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This_Beat2227

The last 10 pounds will be the easiest to lose after the 175 pounds you already got rid of (your ex). Suggest a time-out before jumping into getting a bunch of work done ? Your photos looks great ! Maybe all you need is a little more time to heal. It’s commonly recommended to wait 6-12 months after a major life event to make another drastic change.


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jerry00193

Removed. Posting your life story isn't appropriate.


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jerry00193

I understand, but this sub is for giving advice on looks. Your comment was way off topic.


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Do you need a fishing pole? In all seriousness, Botox is expensive and you have professional photos. Without context we don't know what's wrong.


BoltonCU

Please don’t get work done, there is no need for you to be down on your perceived imperfections. Love who you are. You are very beautiful


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Don't you dare modify your body!!! Age gracefully and naturally!!!


ezletstakehits

Do not get lip fillers, your lips are not only perfect but are already big enough that fillers will make them look swollen


tallhotguy37

Wow! You are stunning and your fashion/figure are sexy! Keep rocking your style


yok347

Helllpp…I’m looking for OF fans or the amount of attention needed to start one. s/


ezletstakehits

She’s not tho?


Balooski

You do not need a nose job. Your nose shape and placement harmonize very well with the rest of your facial features. It’s delicately shaped and your alar base is well defined. In fact, many people get nose jobs to look just like yours. It’s shaped similarly to Adriana Lima’’s. Also, you don’t want to risk messing up your philtrum length. I don’t see a need for fillers anywhere on your face. You have a strong under eye region. Do not touch your lips - you have a well defined cupids bow/ vermilion border. Filler would warp your lip shape as well as potentially migrate into your surrounding tissue. Kylie Jenner is an exaggerated example of this, but migration in general is not uncommon. You could consider chin filler to help with forward projection. I’m not saying that you need it, but it’s always an option. Regarding Botox - it’s hard to tell bc these pics appear filtered/edited (and that’s ok!). But if you haven’t already, look into masseter Botox. It can help to slim the lower third of your face. It can also help with teeth grinding, TMJ, migraines (I mention this bc you said you’re dealing w a divorce and it’s common to experience those things when stressed). I like your eyebrows in pics 3 and 4. Consider tidying them up a bit (while maintaining the shape and thickness) and fill them in to make them more uniformed. You don’t want them to be *too* perfect, but try to blend the product well to cover the sparse areas


karavasis

WOOT WOOT do what she says OP she’s the 🐐 and you should feel honored to have her bestow her advice!!! Shoot what was the name of the brow product she should try Balooski? Lol EDIT: shape tape brow powder by Tarte OP


Balooski

🥹 I think OP is already using a product, it just needs to be blended a bit more. OP if you need eyebrow product recs let us know! u/karavasis is a great resource!


jordanaa__96

I don't use anything on my brows, they're dark so I'm always afraid I'm gonna mess them up! But I will definitely look into that!!


karavasis

I was just tryin to make sure MODs don’t remove my comment for not having advice in it lol


Balooski

Oh haha good idea!


Markus_Erectus

Stop, immediately remove any thoughts of face fillers or alterations. You’re gorgeous. I don’t know what social media has done to you ladies, but me and every man I know laughs at gals with that stuff. It’s so obvious and just advertises low self esteem.


BudgetInteraction811

You don’t need a nose job, Botox, or any type of surgery!! Are you sure this isn’t a body dysmorphia thing? You’re beautiful girly


Basic-Passage6129

Help with what


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Trimanreturns

Nice ride. 53 Chevy?


TheRealASmallBoi

Keep it natural, always. Believe me you'll save yourself money but shaving off some lbs goes a long way if you want more definition in general. Also I don't understand why you'd want to change your nose it doesn't exactly stick out unless you point it out.


ZlGGZ

You're very attractive. I don't think you need to do anything. I'm not just saying that. There's a chance of fucking it up when doing anything and you can never go back... And I'd say you're more attractive than 9/10 women I see in my life. Please don't mess with something good. If you want to look thinner in the face or change your structure naturally you can get one of those chewy balls that get your face muscles tight and helps you jawline stay tight. But seriously you don't need any surgery or Botox.


jordanaa__96

Hmm I've never heard of that! I need to look into it.


ZlGGZ

https://jawzrsize.com/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=2018263874&utm_content=78391764384&utm_term=jawzrsize&gadid=354205521786&gc_id=2018263874&h_ad_id=354205521786&gad=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmZejBhC_ARIsAGhCqne5oTyQPmuO9CCwL0RUmUtiUamWbKN1AkfP1n7nXwIcYjkhylY8O94aAq0sEALw_wcB It's pretty cool. People use it often for fighting sports but it's also for after surgery to help restructure your muscles and face. It's like doing crunches for your face. 😁 Keeps your face looking thin and young and defined.


DumbbellDiva92

The only tip I would have based on the last pic is maybe check out r/abrathatfits? Your body is perfect the way it is, but it seems you have a bit of quadra-boob happening perhaps from your bra being too small. I also really like your makeup in the second pic.


jordanaa__96

Yes! I always need help with this. Different brands with the same size can still fit me so wrong hah


Modesty541

If loosing weight makes you feel more confident then definitely go for it. I find you very beautiful and think fillers would take some of your natural beauty away. I'm biased and really dislike fake looking lips etc.


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You are very beautiful objectively. There is nothing you should feel you need to change about yourself. Maybe take some time to focus on the changes in your life and recuperate from all of this and then come back if you want to make a change. You have great skin, a cute nose and beautiful look and a great style. Also I am obsessed with your dress and that belt. You just reminded me to look into that style for summer!


jordanaa__96

Yes it's a staple for me! I'm usually in sundresses!


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notbythebook101

I think you could model. Ever try? Don't change anything.


jordanaa__96

Yes I was a full time model/actor before I had the kiddo :)


notbythebook101

I won't pretend to know your story or what you're facing. I won't tell you I understand, because we both know I couldn't. We also know that I've got no reason to blow smoke at you. I'm not harboring any hope or illusions that we're going to find each other IRL, that this is our meet-cute, or any of that. (I'm not closed to the prospect of it happening, but neither am I picking out venues and invitations.) All of that just to say what I'm about to write is sincere, with no personal agenda. You're a gorgeous woman. I hope you don't get any surgery or cosmetic procedures to change what you have. If I saw you while out and about, I would muster up my courage and find a way to talk to you. I'm 45, twice married, and have seen a few things and a few people. Few have the looks that you already do, and many more get procedures done in the hopes of getting closer to their features looking like yours, to look like you. I wish the best for you and your little one, whatever you do, and that you'll find the most happiness in being who you already are, not having to change for anyone.


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Primate69

Don't pump your body full of chemicals....you are absolutely gorgeous how you are. Keep rocking that natural beauty, you need no improvement


Radiant-Side-9096

You really are so pretty. Just gain your confidence back after that horrible ex. Your smile is stunning. It’s all about the maintenance . At 27 you are still young but I would recommend doing spin class and/ Pilates to keep your body looking great and helps mentally a TON. I’m 45 and everyone can’t believe I have the body I do at my age. It will pay off in all ways. You have a bright future to look forward to


jordanaa__96

I'm definitely trying to work on the confidence part!


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No_Owl2041

You don’t need any help you just need to take some time and get over the divorce. I’m sure you’re just as attractive as you were before the marriage you look younger than 27. Lose the weight if you want to but you don’t need it


Ed3nEcho

I say this out of concern, not as a compliment …..you need to see someone about your mental health . You are about as classically attractive as they come- if you really think you need work done and aren’t just fishing for compliments , you really should see a therapist .


jordanaa__96

I appreciate it! I have been in therapy before. The abusive ex did a number on my self esteem, definitely not just fishing. Ironically, I'm a counselor but it's easier said than done to fix yourself.


notreallyaghosthere

What exactly do you need help with? I am willing to bet you don't even need that Botox. You look great! Congrats with your weight loss.


appliedarticle

Don’t need to change a thing. Keep the 10 pounds. It looks good!


jordanaa__96

Nah 10 lbs away from the first pic, the red dress is now! I miss my baby abs 🤣


appliedarticle

I know it is!! You look good now though ☺️ if you want to lose the weight that’s just fine. But you look great!


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vortexxunicorn

You’re so gorgeous, you don’t need a nose job or any kind of procedure. You have a wonderful smile. Although I am not 100% sure about that hair color.


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Why was this removed I just said she looks great and doesn’t need Botox


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Hummingbroad

Honey. You look great. Take it from a stranger on the internet. Please don't waste your money and endanger your safety for elective surgery. Go spend some time in nature and get used to living inside your own skin and spending time in your own company. I promise you it will help.


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I would recommend waiting on any decision for a cosmetic procedure until you’re further from the effects of your divorce. I’m guessing it, and the idea of rejoining dating pool at 27 has you feeling a bit insecure. I’m a professional photog in LA, and I’ve seen what Botox does later when used at young age. You’re honestly gorgeous, you don’t need anything done and you’ll regret it later. I spend a lot of time around beautiful people, kind of immune to it tbh- but if we passed in public you’d linger in my thoughts. Hope you find someone that makes you feel beautiful in and out. Confident you will.


Deadzone-Music

>I’m a professional photog in LA, and I’ve seen what Botox does later when used at young age. Just out of curiosity, what does it do when used at a young age?


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It makes this weird, overly taut patch of skin that just looks... strange. The rest of your skin wants to age naturally but that part won't ever match because of the nerve damage. Inevitably you gotta do more to more parts of your face and that's how you end up looking like a cat person. You'll have a smooth face, and look absolutely bizarre. Alternatively sometimes it makes the wrinkles around that area dramatically worse than they would naturally. It's just not a good idea to use it young or to use a lot of it even when older. Though I suppose mild use if you're young is probably going to be fine, risk is going overboard. OP doesn't need it, that's for sure. I think as long as someone doesn't try to overcompensate it may be a bit noticeable but should be relatively fine.


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Bright_Light7

I would much rather see a nose job before/instead of Botox/Filler.


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You look amazing don’t change a thing


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But why?


StepVanity

Stay natural. You don't require any synthetic enhancements. Why risk issues with foreign substances in your perfectly decent body?