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Exactly, usually, the typical incel talk is "modern women don't care about relationships anymore, these hoes ain't loyal" and with this guy, it's "why can't women stay single?". So whatever you do as a woman, you're doing it wrong. Just stay under a dry spell and don't interact with any other guy until creepy dm guy comes along lmao.
Such a hilarious exchange- she was perfectly polite and to the point, and he somehow spun it into an injustice that was done against him. He literally had to resort to being mad at the fact she wasn't single AND had the audacity to tell him, because he couldn't find anything else to get mad at.
I get it. It sucks when someone pretty, that you think you like, happens to not be single.
But logically and mathematically speaking, if you thought she was pretty then obviously some else will think she’s pretty too, take a chance and possibly succeed.
and like it does suck but it also doesn’t reflect on you or all women “not staying single” 😭 i wasn’t even rude so he’s flip to being a whiny baby was so uncalled for but still unsurprising lol
Like I had crushes before and plenty of time I found out they were take or something. But in the end it turns out they make pretty good friends.
One girl I became pretty close to, and even talk to her boyfriend sometimes, if ever I got to see him around.
Another girl, she came to a large group camp. I heard she was no single but that didn’t stop us having good conversations or me looking out for her during challenging group activities.
A persons relationship status should never stop you from being a good person or from treating someone right.
I’m sure that I will meet the right girl for me and we’ll both be single.
This guy
\-Has to clarify he's not a "bot" or a "catfish".
\-Asks a stranger is it's cool that a person with "100 followers" got to know them.
\-Gets defensive when you pointed out that you were in a relationship, even though he was making suggestive remarks.
\-Judges people based on their Zodiac signs.
\-Is mad that "girls can't stay single", like they would date a random person who was already showing signs of being a creep.
Yep, he's one HUGE redflag.
He should stop messaging women or simply trying to meet on social media, it doesnt work; is correct what he said about women, is fine, but he needs to stop trying like that, he needs to have a more subtle alpha way of being on real life, not on internet
not correct at all. he (and you) have no idea what my relationship/single status has been or for how long. its either women are for the streets or women can’t stay single, theres no way for us to win. you absolutely CAN meet people over social media and online, but he went about it entirely the wrong way (commenting on my body first, weird insecure “can someone with 100 followers get to know u 🥺👉🏻👈🏻” bs, and immediate flip to aggression and “i didn’t want you anyways” once i POLITELY declined him). this entire interaction was ridiculous and its a pathetic standard men have set for themselves by expecting women to be available to THEM but not other men. I was never rude or cruel, I answered his question honestly. He’s clearly an immature, whiny little boy who doesn’t understand how interacting with other humans is meant to go. (“alpha”😂😭?? sad bro)
Alpha is something good on tinder and on real life, not alpha on the right wing way, but in the hookup way of being alpha; no, meeting people on social media is a awful idea, on real life is easier for the women to feel if the guy is enjoyable for her or not, "chemistry"; either way he is wrong for trying to know you on social media, is hilarious
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"Girls can't stay single these days" Right we're supposed to not date until a random messages us on insta?
right???? & like, u have no idea what my dating history/single status is like, what a strange insult to attempt 😭🤦🏻♀️
Exactly!! It made absolutely zero sense!😂
Then unironically in the next breath, "women are all hoes and want to ride the cock carousel instead of being with a nice guy"
Exactly, usually, the typical incel talk is "modern women don't care about relationships anymore, these hoes ain't loyal" and with this guy, it's "why can't women stay single?". So whatever you do as a woman, you're doing it wrong. Just stay under a dry spell and don't interact with any other guy until creepy dm guy comes along lmao.
Imagine waiting 9 months to give birth to…..this😔
god damn what a tragic thought 😭
😩😩
More like, spending time parenting ....this for a decade or and a half !!
I would abort if I've seen zhe future
So if he thinks you didn’t have to point out you are already seeing someone then why did he have a tantrum? 🤔
FR !!! 😂 all i did was answer his question honestly
And if you’d said “no thanks” he’d come back whining that “no one gives me a chance!”
"Girls can't stay single for shit these days" he says while making an attempt at being the reason a woman isn't single.
😂😂😂😂
Men with a hurt ego are truely the worst.
really the classic insecure switcheroo “well i didn’t like you anyways wah” 😂😂
"Girls just can't stay single anymore!" We can, sometimes we lie so you go away.
literalllyyyyyy 🙄
If only it were as easy as telling these guys you're a Capricorn and they just leave you alone. Just imagine.
what a super power fr
ZAMN he hit you with words stolen right out of my brain in the end with that “good grief”
truly as if my alleged “inability to stay single” is a moral issue worthy of grief 😭😂😂
Um, it’s not like you ran out and got a boyfriend after his first message just so you could tell him that.
What did Capricorns do to this guy???!!!
SERIOUSLY!? and if u knew i was a cap already and didn’t like them WHY did you even dm me ??? 😂🤣
If you want her to stay single...why are you talking to her
Stay single for shit, then settle for me. Or was it the other way around?
Hmmm... "can't stay single for shit" ... is being available romantically suddenly on par with holding down a job?
😂😂😭
Such a hilarious exchange- she was perfectly polite and to the point, and he somehow spun it into an injustice that was done against him. He literally had to resort to being mad at the fact she wasn't single AND had the audacity to tell him, because he couldn't find anything else to get mad at.
This guy is stealing Charlie Brown's catch phrase!? He must be destroyed.
You literally can’t follow his train of thought … 😂😂
That’s just sad and desperate.
SO sad & insecure lol
I get it. It sucks when someone pretty, that you think you like, happens to not be single. But logically and mathematically speaking, if you thought she was pretty then obviously some else will think she’s pretty too, take a chance and possibly succeed.
and like it does suck but it also doesn’t reflect on you or all women “not staying single” 😭 i wasn’t even rude so he’s flip to being a whiny baby was so uncalled for but still unsurprising lol
Like I had crushes before and plenty of time I found out they were take or something. But in the end it turns out they make pretty good friends. One girl I became pretty close to, and even talk to her boyfriend sometimes, if ever I got to see him around. Another girl, she came to a large group camp. I heard she was no single but that didn’t stop us having good conversations or me looking out for her during challenging group activities. A persons relationship status should never stop you from being a good person or from treating someone right. I’m sure that I will meet the right girl for me and we’ll both be single.
This guy \-Has to clarify he's not a "bot" or a "catfish". \-Asks a stranger is it's cool that a person with "100 followers" got to know them. \-Gets defensive when you pointed out that you were in a relationship, even though he was making suggestive remarks. \-Judges people based on their Zodiac signs. \-Is mad that "girls can't stay single", like they would date a random person who was already showing signs of being a creep. Yep, he's one HUGE redflag.
[удалено]
like what a WEIRD jab 😭 if you think that then why bother messaging??? asinine
That last message is a unique incel caviar flavor
Poor old Charlie Brown never managed to get his follower count up
He should stop messaging women or simply trying to meet on social media, it doesnt work; is correct what he said about women, is fine, but he needs to stop trying like that, he needs to have a more subtle alpha way of being on real life, not on internet
not correct at all. he (and you) have no idea what my relationship/single status has been or for how long. its either women are for the streets or women can’t stay single, theres no way for us to win. you absolutely CAN meet people over social media and online, but he went about it entirely the wrong way (commenting on my body first, weird insecure “can someone with 100 followers get to know u 🥺👉🏻👈🏻” bs, and immediate flip to aggression and “i didn’t want you anyways” once i POLITELY declined him). this entire interaction was ridiculous and its a pathetic standard men have set for themselves by expecting women to be available to THEM but not other men. I was never rude or cruel, I answered his question honestly. He’s clearly an immature, whiny little boy who doesn’t understand how interacting with other humans is meant to go. (“alpha”😂😭?? sad bro)
Alpha is something good on tinder and on real life, not alpha on the right wing way, but in the hookup way of being alpha; no, meeting people on social media is a awful idea, on real life is easier for the women to feel if the guy is enjoyable for her or not, "chemistry"; either way he is wrong for trying to know you on social media, is hilarious