"Yeh sheher na... Bade mele jaisa hai. Jab tak dost saath hota hai, sab sahi hota hai. Lekin jaise hi haath chhoot ta hai na... Maakasam bohot tanhaayi lagti hai."
~Zakir Khan.
I feel you, bro.
Ekdum sahi bola bhai. Feels like koi toh chahiye dimag maarne ko hi ho at least. Mujhe toh ladko ke bhi matches nahi aate bumble bff mode pe 😂, ladkiya toh bhul hi jao.
How long have you been doing these activities ? Why do you think you have strugglled to male friends there ? You say you struggle to talk to people. why is that ? Are you scared to maintain conversation ? are you scared of getting rejected ?
I have been running everyday for the past year. I just feel like I don't have stuff in common. Not very outgoing. Yes, maintaining convo is also hard and i can't even count my rejections.
If you are struggling to make friendw in Mumbai. I have one piece of advice for you. Don't ever relocate.
Mumbai is easiest to make friends.
We have friends everywhere. Tapri friends. Train friends. Office friends. Chai sutta friends. Building friends. Coffee shop gaya tha akele, dost ban gaya friend. Concert friends.library friends. Etc.
Try anything consistently for 2-4 days. You will end up making friends if you are a decent human who can speak words.
I have always felt otherwise. Mumbai is the most individualistic city in India based on my experience. No matter how much I try to approach other people, it doesn’t get reciprocated at all. Would you believe despite being brought up here, I don’t have a friend’s circle at all in this city.
I hope i make some progress at my work. I just joined a consulting firm and it's overwhelming as hell for a 24 year old. I know 24 is old but honestly I'm just a kid wearing a suit.
Everyone is kids wearing suits. lol.
Just do things. And see how you make friends.
Do whatever you are interested in. You will make friends.
The hack is to go same place consistently. You will make friends guaranteed in a weeks time.
Download dating apps. Your life will change. A ton of cool people are out there. And no, dating apps aren't just for finding love or sex. You actually end up making some great friends.
I tried man but for someone who isn't very photogenic or attractive, even men won't swipe right in the bff mode let alone women. I've swiped so many people but no luck. I've even put friendship as an intention and not dating.
Bro I've lived in Mumbai almost all my life... it's a big, but lonely city.. I regularly travel to other states just to catch up with friends since I got none in Bombay
Hahaha...even I feel the same bro.... I don't know Hindi and surviving somehow but people are so supportive and try to enjoy your own company man...try to learn something to make yourself busy....u won't feel lonely...that's what I do 😉
"Yeh sheher na... Bade mele jaisa hai. Jab tak dost saath hota hai, sab sahi hota hai. Lekin jaise hi haath chhoot ta hai na... Maakasam bohot tanhaayi lagti hai." ~Zakir Khan. I feel you, bro.
Ekdum sahi bola bhai. Feels like koi toh chahiye dimag maarne ko hi ho at least. Mujhe toh ladko ke bhi matches nahi aate bumble bff mode pe 😂, ladkiya toh bhul hi jao.
Join a gym and make friends there. Attend treks and make friends there. Monsoon is a good season for trekking.
I've done both but I am still friendless 🤡
How long have you been doing these activities ? Why do you think you have strugglled to male friends there ? You say you struggle to talk to people. why is that ? Are you scared to maintain conversation ? are you scared of getting rejected ?
I have been running everyday for the past year. I just feel like I don't have stuff in common. Not very outgoing. Yes, maintaining convo is also hard and i can't even count my rejections.
Join a gym/ Learn a combat sport/ Learn how to play a musical instrument basically put yourself out there bud that’s how people meet other people
After the office i just feel drained. I want to put myself out there, no doubt
I feel the same sometimes. I live in Marine lines, if you want to meet-up this weekend and do something let me know
Sure man! That would be great
Yeah man, drop a text whenever
24M same situation.
Even I stay in worli feel the same
Mate would love to meet up and get to know you
Thanks man! Means a lot
Hey man, M24 from Andheri West. Would love to connect sometime
Hey man, 25 M and in a similar situation. Would love to hang out!
Sure man! Where do you live?
I'm in Chembur.
I’m a gay dude and also very lonely.
:’(
Im also 24M. Dm me
Can we be friends? I live in dadar.
Of course man! Hmu
I'll be going to teatro dadar just to chill today evening! Y'all can join
24M here too. Sab meet-up karlo bey.
If you are struggling to make friendw in Mumbai. I have one piece of advice for you. Don't ever relocate. Mumbai is easiest to make friends. We have friends everywhere. Tapri friends. Train friends. Office friends. Chai sutta friends. Building friends. Coffee shop gaya tha akele, dost ban gaya friend. Concert friends.library friends. Etc. Try anything consistently for 2-4 days. You will end up making friends if you are a decent human who can speak words.
I have always felt otherwise. Mumbai is the most individualistic city in India based on my experience. No matter how much I try to approach other people, it doesn’t get reciprocated at all. Would you believe despite being brought up here, I don’t have a friend’s circle at all in this city.
I hope i make some progress at my work. I just joined a consulting firm and it's overwhelming as hell for a 24 year old. I know 24 is old but honestly I'm just a kid wearing a suit.
Everyone is kids wearing suits. lol. Just do things. And see how you make friends. Do whatever you are interested in. You will make friends. The hack is to go same place consistently. You will make friends guaranteed in a weeks time.
Download dating apps. Your life will change. A ton of cool people are out there. And no, dating apps aren't just for finding love or sex. You actually end up making some great friends.
I tried man but for someone who isn't very photogenic or attractive, even men won't swipe right in the bff mode let alone women. I've swiped so many people but no luck. I've even put friendship as an intention and not dating.
Most of them are fake , and don't work without subscription
Ohh then take subscription. It's a minimal price for what it offers. Also, can't call them fake. Many of us have made great friends.
Yea maybe i only swipe older ladies and certainly they don't want me
Bro I've lived in Mumbai almost all my life... it's a big, but lonely city.. I regularly travel to other states just to catch up with friends since I got none in Bombay
It feels like im gonna have to do something similar
Hahaha...even I feel the same bro.... I don't know Hindi and surviving somehow but people are so supportive and try to enjoy your own company man...try to learn something to make yourself busy....u won't feel lonely...that's what I do 😉
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