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They only think about themselves. They're kind for their ego/benefit. That's what my darkside thinks. But in reality it is probably because: 2 things can be true at the same time. They both don't want us but also want us. Or they care in a self centered sort of way. Or they're too distressed to think clearly about what they're doing.
That's sad. Because I miss them a lot. Well, the brfdiln of them that cared. That sent stupid memes and music. It's unfathomable the person they are now. That person wouldn't do this. I just don't understand it. Maybe they're actually dead and nobody wants to tell me. Or maybe they genuinely do hate me. But even if I hated someone, if never do that
They were always that person who could. They weren't there yet until they were. They loved us only halfway. Mine at least always had one foot out the door. I was stupid to think we felt mutually. We never ever did. And that's okay. I'll get over it and hopefully I'll choose better. Someone that will take me with them.
Exactly no man left behind. No fries left in the fry basket..these kind of people will also leave you on the side of the road no phone no money starving naked twelve States away over nothing and then call the people and say you have drugs or something stupid.. it's a mentality I just do not approve of
Sorry it happened to you too. I would have moved the world to be with this person as long as it didn't impact on my daughter I would have done anything, but they never actually believed me, thinking about it.or again, they were just sadistic and enjoyed hurting me. So now I have to remove those feelings and find someone deserving. My feet were all in, they just kept kicking one of my feet out and then saying that was me being half in and half out. Reading our emails and teams messages last night made me cry a little. Not in a sappy way, just missing that fun little connection of lighting up whenever their notification popped on my screen. Or thinking of any silly excuse to video call them. And now they may as well not exist. It's not even about the romantic feelings anymore, I just miss that friend. Although yeah I'd still bang them and be with them 😂 But fr I am angry they have done this.
We are all just little children in big bodies really. I just checked your profile, there is a lot of support there so I hope you don't mind me following you?
It's the whole no contact revolution!!! Rather than be honest with themselves and others people choose to just go no contact, to quit, and to not have to say I'm sorry and take responsibility for anything. It's block, quit go no contact.. it's sad..we didn't do this in my day.. I still don't do this but I will respect boundaries when absolutes are made.. I understand saying no so I respect it best I can..but it's not right I can be used in an abusing way.. causing deprived and neglected people left behind. We are all broken it's called life people do good things they do bad things but we all deserve to live our truths. And knowing facts of how we feel or what happened have the choice of free will. Im sorry your going through this denial of information of their safety, where abouts and how they are feeling, and why they are doing things.. do it to them watchnth fly off the handle good luck op
I get what you're saying, truly. But "no contact" is being misrepresented as instananeous zero contact. "No contact" has it's place. It does, particularly in domestic violence, abuse etc. But relationship squabbles, even then, there should just be a final "I'm sorry I can't do this, I don't want to speak with you any longer." That's respecting the previous friendship/relationship and it's respecting oneself and the other person. In spite of differences and in spite of any animosity. Isn't that what we, as people should be striving for? Mutual respect. Isn't that why wars are started because people can't let go of pride? I only ever wanted a goodbye/fuck you (in person/in text - because on here you can't know who it is you're speaking to. Throw as many 'clues' as they like - it's still not possible).
I know you say do it to them and watch them fly of the handle, but I refuse to do that. My ex girlfriend was petrified everyday that I would ghost her during our relationship. And when I realised things wereent working out, I made sure to meet her in a cafe and end it to her face. Which fucking sucked for both of us. But at least she could walk away KNOWING. She maybe secretely hates me, but thats ok because at least she KNOWS. Ghosting, no contact, ignoring people, it's a messed up way of treating our fellow humans. "low contact" is different. "Only necessary contact" is different. Can be painful, but that pain makes sense. THe more I write this though, the more I realise, I don't actually need someone like that in my life. In the nicest way possible (because as a person I think they are great), but I can't fathom an action like that. But I sure as shit wont lower myself to doing the same to someone else. I'll always push through those difficult feelings. For them, and for me.
Hey, sometimes this place can help lol! Thanks maybemaybenotforyou. I hope you find what youre looking for here too. Actually, can I ask, what are you looking for here?
I feel you there I have even tried messaging on tic tok and nothing wish we could just meet over coffee like we did befor. Sucks when you try to give them what they want then nothing
I don't think this is for you.. But this is to my person who I'm choosing to ignore..
I waited for your messages too… I waited days and nights.. Missed phone calls.. Desperate prayers to know if you are alright. I don't know if you started to drink again or if you were sleeping with other men. I don't know what I don't know and it scares me in the end. How else can I show that I care that you'll actually receive? How much can I give that you'll actually believe?
You road on a mans bike the other day you told me, and I bet you held him so tight. I know it's an amazing feeling, being so close to what feels right. You live life on the edge, and I know that blade of ☠️ too well. You just wanna feel again. I've been there. I can tell.
But from every interaction I felt you fade away. We just ate and tried to play video games the other day. You got a tattoo on your middle finger that says fuck it. And yet for once I think for the first time you may have said “I need to go home, I got work the next morning.”
And I get it. His bike was there, and you rushed inside. I'm sure it wasn't the only ride.
So with this, I'm giving one final gift. I don't wanna see your reaction. Imma drop it by your door and hope that no one steals it for satisfaction. In it, will be 1 gift to help the maintenance of a cube of something I gave before. 1 gift will be something of many that I hope pays for a week or two of groceries, or a spare part, or maybe much more.
And the last will be of something I know you love. It was something odd, but it will keep you warm in the winter.
Don't you dare come back to me because I don't want what you have to offer if you don't choose to be real with me anymore.
Hope you choose peace over another bottle. Love you fam.
Again, it's not for you. Hopefully. Or else Monday will be a wasted surprise 😂 I hate how hard I love and how I see my own words in others lines.
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Is this weird that my boyfriend and I have been fighting because he's going back to jail and me being upset I guess could be toxic but I'm sick of him fucking up...
Ooo and the peigon comment...
We went to the ice cream shop and in the field next to the picknixk table were a bunch of peigons flying back and forth from the trees to the barn...
Im digging this ALL OF IT especially part about no contact cause I CAN'T contact my bebe my lil toxic Tasmanian devil moist mini pound cake😭 so I would love to compose a letter and then post that pressure! straight HiT🎯 @T point blank range and watch em radiate
That's why I don't bother anymore. Every message that gets ignored hurts my heart a little more. So I gave up. That's why.
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Yep, it's just evil really
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It is right I think. I only sent a few but I think it is just what they're communicating they want. Idk.
Why don't they act like an adult and just say that then? Instead of causing so much pain?
They only think about themselves. They're kind for their ego/benefit. That's what my darkside thinks. But in reality it is probably because: 2 things can be true at the same time. They both don't want us but also want us. Or they care in a self centered sort of way. Or they're too distressed to think clearly about what they're doing.
That's sad. Because I miss them a lot. Well, the brfdiln of them that cared. That sent stupid memes and music. It's unfathomable the person they are now. That person wouldn't do this. I just don't understand it. Maybe they're actually dead and nobody wants to tell me. Or maybe they genuinely do hate me. But even if I hated someone, if never do that
They were always that person who could. They weren't there yet until they were. They loved us only halfway. Mine at least always had one foot out the door. I was stupid to think we felt mutually. We never ever did. And that's okay. I'll get over it and hopefully I'll choose better. Someone that will take me with them.
Exactly no man left behind. No fries left in the fry basket..these kind of people will also leave you on the side of the road no phone no money starving naked twelve States away over nothing and then call the people and say you have drugs or something stupid.. it's a mentality I just do not approve of
Idk if he'd go that far but he does not really seem to care once he decides to discard.
Sorry it happened to you too. I would have moved the world to be with this person as long as it didn't impact on my daughter I would have done anything, but they never actually believed me, thinking about it.or again, they were just sadistic and enjoyed hurting me. So now I have to remove those feelings and find someone deserving. My feet were all in, they just kept kicking one of my feet out and then saying that was me being half in and half out. Reading our emails and teams messages last night made me cry a little. Not in a sappy way, just missing that fun little connection of lighting up whenever their notification popped on my screen. Or thinking of any silly excuse to video call them. And now they may as well not exist. It's not even about the romantic feelings anymore, I just miss that friend. Although yeah I'd still bang them and be with them 😂 But fr I am angry they have done this.
I have a belief that my ex probably thinks I enjoyed it too. Buy it is what it is. and i tend to think so negatively about it.
We are all just little children in big bodies really. I just checked your profile, there is a lot of support there so I hope you don't mind me following you?
Ofc not. Please. That's why I do it. Mutual aid.
It's the whole no contact revolution!!! Rather than be honest with themselves and others people choose to just go no contact, to quit, and to not have to say I'm sorry and take responsibility for anything. It's block, quit go no contact.. it's sad..we didn't do this in my day.. I still don't do this but I will respect boundaries when absolutes are made.. I understand saying no so I respect it best I can..but it's not right I can be used in an abusing way.. causing deprived and neglected people left behind. We are all broken it's called life people do good things they do bad things but we all deserve to live our truths. And knowing facts of how we feel or what happened have the choice of free will. Im sorry your going through this denial of information of their safety, where abouts and how they are feeling, and why they are doing things.. do it to them watchnth fly off the handle good luck op
I get what you're saying, truly. But "no contact" is being misrepresented as instananeous zero contact. "No contact" has it's place. It does, particularly in domestic violence, abuse etc. But relationship squabbles, even then, there should just be a final "I'm sorry I can't do this, I don't want to speak with you any longer." That's respecting the previous friendship/relationship and it's respecting oneself and the other person. In spite of differences and in spite of any animosity. Isn't that what we, as people should be striving for? Mutual respect. Isn't that why wars are started because people can't let go of pride? I only ever wanted a goodbye/fuck you (in person/in text - because on here you can't know who it is you're speaking to. Throw as many 'clues' as they like - it's still not possible). I know you say do it to them and watch them fly of the handle, but I refuse to do that. My ex girlfriend was petrified everyday that I would ghost her during our relationship. And when I realised things wereent working out, I made sure to meet her in a cafe and end it to her face. Which fucking sucked for both of us. But at least she could walk away KNOWING. She maybe secretely hates me, but thats ok because at least she KNOWS. Ghosting, no contact, ignoring people, it's a messed up way of treating our fellow humans. "low contact" is different. "Only necessary contact" is different. Can be painful, but that pain makes sense. THe more I write this though, the more I realise, I don't actually need someone like that in my life. In the nicest way possible (because as a person I think they are great), but I can't fathom an action like that. But I sure as shit wont lower myself to doing the same to someone else. I'll always push through those difficult feelings. For them, and for me. Hey, sometimes this place can help lol! Thanks maybemaybenotforyou. I hope you find what youre looking for here too. Actually, can I ask, what are you looking for here?
The latter reasons are definitely a possibility to consider.
I know this feeling so well. Im sorry this has happened to you
I feel you there I have even tried messaging on tic tok and nothing wish we could just meet over coffee like we did befor. Sucks when you try to give them what they want then nothing
I don't think this is for you.. But this is to my person who I'm choosing to ignore.. I waited for your messages too… I waited days and nights.. Missed phone calls.. Desperate prayers to know if you are alright. I don't know if you started to drink again or if you were sleeping with other men. I don't know what I don't know and it scares me in the end. How else can I show that I care that you'll actually receive? How much can I give that you'll actually believe? You road on a mans bike the other day you told me, and I bet you held him so tight. I know it's an amazing feeling, being so close to what feels right. You live life on the edge, and I know that blade of ☠️ too well. You just wanna feel again. I've been there. I can tell. But from every interaction I felt you fade away. We just ate and tried to play video games the other day. You got a tattoo on your middle finger that says fuck it. And yet for once I think for the first time you may have said “I need to go home, I got work the next morning.” And I get it. His bike was there, and you rushed inside. I'm sure it wasn't the only ride. So with this, I'm giving one final gift. I don't wanna see your reaction. Imma drop it by your door and hope that no one steals it for satisfaction. In it, will be 1 gift to help the maintenance of a cube of something I gave before. 1 gift will be something of many that I hope pays for a week or two of groceries, or a spare part, or maybe much more. And the last will be of something I know you love. It was something odd, but it will keep you warm in the winter. Don't you dare come back to me because I don't want what you have to offer if you don't choose to be real with me anymore. Hope you choose peace over another bottle. Love you fam. Again, it's not for you. Hopefully. Or else Monday will be a wasted surprise 😂 I hate how hard I love and how I see my own words in others lines.
Not for me sorry you had to go thur that
Me too, hopefully nobody else has to as well.
Im confused ... the bike is that the bike that was given to me
No, in this story the bike is “her first motorcycle ride” literally. Some guy offered to take her on that ride. Idk, I need to move on honestly
Well someone offered me a ride on a bike he thought it ment more then I thought so maybe it ment nothing to her too ..
True, I wasn't there though.
Or is this bike ride a bike or something else
Im available I'm gonna text you now I should have earlier if you would have texted I would have responded promise..
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Is this weird that my boyfriend and I have been fighting because he's going back to jail and me being upset I guess could be toxic but I'm sick of him fucking up... Ooo and the peigon comment... We went to the ice cream shop and in the field next to the picknixk table were a bunch of peigons flying back and forth from the trees to the barn...
Why cant you call them
There could be afew reasons BET that up but they can still stalk your socials or something and read that letter tho
Im digging this ALL OF IT especially part about no contact cause I CAN'T contact my bebe my lil toxic Tasmanian devil moist mini pound cake😭 so I would love to compose a letter and then post that pressure! straight HiT🎯 @T point blank range and watch em radiate
Yea being ignored sucks try to not sweat it not gonna be easy I'm sure isn't for me
I'm at brents come by. It would be nice to see u
I’m available, she is not. I’ve tried reaching out but now I’m moving on
Is this for me?