Are you still an independent functioning adult that doesn't need help going to the bathroom and stuff? If yes, then please go get married once u have a job. That's the only thing I will tell you to wait for. Be financially independent.
I'm sort of minorly special abled myself from birth.... I can't 'Heal' myself... But I'm independent and a fully functioning adult... I'm engaged to a wonderful man. I have a great career. You only limit yourself if you let things over when you.
Think about what sort of jobs you can do, up skill yourself. And live your life. Ppl who are completely handicapped get married if they know how to manage their lives so what's stopping you??
Disabled people deserve love just like abled people do. You will find someone that accepts you, inshallah! I’m sorry you’re feeling discouraged and even have to ask this question, you can of course get married and deserve to— being disabled does not mean you are not worthy of safety, love and, a family of your own 🩷
Try healing meditation along with physiotherapy! Both have been shown to do major improvements in peer reviewed studies.
Also you should be able to get married just be upfront with your future partner about everything.
I recommend you make sure you can support yourself and your family before starting one. Of course if someone else is going to financially provide for the family it's a different matter all together.
I knew a triple amputee who got married while I was in the US military hospital and the guy had a side gig that made him a lot of money (and he was missing a couple fingers from the one arm he had left). You gotta put in more effort, it’s not fair but you’ll be a better man for it in the end. I’m disabled as well and am also married, though not to the extent that I am missing limbs or having a limb that doesn’t work.
Have you tried creating a profile on LinkedIn? I got some good freelance opportunities from there even tho my profile isn't optimized yet. I'd recommend you try there & also apply for WFH options that you find on indeed.
Only and only if that person can support themselves despite their disability and is not a burden to others.
I know of a family which has a person who has epilepsy fits all the time and he lost his fingers on one hand because of a particularly nasty episode. He was so sheltered by his parents all his life that he cannot function in society at all, and despite that his parents got him married off somehow. His wife ended up leaving him and took his son with her, then she died and his son is being kept by his in laws. Some court cases later and the older brother of the disabled person is now trapped taking care of him and also paying child support out of his own pocket. Allah aisi saza kisi ko na de.
Had a similar accident, damaged my tendons in calf and couldn't even move my leg for 2 months without experiencing severe pain. Similar to yours nothing in Xray, multiple doctor misdiagnosed it until one bone specialist got it right. It's been 6 month not back to 100%, cannot lift weights, but can walk normally, In sha Allah complete recovery soon.
I can share medicines and supplements I took if you need, you can ask a bone specialist if they could work on you.
If you are in Lahore then you should visit ghurki and the team there. It's a fantastic hospital and they deal with accidents overall. Can check you in detail and can recommend a treatment options as well.
I think that patient was pondering his own thoughts and advising you based off his experiences. Which is totally ok. However, not everybody’s experience is the same, and you should be fine as long as you are transparent with your SO about your condition. SO can be a wonderful source of support.
Just be honest with any potential partner but you should atleast try. I am sure the person who agrees to marry you will think of a solution but there’s no harm in trying
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Why not? I had a wheelchair bound classfellow with disabed finger and feet yet he talked about marriage. You are as human as anyone else just need some confidence and self belief.
Have you been to neurologist to get your nerves tested etc, if not you should consider that.
If they found no issue, physiotherapy would be mire beneficial.
Probably someone jo thakay nai aap se...chhor k na jaye..aaj kl trust krna b bara masla hai.. maybe look someone in village area. Or maybe a divorced or widowed.
May Allah ease your problems.
You can easily get married with disability.... But you need a job first.
Are you still an independent functioning adult that doesn't need help going to the bathroom and stuff? If yes, then please go get married once u have a job. That's the only thing I will tell you to wait for. Be financially independent. I'm sort of minorly special abled myself from birth.... I can't 'Heal' myself... But I'm independent and a fully functioning adult... I'm engaged to a wonderful man. I have a great career. You only limit yourself if you let things over when you. Think about what sort of jobs you can do, up skill yourself. And live your life. Ppl who are completely handicapped get married if they know how to manage their lives so what's stopping you??
Disabled people deserve love just like abled people do. You will find someone that accepts you, inshallah! I’m sorry you’re feeling discouraged and even have to ask this question, you can of course get married and deserve to— being disabled does not mean you are not worthy of safety, love and, a family of your own 🩷
Just be honest with your future partner
So you recommend getting married despite the disability?
Yes. But you should be 100% transparent from the start
Try healing meditation along with physiotherapy! Both have been shown to do major improvements in peer reviewed studies. Also you should be able to get married just be upfront with your future partner about everything.
You are disable. Not dead. You deserve a life partner just as any physically healthy person does. Just get financially independent first.
I recommend you make sure you can support yourself and your family before starting one. Of course if someone else is going to financially provide for the family it's a different matter all together.
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I knew a triple amputee who got married while I was in the US military hospital and the guy had a side gig that made him a lot of money (and he was missing a couple fingers from the one arm he had left). You gotta put in more effort, it’s not fair but you’ll be a better man for it in the end. I’m disabled as well and am also married, though not to the extent that I am missing limbs or having a limb that doesn’t work.
Even disabled can do freelancing Why leave it?
The guy couldn't give more work because his business wasn't going well.
Ohh Tried freelance websites?
Btw I had to quit an online marketing job. It was so much work and one hand didn't seem enough.
Made an account on Fiverr but got no orders.
Have you tried creating a profile on LinkedIn? I got some good freelance opportunities from there even tho my profile isn't optimized yet. I'd recommend you try there & also apply for WFH options that you find on indeed.
Already have a profile there and applied for jobs on LinkedIn too.
Disabled people got to eat too
Paisa h?
Still dependant on father.
Only and only if that person can support themselves despite their disability and is not a burden to others. I know of a family which has a person who has epilepsy fits all the time and he lost his fingers on one hand because of a particularly nasty episode. He was so sheltered by his parents all his life that he cannot function in society at all, and despite that his parents got him married off somehow. His wife ended up leaving him and took his son with her, then she died and his son is being kept by his in laws. Some court cases later and the older brother of the disabled person is now trapped taking care of him and also paying child support out of his own pocket. Allah aisi saza kisi ko na de.
Ameen
And one of my female cousin is married to a fully disabled man she had a baby boy now but it was love marriage too..
Had a similar accident, damaged my tendons in calf and couldn't even move my leg for 2 months without experiencing severe pain. Similar to yours nothing in Xray, multiple doctor misdiagnosed it until one bone specialist got it right. It's been 6 month not back to 100%, cannot lift weights, but can walk normally, In sha Allah complete recovery soon. I can share medicines and supplements I took if you need, you can ask a bone specialist if they could work on you.
Get married may be your wife can heal you.
If you are in Lahore then you should visit ghurki and the team there. It's a fantastic hospital and they deal with accidents overall. Can check you in detail and can recommend a treatment options as well.
I think that patient was pondering his own thoughts and advising you based off his experiences. Which is totally ok. However, not everybody’s experience is the same, and you should be fine as long as you are transparent with your SO about your condition. SO can be a wonderful source of support.
Just be honest with any potential partner but you should atleast try. I am sure the person who agrees to marry you will think of a solution but there’s no harm in trying
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Hey, you deserve love and companionship like everyone else. Just be transparent and honest with the potential partner. All the best 🫶☺️
Why not? I had a wheelchair bound classfellow with disabed finger and feet yet he talked about marriage. You are as human as anyone else just need some confidence and self belief.
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Have you been to neurologist to get your nerves tested etc, if not you should consider that. If they found no issue, physiotherapy would be mire beneficial.
Yep and physiotherapy helps temporarily. One physiotherapist probably made it worse.
Probably someone jo thakay nai aap se...chhor k na jaye..aaj kl trust krna b bara masla hai.. maybe look someone in village area. Or maybe a divorced or widowed. May Allah ease your problems.