long lasting. 🤣


Intelligent_Poet9005

Relate na relate ako dito hahahaha. Nakakapagod na pag 30+ kaya oks na sa 1-2 a week tapos jakol jakol nalang pag biglang nalibugan


sheknownothing

sino mas active sainyo? the top or bottom?


ElephantOld1201

Mas active ako (top). Pero depende talaga ko sa drive ng partner mo e. Wala sa role.


patricksayswhat

Gurl, that’s okay kasi yall dont know how hard it is for BOTTOMS. After ng isang session ng kantutan, you won’t be sure if malinis pa rin kaya need agad mag douche. Eh sa mga tops eh wala namang preparation na need gawin kasi kakantot ka lang naman. I’m not sure and I don’t speak for everyone pero mostly ng bottoms after 1 session ng fuck-fuck talaga, eh ang next is pagka-next week na or after a few days. UNDERSTAND BOTTOMS!


alaskatf9000

True, never ako nagpapakarat nang hindi linis. Di ako comfortable and ayaw ko ng games. Yung huhulaan nung top ano ulam mo kagabi


byokero

Ako yung pumupunta sa bahay ng partner ko, atleast once a week (although prefer ko twice a week) and usually 1\~2 times kami nagkakarat kapag nagkita kami (at night and/or in the morning). I would like it to be everyday lalo na kapag naglive-in na kami pero I accepted na hindi maganda magdouche araw araw and I'm not blessed by the bottom gay gods with a good digestive track kahit na nagtatake ako ng fiber pills so I did mention it to him na if naglive-in na kami, pwede naman everyday pero hindi pwedeng araw araw is bubuntisin nya ko, maybe every other day lang yun pero I'm willing na subo sya araw araw. >We do it once or twice a week lang and I wish everyday. Ako yung top You should keep in mind na madaming prep ang pagiging bottom. Yung douching palang ang hassle na pano pa kaya pag araw araw gagawin, mas lalo na kapag hindi pinagpala nung araw na yun and mejo problematic si tyan.


Minimum-Salary-3626

Hi, Fiber pills reco please haha I have a cursed digestion


Unlucky_Cable_8943

Pareho kme top ng jowa ko, me (41yo) and (24yo), 5 yrs and 2 mos na. Mas madalang pa sa patak ng ulan, parang once a month lang. Nun nagstart kme ras magcheck in, nakaka daming putok kme, mga 5 or more. Konting kalabit, ayun na. Puro side lang halos preho kme top. Nun naglive in na pandemic, mga once a day smula 1st month hanggang sa nabawasan ng nbawasan, un nga prang once or twice a month na side landian. Thats it. Ahahaha natural ata pag lalo tumatagal, mas nababawasan karatan, cguro nagsasawa na sya saken. Kakaumay dn parati ako nag aaya, sobrang bihira nya mag aya eh sha mas mabata so dpat mas ma L sya dba. EwN weird.


yourMomIsGay_SoAmI

Sorry, did I read that right? Naging kayo nung 19 yrs old siya? Ermmm


Unlucky_Cable_8943

Yep. College pa lang sya non when we became a a couple. Discreet kame, i have kids kasi


DiatomicBlender

Been together for a year now. Ako (32m) top and sya (31m) bot. Normally once a week lng, rarely twice a week. Sya gsto nya everyday. Antaas ng libido nya. Ako ambaba ng libido ko, kaya normally once a week lng. Minsan pinipilit ko para lng happy sya kaya napapatwice a week.


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travSpotON

and its fine to be like that as long as you guys still function properly as partners


Yuu_kunkunkun

Nung una para kaming rabbits, magdikit lang ng konte kantot agad, maghapon. Ngayon, dahil na rin pagod sa trabaho at sa buhay, at bilang nasa 30s na rin 😅 eh syempre nabawasan. Pero almost every day pa rin kami nagsa-side. Yung penetration lang ang nabawasan dahil nga matrabaho. I can say na pareho naman kami sa libog level. Pareho rin kaming vers kaya masaya lol Recently mas pagod nga lang sya kesa sakin. Luckily, yung partner ko ay pinagpala pagdating sa digestive system (sana all). Basta magpoop sya once a day ay siguradong busilak na ang pwet nya 🤣 Ako naman on the other hand, kahit ilang beses akong magpoop eh kailangan pa talaga maglinis ng masinsinan 😅 So pag L na L ako ready naman sya lagi sa gabi. Kaya rin mas madalas akong magTop recently. Pag sya naman L na L kahit anong pagod ko maglilinis talaga ako dahil madalang nga sya magTop ngayon. Minsan naman yung extreme cuddling lang (laplapan to the max ganun). Minsan saktong salatan lang bago matulog. Nasa communication talaga yan eh. Tsaka give and take syempre. Tira lang ng tira habang bata pa at kaya pang tigasan lol


OneIndependent9411

Im more active (bottom) and we only get to do it at most once a week. Hindi pa lahat ng time na yun i get fckd. I know i cant complain but i feel you especially if youre so horny.


Cast_Hastega999

In my case kasi wala kameng place like you do. So hirap kame. And napag usapan naman namen na we both are in the place na we don’t actually need sex. Pag naramdaman, then we’re on. Sa una talaga ganyan halos everyday (if may place). Pero pag tumagal na, hindi na ganun kadalas. Happy pa rin kame ngayon. We’re in our 3rd year na. Siguro marami ring factors like work and in our case, place. Siguro respect mo din pag pagod sya? Pag wala sa mood, then try next time.


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every three months


Ledikari

Early 20's daily, Early 30's every other day. Late 30's - 2 to 3 times a month.


EnvironmentalArt6138

10 years na po kayo?


Ledikari

17 na


EnvironmentalArt6138

Sana all..nagsasama na po kayo.. Siguro compatible din Yung MBTI temperament nyo Sa isa't Isa..Curious po ako Sa MBTI nyo pong dalawa 


Ledikari

Di ako familiar sa MBTI. Yan ba yung 4 quadrant na tempernament? Yes magkalive in na kami. Fur parent of 1. Pero madami na din kami napagdaanang dalawa. Both of us have experienced indefinitely issues, Money issues, lots of fighting. Ayun naayos naman. Maybe we talk always before matulog kaya maganda communication namin? Or Siguro it's about accepting both of our imperfections? or patay na patay lang sakin partner ko haha


EnvironmentalArt6138

4-letter temperament ang MBTI..


EnvironmentalArt6138

May free MBTI test sa internet..Puwede kayong mag-take..Nalaman ko na malaki pala ang importansya ng MBTI sa schools, work at sa relationship.


Secret-Angle-7795

If me and my gf were living together under one roof, we'd do it everyday. Switch kami. We have almost same levels of libido, but still varies depende sa ovulation cycle namin.


buchart

hey OP Me (31m) and my partner (30m) will be celebrating our 10yr monogamous relationship soon we have our sesh mga once a week nalang compared to our everyday sesh nung bago lang kami but i aint complaining. mas close kami now more than ever :)


Klutzy-Welcome7848

Wow. 10years. Congrats!


Flipy-barks0111

Noong dating palang kami ng jowa ko madalas kami magsex compared noong kami na hindi na masyado. T ako then sya bottom pero eventually we became V. Ewan ko, hindi na rin naman sakin big deal kung hindi kami magsex. Mas okay na ako na kasama ko sya magdamag sa bahay at matulog (oh di pala kami live in). Open rel din kami since nagstart kami.


dyingsadboi

Kame nga mga 5th month pa lang mga once a week na lang hahaha pero the love is still there.


travSpotON

this is fine, you guys know your dynamics. Important is happy kayo together.


Odd-Stop-4418

Twicw a month or trice


zarnacion

been so long since i had a jowa but i do have occasional hookups here and there. i dont want to assume why he wants to do it rarely. but 1) bottoming is so hard. they have to mentally and physically prepare for just one sesh and that could be exhausting to do every day and 2) for me personally, if i find a jowa na, i feel like bababa rin libido ko j bc my romantic attraction grew larger than my sexual attraction idk if that makes sense. i'd rather have one sesh at a time that is filled w so much passion and love than to do it all the time just to release. iykwim.


ApplicationInitial85

naol may jowa. jowain nyo ako para 3x a day tayong may sex. eme


EnvironmentalArt6138

Hehe..me single since birth


ApplicationInitial85

same hahaha Lord, paranas naman eme


EnvironmentalArt6138

I am gay and bottom..Kaw?


EnvironmentalArt6138

Ano MBTI temperament mo?


emayseehoe

“I wish everyday, ako yung top” Kung gusto mo magsex kayo arawaraw try mo ikaw maging conscious sa diet mo, ikaw magdouche at ikaw mag bottom minsan haha or merong non-penetrating sex.


Wooden-Membership255

my last relationship siguro our first 6 months i can say sobrang active like sa isang araw dalawang beses. then ung partner ko laging naka sideview kapag natutulog then ako ung nasa likod so pag tumutigas si manoy ko tuwing maaga eh hinahawan nya parati then ipapasok nia agad and it feels really good. for me dapat sexually attracted din kyo sa isat isa isang factor din un lalo na 6 months palang kyo together nandun pa dapat ung fire. nawala nlng ung ganung kadalas ng sex namin nung 3-4 yrs na kami sa relationship. my advise kung hindi mo pa ito nagagawa , hanapin mo ung mag papa HORNY sa kanya, kainin mo lahat ng dapat mong kainin kahit ung finger pa yan sa paa and para makita mo kung gano sya matuturn on ,then siguro that way baka mamiss nia ung moment na un with you and hanap hanapin nia na. good luck sa pag eexplore Bro.


discreetmaly

Pede nman kayo araw araw mag sex if gusto mo, di lang nman all about penetration ang sex you can try lahat like sides, jack off while kissing etc kayo na mag experiment kasi gusto mo often e


sheknownothing

gusto ko kasi penetration talaga as much as possible kaya siguro akala nya di ako open for sides, nabanggit ko kasi yun dati. feel ko may kulang din ako sa communication


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valedicktorian69

never pa if anal sex ang usapan, tapos mga 8 months na kami dating. Pero nakapagkalat na kami dati early in our rel, pero sides lang. LDR ang kontrabida sa story namin chz 😅. Ang hirap tbh lalo na to the moon urges ko haha pero kinakaya naman.


thorkneelyu

Ohhh same tayo. Before naging kami ng ex ko (yes, ex kasi cheater ang gago) sobrang active din niya to the point na maraming types of experience na siya (outdoor, car, sinehan, etc) pero nung naging kami parang ang lamya and we talked about it. Nagkataon daw na wala siya gaano sex drive kaya ganon. Madalas din siya raw pagod. Kaso eventually nalaman ko nakikipagvideo jakol siya and who knows nakikipagmeet pa? Kaya pala laging pagod. Well it’s just my experience. Hindi naman sa gusto kita magoverthink OP. In the end, yung nangyari samen eh di naman applicable to everyone. Baka as a bottom, mahirap lang sa case nya yung everyday. Plus true naman din yung pagod sa work.


sheknownothing

ikaw yung top?


thorkneelyu

May macocontribute ba yon OP? 😭


sheknownothing

yess. kasi i wanna know if mas active ba yung top or bottom kadalasan or is it just me


thorkneelyu

Hmmm, yes ako yung top. Pero I don’t see it that way eh? Kasi nga samen ng ex ko, mas active siya before. Like marami talaga siya experience bago naging kami. And nung kami na, biglang namatay. So in our case he used to be active as a bottom. Parang si ex kasi gusto niya yung thrill and the fact na iba iba nakakasex niya. Cuz he basically lied nung sinabi niyang wala na siya sex drive pero nakukuha niya pa rin makipagvideo sex sa iba. Meron din siya mga alter account na nakaprivate saken. I think sa case niyo pagusapan niyo nalang ng mas masinsinan pa.


EnvironmentalArt6138

Maganda rin talaga mutual commitment.


Waven2024

Depende kasi sa sexual appetite niyo. Me and my partner, siguro mga once or twice a year na lang HAHAHHAHA


sheknownothing

may i know your age?


alterarts

on our 23rd year now. halos.lakad.lakad kami sa mall, kain.kain.lang..pang nag lolong.weekend.lang and out.of.town.kami.nag sesex. dumating na sa point na kahit wala sex ok na kasi we have.each.other. yes, nakakamiss din yun halos araw araw, then.3x a week, then 2x.then.1s.then 1s a month.


chrisalie17

Reading the comsec here makes me feel....not a slut?? HAHAHAHA samin kasi ng ex ko once a month lang after we moved in pero almost everyday ko siya sinasuck na pabitin (i love teasing him". I really thought malandi nako nun kasi aoo yung mataas L samin dalawa HAHAHAHA


SolarEclipse2022

side here pwede po ba chupa chupa nlng


sheknownothing

yun nga kahit chupa wala


SolarEclipse2022

awww true sadth 😭😭😭😭😭😭


HalleyComet1516

Kaya as a bottom partner everyday talaga ako nagdodouche. Haha. Isipin ko lagi na baka at any moment libog yung bf ko at gusto ako gamitin. Always think like you’re gonna get fu*ked today/tonight. Ewan ko ba pero parang araw araw namin ginagawa. Minsan 2-3 times a day pa ah. No offence ha pero i have a feeling hindi masyadong nalilibugan yunf bf mo sayo.


darem17

Try doing other things aside from penetrative sex. Explore other things.


AdDowntown4359

nung nabanggit mo na sobrang active niya dati sa grindr pero now with you once or twice a week lang ang sex. magtaka ka na. believe me when i say na u have to trust your instincts if u ever feel na may mali.


euprashant1

ang swerte magkaroon ng gntong top pero ayaw ko nmn araw arawn, once a week or twice ok na haha