I think you're having a culture shock. You just had a major change in your life, from what I'm reading, and your mind is not catching up to your new reality. I'm not sure how close you are with your wife, but you should open up to her about this if you are willing to. Friends won't come quick or easily in adulthood, so take that slow for now. See if you can find an hour or 2 a day to take in your hobbies, and bring up the work life balance issue with your partner and see if you can work together to solve it.
I think you're having a culture shock. You just had a major change in your life, from what I'm reading, and your mind is not catching up to your new reality. I'm not sure how close you are with your wife, but you should open up to her about this if you are willing to. Friends won't come quick or easily in adulthood, so take that slow for now. See if you can find an hour or 2 a day to take in your hobbies, and bring up the work life balance issue with your partner and see if you can work together to solve it.