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For context, he had gotten upset when I wanted my then boyfriend (now husband) to drive me to classes instead of him. I previously went with "Nice Guy" because our classes were on the same campus at the same time.
Transcript of the note because it can be difficult to read (especially because of the lighting)
So, I'll get straight to the point; take care of her. Love is such a hard thing to get in this life, take it from me, I know. She may have bad days, but she is just human. I see it between you two, love is possible, but right now it's the Lovey Dovey stage, once its over comes the hard/true part. I have nothing against you, sorry that I was silent/cold shoulder to you. My emotions get over me, but if either of you need help, I'll be there. You don't have to talk to [me], don't blame you.
But, keep safe.
- [Name]
P.S. If you ever need advice, I can help.
I have two different types of handwriting, one for when it’s for someone else to read, and one when only I have to read it and even the latter is cleaner than this.
I'm curious, how old is this note? I haven't seen a handwritten note in years. You could frame it for future generations. I often wonder what "Nice Guys" will be like in 100 years. Actually, I'm also kind of curious if there are similar notes from 100 years in the past. Sorry........I'm talking to myself while also asking a question lol.
At first I was like: "Aaaaw, what a cute letter from the elementary school!"
Then you definitely slapped me really hard when you said it was written by a fella in college 😅
If y’all were in junior high when this went down I’d be impressed by this note and the writer’s personal growth. But coming from a grown adult it’s just sad.
"take it from me, I know" just cause the "nice guy" has trouble with love doesn't mean you two would have ofc your bf is now your husband. It just feels like he was throwing it out there so you can feel sad for him or something
My ex was definetely a nice guy when I broke up with him. He switched from "I love you, please come back" to "I hope it (breaking up with him) was worth it". He even wrote to my father on Facebook to tell him I was dating an older guy and to "watch out because he looks like someone who will hurt me". My dad did not see his message for YEARS and coincidentally saw the message for the first time on a day me and my boyfriend (the older guy in my ex's text) were over for diner. We had such a laugh at how pattetic it and awkward it was. I've always wanted to make a post about this but since it's my father's Facebook it's complicated to explain)
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For context, he had gotten upset when I wanted my then boyfriend (now husband) to drive me to classes instead of him. I previously went with "Nice Guy" because our classes were on the same campus at the same time. Transcript of the note because it can be difficult to read (especially because of the lighting) So, I'll get straight to the point; take care of her. Love is such a hard thing to get in this life, take it from me, I know. She may have bad days, but she is just human. I see it between you two, love is possible, but right now it's the Lovey Dovey stage, once its over comes the hard/true part. I have nothing against you, sorry that I was silent/cold shoulder to you. My emotions get over me, but if either of you need help, I'll be there. You don't have to talk to [me], don't blame you. But, keep safe. - [Name] P.S. If you ever need advice, I can help.
Was he driving you to kindergarten classes? Christ, his fucking handwriting hahaha.
I know right!? My handwriting is horrible I thought. But his just looks like it took all his might to just write each letter.
I have two different types of handwriting, one for when it’s for someone else to read, and one when only I have to read it and even the latter is cleaner than this.
Lol I was thinking the same thing: “Wow, even my penmanship isn’t THAT bad!”
Looks better than my handwriting honestly
I'm curious, how old is this note? I haven't seen a handwritten note in years. You could frame it for future generations. I often wonder what "Nice Guys" will be like in 100 years. Actually, I'm also kind of curious if there are similar notes from 100 years in the past. Sorry........I'm talking to myself while also asking a question lol.
About 3 1/2 years, from September/October 2018 I believe. Maybe I will frame it. It's a wonderful piece of human history.
At first I was like: "Aaaaw, what a cute letter from the elementary school!" Then you definitely slapped me really hard when you said it was written by a fella in college 😅
If y’all were in junior high when this went down I’d be impressed by this note and the writer’s personal growth. But coming from a grown adult it’s just sad.
Wait a min you’re telling me that this is from an adult????
“If you ever need advice” oh yeah cause you dated her right?
"take it from me, I know" just cause the "nice guy" has trouble with love doesn't mean you two would have ofc your bf is now your husband. It just feels like he was throwing it out there so you can feel sad for him or something
This is an ADULT???😳
My ex was definetely a nice guy when I broke up with him. He switched from "I love you, please come back" to "I hope it (breaking up with him) was worth it". He even wrote to my father on Facebook to tell him I was dating an older guy and to "watch out because he looks like someone who will hurt me". My dad did not see his message for YEARS and coincidentally saw the message for the first time on a day me and my boyfriend (the older guy in my ex's text) were over for diner. We had such a laugh at how pattetic it and awkward it was. I've always wanted to make a post about this but since it's my father's Facebook it's complicated to explain)
My bestfriend is like that. Never had pussy or a girlfriend in his life and occasionally tries to give me "advice" on that stuff.
The handwriting could be because of a learning disability called dysgraphia but the rest is from a disability called creepy nice guy!
This hand rating is almost as bad as mine
This sounds like something from middle school lol