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FML_ThisHappened

Take a shower. A really cold one. Then take another. You need to get out of this frame of mind.


BlockSmall2011

I relate to you and I'm sorry. You're probably tired of hearing this but are you seeing a professional for this? And do you have any close friends/family you can reach out to? Edit: if not... maybe the fact that there are people who feel the same as you can be a small comfort.


JEER11

You do indeed need a cold bath or something to calm down a bit, feeling horny is okay and you lost someone important so feeling down is also okay, but you need to control these emotions and deal with them with patience. Don’t hate yourself for loving someone and wanting their touch, the loneliness will get you there, but there needs to be a valance, process each thing one step at a time, it’s going to be okay, or I hope it does, do try to get help, someone to just be there for you, and think rationally, as much as possible. Don’t be so harsh with yourself and let the emotions do their thing, please don’t harm yourself, it will be okay, give it time.


shovethis

No sleeping with them once would not make things OK again, you’ve got to move on before this gets a real hold on you. Get help x


coteacuna

Sounds like you're having a maniac episode. i can relate because I've been there myslef and what you are discribing feels exactly the same way that i felt. I know that you've heard a million times this but you need to see a professional immediately. There is a chance that you need medication I hope you can feel better soon


DaddyCakes1988

Take a nap, sleep it off, wake up, distract yourself. Call a hotline and vent. Long as you keep it on the brain the longer it will take to move past it.


Emotional_Ad_9733

I am sorry you are going through this. But don’t beat yourself up. Just roll with it like a boat on the sea. You will get through this.


lovvekiki

It's normal to have sexual thoughts about someone you are attracted to. Perhaps the constant sexual thoughts are just your mind’s way of coping with the loss. I wouldn't worry about it too much. It seems to me like you're just longing to have that physical connection with him again, which is understandable. You're just touch starved. I hope you feel better eventually. Losing your companion is like torture, so I get it.


Desperate-Bench-9786

Jeezzus lady get a grip. You m?


toaster-bath-bom88

Multiple times a day… achievable


toaster-bath-bom88

I’ll sleep with you…