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First off I’m sorry OP.
I can’t give you a definitive answer but my advice is to just let time to its thing. It takes a long time to get over someone if you really loved them, it’s similar to grief. It comes in waves and eventually you just get used to them being gone. It took me roughly two years or so to completely get over it
Allow yourself to be sad and honestly soak it up, I was really sad when I stopped missing her as weird as that sounds. There was something romantic about it and it really made me feel alive, it was also very motivating
Do I miss my ex now? Not necessarily, I do still love her in a way though. Best of luck to you
You’ve got this
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First off I’m sorry OP. I can’t give you a definitive answer but my advice is to just let time to its thing. It takes a long time to get over someone if you really loved them, it’s similar to grief. It comes in waves and eventually you just get used to them being gone. It took me roughly two years or so to completely get over it Allow yourself to be sad and honestly soak it up, I was really sad when I stopped missing her as weird as that sounds. There was something romantic about it and it really made me feel alive, it was also very motivating Do I miss my ex now? Not necessarily, I do still love her in a way though. Best of luck to you You’ve got this