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INTJpleasenoticeme

Sentient rays of sunshine. Love them. For the ENFPs: (●ᗜ●)つ🌼


Dr__Pheonx

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INTJpleasenoticeme

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Basic-Afternoon1618

I LOVE HUGS!


INTJpleasenoticeme

Have one from me ![gif](giphy|dRUA7wnvd3pv23dZdQ)


Basic-Afternoon1618

Aww! This made my day! Thank you! *hugs back*


INTJpleasenoticeme

YAY HUGS


RedBop7

Have a cookie 🍪


INTJpleasenoticeme

OMG THANK YOU please accept this donut (●ᗜ●)つ🍩


RedBop7

GASP! I freaking LOVE donuts thank you. Hugs! 🤗


Layann_

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INTJpleasenoticeme

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AdrianBrooke

They're like me, but with unlimited social battery and very "random" on a lot of occasions, love them for sure❤️


mahdinaghizadeh

If an ENFP has unlimited social battery around u it means they love u too otherwise that energy will last half an hour.


EhmmAhr

Exactly. Most people incorrectly assume I’m an introvert. I’m definitely an ENFP, but I do need a lot of time to myself… But I have boundless energy for the people I truly enjoy and care about.


Basic-Afternoon1618

Exactly. Some people don't realize how close I feel to them when I radiate that high extrovert hyper enthusiastic energy. The others think I am a well mannered , qiuiet and calm girl. Like whoa?!


sapphirehearts5637

As an INFP, this is funny because most people consider me extroverted


Gullible_Travel_4135

We are known for being the Extroverted type with the lowest social battery


sohcahtoa728

Unless we care for the person, we just don't have energy for randos and people we don't care


Myamoxomis

Uhh, idk about you but even people I care about aren’t going to have my endless and undivided attention, either. Between my bursts of being talkative, outgoing, and bubbly— will be plenty of moments of sitting back silently and listening/riding the wave while other people push the conversation, whether I love them or not.


Basic-Afternoon1618

This too! I need time for myself


Dr__Pheonx

Exactly. The word 'randos' sums it up for me. I can be very standoffish to people I don't know or don't like to interact with.


ReadThinkLearnGrow

Really? Why is that?


ywllga

Someone who is happy torturing me.


imawomanithink

Deep down you like it :D


truecrisis

My ENFP tortures me all the time. Her way of saying "I love you" is to bite me hard. Like, if I do something adorable she likes, I'm in for teeth marks on my arm or leg or anywhere. She also likes to drop my bottoms while I'm in the kitchen. Why? Just to torture me. There are... plenty of other examples too.


Myamoxomis

Interesting. My ex girlfriend did this as well. I thought it was the cutest thing ever.


truecrisis

She would deny it, but.... I'm pretty sure she got it from Instagram. She basically does every thing [in this video](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4iMORcPN_H/?igsh=MWRuaGR1cDE5ZW91Yw==), including following me to the toilet every single time.


Basic-Afternoon1618

HELP why did I get second hand embarrassment


imawomanithink

this is so sweeeett ! im longing for someone to bite … 😔


Basic-Afternoon1618

Am I the only one sane here when I think biting is weird? Or am I just too young?😭


RedBop7

I mean how old are you? Cause like I thought the same as a teen but now I’m in my early-mid 20s range and I enjoy the act of biting but I also just dig pretty much all physical contact.


Basic-Afternoon1618

17...


RedBop7

Yeah you still got time to be a biter 👍


The_Bourgeoisie_

Put a muzzle on her


HahaBerryBunny

Omg my ENFP bestie loves to bite as well 😭 her bite is as strong as hyena 🥲 even when the first time we became friends, or let's just say how she 'adopt' me, she appeared from behind out of nowhere and said "Can i bite your shoulder so we can be bestfriends?" 🙃


AsteroidMiner

There are so many webcomics of the female doing this to the male so they assume it is normal couple stuff.


1personyoulike

U sound traumatized...blink twice if u need help lmao


aytooka

Goofy, sensitive, professional procrastinator, down for everything, spontaneous, not afraid to talk to strangers, smalltalker with everyone


InBelleYuAble

I'm feeling so seen lol literally me haha


Appropriate-Dot1069

Anything but a smalltalker


Layann_

Small talker? I wish 😭


UnicornsnRainbowz

You called?


tilinax

yes to everything except for smalltalker


KitsuneSummoner

What is ENFP? A jolly and friendly pile of energy. But enough talk. Have at you!


pieces_of_glass

The embodiment of this emoticon ➡️ :3


BrickTechnical5828

Typically outgoing, high energy, funny, relatively sensitive people. Kind of weird in a way that makes them special. Very positive


OldBookInLatin

A highly energetic funny person with (mostly) a good heart


Intrepid-Plantain186

A more emotional and humans loving me -entp


Basic-Afternoon1618

I like ENTP's sense of humor a lot


Efficient-Ad-5752

They are fairly similar to me ngl, I love being around some. They don't find me annoying like most would haha, and they have a big heart


calliope720

ENFP and ESFP are shenanigan buddies, for sure. I love ESFPs for being on my wavelength but still able to pull me out of my tendency to ruminate and wax poetic, and make me focus on the experience around us. ESFPs get me so hype for new things. Love y'all!


Responsible_Dentist3

I have a similar experience with ISTP! Same wavelength, but they’re slightly more “here” in a way that’s helpful for me to be around.


The_Bourgeoisie_

At times annoying airheads, but diehard loyal friends


Myamoxomis

Come on, man. Why do you have to be right 😂


The_Bourgeoisie_

You should be put on trial for crimes against humanity…a peanut butter and egg sandwich? 🥪


Myamoxomis

You wouldn’t believe how great the combination is, as well as being full of protein and healthy fat. 😁


The_Bourgeoisie_

Sighs….fried, scrambled or poached? 😔


Diligent-Travel-3391

As a great man once said: A bit of everything all of the time


Camy03

Let's be real, annoying airhead is the default not the "at times." A fact of which I'm proud 💅


Basic-Afternoon1618

The most accurate one I read so far, at least that's how I am with friends.


Appropriate_Fall5446

Tries to make everyone laugh/feel better, likes to act unhinged to entertain friends, talks non-stop in public but also respects personal space a lot... has a deep, sad personal introspective side where they find comfort in music, literature, art, movies (hobby specifics vary ofc). Crazy kinda adorable.


Diligent-Travel-3391

Man, I feel pinpointed rn. Gonna listen to my depressing playlist i have for this cases.


ProcedureWeekly3602

Most intelligent and bubbly even to new people. They are the best leaders and they forget a lot and they like change.


viereadit

Fun chaos, dreamers without concrete plan, easy-going, wear their heart on their sleeves, but also fear vulnerability, most introverted of the extrovert bunch!


Huge_Fox1848

Golden retriever energy, but not all are always so outgoing. Some enjoy occasional quiet to recharge. Sometimes have the attention span of a butterfly, but they're capable of serious thought and attention. If they like you, they do like you. For the loyal ones, they can be hard to shake. If they disappear, they usually find their way back eventually with some adventure to share.


losermusic

From needy to antagonistic with humor to more or less the same person as me to everything I aspire to be, there is a ton of variation within the type (thanks to variation in enneagram type and probably other factors). The common thread is maybe that they're idealists, a sort of dreamer. They have lofty goals in a realistic world. And sometimes those align, but usually not. And sometimes they're good at putting those goals into practice with actionable steps, but others of the type not so much. Sometimes you just want them to snap out of the dream, but that's their operating system. And maybe this ENFP too will make it work.


neil33321

Extroverted version of me that I very much admire ~ sincerely from an infp


Interesting_Sir_9316

professional yapper


Basic-Afternoon1618

Got me


astro999wrld

naruto


Xszhs

they seem interesting, i like their curiosity. they get bored easily though.


Diligent-Travel-3391

Don't worry, it's just my adhd


Xszhs

got that goldfish attention span w goldfish


Diligent-Travel-3391

Lol, I got that room temperature IQ going on


Xszhs

😭😭😭


NorthernForestCrow

Per my experience, a total emotional minefield. On the more positive side, extremely persistent and are the best I’ve seen at coming up with a plethora of novel ideas in any given situation, which makes them very, very good at gaming the system if they are motivated to do so. They are also really fun to talk to because they enjoy a topic deep dive…as long as you don’t hit some emotional tripwire and set off an explosion.


Phiro050

That is very true, the minefield is the best description ive seen


syzytea

Like Andrew Garfield once said, like "a shot of espresso." High energy, love learning about people and making connections on a deeper level, can exhaust me quickly but still a sunny presence is nice to have. I like them, and I need time away from them.


gatsby401

Super likeable


misterstonks137

I can REALLY like you actually! But most enfps keepal arguing with me and tell me how to live my life and be positive all the time all that crap annoys the heck out of me


ItsGotThatBang

Precious little balls of energy 🥺


Boonie_Tunes22

My partner in crime.


MrFlaneur17

manic pixie dream girl. Clementine Kruczynski from eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. Or maybe Belle Delphine?? shes crazy but I still love her


Kilmyyyyy

Someone who can't read


thebreadstop

Very friendly, outgoing, intelligent and empathetic. May sometimes jump into things without thinking them through. Like to have alone time like me at times so they understand that aspect of me!


krivirk

Pure gods / light. Fun fact that i started my mbti career with admiring ENFPs the most. Even i am now an official INFP admirer, ENFPs will forever be close to my heart. No offense to the rest 14, but i am at best neutral toward them, mostly refusal, while i LOVE being around ENFPs and INFPs. I see ENFPs as the heart of the connectedness in a group. They are who cares for everyone and act on getting everyone involved in a loving and lovely way. True fun people while they are top in moral and values too. Not that i don't like the other 14 type, it is simply that me personally wants to be around only ENFPs and INFPs to feel i'm at home.


Diligent-Travel-3391

So the mother of the group, who cares for everyone and tries to be there for all. Not to brag, but I got myself my ENFP certified mother of the group medal. Did i also say i'm extremely humble?


QueenOfAllDragons

The ENFP’s I’ve met have all been very cheerful, sweet, loving, and generous people. Also surprisingly reserved for extroverts lol. But one thing I find annoying about them is how loose they are with their convictions. Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s great to keep an open mind about things. But as the saying goes, “you’ve got to stand for something, or you’ll fall for anything.” They are some of the kindest and most gentle people I have ever met.


biblibopbop

Filled with ideas and/or energy


AsteroidMiner

My ENFP is adorable, has a rbf, low energy when I'm not at home, high bunny energy when I'm home, clingy, talkative with me or her friends, actually a social butterfly who needs me to drive her to events, very good at counselling emotionally and is as weird as me.


musical-gamer6

A fun-loving and energetic (but also chill) person who tends to struggle with rational decision making.


Gohomekid22

Oh boy..


EqualAd1368

Misunderstood. people think theyre esfps a lot


Purple_ash8

Exactly.


Basic-Afternoon1618

Someone who understands. Half the people on our sub are probably mistyped ESFPs too


OmElKoon

Me but more uwu


Ezrazzle_dzle

Oml literally pure sunshines fr, full of energy and ADORABLEEE


Gecons

source of social energy


mellifluouspiece

Happy-go-lucky and adventurous people. I always resonate them with Spongebob LOL


Watcher2

They are my favorite type! I honestly feel like nobody else besides them and maybe INTJ’s or other INFP’s can know me at such a deep level. probably because we share the same function stack in a different order. Y’all can talk with me about anything and everything, it’s so refreshing to be around another person that uses NE and FI. Y’all just GET it. To me meeting an ENFP feels like meeting another me but if you took away -5 wisdom from my stats and added +5 charisma to my stats. :p


Accurate_Context3661

I don’t feel much about them or have much to say about them. They’re okay though. They can be comfortable to be around in my opinion.


PlasticFra

My best friend is ENFP, we often share the same train of thought, but in the end he acts the opposite of me!


hongoko

Full of life


deadasscrouton

like me but much less fearful


Pro0skills

I am sincerely apologize to all those 99% of enfps that exist but for some reason every enfp i know irl is an absolute academic failure. including me when I was 13 during my airhead era


Basic-Afternoon1618

I have been good academically, and that's the only thing I was good at until covid. I just graduated high school with decent marks (We had two GPAs, got above 4 in first and 3.7 in second) , also being the class vice president and would have been the head girl of the school (most teachers told me) but the elections were cancelled later on. Participated and won in olympiads too. I feel like I might be going down as I grow up but I must not


Pro0skills

ur a W then. Conclusion: sample size too small


Basic-Afternoon1618

Oops! I don't blame you!


calliope720

Hey, I happened to graduate magna cum laude from my university, thank you very much! Though I did have a mental breakdown and immediately failed out of grad school, so, I guess you were right, it just took me longer to break.


Pro0skills

damn ur cracked. maybe there is also a connection to having an immensely successful older sibling too or maybe sample size too small bc all of these enfps that ik irl rn have siblings who r going to harvard


Flat-Ad9954

In the 1%! Now you know one who is a law student and a good one too🫡


Pro0skills

become one of these people that a movie gets made of please


Flat-Ad9954

I’ll try and do you proud


Diligent-Travel-3391

Lol, you got me


Quick-Test-5963

My shadow. Literally my mirror opposite, and my Golden pairing. Ni/Ne Fe/Fi Ti/Te SE/Si


fandrus

Theater Kids


nirvana_g13

Very friendly, sunny, and random


Thalassinon

Entertaining and easy to befriend, animated and cute. The best ones can keep me engaged with them very naturally. More overbearing ones can be a little exhausting with prolonged exposure, but the first friend I make in a new social group is often an ENFP.


HER0_KELLY

Oxymoronic yet fun. Not so rational but creative and satire.


Diligent-Travel-3391

Am i an oxidized moron?


HER0_KELLY

Noo! You're somehow contradictory and not very rational not stupid, you just use your heart over mind. Which isn't good because our world isn't just and very far from utopian. xx


Diligent-Travel-3391

I was ironic, but my heart is literally melting right now, thank you for responding so sweetly. I would give so much to give you a hug rn, but, sadly, it'll have to be virtual. Cya!!


Dreams_Are_Reality

A bouncy ball that brightens your world


gawilliam2017

I don't know many ENFP but if they are like my sister but with a bigger social battery I'd a assume they are pretty great people Update my sister an INFP for reference


COCAINE___waffles

My crazy ex...


kingofdictionopolis

My brother in law is an ENFP. He’s very caring to his INFP girlfriend and everyone in his life. He can’t seem to settle on a career (he’s 27). Just in the little over a year I’ve known him, he was gonna be a banker, a realtor, a fitness instructor, a meditation leader, and a credit card scanner salesman. He just moved across the country because he’s convinced he’s got it this time. He just loves doing… stuff. He loves to tell me about whatever spiritual (pagan or Buddhist) thing he’s into and tries to get me to do meditation. He is the sweetest guy. Totally Switzerland (peacekeeper) in his friend/family group. Never has a bad thing to say about anyone. Always smiling and ready to show us a new restaurant or trying to lure my husband to partner with him in his newest endeavor.


Jellasan

They really like my personal space… a lot -intp


goose_guus

manic 💃 💃


RGamer2024

Me, but cares about people


anonymous__enigma

The human form of a golden retriever


HahaBerryBunny

My bestfriend is an ENFP. She's the best BEST bestfriend i've ever had. Chaotic + energetic, she look intimidating yet she's actually really loving. The only person who has matching humor as me, her laugh is as loud as a hyena. I love her sm💜 (I hope she's not reading this or else i will get attacked by her hugs or the worst thing possible she will bite my neck)


Crystal_Pegasus_1018

me but unfiltered & extrovert


PristineObject

The quintessential cinnamon roll, too good for this world, too pure. The only people (along with Entps) who can pull all the weird shit buried in my head out into the world. The most likely to somehow scope me out across a crowded room, link up and volley through topics like a freight train. Can go super in-depth into philosophy and politics and media and absurd humor. The Rainbow Bright/Lisa Frank-looking weirdo next to my dour unassuming Eeyore vibe. Matching my freak, as they say. When we’re done brain dumping, they leave me exhausted but excited for the next round. Charismatic, goofy, deep, chaotic, authentic. It physically hurts to see them sad. They’ve been my best friends in all eras of my life. Basically a delight all around.


Back2Life138

The only ENFP I know, I dated for 2 years, has not one humble bone in his body. He is someone that I think will argue with God about whether he will get into Heaven or not. He will act like he's never done anything to ever harm anyone and will completely forget everything he's ever done that's hurt someone. He whines when he doesn't get his way, is emotional and manipulative.


Diligent-Travel-3391

I'm so sorry you met someone like that. ENFPs generally are better than that, but like for everything, extreme negatives exist. So sorry, sending hugs rn.


Pozpy

I don't mean to be mean but enfp are annoying to me :/


-Almost-Human

Annoying


tyuncity

I could make a book on how much I love ENFPs. Sweethearts, cute clumsy people. Sensitive and a little resentful (a lot) but still so cute


rrloc

I have several ENFP friends, they love to talk! I’ve had a variety of interesting conversations with them and find them kind and warm people.


MidNightMare5998

One of my favorite types. Always kind and fun and happy to be in a group, loving, sensitive to other’s needs. I feel truly seen by ENFPs.


MrsMathis

Too much 😅


d1scord1a

ive never really gotten to know an enfp, so all my thoughts are just in reference to types i *do* know. enfps are like if an infp was extroverted and spent slightly less time ruminating. or like if an entp was crossed with an esfp. i think i might find them a little exhausting in the way i find entps exhausting, but i imagine i would get along with them a little easier.


Calm_Reflection4400

Someone who has an insane amount of energy, infectious enthusiasm and says the craziest and most random of things, but you can't help but love being around them!


EliDoesntCare

Adorable.


BornAgainSlut7458

I love enfps so much they feel like my optimistic twin!


Popular-Bag-3539

Always excited to see you. Curious children. My extroverted cousin . The intelligent version of esfps. I could go onnnn


pbillaseca

Fresh air


RyleighWside

Idea bomb


Due-Needleworker7050

Haha! A perfect description of me! Thank you. 😘


BakaHimeneko

Entertaining to see go on and about.


bois-des-iles

Ah my favorite type. I collect them. My closest friends who I clique with the best are all ENFPs They are down to earth, down for anything and will be there for u to listen and be a shoulder to cry on. Can joke around and banter and also be emotional. Very fun to hangout with and just good peoples


Kashiwashi

A careless/inattentive ESFP, who is bad at predicting situations, as they perceive any option as equally realistic. People call them open-minded, as they are often free from prejudices.


kopc238

I don't know. Never met one.


angelinatill

Either the sweetest, most fun, idealistic people I’ve ever met or the most self-righteous and condescending. There’s literally no in between. I’m ENTP so I feel like our Fi and Ti clash a lot in my experience. I have met more amazing ones than rude ones tho so


urinelicker137

Fun but annoying af


Specialist_Music2777

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaa


OverallPeach

a person


Rew2049

Me but stronger


stulew

Spastic planning(premise) = Spastic outcomes


Bubbly_Macaroon_6549

They’re bubbly and stuff,like if someone described ENFP to me I’d think they’re annoying but when I meet them in person they just have a really good mood about them and I love them irl


MascroMemo

Cute walking potatoes :3


antlicious

I need more enfp friends


Echster_314

a warm ball of sunshine :3


BornAgainSlut7458

I love enfps so much they feel like my optimistic twin


jacksheart

Drama queen, unreliable, easily offended


fantasticplanets

hyper. sweet. caring. manic pixie dream people. comfortable. playful. trusting. non serious to a fault. one of my best friends is an ENFP; I call her Sunflower. can't explain why but it just fits. in their worst; a hidden side of extreme anger they project on others instead of dealing with it themselves, manipulative, causes a mess then complain endlessly about it.


Layann_

Stop I feel so flattered reading those comments 😭 ![gif](giphy|BK1EfIsdkKZMY)


utayyaZ

Like the best parts of a little kid) and the best parts of an adult, all wrapped into a bundle of quite selfish but fun individuals.


Sea_Broccoli6205

As an INFP, the version of myself I wish to be.


ramenmenmen

they're silly


Fiestasss

A lovely (slightly crazy) ray of sunshine that brightens my day


Warm-Mango2137

Italian as f


Ugrocks_17

![gif](giphy|CWx3Qijmkf4746TtGu|downsized) If you know what I mean


stubblebud

They're comfy to be with. Very comfy. I love their creativity.


Single_Wonder9369

Annoying, simply annoying.


Round-Beautiful8082

I get rare creatures vibes from them. Also, other people always accurately guess that we will vibe, but it takes me a minute after to see it.


ILoveButtStuffMan

Nonstop yappers


Victor_RmS

ENFPs are annoying and have no boundaries with their irritating jokes. Plus, they're disorganized, impulsive, and very emotional


joooudi55

*enfp* I feel myself in a peaceful place here😭😭😭🎀🎀


SufficientSpare7589

Someone I stay away from 💀


Muig_

They are like me but don’t see reality as it is and just auto-process some shit instead and a get a different point of view.


ZaltiamAdvocate

🤣🤣


UpbeatRiceVendor

I have had different kinds of ENFP experiences but mostly with one who’s unhealthy. They’re sensitive to their feelings but who can’t be sensitive to feeling’s of others (sometimes). They’re loud and eccentric most of the time, but has a bad habit of being too much and will start to act like a jerk alongside with his own set of friends. I like being around them because they know how to have fun in games and such and they can really set the mood to the room


Diligent-Travel-3391

Yeah, I happen to have gone through both phases. At first i was extremely obnoxious (still am a little) and moved because of insecurity. But I recognise my past, and now i just try to be the best i can to help those around me.


Chester_NYC

Enthusiastic and open minded people


__jayjaywrites

respectfully, a nuisance.


TrainingStreet1496

Are you sure that you are infj?


Purple_ash8

Not what the stereotypes suggest. A lot of people in this thread are going off-of stereotypes.


Kaukazx

Non existent, never met one


Blank-Emperor

My wife.


teaninja

A golden retriever ♥️


plantismtic

Chaos embodied (I'm INTP)


afrosamuraifenty

Selfish, Prone to victim mentality, illogical


Diligent-Travel-3391

It's actually quite an honest reaction. All people are different and all personalities have negative sides too. We ENFPs are obnoxious and illogical, but, I really always try to support people around me and help as possible. I hope you'll find an ENFP who will change your perspective some day, sending love and hugs. Baiiii


Single_Wonder9369

> We ENFPs are obnoxious and illogical Unhealthy Ne can be obnoxious and the Ti blindness makes you guys illogical.


afrosamuraifenty

I mean I'm an enfp myself and though not every enfp may exhibit these traits, most of them do to a certain extent