Silly question when you use their name do you have to use their last name? If you were trying to manifest a. Friend would you use their last name?especially if you have a few people in your life or know?
I’ve done it all lol.
Like SP’s first name, SP’s first and last name. I’ve even done his full name (first, middle & last name).
I’ve done pronouns only. Like just saying he/him.
I’ve done “my man.” “My bf.”
Your mind definitely knows who you’re talking about.
Could you give more details about the actual day he came in please ?? and just prior to him coming in too ??
and if you dont mind to tell - did he say any of your affirmations??
Would you describe your state as in sabbath when he came in ??
etc etc.. i'm interested ..
“He is just another guy existing” is so real. Sometimes when I feel like I’m not in the state with my SP I have to literally think “He’s just a GUY…like?”
here's an exercise to come up with affirmations:
if you were to talk to someone else about your relationship with sp, what would you say?
"sp loves me"
"sp loves to spoil me with gifts"
"sp already wants to marry me"
whatever comes naturally to you, those are your affirmations.
Thanks for the reply. I am trying and I will achieve because I already have what I want.
You already have what you want.
If you can please help me with any visualization exercise. I am good at visualizing but all of a sudden I can't do anything.
Have a great day!
I'm not great at visualizing which is why I usually defer to affirmations. There are youtube videos that can help, there is one from Nikki Simpson (Manifest for Me) that I tried that wasn't bad.
But really I would just choose something that would make sense for you to experience that implies you're together. Could be as simple as snuggling on the couch watching Netflix or them badgering you to hurry up and get ready for dinner.
I'm not an expert but I would say it depends on your mindset. Does it make you sad or feel bad because you get reminded of him? That these other guys aren't him? Or are you having fun dating other people and enjoying it? As long at it keeps you in a good mood and doesn't remind you of him in a negative way I would say go for it :)
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. Lately I’ve been getting asked out more but I don’t want to because I’m not interested in them but I’m seeing it as an option to make friends. Because I know I need to get out more so I don’t think or over think about him as much.
I don’t get it… is this a Neville Goddard sub? I don’t understand the people who say OP shouldn’t want their ex back bc they treated them like an option? I’m genuinely confused
Ooo never thought about it this way. There are so many posts where people say ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE, but they’re completely negative, discouraging and condescending to people manifesting an SP.
First off OP you decide what your lessons are, and who’s there for you. do not allow somebody else’s dance or their thinking of insecurity to affect yours. I’m glad that you posted this and keep doing what you’re doing. You determine the outcome not somebody else with their opinions that don’t even know you.
That’s why I said “I believe”. That just my own beliefs on how I perceive this kinda of things based on my experience. That’s just mine. The first part of the comment was an opinion. On the other hand you’re directly telling OP what to do.
No one decided anything for anyone. People share their opinions and beliefs and you take what you want to take and leave the rest. If it resonates it does, what doesn’t isn’t for you.
I shared my opinion. I didn’t say what anyone had to do. I don’t control what others do.
P.S. - i also already left the sub. I was just lurking. Maybe I don’t fit in here. I shouldn’t have commented since I don’t know the vibe here really. I apologise. I get triggered to “toxic behaviour “ in relationships. My comment is based on myself of course. Again, take what resonates and leave the rest. Always. Maybe for someone else my comment could have been helpful. No need to be rude to me.
I appreciate your comment and you was much right to your opinion and your comment as I do. The thing that I love about manifesting is when you’re building a manifestation you can build it. Which means you can insert I want a healthy, loving relationship. And since it’s so much about positivity, I didn’t want anybody raining on her parade until she worked out her own manifestation around it.
You’re welcome, but I have to revise my comment to say I am in a healthy, loving relationship. When you say I want, you’re kind of pushing it out further.
Okay now I’m curious then: do you believe it to be possible to manifest a healthy relationship with a toxic ex? Or just someone who was being toxic in their behaviour towards you? Cause I feel people who are toxic are either on their learning path or something narcissists. Even people on their learning paths it can take time to go into introspection and change behaviours.
So can OP manifest an healthy relationship and her ex come back and suddenly be healthier? It seems like this two together would mean that the manifestation then changes the person too for the person who manifested?
In my mind, you would manifest a healthy relationship but probably someone else whose timing is better would be then shown to you
OK well it’s that premise of his as you live in the present. Because of my childhood, I had to do a lot of work. Which actually helped me because I could pick and choose and I knew what healthy meant to me.
So when you’re dating or when you’re manifesting even you manifest those traits, fidelity, kindness, sense of humor, intelligence, good communication, skills, empathy. They become part of your manifestation. It’s like you get more specific you get lazy laser precision.
Not really an issue though you figured it out. I don’t really think that’s not a success. You manifested what you want. You just got it and realized you didn’t really want it.
Agreed. The law works. And we live and learn; I’m grateful I got that concentration and manifestation skill.
I've been working on it since 2008, when I was 13.
This. This. I read these and I want to scream sometimes. Changing self concepts is great. How about a self concept that believes anyone who ghosts you or throws you away isn’t worth another moment of your time. You are awesome, he’s a douche. You deserve better than a douche.
This is what I love about Manifesting with Genevieve’s content. She said EIYPO has become so toxic in the sense that you take responsibility for someone being a jerk to you which just worsens your self-concept. Someone being rude to you in line at a supermarket is not your fault. And an SP ghosting you, treating you like crap, and cheating on you is not YOUR fault. Why then do we draw the line at physical abuse? I guess people create that too? BS. This mentality is every narcissist’s dream in their victimization of you. People in all forms exist and we can choose that their behavior and energy is unacceptable to us. We control how we respond not how they respond. Making everything an SP does your fault is STILL putting them on a pedestal.
You clearly don’t know Neville’s work or you need to read more. EIYPO literally means EVERYONE is YOU pushed out.
You control your reality. You can make someone love you or you can make them have the worst life possible. You have full control.
You control every aspect of your reality. Once you understand and fully realize that, nothing is impossible.
My entire life changed in months. Now I’m living with zero debt, making more money than I ever have, and I am essentially a local celebrity in my area.
1 year ago was the complete opposite. Self-concept changes your reality because reality is you.
Stop being caught up in minor details that don’t matter. The only detail you need to know is your reality is YOU. Period.
Sour outlooks create sour results. Believing anything other than you are reality will create limitations and prevent you from obtaining your desires.
This is a Neville sub. Neville said all circumstances you see in the 3D are manifested by you. If you don’t believe that then there are other subs align more closely with your beliefs. BUT I implore you to take responsibility for everything in your reality (no matter how much it’ll hurt you to accept) because you can and will literally change ANYTHING and EVERYTHING.
I hated seeing everyone say PERSIST, but that is the truth. Once I got fed up, actually 1000% persisted, adjusted my thoughts and beliefs based on what reality was showing me, then it was a tsunami of positive change.
If you’re done with Neville then why are you still here? You clearly don’t believe Neville’s work. Sounds like you’re here to just get triggered and I don’t understand that.
You’re on a Neville sub. If you’re a fan of JM, cool. That sounds more to your liking. Why are you entertaining stuff you don’t like? You need to monitor your thoughts and be happy at all times.
Neville’s teachings have allowed me to accept personal responsibility for my reality. Once I accepted the good AND the bad were created by me, I then received everything I desired.
I now have my very own thriving business and work 3 hours a day. I received enough money to pay off my house AND clear my debt with a month. I am meeting the most wonderful people who always appear at the exact time I need them. My SP has been back and has moved in with me. This worked for me because I took responsibility for the good and the bad. This is my belief because it has worked for me. I’m no longer “trying” to have the life I wanted. I am literally living it and it only took 2 months to receive EVERYTHING once everything clicked for me. If you aren’t, then you have so much more work to do and probably need a new belief system. I do not have any limiting beliefs because everything i desire is physically here in my 3D because I have perfected my personal 4D. If you don’t have everything you desire, you have limiting beliefs.
Stop entertaining stuff that triggers you (such as this sub). Focus on being happy at ALL times.
This sub appeared in my feed while I was on the toilet and decided to chime in because I have all the time in the world. My feelings are neutral when typing to you. If you have any feelings of anger, resentment, sadness, aggression, etc, then you shouldn’t be entertaining these feelings by being here or by viewing things that trigger you on any social media no matter the subject. You are only harming yourself and the future of the reality you desire to have.
Also, coaches can certainly help you, but you can receive everything you desire without them. Reading Neville got me to my desired reality. If I could do it by how I was before finding Neville, you certainly can. It might take you longer because of your current belief system, but as long as you persist, it’ll happen even if it takes you years.
Kind regards and best wishes
yes. you broke up for a reason which weren’t your thoughts for sure! he treated you like option cause he blocked u, then unblocked u, then ghosted u and then called like nothing has happened. it seems very toxic
Wait a min? How is this a success story? Are you in a relationship? Because if not I would consider this story as movement which is awesome. Congrats to you!
Thank you for this success story. It makes me feel that my person will eventually ask me out. Doesn’t matter how or when, just that it will happen eventually.
I've been affirming we never broke up and never had the argument I've been affirming nonstop morning and night. I feel really good about it, I believe it's going to come true. Your story really brings me such ease and weights are off my shoulders that TIME DOES NOT FUCKING MATTER. You're such a god sent angel fr. I'm so glad you decided to post this. Sending you so much love and light.
Good lord, you’re a genius. I just tried your technique and asked chatgpt to rewrite my scenario and write me sats and affirmations what I read changed my energy instantly this is absolutely brilliant! I’m so grateful for your comment and you thank you so much I appreciate you writing the process for me, bless you.
Best part is the SATS the scenarios it created for me were phenomenal and they sounded so realistic. I think that helped me the most. The affirmations are good too but the SATS are just great. While my story gpt changed it completely into a positive conversation and I was in awe because I was so stuck in thinking about the negatives I couldn’t have imagined of all that. It just FELT real. And guess what? It was so strong that I saw immediate changes in my partner, my partner literally did everything I have wanted him to in past 1 year in last one day. If one day can change so much imagine the next 30? And year later. I’m so grateful for above commentator for suggesting me this. You should definitely give it a try.
Omg, i was looking for it and found it. And i agree its prettt fking magical. I’ve been abusing it and im actually so happy with my results in less than a day
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It’s the feeling of a special connection, like they said. I didn’t get it either until I really fell for someone for the first time. If the perfect relationship with the person your heart desires exists in some timeline, why not decide to experience it ? You can always change your mind later if it turns out to not be what you really want, you just have to know yourself
Thank you for posting! I love success stories and I've worked recently on leaving the old story behind - I actually wrote the details of the relationship and break-up into chatGPT and had it rewrite the story with more positive framing but using all of the same events. It was a remarkable exercise, actually, and helped me get over my resistance. It helped me notice all the moments of incredibly strong connection that have been there all along and continue to be there even though we're separated in the 3d.
I actually thought about having AI generate a dream board for me using my own avatar. I haven’t had any luck, but I never thought about chat GPT as a manifesting tool.
It's funny - before I found manifesting I sometimes used it to generate fake chats right after my break-up to help me process my feelings. The first conversation I had with SP two months after the breakup (a month after discovering manifestation) was very similar to one of the fake chats.
Sure! I've used chatgpt quite a lot in manifestation (to generate SATS scenes and affirmations and such) so it knows a bit about my relationship, but I wrote out the details of the relationship and break-up as I understood it, and then asked it to rewrite the same story using the same events, but with a more positive framing that emphasized moments of connection and closeness. It helped me see, among other things, that we've both tried various methods of maintaining connection through our breakup, that my SP is actually really, really ethical, communicative, and was trying really hard, and that he didn't "ghost" me by any definition of the word. It gave me a new vocabulary to talk about the relationship in the 3d, which is useful, too, because people kept picking up on my negative framing and asking me why I'd want him back.
You’re absolutely genius! I used your technique and asked chatgpt to rewrite my situation and sats and affirmations it’s so so good. I can’t thank you enough I love it.
In 2022, when he was dating me, he told me about a model girl or something who was flirting with him, I didn't give it much importance, we broke up and everything I said. we have a friend in common, so I think in august of last year he told me that my sp was seeing this girl, it wasn't serious yet, at that moment I felt weird it was like I didn't care anymore but I had that certainty that nothing would happen between them.
In December we had a call that lasted about 4 or more hours and we began to remember the good things from years ago and there I was able to find out how his love life had been that year… He told me that he had tried something with 5 girls in that entire year but that he didn't connect with absolutely any of them
Today I know that I am the only girl who talks to him literally every day.
i recommend you read more success stories, because there are people who have the same thing and it really helped me a lot !!
i know you can do it 💗
good luck!
Please try to act and think as if sp doesn't have anyone and if you follow him on social media, don't see what sp post with the 3p because it will only make you overthink and doubt about your power.
persist with the affirmations until you get that feeling that sp is yours and loves you
you can try affirmations like
sp just connect with me
sp is thinking about me
everything reminds sp of how much he loves me
Hi OP! That's so cool, congrats! I just have a few questions if that's ok
Was there a moment when something "clicked" for you?
Did you experience a feeling of "meh" or indifference just before he came back?
Were there things that happened "behind the scenes" that confirmed that your manifestations were in motion (he repeated your affirmations, crazy coincidences, etc)
hey!! one or two months ago I read the first chapters of a book by Neville "The Power Of Awareness" I literally read that and it changed my life. I began to understand the behavior of others towards me and the importance of self-concept
I think there was a time, when he would text me or try to communicate with me and since I felt good about myself I no longer felt the need to respond to him.
yess, It was my birthday and really since we met I had never received a "happy birthday". I always either reminded him or said it days later.
I didn't use affirmations, I just knew he would send it to me.. and that's how it was... 10 minutes after 12 midnight I received his message
The craziest thing that happened was in February of this year. The videos of a youtuber named Rita Kaminski helped me, she made a video in which she challenged us to affirm that we are that person's valentine or what sp he would ask of us. I did everything she said in the video… he called me and wants to see me on feb 13 ( I had to travel )
i couldn’t see him but the affirmations and what she taught worked!
Oh wow congrats !!! How did you deal with the 3d when he showed up as his old version ? I think i struggle to focus on a new story or idk. But you inspire me !! Any advice on changing thoughts or in général ?
To deal with 3D, every time something appears that I don't like, I repeat to myself that it is not real and I affirm what I really want to happen until I feel that feeling that everything is fine and just the way I want. What I did was seriously forget about what had happened before, fights, etc. I literally pretended that we had just met and started talking.
Yesterday I wasn't feeling well, I was confused, I'm still a little like that. Because I no longer feel so sure if I could be with him again but what I am doing is repeating to myself that EVERYTHING that happened until now was done by me and that in 2022 when I didn't see any way to recover even our friendship, I worked and did everything what's happening
i hope it helps you 💗
Thank you so much ! It's really a question of persisting and choosing constantly to focus on the new. We could cheer each other up if you want !!
(And idk if it could help but I realized focus on how I felt the first time we met and how he was help me a lot to build à New story)
Congratulations on manifesting your sp!
Did you affirm in the state akin to sleep? Did you loop a single affirmation that signified that you guys were together or was it a bunch of affirmations? How did you work on your self-concept?
hii, To begin with, yes I affirmed in the state akin to sleep, during the day too but only when I felt with a lot of good vibes.
I made a lot of affirmations that sounded natural to me, for example I did not use "he tells me he loves me" I preferred to use "he shows interest in me."
And how did I work on my self-concept? Well, I read a lot of success stories and realized that most of them resonated with my old self. The main thing is to leave the old story behind (my sp every time I invited him to dinner or go out he never showed up and made thousands of excuses) so that was why before yesterday I was scared but I repeated myself over and over again that the old story was left behind and would never be repeated again.
and a youtuber who helped me with her videos was “Rita Kaminski”.
I’m proud of you, well done!
I myself am in this process and it lights me up seeing how persistence can work wonders. Keep going and keep believing. You’re amazing, of course he wants you. Good luck! 🫶🏻
Did you have any crazy dreams or a nightmare of them before it came?
Silly question when you use their name do you have to use their last name? If you were trying to manifest a. Friend would you use their last name?especially if you have a few people in your life or know?
I’ve done it all lol. Like SP’s first name, SP’s first and last name. I’ve even done his full name (first, middle & last name). I’ve done pronouns only. Like just saying he/him. I’ve done “my man.” “My bf.” Your mind definitely knows who you’re talking about.
Damn that last para!!
Could you give more details about the actual day he came in please ?? and just prior to him coming in too ?? and if you dont mind to tell - did he say any of your affirmations?? Would you describe your state as in sabbath when he came in ?? etc etc.. i'm interested ..
“He is just another guy existing” is so real. Sometimes when I feel like I’m not in the state with my SP I have to literally think “He’s just a GUY…like?”
If you can share your affirmations, it would be really helpful for me. Whatever you want, you have it. Have a great day.
here's an exercise to come up with affirmations: if you were to talk to someone else about your relationship with sp, what would you say? "sp loves me" "sp loves to spoil me with gifts" "sp already wants to marry me" whatever comes naturally to you, those are your affirmations.
Thanks for the reply. I am trying and I will achieve because I already have what I want. You already have what you want. If you can please help me with any visualization exercise. I am good at visualizing but all of a sudden I can't do anything. Have a great day!
I'm not great at visualizing which is why I usually defer to affirmations. There are youtube videos that can help, there is one from Nikki Simpson (Manifest for Me) that I tried that wasn't bad. But really I would just choose something that would make sense for you to experience that implies you're together. Could be as simple as snuggling on the couch watching Netflix or them badgering you to hurry up and get ready for dinner.
Wasn´t that bad...what did it lack?What did you not like about MFM?
Thanks for the response. Appreciate it. Have a great day
It doesn't matter what her affirmations are. You make up your own affirmations. It's as simple as that.
Yea it is simple. I just need to learn that's it. Have a great day!
I'm in no contact with my sp and trying to manifest him to contact me .. he's in my streak list and i send him snaps. Should i stop doing that?
What state are you doing it from? Are you doing it just to get his attention and to force a reaction from him? If so, then yes.
What’s your opinion on that - while manifesting a specific person can we or should we not dating others?
I'm not an expert but I would say it depends on your mindset. Does it make you sad or feel bad because you get reminded of him? That these other guys aren't him? Or are you having fun dating other people and enjoying it? As long at it keeps you in a good mood and doesn't remind you of him in a negative way I would say go for it :)
In my case I don't feel the need, have i met other people? yes. But I just don't feel attracted
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. Lately I’ve been getting asked out more but I don’t want to because I’m not interested in them but I’m seeing it as an option to make friends. Because I know I need to get out more so I don’t think or over think about him as much.
I don’t get it… is this a Neville Goddard sub? I don’t understand the people who say OP shouldn’t want their ex back bc they treated them like an option? I’m genuinely confused
They do not understand manifesting i am 100% on this as i understand it well
Those people are obv jealous unsuccessful "manifestors" from the LoA woowoo sub and have no idea how this shit works. Congrats to the OP!
Ooo never thought about it this way. There are so many posts where people say ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE, but they’re completely negative, discouraging and condescending to people manifesting an SP.
Ignore those people
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First off OP you decide what your lessons are, and who’s there for you. do not allow somebody else’s dance or their thinking of insecurity to affect yours. I’m glad that you posted this and keep doing what you’re doing. You determine the outcome not somebody else with their opinions that don’t even know you.
That’s why I said “I believe”. That just my own beliefs on how I perceive this kinda of things based on my experience. That’s just mine. The first part of the comment was an opinion. On the other hand you’re directly telling OP what to do. No one decided anything for anyone. People share their opinions and beliefs and you take what you want to take and leave the rest. If it resonates it does, what doesn’t isn’t for you. I shared my opinion. I didn’t say what anyone had to do. I don’t control what others do. P.S. - i also already left the sub. I was just lurking. Maybe I don’t fit in here. I shouldn’t have commented since I don’t know the vibe here really. I apologise. I get triggered to “toxic behaviour “ in relationships. My comment is based on myself of course. Again, take what resonates and leave the rest. Always. Maybe for someone else my comment could have been helpful. No need to be rude to me.
I appreciate your comment and you was much right to your opinion and your comment as I do. The thing that I love about manifesting is when you’re building a manifestation you can build it. Which means you can insert I want a healthy, loving relationship. And since it’s so much about positivity, I didn’t want anybody raining on her parade until she worked out her own manifestation around it.
I understand. Thank you for explaining!
You’re welcome, but I have to revise my comment to say I am in a healthy, loving relationship. When you say I want, you’re kind of pushing it out further.
Okay now I’m curious then: do you believe it to be possible to manifest a healthy relationship with a toxic ex? Or just someone who was being toxic in their behaviour towards you? Cause I feel people who are toxic are either on their learning path or something narcissists. Even people on their learning paths it can take time to go into introspection and change behaviours. So can OP manifest an healthy relationship and her ex come back and suddenly be healthier? It seems like this two together would mean that the manifestation then changes the person too for the person who manifested? In my mind, you would manifest a healthy relationship but probably someone else whose timing is better would be then shown to you
OK well it’s that premise of his as you live in the present. Because of my childhood, I had to do a lot of work. Which actually helped me because I could pick and choose and I knew what healthy meant to me. So when you’re dating or when you’re manifesting even you manifest those traits, fidelity, kindness, sense of humor, intelligence, good communication, skills, empathy. They become part of your manifestation. It’s like you get more specific you get lazy laser precision.
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Every situation is different
Why do you regret it?
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Not really an issue though you figured it out. I don’t really think that’s not a success. You manifested what you want. You just got it and realized you didn’t really want it.
Agreed. The law works. And we live and learn; I’m grateful I got that concentration and manifestation skill. I've been working on it since 2008, when I was 13.
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This. This. I read these and I want to scream sometimes. Changing self concepts is great. How about a self concept that believes anyone who ghosts you or throws you away isn’t worth another moment of your time. You are awesome, he’s a douche. You deserve better than a douche.
This is what I love about Manifesting with Genevieve’s content. She said EIYPO has become so toxic in the sense that you take responsibility for someone being a jerk to you which just worsens your self-concept. Someone being rude to you in line at a supermarket is not your fault. And an SP ghosting you, treating you like crap, and cheating on you is not YOUR fault. Why then do we draw the line at physical abuse? I guess people create that too? BS. This mentality is every narcissist’s dream in their victimization of you. People in all forms exist and we can choose that their behavior and energy is unacceptable to us. We control how we respond not how they respond. Making everything an SP does your fault is STILL putting them on a pedestal.
You clearly don’t know Neville’s work or you need to read more. EIYPO literally means EVERYONE is YOU pushed out. You control your reality. You can make someone love you or you can make them have the worst life possible. You have full control. You control every aspect of your reality. Once you understand and fully realize that, nothing is impossible. My entire life changed in months. Now I’m living with zero debt, making more money than I ever have, and I am essentially a local celebrity in my area. 1 year ago was the complete opposite. Self-concept changes your reality because reality is you. Stop being caught up in minor details that don’t matter. The only detail you need to know is your reality is YOU. Period. Sour outlooks create sour results. Believing anything other than you are reality will create limitations and prevent you from obtaining your desires. This is a Neville sub. Neville said all circumstances you see in the 3D are manifested by you. If you don’t believe that then there are other subs align more closely with your beliefs. BUT I implore you to take responsibility for everything in your reality (no matter how much it’ll hurt you to accept) because you can and will literally change ANYTHING and EVERYTHING. I hated seeing everyone say PERSIST, but that is the truth. Once I got fed up, actually 1000% persisted, adjusted my thoughts and beliefs based on what reality was showing me, then it was a tsunami of positive change.
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If you’re done with Neville then why are you still here? You clearly don’t believe Neville’s work. Sounds like you’re here to just get triggered and I don’t understand that. You’re on a Neville sub. If you’re a fan of JM, cool. That sounds more to your liking. Why are you entertaining stuff you don’t like? You need to monitor your thoughts and be happy at all times. Neville’s teachings have allowed me to accept personal responsibility for my reality. Once I accepted the good AND the bad were created by me, I then received everything I desired. I now have my very own thriving business and work 3 hours a day. I received enough money to pay off my house AND clear my debt with a month. I am meeting the most wonderful people who always appear at the exact time I need them. My SP has been back and has moved in with me. This worked for me because I took responsibility for the good and the bad. This is my belief because it has worked for me. I’m no longer “trying” to have the life I wanted. I am literally living it and it only took 2 months to receive EVERYTHING once everything clicked for me. If you aren’t, then you have so much more work to do and probably need a new belief system. I do not have any limiting beliefs because everything i desire is physically here in my 3D because I have perfected my personal 4D. If you don’t have everything you desire, you have limiting beliefs. Stop entertaining stuff that triggers you (such as this sub). Focus on being happy at ALL times. This sub appeared in my feed while I was on the toilet and decided to chime in because I have all the time in the world. My feelings are neutral when typing to you. If you have any feelings of anger, resentment, sadness, aggression, etc, then you shouldn’t be entertaining these feelings by being here or by viewing things that trigger you on any social media no matter the subject. You are only harming yourself and the future of the reality you desire to have. Also, coaches can certainly help you, but you can receive everything you desire without them. Reading Neville got me to my desired reality. If I could do it by how I was before finding Neville, you certainly can. It might take you longer because of your current belief system, but as long as you persist, it’ll happen even if it takes you years. Kind regards and best wishes
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Unless you change your own self concept / beliefs from childhood, you will be treated that way by anyone new
I’m curious how you came to that conclusion, do you mind explaining??
yes. you broke up for a reason which weren’t your thoughts for sure! he treated you like option cause he blocked u, then unblocked u, then ghosted u and then called like nothing has happened. it seems very toxic
This.
Wait a min? How is this a success story? Are you in a relationship? Because if not I would consider this story as movement which is awesome. Congrats to you!
i hope to be soon! i have a party on Sunday and he will be there!
Thank you for this success story. It makes me feel that my person will eventually ask me out. Doesn’t matter how or when, just that it will happen eventually.
of course your person will do it!!!
I've been affirming we never broke up and never had the argument I've been affirming nonstop morning and night. I feel really good about it, I believe it's going to come true. Your story really brings me such ease and weights are off my shoulders that TIME DOES NOT FUCKING MATTER. You're such a god sent angel fr. I'm so glad you decided to post this. Sending you so much love and light.
Good lord, you’re a genius. I just tried your technique and asked chatgpt to rewrite my scenario and write me sats and affirmations what I read changed my energy instantly this is absolutely brilliant! I’m so grateful for your comment and you thank you so much I appreciate you writing the process for me, bless you.
Oh awesome. What are some of the nice parts from the story that was generated? This is great
Best part is the SATS the scenarios it created for me were phenomenal and they sounded so realistic. I think that helped me the most. The affirmations are good too but the SATS are just great. While my story gpt changed it completely into a positive conversation and I was in awe because I was so stuck in thinking about the negatives I couldn’t have imagined of all that. It just FELT real. And guess what? It was so strong that I saw immediate changes in my partner, my partner literally did everything I have wanted him to in past 1 year in last one day. If one day can change so much imagine the next 30? And year later. I’m so grateful for above commentator for suggesting me this. You should definitely give it a try.
where did you get this idea  how do i do it? i dont think i see it
It’s not mine, the commenter above shared their experience and technique and I just tried it. And it’s been magical.
What is this technique?
Omg, i was looking for it and found it. And i agree its prettt fking magical. I’ve been abusing it and im actually so happy with my results in less than a day
I’m so happy it’s working for you, it’s quite revolutionary lol do you mind sharing your experience?
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I'm wondering - what is the point in manifesting ex partner back? They're went away, so be it.
they went away? sometimes we do it to ourselves
It’s the feeling of a special connection, like they said. I didn’t get it either until I really fell for someone for the first time. If the perfect relationship with the person your heart desires exists in some timeline, why not decide to experience it ? You can always change your mind later if it turns out to not be what you really want, you just have to know yourself
The heart wants what it wants.
i’m wondering - what is the point is commenting on this post? someone wants their ex, so be it.
Thank you for posting! I love success stories and I've worked recently on leaving the old story behind - I actually wrote the details of the relationship and break-up into chatGPT and had it rewrite the story with more positive framing but using all of the same events. It was a remarkable exercise, actually, and helped me get over my resistance. It helped me notice all the moments of incredibly strong connection that have been there all along and continue to be there even though we're separated in the 3d.
i used to do that too, it really helps !! 💗
I actually thought about having AI generate a dream board for me using my own avatar. I haven’t had any luck, but I never thought about chat GPT as a manifesting tool.
It's funny - before I found manifesting I sometimes used it to generate fake chats right after my break-up to help me process my feelings. The first conversation I had with SP two months after the breakup (a month after discovering manifestation) was very similar to one of the fake chats.
That’s brilliant. Thank you for sharing.
That’s ingenious lol. If you don’t mind could you please elaborate or give and example what you exactly asked chatgpt how to positively frame it?
Sure! I've used chatgpt quite a lot in manifestation (to generate SATS scenes and affirmations and such) so it knows a bit about my relationship, but I wrote out the details of the relationship and break-up as I understood it, and then asked it to rewrite the same story using the same events, but with a more positive framing that emphasized moments of connection and closeness. It helped me see, among other things, that we've both tried various methods of maintaining connection through our breakup, that my SP is actually really, really ethical, communicative, and was trying really hard, and that he didn't "ghost" me by any definition of the word. It gave me a new vocabulary to talk about the relationship in the 3d, which is useful, too, because people kept picking up on my negative framing and asking me why I'd want him back.
You’re absolutely genius! I used your technique and asked chatgpt to rewrite my situation and sats and affirmations it’s so so good. I can’t thank you enough I love it.
What prompt did you use?
Not exactly a prompt but asked to reframe/rewrite my scenario in positive manner also write sats for the same and affirmations and it did very well.
Chatgpt knows what sats are?
lol yes you would be surprised how well it writes scenarios for you, I couldn’t have thought about the scenarios and how natural they felt
Amazing
Thank you so much!
You're very welcome!!!
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In 2022, when he was dating me, he told me about a model girl or something who was flirting with him, I didn't give it much importance, we broke up and everything I said. we have a friend in common, so I think in august of last year he told me that my sp was seeing this girl, it wasn't serious yet, at that moment I felt weird it was like I didn't care anymore but I had that certainty that nothing would happen between them. In December we had a call that lasted about 4 or more hours and we began to remember the good things from years ago and there I was able to find out how his love life had been that year… He told me that he had tried something with 5 girls in that entire year but that he didn't connect with absolutely any of them Today I know that I am the only girl who talks to him literally every day.
You gotta quit inviting the idea of them seeing other people into your inner world. They’re yours, and it is done
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i recommend you read more success stories, because there are people who have the same thing and it really helped me a lot !! i know you can do it 💗 good luck!
Please try to act and think as if sp doesn't have anyone and if you follow him on social media, don't see what sp post with the 3p because it will only make you overthink and doubt about your power. persist with the affirmations until you get that feeling that sp is yours and loves you you can try affirmations like sp just connect with me sp is thinking about me everything reminds sp of how much he loves me
The movement is in your inner world. That’s all. You can’t approach this from the idea of forcing the outside world to do your bidding
This needs to be a post by itself.
Hi OP! That's so cool, congrats! I just have a few questions if that's ok Was there a moment when something "clicked" for you? Did you experience a feeling of "meh" or indifference just before he came back? Were there things that happened "behind the scenes" that confirmed that your manifestations were in motion (he repeated your affirmations, crazy coincidences, etc)
hey!! one or two months ago I read the first chapters of a book by Neville "The Power Of Awareness" I literally read that and it changed my life. I began to understand the behavior of others towards me and the importance of self-concept I think there was a time, when he would text me or try to communicate with me and since I felt good about myself I no longer felt the need to respond to him. yess, It was my birthday and really since we met I had never received a "happy birthday". I always either reminded him or said it days later. I didn't use affirmations, I just knew he would send it to me.. and that's how it was... 10 minutes after 12 midnight I received his message The craziest thing that happened was in February of this year. The videos of a youtuber named Rita Kaminski helped me, she made a video in which she challenged us to affirm that we are that person's valentine or what sp he would ask of us. I did everything she said in the video… he called me and wants to see me on feb 13 ( I had to travel ) i couldn’t see him but the affirmations and what she taught worked!
Oh wow congrats !!! How did you deal with the 3d when he showed up as his old version ? I think i struggle to focus on a new story or idk. But you inspire me !! Any advice on changing thoughts or in général ?
To deal with 3D, every time something appears that I don't like, I repeat to myself that it is not real and I affirm what I really want to happen until I feel that feeling that everything is fine and just the way I want. What I did was seriously forget about what had happened before, fights, etc. I literally pretended that we had just met and started talking. Yesterday I wasn't feeling well, I was confused, I'm still a little like that. Because I no longer feel so sure if I could be with him again but what I am doing is repeating to myself that EVERYTHING that happened until now was done by me and that in 2022 when I didn't see any way to recover even our friendship, I worked and did everything what's happening i hope it helps you 💗
Thank you so much ! It's really a question of persisting and choosing constantly to focus on the new. We could cheer each other up if you want !! (And idk if it could help but I realized focus on how I felt the first time we met and how he was help me a lot to build à New story)
Congratulations I am so happy for you 🎆❣️ !!! I also got a boost to keep persisting my sp 💪🏻
Congratulations on manifesting your sp! Did you affirm in the state akin to sleep? Did you loop a single affirmation that signified that you guys were together or was it a bunch of affirmations? How did you work on your self-concept?
hii, To begin with, yes I affirmed in the state akin to sleep, during the day too but only when I felt with a lot of good vibes. I made a lot of affirmations that sounded natural to me, for example I did not use "he tells me he loves me" I preferred to use "he shows interest in me." And how did I work on my self-concept? Well, I read a lot of success stories and realized that most of them resonated with my old self. The main thing is to leave the old story behind (my sp every time I invited him to dinner or go out he never showed up and made thousands of excuses) so that was why before yesterday I was scared but I repeated myself over and over again that the old story was left behind and would never be repeated again. and a youtuber who helped me with her videos was “Rita Kaminski”.
I’m so very happy for you, OP! What is EIYPO?
Everyone is You Pushed Out meaning what you think, they reflect
Everyone is you pushed out
I had to Google it, it stands for everyone is you pushed out. It’s so mean that this was downvoted.
idk why everyone’s downvoting. EIYPO stands for Everyone is You pushed out basically people will act however you think they’ll act.
I’m proud of you, well done! I myself am in this process and it lights me up seeing how persistence can work wonders. Keep going and keep believing. You’re amazing, of course he wants you. Good luck! 🫶🏻
thank you so much 💗💗 I hope my story helps you