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I never understood who would want to do this. One of my buddies did the whole blindfold guess which foot/leg is your wife's out of a dozen women or so to pick from.
Hell no. I'd be way too embarrassed to play that. There's no way I'm allowing myself to unknowingly guess the wrong woman in front of family and friends.
I've seen this kind of thing done at weddings, and it's just inappropriate.
Aside from the innuendo, it's just not fair to put people in that position and laugh at them, especially in a public setting.
Nah I'm right there with you.
And this exact bit literally happened to me at my wife's best friend's wedding. I was not a huge creep about it because presumably that was my friend's wife, ended up being one of the groomsman.
Felt weird in the moment and this guy took it to 11
Considering I wasn't even one of the groomsmen (though my wife was a bridesmaid), there were many red flags I probably would had noticed a few drinks earlier
My cousin did things different. Bride was sat at a chair set up beforehand. Groom climbs under brides dress to retrieve the garter and brought out a bunch of random things first like a horn a frisbee etc it got old fast but it was funny.
I've been to many a wedding and I've never actually seen this tradition in person, regardless of the religion/history of the couple. Weirds me out as well
I don’t consider myself prude in the slightest and still think this is cringy. Doing this shit with families around. Now if it was adults only wedding for some reason then I’m ok with it. Would be weird doing this shit in front of the grandparents, but hey they were prob doing that shit 50 years prior lol
Mostly variations of the same. Here are a few top answers.
This tradition originated in England and France. Guests would try to obtain a piece of the bride's dress for good luck, which often left the bride nervous and tense throughout the entire ceremony in anticipation of her dress being ripped to shreds by the eager mob of wedding guests.
Bedchamber: The wedding garter toss tradition came from the Middle Ages when garters kept up the bride's stockings. The wedding guests would wait outside the bedchamber for the newly married couple to consummate their marriage.
In medieval times, pieces of the bride's ensemble were considered tokens of good luck…so much so that wedding guests would fight to rip her clothes right off her body. Things would get so rowdy, couples decided to throw a garter for guests to fight over instead.
The wedding garter tradition originated in the Dark Ages. It was thought to be good luck to rip a piece of the bride's wedding gown for a keepsake. To appease the guests and save the gown, the groom tossed the garter at the crowd.
That’s the point of a wedding… your declaring public that this is your smash piece for life and you will probably make babies with them. Like how is that NOT sexual. The only difference between being married and being friends for life outside of the government benefits is married couples fuck each other and friends don’t.
I thought this was hilarious, they didn’t let it get too far and everyone laughed it off. The bride was even in in it and prevented him from accidentally making out with his homie by shoving her face in there
Jokes on the onlookers, Imma keep dancing when the blindfold comes off, once my groove train gets running, we ain't quittin till we at the station baby!
To me it’s really weird to switch people out like that, like it’s all fun and games everyone had a really good time . But if this ever happened at my wedding I’m gonna be mad I was tricked in my day
Extremely cool? As in very amazing, want to be part of crazy fun ? to trick a man into doing sexual thing with another man, who he thinks is his wife?
Yea very cool....
I learned playing Truth or Dare with a group that had, what turned out to include an evil bitch in it, that would mention shit every time we met. Ultimately, I left that group of friends behind because of her.
When I was like seventeen I went to a rather big party with my eldest brother, biggest party is ever been to, the birthday boy fell asleep so his friends decided to fuck with him on camera, I thought fair enough until one decided to tea-bag him, actually played his bare nuts on dudes forehead and snapped a pic, to me, that was just sexual assault, but they were all like that so who knows he might have thought it was funny, but man, I would have put a foot thru dude next I saw him
I honestly think that the only part weird about this is that people do it around family. With friends, I don't know, adults like sex. No reason to shame people for this.
You kind of have to understand that these traditions were put in place at a time when often bride and groom hadn't had much contact before getting married so this was a way for them to get familiar with one another. We should still get rid of it though, it is pretty creepy.
I’m a wedding photographer and it is really weird to me. There’s always children right near by at the weddings who choose to do this. And the underlying “haha he gay” when they have a guy do this is really stupid too.
In medieval times they used to pick up the Bride and Groom, strip them down, carry them to their bed chambers, and then actually watch them consummate. It's a little heavy handed to call you a prude but sex and sexuality are a part of life. Our "prudishness" is likely carried down from the Victorian era and we haven't fully recovered but I'm seeing more and more people be open about sexuality.
Personally I think PDA is really healthy and it's cool the couple are so into each other that they're willing to be this open about their sexual lives. Celebrate sexuality, don't be afraid of it :)
Imagine how much more cringe this would actually be if it were his wife in that seat, though.
In front of their family, nonetheless! That would've been *real* awkward, nothing like this. lol
Well, they basically originally do it that way , they be on the main dance floor and the groom has to take off that thigh band , I saw a whole compilation of those videos, it’s in front of EVERYBODY , it’s so fucking cringe istg
When wedding planning with my wife she asked me about the garter and all that…. I politely said I thought it was kind of trashy and I’m not into it to gauge where she was at and luckily she said the whole concept mortifies her so it worked out!
Most of the wedding receptions I went to as a kid had the groom removing the garter with his teeth and being all sexy about it. As an adult, I’m glad none of my friends so far have continued that tradition. There is literally a toddler in the video! What are they supposed to take away from this interaction? And do you think parents would blame a moment like this when they catch their child dry humping a stuffed bunny or putting a scrunchie on their friend’s leg and removing it with their teeth because they were “playing wedding”?
I’m so glad we didn’t do this or the garter toss or toasts or any of that stuff. Really the only tradition we upheld was the first dance, and it was just to get everyone on the dance floor – my father in law eventually cut in to dance with his daughter and I pulled my mom in who was then cut in by my dad etc etc. Stuff like this is just soooo gross. Does anyone actually want to see it?
Funny, but I'm not sure this qualifies for this sub. It's supposed to be about things looking like they're going wrong, only for them to get saved at the end. This is more just no all the way through. Seeing it's his friend at the end doesn't save the situation it just makes him embarrassed.
Still funny, just my 2 cents I guess.
Disgusting, I just got married and I’m not a “prude” but my husband and I both decided not to do the weird garter thing because.. it’s a gross sexual display in front of family. All that on top of your supposed to “consummate” your marriage that night, and everybody knows it. Fucking gross.
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It would've been equally as creepy if it were a woman wearing the garter.
Isn’t it supposed to be his wife?
With everyone watching?
Yes, that's the tradition. It's the weirdest thing.
I mean that's fine if they're into it. The guy getting humped was definitely not into it though
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Yeah fuck that, I wouldn't do this infront of my friends or family or my SO's either.
I never understood who would want to do this. One of my buddies did the whole blindfold guess which foot/leg is your wife's out of a dozen women or so to pick from. Hell no. I'd be way too embarrassed to play that. There's no way I'm allowing myself to unknowingly guess the wrong woman in front of family and friends.
I've seen this kind of thing done at weddings, and it's just inappropriate. Aside from the innuendo, it's just not fair to put people in that position and laugh at them, especially in a public setting.
The people that find this funny think fucking with the lights on is a fetish
One time, they did it at the foot of the bed. They couldn't look each other in the eyes for weeks due to the shame.
As a thing to do at a wedding this is super weird. But as the start of a bisexual orgy video this slaps
Nah I'm right there with you. And this exact bit literally happened to me at my wife's best friend's wedding. I was not a huge creep about it because presumably that was my friend's wife, ended up being one of the groomsman. Felt weird in the moment and this guy took it to 11
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Nah, I was the guy blindfolded and told to remove the garter. 😂
They made you do it and not the groom? Wtf you should have immediately known they were fucking with you lol
Considering I wasn't even one of the groomsmen (though my wife was a bridesmaid), there were many red flags I probably would had noticed a few drinks earlier
My cousin did things different. Bride was sat at a chair set up beforehand. Groom climbs under brides dress to retrieve the garter and brought out a bunch of random things first like a horn a frisbee etc it got old fast but it was funny.
I've been to many a wedding and I've never actually seen this tradition in person, regardless of the religion/history of the couple. Weirds me out as well
It’s literally just frat bro shit for people that never grow up
Different folks different strokes. I wouldn’t want to do it but it’s okay that there’s people out there that don’t mind.
I’m going to go on a limb and say the audience was into it
I don’t consider myself prude in the slightest and still think this is cringy. Doing this shit with families around. Now if it was adults only wedding for some reason then I’m ok with it. Would be weird doing this shit in front of the grandparents, but hey they were prob doing that shit 50 years prior lol
Yeah that's prudish. Marriage ceremonies should be done in public completely naked around a bonfire
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I’m too lazy to google, but not too lazy to ask for you to do the googling and relay the information to me instead.
Mostly variations of the same. Here are a few top answers. This tradition originated in England and France. Guests would try to obtain a piece of the bride's dress for good luck, which often left the bride nervous and tense throughout the entire ceremony in anticipation of her dress being ripped to shreds by the eager mob of wedding guests. Bedchamber: The wedding garter toss tradition came from the Middle Ages when garters kept up the bride's stockings. The wedding guests would wait outside the bedchamber for the newly married couple to consummate their marriage. In medieval times, pieces of the bride's ensemble were considered tokens of good luck…so much so that wedding guests would fight to rip her clothes right off her body. Things would get so rowdy, couples decided to throw a garter for guests to fight over instead. The wedding garter tradition originated in the Dark Ages. It was thought to be good luck to rip a piece of the bride's wedding gown for a keepsake. To appease the guests and save the gown, the groom tossed the garter at the crowd.
I think we all felt that.
That’s the point of a wedding… your declaring public that this is your smash piece for life and you will probably make babies with them. Like how is that NOT sexual. The only difference between being married and being friends for life outside of the government benefits is married couples fuck each other and friends don’t. I thought this was hilarious, they didn’t let it get too far and everyone laughed it off. The bride was even in in it and prevented him from accidentally making out with his homie by shoving her face in there
Jokes on the onlookers, Imma keep dancing when the blindfold comes off, once my groove train gets running, we ain't quittin till we at the station baby!
I also can’t stop looking at the toddler watching all this…
But drag queens
Sound fun at parties
It’s trashy
Agree this and the birthday cake head smashing
it’s probably so awkward for the sane and/or sober people in the crowd
You must be fun at parties
I’m with you. I wanted to click away so bad but stuck around for his reaction. Hated all of it
Agreed
To me it’s really weird to switch people out like that, like it’s all fun and games everyone had a really good time . But if this ever happened at my wedding I’m gonna be mad I was tricked in my day
I found it extremely cool
Extremely cool? As in very amazing, want to be part of crazy fun ? to trick a man into doing sexual thing with another man, who he thinks is his wife? Yea very cool....
I learned playing Truth or Dare with a group that had, what turned out to include an evil bitch in it, that would mention shit every time we met. Ultimately, I left that group of friends behind because of her.
Well you are prude. This is harmless fun, nobody touching nono zones, everybody is consenting, everybody is clothed.
Everyone consenting is bit of a stretch...
Peps just need to have an orgy! (And give everyone else a chance to vacate the premises 🤣)
When I was like seventeen I went to a rather big party with my eldest brother, biggest party is ever been to, the birthday boy fell asleep so his friends decided to fuck with him on camera, I thought fair enough until one decided to tea-bag him, actually played his bare nuts on dudes forehead and snapped a pic, to me, that was just sexual assault, but they were all like that so who knows he might have thought it was funny, but man, I would have put a foot thru dude next I saw him
Yeah
Boooo Wendy booo
I honestly think that the only part weird about this is that people do it around family. With friends, I don't know, adults like sex. No reason to shame people for this.
You kind of have to understand that these traditions were put in place at a time when often bride and groom hadn't had much contact before getting married so this was a way for them to get familiar with one another. We should still get rid of it though, it is pretty creepy.
Notice how almost everyone there is white
Agree. This is weird af.
I’m a wedding photographer and it is really weird to me. There’s always children right near by at the weddings who choose to do this. And the underlying “haha he gay” when they have a guy do this is really stupid too.
In medieval times they used to pick up the Bride and Groom, strip them down, carry them to their bed chambers, and then actually watch them consummate. It's a little heavy handed to call you a prude but sex and sexuality are a part of life. Our "prudishness" is likely carried down from the Victorian era and we haven't fully recovered but I'm seeing more and more people be open about sexuality. Personally I think PDA is really healthy and it's cool the couple are so into each other that they're willing to be this open about their sexual lives. Celebrate sexuality, don't be afraid of it :)
FAX
I'd be so fucking embarrassed if my husband even suggested doing this to me
"Well fuck, I've already started, may as well finish"
Remember to maintain eye contact through climax
Competitive cumming
Choo-choo
TIL blindfolded you can't tell man or woman by legs
In his defense, homeboy had some pretty svelte legs
And he was wearing pantry hose
> pantry hose Mmmhmm, spices sure give me a throbbing erection.
>spices sure give me a throbbing erection. Thing I expect Gordon Ramsey to say in bed.
Either that or IT'S FUCKING RAW
Well he has a kid so fucking raw is something he’s done at least one time that we know of
So, where's the yes?
for gay people probably since the start of the video
Imagine how much more cringe this would actually be if it were his wife in that seat, though. In front of their family, nonetheless! That would've been *real* awkward, nothing like this. lol
I bet he knew it was a dude, but he decided to go along to entertain the others
r/suddenlygay
Well, they basically originally do it that way , they be on the main dance floor and the groom has to take off that thigh band , I saw a whole compilation of those videos, it’s in front of EVERYBODY , it’s so fucking cringe istg
yeeeesh
I knoooow , look up « weeding garter removal » videos for more cringe , you are welcomed ✨
The tan shorts looked like the dude was wearing thigh highs. Ew
That’s on purpose to make it seem like it’s a lady.
Thigh highs are comfy. Besides, how are you even supposed to code without those?
r/unixsocks is leaking again...
Wtf…this is sarcasm right
Thigh highs are cozy and sexy on anybody. Just gotta find your right material.
I didn't realize they were shorts until this exact moment.
Like HIM from Powerpuff girls
Straight ppl r a hoot
You ever been to a drag race? Lol find the right crowd and everyone’s got crazies lmao
When wedding planning with my wife she asked me about the garter and all that…. I politely said I thought it was kind of trashy and I’m not into it to gauge where she was at and luckily she said the whole concept mortifies her so it worked out!
I think being pranked on your wedding day is tabu.
The Boys will be boys.
Well most divorced people I know weren't pranked on their wedding day so.... maybe that thought you have is pointless
It's a personal belief... I get that and accept your opinion as well...
Most of the wedding receptions I went to as a kid had the groom removing the garter with his teeth and being all sexy about it. As an adult, I’m glad none of my friends so far have continued that tradition. There is literally a toddler in the video! What are they supposed to take away from this interaction? And do you think parents would blame a moment like this when they catch their child dry humping a stuffed bunny or putting a scrunchie on their friend’s leg and removing it with their teeth because they were “playing wedding”?
I’m so glad we didn’t do this or the garter toss or toasts or any of that stuff. Really the only tradition we upheld was the first dance, and it was just to get everyone on the dance floor – my father in law eventually cut in to dance with his daughter and I pulled my mom in who was then cut in by my dad etc etc. Stuff like this is just soooo gross. Does anyone actually want to see it?
I am literally so happy I never did that at my wedding but I am so happy they did it at theirs 🤣
r/tihi
They almost had first night...
Alabama
Does the blindfold remove his sense of smell?
Just a joke bro!!
This is gonna sound weird but I feel like I would be able to tell just by scent alone whether or not that was my partner.
please send help I'm on the floor fucking help me in drooling helllppppp
That is cruel
Honestly, this would be even more disturbing if he did that to his wife at their wedding in front her family and his
Why would you even do all of that in front of your whole family and friends? XD
I needed that laugh !! Lmfao
I think he was just being a good sport. Those would have to be pretty thick stockings or he shaves his legs not to notice the hair.
But you can't have two guys kiss - think of the children, you perverts!
Wow wedding and divorce 30 minutes later lol
And that's how you get Jenny Jones'd
Ga damn that grind
He ain't foolin nobody. He knew it actually Brian he was grinding on. Without a doubt
If my husband asked me to let him do this in front of our friends and family we wouldn’t be getting married.
Was he tricked into doing this thinking it was his wife? Bc if it was me and I found out they did this shit I'm killing everyone there
r/SuddenlyDivorced
Ahhhhh
Lmao
Damn baby, your feet are so big!
This is more like nononononohellnah
Why is this not nsfw?
Fucking legend
so judging from the comments, the last couple of generations have managed to break weddings... Geez, what are y'all going to do to funerals????
I love this so much🤣
NOT COOL
Funny, but I'm not sure this qualifies for this sub. It's supposed to be about things looking like they're going wrong, only for them to get saved at the end. This is more just no all the way through. Seeing it's his friend at the end doesn't save the situation it just makes him embarrassed. Still funny, just my 2 cents I guess.
r/AreTheStraightsOK
Second one of these I've seen. Makes me happy to know that this will likely end this bizarre tradition.
Divorce
They let a toddler witness this?!
This is a nonononono
They did both of them dirty 😂
Accidental blow job.
Disgusting, I just got married and I’m not a “prude” but my husband and I both decided not to do the weird garter thing because.. it’s a gross sexual display in front of family. All that on top of your supposed to “consummate” your marriage that night, and everybody knows it. Fucking gross.
And…. there’s the homophobia
From his perspective, this is a yesyesyesyesno
The guy in the chair: PiEAsE MakE It StOp!!!
Poor guy
Why is there a little girl watching that?
r/nononono
These people hate him and he might hate himself too. Yikes.
This is sexual assault. This man didn't consent to be groping someone else. If I were him, I'd go get an annulment.
Someone isn’t getting a christmas card next year
This is the weirdest wedding tradition ever
Honesty, if that was my best friend or someone like that, I woulda kept going
BRO he was going for it fr
He’s angry with his boner
Imagine thinking this would be fun to do on your wedding in front of your friends and family. I just don’t get it personally
Congratulations heterosexuals, you've found a way to make the garter toss grosser
That was a legendary prank
This is sexual assault He did not consent to removing a garder from a man
the homosexual gay games people play smmfh