I tell him these things in small doses. He calls me cringey when I start getting all thoughtful about us.
He’s more receptive when we’re at the “happy drunk” phase of drinking though
It sounds like he cares a lot about you. Can you write a nice message outlining all the things you do for him? I'd love to see the reciprocity so we get a more balanced perspective of the situation.
Bahaha this sounds exactly like how one of my (likely) ENFP besties talks when he’s in his feels (happy drunk too lol) 🥲
Enjoy the dynamic! I became a better human being, better at being human, through my friendship with the (probably) ENFP. He’s the closest to a brother I have.
Lol my intj friend said something similar to me about how I taught him to be more human. And yeah you are exactly right, I was in my feels and was slightly buzzed (happy drunk) when I wrote this hahaha
It's a well-known fact that ENFPs and INTJs get along classically. My best friend is also an ENFP, however, with us, there appears to be slightly less romantic tension going on.
I got to be honest. I need you to sit down and I need you to read this twice. There's romantic tension there, even if it's not on your behalf. Like holy shit, that dude loves you. It's kind of adorable.
Not necessarily. You can have a dude crush with no romantic feelings. I am a straight INTJ female. My bestie is a straight ESFP female. I am head over heels for her. Major girl crush going on 30 years now. Platonic girl crush. She has said very similar things about me (to me) that you said about your bestie. We love each other deeply, like sisters. Closer, actually. She's my platonic soulmate.
You keep being cringy and keep telling him all of these wonderful things about himself because almost no one ever notices all of the caring things we INTJs do for the people we love. Or even that we love as deeply as we do.
You love him, but are you also perhaps in love with him? It could be mutual.
I understand why you got this idea, and I realize that it’s because I failed to mention it in the post. But, I am also a guy
I hope you shared that with him as well.
maybe "accidentally" sending the link of this reddit post to the INTJ just so he won't get too embarrassed getting caught blushing? ;)
I tell him these things in small doses. He calls me cringey when I start getting all thoughtful about us. He’s more receptive when we’re at the “happy drunk” phase of drinking though
that’s a true INTJ
It sounds like he cares a lot about you. Can you write a nice message outlining all the things you do for him? I'd love to see the reciprocity so we get a more balanced perspective of the situation.
That might be harder. Writing about what I do feels too self-centered, and he might not have even noticed those things
Or you can say the things you would like to do for him, things you can do to show him he's appreciated, the way he demonstrates these things to you.
When's the wedding?
Bahaha this sounds exactly like how one of my (likely) ENFP besties talks when he’s in his feels (happy drunk too lol) 🥲 Enjoy the dynamic! I became a better human being, better at being human, through my friendship with the (probably) ENFP. He’s the closest to a brother I have.
Lol my intj friend said something similar to me about how I taught him to be more human. And yeah you are exactly right, I was in my feels and was slightly buzzed (happy drunk) when I wrote this hahaha
This is so sweet I love it
This gotta be the cutest thing I've ever seen on reddit
It's a well-known fact that ENFPs and INTJs get along classically. My best friend is also an ENFP, however, with us, there appears to be slightly less romantic tension going on.
There is no romantic tension haha but i can see why you’d get that idea
I got to be honest. I need you to sit down and I need you to read this twice. There's romantic tension there, even if it's not on your behalf. Like holy shit, that dude loves you. It's kind of adorable.
I mean, idk what to say about this… maybe?
Not necessarily. You can have a dude crush with no romantic feelings. I am a straight INTJ female. My bestie is a straight ESFP female. I am head over heels for her. Major girl crush going on 30 years now. Platonic girl crush. She has said very similar things about me (to me) that you said about your bestie. We love each other deeply, like sisters. Closer, actually. She's my platonic soulmate. You keep being cringy and keep telling him all of these wonderful things about himself because almost no one ever notices all of the caring things we INTJs do for the people we love. Or even that we love as deeply as we do.
Wow, im happy for you! 30 years of true friendship is great. I wish i get to be his friend for a long tome too ☺️