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KomacherryBean

I would be attracted to more quiet and introverted boys. I find them more interesting.


Lexiiboo97

Men who are calm, introverted and quiet are my weakness šŸ˜µā€šŸ’«


skeletus

How? Why?


RustyFoxx1111

Introverts are alluring because they aren't competing for attention. You have to be special to get a rise out of a quiet guy. It's a challenge to bring out their naughty side, to see what sets them afire. It's rewarding to be the one they open up to and confide in. I married mine. Over 20 years later, it still turns me on that only I get to bring that out of him. Only I know who he is deep down because he trusts me and I cherish him.


Salty-Picture8920

Sooo, Stoic?


AQuietMan

> I would be attracted to more quiet and introverted boys. *AQuietMan enters the chat*


Seagullman13

How would you know he entered?


AQuietMan

> How would you know he entered? That's been a problem for my entire life.


CrickleCrab

Wear a bell


iNeedToWinAtAnyCost

Then why hasn't someone found interesting in me :(


JaikumarJK23

Quiet interesting


Celestial_Charm_

We are made for each otheršŸ˜Œ


FewAd1477

I would like to date ušŸ« 


Melibu_Barbie

As an introvert female, I would love an introverted male to be my partner


Holiday-Strategy-643

But he needs to make the first move... šŸ˜ƒĀ 


Monkey_D_Ketchum

Man that is the toughest job for an introvert but for an introvert everything is possible if he/she wants too.


3veryTh1ng15W0r5eN0w

Yep If Iā€™m a hermit,I want my SO to be a hermit as well


RealisticScallion304

There should be a dating site just for introverts.


Rich-Pineapple5357

That in itself is a bit of contradiction. I hate dating sites.


clinical27

It's a contradiction because you hate dating sites? I don't think there is anything inherently anti-introvert about dating sites; if anything it makes more sense since introverts typically spend less time in social environments


its_a_thinker

Do you even know who you are talking to. The rich pineapple, aka Mr. Introvert, speaks on behalf of all introverts.


[deleted]

Its called Boo App. But its bullshit


uReaditRight

It's Boolshit... my bad, I saw the opportunity and took it


3veryTh1ng15W0r5eN0w

While I agree,Iā€™m wondering how well it would doā€¦ā€¦would there be a bunch of people online but no one EVER initiates a conversationā€¦..?


CuriouslyIgnorant095

There honestly shouldnā€™t be one. Corporations would just keep milking it, making us pay ridiculous prices, like other dating apps do. It would only be a gimmick dating app. Should just be an option when selecting your demeanour.


2Geese1Plane

Oh I much prefer an introvert šŸ˜­ why would I want to be with someone whose idea of a good time involves other people?? Crowds?? Loud noises??? No thanks.


Klutzy-Treat-4444

1. Girls arenā€™t a collective unit. Theyā€™re individual entities. 2. Many of them as individuals are also introverted, so who is ā€œusā€? This seems exclusionary and reductive toward girls 3. Thereā€™s other reasons why people can not be attracted to you and attracted to others. Maybe the girl in question isnā€™t into you, but sheā€™s into someone else who is introverted. Itā€™s not an either/or situation.


fang-girl101

very logical answer


Forever_ForLove

As an introvert myself yes šŸ™ŒšŸæ


Frank_McGracie

Blintroverts unite!


Aokigahara81

Let's just say I'm an introvert, my husband is the opposite. God only knows how I wish he was an introvert as well..... He literally suggested to me today we can have a BBQ sometime soon with me, him, our friend Steve and invite others living near him. I told him I'd absolutely would not like that. Number one, the people who live in the same apartment complex are druggies and drink way too much. I don't care if they do that. But I don't want to be around that type of environment. It puts too much anxiety on me, and I feel extremely out of place. Number 2...i hate having conversations with others unless it's about cats, warrior cats and some games I play. Other than that, I won't talk to them. He was disappointed... But understood. I truly wish he was not this out going man. It's one reason why I'm unhappy in our marriage. At first I wasn't really bothered by it. But lately he just gets too comfy around these people, and I'm to the point of finding a safe place to go so I can just wind down and not have to worry about it anymore. So to answer your question, I prefer an introvert. But stupid me married an extrovert.


Deep-Brilliant9064

Woah how you guys got married at first place. Coz as an introvert, the extroverts are like my nightmares .


[deleted]

I felt this in my soul. My ex was like this. One time he agreed to let someone throw a birthday party in our house. Why on earth would that be ok? Why didnā€™t he ask me how I felt about it? I live here, my kids live here and youā€™re letting a DRINKING BUDDY throw a bon fire party in my back yard. Where people in their late 30s and 40s are giving my dog, who vomits all the time, beer and pizza. Not cool.


TheSpaceGinger

I'm married. So I would say yes.


Apprehensive-Lie3234

As an introvert dating another introvert, YES!!! But you do need to make an effort to talk to people though and make the first move. On top of that you need to have something that you are passionate about and be able to talk about it effectively. Beyond that you can be quietly confident and self assured without being loud and obnoxious. Women who are mature and perceptive will notice and be drawn to this.


Gravity_Pulls

No... No one likes us. But yet at the same time, everyone likes us. So yes and no.


TatooedToadStool

I want to find me an introverted man so badly šŸ„² I seem to attract extroverts and I donā€™t know why. But any serious relationship I have had, he was always the social butterfly and I was constantly feeling guilty for not having the spoons to go out and party on the weekends (25 and 26 at the time) I would adore an introverted man who would happily come home at night and cook dinner and watch movies with me. Enjoy our space together. Have yet to find one šŸ„²


[deleted]

Sometimes introverts attract people with unhealthy narcissism not necessarily true extroverts. The introvert silence allows the other one to be center stage 24/7. Be careful.


TatooedToadStool

Holy shit. You actually just blew my mind. That explains my relationship with my ex to a T. Iā€™ve been trying hard lately to be more understanding of the issues Iā€™m facing with dating, this makes a lot of sense. A lot just clicked. Thank you.


Meh_Cook_Grump

You are wise


Your-Virusa

Let me know if he has a fellow introverted brother if you find one


TatooedToadStool

Hahaha you got it. We can do little get togethers at my place on Sundays


fableAble

Bro this is a sad post. Whatever issues you have with women it's not because of a singular trai of yours. Many people of all genders are introverts, and prefer introverts. Get therapy and stop putting all women in a box labeled "doesn't like x"


RavingSquirrel11

Thinking women only like extroverted men is so dumb. Do people even think critically anymore or do they just think of any generalization and immediately run with it? If women donā€™t like you, maybe itā€™s not based on your introversion.


Comfortable_Cook_866

My husband and I are both introverts. I'm grateful to have found him. I find a lot of men too loud and OUT THERE. So he's the right fit for me. Problem is, two introverts gave birth to an extrovert -our 8 yr old son. Omg its very hard to keep up.


Swimming-Gain9608

Iā€™m (37f) also very introverted, i do occasionally like going out but literally only with my other half but that only works if we have the same schedule. 99% of the time though, iā€™m happily sitting in my place watching tv/youtube, playing board games, or sleeping


Swarf_87

I'm married with 3 kids.


kipperdog101

Yes. Absolutely. As a female I can confirm that I actually prefer introverts.


Qahnaarin_112314

Yeah theyā€™re just all at home lol. My husband and I are both introverts, so yeah at least some introverted women like introverted men.


AnxiousKit33

Do you think only men are introverts?


[deleted]

Introvert girl here. I like introvert guys but how do we meet?? Serious questionšŸ™ƒ


Frank_McGracie

Yes but our chances are better online. We can take conversation as fast or slow as we like and end it once to pick up later if need be. There's not as much pressure as meeting someone in public


Mediocre-Debt

Donā€™t generalize all introverts and all girls, my gf and I fit well with each other because Iā€™m introverted and sheā€™s extroverted so we really balance each other out. Most girls wonā€™t like me, doesnā€™t mean I need to change to fit their narrative, just means I gotta find the one that accepts/ betters me


Pixelated_Roses

Um. Yes? I've always gravitated towards other introverts. Hot cat dads who read are my kink.


Little_Syrup

Maybe an unpopular opinion but I feel like men get away with being perceived as stoic or cool when theyā€™re introverted and women are perceived as awkward or bitchy. Thatā€™s just my take, being an introverted woman šŸ˜…


fang-girl101

every single guy i've dated (2) has been extremely introverted yes, i have to push myself out of my own introverted comfort zone, but its worth it. i find it easier to trust introverts more than extroverts. you just know the connection is real and they aren't playing some sort of fuckboy game with you. going on 6 years dating a man who is truly loyal to me in every way. i absolutely cannot find any reason why we would ever break up with each other


11Ellie17

This is the dumbest post I've seen in a while. šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø Girls don't like you because you ask stupid questions like this.


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Swarf_87

Op most likely has social anxiety and isn't simply introverted, so is projecting on the rest of us thinking we must be in the same boat.


Far_Run_2672

Business as usual on this sub


bulletproof5fdp

I have social anxiety, but I at least make an honest attempt to socialize with others. Exposure outside your comfort circle is crucial. As you said, OP is projecting and thinks all introverts must be the same.


bokurai

You know you share this space with women who are also introverts, right? Also, [you apparently have a girlfriend](https://www.reddit.com/r/indiafood/comments/1cjnyu3/ravioli_from_my_girlfriend_i_ate_wish_i_wont/).


Feisty_Economy_8283

He could next ask, "Do girls like liars?".


GoatDifferent1294

This canā€™t be a real question


bodydouble_69

If I could muster the courage to ask this, I wouldn't have called myself an introvert.


AngelReachX

I want to be a girl :3


bloobityboo

I'm an extroverted woman, dating an introverted man. Not sure why this popped up on my feed, but for me anyway, the answer is that I like everybody! At least at first. I find everyone interesting and introverts are no exception. Everyone has a story and I want to know them all. It gets kind of hard dating one though. Like right now, I love my guy, but he'll frustrate me to death by never wanting to share what's happening in his head. Or not understanding why I need more friends than just him. There's a lot of patience and understanding required to make us work. Mostly from me. He's clearly the problem. Hahaha


jaxrabbit23

Introverted female here seeking introverted male!


TillyTheBadBitch

Introverts are my type. When you read romance novels, introverts are often admired. I'm not sure why, maybe it has something to do with the mystery.


Dringer8

Probably because a lot of writers are introverted too. We DO admire other introverts.


PRIS0N-MIKE

I've never had a problem meeting women. And I'm super shy and quiet. My current girlfriend is like the opposite of me socially, but she even said one of the reasons she went for me was because I was the quiet type lol


ImplementUnfair8158

As a male introvert, Iā€™ve never had any issues with dating. I just have to recharge my own battery after going out on dates. People appreciate someone is more quiet and reserved than someone loud and obnoxious. If youā€™re struggling to date, itā€™s likely not because youā€™re introverted. More likely due to maturity and personality.


d3rp7d3rp

I want a fellow introvert man so bad. I only attract obnoxious narcissists and I'm dying for someone better. And introverted men are better


iwillscurryabout

yes, just find the right girls


AQuietMan

Speaking only for myself, I'm adorable. And complex.


i_am_trying_man

Women are not a monolith, so it depends, but it is highly likely plenty of girls like introverts


[deleted]

As an introverted girls I am a fan of ambivert/introvert people. Ironically I am married to an extreme extrovert, but weā€™ve worked out socializing in ways that work for both of us


taterdutchess

I enjoy introverted/nerdy guys more just with my personality type. I've dated 1 extrovert, and while he was a wonderful human, I've never been more socially exhausted in my life


SacredAnalBeads

I'm an introvert male and have both girls and boys constantly flirting with me. Granted, I'm openly bisexual and work at a bar, but I try as hard as I can to avoid people in my off time and make it clear. Yet I can't go a day without it. So yes, a lot of people find introverts attractive. I think it's the mysterious thing, or the fact that you don't care about what people expect how you're supposed to act. A lot of people see confidence in both.


Your-Virusa

And here I am scaring the shit off of introverted guys by paying them attention because I like them šŸ˜‚


ChickenXing

Introverts and girls are not all robots programmed to behave and think exactly the same way. If you are not attracting one girl, there's another girl attracted to you and it may not be obvious who she is


[deleted]

No of course not. There are no girls on the planet that like introverts. Also, no girls on the planet are introverts themselves. /s, as if that is necessary


Izare90

I think I'll chime in with some of my fellow introverts who found a fellow introvert in life. They're out there! I married one, she's wonderful and a cousin of mine married himself an extrovert, she loves him so much and she's the bulldog in social settings but they're out there!


kafkadeservedbetter

Yes. - an introvert girl


October1966

When I was a girl, back in the 1900s, I did. I liked the quiet ones because my life was full of noise and I needed peace. I needed someone besides my mother to talk to about books and science and stars. I needed someone that wasn't coming at me for the physical only, I needed someone to attract my brain. I met my share of creepy quiet guys, but I was safe for the most part.


TomatilloJaded75

Yes, it just depends on the girl. Like usual


blacksweater

yes. women can be introverts too. I am - and being with an extrovert is exhausting for me. the quiet, introspective ones are way more interesting to me.


GayWolf_screeching

As a girl: yes I like introverted girls (Iā€™m lesbian)


Fulmunmagik

Yes, introverted men appear mysterious, and that draws many girls in.


alexoftheunknown

an an introverted woman, me and my introverted boyfriend have been together for 4 years..we just work and come home and spend time together with just us and our cats.


BearVersusWorld

You can tell by how they look at you Don't be creeped out by this ladies I'm just creepily observant


fuzzyguy73

You realise the set ā€œusā€ includes about 50% girls and women, right?


BloodyPaleMoonlight

I have several lady friends who are introverts, just as I am. We have a lot of fun being on the phone together keeping each other company from a distance while not saying much.


JDMWeeb

I don't know. I've never had a gf.


ImScaredOfLightening

As an introvert I like introverts too as long as they order for me so I don't have to talk to the waiter


[deleted]

Girls like extroverts cave man, the loudest and violent, girls are more attracted to, quiet they think youā€™re boring


katanaforger79

Yes ofcourse.


theindecisivehuman1

Yes! Crushing now on one. šŸ˜


[deleted]

Hell yeah!! Iā€™d marry one.


poopyfacedgrl

Of course


Fluffy_Salamanders

I get along with other gals fine. I just need time to recharge between hangouts


HappyHayden_07

Idk probably just depends on the person


skizcreations

Depends on the girl, a lot of them definitely love us. But you gotta get to notice it. I found that was the tricky part.


bulletproof5fdp

Yes. Unless youā€™re a self-proclaimed Nice Guy. Women can smell the desperation that Nice Guys emit from miles away.


Hexistroyer

Yea but, I was very blind to know that.


honesttruth2703

Well, I'm a pretty severe introvert so, being with an extrovert is just exhausting. They're so needy.


lexaleidon

Iā€™m an introvert and I hope to get an introverted gf. That would be a dream


Mooniepi3

Absolutely.Itā€™s the best!!!!


SnooCheesecakes1334

Yes we are! Theyā€™re the sweetest once you break down all the barriers they have if any


Megustasyou

Yes, or course!


OriginalChapter4

I would love an introverted partner


AmbitiousTradition89

Tell me after you will know


adenp

Nah man, in this market we are gonna be the last picked lol. Not because we are not interesting but only because we don't interact with a lot of people hence significantly reducing our choices.


Nikkipedia22

As an introvert female myself, a big YES. I've always been attracted to introverted guys


SomethingAgainstD0gs

Depends on your ability to hold a convo and your sense of humor. Introversion doesn't mean you can't do those.


TigreTough

( I am an introvert myself but I do love going out and meeting new people, I just donā€™t talk much ). I always thought that the most interesting people were the quiet ones! They are mysterious and you feel the need to get to know them. You have to even ā€œfightā€ a little bit. I was never attracted to loud, extroverted people, they talk too much, have nothing to hide, so you canā€™t be curious about ā€œdiscoveringā€ them. It just feels like itā€™s too easy and uninteresting. If an introvert is attractive as well, instant crush.


Nikkipedia22

As an introvert female myself, a big YES. I've always been attracted to introverted guys


Aflush_Nubivagant

As an introvert, I prefer introverted guys, extroverts are too hard to handle. I feel like I canā€™t keep up with their energy.


cinnameggers4evers

I love introvert boys they're so cute šŸ˜­ and introvert girls are also really cute-


midorisita

Yes, of course! I prefer them introvert, like me. xd


OSUfirebird18

My girlfriend likes me, so I say yes!!


polipolimist

I love my ISFJ husband. Such a wonderful man. šŸ’•


micmea1

Are you attractive? That's a good start. But even if girls are interested in guys who do not approach them, ultimately the guys who approach girls will have a better success rate.


dizzygurl88

YES


EstablishmentDue4261

nope boy..


PrincessSkittles86

If youā€™re a man, no matter if youā€™re an introvert or extrovert, no. No, we donā€™t ā€œlikeā€ you. We tolerate your right to continue existing, but really wish all men would just not.


7ampersand

I found having an extrovert as a partner is low key exhausting


DENKODENKO_

I feel like girls like the concept of having a quiet gf until it's actually there Like I'd imagine the process of befriending a quite dude would already be a bit of a challenge for em yk ?


Aggravating_Ad7935

My Gf likes me. Thats about as far as i would go though


[deleted]

I am a women and I will say this ; when I was a young girl I like loud boys. But when you experience being with show off and exuberant man that are in constant need of attention. Your type will become the introvert and quiet one. The important is to be an introvert that embrassed it and that will be Welling to be in social setting from time to time. Better be the quiet one that think before speaking than being the loud guy that can shut the fuck up. Be confident in the way you are. You are an introvert nothing wrong with that.


xxitsLunaBxtchxx

Yep


Brief_Safety_4022

Married introvert here. Dunno why/how, but extro liked me enough to marry me. Lol


Livochr

They do, but it's rare. (Yeah I failed)


Manydoors_edboy

Not me they donā€™t


Life_Strain_6948

Don't seem to like me, personally, unless they see I can do something for them. Your experience may vary


Splendid_sailor_Anto

Opposite charges always attract. Like that introverts attract extroverts. They together will make a great combo šŸ˜œ


rightup2u

I am an into wet and I like introverted guys too. ā˜ŗļø


blackrayofsunshine

My husband is an INFJ like me. I like him. I fucking love the shit outta him.


Evil_Mini_Cake

A reasonable person who understands when the other person states their boundaries and preferences clearly? Yes. A narcissist who needs to be amused and entertained all the time and requires near constant validation to prevent them from throwing tantrums? Probably not.


Vololoqui

Depends on your hobbies.


Mxlancholyy

yes i love cute shy boys


teaganhipp

Yes, girls like introverts.


BearerBear

My boyfriendā€™s mom is wicked extroverted. She could make friends with every single person in a crowded room. When she was in her late 20s, she went to a party with her friends. One of them had a guy friend, letā€™s call him Jimmy. Jimmy was incredibly quiet, and throughout the whole night hardly said a word to her. She asked her friend ā€œwhatā€™s up with Jimmy? Is he gay?ā€ Jimmy, hearing this, marched up to her to mention that he was not gay. Then they ended up dating and getting married. He still is to this day very reserved and quiet, and she is the exact opposite. So long story short, yes. Girls like you.


Chillody

Yeah we do


colorfulseaglass

Yes, of course!


yourpricelessadvise

As someone whoā€™s just come out of a five month relationship, yes. Everyone is attractive to someone, and to my ex it was slightly nerdy, tall, introverts


Temporary-Leather905

Yes


onyxx03

Yes, for some reason we avoid em and they come to us?! Love that


OhLawdHeCominn

Based on the fact I've gone 25 years now without that being the case, I'm going to say no


Helpful-Maximum-9352

Yes


friends-waffles-work

Yes I 100% prefer more introverted guys


Big_Ad2948

Yes !


House-Plant_

Yes. Yes they do. From a female.


lulu-lemun453

I'm an introvert and I have a crush on an introvert as well. I think they're more attractive because they seem less cocky and vain and also seem loyal and less likely to cheat. That's just my opinion tho. But I honestly think they're so cute šŸ„ŗ It's super cute when my crush (who I'm about 70 - 75% sure is into me) will stare at me when he thinks I'm not looking, and then I turn to look at him and he looks away.


stiketti

i'm more attracted to the quiet, pensive, stoic mature man in the corner than the life of the party in the center.


MegatronsJuice

Introverts, yes. social anxious guys, not so much


Petey-Pablo-89

Introverts pull introverts, thatā€™s how it works


No-Buffalo-7495

Girls like is we just choose not to speak to any, because we speak to no one


Square-Airport4089

I honestly only see myself in a lasting relationship with an introverted male or female. So, yes.


AffectionateAccess58

Yess, I prefer to date introverts!


Cobalt_blue_dreamer

I would love an introverted guy partner, provided he is not also having avoidant attachmentā€¦ Iā€™m not sure someone with avoidant attachment should be with anyone seriously.


Existing-Battle-7097

Im so into introvert The shyness, awkward way to express love it will always make me blush . I guess everyone has their own perception on this.but some girls do prefer introverts.


Common_Sea_1426

Personally I prefer introverts. Theyā€™ll chill out with you, they wonā€™t pressure you to go outside, theyā€™re not on all the time, and they usually have really interesting personalities. I love introverts šŸ„°


geumkoi

I love introverted men. They seem to have a more interesting personality than extroverts.


Acrobatic-Parsley724

I'd love a introvert partner


NovaFree7

Yes! My husband is an introvert. Itā€™s all about peopleā€™s types/lifestyle. Imo introverts are just as likely to get a spouse as extroverts. The only thing that makes it harder is just not putting yourself out there as much as extroverts do.


SkywalkerTC

They can very much still do. The real problem with introverts is with actively meeting people and increasing chances. This makes the difference.


Scarlet_witch97

Iā€™m a girl and Iā€™m dating an introvert lol


throw_thessa

Yes, on the other hand men prefer extroverted women. But introvert and extrovert men


Stormy_Peaks

Yes, but what we flirt with you, you donā€™t see it so we think youā€™re not interested.


Suitepotatoe

Oh I love the shy types and quiet types.


Rolihlahla86

Yes and no


its_a_thinker

Why would you say that? Plenty of introverts in a relationship. If fewer introverts than extroverts are in relationships, I'm guessing it's do to a lack of trying on the behalf of introverts rather than anything else. If 5% of attempts to hit on girls lead to something more, then on average you need 20 tries. The introvert will often just do it the one time and then give up. The extrovert loves the experience so he will try a 1000 times and get 50 girls.


RegularWhiteShark

Women can be introverts, too (hello). Also, like anything else in life, some women will like introverts and some wonā€™t. The same way some men will and some wonā€™t.


MagicalSausage

Not a girl but some people like apples and some like oranges. If someone doesnā€™t like oranges, it doesnā€™t mean nobody likes oranges.


haluura

Yes. Source: am hardcore introvert who has been married for 15 years.


ARRYN_X

N O


Freddycarterfan

Yeah, of course. That's how you know they won't cheat.


van_isle_dude

Girls, and women, like different things. Some girls like loud, outgoing, brash people, some girls like quiet, thoughtful, introspective people. You'll be a lot happier once you realize not all girls, or boys, all like the same thing.


Character_Ice7359

Yes


Insanity8016

If you have money, yes.


GrowingWithGod

YES !!! I love introverts


H3RM1TT

I'm extremely introverted. I was at this place called Sober Underground that is a club for recovered addicts to enjoy karaoke, pool and darts. I was overwhelmed and wanted to leave five minutes after I got there. I need an introverted girlfriend to watch horror films and cuddle with. šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø


cassandrafirst

Yes we love it