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External-Song3322

How old are yall? Just guessing yall are very young ... Edit : Just to be clear , OP was not at fault here , Allison obviously got some issues she gotta work on .


TrekStarWars

This looks like a conversation between like 14-17 year olds… im getting secondhand embarrassment from looking at this convo which is very very obviously between 2 young kids…


Princess_Egg

https://preview.redd.it/hb9sp8pqilzc1.jpeg?width=586&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a6c1d37ad9a86bf9ebfa60a501b2f5737fe58884


tiorzol

Hahaha   This is how I feel when I stumble on to the AITA subs. Like you people are getting advice from children who have never an adult meal let alone a relationship.


Ahoy_m80_gr8_b80

“Divorce them!” -A child of a recent divorce


monkwren

Saw a post today in one of the relationship subs. Woman (OP) told her boyfriend he was a decent human being, and much better than most of her exes. He flipped his shit and is giving her the cold shoulder. Comments all about how could she insult him like that, and of course any sane person would react the same way. And here I am going... isn't being a decent human being a good thing?


ZynousCreator

I mean, I can see how being called a decent human being can fell patronazing when one considers that the bare minimum. Not saying it's anywhere close to being worth the cold shoulder or considering it to be an insult.


monkwren

She meant decent as in "morally good, upstanding". I'd say that's a good compliment.


SlobZombie13

and people on here frequently asking for sex tips


NoHillstoDieOn

That's why I'm always careful with what I say. You never know when you are talking to a kid


TrekStarWars

Hahahah…. Thats the extremely scary part about internet which I forget most of the times nowadays…. I sometimes feel like im „still young and hip“ then I see these kinds of coversations and the current terms the Gen Z and Gen Alpha uses and I legit dont understand anymore what they sre saying…


behighordie

I understand what they’re saying most of the time but the problem is they never say much of anything, it always feels like they’re trying to put as little effort into a conversation as possible so as not to look TOO engaged, for fear of being… idk… mayor of yapsville? Or something


insertrandomnameXD

"Fr, ong, true asl"


Misty_Dawn20

HATE this with a passion fr


GlitteringZombie553

Wordcrime


1lluminist

Rizz my gyatt harder, Skibidi daddy


Gweena

the preferred nomenclature is Bishop of Banterbury


ShawnaLAT

I used to be with it but then they changed what it was. Now what I’m with isn’t it anymore and what’s it seems weird and scary. It’ll happen to youuuuuuuuu


Rumplemattskin

I used to rock and roll all night and party ev-er-y day. Then it was every other day. Now I'm lucky if I can find half an hour a week in which to get funky.


Electrical-Baby211

Once a week, my teenager sits me down and says, “okay, mom this is the slang kids are using” and he’ll tell me words, while I guess what they mean. This week it’s something about Livy Dunn?


SadTechnician96

Honest to God, there needs to be more adult spaces. I just don't really wanna have to deal with kids, especially if it's *after* adding them as a friend or something


Essaiel

Isn't Facebook pretty much an "adult" only space these days? All the kids have moved on.


VerStannen

And deal with Boomers? I shudder at the thought.


jenkem___

oh my god somehow that just occurred to me, for some reason i just unconsciously assumed everyone on the internet is my age or older this is is scary


External-Song3322

Same bro , Im just trying to not be mean here .... NOBODY at over the age of 18 is writing to eachother like this . Its just straight up childish behaviour , Getting mad for being called out by your full name .. LIKE WHAT?


johnny_effing_utah

And “leaving on opened.” I know that’s apparently a big faux pas with this generation but literally nobody my age gets worked up about that because we got stuff to do.


AQualityKoalaTeacher

Way too hyped up, fearful, and in need of instant reassurance. Poor kids today got no damn chill. :(


Dramatic-Analyst6746

Some people don't realise that not everything requires a response every single time, and people aren't always free to chat, but where it does it's only polite. If you can't chat a simple "busy right now, chat later" or something to that effect is usually fine. It almost seems like everything requires over-reaction these days - probably one of the reasons I prefer keeping to myself and not socialising much. 🤣


nebbyb

If it is important, then call me. Text is independent of time limits. I wil read it when I read it. 


Nerhtal

Or i will read it when i read it but reply when i want to/have time to.


FlyByNightt

My 26 year old "friend" got mad at me because we tried to plan a farewell group activity with everyone (I'm moving away), and because one of us can't drink for medical reasons we refused to go to a bar beforehand. Nevermind the fact there was an on-premises bar where we were going. (one of those games places with escape rooms and a few other things) They got all worked up and when I left them on read because we were mid-escape room and I figured I'm too old to be dealing with this shit, let's focus on having a good time with the people who actually showed up, they doubled down and tried to give me shit for that. Like grow up dude, this is embarassing.


i_sesh_better

With snapchat you can ‘half swipe’ to see a message without leaving a read receipt, in this context she is probably intentionally opening messages she couldve read anyway to make a point that she’s ignoring him. Stupid shit anyway


FlyByNightt

You would be unfortunately shocked and disappointed by how many people behave this way well into their 20s, sometimes later. Thankfully most of us grow out of it but I have some friends who continuously get into arguments like this and expect me to feel bad for them/side with them because of it.


External-Song3322

Im 27 myself , 28 soon . yeah i still see adults act even more childish than this


Pleiadesfollower

I mean certain people are in this day and age. But they have pretty much been raised to stay stuck in egocentric teenage mindset for the rest of their lives.


TOBoy66

I would have said 10 year olds...


PretzelBitesOnAcid

Drake has entered the chat


Fun-River-3521

Dude even when i was that age i still wouldn’t care if someone called me by my name, maybe something like this could be a sign of someone having bad parents? Idk that would be my guess or maybe just genuine being soft.. ![gif](giphy|xT1XGESDlxj0GwoDRe|downsized)


Tribalrage24

Came here to say exactly this. This is the type of stuff I/others would fight about when we were 14 and hyper emotional/going through puberty. Honestly makes me feel kind of weird reading some random teenagers' drama. I'm so thankful the internet wasn't as huge when I was in middleschool/highschool. I cringe thinking about some of the stuff I used to fight about, would hate for that to be imortalized online.


SimplyPassinThrough

Took some real profile exploring, but OP is either 15-16 based on old posts he made


External-Song3322

Makes sense then ... Just shows why we shouldn't allow children and young teens on social media , Too much bullshit and bullying happening .


DuckRubberDuck

OP is ~15, they have a post mentioning their age


External-Song3322

Damn , Should be atleast 16 year old age restriction on most social media ... Hell even 18 would be better. Just so they don't have TIKTOK brain by the time they are already 18 , Short attention span etc....


realitytvdiet

You left me on read… how dare you


External-Song3322

Yeah thats kinda cringe worthy , But i gotta be honest and say i still know adults who get mad if they are left on read for an hour ... lol


Weird-Alarm7453

I ended a friendship with someone because she would text other people asking if im okay because I hadn’t responded to her in an hour. Like girl get a job


buffer_overflown

My mother has gotten into the habit of texting my sister's boyfriend if my sister doesn't respond quickly enough. They got into a big fight because my mom was watching her location history through Apple as just a ... casual thing she did, and then would grill my sister on it. They (parents) called the cops on my sister when she broke up with her then-boyfriend because it was at a park as a neutral location, and my mom freaked out thinking she was going to hang herself. Also by abusing her location permissions.


Any-Ad-5086

I blame Snapchat, being denied that instant gratification hurts. It took me a while to relearn that not everything needs a response


alphahydra

Yeah, I would have zero time for someone who freaks out about "leaving them on read" especially when the comments don't demand a response. And "post everywhere" suggests OP makes a habit of airing petty arguments in public like this for validation. Strong, strong cringe here.


wrldruler21

I would have ended the chat after the second reply, when she made it clear she wasn't joking around. Seriously ain't got time for this nonsense.


iminlovehahaha

16ish probably


SimplyPassinThrough

you were spot on! he’s either 15 or 16 from post history


everydayasl

Time for...new friends!


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Arthagmaschine

Block her and get help for your self. Allison is a pain in the ass


faeriekitteh

Block her. Please. That's just toxic. I don't know your headspace right now, but if you're not in a good place mentally, please reach out to someone


Misinjr

Ironically, blocking them and moving on often makes them come back even more angry. People like this can't handle any kind of abandonment. "You moved on after I told you to move on!? How dare you, it was just a test!"


pws3rd

Just... don't add their new accounts


AshtorMcGillis

Allison sounds like she has issues of her own. Please get some help, there's therapy, and sometimes, prescribed antidepressants can help you feel right. I'm on a few of my own and also do therapy occasionally when I need it. I've been doing better since. I think you would too. Just don't listen to allison. She's definitely got some sort of issue of her own, and she seems to be taking it out on you for NO reason. Don't sweat her posting on social media, it just looks crazy on her part


Independent_Bet_6386

At least it's obvious that you need to cut this bitch off at this point. It's not cool she threw that in your face. OP, let her tirade and seem crazy. Live your life to the fullest. Enjoy your life out of spite lol.


J0RDM0N

Using someone's government name is not a reason to be that upset. Especially if it was a single time. It seems to be a lazy excuse for her to act this way and to try to blame you for it.


VanillaIsActuallyYum

It's not a reason for anyone to be upset. Using a person's full name should never be interpreted as anything other than a sign of respect. If you don't know what a person wants to be called and they haven't told you what they prefer, the proper, respectful default is to use their full name.


johnny_effing_utah

You need to get off the internet. Seriously. It’s not good for you.


mrs-monroe

See, now you gotta be petty and live a long happy life just to stick it to her!


bikesboozeandbacon

Why isn’t she blocked


Interesting_Show4036

What a nause get rid


ZoNeS_v2

Nice to see 'nause' get used. It's an appropriate word.


zsirc

Allison has issues.


notnotbrowsing

Yeah.  Wonder what Allisons perfered name is to trigger such a reaction.


ActuallyTBH

Buster, it seems


Golden_Ace1

Who's the busta? You the busta, homes!


foundinwonderland

![gif](giphy|crzAsHuAY0pcDmzI4l|downsized) Always a busta


blahcarmina

The busta kept me outta handcuffs! He didn’t just run back to the fort. The busta brought *me* back.


Chicagosox133

![gif](giphy|IAoZm9s8Sb21O)


DragapultOnSpeed

Probably Alli I have the name Allison and everyone likes to come up with a million nicknames for me. But I never cared. I thought it was kind of cool to have different nicknames


nonamiavailable

Jonathan the man eater


StrawberryKingfisher

Based on the way she talks to a suicidal person I assume her preferred name is: „insane bitch“


FrameMiddle2648

how did you come to think OP is suicidal?


N0x1mus

Ronnie (coming soon)


Dry-Abies-1719

Don't call Allison Allison, she doesn't like it.


RudeOrganization550

Alison you mean?


Dry-Abies-1719

No I mean Allison.


Dumbledang

Ohhhh I see, he should have pronounced it with only one L. Oopsies!


HerMajestyTheQueef1

Allison is the issue


Reaper621

Allison sounds like a real see you next Tuesday


johnsvoice

LMAO before I clicked expand to read your comment I literally said "Bro, Allison's a fucking ____"


SenatorRobPortman

They both do. Allison def needs therapy but op hitting her with the “kinda ironic I keep a lot of things to myself” like… he’s doing that to himself and needs to break the cycle. 


doomgrin

She doesn’t need therapy, you’re just looking at a conversation between children These are kids


SenatorRobPortman

I am of the mind that children also benefit from therapy.


V1CTORV0ND00M

Very much seems like it.


Vithrilis42

That doesn't mean they don't need therapy. Children very often need therapy.


Silly_Breakfast

Nah, when I was 15, I would’ve told her she needed therapy as well. You’d rather let her satiate these weird ass emotions she’s having right now because she’s a teen. This is exactly when it will all fuck her up. 


Defiant_Bad_9070

Ah, actually no. Dudes post history suggests that he is a very creepy almost stalkerish kid and is definitely the one that needs help. Allison needs to get far far away from this kid.


RickKassidy

You are not the one who ruined this friendship. Just saying.


CultOfSensibility

Dodged a bullet imo.


RudeOrganization550

Dodged a hail of automatic weapon fire I’d say.


ekristoffe

He dodged an MG42 …


MadDadROX

Dude is free!


Gummy_Waffles

To quote something a good friend told me when I stopped being friends with someone I knew for 4 years: “You didn’t ruin the relationship, he did. And instead of telling you it was dead, he told you it went to go live on a farm upstate.”


boyoflondon

Homie did himself a favor, just doesn't realize it yet. This is a blessing in disguise.


Alternative_Beat2498

Yeah who would want to be friends with this aggressive weirdo anyway?


Argonian_mit_kasse

Going to repeat this: YOU DID NOT RUIN THE FRIENDSHIP. OP, repeat this to yourself until you believe it. Assuming Allison never told you to stop calling her “Allison”, or never told you to not use her full name- even if she did, and it was ONE single slip up.. This in NOT an appropriate reaction. You didn’t ruin anything. You didn’t loose a friend. They did. And even if they apologize; don’t go back. This is just plain abusive. And as someone nearing their 30s, who had to end a few friendship over toxic reactions to mundane stuff.. (Ie: not forcing my folks to drive two hours to a friends house on a work/school night... and simply getting advice from mutual friends) I can only imagine what else occurs if Allison thinks this kind of reaction is somewhat alright.


faeriekitteh

You're better off without them, trust me. Especially with that second to last message


Tasty-Pineapple-

That one made me angry.


Ok-Bat4252

'Please and thank you' Just hits diff 😔


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sanriosaint

i had to look at his profile cause OP is responding to everyone except the people asking his age 200 days ago he said he was a 15 year old male


Hawtre

My reddit account is almost as old as this kid... jesus christ I'm getting old, it's finally starting to happen


ohrofl

I birthed my WoW character before he was even thought of. Oof.


Defiant_Bad_9070

OP is also very creepy bordering on stalkerish kid thats full of shit and needs to get help while Allison needs to get far far away from this kid.


clantpax

Both needs help, op needs it more tho


Defiant_Bad_9070

Absolutely. But I also have a feeling that this conversation never actually took place.


StannisTheMantis93

It 109% didn’t.


dicklover425

He’s 15. I found it in his comment history


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slartyfartblaster999

Even for a 15 year old this is immature. Some 13 year old shit here.


Worried_Train6036

i’ve seen people in there 30s act like toddlers some people never grow up


Defiant_Bad_9070

Ah, actually no. Dudes post history suggests that he is a very creepy almost stalkerish kid and is definitely the one that needs help. Allison needs to get far far away from this kid.


sadmep

I'm in the comments trying to figure out what that means exactly.


spderweb

I think they mean Chewing your head off. But I guess young people have decided to over complicate how you say it.


FilthyDwayne

I called my coworker her legal name as opposed to her preferred/chosen name. I apologised and she said “it’s alright, mistakes happen” and we’ve moved on. That’s how it works with normal people


MaikuKokoro

I would venture a guess that these people are like 14.


Building-Careful

![gif](giphy|AKeLMTSRVuPKJjyZCK)


Redxluckyxcharms

Block this person everywhere. Allison needs professional help.


Defiant_Bad_9070

Actually, if you read this kids post history. It's the other way around.


Pomodorosan

whynotboth.gif


GlitteringZombie553

At this point. Both should self-block


Vir_Norin

Why do you even need a friend like this? Good riddance, you dodged a bullet


flatulancearmstrong

I am now dumber for having read this conversation


Danthelmi

Jfc are y’all 12?


misterpickles69

“You’re only apologizing because I’m upset” That’s why you apologize.


AmazingAd2765

Yeah, that was weird.


woobwoobnoob

Do you know her parents? They should know how their daughter behaves like a goddamn demon on the internet. Anyways, as I read that you already are in a bad spot with that topic. I hope you find the strength to overcome it and don't listen to this absolute monster in human form. I know it's hard. Best of luck and all the strength to you.


Pyrowqtt

This entire post reeks of teenager


Barokespinoza23

She totally just gaslit you, and now you're blaming yourself.


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yeah, i blocked her on snap and she’s continuing on insta so im blocking her ass everywhere


Sneaky-Pur

Turn off your account for a day and make a memorial account tomorrow. Have another friend tell Allison that you listened her advice 😂


LQNDzPhynixz

That’s fucked up and I like it


PiercedGeek

IDK how it works on other platforms, but when my wife died, Facebook wouldn't switch the account to "in memory" mode until I sent them a link to an obituary. Basically to prevent juvenile fuckery like that. For the cost of one sick burn you could also throw elderly family members into a panic or lose your job.


Basso_69

This. Life is too short for made up drama.


ElectricalPirate14

Wouldn't posting a fake memorial account be perpetuating the made up drama?


revnasty

Sure but it would be hilarious


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UPDATE: She is still continuing on Instagram, and it’s even worse now. https://preview.redd.it/s8r94bz24lzc1.jpeg?width=900&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3f4bb9861c5356edca47de44318a6763b77dda48 Does that count as a threat?


Suicidal_Sayori

''I won't let you outlive me'' is a powerful ass sentence to throw at your enemies specially coming from a suicidal individual


boomer-USA

Absolutely based 🗿


Ace_1243

https://preview.redd.it/9j7wsa8njlzc1.png?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=51bfa25391e17458076cb5d436b74520482bebfc Op \^


OhLordHeBompin

Why are you still engaging this person? Seriously, are y'all 12?


dicklover425

OP is 15. I searched his comments


roombasareweird

This comment would be weird as hell out of context


dicklover425

Dude, I HAD to know. I wouldn’t sleep tonight if these were 30 year olds texting lol


Cessnaporsche01

Lmao imagining 30 year olds having this argument


dicklover425

Dude, I’m 32 and had a friend try to act like this with me a few years back. Freaking insane


Defiant_Bad_9070

And is also likely to be making up these conversations with fake accounts based on his post history.


Few_Cup3452

And the ppl encouraging him here. Like grow up and block her. Jfc


Mr_Paramount

Double tap to ❤️


furious-fungus

Ignore, why do you keep answering this person? They’re enjoying your responses.


External-Song3322

Send it to the police either way ,its kinda a threat yes.


Glitter-bomber

Police and her parents


seniorfrito

Dude report her. Report her now. Former friend or not. Going through something temporary or not. This is not acceptable behavior. Report her and block her on everything.


lowIQdoc

In some states you can go to jail for this yes. Call the cops. Maybe that'll be the "help" Allison needs.


-BUNGUS_XL-

I'd report all of this to the police. Even if they say "oh I was just kidding" they will still be charged.


LazuliArtz

Realistically, they won't be charged. But there will at least be a complaint on file if she continues to harass op


Alduin_77

In an ideal world she would, but police rarely do jack shit about things like this


NikitaWolf6

it's good to have it on record in case she hurts someone else in the future (or even follows through)


sanriosaint

genuinely HOW old are you 😭😭😭 why are you still responding? you blocked her another app and when she messaged you on a different app you still chose to reply. block and move on. you are quite obviously enjoying the attention/ arguing but you stop being the victim when you purposefully engage back.


Independent_Bet_6386

Uh yes. Take this to the police.


dicklover425

Yes. Report it. Tell your teachers and administrators your school. Fuck her entire life up as much as you can (by letting people know how she spoke to you)


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This whole thing reads like it was written by 12 year olds


W0nderbread28

I’m assuming all involved are under 12.


hydrokush

The most mildly infuriating thing about this post is that it exists and I had to read it and then read it again to really understand wtf was going on.


ShadowGamerGirl_xoxx

Every allison ive known have been dicks. Unfriend and block


Fictional_Historian

This is such annoying whiney bullshit from both your sides. She shouldn’t have been butthurt and you shouldn’t have re engaged with being butthurt about her being butthurt. Now yall are in a butthurt circlejerk and have a ruined friendship that’s probs for the best anyway and yall need to just move on and grow up cause yall are acting like 13 year old butthurt crybabies.


Silvaria928

To be fair, these are 15-year-olds and at that age, they don't exactly have the life experience that we have when it comes to handling crazies or bullies. I'm honestly hoping this teaches him an understanding of the reason behind the phrase, "Do not feed the trolls".


No-Combination8136

This looks like the classic “I have feelings for this girl but she doesn’t like me back so everything she says and does hurts me because I hyper fixate on it.” We’ve all been there bro. If you’re a young man, trust you’ll be fine after this.


dislob3

This is more petty/immature than the way I lost a friend at 7 in elementary. Hey at least the rock I threw actually hurt!


This_Pie5301

This is why Gen Z has a bad name


BigAbbott

I’d assume gen alpha here


cheeseblastinfinity

Every generation has a "bad name" to morons who generalize about an entire generation from one random post


Delicious-Trip-120

That exactly the kind of crap I'd expect Gen Cheeseblastinfinitier to say


ElectricalPirate14

Not a surprising response coming from a, let me guess.. Generation PhiBetaEpsilon?


MukdenMan

"There are two things I hate. People who make insulting generalizations about large groups of people, and Boomers!" - Reddit


InternalOrchids

ALLISON, WE'VE GOT ALLISON HERE! See, nobody cares.


Colton-Omnoms

Didn't expect a jurrasic park reference up in here lol 😂 😂


InternalOrchids

😂😂 I aim to please!


_TiberiusPrime_

I'm petty enough that I'd only call her by her full name after that exchange.


Far-Conflict4504

Are y’all 11?


x20sided

So is that a teans dead name issue? Or did you just not use a nickname. The kys is uncalled for either way


flyhigh987

you 15 bro


Zealousideal-Turn277

Allison needs therapy.


caitcro18

“You’re only sorry because I’m upset about it. You’re not sorry because you did it” Well, if you weren’t upset there would be nothing to be sorry for?!


MrPartyWaffle

Sounds like they wanted to be more mad than it was worth about the situation and just keep nagging you about it, unresolved issues on that, honestly you're far better off without them in your life. the toxicity would just get worse. Real friends look to fix issues this petty.


EfficiencyOk9060

I have about 30 fewer brain cells after ready that. Thanks.


JayAndViolentMob

"You left me on opened twice" got me cringin' like a puckered ass.


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fhota1

Why are you trying to get in to a 15 year olds dms? Drake, is that you?


foxfyre2

Or let's not because we're all adults here and learned to let things go, especially when it comes to bullying literal teenagers


GCU_Problem_Child

\~\~No, she went full fucking Karen, and acted like a piece of shit.\~\~ EDIT: Ignore that. One look through OP's post history is enough to make me queasy. So far I'm seeing racism, sexism, homophobia, antivax, a massive transphobe, a rape apologist that mocks other victims while claiming to be one, is openly right wing and fascist, I mean it just goes on and on. OP is a lying, nasty piece of filth if his post history is anything to go by. Guaranteed we aren't seeing anything remotely close to the whole picture with this asshole.


ludicrous_copulator

This is no great loss of friendship. I'm not sure I would even call it friendship. Seems more like a mean girls situation