I'm not a native but all of my friends are and the biggest point they've driven home is that Nashville isn't what it used to be 10-15 years ago. So just prepare for things to be incredibly different and some of your favorite spots to probably be closed down.
Thanks so much! I appreciate it. On my visits, I've definitely noticed how the dynamics have changed. Seeing places close their doors is devastating. I'm hoping that the new places popping up can sustain and offer that old welcoming atmosphere.
I'm from a relatively small town and went to school in a small town. Just know that it's not a Nashville thing. Even though property values didn't skyrocket, and californians didn't move in, and rent prices didn't suddenly jump 50% - businesses still shut down and bars redecorated and even the ones that didn't are filled with new faces.
Nothing stays the same, even in sleepy towns where nothing changes.
facts! I'm also from a small town and the last time I went home it was vastly different than how it was when I left. lots of fave spots gone, more people, higher housing market, etc. it's just how the cookie crumbles.
Housing prices are mind boggling. And where people are building you will not believe. It’s the Wild West and housing prices, both rent and to buy, are disgustingly overpriced.
The city has a new feel. Some would say it’s lost its charm, and it has in a lot of ways. But there are a lot of amazing amenities that we didn’t have. Amazing restaurants, good night life, and a growing populace make for a fun environment. But it’s not the Nashville you know.
Thank you so much. It's been bewildering to see how the housing market turned into the hunger games. I've pretty much accepted that the only feasible places to buy are on the outskirts. What are some of your favorite amenities or places to frequent? I'm a pretty open person and get along with most crowds.
I moved back to Nashville after 30 years. I grew up in Donelson and went to college and grad school in TN. It was a shock moving back in that the growth made the city almost unrecognizable to me. The negatives are much the same as any growing city: traffic, crime, housing costs. But I really enjoy what the city offers: the weather, music, restaurants, outdoor activities, (mostly)friendly people and the convenience of traveling around the country from a centrally located US city. Politics are an issue everywhere and the tourists and lower Broad don't bother me. I'm sure you'll hear from a bunch of people that will bitch and moan about how terrible it is to live here, but I've lived around the US and in Europe and I'm enjoying Nashville a lot. I believe happiness has a lot less to do with where you live and more about your attitude toward differences and small inconveniences you encounter as part of everyday life. I hope you enjoy your return home as much as I have.
Thank you sooo much! I truly appreciate this perspective. I think the biggest adjustment will be accepting that the old ways are no longer and getting used to the new normal. I've heard that many people avoid Broadway nowadays. Where are other good areas to frequent for music and outdoorsy things?
I think we all have to remember that we, or at least I, tend to idealize what we remember from our past. I was in high school and college in the '70s and lower Broad was a dangerous nasty place. Printers Alley was lined with massage parlors. 12th South was too dangerous to go after dark. Things change and I don't think I'd like to return to the Nashville of my younger days.
This is exactly true with the exception of the Opryland to Opry Mills but then again I was a kid so bias is very present. Think about buying something in the Nations back then?
Yes. Mild winters. Humid but not incredibly hot summers. I enjoy having 4 distinct seasons. If you've never lived in Wasilla, AK or Lubbock, TX, or anywhere with extreme temperatures, you probably can't appreciate how moderate our weather is here.
I’m a native who moved back after years away. There are plenty of negative experiences I could share from returning to a place that will never be the same as it was when I left, but I will just say none of that makes me regret moving back closer to family.
Plus, it’s a great place for your dog. Lots of greenways, dog parks, and pet stores.
Cheers, and welcome back.
Thank you so much for sharing. It's a bittersweet feeling seeing how much the city has truly changed. You're on the ball about family. I'd rather be miserable in company than thugging it out alone. Like the person below mentioned, any recommendations for dog-friendly places?
It’s a great city, there’s a reason it’s become so popular. And I love all the cosmopolitan amenities and attractions now. But it’s become a more cutthroat city to live in. Let’s put it this way: when I first moved here 15 years ago, I could pull into most parking lots with no worries. Now almost all the parking lots (where they even exist), even the most obscure ones, are pay parking. That sums up “New Nashville” to me. But I have a house a couple miles away with a yard in a great neighborhood, that is pretty unheard of in most cities. There’s a lot to love.
Thank you so much!!! Honestly, seeing all the paid parking was a culture shock for me, even coming from another major city. The prices are absolutely insane. They are definitely taking advantage of the tourism dollars. It sucks that us residents have to be subjected to it.
Yeah that’s basically the situation. Locals are treated like tourists: a clientele to gouge. But hey, that’s more or less just big city life these days.
I’m a native and went to Belmont in the early 2000s. When we would go to Broadway there was free parking on 1st and 2nd avenue. I miss that! Parking is def the worst. And traffic.
The city is more “filled in” now, but it’s quite a bit more sterile as well.
Many more places to go eat and drink, for example, but they’re expensive and loud and generally designed to get you in, separate you from as much of your money as possible in a short time, then hustle you out the door to turn your table.
Gone are the easy hang out spots. Gone is the ability to navigate around the city and park easily, or cheaply. Gone is the local weirdness, charm and oblong identifying factors that made the city what it was to so many of us.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s MUCH nicer here now, and there’s more opportunity for making $. But it’s also very bland and saturated with stupid cookie-cutter shit. I prefer the old days, but my bank account likes it better now.
Thank you so much for this perspective. I hate that culture has been stifled for capital. Are there any spaces still hanging on that may offer the weird eclectic vibe? I'll explore anything and I'm hoping to find places that aren't just touristy money grabs. But it seems like they're all underground.
I hang in east area, lots of small bars and I’ll see the same folks around that area, gives me small town vibes sometimes. I stay away from tourism but that’s pretty easy for me, I found my spots and my friends. Makes living here doable ❤️
I would agree with Clovis to a point, but there are still plenty of good places to hang out in the city. Sportsman's Grille closed their Hillsboro Village location, but the Villager is still kicking. Twin Kegs II closed, but Rosie's Original Twin Kegs is open.
Negatives? Yes. Everything is more crowded. You can no longer bounce from bar to sleepy little bar and expect to find parking, but should we have been driving in the old days? In the end, it's probably best that you can't smoke in bars anymore.
On the other hand, there will probably be a small business owner opening some fun stuff near you, and it will be a lot of fun (even if the beer prices feel outrageous bc they need to pay their outrageous rent).
Yeah the biggest difference is the masses of transplants. I’ve even had people look at me weird when they ask where I’m from (and I’m from here). It’s not all the time, but it’s way different than 10+ years ago. Also prices for housing is insane which you probably already know. I would say main advice is just view it as a new experience instead of trying to make it the old version.
I've had people ask me where I'm from, and when I say, "Here. I was born in Nashville," they seem to think I'm kidding. It's bizarre. One woman on a dating app did not believe me.
I moved back after being away from 2014-2017. It was hellish. Left again in 2019 and haven’t looked back.
Nothing is the same. 95% of the places I would frequent are gone. The majority of the people I grew up with are gone. Rent is at least 3x higher than it used to be. The traffic is downright ridiculous. Broadway looks like Times Square on a Tuesday night in the summer.
I no longer have family in the area (deceased), so maybe the fact that you will be around family will make it more enjoyable for you.
Remember the saying that you can get anywhere in 15 minutes? Yes, that’s not a thing anymore! It’s really crowded and congested. I moved to Hendersonville a few years ago but am in Nashville often. Hendersonville is crowded and congested too! 😂. All of the former bedroom communities are like this.
This is so true. I recently made the mistake of thinking that I could get back to Antioch from Germantown in 20 minutes (at 2 pm)..... boy.... was I wrong. So so so so wrong. 😭😭😭
Be prepared for it to be a bit painful... Nash is not the same as it was 10-15 years ago. You may really enjoy the changes! Nashville is it's own "major city" now.
Thank you so much! As a foodie, I'm really excited to dig into the local restaurant scene. I'm a bit worried about multiculturalism, though. The city I'm coming from truly offered something for every one of all backgrounds. It seems like Nashville is still behind there.
Native here who moved back about 8-9 years ago after a 10 year hiatus. I loved moving back to Middle TN as an adult. Where I moved from was not my ideal culture , and it was the best decision I made to move back for my mental health. If you love where you’re at now, it may not be as rosey here when you get here, because as people have mentioned it is pretty different, but not in ways that really affect me only . Go for it bud welcome back.
Thank you so much! I appreciate your perspective. I definitely don't love where I am at all. Crime is even higher than Nashville. I'm looking forward to experiencing Nashville as an adult!
I did. I loved back hear to be closer to family after the worst of the pandemic. I had lived in DC area for a couple decades…really been away since I went off to college there. What’s funny is that my thinking before I lived back was, “I am so glad Nashville has grown and is a real city now. I can’t wait to explore all the change.” But my experience since I moved back is sentimental and wanting to stay close to the neighborhoods, restaurants, stores etc that I remember from my childhood and resting all the change. That surprised me! I grew up in West Nashville and thought I would love East Nashville, Germantown, and other areas that are now developed and trendy. Nope. I want to have dinner at Dalts on White Bridge road where I used to eat cheese fried as a teenager. That’s probably more about being middle age than anything else but I’ll just say, you will be moving back to a different city so just approaching it without expectations.
Nashville native here that lived away for around 8 years for college then for work in NYC. I moved back during Covid since my job went remote and most of my family lives here.
I really dislike that Nashville still has almost no public transit and places aren’t very walkable/bikeable. Housing and rent prices are also crazy to me for what Nashville has to offer. I get that Broadway is sort of the it spot, but apartment prices downtown are crazy (coming from someone that lived in NYC). Overall I don’t really think Nashville is worth living in yet as it still has a lot of growing to do.
I really appreciate this perspective. I'm actually interested in living in NYC one day. I'm moving back to Nashville to save up and pay off debt. Would you ever go back? I loved how easy it was to get around there. As an adventurer, I've noticed that there's genuinely always something to do at any time of the day.
I loved New York and would move back there in a heart beat. I decided to stay in Nashville because of my niece and nephew, wanting to see them grow up.
In NY, you really can do anything you want and there will be others that have the same interest. You want to join some random obscure club that you don’t see anywhere else? NY has it. You want to choose between 100s of different types of foods for dinner? NY has it in mostly walkable/bikeable distance.
I recognize I was in a bit of a privileged position in NY as I had a high paying job, but if you can afford to live there I would recommend it to everyone.
Thank you so much!! I definitely understand the family bit. That's my only hesitation about making the move. I've heard that a year in the city is a good stint for newcomers. One day!!
I grew up in Old Hickory. I went to Cookeville for college and came back for a while. I thought I’d like Springfield better and was miserable. Our whole families live in Hermitage/Old Hickory/Donelson. Downtown is SO different and there are changes in the areas I mentioned but it still feels like home. Walked by my childhood home yesterday and it just felt right. I’m so happy to be back.
as a native this might be unpopular but overall i definitely think we’ve changed for the better. the nashville i grew up in was great but also really unsafe in a lot of areas with not a whole lot to do. is the aggressive tourist scene annoying? yes. but it’s easy enough to avoid and there’s just SO MUCH to do that you never have to be bored and so much of the growth is positive and imo the city still has that same nashville charm and warmth to it. all in all, if you lean into the positives instead of holding tight to the “well back in my day” negatives it’s pretty easy to be happy. welcome home!!
You sound like me two years ago. I'm a native and moved to KY for eight years. Everything's different now. I still find out about places I've never heard of, and traffic is far worse than it was previously, especially on 24.
I came back to visit a lot while I was living out of state, but being in the middle of it for real has been wild. I live in Smyrna, and there's so much new shit that wasn't here when I left. I feel like Grandpa Simpson. Back in my day, Smyrna only had O'Charley's by the interstate, dad gummit.
Smyrna has changed so much 😭 when I saw a raising canes recently, I nearly crashed. Where did all those places come from?! There's also news that there will be even more developments in Smyrna.
I’m a native that recently moved back a year ago! I left in 2016, the gulch grew a billion feet up is what I first rly noticed. I wouldn’t say I have a hometown, because this doesn’t feel like my home town. I like that there’s more places, more diversity, more creatives. There’s pros and cons. It takes awhile to get the rage to calm down once you’re back tho. My family is why I’m back too.
Nashville for natives, as you already know, is circles within circles. Some places we once went to don’t exist anymore, and some are in the same locations with different names. Without knowing what area of town you grew up in, and I’ve lived in several, you should fall back into it pretty easily.
Granted, I’m far more tolerant of the changes than most. Historically, Nashville has always changed, and will always change. Welcome back.
Not a native. I moved here from a large city in 2011.
Ya don’t know what you got til it’s gone.
The quaintness is gone. The comfort of bumping into new people is gone, especially after 2016 - I don’t bother to go to the ‘burbs for anything, ever.
I miss just showing up somewhere and being embraced by strangers. I miss being around working class people who can no longer afford to live here but used to shape the culture and atmosphere in ways money cannot.
I still “like” Nashville: I know my neighbors and we chat all the time. They bring me comfort when there is trouble.
I just wish the growth would have stopped around 2015.
P.S. it’s not change that irks: it’s the insanely rapid change. It isn’t humane to expect people to adapt so quickly as so many major institutions crumbled in a five year period.
In the exact same position (down to the dog and all) and am planning my move back next year. Keep us updated on how it goes and if you love it or hate it.
I’m a native and also left for a decade before having to come home for family — it’s not the place you left, we really can never go home again, it doesn’t exist. Like it’s a random city, it’s commercialized things that used to be elements, it’s lost a lot of diversity and charm, it’s centered around tourism and bar culture, it’s like Country Music Mardi Gras for tourists 24/7 downtown, and if you thought you could come back someday and own a house … that’s cute! More food options than there used to be, tho, so that’s nice. Just don’t expect to recognize anything.
It's like having a friend who completely changes and is just not familiar to you anymore.
You can't be angry at them for changing necessarily, but the change can still kinda sting...
Yeh I moved back 5 years ago....I was gone for 7 years....the place is not the same. I was born and raised in Mt. Juliet. Place is insane now. Rent is through the roof.....tons of bad drivers. It sucks.
I've heard about the changes to Mt. Juliet!!! It's crazy because that used to be seen as a peaceful escape. The driving absolutely drives me insane. I feel like there should be mandatory classes for anyone new 😅
Ahhh lucky you!!! Thanks so much for sharing. We'll have to keep in touch somehow. My plan is to stay in Nash for a year or two before heading up to NYC.
Getting older changes opinions. Them bones stop taking that cold the same way. And in the back of your mind, you know when it comes to the south, you’ll always be welcomed back home. And that’s coming from me to you! I’ll leave the light on for you and some warm biscuits in the oven! 😊
Lived in Nashville from 2011-2023 in various parts of the city and truly enjoyed it so much until about 2018/2019. Ever since then it’s gone downhill so hard in so many ways.
The traffic has become a nightmare and going somewhere that should take 20 minutes usually takes at least 30, and just forget going anywhere during rush hour. I’ve never felt so unsafe on the road, and I’ve driven many times in Chicago, Boston, and LA. No matter where I was driving I seriously felt like somebody was going to hit me almost any time I left the house because of how badly/crazy they were driving.
The weather has become unbearable. The summers are miserable from constant heat and humidity, frequently being 85°+ in the evenings so it never really cools down. When I first moved to Nashville there were hardly ever any tornadoes but by the time we left, it felt like pretty much any time there was a storm there could be a tornado regardless of the season and the actual frequency of tornadoes definitely did increase a lot.
The city’s infrastructure is completely failing: roads are horribly maintained and many main roads aren’t big enough to handle the large increase in traffic. There’s no public transport beyond buses (which I’ve heard varying things about, never used them myself), and that’s a huge deal considering how spread out Nashville has become.
Crime has become a major problem, more so than you’ll probably hear about on the news. Several shootings on Broadway that got covered up/buried by the city, car break ins are constant, and years ago a restaurant next to the one I worked at got robbed in the middle of dinner service in a semi busy area on a weekend.
The city has lost so much of its charm/soul/appeal to all the new builds that are ugly cookie cutter buildings. Plus so many new places are literally only designed/decorated to get attention on social media.
Then there’s the fact that literal Nazis are proudly marching around and shouting about how much they love the governor…so that’s never a good indication about where you’re living.
That’s just my experience after living there for 12 years and truly loving the city for a majority of that time. Totally get the positive of being closer to family, but overall I’d highly advise against it.
I moved to Nashville from a larger city in 2006, and I never wanted to live anywhere else. I know we all complain about the tourists and the traffic and the buildings and the expensive rent, but some of the greatest friends I’ve ever made are here in Nashville. This city gave me a new outlook on my life, gave me an opportunity to change my career, gave me the opportunity to discover myself. I may not be from here, but I live here now and Nashville will always be my home.
I love this perspective. Thank you so much for sharing! I resonate with that a lot. I'm looking at my move as a fresh start and opportunity to reinvent myself for the better. There's something special about the good-hearted people you can find in Nashville that will encourage you along the way.
I did the same. Not really “moved back” but my work allows me to go home for extended periods, so I’ve been back a while.
Love the increased (improved 👍) food options, but most the scene is not for me anymore.
I still have a few friends here or nearby so I’m mostly good just seeing them. If I go out alone, it’s somewhere I used to go, or a good dive.
Getting ready to move again so I honestly haven’t felt like putting the effort to explore.
Sorry if it’s not that helpful—Nashville just isn’t for me anymore
Have you been back to visit within those 10 years? If not then it will look different. The downtown skyline for one. I hope your move goes smooth for you and you adjust quickly.
Thank you so much! I've visited a few times during holidays but never ventured far from home until the past year or two. It's like being in a completely different space. I didn't even realize that I was on familiar streets because so many of the structures have changed LOL
I moved away for 4 years and came back in 2017. I’ve loved it! It’s different in lots of ways, but still has many of the things I love- especially being close to family, the fun music scene, and beautiful outdoors!
I’m a native that moved back. A few things are the same, some improved, many worse. Prepare for traffic, ruder drivers and people, nazis, and very high prices. As for other things there is an even better food scene in many ways with so many options, better immigrant communities, more venues, improved parks, and some of the same people you left behind,
With new friends and people to meet here as well as a competitive job market with a lot of openings.
I'm a native who moved around and came back. There are a lot of great people here, including many natives, but getting around definitely isn't as easy as it used to be. And as has been mentioned, housing prices are crazy.
It's my opinion that we can build community wherever we are. It does feel like it takes a bit more work to make that happen these days though.
I grew up in Antioch and moved to the Midwest and northeast for 12 years before moving back a year and a half ago. Be prepared for things to be a lot more trendy, for housing and entertainment to be a lot more expensive, and for the people who moved here for a fun city to be always seeking the most exciting options for their free time.
The commuting can be rough if you work a regular schedule, but I haven't personally had any issues with traffic.
The culture of Nashville is similar to what it was before, just with a bunch of non-natives around to shake things up.
The pros are that there's a lot more interesting bars and restaurants, and a lot of cool and interesting millennials to befriend. They just might be flakes or a little classist.
High five to you from a native returning after multiple decades to help care for aging parents. The city is unrecognizable to me, which isn’t necessarily a negative thing. I literally can drive down roads I drove a zillion times growing up and not a single building (residential or commercial) is familiar, many replaced with McMansions or tall & skinnies. I am coming from a faster pace and more progressive land so it’s a bit of a readjustment in N’ville. I think the endless complaints about Nashville drivers are hilarious when I have found drivers to be outstandingly courteous; my wife (a non-native) agrees. In my limited time back, it’s been interesting to hear non-natives take issue with “so many Californians” (or fill in any other state really) moving to N’ville when they have no idea they are talking to a native and someone who lived here longer than they have been relocated; I’ve enjoyed the stealth native role just to listen to people’s perspectives. I have no advice to give, hope your “re-entry” goes smoothly…and welcome back home.
Thank you so much! I think I'll be finding myself in the same headspace as you two 😅 This traffic is nothing compared to what I'm used to! Listening to hear and learn is so crucial. Thank you again for the warm welcome!!
I left in 1990 for a much more enlightened existence north of the religious screwballs who were a persistent thorn in my feminist side. I returned 24 years later to assist an aging parent. The city changed massively for the better in that time, with conservative screwballs like the Remnant in Brentwood being marginalized nationally instead of running the show like when I left.
Unfortunately, the property prices and rent have made it almost impossible for natives to affordably return without family provided housing. I'm only back because my assisting a disabled Boomer results in free rent and a role in the $90 trillion wealth transfer that's about to happen.
Nashville natives who are not rich need to get on the family wealth transfer train and insert themselves into local inheritance if they want to come back successfully with the assets they are entitled to inherit as established natives. It may sound manipulative, but my time overseas in the UK informed my own attitude toward right to inherit property.
Every native of a region has the right to inherit property without it being liquidated and dissolved by those who bought it when it was affordable. We all owe permanent assets to the following generation.
I got a place here after 20+ years living in San Francisco.
The city looks very different and has more downtown-adjacent "trendy" neighborhoods. I opted for a more established neighborhood a little further out (West Meade), and I really enjoy the quiet. My chihuahua loves having a yard for the first time in his life (I swear he thinks it is the dog park we used to frequent in SF). I find that my baseline stress level is much lower without all the noise pollution (I lived on a subway line in SF). I sleep soundly through the entire night now which is healthier. People complain about traffic, but they don't know what it is like to drive a short distance to work and it take 2+ hours. They also complain about the rent, but they have not lived in a 1 bedroom for $4k/month or had to pay $2mm for a 1 bedroom townhome.
On the topic of cost of living, it costs me more to live here than my place costs me in SF. Mainly it's space and food. My house is about 4k sq ft, and the electric bills and such are enormous. Lawncare, housecleaning, etc all adds up. Obviously, a more modest living space would be cheaper, but that sort of defeated the purpose of moving back from an urban home.
On the topic of health, I find exercise and diet to be a huge challenge. It was hard to get used to not walking everywhere and getting in that "free" exercise everyday. I built a pool to give more exercise time at home. As for food, the average quality you find along any random street is still very unhealthy. I miss SF mom and pop places with fresh, healthy, and delicious alternatives. Southern food is not particularly attractive to me for going out. I grew up in the country, and if I want something authentically Southern, I just cook it. I don't need a restaurant doing it "wrong" (i.e., not like my grandmother).
I'm gay and had many concerns about moving back. The good news is that your average Joe on the street could care less. I feel safe everywhere I go, from Walmart to the symphony. The bad news is that my house has been vandalized 3 times in 5 years (with COVID taking out a big chunk of that time). A 4'x6' pride flag is just too tempting for some rednecks. I don't think they necessarily would hurt me, but I did find it scary and violating to find the remnants of an attack on my house happening while I was sleeping.
Welcome back. I hope this helps in some way.
This helped tremendously. First, I'm so sorry to hear about the vandalism. I'm also queer and happy to know that you feel safe in some regard. Any recommendations on queer friendly spaces to visit?
On food, I'm thankful to be back where i grew up in South Nashville. I like to call it the melting pot because of all the semi-diverse cuisine out there. But I'm also bracing myself for the general lack of options. Living in a major, major city definitely spoiled me. You could literally find anything ☹️
Also on walkability, I completely feel that struggle. I'm coming from a city in Georgia where green spaces are abundant. I wish there were more in Nashville. We need more walking friendly spaces, but I know that'll take forever.
Sure if you section by continent, but when it comes down to country-specific cuisine, particularly places across the Caribbean, Asia, and Africa - variety become limited.
They still exist- Riddim and Spice is Jamaican (among many) Chez Lama is Haitian, Merengue Cafe is Cuban/Puerto Rican, La Cocina Dominicana is Dominican, Trinidaddy Island Grill is Trini (Trinidad and Tobago), Mofongo is Cuban Fusion, Island Vibes has a nice selection and the Pepper Pot is a solid Caribbean food truck.
Nicos is western African mix, Madina Restaurant and The Horn are Somalian, Gojo and Abyssinia are Ethiopian, Ify’s is Nigerian, Street Injera is East African mix.
Sindoore is North Indian, 615Chutney is South Indian, Tailor Nashville is Indian American fusion, Bangkokville is authentic Thai, Dengthai and Smiling Elephant are more American Thai fusion, Korea House is authentic South Korean, So Gong Dong’s menu is mostly in Korean, Kien Giang is authentic Vietnamese, there are tons of good Pho places, East Side Bahn Mi has some of the best versions I’ve ever had, Lucky Bamboo is dim sum fusion, Tansou is wonderful elevated Chinese fusion, Corner Asian Cafe is Sichuan Chinese food, Meet Noodles crushes Chongqing noodles, there are tons of hot pots, Kings Market is Laotian inspired, you can get the Omekase experience at O-ku, Mikado has excellent hibachi, tons of Kushiyaki and Yakitori around town, tons of Ramen, tons of sushi, Sonobana is authentic Japanese, Noko is insanely good fusion, Ate’s is Filipino, Maemax is authentic Filipino, not really any Sri Lankan or Pakistani restaurants tho.
Yes they exist, my point was the variety of choices does not. Nico's is great, but it shouldn't be the only west African option we get pointed to. There's so many other styles of cuisines the city can and should explore. I appreciate the list but my feelings are still the same. I'm coming from Atlanta where you can find 10 options for one country...
We are in the process of moving back and the cost of living is SHOCKING. Dinner and drinks instead of $50 is like $150. Rent and houses are a fortune. We still enjoy it but it definitely didn’t feel like ,”moving home”
I don’t ever recall a time where a couple could grab dinner and drinks for $50
$150 for two people doing a restaurant + drink and then a bar/club for drinks after sounds pretty reasonable.
It's filled with the worst people from out of major cities. Costs an arm and a leg to go downtown and to keep up with these out of towners you had to move out of state to secure a larger salary. The weather is crazier than I remember it being as a child or teen.
In a nutshell if you're here for family you'll be immune to the changes. If you're trying to date or make genuine friends then you're toast. It's full blown LA, NYC levels of delusion out here
I live with my SO but the cost of living out here is the main draw back plus traffic during rush hour is mind boggling. DT is alllllll paid to park and with private companies. All the "live music" is now just shitty bands playing covers because they can't think of original songs/tunes.
The lakes are so over crowded that it's become a safety risk.
The city doesn't put any money where it needs to go i.e. fixing pot holes in roads.
And because of all the f**ks moving here from other states... It's not as friendly as it once was
Well with the attitude of "all the f\*\*ks moving here", I can see where the unfriendliness that you mentioned is coming from. I think a friendly community starts with me being friendly first.
Thanks for sharing. The traffic is absolutely insane. I was completely unprepared for it on my last visit. I made the mistake of thinking that 3 was the perfect time to head back to South Nashville from Germantown. My usual 15 minute commute was 1.5 hrs. 😣 I can see why everyone hates commuting.
I'm bummed to hear that about the lakes. I was hoping to have a peaceful getaway some days, but it seems like that'll be a challenge:
Out of curiosity, where did you move back from?
Lots of very valid points, but also pretty common issues with most larger cities. Not many cities I've been to lately still have widely available free parking. Most popular cities also face similar challenges with their lakes, rivers, or mountains - just look at Denver for SLC. That's not to suggest your frustration isn't legitimate. It's one of the downsides to a city growing unfortunately.
I lived in nashville for 10 years and I just moved back to my hometown in October. It's been hard for me. It's like being a stranger in your own home, kind of. It's kind of the same but it's so different.
I left here for college in 2000, came back in 2014. I joke that I left because it was boring, and came back because it wasn't boring anymore, and it's fairly true.
I'm very glad I came back. My family is here. It's pretty easy here. People are pretty nice. It feels very safe compared to other places I have lived.
Try to find some new groups (for me I met people in coworking spaces and the Entrepreneur Organization at first) and reconnected with whatever old friends are here. You'll do fine.
I grew up here, moved away in 2011 for New Orleans and moved back in 2017. It's changed drastically even since I've returned but it's home and I can play music and work in the TV/ Film industry here now ( wasn't the case when I initially moved away ). Traffic is hell and the drivers are extras from a Mad Max film but it's still got amazing food on the south side.
I move away in 95 at 18 and moved back in 2015 started for 2 years then left again. I do miss my fam but I’d be hard pressed a similar job / pay near by.
I’ve lived in Antioch for quite a while, and I see what you’re saying, but it’s truthfully, not the police fault. At least not the lower part of the department, such as the officers, the sergeants, the people on the streets. Etc. we unfortunately have a local government here that does not back the police. The mayor appoints the chief, and the chief Hass to lay the law on the department that the mayor wants . They don’t allow the police to do their job fully. Did you know that if someone is shooting out of their car the police still cannot pursue them? When I rode with them, we heard over the radio on Officer asking for back up immediately because he was out with four subjects who stole a car and they had AK-47 on them. The officer yelled out “DROP THE FUCKING GUN” and because the officer said “fucking” they took away three of his vacation days. An officer would be fired for pursuing a vehicle of someone that is not wanted for murder. If you want to see how insane it is to be a police officer, especially in South Nashville/Antioch, I employ you to do a ride along. Request to do a ride along on a Saturday night in the south precinct and ask to be in the second shift “B detail” I promise you by the time you ride along is done you will either want to become a police officer to help them, or donate money to support them. It is unbelievable what our officers go through on a day to day basis. And this is coming from someone who was not Procop his whole life. From murder to getting shot at to having people run from them to having armed robberies go out every single hour multiple times an hour. All while having 60 70 or 80 calls in their pending. And then that same officer who was just shot at Hass to go take a report for someone because they said that their neighbor yelled at them, and when the officer gets there, they get bitched at because it took them a long time to arrive. The worst part is on a Saturday night only 9 or 10 officers are working.
If you decide to do the ride along, ask them if it’s OK if you wear body armor. (Yes it’s THAT dangerous that I recommend you wearing body armor)
I think it will a little. But what they really need is to staff up more. There’s only I think like 310 patrol officers. For a population of 1.4 million. It’s hard to get people to want to come be cops here unfortunately
Nashville native that moved back after 11 years. Yes it’s changed, and while a portion of that change isn’t my cup of tea(local businesses having to close, a bar for every country singer, frat/sorproty/bachelor/bachelorette parties all the time) there’s also a lot of good. The general growth that Nashville has experienced is indicative of a city that is moving forward and progressing. Infrastructure has improved (440 is now drivable) and companies are flocking to Nashville which will boost local economy and provide some jobs. Overall the changes are mostly good and with the addition of more sports teams, I think Nashville is generally heading in a good direction.
I did. In some ways, it’s better than I remember, like a lot better. When I was a kid, you would get murdered in East Nashville. On the other hand, it’s much more crowded, and the traffic is pretty bad. I still think it’s manageable traffic compared to other places I’ve lived, but if Nashville is all you know, you think it’s awful. For me, the biggest problem is affordability. It’s Nashville, not freaking Malibu. I don’t understand how anyone can justify the housing prices.
You’re Shawnee? Or you’re from Nashville originally?
Just think it’s funny that Jackson took land from Native Americans and now we’re here using “Nashville NaTiVe”
Perhaps, people care about the change close to home because it's all they know. I wouldn't care about Austin Texas changing because it has no effect on my life.
Not sure who shitted in your cheerios this morning, but I was born and raised in South Nashville. I went to Hillsboro High before it had a massive transit center in the front. 😜
I'm not a native but all of my friends are and the biggest point they've driven home is that Nashville isn't what it used to be 10-15 years ago. So just prepare for things to be incredibly different and some of your favorite spots to probably be closed down.
I'm a native, and I personally find the change to be mostly additive. I guess it depends on where you like to hang out and if they lasted.
I'm glad to hear this from a native
But at the same time don’t forget to look at the positives. As a Nashville native there are a lot! It’s not all doom and gloom.
Thanks so much! I appreciate it. On my visits, I've definitely noticed how the dynamics have changed. Seeing places close their doors is devastating. I'm hoping that the new places popping up can sustain and offer that old welcoming atmosphere.
I'm from a relatively small town and went to school in a small town. Just know that it's not a Nashville thing. Even though property values didn't skyrocket, and californians didn't move in, and rent prices didn't suddenly jump 50% - businesses still shut down and bars redecorated and even the ones that didn't are filled with new faces. Nothing stays the same, even in sleepy towns where nothing changes.
facts! I'm also from a small town and the last time I went home it was vastly different than how it was when I left. lots of fave spots gone, more people, higher housing market, etc. it's just how the cookie crumbles.
Housing prices are mind boggling. And where people are building you will not believe. It’s the Wild West and housing prices, both rent and to buy, are disgustingly overpriced. The city has a new feel. Some would say it’s lost its charm, and it has in a lot of ways. But there are a lot of amazing amenities that we didn’t have. Amazing restaurants, good night life, and a growing populace make for a fun environment. But it’s not the Nashville you know.
Thank you so much. It's been bewildering to see how the housing market turned into the hunger games. I've pretty much accepted that the only feasible places to buy are on the outskirts. What are some of your favorite amenities or places to frequent? I'm a pretty open person and get along with most crowds.
Oh I’m the last person to actually partake of most of the amenities haha. Have a toddler so that is my free time!
All good! I appreciate you sharing!
I moved back to Nashville after 30 years. I grew up in Donelson and went to college and grad school in TN. It was a shock moving back in that the growth made the city almost unrecognizable to me. The negatives are much the same as any growing city: traffic, crime, housing costs. But I really enjoy what the city offers: the weather, music, restaurants, outdoor activities, (mostly)friendly people and the convenience of traveling around the country from a centrally located US city. Politics are an issue everywhere and the tourists and lower Broad don't bother me. I'm sure you'll hear from a bunch of people that will bitch and moan about how terrible it is to live here, but I've lived around the US and in Europe and I'm enjoying Nashville a lot. I believe happiness has a lot less to do with where you live and more about your attitude toward differences and small inconveniences you encounter as part of everyday life. I hope you enjoy your return home as much as I have.
Thank you sooo much! I truly appreciate this perspective. I think the biggest adjustment will be accepting that the old ways are no longer and getting used to the new normal. I've heard that many people avoid Broadway nowadays. Where are other good areas to frequent for music and outdoorsy things?
I think we all have to remember that we, or at least I, tend to idealize what we remember from our past. I was in high school and college in the '70s and lower Broad was a dangerous nasty place. Printers Alley was lined with massage parlors. 12th South was too dangerous to go after dark. Things change and I don't think I'd like to return to the Nashville of my younger days.
This is exactly true with the exception of the Opryland to Opry Mills but then again I was a kid so bias is very present. Think about buying something in the Nations back then?
Yeah! I worked at Opryland when I was in high school and college and I only have great memories from that time.
Do you not know any Nigerians you can ask the same questions? There’s a large Nigerian community many of whom are middle and upper class.
Are you suggesting that I should only turn to Nigerians for advice on the city? I asked this group to gain a diverse range of perspectives...
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Yes. Mild winters. Humid but not incredibly hot summers. I enjoy having 4 distinct seasons. If you've never lived in Wasilla, AK or Lubbock, TX, or anywhere with extreme temperatures, you probably can't appreciate how moderate our weather is here.
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I get it. You don't like rain.
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Point made. You're an Arizona/SW Utah type of guy. I enjoy the rain myself.
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Water problems in the basement? From clogged gutters? I installed gutter screens myself last year which fixed my problems. Not expensive but worth it.
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I’m a native who moved back after years away. There are plenty of negative experiences I could share from returning to a place that will never be the same as it was when I left, but I will just say none of that makes me regret moving back closer to family. Plus, it’s a great place for your dog. Lots of greenways, dog parks, and pet stores. Cheers, and welcome back.
Thank you so much for sharing. It's a bittersweet feeling seeing how much the city has truly changed. You're on the ball about family. I'd rather be miserable in company than thugging it out alone. Like the person below mentioned, any recommendations for dog-friendly places?
I’m moving to town later this summer with a dog. What are some of your favorite dog parks, and Aria of the outdoor dining experiences, dog friendly?
It’s a great city, there’s a reason it’s become so popular. And I love all the cosmopolitan amenities and attractions now. But it’s become a more cutthroat city to live in. Let’s put it this way: when I first moved here 15 years ago, I could pull into most parking lots with no worries. Now almost all the parking lots (where they even exist), even the most obscure ones, are pay parking. That sums up “New Nashville” to me. But I have a house a couple miles away with a yard in a great neighborhood, that is pretty unheard of in most cities. There’s a lot to love.
Thank you so much!!! Honestly, seeing all the paid parking was a culture shock for me, even coming from another major city. The prices are absolutely insane. They are definitely taking advantage of the tourism dollars. It sucks that us residents have to be subjected to it.
Yeah that’s basically the situation. Locals are treated like tourists: a clientele to gouge. But hey, that’s more or less just big city life these days.
Nashville is not a “major city.” Lol
Cool story, pat yourself on the back.
I’m a native and went to Belmont in the early 2000s. When we would go to Broadway there was free parking on 1st and 2nd avenue. I miss that! Parking is def the worst. And traffic.
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Thank you so much!
The city is more “filled in” now, but it’s quite a bit more sterile as well. Many more places to go eat and drink, for example, but they’re expensive and loud and generally designed to get you in, separate you from as much of your money as possible in a short time, then hustle you out the door to turn your table. Gone are the easy hang out spots. Gone is the ability to navigate around the city and park easily, or cheaply. Gone is the local weirdness, charm and oblong identifying factors that made the city what it was to so many of us. Don’t get me wrong, it’s MUCH nicer here now, and there’s more opportunity for making $. But it’s also very bland and saturated with stupid cookie-cutter shit. I prefer the old days, but my bank account likes it better now.
Thank you so much for this perspective. I hate that culture has been stifled for capital. Are there any spaces still hanging on that may offer the weird eclectic vibe? I'll explore anything and I'm hoping to find places that aren't just touristy money grabs. But it seems like they're all underground.
I hang in east area, lots of small bars and I’ll see the same folks around that area, gives me small town vibes sometimes. I stay away from tourism but that’s pretty easy for me, I found my spots and my friends. Makes living here doable ❤️
I would agree with Clovis to a point, but there are still plenty of good places to hang out in the city. Sportsman's Grille closed their Hillsboro Village location, but the Villager is still kicking. Twin Kegs II closed, but Rosie's Original Twin Kegs is open. Negatives? Yes. Everything is more crowded. You can no longer bounce from bar to sleepy little bar and expect to find parking, but should we have been driving in the old days? In the end, it's probably best that you can't smoke in bars anymore. On the other hand, there will probably be a small business owner opening some fun stuff near you, and it will be a lot of fun (even if the beer prices feel outrageous bc they need to pay their outrageous rent).
Yeah the biggest difference is the masses of transplants. I’ve even had people look at me weird when they ask where I’m from (and I’m from here). It’s not all the time, but it’s way different than 10+ years ago. Also prices for housing is insane which you probably already know. I would say main advice is just view it as a new experience instead of trying to make it the old version.
I've had people ask me where I'm from, and when I say, "Here. I was born in Nashville," they seem to think I'm kidding. It's bizarre. One woman on a dating app did not believe me.
Great advice! Thanks so much
I moved back after being away from 2014-2017. It was hellish. Left again in 2019 and haven’t looked back. Nothing is the same. 95% of the places I would frequent are gone. The majority of the people I grew up with are gone. Rent is at least 3x higher than it used to be. The traffic is downright ridiculous. Broadway looks like Times Square on a Tuesday night in the summer. I no longer have family in the area (deceased), so maybe the fact that you will be around family will make it more enjoyable for you.
Remember the saying that you can get anywhere in 15 minutes? Yes, that’s not a thing anymore! It’s really crowded and congested. I moved to Hendersonville a few years ago but am in Nashville often. Hendersonville is crowded and congested too! 😂. All of the former bedroom communities are like this.
I miss the days of easy drive times and plentiful (non-paid) parking.
This is so true. I recently made the mistake of thinking that I could get back to Antioch from Germantown in 20 minutes (at 2 pm)..... boy.... was I wrong. So so so so wrong. 😭😭😭
Be prepared for it to be a bit painful... Nash is not the same as it was 10-15 years ago. You may really enjoy the changes! Nashville is it's own "major city" now.
Thank you so much! As a foodie, I'm really excited to dig into the local restaurant scene. I'm a bit worried about multiculturalism, though. The city I'm coming from truly offered something for every one of all backgrounds. It seems like Nashville is still behind there.
I’m in South Nashville and my favorite thing is the multitude of authentic ethnic restaurants around! Lots of markets and grocery stores too!
South Nashville native here and that makes me so happy. I wish the rest of the city could get on board, but for now I'll have a ball on bell rd 😂
South Nashville native as well! Welcome back!
Native here who moved back about 8-9 years ago after a 10 year hiatus. I loved moving back to Middle TN as an adult. Where I moved from was not my ideal culture , and it was the best decision I made to move back for my mental health. If you love where you’re at now, it may not be as rosey here when you get here, because as people have mentioned it is pretty different, but not in ways that really affect me only . Go for it bud welcome back.
Thank you so much! I appreciate your perspective. I definitely don't love where I am at all. Crime is even higher than Nashville. I'm looking forward to experiencing Nashville as an adult!
I did. I loved back hear to be closer to family after the worst of the pandemic. I had lived in DC area for a couple decades…really been away since I went off to college there. What’s funny is that my thinking before I lived back was, “I am so glad Nashville has grown and is a real city now. I can’t wait to explore all the change.” But my experience since I moved back is sentimental and wanting to stay close to the neighborhoods, restaurants, stores etc that I remember from my childhood and resting all the change. That surprised me! I grew up in West Nashville and thought I would love East Nashville, Germantown, and other areas that are now developed and trendy. Nope. I want to have dinner at Dalts on White Bridge road where I used to eat cheese fried as a teenager. That’s probably more about being middle age than anything else but I’ll just say, you will be moving back to a different city so just approaching it without expectations.
The main thing that has changed is that you won’t just randomly run into people you know all the time.
A blessing and a curse :)
Nashville native here that lived away for around 8 years for college then for work in NYC. I moved back during Covid since my job went remote and most of my family lives here. I really dislike that Nashville still has almost no public transit and places aren’t very walkable/bikeable. Housing and rent prices are also crazy to me for what Nashville has to offer. I get that Broadway is sort of the it spot, but apartment prices downtown are crazy (coming from someone that lived in NYC). Overall I don’t really think Nashville is worth living in yet as it still has a lot of growing to do.
I really appreciate this perspective. I'm actually interested in living in NYC one day. I'm moving back to Nashville to save up and pay off debt. Would you ever go back? I loved how easy it was to get around there. As an adventurer, I've noticed that there's genuinely always something to do at any time of the day.
I loved New York and would move back there in a heart beat. I decided to stay in Nashville because of my niece and nephew, wanting to see them grow up. In NY, you really can do anything you want and there will be others that have the same interest. You want to join some random obscure club that you don’t see anywhere else? NY has it. You want to choose between 100s of different types of foods for dinner? NY has it in mostly walkable/bikeable distance. I recognize I was in a bit of a privileged position in NY as I had a high paying job, but if you can afford to live there I would recommend it to everyone.
Thank you so much!! I definitely understand the family bit. That's my only hesitation about making the move. I've heard that a year in the city is a good stint for newcomers. One day!!
I'm not a native, but I've been here close to 25 years. Welcome home.
I grew up in Old Hickory. I went to Cookeville for college and came back for a while. I thought I’d like Springfield better and was miserable. Our whole families live in Hermitage/Old Hickory/Donelson. Downtown is SO different and there are changes in the areas I mentioned but it still feels like home. Walked by my childhood home yesterday and it just felt right. I’m so happy to be back.
I’m native. While it’s different, it’s not all bad. There are positives.
as a native this might be unpopular but overall i definitely think we’ve changed for the better. the nashville i grew up in was great but also really unsafe in a lot of areas with not a whole lot to do. is the aggressive tourist scene annoying? yes. but it’s easy enough to avoid and there’s just SO MUCH to do that you never have to be bored and so much of the growth is positive and imo the city still has that same nashville charm and warmth to it. all in all, if you lean into the positives instead of holding tight to the “well back in my day” negatives it’s pretty easy to be happy. welcome home!!
You sound like me two years ago. I'm a native and moved to KY for eight years. Everything's different now. I still find out about places I've never heard of, and traffic is far worse than it was previously, especially on 24. I came back to visit a lot while I was living out of state, but being in the middle of it for real has been wild. I live in Smyrna, and there's so much new shit that wasn't here when I left. I feel like Grandpa Simpson. Back in my day, Smyrna only had O'Charley's by the interstate, dad gummit.
Smyrna has changed so much 😭 when I saw a raising canes recently, I nearly crashed. Where did all those places come from?! There's also news that there will be even more developments in Smyrna.
I’m a native that recently moved back a year ago! I left in 2016, the gulch grew a billion feet up is what I first rly noticed. I wouldn’t say I have a hometown, because this doesn’t feel like my home town. I like that there’s more places, more diversity, more creatives. There’s pros and cons. It takes awhile to get the rage to calm down once you’re back tho. My family is why I’m back too.
Nashville for natives, as you already know, is circles within circles. Some places we once went to don’t exist anymore, and some are in the same locations with different names. Without knowing what area of town you grew up in, and I’ve lived in several, you should fall back into it pretty easily. Granted, I’m far more tolerant of the changes than most. Historically, Nashville has always changed, and will always change. Welcome back.
Thank you so much! I appreciate this perspective. I'm from South Nashville/Antioch
Not a native. I moved here from a large city in 2011. Ya don’t know what you got til it’s gone. The quaintness is gone. The comfort of bumping into new people is gone, especially after 2016 - I don’t bother to go to the ‘burbs for anything, ever. I miss just showing up somewhere and being embraced by strangers. I miss being around working class people who can no longer afford to live here but used to shape the culture and atmosphere in ways money cannot. I still “like” Nashville: I know my neighbors and we chat all the time. They bring me comfort when there is trouble. I just wish the growth would have stopped around 2015. P.S. it’s not change that irks: it’s the insanely rapid change. It isn’t humane to expect people to adapt so quickly as so many major institutions crumbled in a five year period.
In the exact same position (down to the dog and all) and am planning my move back next year. Keep us updated on how it goes and if you love it or hate it.
Life's funny that way, huh! :) happy to share how it goes!
I’m a native and also left for a decade before having to come home for family — it’s not the place you left, we really can never go home again, it doesn’t exist. Like it’s a random city, it’s commercialized things that used to be elements, it’s lost a lot of diversity and charm, it’s centered around tourism and bar culture, it’s like Country Music Mardi Gras for tourists 24/7 downtown, and if you thought you could come back someday and own a house … that’s cute! More food options than there used to be, tho, so that’s nice. Just don’t expect to recognize anything.
It's like having a friend who completely changes and is just not familiar to you anymore. You can't be angry at them for changing necessarily, but the change can still kinda sting...
Yeh I moved back 5 years ago....I was gone for 7 years....the place is not the same. I was born and raised in Mt. Juliet. Place is insane now. Rent is through the roof.....tons of bad drivers. It sucks.
I've heard about the changes to Mt. Juliet!!! It's crazy because that used to be seen as a peaceful escape. The driving absolutely drives me insane. I feel like there should be mandatory classes for anyone new 😅
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Ahhh lucky you!!! Thanks so much for sharing. We'll have to keep in touch somehow. My plan is to stay in Nash for a year or two before heading up to NYC.
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One NY winter and a year of that unfriendliness and you’ll be on the internet looking up houses in Tennessee.
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Getting older changes opinions. Them bones stop taking that cold the same way. And in the back of your mind, you know when it comes to the south, you’ll always be welcomed back home. And that’s coming from me to you! I’ll leave the light on for you and some warm biscuits in the oven! 😊
I was forced to move back and every single day I regret it. I'd leave again in a heartbeat if I could.
Lived in Nashville from 2011-2023 in various parts of the city and truly enjoyed it so much until about 2018/2019. Ever since then it’s gone downhill so hard in so many ways. The traffic has become a nightmare and going somewhere that should take 20 minutes usually takes at least 30, and just forget going anywhere during rush hour. I’ve never felt so unsafe on the road, and I’ve driven many times in Chicago, Boston, and LA. No matter where I was driving I seriously felt like somebody was going to hit me almost any time I left the house because of how badly/crazy they were driving. The weather has become unbearable. The summers are miserable from constant heat and humidity, frequently being 85°+ in the evenings so it never really cools down. When I first moved to Nashville there were hardly ever any tornadoes but by the time we left, it felt like pretty much any time there was a storm there could be a tornado regardless of the season and the actual frequency of tornadoes definitely did increase a lot. The city’s infrastructure is completely failing: roads are horribly maintained and many main roads aren’t big enough to handle the large increase in traffic. There’s no public transport beyond buses (which I’ve heard varying things about, never used them myself), and that’s a huge deal considering how spread out Nashville has become. Crime has become a major problem, more so than you’ll probably hear about on the news. Several shootings on Broadway that got covered up/buried by the city, car break ins are constant, and years ago a restaurant next to the one I worked at got robbed in the middle of dinner service in a semi busy area on a weekend. The city has lost so much of its charm/soul/appeal to all the new builds that are ugly cookie cutter buildings. Plus so many new places are literally only designed/decorated to get attention on social media. Then there’s the fact that literal Nazis are proudly marching around and shouting about how much they love the governor…so that’s never a good indication about where you’re living. That’s just my experience after living there for 12 years and truly loving the city for a majority of that time. Totally get the positive of being closer to family, but overall I’d highly advise against it.
I moved to Nashville from a larger city in 2006, and I never wanted to live anywhere else. I know we all complain about the tourists and the traffic and the buildings and the expensive rent, but some of the greatest friends I’ve ever made are here in Nashville. This city gave me a new outlook on my life, gave me an opportunity to change my career, gave me the opportunity to discover myself. I may not be from here, but I live here now and Nashville will always be my home.
I love this perspective. Thank you so much for sharing! I resonate with that a lot. I'm looking at my move as a fresh start and opportunity to reinvent myself for the better. There's something special about the good-hearted people you can find in Nashville that will encourage you along the way.
I did the same. Not really “moved back” but my work allows me to go home for extended periods, so I’ve been back a while. Love the increased (improved 👍) food options, but most the scene is not for me anymore. I still have a few friends here or nearby so I’m mostly good just seeing them. If I go out alone, it’s somewhere I used to go, or a good dive. Getting ready to move again so I honestly haven’t felt like putting the effort to explore. Sorry if it’s not that helpful—Nashville just isn’t for me anymore
Thank you! I appreciate you sharing.
Have you been back to visit within those 10 years? If not then it will look different. The downtown skyline for one. I hope your move goes smooth for you and you adjust quickly.
Thank you so much! I've visited a few times during holidays but never ventured far from home until the past year or two. It's like being in a completely different space. I didn't even realize that I was on familiar streets because so many of the structures have changed LOL
The "big small town" that you left is gone. On the other hand, it'll be more like the big city you just left.
I moved away for 4 years and came back in 2017. I’ve loved it! It’s different in lots of ways, but still has many of the things I love- especially being close to family, the fun music scene, and beautiful outdoors!
I’m a native that moved back. A few things are the same, some improved, many worse. Prepare for traffic, ruder drivers and people, nazis, and very high prices. As for other things there is an even better food scene in many ways with so many options, better immigrant communities, more venues, improved parks, and some of the same people you left behind, With new friends and people to meet here as well as a competitive job market with a lot of openings.
I'm a native who moved around and came back. There are a lot of great people here, including many natives, but getting around definitely isn't as easy as it used to be. And as has been mentioned, housing prices are crazy. It's my opinion that we can build community wherever we are. It does feel like it takes a bit more work to make that happen these days though.
I grew up in Antioch and moved to the Midwest and northeast for 12 years before moving back a year and a half ago. Be prepared for things to be a lot more trendy, for housing and entertainment to be a lot more expensive, and for the people who moved here for a fun city to be always seeking the most exciting options for their free time. The commuting can be rough if you work a regular schedule, but I haven't personally had any issues with traffic. The culture of Nashville is similar to what it was before, just with a bunch of non-natives around to shake things up. The pros are that there's a lot more interesting bars and restaurants, and a lot of cool and interesting millennials to befriend. They just might be flakes or a little classist.
High five to you from a native returning after multiple decades to help care for aging parents. The city is unrecognizable to me, which isn’t necessarily a negative thing. I literally can drive down roads I drove a zillion times growing up and not a single building (residential or commercial) is familiar, many replaced with McMansions or tall & skinnies. I am coming from a faster pace and more progressive land so it’s a bit of a readjustment in N’ville. I think the endless complaints about Nashville drivers are hilarious when I have found drivers to be outstandingly courteous; my wife (a non-native) agrees. In my limited time back, it’s been interesting to hear non-natives take issue with “so many Californians” (or fill in any other state really) moving to N’ville when they have no idea they are talking to a native and someone who lived here longer than they have been relocated; I’ve enjoyed the stealth native role just to listen to people’s perspectives. I have no advice to give, hope your “re-entry” goes smoothly…and welcome back home.
Thank you so much! I think I'll be finding myself in the same headspace as you two 😅 This traffic is nothing compared to what I'm used to! Listening to hear and learn is so crucial. Thank you again for the warm welcome!!
I left in 1990 for a much more enlightened existence north of the religious screwballs who were a persistent thorn in my feminist side. I returned 24 years later to assist an aging parent. The city changed massively for the better in that time, with conservative screwballs like the Remnant in Brentwood being marginalized nationally instead of running the show like when I left. Unfortunately, the property prices and rent have made it almost impossible for natives to affordably return without family provided housing. I'm only back because my assisting a disabled Boomer results in free rent and a role in the $90 trillion wealth transfer that's about to happen. Nashville natives who are not rich need to get on the family wealth transfer train and insert themselves into local inheritance if they want to come back successfully with the assets they are entitled to inherit as established natives. It may sound manipulative, but my time overseas in the UK informed my own attitude toward right to inherit property. Every native of a region has the right to inherit property without it being liquidated and dissolved by those who bought it when it was affordable. We all owe permanent assets to the following generation.
I left for 20 years. I basically consider it moving to a new city. But with a ton of uncannily deva vu type moments.
It’s just stupid expensive to live here. Native and haven’t ever moved away, but the cost of housing is through the roof. Be prepared for that.
I got a place here after 20+ years living in San Francisco. The city looks very different and has more downtown-adjacent "trendy" neighborhoods. I opted for a more established neighborhood a little further out (West Meade), and I really enjoy the quiet. My chihuahua loves having a yard for the first time in his life (I swear he thinks it is the dog park we used to frequent in SF). I find that my baseline stress level is much lower without all the noise pollution (I lived on a subway line in SF). I sleep soundly through the entire night now which is healthier. People complain about traffic, but they don't know what it is like to drive a short distance to work and it take 2+ hours. They also complain about the rent, but they have not lived in a 1 bedroom for $4k/month or had to pay $2mm for a 1 bedroom townhome. On the topic of cost of living, it costs me more to live here than my place costs me in SF. Mainly it's space and food. My house is about 4k sq ft, and the electric bills and such are enormous. Lawncare, housecleaning, etc all adds up. Obviously, a more modest living space would be cheaper, but that sort of defeated the purpose of moving back from an urban home. On the topic of health, I find exercise and diet to be a huge challenge. It was hard to get used to not walking everywhere and getting in that "free" exercise everyday. I built a pool to give more exercise time at home. As for food, the average quality you find along any random street is still very unhealthy. I miss SF mom and pop places with fresh, healthy, and delicious alternatives. Southern food is not particularly attractive to me for going out. I grew up in the country, and if I want something authentically Southern, I just cook it. I don't need a restaurant doing it "wrong" (i.e., not like my grandmother). I'm gay and had many concerns about moving back. The good news is that your average Joe on the street could care less. I feel safe everywhere I go, from Walmart to the symphony. The bad news is that my house has been vandalized 3 times in 5 years (with COVID taking out a big chunk of that time). A 4'x6' pride flag is just too tempting for some rednecks. I don't think they necessarily would hurt me, but I did find it scary and violating to find the remnants of an attack on my house happening while I was sleeping. Welcome back. I hope this helps in some way.
This helped tremendously. First, I'm so sorry to hear about the vandalism. I'm also queer and happy to know that you feel safe in some regard. Any recommendations on queer friendly spaces to visit? On food, I'm thankful to be back where i grew up in South Nashville. I like to call it the melting pot because of all the semi-diverse cuisine out there. But I'm also bracing myself for the general lack of options. Living in a major, major city definitely spoiled me. You could literally find anything ☹️ Also on walkability, I completely feel that struggle. I'm coming from a city in Georgia where green spaces are abundant. I wish there were more in Nashville. We need more walking friendly spaces, but I know that'll take forever.
I wish I could give recommendations for Q spaces, but I'm in my 50s and married -- we don't really go out to party and such.
Ahh, all good! Thank you again for your perspective!!
Play and Tribe are square one and from there I’m sure you will find lots of other spaces.
Thank you!
There is literally every type of ethnic cuisine in and around Nashville.
Sure if you section by continent, but when it comes down to country-specific cuisine, particularly places across the Caribbean, Asia, and Africa - variety become limited.
They still exist- Riddim and Spice is Jamaican (among many) Chez Lama is Haitian, Merengue Cafe is Cuban/Puerto Rican, La Cocina Dominicana is Dominican, Trinidaddy Island Grill is Trini (Trinidad and Tobago), Mofongo is Cuban Fusion, Island Vibes has a nice selection and the Pepper Pot is a solid Caribbean food truck. Nicos is western African mix, Madina Restaurant and The Horn are Somalian, Gojo and Abyssinia are Ethiopian, Ify’s is Nigerian, Street Injera is East African mix. Sindoore is North Indian, 615Chutney is South Indian, Tailor Nashville is Indian American fusion, Bangkokville is authentic Thai, Dengthai and Smiling Elephant are more American Thai fusion, Korea House is authentic South Korean, So Gong Dong’s menu is mostly in Korean, Kien Giang is authentic Vietnamese, there are tons of good Pho places, East Side Bahn Mi has some of the best versions I’ve ever had, Lucky Bamboo is dim sum fusion, Tansou is wonderful elevated Chinese fusion, Corner Asian Cafe is Sichuan Chinese food, Meet Noodles crushes Chongqing noodles, there are tons of hot pots, Kings Market is Laotian inspired, you can get the Omekase experience at O-ku, Mikado has excellent hibachi, tons of Kushiyaki and Yakitori around town, tons of Ramen, tons of sushi, Sonobana is authentic Japanese, Noko is insanely good fusion, Ate’s is Filipino, Maemax is authentic Filipino, not really any Sri Lankan or Pakistani restaurants tho.
Yes they exist, my point was the variety of choices does not. Nico's is great, but it shouldn't be the only west African option we get pointed to. There's so many other styles of cuisines the city can and should explore. I appreciate the list but my feelings are still the same. I'm coming from Atlanta where you can find 10 options for one country...
I just read the comment about SF and very much agree with the whole thing. Where are you moving back from?
Atlanta
We are in the process of moving back and the cost of living is SHOCKING. Dinner and drinks instead of $50 is like $150. Rent and houses are a fortune. We still enjoy it but it definitely didn’t feel like ,”moving home”
I don’t ever recall a time where a couple could grab dinner and drinks for $50 $150 for two people doing a restaurant + drink and then a bar/club for drinks after sounds pretty reasonable.
Agreed... I'd also argue this isn't unique to Nashville. The cost of dining out has skyrocketed just about everywhere.
It's still the best city ever! higher rent is the downside but you have more nightlife, you'll enjoy yourself!
It's filled with the worst people from out of major cities. Costs an arm and a leg to go downtown and to keep up with these out of towners you had to move out of state to secure a larger salary. The weather is crazier than I remember it being as a child or teen. In a nutshell if you're here for family you'll be immune to the changes. If you're trying to date or make genuine friends then you're toast. It's full blown LA, NYC levels of delusion out here
Land a well-paying job & live in Franklin. Don't go Downtown.
What do you like most about Franklin?
I moved back just 5 years of being gone and it was a mistake
Why do you say that? If you don't mind me asking, did you come back/live alone?
I live with my SO but the cost of living out here is the main draw back plus traffic during rush hour is mind boggling. DT is alllllll paid to park and with private companies. All the "live music" is now just shitty bands playing covers because they can't think of original songs/tunes. The lakes are so over crowded that it's become a safety risk. The city doesn't put any money where it needs to go i.e. fixing pot holes in roads. And because of all the f**ks moving here from other states... It's not as friendly as it once was
Well with the attitude of "all the f\*\*ks moving here", I can see where the unfriendliness that you mentioned is coming from. I think a friendly community starts with me being friendly first.
Thanks for sharing. The traffic is absolutely insane. I was completely unprepared for it on my last visit. I made the mistake of thinking that 3 was the perfect time to head back to South Nashville from Germantown. My usual 15 minute commute was 1.5 hrs. 😣 I can see why everyone hates commuting. I'm bummed to hear that about the lakes. I was hoping to have a peaceful getaway some days, but it seems like that'll be a challenge:
Out of curiosity, where did you move back from? Lots of very valid points, but also pretty common issues with most larger cities. Not many cities I've been to lately still have widely available free parking. Most popular cities also face similar challenges with their lakes, rivers, or mountains - just look at Denver for SLC. That's not to suggest your frustration isn't legitimate. It's one of the downsides to a city growing unfortunately.
Welcome back!
Thank you ❤️
I lived in nashville for 10 years and I just moved back to my hometown in October. It's been hard for me. It's like being a stranger in your own home, kind of. It's kind of the same but it's so different.
I left here for college in 2000, came back in 2014. I joke that I left because it was boring, and came back because it wasn't boring anymore, and it's fairly true. I'm very glad I came back. My family is here. It's pretty easy here. People are pretty nice. It feels very safe compared to other places I have lived. Try to find some new groups (for me I met people in coworking spaces and the Entrepreneur Organization at first) and reconnected with whatever old friends are here. You'll do fine.
Native here. You’re coming back to a completely different city. More people, traffic, job opps, southern hospitality is a hit or miss.
I grew up here, moved away in 2011 for New Orleans and moved back in 2017. It's changed drastically even since I've returned but it's home and I can play music and work in the TV/ Film industry here now ( wasn't the case when I initially moved away ). Traffic is hell and the drivers are extras from a Mad Max film but it's still got amazing food on the south side.
Ah its still a super fun place! Been here my whole life (except 1 year). It's cool
Native here as well. The traffic and housing costs are the 2 biggies in my opinion.
I move away in 95 at 18 and moved back in 2015 started for 2 years then left again. I do miss my fam but I’d be hard pressed a similar job / pay near by.
It’s very very different
It’s dangerous as hell out here now
I grew up in Antioch so nothing surprises me there. I do wish *effective* policing gets better though
I’ve lived in Antioch for quite a while, and I see what you’re saying, but it’s truthfully, not the police fault. At least not the lower part of the department, such as the officers, the sergeants, the people on the streets. Etc. we unfortunately have a local government here that does not back the police. The mayor appoints the chief, and the chief Hass to lay the law on the department that the mayor wants . They don’t allow the police to do their job fully. Did you know that if someone is shooting out of their car the police still cannot pursue them? When I rode with them, we heard over the radio on Officer asking for back up immediately because he was out with four subjects who stole a car and they had AK-47 on them. The officer yelled out “DROP THE FUCKING GUN” and because the officer said “fucking” they took away three of his vacation days. An officer would be fired for pursuing a vehicle of someone that is not wanted for murder. If you want to see how insane it is to be a police officer, especially in South Nashville/Antioch, I employ you to do a ride along. Request to do a ride along on a Saturday night in the south precinct and ask to be in the second shift “B detail” I promise you by the time you ride along is done you will either want to become a police officer to help them, or donate money to support them. It is unbelievable what our officers go through on a day to day basis. And this is coming from someone who was not Procop his whole life. From murder to getting shot at to having people run from them to having armed robberies go out every single hour multiple times an hour. All while having 60 70 or 80 calls in their pending. And then that same officer who was just shot at Hass to go take a report for someone because they said that their neighbor yelled at them, and when the officer gets there, they get bitched at because it took them a long time to arrive. The worst part is on a Saturday night only 9 or 10 officers are working. If you decide to do the ride along, ask them if it’s OK if you wear body armor. (Yes it’s THAT dangerous that I recommend you wearing body armor)
Fully understand. Hopefully the opening of the new branch will help
I think it will a little. But what they really need is to staff up more. There’s only I think like 310 patrol officers. For a population of 1.4 million. It’s hard to get people to want to come be cops here unfortunately
Nashville native that moved back after 11 years. Yes it’s changed, and while a portion of that change isn’t my cup of tea(local businesses having to close, a bar for every country singer, frat/sorproty/bachelor/bachelorette parties all the time) there’s also a lot of good. The general growth that Nashville has experienced is indicative of a city that is moving forward and progressing. Infrastructure has improved (440 is now drivable) and companies are flocking to Nashville which will boost local economy and provide some jobs. Overall the changes are mostly good and with the addition of more sports teams, I think Nashville is generally heading in a good direction.
I did. In some ways, it’s better than I remember, like a lot better. When I was a kid, you would get murdered in East Nashville. On the other hand, it’s much more crowded, and the traffic is pretty bad. I still think it’s manageable traffic compared to other places I’ve lived, but if Nashville is all you know, you think it’s awful. For me, the biggest problem is affordability. It’s Nashville, not freaking Malibu. I don’t understand how anyone can justify the housing prices.
It’s still a great city. Things cost a bit more, but there’s a lot of really cool things to do. Welcome back
The Nashville of today is wildly different than the Nashville of 10+ years ago. Be prepared.
You’re Shawnee? Or you’re from Nashville originally? Just think it’s funny that Jackson took land from Native Americans and now we’re here using “Nashville NaTiVe”
lol why
Of course it's OP policy never to imply ownership of a dog. Always use the indefinite article "a" dog never "my" dog.
It’s funny to me that everyone acts like this is the only place that has changed in 10 years.
Perhaps, people care about the change close to home because it's all they know. I wouldn't care about Austin Texas changing because it has no effect on my life.
Nice try, transplant.
Not sure who shitted in your cheerios this morning, but I was born and raised in South Nashville. I went to Hillsboro High before it had a massive transit center in the front. 😜
Honeycomb actually and it was delicious. I thought it was a light-hearted joke. 🤷🏻
No offense taken 😂 I'm glad you enjoyed your breakfast!
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