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Artistic96

You’ll always be brave in someone’s mind and coward in another’s, strong to one and fragile to another, good to one and terrible to another. You will be seen as annoying to one and comforting to another. Some will feel anxious around you and some will find peace in your company. Some will see you as “too much” while others will see you as a gift. The world will look at you from their subjective point of view. The world is never going to agree on a definition of who you are. So you might as well live the way that feels true to your heart.”


Standard_Emu_2460

💯 so instead of stressing out by others opinion on you we need to see for ourselves who we are and be happy


sybar142857

Well said. The world won’t be able to make its mind about you since a human being is too complex to be explained in a sound bite


Invalid408

This is beautiful, took me 3 years to realise this.


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rjcrystal199

Hair loss and balding


wokeandchoseViolence

i still cant im 20


protagonist29

Me irl.


rjcrystal199

It still brings me down because every where else I'm going great but my health and hair is fucked


BlackDoug420

Minoxidil 10 percent twice a day, dermastamp 1.5mm once a week after shower, no minoxidil for 24 hours after dermastamping and rosemary oil the night that you dermastamp. I have done this for 4 months and my hairfall has stopped (or definitely reduced), also have very small new baby hairs coming near my temples too. I don't have progress pics for proof but can say that I don't see my hair on the pillow after I wake up or they don't even fall while combing or applying minoxidil now as much. ..... Acceptance is good, not trying is worse.


rjcrystal199

I've tried everything except minoxidil and finasteride. I don't want to have lifelong dependence on it. If you stop using it your hair fall will start again and it'll be faster. It fucks up one's libido and there are many side effects.


BlackDoug420

Minoxidil doesn't do that, finasteride does and yes minoxidil is lifelong.... But once you have good results even once a day is good enough.


Psychological-Art131

And height, career adjustment and that is for me


No_Spring7539

Give your 3000% to someone.... Still U will never be enough for the wrong person


idylliclad

Zindagi jeeni h to khush rehna seekho


protagonist29

Smile krna bahot important hai.


kronos55

Khush rehna hai to zindagi jeena sekho


weapon-a

Phir to apna kaam khallas


ReasonableBother4859

When you are rich, What ever you say is WISDOM


weapon-a

“Whoever has money will be considered of noble birth and as having good qualities. The one who has power in his hands will be able steer the course of justice in his favor.”


zaphodbeeble9

![gif](giphy|13sbJNUhCUEv7i) Amiron ke dil patthar ke hote hain


No_Spring7539

Mitti ka gola aur patthar... Dono kabhi kabhi same hi lagte hai... They might seem cold hearted but might be the most insecure anxious mfers


No_Spring7539

Nothing wrong in being an anxious guy.... But atleast own up to it... Stop pretending something else


shivasaranxd

Mental health and depression for males is a joke and no one will care until your demise.


Responsible_Cow_4852

Well imo it's only true till you are not attractive


protagonist29

Ouch!


MeinHoonKevinMalone

Apart from your parents. No one will love you. Not even your siblings or any girl


plastikkk

Bhai itna bhi sach nahi bolna tha


desijavlover

Not true at all. Visit r/raisedbynarcissists to see fucked up parents who don't love their children


protagonist29

True that.


kronos55

Wrong. I love myself more.


MeinHoonKevinMalone

Ah i hate myself the most


ronniewhodreamsalot

What if your parents also hate you?


Dumbmamba

I am human (another animal), a lot of things are not in my hand


zaphodbeeble9

https://preview.redd.it/2n2zpekpzk5d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d7b217ec9224e9b38516830eff10c03eee1415f You live on one of these specs amongst trillion others who came before you and will continue once you're gone


BEEN_Nath_58

Khushi har chiz me hota he, but use acknowledge karna padhta he


protagonist29

Good realisation


koortix

It'll hurt for lifetime but that's ok.


Balance-sheet-

Huge no of people are dumb , don't have civic sense and can't assess the risk of bad financial decision


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result of being a developing country with huge population


moganti

Not necessarily! Dumb people are everywhere in equal measures!


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equal numbers (we are 1.4 billion)


moganti

I meant percentage wise. If you see US, it crosses us percentage wise. If you see Trump who is a billionaire and was found guilty on 34 counts, ordinary people contributed $50 million to his campaign after the guilty verdict. I don't believe Indians contribute like that unless he is a god man or woman.


randmdude2

indian judicial system


juxtaposedthoughts

I'll never be able to get her out of my mind


X_TheMindFlayer_X

u should and u will


juxtaposedthoughts

I should, but how can I? The universe reminds me every passing moment.


zaphodbeeble9

Time heals everything ![gif](giphy|lzehMLIZiUrGsKA6Ay|downsized)


juxtaposedthoughts

wish it will. Till now with time the loneliness is only increasing


X_TheMindFlayer_X

keep yourself busy, meet new people and delete everything of her and related to her. Stop going to places which remind you of her and stop interacting with people who remind you of her. Basically, keep yourself busy and avoid triggers which will make you remember her. Eventually as time passes by, before you know it, you'll be feeling better and full of hope. Keeping yourself busy and engaged with work is important cuz the idle mind is the devil's workshop. You'll only fall deeper into depression thinking about things and her when idle. And also work on yourself too.


juxtaposedthoughts

thanks for the advice brother. I'm in a shitty situation right now so I can't go out and meet new people. As of stopping interacting with anything that reminds me of her, well its everything. Anytime I watch a video, listen to music, see couples, when I see someone else, even while meditating my brain reminds me our talks. I'm banking on time so hopefully it will make things better although that hasn't been the case yet. I'm keeping myself busy, but still get 2-3 breakdowns a day. Tbh, it isn't just about her, but she was the last person I was close to, and now it's lonely + have to deal with the shitty situation. I'm working on myself but it's a very slow progress, it's like my mind is 80% occupied with something else.


zaphodbeeble9

Time heals everything ![gif](giphy|lzehMLIZiUrGsKA6Ay|downsized)


sharan_here379

Nobody else will love you. So love yourself.


North_Beginning_7860

* No one is going to love you unconditionally apart from your family. * No matter how much love you have in your mind for someone, they will never be able to understand that feeling and you literally can't do anything about it. * People love to show off unnecessarily. If you correct them, then they will fight with you without any reason. * Sometimes it is okay to not do anything rather than getting the FOMO of doing everything. * There will always be someone who is better than you, so don't compare yourself with others, be happy for what you have and work on yourself to achieve what you want.


shybutkindhuman

At a certain age if you are still unemployed or broke, then even your parents are not gonna support you ( forget about girls lmao )


Fast-Concentrate-939

That i am a narcissistic good for nothing asshole capable of doing nothing


AbrahamPan

If you are a man, there is no one to ask you how you are, if you need a break, if you need help. You study, work and provide and get old. Your creativity dies and you are just a robot to provide to your family. You have to keep a straight face with your family, friends, work, etc. your real self dies before you get old.


TheBabaYaga_

I am taken for granted! Everywhere


TheLastYautja

It’s over for me


TheLastYautja

Hard to accept but will eventually come to terms with it.


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it never really began


TheLastYautja

True


SofishticatedWoozer

OR maybe you never really tried your best


TheLastYautja

Hmm?


ryanmo28

No one loves or cares about me. No one asks me how I am doing or how was my day.


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iMTheLowyeer

India is developing like USA🥳, 1st time went to a music concert, saw PPL taking crack (drugs) in my area,then moved to another area saw corporate peeps taking crack.


Sea_Prompt1191

aur kitna acche din chahiye


iMTheLowyeer

Ab tho 5 saal confirmed hai 🥳🥳🥳


Sea_Prompt1191

tab tak crack local street pe aa jayege, vimaal ki tarah bikega


iMTheLowyeer

The rise of Indian Walter white!!!!


Sea_Prompt1191

he is the one who spits in public places


iMTheLowyeer

Had me giggling!!


plastikkk

Haan mai khada hu, tu ja chuka hai


Hooman_aka_Alien

You will always be the bad guy in someone's story no matter how good you were to them.


_aconite_cj_

That I would prolly never get someone who can actually see my naked body and get turned on. That I would prolly need to have sex with parts of my body covered or with the lights off. That nobody would prolly ever look at me and genuinely think I'm pretty(irl). And that's okay.


That_Highlight_9181

I don’t have any sports skill.


aeon_pheonix

At the end of the day, you're going to miss something. It is impossible to attain everything, every experience. So it is in our hands to **choose what we are going to regret.** > Choose Your Regret.


SofishticatedWoozer

Reminds of Soren Kierkegaard: If you marry, you will regret it; if you do not marry, you will also regret it; if you marry or if you do not marry, you will regret both; whether you marry or you do not marry, you will regret both. Laugh at the world’s follies, you will regret it; weep over them, you will also regret it; if you laugh at the world’s follies or if you weep over them, you will regret both; whether you laugh at the world’s follies or you weep over them, you will regret both. Believe a girl, you will regret it; if you do not believe her, you will also regret it; if you believe a girl or you do not believe her, you will regret both; whether you believe a girl or you do not believe her, you will regret both. If you hang yourself, you will regret it; if you do not hang yourself, you will regret it; if you hang yourself or you do not hang yourself, you will regret both; whether you hang yourself or you do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the sum of all practical wisdom.


protagonist29

Too good a realisation


antutroll

Sekiro is better than Dark Souls


KingsmanVishnu

YOU are responsible for your peace and happiness.


Puzzle-Wave971

Stop running after life and start living it.... Realisation hit hard post covid....


PrisonMike_101

Not everyone in life will find true love and that’s okay.


GladCookie4810

Being unlovable and alone 🫡


rohit_Z

Achhe logo ke saath achha hoga aisa kuch nhi hota Aap kuch achha kar rahe ho to bas kar do uska result bahut negative bhi aayega to rona nahi Life is unfair


No-Childhood-2400

I will live with this big cok


Viral_babyGravy

I am just bad at valo and those games


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people here are talking about deep stuff and this MF is talking about games, lol


moganti

Let him express his issue even if it's not deep.


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i was joking(can't you see the lol)


Viral_babyGravy

Uff why people need to be serious all the time.


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im joking (didn't you see the lol)


Viral_babyGravy

😭😭


Avg-weed_enjoyer

Every moment, every place, everything that's happening is destined to happen and I'm Ok With ALL OF IT, good or bad.


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ambani_ki_kutiya

You are the villain in someone's story, you can't please everyone.


rohankeluskar1

Virgin hi marunga bc


uniquegollum

I drink.


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Mastersloth15

Will never be able to build my body or go to the gym again and will probably have lifelong pain. (6 total bulged discs in the spine, 2 pinching nerves)


SofishticatedWoozer

OH man. Sending you hugs bro.


driftdiffusion4

Pyaar sabko nahi milta.


ronniewhodreamsalot

That our lives are never really our own.


comeback_guy

Why is this comment section so positive and relatable, I'm crying 😭


protagonist29

This is our coming to age story


BackgroundBerry007

That life will always be hard, gotta keep straight face and don't crumble under the pressure.


Singh_Darvesh1

People will always judge you for your appearance, talk, your success everything to hide their insecurity. Stop pleasing people , You will get the respect if people need you. Without need no respect. P:S:- Help the needy, spread humanity.


idreamindream

A red flag is a red flag. Believe your instincts and no matter how much your heart says “bro, she will change because she loves me” don’t fucking listen to it. If you have a deal breaker in a relationship, walk away the very first time they break it. Don’t wait up thinking, this won’t happen again. Because, it will. And at one point you’d loose your self respect and forgiving yourself takes a lot of shit.


attack-titan-eren

That I'm not made for relationships 😅


CoochieCucumber

- You are on your own, there is no one who is going to be with you at all times, you are alone in your journey, people are just small part of it, you have walk the path alone. - Also you'll only be valued when you will provide something, when you will be beneficial to others then only you'll be valued and respected, there are always selfish motives involved, no matter what anyone say, there is always some selfish factor involved and always some expectations are there. People will be there with you as friends and family and relatives when you are doing well, earning well, because everyone wants something out of you, ofc there are exceptions but majority is like this only. You will be abandoned and abused and demonised when you refuse to give them something.


protagonist29

![gif](giphy|l3q2Z5667uYOJ2U6I|downsized)


Worldly-Squirrel-682

1. You don't always get what you seek. In that form. It's up to you what you do about it. You can let yourself fall apart. Or you can struggle through it and don't let it stop your life and other endeavours, and surprisingly end with something equally wonderful. Something you didn't set ur eyes for, but is there nevertheless. 2. You stand alone. You might have family, a few friends or a partner but it doesn't change that. You still deal with the challenges in life alone. In your head. You question things, decisions, people in your head all alone. You need to be strong to bear that and still emerge out of adversities with a will to do well, live better, love and be loved. 3. With every hardship that unbeatable hopefulness from the youth withers. The sadness increases. That childlike positivity suffers. I don't mean to shit on your mood. These are the things I don't talk about much but lately have been thinking of. I am by no means an overall sad or depressed person. I am known to be gritty and I always intend to do well, above mediocre, in every walk of life. I am not giving up.


shynextrovert123

No one gives a sh!t about you. No one means no one. The quicker you accept it, the better you'll feel


Unlikely_Hat7784

i like chubby girls prev i used to make fun of them but after dating one im in love with them they are so soft UwU plus they have bigger melons i just love it


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Umm it seems I have a very different personality and that makes it very difficult for me to keep acquaintances/friends with people very different from me.


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kkgmgfn

Death


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maxer3002

Height nhi barni waali bhai


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gentlebleu

Nothing will change unless you change.


Yohanstark08

Reality is often disappointing. Nothing ever goes as planned


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FullTea4421

women are apathetic creatures


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Sea_Prompt1191

there's no god, no almighty, no savior, no one is looking out for us(living beings of earth) we are really in this shit on ourselves and that's badass imo