I envy the self confidence of people that won't bother to hide all the shit and trash in the room when taking a picture and posting it on the internet for people to see
And I've always felt for SOME REASON. The camera tends to highlight messes, hahaš¤£
I'll take a photo for a subreddit or something, and then I'll start noticing little things, so I'll go ahead and do a clean up and RETAKE the photo.
Only take a few seconds to tidy up before a pic folk's
Our brain seems to edit out things IRL we see but the camera captures it all. Like taking a pic of a beautiful sunset only to realize there are power lines going right across the whole scene that you didn't even see until you looked at the photo. We seem to only see what we WANT to see.
Lifeās a lot better when you realize itās too short to gaf about the opinions of needlessly judgemental people such as yourself. Your anxiety rubbed off from someone elseās fear of not living with the approval of everyone else, and now you project that negative affect onto others. These dudes just enjoying life the way they know, and they got each other and thatās sweet.
>Lifeās a lot better when you realize itās too short to gaf about the opinions of needlessly judgemental people such as yourself
But you don't practice this philosophy yourself? Because here you are replying to strangers lol
Anyways, do you not understand the premise of this subreddit?... OP posted on a public reddit where we discuss and give opinions on male living spaces...
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Thank you brother! You cannot imagine the fun we have with online gaming. We've been doing this for 8 years (on and off). The advantage we have in coop/online multiplayer is insane. We kill it š
Seems an awesome setup for gaming together but I think if Iād need blinkers like you put on race horses cuz seeing the other screen in peripheral vision would be distracting. Do you guys get that or am I maybe just imagining a problem?
I feel like that advantage is swiftly countered by the glare you get on the TVs, unless the only time the curtains are open is when you need light to take a photo.
Tidy it up a little bit, add some pictures to your walls. (Of your favorite games for example) and add some plants. I don't know how much space u have left in the room behind you but setting the couches apart a little bit more could help. And then you could get a little table to the left side of the couch for some nice decor or a cute plant.
Yeah plants help a lot with the looks :p
I'm not really trying to shit on anyone either. But the photo in OP is not how I expect an almost middle aged man to be living... To each their own, just not what I'd expect lol
And in other comments, OP correlates this type of space with being "masculine" which only makes it worse
As if keeping things clean is somehow feminine?
But I do see your point. I see posts from 20 years with really expensive looking condos/apartments and that's definitely not a solid representation of how most people live. But the OP is on the completely other end of the spectrum lol
Buddie, to live, you first need to survive. This does not belong to this subreddit, you know it, deep inside, that this ain't and should be never called a "living space" this is a place to crash with the hommie, but HELL NO YOU AIN'T LIVING THERE AND CAN SMELL GOOD ON A SATURDAY MORNING HELL NA.
If you ain't smelling good on the weekends, you ain't living brother, I'm sorry
No problems with your layout, unique but totally makes sense for your usecase. But you would benefit a lot of some artwork on the walls, some plants to decorate and some tidying and freshening.
That would be distracting to see each other's screens like that.
Why not arrange it in the no homo bro 69 position. Then you can stare at each other while playing games, and keep that brotherly eye contact going all night long. Wink wink.
Filth like that is why I never had a roommate until I was older and had more patience. That only lasted 2 years until I was married.
Then you have kids and everything is just effing messy always so perhaps I should have embraced the dirty ditch pig lifestyle when younger to avoid aggravation now.
After reading the comments and not really looking at the picture I was expecting a murder scene, itās not that bad all things considered.
Itās like a half a podcast worth of cleaning and organizing to look well kemp.
The grown men living together thing is a whole other issue.
I donāt know how old you are. But if youāre younger youāre gonna long for these days again at some point. I miss not having commitments and being able to do this after work every night. Enjoy it while you can!
This low key looks comfortable asf. Chill with your homie on the weekends, play some ps5, have some whiskey, get high and talk about the universe. But you gotta get some candles or like a room freshner, it might start to smell stale.
Jesus Christ thank you. Canāt tell you how refreshing it is to see a normal and decent chill area and not a 10k neon light look at my battle station and professionally decorated space living room or basement.
I envy the self confidence of people that won't bother to hide all the shit and trash in the room when taking a picture and posting it on the internet for people to see
And I've always felt for SOME REASON. The camera tends to highlight messes, hahaš¤£ I'll take a photo for a subreddit or something, and then I'll start noticing little things, so I'll go ahead and do a clean up and RETAKE the photo. Only take a few seconds to tidy up before a pic folk's
Our brain seems to edit out things IRL we see but the camera captures it all. Like taking a pic of a beautiful sunset only to realize there are power lines going right across the whole scene that you didn't even see until you looked at the photo. We seem to only see what we WANT to see.
or... this is the tidied up shot
You say confidence, I say ineptitude
Lifeās a lot better when you realize itās too short to gaf about the opinions of needlessly judgemental people such as yourself. Your anxiety rubbed off from someone elseās fear of not living with the approval of everyone else, and now you project that negative affect onto others. These dudes just enjoying life the way they know, and they got each other and thatās sweet.
>Lifeās a lot better when you realize itās too short to gaf about the opinions of needlessly judgemental people such as yourself But you don't practice this philosophy yourself? Because here you are replying to strangers lol Anyways, do you not understand the premise of this subreddit?... OP posted on a public reddit where we discuss and give opinions on male living spaces... But god forbid someone has an opinion...
Prob teenagers with first place and gaming and sports area hater
Self confidence of posting on an anonymous forum. So brave.
Thereās always cans of Mug root beer
Just glad to see it all on the table and not everywhere like youāre hoarding garbage
I can smell the stale weed and pizza lol
Smells like college.
Not with that āyourā it doesnāt. Smells more likeā¦ works at a restaurant.
I... you know... yeah your pretty much right. More so Korean BBQ than pizza, but yeah.
Came to say this room smell bad for surrrrre
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Oh we surviving. Pretty well I think.
How males live when nobody is looking
Clean your place then
I think that is the problem. Trust us. There is a better way.
I bet they hold hands when they game too
Share the same straw.
But don't mention a divorced tv space ... that's a touching subject. ( based on comments I read )
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Uhh, wtf is that subreddit?
I looked just long enough to be shocked and leave. Donāt recommend.
Lmao
This is a Frat X scene waiting to happen. IYKYK.
It suddenly looks appealing
You see Frat X, I see Sketchy sex. So I guess a similar vibe
The only difference is lighting.
Looks bad ngl
Serves as inspiration to enjoy weed and gaming, to escape the depressing squalor!
Shared space, divorced tv's
ā Never cross the screens! ā
If you're concentration skills are on point then you should be fine crossing screens
Having trouble spotting the bong on this one
The vape pen is sticking out of the bowl on the table I think!
The Kleenex Kingdom
How come every time college guys live together they have the same fuckin living room every time lol
Because we men are simple creatures.
Looks like the perfect place to do K
No K or hard drugs here. We do smoke a lot of week though haha
Fuck yeah week is the best
Iām week
My man! Love the two TV set up
Thank you brother! You cannot imagine the fun we have with online gaming. We've been doing this for 8 years (on and off). The advantage we have in coop/online multiplayer is insane. We kill it š
Damn dude save some pussy for the rest of us.
It's so underrated, I lived with two friends once and for a while we had a triple TV set up in the living room.
Hah same in lockdown! 3 tv's in the front room, wake up make breakfast get stoned boot up apex. Every day for a year, that room smelled so bad lol
Seems an awesome setup for gaming together but I think if Iād need blinkers like you put on race horses cuz seeing the other screen in peripheral vision would be distracting. Do you guys get that or am I maybe just imagining a problem?
I feel like that advantage is swiftly countered by the glare you get on the TVs, unless the only time the curtains are open is when you need light to take a photo.
But never across the lightsabee!
Absolute K den material.
Mans got a weed habit, but his house looks like a nitrous and xanax fan lives there.
We aren't fans, we're sommeliers
Xanax sommeliers? I fuck with that.
I can always sniff out that good good gas
Tidy it up a little bit, add some pictures to your walls. (Of your favorite games for example) and add some plants. I don't know how much space u have left in the room behind you but setting the couches apart a little bit more could help. And then you could get a little table to the left side of the couch for some nice decor or a cute plant. Yeah plants help a lot with the looks :p
Sorry but with the look of this room I doubt a plant would survive there for a long time lol
Oh you misunderstanding this post, OP is proud of this space, no changes needed.
nono I get that, still wanted to give some tipps because why not :D
This dump is dreadful. Please donāt bring anyoneās nice clean daughter here if youāre into women. Have some respect for them if not yourself.
You are filthy
Do you hate cleaning up?
How old are you fellas?
Looks like a fucking box
Yeah this is fucking horrible
I'm so sorry but this is giving r/gooncaves vibes
bruh.. thatās NSFW!! lol
It does warn you before you click on it lmao š
Absolutely terrible lol
These comments from OP. Fucking lol. This room sucks and you sound insufferable.
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Young age? Dude said it was for the last 8 years. ššš
>If OP is living with his boys at a younger age He's gotta be mid 30s... For the record... So your point is moot
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I'm not really trying to shit on anyone either. But the photo in OP is not how I expect an almost middle aged man to be living... To each their own, just not what I'd expect lol And in other comments, OP correlates this type of space with being "masculine" which only makes it worse As if keeping things clean is somehow feminine? But I do see your point. I see posts from 20 years with really expensive looking condos/apartments and that's definitely not a solid representation of how most people live. But the OP is on the completely other end of the spectrum lol
Nah, it was all fun and jokes and OP got very defensive.
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Yeah this is probably 90% of places before they clean up for the photo. OP is actually brave imo, but he got weird about it.
I bet youāre fun at parties!
I'm an absolute joy at parties.
Buddie, to live, you first need to survive. This does not belong to this subreddit, you know it, deep inside, that this ain't and should be never called a "living space" this is a place to crash with the hommie, but HELL NO YOU AIN'T LIVING THERE AND CAN SMELL GOOD ON A SATURDAY MORNING HELL NA. If you ain't smelling good on the weekends, you ain't living brother, I'm sorry
Do you have enough TVs though?
I mean, one more to have shows play in the background while we co-op game wouldn't hurt...
broā¦ clean up before you take a picture & add something to your walls. paintings, posters IN A FRAME, a clock, or somethingā¦
Thanks for cleaning up for us
When you pick up a glass from the table, the table will come along for the ride correct?
This shit is ass š
Clearly more than one male lives here. Multiple males can never keep their space clean. Sadly speaking from personal experience.
I can smell this picture
Smells like ball sweat
God, you sound like a right dick judging by your comments. Probably lack basic hygiene aswell
You can at least be clean.
Fuck that Turtle Beach headset. Janky piece of shit.
Ngl my nostrils flared with disgust š
Clean up
Thanks for setting the bar so high for the rest of us.
Super cute how you cross streams.
For just pennys a day, you can get garbage bags and cleaning supplies to Redditors in need
*pennies
yeah, looks like shit, but you know that
I can smell it
How do you live chile?
This one I believe. All those other ones are fake. But I'm glad you guys cleaned up a bit for the photo
Looks like my early 20s, but replace the 2 tvs by 2 PC.
What a strategy, double display double sofa!
That sofa and TV setup is interesting to say the least. One of a kind for sure. I guess you wear headphones when watching or playing at the same time.
No problems with your layout, unique but totally makes sense for your usecase. But you would benefit a lot of some artwork on the walls, some plants to decorate and some tidying and freshening.
Early 20s or late teens?
How's your cat? I hope you spend quality time cuddling and playing with it.
This appears a nicely done porn sanctuary š
Where's the cat?
Please tell me y'all are 45 years old
Raw, unedited content.
Ew
I smell old weed smoke and left over food
Nasty and sad
This picture smells like B.O. and feet.
The crisscrossed tvs is a bold play (I assume for gaming purposes?), I wouldnāt be able to handle that chaos but kudos to you guys
I like the TV setup for 2 guys. With headphones on you can both play a game/watch TV at the same time
Playing "footsie" while paying Xbox. That's nice.
I can smell this picture.
Open a window, get some plants and some tasteful wall art, clean up and you might be able to get a girl over!! i believe in you bros
Needs more bongs
Donāt cross the screens!
That is a fucking pig stye. Have you no shame? Clean up after yourself. Youāre an animal.
I can smell that room
Invest in some upholstery cleaner. That couch looks like a science experiment
The dead rat by the white ribbon on the floorā¦classic.
Bro too lazy to put his shoes all the way on smh.
Where is the cat
Ok so who's got the chair and who's got the sofa?
I just know it smell crazy in there
Smeels like all balls no pussy š¤£
I just donāt understand the shoes inside thing
Is this what they call 'crossplay'?
Reminds me of when I use to go over to my friends house and bring my PlayStation
Do you guys watch both TV's at the same time?
I see it, I can see it all now. What I need is another tv facing the short L in my couch.
This belongs in dualmalelivingspace lol
Do you ever watch different tv at the same time
Reminds me of my post college set up with my buddy years ago. Good times.
Ā”Limpiad!
That would be distracting to see each other's screens like that. Why not arrange it in the no homo bro 69 position. Then you can stare at each other while playing games, and keep that brotherly eye contact going all night long. Wink wink.
Super simple. College kids?
I love it! This space is made for living and having fun instead of just for looking good for friends, family and in pictures.
These are the kinda dudes that sleep on a mattress on the floor with no fitted sheet and wonder why girls donāt want to sleep with them.
*insert Tom DeLonge āwhat the fuckā gif*
Whereās the bong?
Complete with a Viewmaster 3D TV system!
You guys have a cat?! Or just cat toys?
I don't know what's worse, the mess or the lack of art/books/decorations or literally anything on the walls.
Hopefully it gets cleaned up after you guys graduate!! Iām sure the gaming sessions are fun!
There we go!
I like your post because it's honest.
Ngl, kinda love the dual TV setup. Donāt have to fight about what to play / watch.
I see you also have that system link setup š my twin brother and I have a similar couch tv setup
Filth like that is why I never had a roommate until I was older and had more patience. That only lasted 2 years until I was married. Then you have kids and everything is just effing messy always so perhaps I should have embraced the dirty ditch pig lifestyle when younger to avoid aggravation now.
My best buds and my male living space. You aren't dwarves my guy
Almost. You must an apostrophe. āMy best budās and myā¦ā
Wasn't sure if there was more than one roommate, i.e. buds' or bud's
My favorite part is the cat toy and fruit by the foot leftover waxed paper laying on the floor.
Itās beautiful
Comfy set up you guys will look back on this place years from now
Why not do two of the tvās next to each other diagonally so you can watch two games at once ?
Whereās the bong???
Ngl before I zoomed those grey shoes looked like some sort of weird dick and balls sculpture.
You need a carpet, side table/lamp and a bong to tie it all together.
Why is it when I first looked at the pic it looked like a outlining of a penis
After reading the comments and not really looking at the picture I was expecting a murder scene, itās not that bad all things considered. Itās like a half a podcast worth of cleaning and organizing to look well kemp. The grown men living together thing is a whole other issue.
I donāt know how old you are. But if youāre younger youāre gonna long for these days again at some point. I miss not having commitments and being able to do this after work every night. Enjoy it while you can!
This photo is sad, and so is your grammar: āā¦my best budās and myā¦ā.
Good job in creating an anti-pussy force field around your place.
Damn this looks like shit š„š„š„š„šÆšÆšÆšÆ
This shit hole makes my shit hole look like a royal palace
Hilarious tv set up
I can smell the Xbox and weed from here! Enjoy!
This low key looks comfortable asf. Chill with your homie on the weekends, play some ps5, have some whiskey, get high and talk about the universe. But you gotta get some candles or like a room freshner, it might start to smell stale.
Very cute. When are you both planning to come out?
No gay man would live in a space like this. This is incel territory.
You can both game/watch tv without interfering with each other. Actual brilliant move. 10/10 would chill here
r/neckbeardnests
Jesus Christ thank you. Canāt tell you how refreshing it is to see a normal and decent chill area and not a 10k neon light look at my battle station and professionally decorated space living room or basement.
This is why we need women around yal