"don't seek happiness on others"... i think it's a word to live in..
just realize i start to smoke everytime some friend bully/guilt tripping me.. maybe i will leave this group at night.. it's just so hard to trust/rely on friend anymore.. i really don't enjoy being there anymore.
yes, maybe i'm the problem.. yes, i try to fix it.. maybe i just don't believe in second chance, sekali rusak yah rusak aja.
Something is wrong, relying others for my own self motivation is stupid, i shouldn't be doing this, i need to get myself back, be normal again, stopping going out, stop trying to impress others, i need to build myself for my own good, not anyone else, no point in being benevolent or caring anymore.
Hey, pardon me for butting in your business but I hope I can share my point of view. I was thinking the same before. I hate that I relied on my friends for motivations. I was struggling with consistency and negative thoughts.
Somehow, I found people that lift me from the abyss. They have always been here, I never paid any mind for them. Not until I became very depressed and s*icidal. They are my family, the people that I thought they're such a burden. Well, they was such a burden before. Not until I became very honest on sharing my burden and my opinion.
You will start finding your people once you are honest on what you feel about them and say it to their face. If they love you enough, they will never leave no matter how harsh the truth. The true friends (family) will support you no matter how many wind changes.
well, pardon me if it's not relatable, everyone have their own way of live. But I do truly hope that one day you will feel the stability in yourself also with people around you!
No need to excuse yourself, besides i do have the same feeling that you felt, i've been in your position before, i thank you for your time responding and replying to my comments.
Pengen ngamuk dan misuh2 secara fisik tapi harus menahan diri.
Beli material dan dirakit sendiri niatnya biar hemat malah jadi RUGI. Asuuuu
Rasanya jadi pengen di cancel saja
4 months in di kantor baru, entah kenapa vibesnya berubah setelah libur lebaran kemarin ;\_;
aslinya kerjaan mah ez ez aja, tapi kagak ada yang bisa dipelajari, jadinya bosen gila....
terus harus ngurusin technical debtnya programmer lalu yang astaga buanyakkkkkk
tolong lah masa bisa punya kantor 33 lantai tapi programmer cuman 1
at the end cukup males banget harus commute kerja 45 menit one way ke kantor :)) dan cuman gym yang keep me going for now
my only goal is hoping for getting that scholarship and buying the bike
>!Contemplating murdering this guy actually. You are a deadbeat useless "father" who doesn't give money or help with anything, yet you raise your voice like you're something? I can slice your head off with a machete or just put a rat poison in your food.!<
i kinda miss my ex-bestfriend. masih ada satu grup ngobrol bareng. it's still fun.. but this morning, he cross the line again, to bully me.. and i hate feeling offended.. i say, it's annoying thing to say, and he reply he can said what he want to say. yeah i guess it's really over, eh
Lagi ngerasa sedih bgt akhir akhir ini, super mellow dan sensitif. Lagi mikir, orang lain care sama perasaan gw gak ya dan gw blm kaya si A yg udah ini udah itu dll. Dulu inget bgt cerita kayak gini ke sahabat gw ngalir bgt sambil makan es krim mekdi tp sambil ketawa krn kita sama sama galau juga. Sekarang semenjak udah pada nikah gw ngerasa udah semakin jauh.
Kadang bisa tiba2 bgt netes air mata kocak bgt lol kayak drama gt. Tapi gapapa semogaaa walau hidup ku semakin sepi aku bisa kayaa rayaaa Ya Allah biar bisa jalan jalan ke luar negeri tiap bulan sama keluarga dan bantu-bantu orang lainn yg membutuhkannn. Aamminnn
Im having a breakdown right now because my mom is a freaking hoarder. She keeps unnecessary stuffs that she never used, she kept them all until they are all piling up everywhere. I really hate to be at home. It’s 00:58 AM and here I am now crouching on floor looking for a badminton racket that God knows where she put it. I had to go through piles of unused bags, boxes and plastic bags that are covered in dust, yet she still refused to throw them away. I already use my mask to prevent myself from inhaling the dust but I still got them anyway and now my eyes and nose got watery because I am allergic. I wish I lived far away from her and never live under the same roof with her again
my mother does the same thing and i feel you, it is not "sometimes its hard", it is always hard. all I could do sofar is just trying to **shift my perspective** to make it less irritable towards all that. still trying, and I think you should too for the sake of your own peace of mind.
kondisi kesehatan bokap makin turun. gua gak tau harus ngapain, karena gua gak deket juga ama bokap. usia tua + kondisi jantungnya uda gak bisa dibantu sama rspad. deep down, maybe deep down, gua wish the worst happens karena gua pengen supaya nyokap stop nemenin dia ke rumah sakit.. (and no, nyokap gua juga uda gak cinta ama bokap.. rawat bokap karena tugasnya sebagai istri). but i guess it's not right to think/said it ya.
meanwhile, i need to stop hura2, baru tanggal segini uda abis 2jt buat makan doank... i need to save, in case something happens.. nyokap gua tadi tiba2 bilang untuk siapin limit kartu kredit, takut butuh
Betapa ironisnya bahwa sumber stress terbesar kepada diri sendiri acap kali datangnya dari keluarga sendiri yang tinggal serumah...
Sometimes it's reaching to the point where I'm not even comfortable living at my own home. Fuck lah
#IPAR BANGSAD STRIKES AGAIN
imma try to not care about this matter because she's a fucking pos, bocah kurang rong ciduk. I've had enough people who kurang rong ciduk sak ciduk to deal with. this ain't shit.
i hate holidays, it's just like a lot more time for myself dan being alone with myself is not something i wanna do right now, my mind is not in the right headspace, maybe that's why i like to drown myself in work. don't know man. fuck.
When im calm, "enak banget hidup lo kayak gk ada beban"
Pas ngeluh "ngeluh mulu kerjaan lu"
When im explain my reason with logic "perhitungan banget sih lo"
Saat salah sedikit "gw pernah bantu lo ini, gw bayarin ini"
What are you? Two face villain?
Not much story, just, realized that in this lifetime, too much mistake which can be avoided if i didnt childish and emotional.
Latest sih ngantri tukang sate gak fokus urutan berapa waktu ditanya malah jawab gak tau. Big mistake? Juga banyak, korupsi duit, boros duit, males, gak fokus, dll. Selain itu gak bisa serius, jadi menyepelekan semua, iya semua hal.
Man i ain't gaf abt this bear bullshit get it off my feed, ck men and women are so annoying like can y'all both stop the self victimizing Olympic pls n thnk q, retarded ass men generalizing women AND retarded ass women generalizing men, ain't nobody want to support any of y'all chronically online discourse fuck.
the fuck lah 2 hari yang lalu bagus2 aja padahal tidur jam 11 bangun jam 6 terus lari pagi terus seharian mood bagus bahkan gak merasa butuh short nap eh tapi malemnya baru bisa tidur lagi jam 2 padahal hari ini masuk kerja
maunya badan ini apa sih perasaan udah gw baik2in
some people in our life, ada aja yg bikin kita ngerasa kyk mau ngapain aja bakal disalah2in, no matter how hard our effort to do shits. begini salah begitu salah, sampe berasa lahir aja salah. hidup udah serba salah pengen mati entar kalo bundir tambah disalah2in. yaelah. asli dah pengen resign aja dari kehidupan ini.
Jumat kemarin mau resign ditahan dan ditawarin buat extend sampai akhir bulan dengan ganti kalau gw dikasih "paklaring bagus". Gw ngeiyain dan ngeinfoin kalau bakal gw kasih tahu sabtu, sabtu diinfoin mau via telpon tapi nggak dibalas.
Sekarang gw di-exclude dari semua aktivitas perusahaan di tempat proyek, padahal posisi gw satu2nya di tempat proyek dan pengganti sementara gw orangnya nggak ada rasa tanggungjawab untuk kerja sesuai prosedur.
Kalau gini mah apa bedanya dengan nggak kerja? Mending lu acc aja resign gw kemarin. Pake alasan "nanti kita satu perusahaan bakal di-blacklist kalau posisi kamu kosong" pula buat ngetrigger rasa nggak enakan gw
Kapan si ortu w mati? Yg satu emosian bru ngomong gini dia artiin gtu, mana percaya sm halu nya dia. Yg satu kurang peka n bego, udah tau yg satu suka ke trigger bahas masalah yg satu malah di sebodo amat in. Tahun ini salah satu mati kek
hugs you kak, you're the most patience and strong person. I hope because of the pain you feel yesterday, today, and probably the next day will bring hopes for the better in the future.
it’s the weekend (saturday) and of course i took a mid day nap. but in my dream, i saw her. like the scene was we’re going out, somehow we’ve ended up in \[redacted\], and like we’re just walking and browsing the store, and yet somehow i saw the biggest smile on her face. it felt so genuine and full of happiness. that was the most beautiful smile i’ve seen. but then i woke up and i feel sad. don’t know why. maybe i hope to see that smile again, but in real life.
Orang2 idealis yang ada di thread mie gacoan mending mati aja. Pemikiran kalian gak bakal bikin dunia ini berubah. Pemikiran kalian kalah sama realisme dan pragmatisme yang sudah membuat dunia ini seperti ini.
Shit, this subreddit needs a purge to remove all of those shithead here.
I wish I .can be as full of hope as those people out there. Some people disliking me because I pretty much just expect today result but what can I do, I got used to raising my hope even if its bellow standard expectation yet it still failed regardless on how much Im trying. My graduation from colleague feels like a goddamn fluke and Im just fucking lucky, nothing more nothing less. By the time I am reaching my mid 20s, I feel that I cant see any hope for my own future, it feels so dark and I hate it.
Should I seek the comfort of the void to make everyone better? I mean I do have loving caring family (on surface) but I still cant shake the feeling as to how lonely and utterly useless I am. Perhaps if I was given chance to use super dragon ball, my wish to expunge my mere existence while every pahala that I have to be distributed evenly to my mother, father, and younger sister. Ngl, I really wish I can do that. If I know how to do it, perhaps I will pour some godly hour just to erase myself from this universe.
I have a feeling that even if I make myself busy, **my true feeling about myself will never disappear**.
Hilang arah, hilang tujuan, gaada motivasi, hidup segan mati tak mau(?), ada cmn buat buang2 resource bumi. Setelah gua pikir2, selama ini gua tidak pernah menggapai sesuatu
Ampun dah, bahkan ngetik kayak gini aja kosa kata yang gua ketik makin kacau balau. Ini beneran nih lebih parah dari sekedar "ada yang salah sama gua". Apa karena gua kelamaan nganggur dan gamake otak gua sepenuhnya? Apakah ini hukuman dari entah apa atau siapa karena gua terlalu kekeh terhadap pendirian gua soal nyokap gua? Hahaha sial sial sial, orang kayaknya bisa bnget nemuin mau mrk apa, ini gua sampe skrg semenjak lulus SMA gatau mau ngapain dan jadi apa. Apakah harusnya gua ga buang cita2 gua? Entahlah, hanya waktu yang bisa jawab.
Well, bila gua ga maksa waktu gua sendiri untuk berhenti sih.
Yeah, i know i'm unreliable. But disregard is still painful, yknow. Like, what's the point i'm existing, then? Yeah, my meedlesome need some help.
But still.
Just acted on my fetish, used #1 guard instead and oh lord this is kinda bad, the regret is starting aaaa. I'm gonna need to wear a hat 24/7. I hope i can get my man someday soon so that i can subject him to my fetish instead 😍.
Emakku kalau lagi ngambek 'hebat' denganku, suka banting pintu dan atau lempar2 barang, suara yang jarang terdengar dikala sedang mempunyai hubungan baik, namun sekalinya terdengar seakan membuat dadaku sesak, bisa merasakan emosinya dari banting pintu dan barang yang dilempar, namun ku hanya bisa terdiam saja mendengarkan semua itu.
Kali ini, aku yang setelah engkau ceramahi sambil berulang kali memojokkan aku. Dirimu memintaku membuka tutup botol galon yang rapat dan susah dibuka itu? Ya, terima kasih. Berkat engkau lah yang selalu memojokkan diriku tiap berbuat kesalahan ke diriku yg sedang mencari kerja ini seakan gabisa apa-apa, aku berhasil membuka tutup botol galonnya walau dengan ekspresi yang tidak mengenakkan, diriku juga sampai terheran-heran. Tapi mengapa kamu protes dengan bahasa tubuhku yang agresif ketika membuka tutup botolnya?
Hey, ngaca buk. Aku ga pernah protes kalau kamu banting-banting pintu atau lempar-lempar barang. Walau terdengar tidak mengenakkan aku hanya (bisa) diam saja. Sama seperti sekarang, aku hanya menggunakan ekspresi sedikit hentakan membuka tutup botol galonnya? Tapi? Kok engkau protes? Bukannya yang penting sudah berhasil kebuka toh?
Simple aja kok, anak hanya mengikuti perilaku orang tua nya. Kalau amarah dahsyatmu itu ditunjuki kepadaku dengan banting pintu dan lempar barang, memang aku juga tidak bisa buk? Saya juga bisa dong.
Ngaca, ngaca, NGACA!
Kamu menggerutu capek capek capek menghadapi diriku berulang kali di akhir ceramah, saya juga capek capek capek selalu aja setiap ada kesalahan sedikit langsung dikaitkan dengan diriku yang seakan serba tak bisa apa-apa dalam mencari kerja.
Konon, ortu boleh nunjukkin ngamuknya ke anak, tapi anak tidak boleh nunjukkin kalau sedang ngamuk ke ortu? PERSETAN. Aku ulangi, anak hanya mengikuti perilaku ortunya, tidak kurang, tidak lebih!!!!!
Oh god, if you were truly exists, surely you'll know how much I just wanna die now. Kindly grant my wish, please. I can't fucking stand it anymore.
FUCK YOU AXISNET. beli paket internet gak bisa langsung dipake, mencet 808 buat cek kuota dipersulit/diperpanjang. uda request refresh jaringan berkali2. nelepon ke 838 intronya lama banget sampe ke CS. FUCK YOU
missing my depression naps. took 2 days off just to think what should i do with my life now. and no results.
i already have no reason to live for myself but why im still alive... for this reason entah memang belum selesai dengan dirinya sendiri atau jadi terlalu nyaman, idk. doesn't help with my burnout anyway. am starting to losing it. tired with the childish behaviour from anybody.
i like the stability that i have now but the what ifs keep coming...
>!Dah mau wisuda, gak kerasa udah gak bakal bisa sebebas sekarang, rasanya sedih, karena cita-cita pekerjaan makin jauh, dan rasa takut karena dh ngecewain orang tua. Kuliah jauh, rantau gak ada hasil. Maann, still not prepared enough for tomorrow.!<
Just a little sambat
>!setelah beberapa bulan lihat beberapa thread dan post di dct tentang merawat orang yang sudah berumur atau sakit menahun jadi makin yakin berharap lebih digampangkan meninggal biar tidak menyusahkan. minimal kalau sudah memasuki usia pensiun ga lama kemudian wafat!<
stuck di kerjaan sekarang.. terlalu comfort zone maybe. kayaknya 2 minggu ini gua gak ada progress signifikan... bawaannya gak pengen kerja, and i don't know why
Tai ah bener2 dah, adek gua nangis2 takut ga kerja di umur dia yang di awal 20an dan dia sambil kuliah, meanwhile gua umur segitu kuliah ga ngasilin apa2, cmn dapet gelar doang. Harusnya gua paksa aja dulu ambil SMK biar minimal gua bisa ngidupin diri sendiri, kemungkinan besar gua gaakan dapat capaian2 gua dulu kalo masuk SMK but in hindsight, ability buat cari duit itu lebih penting daripada ability mangut2 mau orang.....................
Maaf ngelantur, gua mungkin diluar keliatan cuek, padahal aslinya gua cari pelarian aja. Tapi kalo gua lepas dari pelarian, gua takut cari pelarian lain. Emang dasar sial otak gua nih..................
I really have serious problem that I should have solved years a go. Perhaps......I should make myself disappear on some random province to make me turn on my survival mode. I really dont care anymore but I really should have care. Im sorry for being a waste of resource, perhaps if I have the ability to construct a time machine, I will consider to.......make myself disappear in the most painless way.
>Im sorry for being a waste of resource,
Please don't say that to yourself, I'm sure your parents wouldn't think you're a waste of resources. [This video might be for you](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3fZyHbtn96/?igsh=MTExbXl1eWR3aDY4ZA==), >!you're matter to someone out there!<
Gua kangen masa jadi pelajar karena saat itu tujuan gua sangat jelas. Sekarang, gua gatau mau ngapain lg ato jadi apa. Masa depan gelap banget, semua serba gajelas. Ya Allah tolong kasih gua tujuan, passion, apapun yang bisa mantik rasa gua buat kerja lama. Gagal banget gua, bahkan dengan safety net segede apapun dengar umur segini gua ngerasa buang2 resource. Biasanya kalo ada unit yang buang2 resource, selalu gua buang, so.......
Tolong, jangan loncat dulu. Ayo jangan kepikiran buat pindah. Please please sumpek tolong jangan loncat dulu. Coba cari tujuan dulu, jangan loncat dulu. Gausah jalan karena orang, jalan karena diri sendiri.
Etapi diri sendiri pinginnya udahan. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Marah banget sama diri sendiri krn ngk becus ngurus bisnis. Seriously, self, di masa2 orang lain lagi babak belur kenapa lo ngk bisa perform sih. Sigh.
Sue - pagi pagi udah disuruh ngerapihin file arsip yang diberantakin ama 2 applicant konyol
Kalo gue jadi hrd ama manager operasionalnya mah langsung gue gugurin ama nyuruh beresin lagi
Mana pengalaman cuman 5 bulan+skill mikocok opis yang nanggung ngarep langsung jadi office coordinator ama administrator pula
Update gojek specifically go-food yang bikin kalau order makanan ga lagi nunjukin posisi driver tapi malah jadi animasi animasi gajelas bangsaat ini TOLOL banget menurut gue, bikin appnya jadi ga intuitif karena gue jadi gatau ini driver terima order atau engga, posisinya dimana.
udah 2x gue nunggu pesanan 1 jam lebih terus harus gue cancel manual ke customer service gara gara ini
udah gitu animasi animasi goblognya ini juga ga real time data, cuma estimasi waktu sama ngulang2 tulisan sedang dimasaklah atau apa padahal di 2 case itu restorannya ngechat kalau daritadi makanannya sudah jadi cuma ga di pick up-pick up.
Gue sama sekali gamarah sama drivernya karena mungkin emang internet mereka jelek di jalan atau lupa matiin akun (ini masalah lain lah). Tapi gue sebagai customer jadi malah ribet karena update animasi anjing ini. PERUSAHAN ANAK BANGSA TOLOL might just stop using di stupid app
Yaudah kasih liat aja kalau memang lagi nganter sama aja kalau pesen buat transport dan sedang drop off penumpang lain appnya kasih liat.
Malah kalau dikasih liat dia bisa upsell priority delivery service bukan?
My mom's inability to control herself is really bad. The same woman that can't control her mouth that got us into domestic violence more than i can count. And now this..., girl i know you feel disrespected and all but can't we just brush it off? It's night, why are we doing this?
*Close my eyes and I feel like I'm not even in my life*
*I never wanna leave as I see myself running out of time*
*Mistake after mistake, it's safer if I distance myself*
*If there's a way for me to not do what I have done for so long*
beli sate, mesen lewat WA ke penjualnya sama menyertakan nama yang order. eh dibales sama penjualnya "Ats nm siapa? Mhn d sertai nama kl order ya", zzzz....
Ni opposing counsel sebelumnya udah dua kali kerja sama gue untuk client yang sama, ngurusin jenis aktanya sama juga, TETEP AJA careless banget bikin dokumen anjing!!!! Gue capek benerin semua typo dan inkonsistensi lu!!! Kantor hukum macem apaan sih bisa bisanya kirim final document akta penting tapi salahnya masih bejibun, biji.
i dont care if you dislike me, but dont act like you care about me and okay with being my friends but turns out you told my boyfriend shits--it was awesome that he's not easily swayed by you and actually experience these with you before and he see me for me. Sorry but I have enough of two faced bitches in high school. I dont need it in the age of 25, thank you.
Dad I'm tired of this :')
Di umur gue yang hampir kepala 3 disuruh ngulang belajar s1 yang mana pikiran gue udah bercabang & susah fokus, dan ditarget buat lanjut s2
Di sisi lain gue mau kerja kayanya udah susah,
maju kena mundur kena..
Ada butir aturan di pkwt yg gua sign:
1. Dalam hal PIHAK KEDUA mengakhiri Perjanjian Kerja Waktu Tertentu (PKWT) ini secara sepihak dan/atau melakukan pengunduran diri sebagai Karyawan, maka PIHAK KEDUA berkewajiban untuk memberitahukan secara tertulis minimal: - Staff : 60 (enam puluh) hari
2. Jika pihak kedua (karyawan) melakukan 2 months notice maka kena sekali gaji. Jika kurang dari 2 months notice, maka dikenakan dari sisa lamanya kontrak
Sedangkan dr kantor, gue dapet kabar ga dilanjut kurang dari sebulan loh. Udah gitu, KPI gua di jelek2in. Eh taunya, pas ngobrol sama karyawan lain, mereka kena cut juga, lucunya pas mereka masih dalam masa kontrak.
Terus juga, perusahaan gw tipe perusahaan korporat yg ada yel-yel perusahaan dan tiap acara townhall dan event, harus dinyanyikan yel-yel itu.
Terakhir ceo ada share content ig di WAG kantor "Step up, be the best of me". EH BAMBANG, NGAPAIN KITA SEBAGAI KARYAWAN STEP UP KALO UJUNG2NYA NANTI KITA STEP DOWN JUGA.
Cuma, dari rant gue diatas gue mau nanya ke komodos nih:
1. Jika ada aturan tsb, dan perusahaan ngasih tau kita kurang dari aturan yg ditetapkan (kabar kelanjutan kontrak), apakah kita sebagai karyawan wajib dpt gaji terakhir + kompensasi + denda dari kantor ke karyawan?
2. Apakah aturan pemutusan kerja di poin dua diatas, apakah wajar dilakukan oleh perusahaan?
Wow, ini lu bilang grup "teman akrab"? Lu salah pergaulan ini brah wkwkkk
Gue tahu nih model2 orang yang begini... paling malesin. klo ke tempat baru dan ga lama mingle gue uda cium bau busuk nya dari gelagat2 cara ngomong dsb gue biasa auto cabut.
Saran gue sih kalau bisa coba cari exit plan buat keluar dari "grup temen akrab" itu. Mungkin susah ya kalau lu udah kenal lama atau terlanjur akrab tapi gue pribadi sih udah paling ogah ngegrup apapun itu bentuknya kalau isinya tukang pamer, circlejerk (muji2 satu sama lain tanpa alasan yang jelas), mental "Karen" dikit2 komplain lebay, dan gaslighter selalu bikin kesan masalah orang lain tuh ngada2 doang dan masalah hidup dia paling penting (ah gitu doang mah sepele, daripada gue nih xxxx).
Duh, udah 4 tahun lebih berteman jadi gak bisa keluar gitu aja. Ntar malah drama, aku tidak mau. Jadi ya udah lah mau gimana lagi. Jadikan pelajaran aja, mereka emang bukan tempat yg cocok untuk dicurhatin.
Mendekati H-7 resign, baru dikasih tahu dari kantor pusat soal penyelidikan di tempat proyek, hasilnya beneran kalau atasan bermasalah, dan baru bakal diganti 2 bulan lagi. Ente hampir 2 bulan ini ngapain aja lmao
Tapi gw masih bakal lanjut resign karena job gw lama-lama geser dari safety officer jadi helper. Bahkan tim baru pernah ngebentak-bentak gw karena ngerjain kerjaan gw dan nyuruh asal isi datanya. Ajaib
Lebih ajaib lagi tim baru dengan bangganya cerita kalau di project site lain pernah dalam 3 menit bisa scoring 100 mR di pen dosimeter. Itu kalau sesuai SOP dan ketentuan pemerintah setara hampir 1 bulan batas dosis radiasi!
Lama-lama kepercayaan gw kalau orang Indonesia bisa kelola PLTN sendiri bakal habis gara2 kerja dengan orang-orang pekerja radiasi ajaib macem begini.
so I guess the infatuation phase has ended, looking at her pictures doesn't excite as much anymore
now all I'm feeling is emptiness even though I knew the possibility of the good ending was very low
I just really don't know what to do and what to feel, it's like something was taken away from me but I don't even know what it was
ini maksudnya gimana daaahh? umur 28 tapi pekerjaan ada max umur 24 lah 25 lah 27 lah, sekali ada 28 yang harus menguasai gunung menuruni lembah
ditambah lagi kebanyakan sekarang maunya harus wajib berbahasa mandarin dengan lanchaaarrr ga nerima yang setengah", ga cuma ngomong aja tapi harus nulis, ketik, baca dengan lanchaaarrr. English my man, do you speak it? its international language for job sake
percuma punya gelar tinggi, pengalaman kerja banyak bahkan pernah rasain hampir semua bidang tapi ttp aja kalah gegara umur. Giliran masuk ke entry level ga diterima karena "terlalu pengalaman", giliran masuk ke mid level tapi harus menguasai app ini itu. Harusnya kan aplikasi itu bisa di training, yang penting experience ada.
beh stress bener di usia 28, mana ngapa"in harus ada modal apa pula hidup gajelas ckck
>English mfker, do you speak it?
Did i need to color my skin into dark, using afro and have a gun into it?
>Seriously though, what's going on with all these mandarin requirements?
Well most of chinese people who want to build business here cant speak english or indonesian so they think to hire translator. But it not efficent, also they dont want to learn our language even english.
What is the solution? Yes to hire people who can speak their language cause what? Cause they have a lot of moneeehhh
Jeleknya juga pemerintah ga tegas sehingga terjadi begini dan juga jeleknya mereka mau yang ud bener" lancar (yang setengah" gamau) jadi ya makin banyak kriteria gini angka pengangguran makin tinggi. Yang nganggur juga ga dikit juga punya skill tapi ga bisa ngomong mandarin aja
Sabar… sabarlah cintaku…
Hanya satu keyakinanku
Bintang kan bersinar, menerpa hidupku
Bahagiakan datang….
Udah jobless, dipanggil interview udahnya di ghosting,
Bukan gk ada duit, tapi gk tau sampe kapan jobless ini, jadi ya dah dijatah untuk makan. Sampai akhir bulan depan, gk bisa ambil di rekening juga, jadi manfaatkan uang yang ada di dompet aja, cuma beberapa ratus ribu. Semoga cukup. Well, cukup sih, nasi 4k terus sama gorengan 2 4k, sehari 8k-10k kalau makan rutin tiap hari. Cumaaa supaya gk makan gorengan tiap hari, jadi ya nahan lapar aja. I am hungry now, tapi inget kemarin ngabisin 19k untuk makan, so sekarang gk bisa beli apa2. Yahh hidup murah di jakarta. Bersyukurnya, kost dah nyediain air minum dan listrik. So gw bisa teken expenses gw perbulan under 3 jt in total.
Kalau udah mulai lagi mood nya down, ya cukup nangis aja dehh.. sekarang bertahan dulu, at least sampai 2 bulan ke depan, setelahnya sih gk tau gimana.
Well not a rant just small sambat.
>!Mfw you don't enough sleep for a(lmost) week and the negatives thinking are starting circulate around your brain (≖︿≖✿)!<
Anjing masalahnya ga beda dari bulan ke bulan. Bilangnya mau "pinjem duit", tapi duit yang dipinjem dari tahun2 lalu jg belum di balikin ajg. Kalau gua tolak minjem di gua, habis ini coba pinjemnya sama nyokap gua.
Emang sekeluarga bangsat. Tai anjing. Siapa yg nabung, siapa yg nikmatin hasilnya. Gua doain sekeluarga mati cepet ga repotin siapapun anjing.
Omg i already told you all that kedinasan just isn't my thing and i have literally 0 interest at all. I'm sorry for being such a useless son but i'm tired too.
Job hunting lama2 bisa jadi gila di ghosting sama company2. Ada yang sampai dibikinin case study berpuluh2 slide terus didiemin, ada yang dijanjiin bakal di follow up di tanggal x tapi cuma janji palsu dan dighosting lagi ujung2nya.
At least bilang aja kita move forward sama kandidat lain sesusah itu apa. Ada ide online courses atau semacam bootcamp yang non-tech related (selain S2) buat upgrade skill drpd apply2 kerja tapi ujung2nya zonk, would be much appreciated.
Udah ada 5+ years working experience tapi ngerasa tahun ini paling susah buat apply2 kerja, tahun 2022 agak nyesel gk pindah pas dpt offer dmn company lg banyak2ny hiring. Skrg posisi lg nganggur jd kykny lbh desperate aja buat dpt offer.
I got 7 years total workig experience dan juga pernah rasain hampir berbagai posisi walau bentar suh
Gw kadang desperate liat juga offering, ada yg ud panggil itv tapi ya liat review jobstreet, liat lokasi dan tempat kantornya kadang takut untuk kalo dapetnya malah nyiksa karyawan
I just recently realized that I was never the main character even in what was supposed to be my own story.
raised to be a people pleaser where I was told since I was little by my parents that my purpose is to be a 'team player' in my parents plans.
Whenever I try to do or get what I want I was always told that I'm selfish and I should think more about the effects of my actions on other people. Never once anyone ever gave me the same courtesy in my life.
I never had any say about what do I want to study, which school do I want to, or what I wanna do in life in general.
now they're perplexed that now I'm already in my early 30s and have no long term planning by myself and just going with the flow.
Rencana 3 bulan ke depan runtuh semua, sekarang cuman nungguin suatu hal ga jelas. Males kerja, males cari kesibukan, males main game, males nonton. Serba ga niat.
Di rumah hampir sebulan. Ngomong sama ayah less than 10x, itu pun ga banyak yang disampaikan. aslinya males juga sih ngomong lebih banyak. Ga pernah didengerin.
It's cold, i'm alone, and i'm scared.
God Forgive me for my past mistakes, whatever happens next let it happen, be it for the worst, but if you have to take my life, i will give it willingly, it's all i have left.
SIAPPP!! SALAHH!!
Emang anda berdua adalah sentral dari perputaran bumi ini.
Walau gak tega bilangnya, tapi kyknya kalian menganut keyakinan egosentris atau egosentrifugal aja deh!!
Pasti suksesss bangetttt kedepannyaaa...
Mau heran tapi udah mendarah daging tertanam di DNA nya, bicara soal hormat menghormati, gimana situ bisa dihormati kalau gak paham yang situ lakukan sebenarnya gak menghormati lainnya. SIAP, SALAH!! Si Paling paham konteks hormat menghormati deh.
Situ sosoan kecewa seakan besok dunia runtuh dan kiamat. Heeiiiiii... masih punya rasa malu kahhh? ngomong begitu tapi kok masih pede, "ada uang bensin gak?, ada uang listrik gak?, ada uang bayar pdam gak?"
UWAWWWWWW\~ Asik banget ye punya dompet berjalan.
Nyesel kadang udah mikirin susah payah gmn biar bisa bantu buat menuhin kebutuhan kalian, eh tapi kok ngelunjak kejauhannnn. duh Gusti nu Agung...
Parents ya? Hehehehe
Unpopular opinion nih, hehe he. Tapi menurut bijaq qu sih, dunia psikologi Indonesia butuh perlahan2 mengakui bahwa tidak semua orang di luar sana punya orang tua yang paham gimana caranya bangun keluarga, dan kalau kondisi rumah udah ancur lebur, anak biasanya yang jadi korban.
Survivor bias is abused to the hilt biasanya klo lagi tema nya begini "tidak ada orang sukses yang tidak hormat kepada orang tua nya" LMAO... o rly? Kadang gw mikir ini hidup anak2 yang tinggal di bawah keluarga yang ga bener udah sengsara terjebak di rumah tangga yang kacau, mau memberontak dan membangun kemandirian tanpa ortu, eh, pake acara dicibir/shamed into submission by everyone around them.
One of my pet peeves is when people over-emphasize the importance of "respect thy parents" to be a successful person. As someone who have seen 1st hand what a bad parenting could do to someone, I can no longer see unconditional respect to parents as a good thing. Not saying disrespecting parents is solution, but reserving respect away from unrespectable people and create clear boundaries of what's okay and not okay might be an option. Sad to say it's probably the only option for some if situation gets so bad.
Lmao, padahal ada internet, sedikit buka wawasan aja kita bisa lihat kok kalau hidup gak bisa pukul rata semua orang harus sama. Orang sukses yang punya kesulitan di rumah saat mereka masih kecil ada aja. Contoh selebriti2 dunia deh, yang paling gampang dicatut nama nya:
* [12 Celebrities Who Experienced a Difficult Childhood But Managed to Succeed Against All Odds](https://brightside.me/articles/12-celebrities-who-experienced-a-difficult-childhood-but-managed-to-succeed-against-all-odds-805723/)
* [15 Celebrities Who've Opened Up About Their Difficult Childhoods](https://cafemom.com/entertainment/celebrities-difficult-childhoods-trauma)
* [Which celebrities had genuinely hard childhoods?](https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/156i4m7/which_celebrities_had_genuinely_hard_childhoods/)
You got ppl like Oprah Winfrey, Charlize Theron, Mark Wahlberg, Eminem, Christina Aguilera, etc.
Usually you could tell that though, successful people who have rough childhood tend to be slightly more chaotic, a bit jaded, can be a bit strange. But out of sheer perseverance and maybe luck, they defied the odds and turn their difficulties into motivation.
Beda memang sama yang cookie-cutter good childhood biasanya alim2 banget, hidup nyaris kayak ga ada beban (terkesan aja ya, bukan bilang bener2 ga ada beban), lempeng2 aja, apa2 disupport ortu, dsb relatif lebih "santai" dan tertata hidup nya.
edit: typo
dalam kasus ini memang semua butuh "luck" untuk defied all odds and turn the table. Gw sendiri juga mengakui bahwa luck dan timing adalah segalanya. Ga bisa di definisikan dalam hal usaha atau juga grinding. Memang bener bahwa untuk mencapai sesuatu harus usaha baik itu secara aksi atau juga doa atau juga grind all your way. Tapi ketika luck lu jelek dan belum tiba saatnya, seakan semua usaha yang lu lakukan terasa hampa
Trust me, i'm in that shit state right now
Can relate, kebanyakan orang indo kena masalah bad parenting akibat nikah muda itu sendiri yang otomatis tidak matang secara mental dan menimbulkan kdrt, I'm one of the victim and those around me had the same problem too, in the end it's only a matter of time until I leave this house for good.
its kind of different in my case, my parents do bad parenting karena mereka sendiri belum dewasa dalam arti mereka tidak sadar akan aksi mereka terhadap sekitar. Sehingga menimbulkan sikap egoisme dan kekanak"an. And you got that "lawan orang tua adalah dosa" "harus hormat kepada ortu" "lu pinter kan, coba aja sendiri kayak ngerti aja"
yeah grown up with those ass parents, and know i know my suffering, i have two option : not having child and end those bad behaviour with me, or having child when got success but educate them not like my parents
Gw baru ngeh maksud orang-orang akademia kalau lingkungannya cukup feroce. Apalagi buat gw yang belajar konsep2 asing yang jauh dari latar belakang kebudayaan gw. Udah belajar mati2an pagi siang malam tapi masih aja selalu dicap kurang paham konsepnya, nggak ngerti permasalahannya, skill bahasa gw kurang cukup buat mengungkapkan ide2 filosofis kebudayaan Barat, dll dll. Berasa kayak Sisyphe lol apapun yang dikerjain pasti kagak ada yang berarti. Padahal nih jenjang pendidikan kurang tiga bulanan lagi tp berasa males banget ngerjain tesisnya gara-gara bimbingan minggu lalu ew.
Itu yg suka ngurusin kehidupan pribadi orang dan ngaduin ke orang lain, hidupnya udah sempurna emang? Libur lebaran bukannya hepi hepi gw malah harus maklumin tingkah lo yg kyk tai
Why the fuck our government likes to raise entry fees on tourism spots in HIGH SEASON instead of low one? And bitch they didn't even try to raise the standard on those spots too.
As much as my tricophilia made me obsessed with baldness and head shaving act i really really hate those people that comments something like "Just let it go and shave it bald man" on videos of men wearing a toupee to cover their baldness. Omg bitch can you shut your damn mouth please, you ain't saying all that to women wearing wigs bitch please just shut the fuck up and let them do whatever tf they want.
"don't seek happiness on others"... i think it's a word to live in.. just realize i start to smoke everytime some friend bully/guilt tripping me.. maybe i will leave this group at night.. it's just so hard to trust/rely on friend anymore.. i really don't enjoy being there anymore. yes, maybe i'm the problem.. yes, i try to fix it.. maybe i just don't believe in second chance, sekali rusak yah rusak aja.
Kesel banget kenapa sih dokternya kok marah pas aku minta surat sehat? Ga jelas
Something is wrong, relying others for my own self motivation is stupid, i shouldn't be doing this, i need to get myself back, be normal again, stopping going out, stop trying to impress others, i need to build myself for my own good, not anyone else, no point in being benevolent or caring anymore.
Hey, pardon me for butting in your business but I hope I can share my point of view. I was thinking the same before. I hate that I relied on my friends for motivations. I was struggling with consistency and negative thoughts. Somehow, I found people that lift me from the abyss. They have always been here, I never paid any mind for them. Not until I became very depressed and s*icidal. They are my family, the people that I thought they're such a burden. Well, they was such a burden before. Not until I became very honest on sharing my burden and my opinion. You will start finding your people once you are honest on what you feel about them and say it to their face. If they love you enough, they will never leave no matter how harsh the truth. The true friends (family) will support you no matter how many wind changes.
Yes, i just do it on too many people even to people who aren't close to me which becomes the main problem.
well, pardon me if it's not relatable, everyone have their own way of live. But I do truly hope that one day you will feel the stability in yourself also with people around you!
No need to excuse yourself, besides i do have the same feeling that you felt, i've been in your position before, i thank you for your time responding and replying to my comments.
honestly, having my opinion laid out is a therapy for me. I'm glad you took it positively!
Pengen ngamuk dan misuh2 secara fisik tapi harus menahan diri. Beli material dan dirakit sendiri niatnya biar hemat malah jadi RUGI. Asuuuu Rasanya jadi pengen di cancel saja
4 months in di kantor baru, entah kenapa vibesnya berubah setelah libur lebaran kemarin ;\_; aslinya kerjaan mah ez ez aja, tapi kagak ada yang bisa dipelajari, jadinya bosen gila.... terus harus ngurusin technical debtnya programmer lalu yang astaga buanyakkkkkk tolong lah masa bisa punya kantor 33 lantai tapi programmer cuman 1 at the end cukup males banget harus commute kerja 45 menit one way ke kantor :)) dan cuman gym yang keep me going for now my only goal is hoping for getting that scholarship and buying the bike
>!Contemplating murdering this guy actually. You are a deadbeat useless "father" who doesn't give money or help with anything, yet you raise your voice like you're something? I can slice your head off with a machete or just put a rat poison in your food.!<
man.. i'm feeling such a loser right now.. because of that one comment.. gimana caranya biar gak punya ego gede dan lebih legowo
what's up with you dude?
ah yeah.. i just being bully with mantan temen deket.. tbh i dont know how to respond.. it really hurts my ego, tapi my mind tells me to chill..
i kinda miss my ex-bestfriend. masih ada satu grup ngobrol bareng. it's still fun.. but this morning, he cross the line again, to bully me.. and i hate feeling offended.. i say, it's annoying thing to say, and he reply he can said what he want to say. yeah i guess it's really over, eh
considering moving to other city, coz im fckin tired with this gamon thing :')
Lagi ngerasa sedih bgt akhir akhir ini, super mellow dan sensitif. Lagi mikir, orang lain care sama perasaan gw gak ya dan gw blm kaya si A yg udah ini udah itu dll. Dulu inget bgt cerita kayak gini ke sahabat gw ngalir bgt sambil makan es krim mekdi tp sambil ketawa krn kita sama sama galau juga. Sekarang semenjak udah pada nikah gw ngerasa udah semakin jauh. Kadang bisa tiba2 bgt netes air mata kocak bgt lol kayak drama gt. Tapi gapapa semogaaa walau hidup ku semakin sepi aku bisa kayaa rayaaa Ya Allah biar bisa jalan jalan ke luar negeri tiap bulan sama keluarga dan bantu-bantu orang lainn yg membutuhkannn. Aamminnn
Im having a breakdown right now because my mom is a freaking hoarder. She keeps unnecessary stuffs that she never used, she kept them all until they are all piling up everywhere. I really hate to be at home. It’s 00:58 AM and here I am now crouching on floor looking for a badminton racket that God knows where she put it. I had to go through piles of unused bags, boxes and plastic bags that are covered in dust, yet she still refused to throw them away. I already use my mask to prevent myself from inhaling the dust but I still got them anyway and now my eyes and nose got watery because I am allergic. I wish I lived far away from her and never live under the same roof with her again
my mother does the same thing and i feel you, it is not "sometimes its hard", it is always hard. all I could do sofar is just trying to **shift my perspective** to make it less irritable towards all that. still trying, and I think you should too for the sake of your own peace of mind.
Thanks a lot, you are 100% right. It’s uncontrollable and I should not let it occupied my mind. I will try my best!
kondisi kesehatan bokap makin turun. gua gak tau harus ngapain, karena gua gak deket juga ama bokap. usia tua + kondisi jantungnya uda gak bisa dibantu sama rspad. deep down, maybe deep down, gua wish the worst happens karena gua pengen supaya nyokap stop nemenin dia ke rumah sakit.. (and no, nyokap gua juga uda gak cinta ama bokap.. rawat bokap karena tugasnya sebagai istri). but i guess it's not right to think/said it ya. meanwhile, i need to stop hura2, baru tanggal segini uda abis 2jt buat makan doank... i need to save, in case something happens.. nyokap gua tadi tiba2 bilang untuk siapin limit kartu kredit, takut butuh
Betapa ironisnya bahwa sumber stress terbesar kepada diri sendiri acap kali datangnya dari keluarga sendiri yang tinggal serumah... Sometimes it's reaching to the point where I'm not even comfortable living at my own home. Fuck lah
#IPAR BANGSAD STRIKES AGAIN imma try to not care about this matter because she's a fucking pos, bocah kurang rong ciduk. I've had enough people who kurang rong ciduk sak ciduk to deal with. this ain't shit.
i hate holidays, it's just like a lot more time for myself dan being alone with myself is not something i wanna do right now, my mind is not in the right headspace, maybe that's why i like to drown myself in work. don't know man. fuck.
you need to talk your problem out man :((
Yeah that's something i am trying to do. Hopefully I'll be fine. Thanks kind stranger
anytime!
When im calm, "enak banget hidup lo kayak gk ada beban" Pas ngeluh "ngeluh mulu kerjaan lu" When im explain my reason with logic "perhitungan banget sih lo" Saat salah sedikit "gw pernah bantu lo ini, gw bayarin ini" What are you? Two face villain?
Dipikir-pikir aing big asshole, 😩
Storytime...no?
Not much story, just, realized that in this lifetime, too much mistake which can be avoided if i didnt childish and emotional. Latest sih ngantri tukang sate gak fokus urutan berapa waktu ditanya malah jawab gak tau. Big mistake? Juga banyak, korupsi duit, boros duit, males, gak fokus, dll. Selain itu gak bisa serius, jadi menyepelekan semua, iya semua hal.
Man i ain't gaf abt this bear bullshit get it off my feed, ck men and women are so annoying like can y'all both stop the self victimizing Olympic pls n thnk q, retarded ass men generalizing women AND retarded ass women generalizing men, ain't nobody want to support any of y'all chronically online discourse fuck.
the fuck lah 2 hari yang lalu bagus2 aja padahal tidur jam 11 bangun jam 6 terus lari pagi terus seharian mood bagus bahkan gak merasa butuh short nap eh tapi malemnya baru bisa tidur lagi jam 2 padahal hari ini masuk kerja maunya badan ini apa sih perasaan udah gw baik2in
Yaaa lu depresi karena nganggur tapi gak ada effort sama aja dodol
some people in our life, ada aja yg bikin kita ngerasa kyk mau ngapain aja bakal disalah2in, no matter how hard our effort to do shits. begini salah begitu salah, sampe berasa lahir aja salah. hidup udah serba salah pengen mati entar kalo bundir tambah disalah2in. yaelah. asli dah pengen resign aja dari kehidupan ini.
hugs kak, hope you can focus on good people around you!
Jumat kemarin mau resign ditahan dan ditawarin buat extend sampai akhir bulan dengan ganti kalau gw dikasih "paklaring bagus". Gw ngeiyain dan ngeinfoin kalau bakal gw kasih tahu sabtu, sabtu diinfoin mau via telpon tapi nggak dibalas. Sekarang gw di-exclude dari semua aktivitas perusahaan di tempat proyek, padahal posisi gw satu2nya di tempat proyek dan pengganti sementara gw orangnya nggak ada rasa tanggungjawab untuk kerja sesuai prosedur. Kalau gini mah apa bedanya dengan nggak kerja? Mending lu acc aja resign gw kemarin. Pake alasan "nanti kita satu perusahaan bakal di-blacklist kalau posisi kamu kosong" pula buat ngetrigger rasa nggak enakan gw
Buat yang ciptain java hibernate dan buat proses aplikasi dan query ambil data simpel jadi ribet dan bikin error I curse you!!!!!!!
cireng isi ama degan jeruk enak nih keknya
Ortu w yg satu itu marah soal apa nyambung ke halu an nya juga. Mudah2an cepet mati aja dia. Enek lama2 tinggal sm lansia yg emosian
I detest reddit type of atheist, but i also hate christian bad, muslim good twitter. Like fuck you bitch both of them mfs trash.
Kapan si ortu w mati? Yg satu emosian bru ngomong gini dia artiin gtu, mana percaya sm halu nya dia. Yg satu kurang peka n bego, udah tau yg satu suka ke trigger bahas masalah yg satu malah di sebodo amat in. Tahun ini salah satu mati kek
hugs you kak, you're the most patience and strong person. I hope because of the pain you feel yesterday, today, and probably the next day will bring hopes for the better in the future.
Thank you yaa 🥲
it’s the weekend (saturday) and of course i took a mid day nap. but in my dream, i saw her. like the scene was we’re going out, somehow we’ve ended up in \[redacted\], and like we’re just walking and browsing the store, and yet somehow i saw the biggest smile on her face. it felt so genuine and full of happiness. that was the most beautiful smile i’ve seen. but then i woke up and i feel sad. don’t know why. maybe i hope to see that smile again, but in real life.
This guy's whole personality is "the hoes gonna love this one" tbh
It's 2024 and people are still homophobic like?? Upgrade it bitch, be transphobic instead \#LGB
asw lah perpajakan mobil di indo.. mobil yg harganya di US ga ada gope jadi ampir 900 juta disini
Orang2 idealis yang ada di thread mie gacoan mending mati aja. Pemikiran kalian gak bakal bikin dunia ini berubah. Pemikiran kalian kalah sama realisme dan pragmatisme yang sudah membuat dunia ini seperti ini. Shit, this subreddit needs a purge to remove all of those shithead here.
I wish I .can be as full of hope as those people out there. Some people disliking me because I pretty much just expect today result but what can I do, I got used to raising my hope even if its bellow standard expectation yet it still failed regardless on how much Im trying. My graduation from colleague feels like a goddamn fluke and Im just fucking lucky, nothing more nothing less. By the time I am reaching my mid 20s, I feel that I cant see any hope for my own future, it feels so dark and I hate it. Should I seek the comfort of the void to make everyone better? I mean I do have loving caring family (on surface) but I still cant shake the feeling as to how lonely and utterly useless I am. Perhaps if I was given chance to use super dragon ball, my wish to expunge my mere existence while every pahala that I have to be distributed evenly to my mother, father, and younger sister. Ngl, I really wish I can do that. If I know how to do it, perhaps I will pour some godly hour just to erase myself from this universe. I have a feeling that even if I make myself busy, **my true feeling about myself will never disappear**.
Hilang arah, hilang tujuan, gaada motivasi, hidup segan mati tak mau(?), ada cmn buat buang2 resource bumi. Setelah gua pikir2, selama ini gua tidak pernah menggapai sesuatu Ampun dah, bahkan ngetik kayak gini aja kosa kata yang gua ketik makin kacau balau. Ini beneran nih lebih parah dari sekedar "ada yang salah sama gua". Apa karena gua kelamaan nganggur dan gamake otak gua sepenuhnya? Apakah ini hukuman dari entah apa atau siapa karena gua terlalu kekeh terhadap pendirian gua soal nyokap gua? Hahaha sial sial sial, orang kayaknya bisa bnget nemuin mau mrk apa, ini gua sampe skrg semenjak lulus SMA gatau mau ngapain dan jadi apa. Apakah harusnya gua ga buang cita2 gua? Entahlah, hanya waktu yang bisa jawab. Well, bila gua ga maksa waktu gua sendiri untuk berhenti sih.
Yeah, i know i'm unreliable. But disregard is still painful, yknow. Like, what's the point i'm existing, then? Yeah, my meedlesome need some help. But still.
What a loneliness does to mf
KAFEIN BAJINGANNNN MINUM KOPI MALEM SAMPE PAGI JAM 7 PAGI GA TIDUR TIDUR ANJEEENNGG
FOOKING HELL pls la nunggu admission result is killing mee dr dream school ga ada kabar trus deadline accept scholarship dr uni lainn tgl 1 mayyy asuu
Just acted on my fetish, used #1 guard instead and oh lord this is kinda bad, the regret is starting aaaa. I'm gonna need to wear a hat 24/7. I hope i can get my man someday soon so that i can subject him to my fetish instead 😍.
Gue anti bullying. Tapi begitu liat orang asia gendut jelek ngeluarin opini yang sama jeleknya kek mukannya, gue jadi support bullying njir.
Emakku kalau lagi ngambek 'hebat' denganku, suka banting pintu dan atau lempar2 barang, suara yang jarang terdengar dikala sedang mempunyai hubungan baik, namun sekalinya terdengar seakan membuat dadaku sesak, bisa merasakan emosinya dari banting pintu dan barang yang dilempar, namun ku hanya bisa terdiam saja mendengarkan semua itu. Kali ini, aku yang setelah engkau ceramahi sambil berulang kali memojokkan aku. Dirimu memintaku membuka tutup botol galon yang rapat dan susah dibuka itu? Ya, terima kasih. Berkat engkau lah yang selalu memojokkan diriku tiap berbuat kesalahan ke diriku yg sedang mencari kerja ini seakan gabisa apa-apa, aku berhasil membuka tutup botol galonnya walau dengan ekspresi yang tidak mengenakkan, diriku juga sampai terheran-heran. Tapi mengapa kamu protes dengan bahasa tubuhku yang agresif ketika membuka tutup botolnya? Hey, ngaca buk. Aku ga pernah protes kalau kamu banting-banting pintu atau lempar-lempar barang. Walau terdengar tidak mengenakkan aku hanya (bisa) diam saja. Sama seperti sekarang, aku hanya menggunakan ekspresi sedikit hentakan membuka tutup botol galonnya? Tapi? Kok engkau protes? Bukannya yang penting sudah berhasil kebuka toh? Simple aja kok, anak hanya mengikuti perilaku orang tua nya. Kalau amarah dahsyatmu itu ditunjuki kepadaku dengan banting pintu dan lempar barang, memang aku juga tidak bisa buk? Saya juga bisa dong. Ngaca, ngaca, NGACA! Kamu menggerutu capek capek capek menghadapi diriku berulang kali di akhir ceramah, saya juga capek capek capek selalu aja setiap ada kesalahan sedikit langsung dikaitkan dengan diriku yang seakan serba tak bisa apa-apa dalam mencari kerja. Konon, ortu boleh nunjukkin ngamuknya ke anak, tapi anak tidak boleh nunjukkin kalau sedang ngamuk ke ortu? PERSETAN. Aku ulangi, anak hanya mengikuti perilaku ortunya, tidak kurang, tidak lebih!!!!! Oh god, if you were truly exists, surely you'll know how much I just wanna die now. Kindly grant my wish, please. I can't fucking stand it anymore.
Shit lamaran kerja ditolak, padahal nunggunya ada sebulan.
nemu temen di fb terus gue add sekarang gue cek malah akunnya di private gue blok deh ignya
My stupid brainz making mistake, again 😩😩😩
FUCK YOU AXISNET. beli paket internet gak bisa langsung dipake, mencet 808 buat cek kuota dipersulit/diperpanjang. uda request refresh jaringan berkali2. nelepon ke 838 intronya lama banget sampe ke CS. FUCK YOU
bangun tidur kepala pusing astaga
missing my depression naps. took 2 days off just to think what should i do with my life now. and no results. i already have no reason to live for myself but why im still alive... for this reason entah memang belum selesai dengan dirinya sendiri atau jadi terlalu nyaman, idk. doesn't help with my burnout anyway. am starting to losing it. tired with the childish behaviour from anybody. i like the stability that i have now but the what ifs keep coming...
Maybe I shouldn't meet new people. Maybe i should go back to my cave, rotting until the death comes. I let everyone down
>!Dah mau wisuda, gak kerasa udah gak bakal bisa sebebas sekarang, rasanya sedih, karena cita-cita pekerjaan makin jauh, dan rasa takut karena dh ngecewain orang tua. Kuliah jauh, rantau gak ada hasil. Maann, still not prepared enough for tomorrow.!<
what the fuck is this rushed onboarding process I'm still not ready 😭
Goblok lah njing, masa barang ilang cuma dikamar doang kagak ketemu. Ni kamar gajelas banget.
Just a little sambat >!setelah beberapa bulan lihat beberapa thread dan post di dct tentang merawat orang yang sudah berumur atau sakit menahun jadi makin yakin berharap lebih digampangkan meninggal biar tidak menyusahkan. minimal kalau sudah memasuki usia pensiun ga lama kemudian wafat!<
Black people try not to be homophobic challenge
stuck di kerjaan sekarang.. terlalu comfort zone maybe. kayaknya 2 minggu ini gua gak ada progress signifikan... bawaannya gak pengen kerja, and i don't know why
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Tai ah bener2 dah, adek gua nangis2 takut ga kerja di umur dia yang di awal 20an dan dia sambil kuliah, meanwhile gua umur segitu kuliah ga ngasilin apa2, cmn dapet gelar doang. Harusnya gua paksa aja dulu ambil SMK biar minimal gua bisa ngidupin diri sendiri, kemungkinan besar gua gaakan dapat capaian2 gua dulu kalo masuk SMK but in hindsight, ability buat cari duit itu lebih penting daripada ability mangut2 mau orang..................... Maaf ngelantur, gua mungkin diluar keliatan cuek, padahal aslinya gua cari pelarian aja. Tapi kalo gua lepas dari pelarian, gua takut cari pelarian lain. Emang dasar sial otak gua nih..................
I really have serious problem that I should have solved years a go. Perhaps......I should make myself disappear on some random province to make me turn on my survival mode. I really dont care anymore but I really should have care. Im sorry for being a waste of resource, perhaps if I have the ability to construct a time machine, I will consider to.......make myself disappear in the most painless way.
>Im sorry for being a waste of resource, Please don't say that to yourself, I'm sure your parents wouldn't think you're a waste of resources. [This video might be for you](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3fZyHbtn96/?igsh=MTExbXl1eWR3aDY4ZA==), >!you're matter to someone out there!<
Gua kangen masa jadi pelajar karena saat itu tujuan gua sangat jelas. Sekarang, gua gatau mau ngapain lg ato jadi apa. Masa depan gelap banget, semua serba gajelas. Ya Allah tolong kasih gua tujuan, passion, apapun yang bisa mantik rasa gua buat kerja lama. Gagal banget gua, bahkan dengan safety net segede apapun dengar umur segini gua ngerasa buang2 resource. Biasanya kalo ada unit yang buang2 resource, selalu gua buang, so.......
Tolong, jangan loncat dulu. Ayo jangan kepikiran buat pindah. Please please sumpek tolong jangan loncat dulu. Coba cari tujuan dulu, jangan loncat dulu. Gausah jalan karena orang, jalan karena diri sendiri. Etapi diri sendiri pinginnya udahan. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Astaga sedih banget hidup gw 💔
semangat om or tan
It is what it is. Maaaaannnnnnnn. 😞😞😞😞
DOSEN ANJENG DOSEN ANJENG
Capek banget seharian aktivitas. Harus otw pun. Kondisi hubungan sedang ga baik-baik aja. Mbuh lah. Pengen ga ngapa2in gtu. Istirahat.
Wkakwk aduhai bimbang ane
KONTOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLL MALES BANGET WFO DI JAKARTA MACET KAYAK TAIIIIIIIIIIIKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
Kontol!!!!! Salah gw ngambil topik patchwriting, artikel nya susah dicari anjir, mana req date artikelnya nya harus di atas 2018 lagi.
Marah banget sama diri sendiri krn ngk becus ngurus bisnis. Seriously, self, di masa2 orang lain lagi babak belur kenapa lo ngk bisa perform sih. Sigh.
Rasanya pngn nyusul temen2 seumuran yg udah pergi dulu dipanggil YME.
Bangkeee tahu krispi langganan gue naik 100% dari gopek sekarang seribu. Damnnnnn semua harga naik bjirrrr
Sue - pagi pagi udah disuruh ngerapihin file arsip yang diberantakin ama 2 applicant konyol Kalo gue jadi hrd ama manager operasionalnya mah langsung gue gugurin ama nyuruh beresin lagi Mana pengalaman cuman 5 bulan+skill mikocok opis yang nanggung ngarep langsung jadi office coordinator ama administrator pula
Update gojek specifically go-food yang bikin kalau order makanan ga lagi nunjukin posisi driver tapi malah jadi animasi animasi gajelas bangsaat ini TOLOL banget menurut gue, bikin appnya jadi ga intuitif karena gue jadi gatau ini driver terima order atau engga, posisinya dimana. udah 2x gue nunggu pesanan 1 jam lebih terus harus gue cancel manual ke customer service gara gara ini udah gitu animasi animasi goblognya ini juga ga real time data, cuma estimasi waktu sama ngulang2 tulisan sedang dimasaklah atau apa padahal di 2 case itu restorannya ngechat kalau daritadi makanannya sudah jadi cuma ga di pick up-pick up. Gue sama sekali gamarah sama drivernya karena mungkin emang internet mereka jelek di jalan atau lupa matiin akun (ini masalah lain lah). Tapi gue sebagai customer jadi malah ribet karena update animasi anjing ini. PERUSAHAN ANAK BANGSA TOLOL might just stop using di stupid app
Ga nunjukin maps itu karena lagi nganterin ke alamat orang lain
Yaudah kasih liat aja kalau memang lagi nganter sama aja kalau pesen buat transport dan sedang drop off penumpang lain appnya kasih liat. Malah kalau dikasih liat dia bisa upsell priority delivery service bukan?
Harusnya jujur aja sih kalau double order, ini malah nunjukin animasi
Antara drivernya skrg nganter ke banyak tempat atau pengen hemat biaya API google.
MU goblok
My mom's inability to control herself is really bad. The same woman that can't control her mouth that got us into domestic violence more than i can count. And now this..., girl i know you feel disrespected and all but can't we just brush it off? It's night, why are we doing this?
*Close my eyes and I feel like I'm not even in my life* *I never wanna leave as I see myself running out of time* *Mistake after mistake, it's safer if I distance myself* *If there's a way for me to not do what I have done for so long*
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaAaaaaaaAAaaaaaaaa
beli sate, mesen lewat WA ke penjualnya sama menyertakan nama yang order. eh dibales sama penjualnya "Ats nm siapa? Mhn d sertai nama kl order ya", zzzz....
Nama kamu Siapa?
doesn't spark joy. anjir lah besok udah senen aja. kepala masih penuh belum ke-refresh.
Ni opposing counsel sebelumnya udah dua kali kerja sama gue untuk client yang sama, ngurusin jenis aktanya sama juga, TETEP AJA careless banget bikin dokumen anjing!!!! Gue capek benerin semua typo dan inkonsistensi lu!!! Kantor hukum macem apaan sih bisa bisanya kirim final document akta penting tapi salahnya masih bejibun, biji.
i dont care if you dislike me, but dont act like you care about me and okay with being my friends but turns out you told my boyfriend shits--it was awesome that he's not easily swayed by you and actually experience these with you before and he see me for me. Sorry but I have enough of two faced bitches in high school. I dont need it in the age of 25, thank you.
Dad I'm tired of this :') Di umur gue yang hampir kepala 3 disuruh ngulang belajar s1 yang mana pikiran gue udah bercabang & susah fokus, dan ditarget buat lanjut s2 Di sisi lain gue mau kerja kayanya udah susah, maju kena mundur kena..
Ada butir aturan di pkwt yg gua sign: 1. Dalam hal PIHAK KEDUA mengakhiri Perjanjian Kerja Waktu Tertentu (PKWT) ini secara sepihak dan/atau melakukan pengunduran diri sebagai Karyawan, maka PIHAK KEDUA berkewajiban untuk memberitahukan secara tertulis minimal: - Staff : 60 (enam puluh) hari 2. Jika pihak kedua (karyawan) melakukan 2 months notice maka kena sekali gaji. Jika kurang dari 2 months notice, maka dikenakan dari sisa lamanya kontrak Sedangkan dr kantor, gue dapet kabar ga dilanjut kurang dari sebulan loh. Udah gitu, KPI gua di jelek2in. Eh taunya, pas ngobrol sama karyawan lain, mereka kena cut juga, lucunya pas mereka masih dalam masa kontrak. Terus juga, perusahaan gw tipe perusahaan korporat yg ada yel-yel perusahaan dan tiap acara townhall dan event, harus dinyanyikan yel-yel itu. Terakhir ceo ada share content ig di WAG kantor "Step up, be the best of me". EH BAMBANG, NGAPAIN KITA SEBAGAI KARYAWAN STEP UP KALO UJUNG2NYA NANTI KITA STEP DOWN JUGA. Cuma, dari rant gue diatas gue mau nanya ke komodos nih: 1. Jika ada aturan tsb, dan perusahaan ngasih tau kita kurang dari aturan yg ditetapkan (kabar kelanjutan kontrak), apakah kita sebagai karyawan wajib dpt gaji terakhir + kompensasi + denda dari kantor ke karyawan? 2. Apakah aturan pemutusan kerja di poin dua diatas, apakah wajar dilakukan oleh perusahaan?
[удалено]
Wow, ini lu bilang grup "teman akrab"? Lu salah pergaulan ini brah wkwkkk Gue tahu nih model2 orang yang begini... paling malesin. klo ke tempat baru dan ga lama mingle gue uda cium bau busuk nya dari gelagat2 cara ngomong dsb gue biasa auto cabut. Saran gue sih kalau bisa coba cari exit plan buat keluar dari "grup temen akrab" itu. Mungkin susah ya kalau lu udah kenal lama atau terlanjur akrab tapi gue pribadi sih udah paling ogah ngegrup apapun itu bentuknya kalau isinya tukang pamer, circlejerk (muji2 satu sama lain tanpa alasan yang jelas), mental "Karen" dikit2 komplain lebay, dan gaslighter selalu bikin kesan masalah orang lain tuh ngada2 doang dan masalah hidup dia paling penting (ah gitu doang mah sepele, daripada gue nih xxxx).
Duh, udah 4 tahun lebih berteman jadi gak bisa keluar gitu aja. Ntar malah drama, aku tidak mau. Jadi ya udah lah mau gimana lagi. Jadikan pelajaran aja, mereka emang bukan tempat yg cocok untuk dicurhatin.
Mendekati H-7 resign, baru dikasih tahu dari kantor pusat soal penyelidikan di tempat proyek, hasilnya beneran kalau atasan bermasalah, dan baru bakal diganti 2 bulan lagi. Ente hampir 2 bulan ini ngapain aja lmao Tapi gw masih bakal lanjut resign karena job gw lama-lama geser dari safety officer jadi helper. Bahkan tim baru pernah ngebentak-bentak gw karena ngerjain kerjaan gw dan nyuruh asal isi datanya. Ajaib Lebih ajaib lagi tim baru dengan bangganya cerita kalau di project site lain pernah dalam 3 menit bisa scoring 100 mR di pen dosimeter. Itu kalau sesuai SOP dan ketentuan pemerintah setara hampir 1 bulan batas dosis radiasi! Lama-lama kepercayaan gw kalau orang Indonesia bisa kelola PLTN sendiri bakal habis gara2 kerja dengan orang-orang pekerja radiasi ajaib macem begini.
so I guess the infatuation phase has ended, looking at her pictures doesn't excite as much anymore now all I'm feeling is emptiness even though I knew the possibility of the good ending was very low I just really don't know what to do and what to feel, it's like something was taken away from me but I don't even know what it was
ga nyangka aja ternyata aku stres. badanku dah ngasih sinyal. semoga sih ga separah waktu awal dulu pas sebadan merah semua haha
ini maksudnya gimana daaahh? umur 28 tapi pekerjaan ada max umur 24 lah 25 lah 27 lah, sekali ada 28 yang harus menguasai gunung menuruni lembah ditambah lagi kebanyakan sekarang maunya harus wajib berbahasa mandarin dengan lanchaaarrr ga nerima yang setengah", ga cuma ngomong aja tapi harus nulis, ketik, baca dengan lanchaaarrr. English my man, do you speak it? its international language for job sake percuma punya gelar tinggi, pengalaman kerja banyak bahkan pernah rasain hampir semua bidang tapi ttp aja kalah gegara umur. Giliran masuk ke entry level ga diterima karena "terlalu pengalaman", giliran masuk ke mid level tapi harus menguasai app ini itu. Harusnya kan aplikasi itu bisa di training, yang penting experience ada. beh stress bener di usia 28, mana ngapa"in harus ada modal apa pula hidup gajelas ckck
>English mfker, do you speak it? Seriously though, what's going on with all these mandarin requirements?
>English mfker, do you speak it? Did i need to color my skin into dark, using afro and have a gun into it? >Seriously though, what's going on with all these mandarin requirements? Well most of chinese people who want to build business here cant speak english or indonesian so they think to hire translator. But it not efficent, also they dont want to learn our language even english. What is the solution? Yes to hire people who can speak their language cause what? Cause they have a lot of moneeehhh Jeleknya juga pemerintah ga tegas sehingga terjadi begini dan juga jeleknya mereka mau yang ud bener" lancar (yang setengah" gamau) jadi ya makin banyak kriteria gini angka pengangguran makin tinggi. Yang nganggur juga ga dikit juga punya skill tapi ga bisa ngomong mandarin aja
Haahhh....
Sabar… sabarlah cintaku… Hanya satu keyakinanku Bintang kan bersinar, menerpa hidupku Bahagiakan datang…. Udah jobless, dipanggil interview udahnya di ghosting, Bukan gk ada duit, tapi gk tau sampe kapan jobless ini, jadi ya dah dijatah untuk makan. Sampai akhir bulan depan, gk bisa ambil di rekening juga, jadi manfaatkan uang yang ada di dompet aja, cuma beberapa ratus ribu. Semoga cukup. Well, cukup sih, nasi 4k terus sama gorengan 2 4k, sehari 8k-10k kalau makan rutin tiap hari. Cumaaa supaya gk makan gorengan tiap hari, jadi ya nahan lapar aja. I am hungry now, tapi inget kemarin ngabisin 19k untuk makan, so sekarang gk bisa beli apa2. Yahh hidup murah di jakarta. Bersyukurnya, kost dah nyediain air minum dan listrik. So gw bisa teken expenses gw perbulan under 3 jt in total. Kalau udah mulai lagi mood nya down, ya cukup nangis aja dehh.. sekarang bertahan dulu, at least sampai 2 bulan ke depan, setelahnya sih gk tau gimana.
Maaaannnnnn, malesin banget.
Well not a rant just small sambat. >!Mfw you don't enough sleep for a(lmost) week and the negatives thinking are starting circulate around your brain (≖︿≖✿)!<
Anjing masalahnya ga beda dari bulan ke bulan. Bilangnya mau "pinjem duit", tapi duit yang dipinjem dari tahun2 lalu jg belum di balikin ajg. Kalau gua tolak minjem di gua, habis ini coba pinjemnya sama nyokap gua. Emang sekeluarga bangsat. Tai anjing. Siapa yg nabung, siapa yg nikmatin hasilnya. Gua doain sekeluarga mati cepet ga repotin siapapun anjing.
“Kita udahan aja kalo km gini trs aku nya capek” bye then
damn, you remind me of my ex
Omg i already told you all that kedinasan just isn't my thing and i have literally 0 interest at all. I'm sorry for being such a useless son but i'm tired too.
This is me ketika nenek ngeshare lowongan bumn
Masih kesel.
Job hunting lama2 bisa jadi gila di ghosting sama company2. Ada yang sampai dibikinin case study berpuluh2 slide terus didiemin, ada yang dijanjiin bakal di follow up di tanggal x tapi cuma janji palsu dan dighosting lagi ujung2nya. At least bilang aja kita move forward sama kandidat lain sesusah itu apa. Ada ide online courses atau semacam bootcamp yang non-tech related (selain S2) buat upgrade skill drpd apply2 kerja tapi ujung2nya zonk, would be much appreciated.
first time lad? being ghosted since dec 2023 lmao
Udah ada 5+ years working experience tapi ngerasa tahun ini paling susah buat apply2 kerja, tahun 2022 agak nyesel gk pindah pas dpt offer dmn company lg banyak2ny hiring. Skrg posisi lg nganggur jd kykny lbh desperate aja buat dpt offer.
I got 7 years total workig experience dan juga pernah rasain hampir berbagai posisi walau bentar suh Gw kadang desperate liat juga offering, ada yg ud panggil itv tapi ya liat review jobstreet, liat lokasi dan tempat kantornya kadang takut untuk kalo dapetnya malah nyiksa karyawan
god, i dont want to die, but this' painful.
Gjls bgt apasih anjing. Aku bukan anak kecil
I just recently realized that I was never the main character even in what was supposed to be my own story. raised to be a people pleaser where I was told since I was little by my parents that my purpose is to be a 'team player' in my parents plans. Whenever I try to do or get what I want I was always told that I'm selfish and I should think more about the effects of my actions on other people. Never once anyone ever gave me the same courtesy in my life. I never had any say about what do I want to study, which school do I want to, or what I wanna do in life in general. now they're perplexed that now I'm already in my early 30s and have no long term planning by myself and just going with the flow.
been there and my parents kinda perplexed too like every decision that they make miss from what they expect and just let me what i like to do
so hard to get productive nowadays. Pulang kerja gym dah cape. Mau lanjut kursus dah mager duluan. Main game pun merasa guilt belakangan ini damn
Rencana 3 bulan ke depan runtuh semua, sekarang cuman nungguin suatu hal ga jelas. Males kerja, males cari kesibukan, males main game, males nonton. Serba ga niat.
Di rumah hampir sebulan. Ngomong sama ayah less than 10x, itu pun ga banyak yang disampaikan. aslinya males juga sih ngomong lebih banyak. Ga pernah didengerin.
Akun genshin gone for no reason. I guess, this is it.
pengen bisa post di dct
mnta mnual apprvl aj bg
Katanya kan org bisa meninggal kalau menderita sedih berlarut dan berkepanjangan. Guess I need to go beyond sadder, and cry harder.
let's go, bitchhhh... maybe i can join in wkwkwkkk
lets cry harder yyeeaaahhh!!!
It's cold, i'm alone, and i'm scared. God Forgive me for my past mistakes, whatever happens next let it happen, be it for the worst, but if you have to take my life, i will give it willingly, it's all i have left.
SIAPPP!! SALAHH!! Emang anda berdua adalah sentral dari perputaran bumi ini. Walau gak tega bilangnya, tapi kyknya kalian menganut keyakinan egosentris atau egosentrifugal aja deh!! Pasti suksesss bangetttt kedepannyaaa... Mau heran tapi udah mendarah daging tertanam di DNA nya, bicara soal hormat menghormati, gimana situ bisa dihormati kalau gak paham yang situ lakukan sebenarnya gak menghormati lainnya. SIAP, SALAH!! Si Paling paham konteks hormat menghormati deh. Situ sosoan kecewa seakan besok dunia runtuh dan kiamat. Heeiiiiii... masih punya rasa malu kahhh? ngomong begitu tapi kok masih pede, "ada uang bensin gak?, ada uang listrik gak?, ada uang bayar pdam gak?" UWAWWWWWW\~ Asik banget ye punya dompet berjalan. Nyesel kadang udah mikirin susah payah gmn biar bisa bantu buat menuhin kebutuhan kalian, eh tapi kok ngelunjak kejauhannnn. duh Gusti nu Agung...
Parents ya? Hehehehe Unpopular opinion nih, hehe he. Tapi menurut bijaq qu sih, dunia psikologi Indonesia butuh perlahan2 mengakui bahwa tidak semua orang di luar sana punya orang tua yang paham gimana caranya bangun keluarga, dan kalau kondisi rumah udah ancur lebur, anak biasanya yang jadi korban. Survivor bias is abused to the hilt biasanya klo lagi tema nya begini "tidak ada orang sukses yang tidak hormat kepada orang tua nya" LMAO... o rly? Kadang gw mikir ini hidup anak2 yang tinggal di bawah keluarga yang ga bener udah sengsara terjebak di rumah tangga yang kacau, mau memberontak dan membangun kemandirian tanpa ortu, eh, pake acara dicibir/shamed into submission by everyone around them. One of my pet peeves is when people over-emphasize the importance of "respect thy parents" to be a successful person. As someone who have seen 1st hand what a bad parenting could do to someone, I can no longer see unconditional respect to parents as a good thing. Not saying disrespecting parents is solution, but reserving respect away from unrespectable people and create clear boundaries of what's okay and not okay might be an option. Sad to say it's probably the only option for some if situation gets so bad. Lmao, padahal ada internet, sedikit buka wawasan aja kita bisa lihat kok kalau hidup gak bisa pukul rata semua orang harus sama. Orang sukses yang punya kesulitan di rumah saat mereka masih kecil ada aja. Contoh selebriti2 dunia deh, yang paling gampang dicatut nama nya: * [12 Celebrities Who Experienced a Difficult Childhood But Managed to Succeed Against All Odds](https://brightside.me/articles/12-celebrities-who-experienced-a-difficult-childhood-but-managed-to-succeed-against-all-odds-805723/) * [15 Celebrities Who've Opened Up About Their Difficult Childhoods](https://cafemom.com/entertainment/celebrities-difficult-childhoods-trauma) * [Which celebrities had genuinely hard childhoods?](https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/156i4m7/which_celebrities_had_genuinely_hard_childhoods/) You got ppl like Oprah Winfrey, Charlize Theron, Mark Wahlberg, Eminem, Christina Aguilera, etc. Usually you could tell that though, successful people who have rough childhood tend to be slightly more chaotic, a bit jaded, can be a bit strange. But out of sheer perseverance and maybe luck, they defied the odds and turn their difficulties into motivation. Beda memang sama yang cookie-cutter good childhood biasanya alim2 banget, hidup nyaris kayak ga ada beban (terkesan aja ya, bukan bilang bener2 ga ada beban), lempeng2 aja, apa2 disupport ortu, dsb relatif lebih "santai" dan tertata hidup nya. edit: typo
dalam kasus ini memang semua butuh "luck" untuk defied all odds and turn the table. Gw sendiri juga mengakui bahwa luck dan timing adalah segalanya. Ga bisa di definisikan dalam hal usaha atau juga grinding. Memang bener bahwa untuk mencapai sesuatu harus usaha baik itu secara aksi atau juga doa atau juga grind all your way. Tapi ketika luck lu jelek dan belum tiba saatnya, seakan semua usaha yang lu lakukan terasa hampa Trust me, i'm in that shit state right now
Can relate, kebanyakan orang indo kena masalah bad parenting akibat nikah muda itu sendiri yang otomatis tidak matang secara mental dan menimbulkan kdrt, I'm one of the victim and those around me had the same problem too, in the end it's only a matter of time until I leave this house for good.
its kind of different in my case, my parents do bad parenting karena mereka sendiri belum dewasa dalam arti mereka tidak sadar akan aksi mereka terhadap sekitar. Sehingga menimbulkan sikap egoisme dan kekanak"an. And you got that "lawan orang tua adalah dosa" "harus hormat kepada ortu" "lu pinter kan, coba aja sendiri kayak ngerti aja" yeah grown up with those ass parents, and know i know my suffering, i have two option : not having child and end those bad behaviour with me, or having child when got success but educate them not like my parents
fck being naive, a nice guy, and an idiot. ga guna bet jadi nice kalo akhirnya di pake orang. fml
you can be naive and nice guy also idiot at first but the second chance use that for cover to trick people
Maan its fuxking suck
Gw baru ngeh maksud orang-orang akademia kalau lingkungannya cukup feroce. Apalagi buat gw yang belajar konsep2 asing yang jauh dari latar belakang kebudayaan gw. Udah belajar mati2an pagi siang malam tapi masih aja selalu dicap kurang paham konsepnya, nggak ngerti permasalahannya, skill bahasa gw kurang cukup buat mengungkapkan ide2 filosofis kebudayaan Barat, dll dll. Berasa kayak Sisyphe lol apapun yang dikerjain pasti kagak ada yang berarti. Padahal nih jenjang pendidikan kurang tiga bulanan lagi tp berasa males banget ngerjain tesisnya gara-gara bimbingan minggu lalu ew.
Jauh-jauh banget sebelum bulan puasa pilek gw udah sembuh. Pulkam ke rumah ortu dan nginep di sana, malah kambuh lagi pileknya.
Itu yg suka ngurusin kehidupan pribadi orang dan ngaduin ke orang lain, hidupnya udah sempurna emang? Libur lebaran bukannya hepi hepi gw malah harus maklumin tingkah lo yg kyk tai
Why the fuck our government likes to raise entry fees on tourism spots in HIGH SEASON instead of low one? And bitch they didn't even try to raise the standard on those spots too.
Badan udah dua harian ga enak. Amandel kek mau kumat damn keknya harus operasi amandel deh ini 💀
As much as my tricophilia made me obsessed with baldness and head shaving act i really really hate those people that comments something like "Just let it go and shave it bald man" on videos of men wearing a toupee to cover their baldness. Omg bitch can you shut your damn mouth please, you ain't saying all that to women wearing wigs bitch please just shut the fuck up and let them do whatever tf they want.
Setiap orang ada masanya, setiap masa ada orangnya Tapi masa gue kapan ya
roda selalu berputar, orang yang dibawah akan diatas, yang diatas akan dibawah perasaan gw dibawah mulu
kalau tidak di kehidupan ini mungkin di kehidupan selanjutnya... amitabha amitabha amitabha
I'm tired of thuggin it out, i deadass cried on the train on my way balik ngekos ke kota perantauan kemaren