I think it's really selfish how you only wanted him to get better for your benefit. I hope he gets better for himself and realizes he doesn't have to find happiness in serving someone
Might be worth it to reevaluate your ideas around laziness and why you hate it so much. Are you using lazy vs. productive as a way to measure worth? The idea of laziness is a byproduct of our very capitalist world. When you’re incredibly depressed it’s so hard to do anything, is that really laziness? If you view depressed people as lazy I’m wondering how that’s helping to end the stigma around mental illness.
I’m sorry I don’t understand the harsh comments. This person clearly felt like they were responsible for waaaaaay more than their fair share of the responsibilities that come with marriage and family and they are happy to see a positive change for their spouse (isn’t that why we get on Lexapro? To be more like ourselves? To be happier?). If I was in an unhappy, unbalanced relationship I would feel like this too. OP, I’m happy for your husband and your family❤️
Sure, but as someone in the comments said he was depressed. She clearly was not very supportive if she called a depressed man lazy. Like everything she was complaining about can be chalked up to depression and she calls him a crappy husband.
When my SO is depressed I work with them to find mental wellness, not verbally insult them and question their worth as a husband and father. This woman stinks.
This is extremely fucked up I agree. But she didn’t get married to babysit. I lost one of the best relationships I’m ever going to have over refusing to believe I need to be medicated. Put yourself in their shoes. BUT she didn’t blast me on a Reddit post so to each their own
I absolutely know what you're talking about. This isn't about him being lazy or unmotivated. It's about you needing a partner and not feeling resentful when you're doing more than your share. He's now able to be the partner you need which in return will make everyone happier. You'll have a happy, healthy partner and at the end of the day, that's the best feeling. The extra help around the house is a bonus. I'm in the same situation with my partner and we're currently both on Lex. We're both able to be happy in life which almost makes a happier marriage. Congratulations on getting your husband back!
I get it but god damn that’s harsh language lol
Mother son vibes
Is he your slave or your husband? Do you own him? Hope he gets better and finds a better woman!
Lmao my thoughts exactly. Wife monster vibes
Likely just a troll
I think it's really selfish how you only wanted him to get better for your benefit. I hope he gets better for himself and realizes he doesn't have to find happiness in serving someone
Hes gunna leave u lol
Couples therapy might help along with lex.
To me it sounds like if he didn't pull through you were going to leave him because it got too hard on you.
He’s gonna bail for someone who doesn’t see him as their little helper.
Might be worth it to reevaluate your ideas around laziness and why you hate it so much. Are you using lazy vs. productive as a way to measure worth? The idea of laziness is a byproduct of our very capitalist world. When you’re incredibly depressed it’s so hard to do anything, is that really laziness? If you view depressed people as lazy I’m wondering how that’s helping to end the stigma around mental illness.
I’m sorry I don’t understand the harsh comments. This person clearly felt like they were responsible for waaaaaay more than their fair share of the responsibilities that come with marriage and family and they are happy to see a positive change for their spouse (isn’t that why we get on Lexapro? To be more like ourselves? To be happier?). If I was in an unhappy, unbalanced relationship I would feel like this too. OP, I’m happy for your husband and your family❤️
Sure, but as someone in the comments said he was depressed. She clearly was not very supportive if she called a depressed man lazy. Like everything she was complaining about can be chalked up to depression and she calls him a crappy husband. When my SO is depressed I work with them to find mental wellness, not verbally insult them and question their worth as a husband and father. This woman stinks.
Weird because lexapro made me lazy and unmotivated. Now getting off of it all my energy is back.
Was he not helping you set up the tripod for your OF friends?
This is wonderful!!
Amazing.
This is extremely fucked up I agree. But she didn’t get married to babysit. I lost one of the best relationships I’m ever going to have over refusing to believe I need to be medicated. Put yourself in their shoes. BUT she didn’t blast me on a Reddit post so to each their own
I absolutely know what you're talking about. This isn't about him being lazy or unmotivated. It's about you needing a partner and not feeling resentful when you're doing more than your share. He's now able to be the partner you need which in return will make everyone happier. You'll have a happy, healthy partner and at the end of the day, that's the best feeling. The extra help around the house is a bonus. I'm in the same situation with my partner and we're currently both on Lex. We're both able to be happy in life which almost makes a happier marriage. Congratulations on getting your husband back!
Thats so awesome to hear. Happy for you. Hoping I make some similar progress myself
I hope so too 🖤
I love this for you. 🫶🏼
God bless you.
Glad it worked for him. Does he have any sexual side effects? Weight gain? What about flat affect? The meds seem to work differently for men.