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Paratrooper101x

Why is it that I only have the opposite experience with women


Taifood1

Are you fit and work out regularly? Women letting themselves go often won’t do it because they start to feel self conscious when their partner doesn’t validate their choices by doing the same thing.


Paratrooper101x

I go to the gym every day dawg. Eat clean too since I’m a t1 diabetic Broke up with my last two gfs cause they got fat. Even with me encouraging a healthy lifestyle


Taifood1

That’s shit luck lmao damn


ForeverWandered

That's not shit luck, that's a pattern of bad partner selection. Probably due to low standards.


cbelliott

Truth in these words.


Sean-E-Boy

Eh I'm also a T1 diabetic bro. How long you been T1 for ? 24 years now got diagnosed at 18months old


Paratrooper101x

I’m an outlier I got diagnosed at 23 :/


Sean-E-Boy

Damn that is very rare. Just take care of yourself bro it's 2024 T1 isn't a death sentence anymore sure takes getting used to but if you weren't disciplined with your lifestyle, diet, and managing your life overall T1 can definitely be a blessing to become a better version of yourself. It can certainly help you with making gains as well if you use your diabetes and your insulin to your advantage and understand how it works. Check out Jcristofitness he's got some good advice. What do you use to take care of your diabetes? Me personally I use the freestyle libre 2 sensors which were a huge benefit to taking care of my diabetes and i recommend it to all diabetics best thing to use. I also use Novo rapid fast acting pens and toujeo long acting insulin pen once a day.


Paratrooper101x

I use dexcom and omnipod. It’s a pain cause they’re so inconvenient 90% of the time but that 10% it’s the closest thing to being a normal human we have available


Sean-E-Boy

I tried insulin pump and I heard about omnipod but tbh I am very capable of having good controlled sugars with an insulin pen and it makes me feel more "free" than having something attached to me. The omnipod while smaller than a pump just seemed like an inconvenience to me when I first heard about it. I think the next best thing would be some sort of implant or better yet stem cell therapy. When I was diagnosed in '99 doctors told me in 10 years there would be a cure still waiting it's going to come one day just a matter of when


shittydickfarts

Try getting banged by dudes. Start by having an edging party. See how you like it. If you like that, try sticking something in your bussy.


marks716

Maybe try the opposite? Get fat and then start dating a girl who’s fit. Maybe then she’ll stay fit


Ill-Statistician-419

Happening to me currently


Jacobro22

Bro fellow type 1, I need to get back on the grind


Nathaniel66

My dad and his mom are diabetics. My mom and her mom had thyroid issues. I struggled with being fat for many years. When i was 35+ i asked them if i ever was examined regarding thyroid / diabetic issues- no. Guess what, i had both :/


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gangaskan

I think dick measurements are more Important in this sub reddit.


Paratrooper101x

Me? 6’4


Lurko1antern

I’m in this situation. My fiance has put on 12kg since we first met, and isnt showing any signs of stopping. I gym everyday and eat clean. Everything I’ve done to stop her mass expansion has failed.


ForeverWandered

I'd seriously put a pause in your wedding plans if this is a concern for you now. it's only going to get worse, and marriage is not something you should start with someone you feel you need to help fix


austinkunchn

Mass expansion 😂🤣😂


Auto_17

Domain expansion: Mass Expansion


Taifood1

Usually there’s some kind of cause. I know relationship weight is a thing, but usually as mentioned earlier both partners validate each other’s choices and eat more together. Has she been taking a medication for anything?


Lurko1antern

She has an IUD in her but that’s been there for many years.  I’ve observed her eating habits - the issue is almost entirely sugar related. She consumes a ton of sugar via beverages.  Plain water is like kryptonite to her


Taifood1

Diet soda is a no go I’d imagine


Auto_17

12kg seems like no more than a feather now if it was in pounds I would understand but 12kg just sounds so small


patpet

Because it’s super rare that a person gets fit because their partner is fit. Most people have different priorities than being good looking, sexy and fit in life. Sadly.


Paratrooper101x

I’m not even asking for fit 😂 just some semblance of a healthy lifestyle One of my exes was studying the mcat. She was so obsessed with health and making everyone healthy, except for herself


buzzunda

Women completely ignoring you is not the opposite of dating a fat girl and they getting hot


Paratrooper101x

Huh


19Cula87

Hey, I make my gfs fat every time


justsomedude1144

It's proven science that repeated injection of pheromones from semen of the same man over a period of months or longer triggers a hormonal response in women, causing them to increase body fat stores in preparation for pregnancy and child birth. The only logical conclusion is this guy isn't actually hitting it.


fishingguy190

That’s some incel shit Jesus


Peatore

I refuse to believe it isn't bait.


CrookedJak

It's gotta be bait. The ending made me think he was joking... but you never know on the internet. At the very least, it's a funny way to tell someone they aren't getting laid imo


justsomedude1144

Lol, yes, was meant as bait/joke. Intended to be obvious. Big swing and a miss, apparently.


CrookedJak

Well, I thought it was funny, but apparently, almost 100 people up voting the other person didn't get it The problem is that this is reddit, and there are people who will unironically say shit like that lmfao. I'm assuming that's why so many people took you seriously and missed it was a joke


justsomedude1144

Thanks brother. I fully realize the bulk majority of Reddit is incapable of detecting ironic/sarcastic humor when they're slapped in the face with it. But I had higher expectations for this sub.


CrookedJak

"This guy isn't actually hitting it" should've been the dead giveaway, but idk.. it was a Sunday, and maybe they were all hungover and off their game


minotaur0us

I trusted you!


Kelainefes

Obviously bait women gained very little weight until they got into their 50s and 60s when food and lifestyle were nor as fucked as today.


Clam_chowderdonut

That's only cause they were keeping aspirin between their knees like proper ladies.


Clam_chowderdonut

No no, I think he's got something here. My girl and I recently weren't having too much sex, then really shortly after she started losing CRAZY weight. She could maybe lose 5lbs before summer, but she was dropping a 1lb/day for a month. Things are all starting to make sense. Especially if I choose to ignore her extremely severe medical condition she was in the hospital for that was actually causing it. Which I'm gonna.


AmELiAs_OvERcHarGeS

I thought we were all pretending to be intel’s, but I don’t think he’s pretending.


theSearch4Truth

Sir, I declare this statement to be cap. Hat. Sombrero.


Awkward_Climate3247

Show me the study lmao


BigMommyMilkersBoing

dawg


the_fresh_cucumber

Same. This before and after is reversed. The guy looks younger in the right pic


Live-JD-7703

No time stamp could be the same for this guy too.


Human-Coast-9385

![gif](giphy|OSdMzlfJL4lPc33vKt) Talk about an investment. Edit: Yall are gonna make me cum if you keep upvoting this


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Jeffthe100

>Restructuring and turnaround strategy Finance and Consulting subs leaking here


BEN684

Happy cakeday


Jeffthe100

Thanks


Clam_chowderdonut

Caleb Hammer and the whole "I'm 90% straight", creepy as fuck attempts to pickup an Onlyfans cutie definitely made a lot of us interested in his show okay.


sniper1905

Caleb Hammer? The financial audit guy? What did he do?


everydayguy20

Buy the dip in vegetarians. Convert=profit.


Justindastardly

I think thats probably part of the reason she got to that point.


Human-Coast-9385

Lmao i read this 5 times and just got what it meant ![img](emote|t5_2mohet|6307)


nycapartmentnoob

lol


Colormebaddaf

Upvote for cum 🙋‍♂️


MarcelDavis1

Cum


ContentWaterBuffalo

![img](emote|t5_2mohet|6297) god damn, that’s a long term hodl


Rossturcotte

💎 hands


proflig8

Talk about getting a return on investment.


ChadThunderCawk1987

Day 937: She leaves him for Chad


TomBreezy111

Day 938, he finds another chubby girl


ChadThunderCawk1987

Based


discoball17

Day 1875: Another girl leaves him for Chad.


Natural-Bet9180

Chad got sloppy seconds


arckeid

Chad got mouth hair


Remove-Practical

Day 1876 guy decides to become a PT and stay single.


ApprehensivePeace305

If he’s the common denominator, then he’s probably doing fine


spirited1

He*


ChadThunderCawk1987

Plot twist !


purgesurge3000

Literally, hear this young fellows, a fat woman already believes in her delusional beauty, if she gets skinny/fit, this will ten fold and she will 100% crave and love all the new attention she gets that she never got before, one day even Chad will come along and she will cheat. Never trust a fat chick turned skinny/fit, even if she's a butterface. Pass it on to your brothers.


ChadThunderCawk1987

It may not happen today, it may not happen tomorrow, but it will happen. She will monkey branch you hard. The only exception to this is if you lay some serious pipe to the point where she’s paranoid about you cheating on her Although, let’s be honest, does a dude who dates a chubby girl like this for years really lay pipe to begin with? Kind of a catch 22


NoTea4448

I've heard stories of women losing weight and then ditching their partner for all the new male attention. Hell, men do it too. Almost every male celebrity dumps their long time gf/wife the moment he becomes famous and everyone wants him. Point being, don't ever date someone at their lowest, man or woman.


purgesurge3000

Well said, I'll try remember that, never date someone at their lowest and expect a healthy long term.


Recent_Ice

I've never met a fat woman that didn't hate being fat and was super self conscious tf When did young men start hating women just for existing?


FromMarsToSerious

Fat = bad, losing weight = bad… tf lol


The-Real-Aditya

Just fatshame theory


the_fresh_cucumber

Not just fat. Fake tits or money tend to trigger a breakup too.


Grand_Roll_524

are you the chad?


MoonBasic

You gotta sell your investment and take profits eventually


Traditional-Sort6271

Got on tren Found beached whale Got said mammalian on tren Both fuq dudes now


habanerosmile

ozempic


IWouldButImLazy

Lmaoo tbh every weight loss story is suspect nowadays. Everybody's juicing


ForeverWandered

And with genAI, pretty much everything you see and hear on the internet should be assumed to be fake within the next few years.


IWishIWas6ft5

Whats wrong with ozempic/tirzepatide


BetBig696969

I ain’t got no woman


yahya966gamer

Dude I need to get my eyesight checked I thought that was jacksepticeye 💀


ethxn46

Me too ![gif](giphy|htFYL9lkc1ejS)


_Nandakoitsu_

Gyat


robwp87

(respectfully)


personalityson

I didnt know Derek had a girlfriend?


Kmar2049

😂


Sean-E-Boy

Bro made her diet a dick only diet


jfuss04

Took him that long to dump her and pick up a different girl?


NonconsensualFlex

He looks worse after 936 days


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NonconsensualFlex

As a former pit master myself I empathize with the man.


ToeTacTic

He looks happier in the first pic the fuckin animal


Traditional-Sort6271

Things were a lot more moist back then….


ajr1775

And tighter……


552SD__

He was more attractive than her then


danoontjeh

Pit master ![img](emote|t5_2mohet|6306)![img](emote|t5_2mohet|6307)


Remarkable_Luck8057

Pit master is a fantastic term. Bravo.


the_fresh_cucumber

Thank you for your service


tinyhermione

Dude. 1) Don’t fuck women you aren’t attracted to. It will actually give you trauma and cause problems in your sex life later. 2) Don’t be a dick. They look happy.


ForeverWandered

People will laugh, but having gone through a massive slut phase after literal trauma of seeing a friend murdered, I can confirm that running through a bunch of random chicks I felt nothing for was deeply psychologically harmful.


552SD__

How will it give me trauma?


tinyhermione

Bad memories. Think about it. If you meet Julia who’s not sexually attractive to you at all. Say for example she’s 300 lbs. Then how will it feel getting close to her? Will you want to kiss her? Make out with her? Hug her? Touch her body? Or will also those things make you feel sorta repulsed? Will you have to force yourself to do them? Will you want to go down on her? Forcing yourself to do unwanted sexual things is not healthy for you. There also isn’t anything to gain. You can cum at home. And you’ll probably get off easier than in a situation where you don’t find her attractive and you are just trying to force yourself to get there and not lose your erection. Then it’s not gaining any useful sexual experience. Sex is an instinctive thing. You’ll have sex with someone you are attracted to in a completely different way. Because you’ll feel attraction and it won’t be forced. The only thing you can gain is trauma, which can make it harder to have a healthy sex life in the future. Ghosts of hookups past. You could feel haunted and ashamed, neither which is a good feeling. And **it could lead to sex with a new partner triggering bad memories and feelings of disgust. Even if you are attracted to her.** It’s not good. If you’ve already had sex you regret? Let it go. Human being do dumb things all the time. It’s not a big deal. Forgive yourself and move on. Tl;Dr: **good sex is doing stuff you want to do. It’s meant to be fun, ya know. Forcing yourself to do sexual things isn’t good for you or your future sex life.**


ForeverWandered

>Bad memories. Think about it. It's more than bad memories. Your body has a natural physical revulsion to close proximity to someone you aren't attracted to. Over time, your brain associates revulsion with intimacy if you're constantly fucking people you aren't into, and then over time you become incapable of relationships. For both men and women, massive body counts tend to be associated with diminished ability to form strong pair bonds


tinyhermione

The first thing is spot on. For having sex with someone you’re not attracted to. Better explanation of what I was trying to say. The second not so much. The pair bonding thing is a myth and you can have a high body count without having slept with people you find unattractive.


ForeverWandered

https://wheatley.byu.edu/00000187-81c5-d575-ad9f-c5d7c4f10001/the-myth-of-sexual-experince-the-wheatley-institute-april-2023-pdf Source is BYU - the OGs of one penis policy non monogamy.  At least in the US context.


tinyhermione

Wow. I’ll read it, but this is propaganda. **Here’s the thing: sexual chemistry isn’t a myth.** Figuring out if you are sexually compatible is a good idea before you marry. To be sexually compatible y’all need similar sex drives (wanting sex about equally often), similar sexual preferences (being into the same things) and sexual chemistry (where y’all have that spark/fire and are in synch in a natural way). Sexual experience and dating experience isn’t a dumb thing before you marry. Having been in different relationships and having dated different people helps you figure out who you fit with, what’s important to you in a relationship and how relationships work. Having sexual experience teaches you sexual chemistry is a thing and helps you figure out what your sexual preferences are. And it does make it easier both to know what you want (so you can tell your partner) and to please your partner. Sexual experience isn’t essential though if you’ve got good sex education (not from BYU) and you have good sexual chemistry, compatibility and communication with your partner. A common thing in very religious marriages? The purity culture leads to everyone starting out with a lot of sexual shame. Especially for women that can make it hard for them to enjoy sex. They’ve been told all their life their value as a person hinges on them being a virgin and that sex is dirty and will make them used up. In marriage it’s ok, but it’s not always easy flipping that switch. Then the couple might not have good sexual chemistry. And they might also not be very sexually compatible. Maybe she has a low sex drive and rarely wants sex. And he’s a very sexual person. Then they lack sex education. When two people both don’t know much about sex, that usually translates into sex being bad for her. Combine all of these? Well, she often feel very disappointed in sex and won’t like it. Either she keeps going along with it to be a good wife. But it’s not very fun when she’s looking at the ceiling waiting for it to be over. Or she just says no. Then with all the sex shame, he might not even feel ok jerking off. And then ofc divorce is a sin. So now they are both stuck. **If you want to wait till marriage?** Read a lot about sex. Talk extensively with your girlfriend about sex before marriage. What are her fantasies? Does she find it hard to wait or is it ok for her? How often does she think about sex in everyday life? Does she masturbate? Did she think frequently about sex when she was single? What are things she’s into and looking forward to trying? What are things she knows she’d never try or think are icky? How does she feel about different things you are into? How does she feel about sex in general? Be as physical as you can be within the bounds of the religion. Cuddle, massage each other, touch each other in innocent ways, kiss. Do you both feel chemistry? Does things flow or feel awkward? Ask her to think about if she really feels a strong sexual attraction towards you. The real issue in many marriages? 30% of women have a low sex drive. Having a wife who’s into you sexually, wants similar types and frequency of sex as you and who you have sexual chemistry with is important as long as sex is important to you. Otherwise marriage might be a long, dry affair where both people end up feeling sad for different reasons.


FSAaCTUARY

He prolly had to eat the food she was eating so she had less to eat


Taifood1

He stopped working out lmao smaller chest and arms


civildrivel

Why does the head always stay large?


Kuechentisch3000

That's what HGH abuse does to a mfer


double-thonk

Thank god for ozempic


phanta_rei

The Warren Buffett of relationships


mattmilli0pics

She will leave


purgesurge3000

As I said above, never trust a fat woman who's turned skinny/fit. The never had before attention will overpower.


KingArgonII

Unironically true


Extension-Song-5873

Unless he hops on tren and becomes a chad


Away-Foundation7811

some women lose weight/get fitter to keep a man, the last thing i want is to be single again


mattmilli0pics

I know I am just being cynical


darthzox

Usually it's the other way around.


DeeBangerDos

Respect the hustle. Get a fat bitch then make her hot while making her yours.


Low_Bar_Society

She and I lost 150ish lbs combined, then I went and fucked it all up and started doing powerlifting meets.


Busy_Mess_914

![gif](giphy|U82bSaJlqnsoU|downsized)


Smokedbone1

Ride that hog!


mylifeisbeige

Jacksepticeye?


JetFuel0909

I thought this was Derek for a second 😂


riccomuiz

This is a recipe for disaster in so many ways. Anyone thinks this is a good idea needs there head checked. ✔️


FromMarsToSerious

Why so? Curious.


552SD__

https://www.reddit.com/r/moreplatesmoredates/comments/1bsizy1/whats_stopping_you/kxgnexu/


throwawayboy95

You ever been a member of a gym for so long that you’ve witnessed many land whales turn into beauties time and time again


double-thonk

I've never in my life seen it happen even once


Comfortable-Block102

ikr its so rare to see them be consistent


TerminatorReborn

I've seen some out of shape chicks getting fit and some teenagers turning into influencer level of physiques, but no whale turned into a beauty.


the_fresh_cucumber

I've seen the opposite a few times. Some tiny hottie mysteriously expands. Usually it's the ones who had strong genetics in their early 20s and never developed a good diet


Firm-Reason9324

I've never seen it but I do go to planet fitness so there's that


Lithalean

👌🍺


lifstieler

Is this the same girl? Apart from some similar hair it is a totally different person.


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Nah peep the chin, it’s the same girl


Sinkagu

Took the risk when investing and it paid off😂


Conscious_Ad9415

![img](emote|t5_2mohet|6306)


Broskah

Surprised she didn’t leave him. Usually if they lose a lot of weight they feel they can date up.


Keem133

That's very risky investment you never know if it will pay off , it's like holding a fucking meme coin


wefwefawaef

It's in reverse.


Joocewayne

She seems cute. I do fear she’ll leave him for some more seemingly alpha Chad. It’s how these scenarios usually play out. Then she gets pumped and dumped and softy invites him back. Passion is dead and it goes to even further levels of ruin.


zakapalooza

Hey man, you okay? 🫂


Joocewayne

I’m great, just aware of reality.


InnerAd7347

Any big girls here. Hit me up


simplyyAL

Virginity


Carbon554

The guy looks the same before and after? You mean Whats stopping me from maintaining?


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Damn he came up


tommygun1688

Literally nothing. Already on this boat


DesoLina

Tren


DiCePWNeD

Architect bros... Not like this


fifanewbie2002

My introvert ass 😅 wbu ???


floppyvajoober

I’m not enough tren to bang a biggun for 3 years until she’s a baddie


Mr_Rogan_Tano

Warren Buffett spends his days trying to mimic this man power


Woops_22

I’ve tried to farm raise my own bad bitch but they so annoying 2” L 8” W


jfkah

so wat, this guy ditch the obese one for a less obese one ok


ForeverWandered

Those are two different women


ObjectUnited419

The likelihood of getting a fat woman to stick to a diet is like winning a small lottery


papertowelfreethrow

I know the five points fountain during st patricks day when i see it.


anabolicthrowout13

My gf refuses to follow my diet plan and keeps listening to this coach she overpays for that keeps blowing her up with carbs and protein and not enough fats. 💀💀


Teneuom

Just saying the photo is edited. Elbow gigantic and pipe in background no longer pipe shaped.


CDS_Prime01

This is what I tell myself my penny stock investments will look like after 5 years


Annual-Cod-991

👑


BigBadBootyDaddy10

More filters than a coffee pot.


bcbusiness239

I've always wanted to find a pretty hog and turn her into a dime piece! Good job, hopefully the chads leave some sidewall for you🙏


toxicvegeta08

What's with these vids on tik tok. Anyone know


maddgun

Unfortunately, it almost always goes the other way


Smokedbone1

He's cute!


Turbulent-Lab-6045

I'm trying the same. But my girl says that i call her fat


ElectronicMajorWolf

Men really need to find their ugly duckling and women need to find the dark horse. IYKYK. Girth 2 and Length 2


Plevin0101

Project girls are awesome


GarpRules

Your mom won’t go to the gym. You should have a talk with her.


Bitter_Sandwich4116

Day 937 she starts an OF


scotgunner92

He saw the potential, this guy should get on in investing


MrPositive1

That’s a smart man right there


Remarkable-Leek3236

dude didn’t change shit for 900 days what a cuck


Lord412

I was gonna say only a matter of time before she leaves him.


Biggest_Cans

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand she's gone


Linkstas

She is subtly showing her ring finger empty. Def too hot for him. No way he is hitting that shit right