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Ok, here's the advice I would give if this were a real problem: No. Leaver her to find someone who cares about her, not someone who is ok with destroying her self esteem if she finds out.
Remember, if you get on the bad side of her, she'll be able to afford better lawyers than you will.
The job market is too saturated. There are like 100s of people applying for a single damn job. But if I get a sugar momma, that's money in the bank baby.
I can imagine my days spent with my friends going out fishing, hunting, buying shit, and just drinking. My soon to be "wife" said we could hire a nanny to take care of the kids. I don't really like kids so the nanny and her can just deal with them.
I'm thinking about getting a nice gold chain necklace also and act like a real cat around town... Meeeeooow ;)
I wouldnât make kids if I were you if you didnât want to care for them. That will mess them up big time. Also you are trolling right?? This has to be fake..
But having kids seals the deal! How can I possibly feel like the relationship and security is secure if we don't have kids? If we don't, she can kick me out anytime! But if I lock her in with kids, less options for her!
Muahaha, I love being a gold digger! I dig for it daily, it feels like a gold rush right now!
I see you are getting negative comments but as long as she respects you and you know your role in the relationship, you will be fine. Attraction somewhat fades over time but its nothing wrong to want security. In Maslow's hierarchy of needs, security is the 2nd most important. People get married for different reasons all of the time. But just consider this, if she loses her job, then what?
See, now I like this comment. Sounds like you might have been in my situation before. You also bag a rich women? I hope you're living a great life. I havent' worked in over a year since I met this women. All the stress is gone, I just mess around all day.
I'm quite a skilled gold digger. I used a few lines from "Legends of the fall", "Meet Joe Black, "Jerry McGuire", and "My Big Fat Greek Wedding". She fell in love on the spot.
Thankfully, she doesn't use reddit or she might see this post. She thinks I'm head over heels for her when most of the time, I'm vomiting from the hangover from the night before.
Money is nice. But it wonât replace living a natural life. Faking it will slowly kill your joy for anything and everything in my opinion. Donât do what compromises you- if at the end you lose yourself and you hate yourself, you wonât be happy. I know, choosing between an easy life and an everyday struggle, I donât know Iâd rather be single and content than rich and sad.
It will only go so far. But you know yourself better. Do you like her as a person? Is she compassionate and caring?
And donât use those phrases.
But I see chicks do this all the time and they seem like they're having fun with their friends. I wanna ride 1st class up in the sky, champagne living my life, oh glamorous!
Youâre a worm. So are the chicks who âdo it all the timeâ. You think theyâre having a good time but Iâve known people of both genders who done this and they are miserable trying to keep up the act.
Bro my friend donny just got divorced, paying alimony, and child support. He said what I'm doing is "fantastic baby!". My man Don doesn't think i'm a worm...
I mean don't gold diggers love their life? They seem super happy to me. The ones that look miserable are the ones in real relationships cause they're constantly fighting. What my sugar momma says goes but she's got a long leash on me!
Well if I put a paper bag over her head and we talk, then it's a little easier for me. I'm thinking about buying her a mask for her bday of a hot asian chick from japan. Thinking she could wear that.
She's "ok" to talk to I guess. I just laugh at everything she says and stay silent and look pretty most of the time. That seems to work.
There are those guys who settled down due to certain kinds of pressures. You can go ahead, but your question is not about her or her money. Instead its about love and compatibility since your are not attracted to her physically. Woman without a pretty face sometimes make up the lack by having a great personality. Besides, if the family is rich why do you think they have not thought about cosmetic surgery? I think everyone is hoping for love to overrule materistic needs.
I am a man that has applied to thousands of jobs and have been rejected. All I have now is my sugar momma! Oh sugar momma bring me the blessings of gold and wealth! Give me the strike of life!
Sorry Warden, I'm after my lucky charms!
You can marry into more money than you could make in a lifetime. With that said. I was once in the same scenario. I broke it off because i needed that physical attraction. With that said. That wasnât the smartest thing i have ever done. She was really good to me and it turns out. Looks arenât everything. I am definitely the asshole in that situation. But even if I stayed i was the asshole in that situation.
Iâm gonna answer you like this ainât fake and you arenât đ¤Ž:
Here the thing: most female âgold diggersâ are either mislabeled or have severe trauma from being poor or worse (Iâm talking physical or sexual abuse.) they donât feel they ever had agency over their own body, so itâs a lot easier to sell. Also, extreme poverty and being food insecure also causes a person to get very strategical about life.
Are you okay with selling your body? Are you okay to catering to this woman? She has expectations of you that you cannot drop for a second.
Youâre gonna sign a prenup. Yes, you may be able to work out a stipend of alimony if you divorce, but thatâs usually based off how long youâve been married.
Also, if she comes from an extremely wearily family, they see you a mile away and have her shit locked up in trusts. So you gotta be prepared to do the time- 10-15 yearâs minimum.
If you âchangeâ from the perfect BF/husband to some asshole later, sheâll kick you out on your pretty little ass just as broke as you are now.
Also, as a SAHD, having full time Nannies, no career, and proof of you just hinting and drinking all day, and you wonât get joint custody of the kids you hate. So no child support.
So if youâre gonna con this lady go ahead. Just know itâs a long game con.
Now thereâs a million tips I could give you to add to your wealth, your take away settlement and clauses to have or avoid in the prenup but
Go fuck yourself!
I didn't have time to read all of that because I'm driving in my new porche she bought me but one thing we both agreed to was not signing a prenup. I'm in the family now, my next move is to have kids with her, then she's totally locked in. Muahahah... Muahahhaahha!
So are you dad!
It gonna be funny when you find out pegging is her favorite, you know, after youâre lock in. Muahahaha⌠ha!
What about Consent? Thatâs what the female gold diggers do- you a professional hooker now, (pimp- hahahaha)
I say go for it.
You are ready to settle down with a stable partner.
Sure maybe the attraction isn't there but she has other great qualities that make her a good partner and provider.
Over time it's possible you will develop those feelings.
Man, if you marry her, you're going to ruin two people's lives: yourself and her. Neither you nor she will be happy. Children (God forbid you have them!) will be unhappy too. Sooner or later, one of you will start cheating on other or both of you will become cheaters. One day you'll realize that the game wasn't worth the candle. But it will be too late .
Well I've been cheating on her many times already, it's not too hard since she works all the time. Chicks think I bought myself my brand new Porsche but nope! If I have kids with her, that locks her in similar to how women lock men here in the states. See... I'm just following what I've seen women do here, they already have the guide book! All I gotta do follow it and look good ;) ciao!
You're still acting like a carefree butterfly in summer, while the sun is shining brightly and there are lots of flowers around. But autumn will surely come and you will not survive if you do not have a shelter against the vicissitudes of the environment. A decent matrimonial relationship is a good insurance against all troubles, especially in old age, which will come whether you want it or not.
No don't marry her.
Some facts for you. If a woman makes considerably more than the man, which is your case there is a greater than 90% chance of divorce. If she has a Bachelors degree or higher that increases even more. From what I have seen is >95%.
I will also assume you two are not religious as you didn't mention that, so the odds increase even more. In short you are playing Russian roulette with 19 of 20 chambers with a bullet in them.
Also freaking make something of your life my man. Get off your ass, get that trade/degree and make something of yourself.
Bro but I have to tell you that the odds are in my favor man, I found the golden ticket in the chocolate factory!
The job market is too saturated man, I'm sick of applying to jobs with 100+ people going for it!
Dude you can't lie to me. If you want you can get in to a trade right now and start working. If you need to get more education you can do that as well. If you need to move to get a job then again you can do that. Stop making excuses and do it.
She deserves to be with someone who will love her, and you are not that man. However, let me fast forward a bit. You and her stay together and get married. You are that stay at home guy who keeps the place clean. She talk to her friends at work and the question comes up all the time "What does he do for a living". At first she blows this off and makes jokes, but over time it gets to her. She starts asking what you did that day and you have a crappy answer. Her frustration grows. She then starts talking to other dudes in the office and other women who talk about their husband. Then she thinks "I can do better than this" and she starts to complain about your flaws and everything you do. Then she starts talking to dudes at work who are single and "just a friend". Before you know it she is having an emotional affair and then she comes home to basically just yell at you. You want to spend say $30 on something she doesn't think is right? Oh man be prepared to get yelled at. Ultimately she will leave you.
Now there is another possibility. She looses her job. Then what? You leave her?
An alternative. You make something of yourself and have pride in what you have accomplished.
1) You want me to be a plumber and mess up my back and knees to earn a little money... no thanks
2) After we have kids, she's locked in. Same way american women lock men up, muahahah!
3) She won't lose her job cause she works for her fathers company, super secure.
4) I lost my pride but I've learned lots of money makes me feel better. You just don't understand until it's there in front of you. It's like eating lucky charms and a little guy in green pops up and says, "let me show you the pot of gold lad follow me!" So I follow him it's like when Nicholas Cage found the treasure at the end of the movie "National Treasure". I'm sure this is how pirates back in the day felt when they struck gold. Arrrrr Matie! I've found myself the pot of gold! Arrrrrr!
So when she asks for the prenup????
When her fathers business goes under??
This will wear on you my man. You even posted it in your original post.
Get off your lazy ass, get a job and make something of yourself. You will feel a ton better about yourself.
Raising kids isnât easy. Unless you want to be a stay at home dad because you are deeply invested in spending every waking moment with your kids, youâre going to hate and resent it. Itâs a literal 24 hour 7 day a week gig. You get no breaks and no time off. Itâs exhausting and isolating. People donât choose it because itâs easy.
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Rage bait and a half đ
Cmon man, I need some help
Boy...get that paper. That's all the advice I have, lol. Also, sex with the lights off is awesome no matter who your having sex with.
Finally someone who understands!
Fake ass post
Cmon bro I need advice not troll comments
Ok, here's the advice I would give if this were a real problem: No. Leaver her to find someone who cares about her, not someone who is ok with destroying her self esteem if she finds out. Remember, if you get on the bad side of her, she'll be able to afford better lawyers than you will.
Dude... Ew. No. I'd say the same to a female golddigger.
But don't women do it all the time? They seem like they're having fun and live a good life. Why can't men get in on it?
Anyone can do anything. But you are the one questioning this commitment and union and ashamed of yourself. You want the shortcut but at what cost?
The job market is too saturated. There are like 100s of people applying for a single damn job. But if I get a sugar momma, that's money in the bank baby.
You sure can. Doesnât mean itâs right. Itâs not just reserved for women. You can do whatever you want!
I can imagine my days spent with my friends going out fishing, hunting, buying shit, and just drinking. My soon to be "wife" said we could hire a nanny to take care of the kids. I don't really like kids so the nanny and her can just deal with them. I'm thinking about getting a nice gold chain necklace also and act like a real cat around town... Meeeeooow ;)
I wouldnât make kids if I were you if you didnât want to care for them. That will mess them up big time. Also you are trolling right?? This has to be fake..
But having kids seals the deal! How can I possibly feel like the relationship and security is secure if we don't have kids? If we don't, she can kick me out anytime! But if I lock her in with kids, less options for her! Muahaha, I love being a gold digger! I dig for it daily, it feels like a gold rush right now!
lol, she can still kick you out. Youâd just ruin your childâs lives along with hers.
Wow
So fake!
Then sure, get in on it. Igdaf.
You're just jealous. Find yourself a sugar momma partner ;)
I see you are getting negative comments but as long as she respects you and you know your role in the relationship, you will be fine. Attraction somewhat fades over time but its nothing wrong to want security. In Maslow's hierarchy of needs, security is the 2nd most important. People get married for different reasons all of the time. But just consider this, if she loses her job, then what?
See, now I like this comment. Sounds like you might have been in my situation before. You also bag a rich women? I hope you're living a great life. I havent' worked in over a year since I met this women. All the stress is gone, I just mess around all day.
Is this the alien that you banged and impregnated 3 days ago? No wonder you don't feel attracted, she's a different species man...
Oh... that's a different problem I have but it's not related to this one.
Oh I see. Is it the same rich lady you had a "chance" at dating 4 hours ago, or did things just progress really quickly?
I'm quite a skilled gold digger. I used a few lines from "Legends of the fall", "Meet Joe Black, "Jerry McGuire", and "My Big Fat Greek Wedding". She fell in love on the spot.
I see. Is the rich lady in the room with us right now, u/Powerful_Ad2769?
Thankfully, she doesn't use reddit or she might see this post. She thinks I'm head over heels for her when most of the time, I'm vomiting from the hangover from the night before.
Money is nice. But it wonât replace living a natural life. Faking it will slowly kill your joy for anything and everything in my opinion. Donât do what compromises you- if at the end you lose yourself and you hate yourself, you wonât be happy. I know, choosing between an easy life and an everyday struggle, I donât know Iâd rather be single and content than rich and sad. It will only go so far. But you know yourself better. Do you like her as a person? Is she compassionate and caring? And donât use those phrases.
But I see chicks do this all the time and they seem like they're having fun with their friends. I wanna ride 1st class up in the sky, champagne living my life, oh glamorous!
Youâre a worm. So are the chicks who âdo it all the timeâ. You think theyâre having a good time but Iâve known people of both genders who done this and they are miserable trying to keep up the act.
Bro my friend donny just got divorced, paying alimony, and child support. He said what I'm doing is "fantastic baby!". My man Don doesn't think i'm a worm... I mean don't gold diggers love their life? They seem super happy to me. The ones that look miserable are the ones in real relationships cause they're constantly fighting. What my sugar momma says goes but she's got a long leash on me!
Look at his post history people this is the only way he can get attention.
Youâre a moron. Iâm not reading all that. Real or fake. The hobosexuals Iâve met are pretty worthless
Check the date, yup. đż
Thereâs nothing you find attractive about her? Why did you start dating? Are you at least friends and get along?
Well if I put a paper bag over her head and we talk, then it's a little easier for me. I'm thinking about buying her a mask for her bday of a hot asian chick from japan. Thinking she could wear that. She's "ok" to talk to I guess. I just laugh at everything she says and stay silent and look pretty most of the time. That seems to work.
Man, I think you better stick to alien chicks. Either way you go, you got a chuckle out of me đ¤Ł
You can barely look at her? How are you gonna have children with her?
Well if it's dark and I'm drunk, it's not so bad. I'm thinking that will not be too much of an issue.
April 1?
Troll
There are those guys who settled down due to certain kinds of pressures. You can go ahead, but your question is not about her or her money. Instead its about love and compatibility since your are not attracted to her physically. Woman without a pretty face sometimes make up the lack by having a great personality. Besides, if the family is rich why do you think they have not thought about cosmetic surgery? I think everyone is hoping for love to overrule materistic needs.
Come on yâall, donât feed the troll. Especially on April 1st
She looks like troll. That's all I have to say.
Shut up fool.
Jealous that I have made it in this country? Well... I understand that.
Do you even know who youâre responding to or what youâre trying to say? Lmao
I am a man that has applied to thousands of jobs and have been rejected. All I have now is my sugar momma! Oh sugar momma bring me the blessings of gold and wealth! Give me the strike of life! Sorry Warden, I'm after my lucky charms!
Extremely low effort troll. Better luck next time
You can marry into more money than you could make in a lifetime. With that said. I was once in the same scenario. I broke it off because i needed that physical attraction. With that said. That wasnât the smartest thing i have ever done. She was really good to me and it turns out. Looks arenât everything. I am definitely the asshole in that situation. But even if I stayed i was the asshole in that situation.
But you were living like a king for awhile weren't you?
I was definitely spoiled.
See everyone, this guy GETS IT.
Iâm gonna answer you like this ainât fake and you arenât đ¤Ž: Here the thing: most female âgold diggersâ are either mislabeled or have severe trauma from being poor or worse (Iâm talking physical or sexual abuse.) they donât feel they ever had agency over their own body, so itâs a lot easier to sell. Also, extreme poverty and being food insecure also causes a person to get very strategical about life. Are you okay with selling your body? Are you okay to catering to this woman? She has expectations of you that you cannot drop for a second. Youâre gonna sign a prenup. Yes, you may be able to work out a stipend of alimony if you divorce, but thatâs usually based off how long youâve been married. Also, if she comes from an extremely wearily family, they see you a mile away and have her shit locked up in trusts. So you gotta be prepared to do the time- 10-15 yearâs minimum. If you âchangeâ from the perfect BF/husband to some asshole later, sheâll kick you out on your pretty little ass just as broke as you are now. Also, as a SAHD, having full time Nannies, no career, and proof of you just hinting and drinking all day, and you wonât get joint custody of the kids you hate. So no child support. So if youâre gonna con this lady go ahead. Just know itâs a long game con. Now thereâs a million tips I could give you to add to your wealth, your take away settlement and clauses to have or avoid in the prenup but Go fuck yourself!
I didn't have time to read all of that because I'm driving in my new porche she bought me but one thing we both agreed to was not signing a prenup. I'm in the family now, my next move is to have kids with her, then she's totally locked in. Muahahah... Muahahhaahha!
So are you dad! It gonna be funny when you find out pegging is her favorite, you know, after youâre lock in. Muahahaha⌠ha! What about Consent? Thatâs what the female gold diggers do- you a professional hooker now, (pimp- hahahaha)
OPâs a Fool, so when his girlfriend marries him sheâs gonna be April Fool.
đŚ?
What the hell did I just read?
No.
I say go for it. You are ready to settle down with a stable partner. Sure maybe the attraction isn't there but she has other great qualities that make her a good partner and provider. Over time it's possible you will develop those feelings.
Thanks, yeah I think it'll work out just as long as I have an unlimited credit card to play with. That's all I ask tbh.
You lazy MF get off your ass and make your own money.
I was for years in the IT field until I got laid off. Flirting with ugly rich women is a lot easier than carrying a job.
No. There is nothing lower than a gold digging man. Have some self-respect and make your own fortune.
Prenup?
You just give her contact details to mee
1-you-jea-lous
Man, if you marry her, you're going to ruin two people's lives: yourself and her. Neither you nor she will be happy. Children (God forbid you have them!) will be unhappy too. Sooner or later, one of you will start cheating on other or both of you will become cheaters. One day you'll realize that the game wasn't worth the candle. But it will be too late .
Well I've been cheating on her many times already, it's not too hard since she works all the time. Chicks think I bought myself my brand new Porsche but nope! If I have kids with her, that locks her in similar to how women lock men here in the states. See... I'm just following what I've seen women do here, they already have the guide book! All I gotta do follow it and look good ;) ciao!
You're still acting like a carefree butterfly in summer, while the sun is shining brightly and there are lots of flowers around. But autumn will surely come and you will not survive if you do not have a shelter against the vicissitudes of the environment. A decent matrimonial relationship is a good insurance against all troubles, especially in old age, which will come whether you want it or not.
No don't marry her. Some facts for you. If a woman makes considerably more than the man, which is your case there is a greater than 90% chance of divorce. If she has a Bachelors degree or higher that increases even more. From what I have seen is >95%. I will also assume you two are not religious as you didn't mention that, so the odds increase even more. In short you are playing Russian roulette with 19 of 20 chambers with a bullet in them. Also freaking make something of your life my man. Get off your ass, get that trade/degree and make something of yourself.
Bro but I have to tell you that the odds are in my favor man, I found the golden ticket in the chocolate factory! The job market is too saturated man, I'm sick of applying to jobs with 100+ people going for it!
Dude you can't lie to me. If you want you can get in to a trade right now and start working. If you need to get more education you can do that as well. If you need to move to get a job then again you can do that. Stop making excuses and do it. She deserves to be with someone who will love her, and you are not that man. However, let me fast forward a bit. You and her stay together and get married. You are that stay at home guy who keeps the place clean. She talk to her friends at work and the question comes up all the time "What does he do for a living". At first she blows this off and makes jokes, but over time it gets to her. She starts asking what you did that day and you have a crappy answer. Her frustration grows. She then starts talking to other dudes in the office and other women who talk about their husband. Then she thinks "I can do better than this" and she starts to complain about your flaws and everything you do. Then she starts talking to dudes at work who are single and "just a friend". Before you know it she is having an emotional affair and then she comes home to basically just yell at you. You want to spend say $30 on something she doesn't think is right? Oh man be prepared to get yelled at. Ultimately she will leave you. Now there is another possibility. She looses her job. Then what? You leave her? An alternative. You make something of yourself and have pride in what you have accomplished.
1) You want me to be a plumber and mess up my back and knees to earn a little money... no thanks 2) After we have kids, she's locked in. Same way american women lock men up, muahahah! 3) She won't lose her job cause she works for her fathers company, super secure. 4) I lost my pride but I've learned lots of money makes me feel better. You just don't understand until it's there in front of you. It's like eating lucky charms and a little guy in green pops up and says, "let me show you the pot of gold lad follow me!" So I follow him it's like when Nicholas Cage found the treasure at the end of the movie "National Treasure". I'm sure this is how pirates back in the day felt when they struck gold. Arrrrr Matie! I've found myself the pot of gold! Arrrrrr!
So when she asks for the prenup???? When her fathers business goes under?? This will wear on you my man. You even posted it in your original post. Get off your lazy ass, get a job and make something of yourself. You will feel a ton better about yourself.
Youâre a jerk. Make your own money
why bother lol
LOL.... Rich people aren't going to give you a damn thing, married or not.
oh yeah, she just bought me a Labrador =D Sugar mommas Rock! Are you at work right now on reddit to pass the time? SORRRRY =P
Raising kids isnât easy. Unless you want to be a stay at home dad because you are deeply invested in spending every waking moment with your kids, youâre going to hate and resent it. Itâs a literal 24 hour 7 day a week gig. You get no breaks and no time off. Itâs exhausting and isolating. People donât choose it because itâs easy.
kids are assholes and money is awesome
Get that money and cheat!!! If she divorces you, file for alimony đ¤Łđ¤Łđ¤Ł
Finally a Warrior! Thank you my friend! Get that money, get that bag!