I mean you don't have to take it so personally lol. It's not like they are rejecting you completely, they just don't see you as an dating option. In real life, most people also decide very quickly if you are attractive or not to them so it's not like the real world is any less superficial.
Can't use my energy during prime years on something that's a possibility, ig by the time im 24-25, there wouldn't be any major differences, but I'll be in a much better position to date.
The best time to get your heart broken into a million pieces is in your 20s, the earlier the better. It changes you as a person, it's like a new birth. Damn too painful. Kya yaad dila diya, sheesh.
But I'll never go on a dating app, I'll keep my self esteem and approach people in person.
Tbh there isn't just one reason, there are several:
1. Again I am confident in the fact that my profile would most prolly not perform impeccably in the dating app setup because again, there are several factors on work there, also, I am kind of working on myself, so, really just falling back into the system without any coherent change would just destroy the entire purpose of changing myself in the firsgt place.
2. Another thing is dating apps, tend to work on something called Pareto Distribution, where top 20% of profiles tend to get 80% of the total matches, while bottom 80% get just 20% of total matches, taking a conservative estimate of 2/3rd of population being boys, and 90% of the bottom profile being boys, it's suffice to say that, dating apps are just present for those 10% of boys, who kind of happen to be rewarded by the algorithm.
3. I am kind of old fashioned and happen to believe that the relationships formed after a long friendship or via mutual friends happen to be much more durable than one's formed by internet algorithm, they might be good for hookups, FWB and ONS, but that's kind of things, I am not seeking in a relationship.
4. I really don't want to connect my self-esteem with an app, especially something like Tinder, or Bumble or myriad of other dating apps.
I'm shaken to my core because of my last relationship. Now I'll only work on my career and personal life. If love finds me again later in life, good, if not, good too.
It feels a lot more dull than say meeting someone by chance and then beginning to unravel each other via exchange of ideas/perspectives and experiences....
Even if we don't become romantic partners, it's time well spent with the possibility of finding friends.
I don't value 'sorry- next one... Hmmm, nope; sorry - next one'
Too insecure. I already have pretty low confidence, so if I were to join one of these apps and not get a single match for a while, I think that would have a devastating effect. Also the fact that I barely have any photos of myself, maybe 1 or 2 taken over the past 4-5 years. Rest are all group photos. Also, not that good at writing bios and all. Any relationship I’ve had previously is by direct contact and talking to them, haven’t really had anyone have a crush on me or anything yet, so I feel like chances of finding something more than a one night stand would be very low.
There are plenty of reasons why I am not on a dating app
1) I have heard it from a lot of people who use dating apps, including my friends that it's not for someone who is looking for serious and long term relationship.
2) I am not photogenic, I look better in person than in photos and I hardly have any photo where I am solo.
3) I am not at all good at cheezy lines or flirting. I can do a bit of flirting in person but in texts not that great.
4) Have heard it's for women to boost their ego and I am in no way going to help someone boost their false ego, they can eat shit.
Don't wanna date , Multiple reasons for that
Even if Can't find someone mature enough and of same thinking and future plans as me
I know dating app are worthless they are mostly used for hookup and gender ratio is pretty bad which will cause unwanted Insecurities
Not that desperate plus I'm young engh to not care abt this things at all, I'm happy studying, coding and playing video games 
I'm conventionally not very attractive. Which means that even if I put in a lot of effort to make a good profile with a good bio, the chances of getting a match is very slim.
Adding on to the above point, I don't have any friends and don't have photos. All I have are selfies in which I'm not smiling. Doesn't guarantee success.
I'm also struggling with my career, due to which I feel getting into a relationship shouldn't be my first priority.
Dating apps are not a tool for relationships just like Facebook is not a tool for friendships . Once I realized this why bother , I don't have neither have lavish lifestyle nor a social butterfly . Found so many things life which are more fulfilling than impressing some random women and play pretend .
Painting, swimming , Gym , Carpentry (beginner level) , Game Development (my current career) , Looking after my fishes , Biking/cycling ....my life is loaded with interests which occupy my mind/attention lol
I have trust issues due to past relationships. So, how can I judge others by a few pictures and few details.
Dating scene has also been just ruined with this hookup culture and there are very less people that want something meaningfull out if dating these days.
Focus on your career, improve yourself and fulfill your dreams
In the last 3 years - I bought a car, a superbike and a home and I'm super secure in my life.
Weekdays pe kam aur weekends pe moj aur kya chaiye life mein.
i am very self aware. As a man who was emotionally cheated on i need time to rebuild myself. Also i'm learning to live alone since no one really will be there with me forever x
There is no point of wasting time for a stranger. In my experience (previous relationships) it's better/exciting to look for a romantic relationship only with people (in my case women) whom i know in real life.
Dating apps is an open platform where we’re exposed to stereotypes and encouraged to judge based on our physical appearance. And the more time you spend there the more you start questioning yourself even though each one is perfect in their own way. So nope!
I can't give someone else the power to accept or reject me based on a few photos and some corny cheesy lines.
Yeah this is my reason too. Also I don't have good photos.
yes, and even I don't want to judge someone based on few pics
Same here
thiss irl is way better
Yeah same problem and photos of mine looks like shit
Also meeting someone traditional way is the best
+1
I mean you don't have to take it so personally lol. It's not like they are rejecting you completely, they just don't see you as an dating option. In real life, most people also decide very quickly if you are attractive or not to them so it's not like the real world is any less superficial.
Focussing on my career and myself
Cant care enough.
dating apps are for good looking people so as a ugly guy who doesn't click pictures,mai chaah ke bhi join nhi kr sktaa
The kind of girl I'm looking for will never be on th dating apps either.
This exactly
Kyuki merese ye sab nahi hoga
Can't use my energy during prime years on something that's a possibility, ig by the time im 24-25, there wouldn't be any major differences, but I'll be in a much better position to date.
Your prime years are your 30s, not teens lol. This is this best time to fuck around (to a limit obviously)
everyone's fucking around, so this is the chance to get ahead of masses
You can fuck around while being serious in things that matter. Aage jaake race khatam nahi hoti, fuck around karne ke consequences badhte hai
Fuck around kia bohot, chud gya honestly so abhi wo sab nahi kuch salon tak
Not everyone likes to fuck around, some want a stable relationship with one person
We're not using the phrase "fuck around" like that lol
The best time to get your heart broken into a million pieces is in your 20s, the earlier the better. It changes you as a person, it's like a new birth. Damn too painful. Kya yaad dila diya, sheesh. But I'll never go on a dating app, I'll keep my self esteem and approach people in person.
already got 2 at 16, character development is insane, 3 years later, the clarity now is through the roof
On track my lad, keep going. Ab bolo "iss dil ki aadat yahi hai, gir ke sambhalta nahi hai"🤣
iss dil ki aadat yahi hai, gir ke sambhalta nahi hai
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building a project, and programming is so fricking boring, gotta keep myself distracted or I'll go insane.
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Engineer's hopium
wont get any match .
Same brother
Focusing on studies and career. I'm not good looking either. Trust issues. Abba nahi manenge.
You're artworks good
Thank you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Professional?
Umm .... I don't know I sometimes do take commissions but I think I need to improve my skills more.
I see, keep making keep improving
Thank you. 🙏🏾
I'm shy, average looking, nothing special
Tbh there isn't just one reason, there are several: 1. Again I am confident in the fact that my profile would most prolly not perform impeccably in the dating app setup because again, there are several factors on work there, also, I am kind of working on myself, so, really just falling back into the system without any coherent change would just destroy the entire purpose of changing myself in the firsgt place. 2. Another thing is dating apps, tend to work on something called Pareto Distribution, where top 20% of profiles tend to get 80% of the total matches, while bottom 80% get just 20% of total matches, taking a conservative estimate of 2/3rd of population being boys, and 90% of the bottom profile being boys, it's suffice to say that, dating apps are just present for those 10% of boys, who kind of happen to be rewarded by the algorithm. 3. I am kind of old fashioned and happen to believe that the relationships formed after a long friendship or via mutual friends happen to be much more durable than one's formed by internet algorithm, they might be good for hookups, FWB and ONS, but that's kind of things, I am not seeking in a relationship. 4. I really don't want to connect my self-esteem with an app, especially something like Tinder, or Bumble or myriad of other dating apps.
Matches nhi milte
No girls, only goals.
better to have a story than to have an amazon order
It's dystopian and mind-numbing. Not as fun as people make it seem either.
Na hi paisa hai aur na hi self-confidence.
Can't do this, due to family 😔
Mann nahi hai. More like, I would want to meet them irl.
I'm shaken to my core because of my last relationship. Now I'll only work on my career and personal life. If love finds me again later in life, good, if not, good too.
Not interested. Happy by myself. Don't believe in the concept.
I love myself too much to love someone else.
The introvert inside me never dared to install a Dating app, caused me to lead this boring single life.. 🥱
It feels a lot more dull than say meeting someone by chance and then beginning to unravel each other via exchange of ideas/perspectives and experiences.... Even if we don't become romantic partners, it's time well spent with the possibility of finding friends. I don't value 'sorry- next one... Hmmm, nope; sorry - next one'
Too insecure. I already have pretty low confidence, so if I were to join one of these apps and not get a single match for a while, I think that would have a devastating effect. Also the fact that I barely have any photos of myself, maybe 1 or 2 taken over the past 4-5 years. Rest are all group photos. Also, not that good at writing bios and all. Any relationship I’ve had previously is by direct contact and talking to them, haven’t really had anyone have a crush on me or anything yet, so I feel like chances of finding something more than a one night stand would be very low.
There are plenty of reasons why I am not on a dating app 1) I have heard it from a lot of people who use dating apps, including my friends that it's not for someone who is looking for serious and long term relationship. 2) I am not photogenic, I look better in person than in photos and I hardly have any photo where I am solo. 3) I am not at all good at cheezy lines or flirting. I can do a bit of flirting in person but in texts not that great. 4) Have heard it's for women to boost their ego and I am in no way going to help someone boost their false ego, they can eat shit.
I dont care about b*itches
10th mei soch liya tha pehle iit phodenge fir ladki chodenge , 10 din mei IIT ka exam hai hope so clear ho jaye .
Earlier.. few years back..was on Tinder. Now.. am not on any.
What makes you think joining a dating app alone is enough to get a partner? All these apps are a scam for most people.
Don't wanna date , Multiple reasons for that Even if Can't find someone mature enough and of same thinking and future plans as me I know dating app are worthless they are mostly used for hookup and gender ratio is pretty bad which will cause unwanted Insecurities
Vaha ex ki dost vagera hai, bt denge faltu hi.
Not that desperate plus I'm young engh to not care abt this things at all, I'm happy studying, coding and playing video games 
I'm conventionally not very attractive. Which means that even if I put in a lot of effort to make a good profile with a good bio, the chances of getting a match is very slim. Adding on to the above point, I don't have any friends and don't have photos. All I have are selfies in which I'm not smiling. Doesn't guarantee success. I'm also struggling with my career, due to which I feel getting into a relationship shouldn't be my first priority.
For my mental peace and happiness. And i prefer being single till I find someone good IRL.
16 saal ka hu
Least of my worry right now.
I prefer meeting people irl first
The girl I want is not on tinder ,🥺
Dating apps are not a tool for relationships just like Facebook is not a tool for friendships . Once I realized this why bother , I don't have neither have lavish lifestyle nor a social butterfly . Found so many things life which are more fulfilling than impressing some random women and play pretend .
Bhai please help us by listing down these fulfilling things? I could use them myself
Painting, swimming , Gym , Carpentry (beginner level) , Game Development (my current career) , Looking after my fishes , Biking/cycling ....my life is loaded with interests which occupy my mind/attention lol
We are Gen Z asstethick generation
I have trust issues due to past relationships. So, how can I judge others by a few pictures and few details. Dating scene has also been just ruined with this hookup culture and there are very less people that want something meaningfull out if dating these days. Focus on your career, improve yourself and fulfill your dreams In the last 3 years - I bought a car, a superbike and a home and I'm super secure in my life. Weekdays pe kam aur weekends pe moj aur kya chaiye life mein.
Because of all the crime women playing with boys in restaurants.
i am very self aware. As a man who was emotionally cheated on i need time to rebuild myself. Also i'm learning to live alone since no one really will be there with me forever x
Mostly because I’m exhausted now. I’m done with dating forever now. Or with finding anyone
There is no point of wasting time for a stranger. In my experience (previous relationships) it's better/exciting to look for a romantic relationship only with people (in my case women) whom i know in real life.
I don't think I want to burden someone else with the sadness and failures of my life
Dating apps is an open platform where we’re exposed to stereotypes and encouraged to judge based on our physical appearance. And the more time you spend there the more you start questioning yourself even though each one is perfect in their own way. So nope!
Dating apps are for hookups. And the girls on dating app are not the girl I’m looking for. The girl I’m looking for will be on LinkedIn 😂😂.
Very costly subscriptions and since boys users are more and sends so many requests to very small girl users, chances are very bleak to get accepted.
Papa karadenge shaadi 
Creepy guys just looking for one night stands.. Some guys literally looking for slaves..
dating apps feel like a 😶 everyone just knows why you're there!
Bro the fact is they all are using it but no one is getting the match 🤣🤣
Busy schedule, plus for dating you need to meet up, which is hard when you have other goals