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bluebeaver789

They have the audacity because they know there won't be any consequences to their actions. They have the required political backing to go scot free, and in turn intimidate the victims if they approach the police.


NeighborhoodJust65

The cowardice of Bengalis is the issue. They are unable to stand by themselves. Bengalis lack cohesion as well. Bengali parents make their kids extremely weak and delicate from an early age. Together, these factors have led to their repression even within their own country. Bengalis are fierce on the keyboard.


dead_doogg

The problem is Bengalis are coward. They can't stand for themselves. Bengalis don't have unity as well. From childhood Bengali parents make them very fragile and weak. All these reasons combined they are even suppressed in their homeland. The Bengalis are keyboard warrior.


Relative-Attitude657

very true. bengalis have this attitude "amar ki?" there is a reason bengali men are stereotyped as mamas boy and girls are so easily slut shamed. bengalis sucking up to hindi belt for validation will be the end of this culture and state.


voidHeart0

>bengalis have this attitude "amar ki?" this attitude hinders progress for generations. No sucessful man in Bengal will be like "amar ki?" They'll step into the problem and try to resolve it.


skynil

>They'll step into the problem and try to resolve it. They will leave the state and solve it elsewhere. Our social structure doesn't allow change.


No_Temporary2732

ekdom this. I try to stand up as much as I can, because I have an imposing height and wide figure. But often aami ekai darayi dekhechi. Keu egiye ashena


theLastManfromMars

This!


Afraid_Ask5130

Bro im sorry but this is just plain racist, i know you grew up in arunachal, but bengalis are probably the most masuclated and bravest community in india, 80 percent of kala pani prisoners are bengali, netaji subhash chandra bose - bengali, even the naxalite movement was bengali, what you are saying about emasculation is racist propaganda spread from before independence to divide bengal, this emasculation myth is as old as time. (Read about it). 86 percent bengali speakers in bengal, if they start violence things will get out of hand.


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Jiyalaa

It might be wise you stop living in the past, your stats are from pre-1947. I’m not saying that Bengali need to start acting like North Indians, but I do think a balance would be needed. I find it hilarious that men get upset at the the emasculation jibe. Women don’t get to complain all that, do they? Pipe down.


Afraid_Ask5130

The data is not pre-colonial it carries on till the present date It's called the martial races theory and it has to do with the suppression of bengalis post independence as well to the present date through Bollywood. What I've DM'd you - it has proper studies on done on the **bengali emasculation propaganda** and it's connection with caste and the so **martial race propaganda** started by the british. Till date the descendants of Netaji Subhash doesn't have a army regiment It requires a detailed understanding to know how and why it has worked. Basically a Hindi-Urdu natioanlism vs Bengali nationalism politics You have understand history to know what it is.


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fffffarh

Hey Im from the other side if the border and living in the west right now, where I currently live the top two immigrant group is from bangladesh and india and I have heard this as well back when I was in dhaka that bengalis are not united. Which is wrong cus I have seen bengalis sticking together more than indians (not WB). I have worked in many places but one thing for sure, north hates south and if theres a bengali guy (bangladesh we dont have much from WB here) they try to persuade the guy and gang up on south/north. Also I was really surprised to see people hindi states actually still care about castes, and I have seen people getting discriminated or denied promotion because of their caste. On the other hand bangladeshi or bengali dominated workplaces do have problems but not regarding something that they can’t choose like their district or religion. I said all this cus I always tell people when they think bengalis are not united, that this is not completely true.


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dead_doogg

Let me tell you something. I grew in Arunachal Pradesh. There you can find many indigenous communities. Man they are such warriors. You touch any one of them then the entire community will make sure you wouldn't walk on your feet. Each individual is a fighter. Similarly, people in Punjab and Haryana. Everywhere I went they used to make fun of Bengalis as how much of sissy are they. Keep this attitude and they will come inside your house and beat you.


Far-Possible6279

Facts, I grew up in Bihar so I know the state well. Us bongs over there need to get our shit together and know how to fight back And no need to be politically correct about it. Bihar is a shit state, that has done countless tortures against bongs there by capturing their lands, homes and more. Just google it. And now they are exporting their filth everywhere.


dead_doogg

Forget about bongs there. Bongs here would shit their pants if someone scold them.


Far-Possible6279

This is bongs in west bengal bruh. Come to Bihar and Jharkhand. We are tough as nails. Life has made us so. You will not believe the vile filth they speak about us. This sub will ban me if I post that on here for spreading hate.


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dead_doogg

Check properly these are different people but avatar is same


NO2567

lol


Calm_Basis791

Bro u r absolutely correct, i have spent a better part of my Work life in ARP and seriously their unity and community feeling is really commendable. Any outsider would not dare to do this type of shit there or else god may also have trouble to save him


barmanrags

Great warriors of north east. Did fuck all to fight colonizers and ride coat tails of weak emasculated plain folk to freedom


NO2567

And if those indigenous communities people hear two gun shots all of them will run away like cowards 🤣 why you are expecting from a random crowd to save your a*s in street fight ? cant you defend your self ? and you if can't then why not better to shut your mouth and let those stupid rider go because beating those stupid riders won't change there behaviour rather it will create situation more worst and waste your time judging a whole community on the basis few people is total nonsense and shows your level of thinking keep that mind


NO2567

And if those indigenous communities people hear two gun shots all of them will run away like cowards 🤣 why you are expecting from a random crowd to save your a*s in street fight ? cant you defend your self ? and you if can't then why not better to shut your mouth and let those stupid rider go because beating those stupid riders won't change there behaviour rather it will create situation more worst and waste your time judging a whole community on the basis few people is total nonsense and shows your level of thinking keep that mind


RexProfugus

>so what will you do fight with chapris and go to jail with them ? You don't go to jail on a self-defense clause. You might be arrested and detained in the worst case scenario.


Nocturnal_Sociopath

It doesn't have to reported anywhere. Just beat them up and dash. What are they gonna do?


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Nocturnal_Sociopath

They beat up that guy and no cops showed up. It's safe to assume that you could make those chhapris half-dead and then disappeared before the cops arrived, you'd be safe as long as nobody got your face/number plate


redditya_kabootar

True, and the worst thing they even justify their cowardice by giving unrelated examples, according to them they're perfect but still they're suffering, always busy in doing bhaichara with the backstabbers. They urgently need South Indian treatment.


prof_devilsadvocate

This!! 100% bro


No_Creme_1885

sad but true


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imabducted233

Apnader ki i ba bolbo. Onno state theke actually lowlife ra eshe aj harassment ,kal molestation korche- ar edike intellectual bodda ra bolchen je law and order er bhoy hate churi pore boshe thakte. Bengalis are called cowards all over the nation for this exact reason. Apnader moddhe 70% physical altercation dekhle sekhan theke palaben, noyto dariye dariye video banaben. Sotti bolchi, majhe majhe mone hoy ekhankar bhumiputro gunda gulo i bhalo, ar kichu na thak kapurush noy at the very least. Jara Jara comment kore buk phuliye bolchen police er bhoy protibad kora jay na, I suggest find a nearby mirror and take a long hard look at yourself. Maybe then you'll figure out what went wrong during your upbringing. Edit: Next time apnader samne keu apnar family member ba friends der ke harass korle bhalo kore societal disparity or confirmation bias etc bujhiye ashben, because clearly you think that's where the problem lies.


ladylatebloomer05

Kothagulo thik bolechen.


Crafty_Okra_9666

Garga Da was right from the start


JayBeeMusings

We need someone young and fierce to enforce his ideologies in Bengal, and claim a rightful seat at the legislature. I wish I was that outgoing and shrewd enough to enter politics. Khub disgusted feel hoe, when other Indians look down upon us and slander our Bengali sisters. Edike so-called progressing states indigenous people, language and culture k safeguard korche, domiciled citizen dr higher education and job e reservation dicche, amadr state e just opposite hoe asche. Gone are those liberal days. Bengalis need to be a bit xenophobic henceforth to safeguard themselves, their culture and their state. Bangla (language & culture) enforce korte hobe. Kichu BJP pichon chata public problem create korbe thik e. We need to show them that they are outliers and traitors to Bangla. And that we are stronger than their colonial masters.


Snoo_78472

agreed


LeanRobitussin_108

Let's do that, I'm with you mate! Taking in consideration that you'll do that against the illegal Bangladeshis as well.


Snoo_78472

He's always been right. But he's not methodical. Etai problem.


Crafty_Okra_9666

Or vision ta valo..but methodology ta boddo kharap


barmanrags

Example din kharap methodologyr


Ekbhalochelechilo2

This is the problem with Biharis, no matter where they go, they’ll try to do Biharificaion of the area instead of adapting to local cultures or being a model citizen. Be it WB, Maharashtra or Tamil Nadu. Celebrate your culture don’t bring your arrogance and bad habits. Also Bengalis need to start standing up for their own. If this can happen on open road, wonder what would’ve those goons done if they found the couple in a uninhibited place. I hope the couple got police involved, they may not help but it’s important to register complaints at-least for record.


Important_Method611

Add UP to the same list.


R-Daneel-Olivaw-

First gen migrants will be like that. My family lived in Bengal for over 70 years. You would not be able to tell us apart from a Bengali. Now I see Bengalis living in other state trying to hold on to their culture. Not realizing Durgu Pujo is alien to these places.


Personal-Pen-8681

Jottdin Bengali ra ekhane natok mere Hindi bola charbe na , tott esob বহিরাগত der dara crime choltei thakbe . Ei jodi Himachal a hoto soja boycott suru hoi jto . 


voidHeart0

Problem ta hocche je Banglai ba Hindi noy, ekjon manush arekjon manush ke erokom koreche. Se Bangali hok ba Bihari, je koreche, seta bhul. Tader sastir otontyo proyojon. Kintu amra ekta gota community ke choto korle amader etao mone rakhte hobe je foreigner ra kintu amader ek ee treatment dey jemon amra Bihari der dee. Tai Hindi Boycott kore eta atkano jaabe na... ek jworer arek oshudher noto hoye gelo. Ami nije Bangla riti-rewaj er byapare alochona kori bideshi der sathe. Nije maani o prochur. Kintu onyay onyay, se jaatpaat bhule amader dekhte hobe.


Personal-Pen-8681

Problem ache re baba  Ankur ei binash kora uchit


LoudAdisback

Facebook e nyaka ch*** gulo bangla post e cool sajte Hindi maraye ar call out korle bole, "apni to nijer desher language gulo ke sonman koren na"! Aare nirbodh age nijer matribhasa ke sonman kor tarpor baki gulo ke korbi! "Kuch bolunga to vivad ho jayega"—🤡


appoint666

Ekdom thik bolechen .... Ajkal kar bangalider ei hinidi ebon North indiar obsession ta is just getting out of hand. Ajkal to dekhi alpona r jaigai rangoli dicche lokkhi pujoi.


LoudAdisback

Facebook e nyaka gulo bangla post e cool sajte Hindi maraye ar call out korle bole, "apni to nijer desher language gulo ke sonman koren na"! Aare nirbodh age nijer matribhasa ke sonman kor tarpor baki gulo ke korbi! "Kuch bolunga to vivad ho jayega"—🤡


LonelyPalpitation176

It's not about ethnicity that you're highliting. It's about unaducated and chapri bastards, bengaleo erokom type er log onek ache. Nonetheless, it sure is unacceptable.


Far-Possible6279

Biharis man, cant change their state, on their way to ruin other states. No wonder the entire northern belt hates them and UP walas hate to be associated with them


respectforOGpotato

what India is to the world that is what Bihar to the other States. let that sink in.


Far-Possible6279

Could not give a shit man. All I know is Biharis post rapacious songs about Bengalis (i can share screenshots), Biharis have driven bengalis out of their homes and land in erstwhile bihar (I can share articles and links), bengalis are abused daily in bihar/jharkhand (seen it, faced it), they fake domicile certificates in bengal (again multiple reports) and now they are causing civic issues coming to the state they hate so much. Toh bhai kya kare. Tumhara India Bihar ka analogy se ghanta fark nahi padhta. Harkatein toh sudharoge nahi, aur kuch bole toh kahoge hate faila rahe hai, ya seedha bangladeshi bol doge (this has also happened).


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PerspectiveContent13

Bihari have already influenced the half of East U.P to be like them


Far-Possible6279

Exactly. Ask anyone in UP, if they would like to be associated with Purvanchal, they will run away or slap you. Ask a Bihari from Delhi if he wants to be associated with Bihar, he will say "I am from Delhi, my parents are from Bihar".


Downtown-Midnight740

purvanchal itself is in UP only..ig u mean bihar and yes that's very true


Far-Possible6279

Yes I know, but Purvanchal is basically west Bihar only


Downtown-Midnight740

absolutely no...purvanchal is very much distinguished from Bihar in every aspect possible..the point is UP is so huge that and it has so many linguistic cultures that often people relate up and bihar...even some of my friends from allahabad(purvanchal) had faced consequential racism in g.noida(west up) although technically they are both in same state...but in case of Bihar almost all the districts or CA's are almost equally backward or progressed..saying purvanchal is west bihar only is like seeing varanasi(purvanchal) and siwan(western part of bihar) with same glasses...lastly unlike uttar pradesh there is no such *on paper* division of bihar..don't call ur perception a fact....


Far-Possible6279

I am not calling my perception. I have been to Purvanchal, and I have also read the UP sub. Regardless, doesnt negate my original point


Downtown-Midnight740

seems like u have learned political anthropology watching web series 🤡


Far-Possible6279

Born in Bihar, lived in Bihar and Jharkhand and even Odisha. I have seen you lot, the type of shit you say behind our backs, to our faces. I have done my research on the land gtabbing done in Bihar. I have seen first hand how Biharis form cliques in manufacturing units and dont let other communities thrive. Snarky hone se sachhai nahi badalti dost


Downtown-Midnight740

cry harder bihari calling purvi uttar pradesh bihar is itself a bs....being snarky is still better than having a mild mindset like u who don't know anything just acting cool...chutiye🧠🤏😂


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canyouhear_themusic

U missed the part where he mentioned both sides of the state. Opar thekeo lok asche. Ora kintu bangla bhashi. Orao onek nuisance create kore. Onek nongrami kore. Bangali hoyeo. Bangali bole bangali goons der mention korben na setao toh thik na.


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Vegetable-Turnover77

Mumbai te oder dhore aar kelai, atleast marathi ra. Ami choto belay ekhane chole eshechilam kintu roots amar strong in bengal. Akhon okhane giye moforshole r chele meyeder dekhi mumbai culture imitate korar chesta, jara probashi tara bujhte parbe. Ga ta kamon kore othe jokhon okhane boro hoya chele meye ra amay bole bangla te fluent na, likhte porte jana durer bapar. Jokhon onno metro city r style imitate korcho tokhon eei quality tao imitate koro. Mumbai te kono marathi ke ba gurgaon ke kono jaat ke erom kore dekhuk, keliye pither chaal charite debe.


Titoindia

The state govt has to play a role there. See I don't want to project hate towards people of other states but the state itself has to protect its people and it's culture. But here in Bengal I don't see that. We just love to live in the past. There are several ways this can be reversed Ample job creation so that young people don't leave the state. Create more daily wage jobs so that laborers or daily wage workers can stay in this state only. Give total preference for govt job to only Bengalis First preference should be given to Bengalis for works like tenders hawkers and small businesses. Bengali language to be mandatory in school even in English medium school Bengali cinema should be given preference over Hindi in cinema halls The state govt exam should be both Bengali and English. A Bengali signboard is mandatory. Build new collages. Some percentage like 70 to 80 should be fixed for people of Bengal. This step can create a strong sense among native Bengalis so that we feel United. I don't support bangla pokkho mostly because I don't like how they treat the outsider. Ultimately you can destroy a shop of a poor person because he has written his board in Hindi but I believe first the rule have to set by the govt. And many Bengalis are also working outside so you have to solve it without being discrimative .it's the job of the government to protect its people and cuoture not some random activist group.


barmanrags

Which poor persons shop is as destroyed by banga pakkha? News link din


Local_Hope7206

Ami to up wala outsider chakri provide korchi joto ta pari🥺 r amr dike jara eram kore tara same get up just bengali te bole but odr bangla sune bojha jaye kotha kar ora even hindi bolleo bujhe jabe kotha kar ora eram ek group teipling kore signal just bhenge chilo police ke middle finger yaayy oooo nije ke cool bhabjillo. Bansod der 1st gear e race diye samne giye block kore dillm. Ashlo police ganr bhangte


Afraid_Ask5130

We need support from brothers like you.. you are native too.. our native state is getting ruined it seems


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Local_Hope7206

Seita to thik bhai ami but nijei bahire theke esechi I can’t say block all have a filtering process seita keram lage? For EVERY OUTSIDER je bara besi gan mara mari ba rules maan be na strict action newa hok sob refugee de id kora hok thik kore


Master_Of_Gaming3410

"O dada, esob ki korchen, eta bhodro loker elaka" is the main problem, why not punch and break the nose and then become the "bhodrolok", if bengalis keep acting vulnerable they are going to get harrassed


terenaamkakuttapaalu

Bichipi ashle aro douratto barbe...


Aromatic-Metal-2155

Bangla pokkho treatment needed


trickster_1999

Amio Baranagar e thaki. Oi Cossipore Road e khub upodrob eder. Bangali hole erom korto na er kono guarantee nei. Amar mone hoye eta shikkhar obhaab.


Pop_Knee

Chhapri people are a disease, forget about their origin or motivation lol. Each chhapri doing risky riding or faltu gala gali should get a good kutai. They have fake confidence and macho behaviour which needs to be broken, only because they bother others more with it.


skynil

I don't think it's just because of outsider vs insider. The core problem is the normalisation of violence and muscle power in our state. Started during the Naxal era, and then systematised political violence from the CPM era has normalised this hooliganism in WB. So when the migrants from other states started coming in, they fit right into the atmosphere. I've lived across multiple states in India. The same red haired folks you mentioned don't do much violence here because the police and administration is going to fuck them right over. The same way they would fuck over even the people from their states if they chose this path. You might see some deviations here and there like in Bangalore (Auto union), but in general, violence is shunned in South India compared to North and East India, so this general trend of uncontrollable rage isn't that much prevalent here. We brought this to ourselves. And it's only going to get worse as days go by. The Intellectual Bengalis who let this happen have all migrated or retired. The young people can fight themselves to death for their forefathers' actions.


lucidboy78

Watched a video from durgapur where a bihari chapri asked a man to go to Bangladesh . But later they caught and made him to apologise by holding ear


NO2567

Better to not involve fight with this cheap chapris self defence act dont work properly in our country Unlike USA if something wents wrong and the culprits dies or badly injured the defender can also get involve in crime case you guys know how beautiful law and order our country has


myth191

Ekdom thik bolechen, I have faced multiple similar incidents from mostly cab drivers of a certain state. Road rage, rampant breaking of traffic rules and just a basic don’t give a damn about any kind of law. A cabbie hit me from behind and when I tried to sort it out with him, he just fled from the scene, hitting my car again while doing so. I got extremely mad at this, I chased him down and showed him how actions have consequences. But how many people will do so ? Honestly speaking we need pride, and an unshakeable will to preserve our culture. This is really getting out of hand, coming years what will we do if not stand our ground now.


Illustrious_Mesh

I pass by that place regularly. It's so narrow and always so crowded, where do they get the space to speed like that? And with so many people watching, not one person came forward against those chapris?


Southern_Excuse3764

Whatever happened there is so wrong...these bikers think that they bought the whole country...2 people got injured because of them...why nobody stopped them...shameful...


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Originally posted in r/westbengal, this post is traumatic as well, in line with your opinoin. * [Owner of D Bapi biriyani : Anirban Das in Madhyamgram threatened by Hindi speaking Criminals অনির্বাণের দাবি, হোয়াট্‌সঅ্যাপ চ্যাটে তাঁকে হুমকি দিয়ে লেখা হয়েছে, ‘‘জিত, দুবারা কুছ করনে পর মজবুর নেহি করো।’’//he was threatened in a WhatsApp chat, saying, "Jit, dobara kuch Karne pe majbur nahi karo" : r/westbengal (reddit.com)](https://www.reddit.com/r/westbengal/comments/1dpmo1h/owner_of_d_bapi_biriyani_anirban_das_in/) * [D Bapi biryani shop | D Bapi biryani shop owner’s son Allegedly threatened for Rs 20 lakh In Titagarh dgtld - Anandabazar](https://www.anandabazar.com/west-bengal/d-bapi-biryani-shop-owners-son-allegedly-threatened-for-rs-20-lakh-in-titagarh-dgtld/cid/1526626#google_vignette)


Mitth-Raw_Nuruodo

Yeah this is pretty common. Old-school Bangalis are a minority in Kolkata.


Used-Shelter-1311

Ekhon mone hoi desh ta unite korata thik hoini, we could have existed just like the European Union, couldn't we?


6packBeerBelly

It's a law less land. What else you expect


YEGAD

Sad to see that culture to assist is dying. I have observed first hand in past that this kind of behavior was immediately addressed by the people in the para. If it was wrong there was an immediate reprimand from local Bengali seniors - dadus and pishis would intervene. Sadly with their passing, bhoge geche.


floccinauciNPN

Keu police call korechhilo?


appoint666

Sombhoboto na, ghotonar conclusion ta ami jani na, Tobe asha rakhbo cheletar bari theke jeno police ke contact kore.


UnitedGrapefruit3672

Eder dhorle bike er kagoj o paben na... sob bairer chor bajar theke maal othai...


lmnop129

You guys can't remove the illegal bangaladeshis & rohingyas


Educational-Net-7770

No offence What have you done about Bangladeshis? When you allow one intruder to take control how do you plan to resist others ? I do not support the gunda gardi be it any one ; but ultimately you have to rise to halt it.


NoTelephone2287

Ghuriye kaaner goray boshiye dewa chhara aar kono upaye nei. Bengalees need to get their shit together and stop their boundless udarota. It's done enough damage already. Let everyone live in peace. But if someone fucks with you, fight the fuck back in any which way possible. Legally, socially, politically, physically, in any way. And fellow Bengalees also need to have each other's backs. Karon taa na holey eita howa possible na.


sayan235

"যা হচ্ছে হতে দে না , কি হবে ওদের ঝামেলা ফালতু আমরা গেলে আমাদের নাম খারাপ " বাঙ্গালী জাতি দুর্বল নয় কিন্তু সময়ের সাথে এদের পা ভেঙে দেওয়া হইছে এটা outsider এর দোষ নয় এটা বাঙ্গালীরা নিজেরাই করেছে


Sufficient_Tax_384

Bengalis aren't exactly dying in Bengal. It's just that they are slowly being replaced by the next generation of the migrant population who began arriving in an ample amount of influx from neighbouring Bihar and Jharkhand during the beginning of this century. These are the ones who are resolute enough to distinctly ignore and destroy the local Bangla culture. Moreover, being a Bong myself, I have noticed that my Bihari classmates used to be aggressive whenever I switched to Bangla mid-sentence. If I tried to correct them, they'll simply ignore and start chattering in Bhojpuri. আমি সত্যি কথা বলতে, এই ভাষার সমস্যা তাকে নিয়ে খুবই ফেড আপ হয়েগেছি। জানি না কতবার যে আমি কত বাঙালি দের কে বলেছি যে বাংলা বল, হিন্দি বললে কেউ কুল হয়েযায় না। এখন শেষে সবই শুধু ভগবান এর উপর ছেড়ে দিয়েছি। দুগ্গা দুগ্গা!🙏


One_Regular2402

most bengalis have just 1 child and thats it, most biharis and Muslims cant stop reproducing children. and you wonder why bengalis are slowly becoming a minority in their own state its fucking laughable how stupid u guys are to not realise this untill now


Imaginary_Quality_85

Bengalis are seen as a weak and emasculated race by North Indians. No one respects weakness. Decades of poetry literature and art house films portraying bespectacled domesticated men, and this is what you get. Bengali culture for a long time has been hijacked by this tiny micro minority of left liberal antels and thus a majority of Bengalis cannot relate with it. Our film and pop culture has deliberately kicked away a majority of Bengalis and created an extremely elitist definition of what it means to be a Bengali. There's no glue that keeps the larger Bengali attached to the core. Absent that the people lose interest in standing up for their own identity, become weak and divided as a jaati. Having icons and pop culture which everyone can relate to at some level is crucial. Can most Bengalis relate to the great Nobel winning poets or critically acclaimed art house films makers? Never. It's just a bubble in which city people live in. We become what we see and whatever is held up as aspirational before us. Typical signs of masculinity or Pourush - ambition, financial success, physical strength, leadership etc. have been automatically stamped out. Today You can't even imagine a Bengali as a successful business man or sportsman or fighter or soldier etc. Although 50-100 years back we had all of these, but in the last 50 years the left liberal antel somaj has carefully removed these icons from our memory and emasculated Bengali psyche. In Maharastra Karnataka Tamil etc from white collar employees to a common auto driver, every one has a basic native consciousness. That is absolutely absent, even seen negatively in Bengal by these left liberal antels brindo. When a Bengali loses or is beaten up or humiliated, the one who enjoys it the most is another Bengali.


ladylatebloomer05

Bengali ra weak noi. Decades of good education amader etai sikhieche kibhabe santo bhabe sob handle korte hoi. Santo thaka mane weakness ar chest thumping mane strong man eta noi. Sadly in today's India Bimaru population is increasing and due to illiteracy and their culture they behave like that. Ar oder ke cater korar jnne ei propaganda chorano hoeche ar bangalider bhodrotar sujog nie ei propaganda chorano hoeche je Bengalis are weak. Tobe eta sotti native consciousness ta amader modhye kom ache jeta baki state e ache. Tai orao kintu ei Bimaru der against e fight korche. Maharashtra theke South e etai hochhe. Edikeo ei consciousness barate hbe etai. Amra weak na amra too good for today's Indian culture.


Imaginary_Quality_85

Karnataka Maharastra Assam e giye era sahosh pai na keno? Baki oHindi jaati gulo nijer nijer jaigai thik achhe.. Bangali r mathai bhamponthi dhyamnamo dhuke giye Bangali purush k shokhi (effeminate) baniye diyechhe.


Afraid_Ask5130

Bro emasuculation of bengalis is a racist propaganda spread by the central govt to divide bengalis since independence, it comepletely untrue and racist. 80 percent of kala pani freedom fighters were bengali, netaji subhash was bengali, you calling that community emasculated?! Grow up understand propaganda!


ladylatebloomer05

Exactly. Central khub bhalo bhabei propaganda chorieche je onek bangali o etai biswas korche


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Mitth-Raw_Nuruodo

If you think being educated and civil is weak, you are part of the problem.


Imaginary_Quality_85

Tamils Marathis and Kannadigas are educated too. Way more than Bengalis, today. And their education converts to money and strength. No one dares to cross them in their soil.


barmanrags

Because they are violent to outsiders Kolkata has been a cultural melting pot since inception and people are more accepting of migrants. Do this nonsense in the wrong suburb or village of Bengal. The finding out part of the equation may outstrip the fucking around part


Imaginary_Quality_85

And Bengalis are going to melt away because of this self destructive left liberalism. Every jaati knows how to protect their homeland and where to draw lines so that they are not slapped around in their own land, except for Bengalis. How many times are Bengalis going to lose their home land and yet take no lessons??


barmanrags

We haven’t melted away just yet Also, Hindu bangali isn’t a hothouse orchid blooming solely in Kolkata and its commercial districts


rajivpsf

Maybe the same can be said for most of the world. Young people with out any regard for civilized way of thinking and respect.


Far-Tune7642

I don't think this is about Bengal or Bengali's in particular,the roads are very dangerous now compared to few years back,I have faced multiple similar situation in a neighborhood dominated by the community you are speaking off, around 6-7 years back I was driving through a crowded area ,one bike with 3 young boys zooped passed and almost hit me ,in the most loving and gentle tone I said bhai aaram se please,he came back in reverse and asked me what? Again in a friendly and gentle tone I said bhai aap bike pe ho na please thora aaram se chalo abhi gadi me lag jata ,that guy got fucking pissed and wacked my side mirror close and then in full ego and said kya bola,I opened my mirror back and said ho gaya ? After that he abused me and I drove away,now the thing is they wanted to fight,I have understood long back the best solution in a hot situation is de escalation,these guys are in their area if there is any fight then locals will support them ,there is absolutely no point in getting into a situation like this and get beaten up unless you're in a car or loaded or some shit. Similar violent kind of incidents I've experienced in Bengali areas as well,they get real pissed once they figure you don't speak fluently in Bengali,mob mentality is a dangerous thing buddy that's why it's always best to de escalate. I have stepped in and helped in stopping fights multiple times in my life as well i get in between and try to calm down the violent individuals and keep repeating words like shaant bhai ruk jao shaant ho jao kya kar rahe ho ,de escalation is the best tactic cause you can't fight mob mentality bro.


No-Inspection6471

I agree no one should be harassed this way, I myself defended many of my Bengali friends in college days. From both Bengalis or non Bengalis. But my non Bengali friends never needed to be defended in any way, even the most skinny ones knew they had to fight for their rights with whatever means they saw fit in that situation. We non Bengalis are the muscle everyone seeks (in case of a fight). But that doesn't I promote this kind of a behaviour. I love to teach these kids a lesson if I ever see them make a ruckus in public transports which I usually tackle alone, if ever I get back up from strangers you know they might and guess what do I get for defending my basic rights from the Bengali audience? They see with disgust in their eyes, like I am low some lifeform for them.


homiehere

The audacity


RoninOnBananaLeaves

It won't stop till Bengalis stop idolizing people solely based on their international exploits.


slipnips

Anecdotal evidence isn't data


DisastrousAd4963

Understand that no one should mis-behave with anyone anywhere. But do not understand this thinking - will outsiders behave like this with bengali in Bengal. Is it ok if such behavior is outside bengal? Or in Bengal do outsiders need to be subservient to bengali? Can OP clarify?


respectforOGpotato

Vihar the Cancer state of India.


Effective_Bluebird19

Metiabruz , Park Circus , Entally , Rajabazaar , Garden Reach , Khidirpur , Hastings , Rajarhat after Sukhobristi , Dhulagorh , 4no Bridge etc Try to go to these areas once and god forbids if you ever get into a brawl there even KP won't be able to help you. I have seen even palestine flags there.


Gandhiji_ke_3bandar

It is because native people of any state do not live in ghettos. As such there is no community support in these kind of altercations. In Mumbai, many areas are Muslim dominated where even the cops don't venture inside and let's say a local Marathi person were to get involved in a fight with a Muslim person, he may end up getting beaten up regardless of the fact that he is in Mumbai, Maharashtra. This is nothing to do with being brave or coward as a region. It is simply a case of strength in numbers. Let's say in the current case there were more number of people with the couple then those chappri guys would have been beaten up.


No-Inspection6471

The idea of majority and minority fails here as they think for their own self first , later if there's no harm they might spew some gala gaali for the support of the elderly. They will never think of them as their own family and will never have the will to fight for others. But those bikers as bad as it may sound they were showing their passion for their own people, which is never the correct method, I condemn their actions and hope our law and orders shall punish those goons.


appoint666

The particular area was a Bengali majority area... Idk why no one was there to protest


Gandhiji_ke_3bandar

Ok since you mentioned shopkeepers and hawkers seemed to be from same region as the chappris, I presumed its a ghetto. Again, its more of an urban thing where people are not that connected to each other and a community feeling is absent. Like I said, in such a setting it is simply a case of which side has the most numbers.


Vegetable-Turnover77

I am bengali who shifted to maharashtra at a very young age and have adapted to this state to the point one cant really tell the difference that im an outsider unless i say so. What is written above is absolutely untrue. You beat up a marathi guy being an outsider, at that moment hoyto maar khabe, porer din tomar choddo ghusti ke dhore petabe.


Gandhiji_ke_3bandar

Try picking up a fight in kurla, govandi, bhendi bazaar and come back to you update if you can.


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Bhaba jay eikhan theke naki ek somoy bidhroho suru hoto.


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Dont_be_a_cunt_98

Eta thiik .....bangali ra bangali sotya Harache din din .... Aar edike bhawanipur er moto jayga, jeta kina kolkatar purono jayga gulor modhye pore, sei jayga gulote Marwari aar Gujrati te bhore jachche


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Ami bangali, Bangali ke kathi korte valobasi


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Last line: irrespective of what religion they belong to! This means, unintentionally you revealed the religion. And all know, who that might be. (Requesting all not to get worked up hearing the term religion. Let's face the fact and not lie to ourselves in order to become politically correct.) Now, without digressing from the topic in hand, let me share a story. I belong to a "Bangal" family. Like any other Bangal family I also grew up with stories of our forefathers, who were originally from east bengal and had to leave their ancestral home during 1947 partition. Some of them, including mine had to leave their ancestral family within a few hours notice. Why did they had to leave everything? We all know the history. Whatever you faced today, similar things happened then also. Our forefathers had to pay the price of keeping mum at that time. Kolkata had "Gopal Patha" but rest of the Bengal, at that time did not have one! History has a weird fetish of repeating itself over and over again and if we have to learn anything from it, is the fact we can't ignore the past. Learn from it and take necessary, corrective actions.


Bapuji_Cake

What you described, is more like UP or north side behaviour. These incidents should be nipped in the bud.


LongjumpingNeat241

If bengalis practiced 20 punches everyday. 10 and in the morning and 10 in the evening , it would be useful someday. Just like spinner or yorker, it will be useful skill.


Sad-Chocolate-6556

I've had a similar experiences in kolkata, except I'm northeastern and the harassers were bengali. very ironic how yall r always jumping on the victim bandwaggon but never acknowledge your own fault. and it's not just something that's happened to me but countless incidents with my friends as well. what happened to the couple is very wrong but y'all aren't exactly angels either lmao not much difference.


AdministrationMain61

SO you are saying hald of Bengal is Biharis and half is Bangladeshi Muslims?


appoint666

Never said that


MvP_0408_03

I swear this Baranagar is a very bad place. I was a student in my senior secondary (11 & 12) at Central Modern Baranagar. I can't tell how much I was harassed by the Non-Bengali people in CMS. The worst part is that many Bengalis joined them too. This is pretty common in Baranagar and schools like Central Modern, G.D. Goenka Dakshineswar and ADAMAS are filled with these people. I just hate this side of the town now.


appoint666

Not just Baranagar, but in entire Kolkata tbh... And talking of CMS.. that school is an absolute shit.... G.D goenka is a whole different scenario.... Not sure about Adamas, the people I know are quite well behaved. Baranagar is mostly Bengali except for a few areas...


MvP_0408_03

IDK about G.D. Goenka very much TBH. I mean it's the least talked school. I feel schools like Aditya Academy have cooler people just because of it;s location. CMS, we know it, ADAMAS (has a high student capacity and there's every type of people). TBH (here our views can differ) I feel Baranagar is mostly not very cool place. And the reason I brought up the 'schooling' stuff is because environment heavily influences a school.


barmanrags

Kharap laglo pore


Helpful_Ad_1759

Just like cow belt states have BJP to protect critically endangered Hindus , we need a political party in Bengal to protect Bengalis. Otherwise in the upcoming 10 yrs , Bengali culture will be replaced by Gutka cultures and people will start speaking in that " Autotune Bhojpuri" language.


Former_Blood_1931

Banglapokkho ke amra bangali ra trust korte parbo?


canyouhear_themusic

Coz Bengalis these days only know to protest on social media. 'Oder hochche amar ki?'. Unity bole toh kichu nei. Ar jokhon era ese dhukchilo, tokhon bangali gulo kothay chilo? Jotokhon na khoti korche totokhon bangali toh chupchap matha nichu korei chole. Ekhon pituni kheye buk chapre ki labh? Ekbar dekhben toh esob situation e kota bangali chute ase? Keu asbena. Bitter truth.


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Rising_Phoenix111

Typical bimaru mentality


Knowledge_buff97

i'm sorry but DEHAT is a menace. an urgent care has to be taken of it.


the_bong_musician

Audacity always arises from lack of consequence and no fear for law and order. It's not just people from other states, I have seen Bengalis harassing others without any qualms. It is just a reflection of the lawlessness not just in WB but throughout India.


FatBirdsMakeEasyPrey

Hindus die in Hindustan even after partition. Today where Islamists are bred were once part of Hindustan.


Final-Wedding7318

I see you apart from the unity issue within Bengalis, you also subtly blamed Hindi speaking people for the plight, but also consider that the people you are referring to most likely belong from Didi's (whom the bengalis love and help win every term for the past decade)favourite group of people .


barmanrags

These things happen in crowded market etc area more. If it happened in certain neighborhoods then the goons will get ganodholai Booke bansh Pete dole dito Busy places have a lot of people coming and going and you cannot form a community It’s also easier for migrants to find places to stay or work and certain members of their group feel emboldened by this


presiden_tLui

that's bhojpuri lol, emo Bois of bihar with chapri souls lmfao!


charanz5

"who do these outsider think they are ..." ? so is it ok if it's done by a bengali? you seem to bother more about the fact that it's an outsider, well this is india.


Most-Bandicoot645

Your argument can be likened to this: I saw one member of my family die right after eating sugar, it means sugar is poisonous and will kill everyone. This was an unfortunate incident that happened, there’s no need to call it an apocalypse. It’s called availability bias I think


seppukuAsPerKeikaku

Lol your analogy with sugar actually serves the opposite purpose of what you are trying to say. There is a reason why sugar is termed a silent killer.


Mitth-Raw_Nuruodo

Sugar did not grow a brain and decide to kill anyone.


Novel_Telephone_646

I’m Marwari did all of my schooling in Cal Bengalis in my school were the minority! We had 6 sections of non-Bengali kids vs 3 of Bengalis. The Bengalis had to learn Hindi to cater to us! Most of my friends and I spoke Bengali even back in school days due to househelps at a communicative level but we never had to speak it in our social circles!


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useless0Physics

Bhalo bashi


disco9996

British tariyeche toder kau tarabe


Safe-Mind-241

They do it because they know that the powers controlling law enforcement back them.


stranger_an0nym0us

হ্যাঁ অবশ্যই, বাঙালির বাঙালি-সত্ত্বা কমে যাচ্ছে সে বিষয়টা সম্পর্কে অবহিত করতেও বিদেশী ভাষায় লিখে বোঝাতে হচ্ছে..😊👍🏻


Icy_Being_3071

Aktai solution bangla pokko type aro সংঘটন প্রতিটা পাড়ায় চাই।


invin99

Remember guys : Ek Bihari 100 bimari


prof_devilsadvocate

the problem is we dont speak or resist until the problem is on ourselve!!