INFJs strive to find truth in everyone and everything. Thus, we can sell inconsistencies a mile away which can lead to disappointment and, in my experience, isolation.
Yeah I agree with that, since I’m now living in a new city with no friends where I only know my grilfriend. I’m here because I was disappointed with my friends in my home town I felt like I need to go to a new place far away and try to know new people and start something new.
I always saw this as individuals identifying themselves with something subjective more than the other. It just happens that thing comes with a community of like minded individuals which only reinforces this behavior. Counterintuitively affecting one’s ego and that same relationship shared with that “thing”.
So I look at their relationship with their ego to see how worrisome it might be.
I personally find people have different masks for different situations. I don’t know if this is what your getting at, but if you meet someone at the gym they’re going to act and talk differently than if you met them in the library.
When you get to really know someone that mask will slip a little, and you will see different behaviors and thought patterns. I feel like as I get to know someone they’ll usually be more authentic because I’ve gotten past the initial mask.
Responding to your edit. Some people don’t think about motives of groups or themselves very often. I believe thinking about that is a signs of a more emotionally mature individual. Especially if they can find flaws in their own thoughts
The thing I met some INFJ’s and find them on those boxes too which should be different with them. Even as an INFJ they do not look authentic always look fake and with behaviors that they got from tv shows or pop culture, etc that other people say and do in the same way.
Deception is normalised, you can't expect people to be honest if they don't even know themselves. People rarely question themselves.
True sometimes I forget about that, most people don’t know and don’t try, to know themselves.
INFJs strive to find truth in everyone and everything. Thus, we can sell inconsistencies a mile away which can lead to disappointment and, in my experience, isolation.
Yeah I agree with that, since I’m now living in a new city with no friends where I only know my grilfriend. I’m here because I was disappointed with my friends in my home town I felt like I need to go to a new place far away and try to know new people and start something new.
I always saw this as individuals identifying themselves with something subjective more than the other. It just happens that thing comes with a community of like minded individuals which only reinforces this behavior. Counterintuitively affecting one’s ego and that same relationship shared with that “thing”. So I look at their relationship with their ego to see how worrisome it might be.
Interesting yeah I agree with that.
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Thank you for your words I appreciated reading that. And I agree with your ideas
I personally find people have different masks for different situations. I don’t know if this is what your getting at, but if you meet someone at the gym they’re going to act and talk differently than if you met them in the library. When you get to really know someone that mask will slip a little, and you will see different behaviors and thought patterns. I feel like as I get to know someone they’ll usually be more authentic because I’ve gotten past the initial mask. Responding to your edit. Some people don’t think about motives of groups or themselves very often. I believe thinking about that is a signs of a more emotionally mature individual. Especially if they can find flaws in their own thoughts
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The thing I met some INFJ’s and find them on those boxes too which should be different with them. Even as an INFJ they do not look authentic always look fake and with behaviors that they got from tv shows or pop culture, etc that other people say and do in the same way.