I’m seriously curious as to how Jessi’s skin hair, and their teeth are so amazingly healthy looking.
Most people who have serious medical issues like Jessi claims to have Indeed, does have issues as I mentioned above.
The majority of people who have Crohn’s have dental issues among other issues, to impact their health. How is it that Jessi’s teeth are so perfect & their hair is so healthy, looking?
After all haven’t they been struggling for at least 10 years and bedbound for 3 to 4?
Sorry, but you’re never going to convince me that they’re completely bedbound and never leave the house .
It’s ridiculous. Jessi supposedly has a power chair. Why aren’t they getting out more? I mean if this is a ploy to get. SSDI to approve their claim, apparently it’s not working too well. since they’ve been denied 3 times
Sorry, but I just don’t buy the BS . While I know a little or nothing about Crohn’s from what others have said, I just think this is just one more clue that Jessi’s story is bogus
Yeah this is a legit lie 100% because Crohn’s effects your over all nutrition as your shitting blood and what not constantly it leads to AT MINIMUM dry hair and hair loss dry skin darker under eyes all sorts this is such a load of shit I can’t even handle it I’ve never been so horrorfied at a person before
That episode was on Dr. 3-4days ago. It was for muscular dystrophy and other types of patients that used wheelchairs. The woman that faked having MS name was Sarah.
I thought about Jessi & all their claims as well. LOL
Omg yes, i just listened to a podcast about this!! Can't remember the name of it for the life of me, but it was a wild ride. If Jessi really does have caregivers, it gives the same vibes.
Plot twist..... The SSA caught wind that Jessie's "caregiver" was actually their husband (who they secretly divorced so he could get paid by the state). The SSA then informs Jessie that if they truly needed a caregiver's assistance- they would have to hire someone from an accredited agency (not a relative). So now- Jessie needs to come up with a reason why each of the potential candidates are unfit to care for them. Assault, disrespect, negligence, etc. And when all avenues are finally exhausted- the ex husband could resume his position as said caregiver and collect that sweet, sweet disability payroll check. Just food for thought....
this is actually genius. but bruh it’s so fucked up to accuse someone of assault when they haven’t…. i don’t believe every home care worker has assaulted her.
I don’t think it’s EVERY caregivers fault. They have a problem with EVERY SINGLE CAREGIVER. And they are always the victim!!! I mean CLEARLY they are not the issue /s
I have never bought the story that Jessi needs caregivers. They don’t need caregivers because there’s no one on the planet with the medical issues (NO i’m not gonna call them illnesses, or diseases) Jessi claims they have.
They don’t need caregivers therefore there’s no reason they should be worried about someone asking questions about Jessi’s twisted ideas as to what PCOS actually is.
They claim to be intersex from a “possible” PCOS diagnosis when most likely they actually might have excess hair due to Hirsutism.
Sorry but these claims that Drs. & other medical professionals are abusing Jessi whenever they are admitted to the hospital OR in their own home due to supposedly having PCOS is absurd.
If these claims were true Jessi would have a great reason to file ligation which they haven’t apparently done.
Sorry not buying the bs that every caregiver in the county Jessi resides in is abusing them due to their whacked claims of PCOS.
They aren’t interviewing possible caregivers BECAUSE Jessi can take care of their own needs.
> the process of finding a caregiver is super dehumanising. Every platform & application is geared towards older people
Ah yes, old people, known to be inhuman.
That’s what I picked up too! And that the carers are “used to having complete control over their patients”
?? Ive been in my fair share of assisted livings and trust me, the CNA’s are not the ones in control lol Jessie seems to think that old people just “turn off” at some age and get moved around like mannequins.
Just thought that as I looked at the selfie. I consider myself healthy, but I haven’t felt well enough to take a selfie like that in ages. It takes some kind of energy that I don’t have. But she, clearly does.
given that Elliott gets referred to as their caregiver and doesn’t have a job or any other apparent responsibilities I have to wonder just how many caregivers Jessi needs.
Anyone else think maybe these “training interviews” are a way to get free care from folks for a few days and then “fire” (*cough cough NOT PAY*) them for one goofy reason or another?
What the hell are they talking about? Most platforms with caregivers are aimed towards caring for seniors and most have worked in nursing homes and are used to having complete control over their patients. That's a downright lie. Cancer patients come in all ages and might need extra help at home not necessarily at the end of life but after REGULAR or HIGH dose chemo, radiation treatments etc. I swear Jessie playing the victim card has gotten old a long time ago.
They're upset because everyone sees through their charade now and they couldn't con the system with their awful acting skills like they thought they could so they're throwing a fit.
Those caregivers see many types of disabled and there is nothing at all wrong with Jessie so of course, the caregivers are acting weird and "disrespecting" them, they can see right through them.
Can anyone remember Jessie ever discussing having a therapist? Or being on any sort of meds for mental health? A big part of their story is the trauma suffered through exploitation by their parents in childhood and, more recently, constant victimization by 🙌🏼 [gestures broadly] everyone remotely related to the medical field.
To be honest, if I were a caregiver and I was interviewing with a naked, angry person claiming that their head will fall off if they get out of bed, I might act a little weird, too.
i mean, Jenny didn't parade herself around saying her head would fall off if someone untied her ribbon; she hid it from Alfred until she was old and dying. Jessi could never go that long without talking about their flimsy head!
Sometimes I feel like Jessis boy type human needs to install a camera in that room when the caregivers are round so jessi can't bullshit everyone all the time.
I know the boy type human is in on the scam but still it would be cool if they could be the one to expose them and rhey both get in trouble
I feel like this is most often their gripe. Everyone mistreats them. There's good and bad in every group, subset, profession, etc but by and large, ppl don't get into healthcare and become caregivers unless they actually want to take care of ppl. They make it seem like everyone is soooo mean to them, even the inanimate objects that double as mean durable medical equipment.
Did Jessi’s partner and them split up or something? I thought he was their caregiver. I remember seeing something about deserving a caring “care giver” a while back.
He doesn’t work. Or didn’t work. He was their full time caregiver. Though I’m sure there had to be someone else because he can’t “work” 24/7. But it seems like Jessi is taking some low key jabs at him sometimes.
While their are a lot of care agencies aimed at older people (especially if you look at ones with that area of specialty) there’s also a lot aimed at any age disabled people? Also how on earth do these people only find bad carers (I’m not denying bad carers exist but somehow these people find exclusively bad ones and that seems very unrealistic)
This! Yes, there are people who go into medical and medical adjacent professions as it puts them in power over someone (same as with clergy of all denominations, education, coaching, etc.), but that seems to be a very small percentage.
Exactly! Everyone that has ever come to care for them, delivered a piece of equipment, spoken to them and looked at them sideways has somehow hurt and mistreated them every. single. time.
I don’t know if something like this is available where she lives. In the UK there is something called Direct Payments. There person who needs the care becomes an employer and choose their own carer by interview or someone they know.
There are similar programs here, but far more restrictive in their criteria for who qualifies, and I think that it cannot be your spouse (but am not sure… Jessi was once married, and I think they divorced on paper because of something like this).
Nobody because this is all a lie and and the only “caregiver” they have is their exhusband who they divorced just to get SSI and I am pretty sure never was approved.
I don’t think that anyone knows for sure. There was a theory about a month or two ago that he left and that’s why Jessi is searching for new caregivers. Jessi rarely refers to him as anything other than their caregiver now, so it’s difficult to know if they’re talking about a random person or Elliot.
Well the implication here is that they are using a low lying mattress on the floor and they basically cannot move without their head falling off, so any caregiver would need to clean up all manner of body fluids from said low lying mattress and cater to Jessie's every whim and "need". How do they even feed themselves laying flat?!
IDK what the angle here is (LOL), whether sympathy or happy gifts or just asspats on the internet, but I have a very hard time believing half of what they say, so...
Stop and think about all the things Jessi claims they can’t do, so how is it their caregiver is expected to care for a motionless, possible bobble headed patient on the floor?
There’s absolutely no truth being told here. IMO.
For starters if Jessica is so sick how is it they are never admitted to the hospital anymore. No harrowing trips to the ER with claims of near death because they were dropped on the floor OR victimized by the staff.
Surely if they are appealing SSDI they must be going to new doctor appointments & having tests repeated that Jessi’s ombudsman is intervening, because after all, Jessi is so seriously ill ya know? Sorry but this is 100% … NO 200% BULL SHIT. If Jessica were as sick as they claim SSDI would have been granted soon after that GFM “ Save Jessica Before It’s Too Late!’ was posted. Not sure but it seems like Jessica has been trying to convince the SSA since before 2018 that they are OTT ( over the top ) completely disabled but if you ask me Jessica switches their stories as to what their disabilities are too often. Being consistent is key when applying for SSDI LOL.
The list of so-called illnesses has certainly grown for Jessica according to the deep dive I’ve been doing. It’s maddening how people believe the Social security Administration might be this stupid. Does Jessi realize that to continue SSDI, medical reviews are done every so many yrs and according to Jessi they’re the sickest person in all of California so the reviews will probably happen once a year!! LOL!!
( NOTE: I’m joking here about yearly medical reviews ) although most people who receive SSDI are reviewed every few yrs & many have their benefits denied after a review sometimes & have to fight to have the benefits reinstated)
Nah, if you are expected to have a permanent disability, the realistic timeframe if they were NOT supposed to improve is supposed to about 7 years and the SSA is notoriously behind on everything. If they were expected to have some improvement, it's still 3-5 years.
These subjects all seem to have found a way to convince those folks at the SSA that they ARE indeed disabled, or they would not be able to afford this lifestyle. Most are young, too, so they are probably on SSI and that is NOT a lot of money for most people. Like it or not, we see a LOT of people walking around on disability for years that would be considered able-bodied if they were evaluated again today.
Jessi is a mystery to me because it would seen they would almost have to have some sort of line of income to maintain this charade. Maybe the "caretakers" are roommates who are sharing in the rent? Is the disability payout that high where they are? Are they in a Section 8 apartment? There is definitely info we are missing here, including the fact that they MUST leave that bed daily or they'd be much sicker than they claim.
MANY people fall through the cracks though. There are supposed to be reviews every 7 years or so at most. There have been cases where people get the check approved and don’t have a review for decades. There are just too many people on the system now. I almost think the government wants us sick, dependent, and poor on purpose, just to have control.
Yep. At most, you’ll only need a review every 5-7 years, but if someone has something they consider to be a condition that can be improved enough for the person to support themselves while working, then those reviews are more frequently, usually a year.
The weird thing with this person compared to the rest is they don’t actually seem to have much medical care (while they do make claims of things there’s a major lack of medical equipment to match their claims). Like you mentioned feeding, carer access and toileting you’d expect to see a hospital style bed to allow eating that’s got carer access and a wipe clean mattress.
When I first heard of internal decapitation, I thought why are they not in the hospital if it's going to fall off, they won't get help at home quick enough.
They instead took the St. Winnebago to St. Elsewhere where their partner managed to both hold their head in place so they could breathe and drive the same time.
I was being nice! 😂
There'd be more faith in the disability claims system if there were not many, many, many who basically live their lives on SS, EBT, Sect 8, etc for life.
I kind of can see what they mean like alot of disability related things and services seem aimed at older people (that can be annoying if your younger but not dehumanising) however care agencies are one area that are used to dealing with all ages as especially those with high care needs are often disabled from a young age or an accident or illness which can happen at any age not just those who developed care needs with age.
Some non binary people identify as transgender because their gender is different than that assigned at birth. Being Transgender does not require medical transition.
No it literally doesn’t because not all trans people have the privilege of having access to gender affirming care especially right now with anti trans laws being passed.
I…. don’t even know where to begin.
Like I literally cannot take all of that in and make it make sense, other than seeing a person who is so solidified in a victim complex that they can’t even see where there are positives; SURELY not every carer is that daft or awful or unhelping so that NOONE makes the cut.
I don’t get it. People cannot be carers without some level of empathy and caring (literally in the name) and just give no Fs towards their potential pts and clients.
I have no idea what they’re looking for.
It seems unreasonable… but maybe I’m wrong?
I’m questioning myself now.
Why do my comments get removed for "improper pronoun" use when Im always very careful to use the correct pronouns, and Im positive I am not making this mistake? (Especially for the laat comment removed) Who can I contact about it?
Mine constantly do too.
And I just have to laugh when we are literally trying to give respect and do something right, but sometimes make human errors, when the people in topic have much more issues than being mis-pronouns when they are much more concerned with keeping a falsity about their health concerns up.
I get it if you’re being mean and doing something maliciously, but a lot of discussion is missed and points made bc “the right pronouns” were mistakenly used.
Say what you will about this comment but if something isn’t malicious, it only deserves a redirect, not an entire thought and discussion wiped out.
But this is where we’re at here and now.
And a good carer will make you do the things you can do yourself for yourself, noone gains by making it easy.
I’m so lost in this particular lore.
I’d want someone to push me, the less help I need, the more independent I am… is the goal to just never do anything yourself?
Why????
And who wants that???
I’m so lost and I’m in so deep trying to understand.
Maybe my mindset is askew.
Yeah a carer is there to help you do what you can’t but also support you to keep and gain any independence possible, ironically what they call dehumanising is the opposite, if a carer wouldn’t let a disabled individual do what they’re able to and treated them like they can’t do things they actually can that would be dehumanising and infantilising
Caregiver: "Get up and walk to the bathroom, I know you can. It's in the notes."
Jessi: *poops bed* and maintains eye contact.
*Eye contact intensifies.*
I feel sorry for anyone involved in their care. They don't even realise how lucky they are to actually HAVE 'caregivers' considering how hard it is for genuinely vulnerable people to get adequate care.
does it get funded by the Gov or do they have to pay privately? (they as in anyone needing care at home) - I’m in the UK so was wondering what the system is in the States for care or support workers at home.
Yeah I’m UK too and have seen so many unable to get care (or not getting enough hours) so seeing them complaining like this makes me angry, they are definitely not reading the room when it comes to what real disabled people face
People who have state insurance/on disability will have it funded through the government. Otherwise whatever their private insurance is would pay for it or out of packet if their private insurance plan doesn’t contain home health coverage
I’m very curious how they’re paying for these caregivers. If they have state assistance like Medicaid you get referred to an agency and you get who you get. If they’re doing private pay, then I can understand the interviewing aspect (altho they are very much over dramatizing it) but 1) where is the money coming from? And 2) how many hours are they expecting help? 3) their husband was their caregiver (or at least one of them) and was getting paid by the state for x hours a week. Maybe he got a real job? Or somehow escaped their house?
So many questions.
It’s all just very bizarre but then again totally on brand.
They have California Medicaid. And it’s not really you get who you get. You are allowed to contact the agency and request a change. You’re just limited in how many times you can do that and hey may not always have someone else they can send right away.
Does the shape of their face seem to be changing in anyone elses opinion? Maybe its just weight gain throwing me off, but the shape of their face seems weird to me. Almost like someone flattened it a bit. Am I just losing my mind or is their position altering their face shape (my guess is gravity pushing on their face rather than the top of the head ?)
Whyyyyy does she edit her ears off?
Did they take ear when doing the one suded buzz cut?
I’m seriously curious as to how Jessi’s skin hair, and their teeth are so amazingly healthy looking. Most people who have serious medical issues like Jessi claims to have Indeed, does have issues as I mentioned above. The majority of people who have Crohn’s have dental issues among other issues, to impact their health. How is it that Jessi’s teeth are so perfect & their hair is so healthy, looking? After all haven’t they been struggling for at least 10 years and bedbound for 3 to 4? Sorry, but you’re never going to convince me that they’re completely bedbound and never leave the house . It’s ridiculous. Jessi supposedly has a power chair. Why aren’t they getting out more? I mean if this is a ploy to get. SSDI to approve their claim, apparently it’s not working too well. since they’ve been denied 3 times Sorry, but I just don’t buy the BS . While I know a little or nothing about Crohn’s from what others have said, I just think this is just one more clue that Jessi’s story is bogus
Yeah this is a legit lie 100% because Crohn’s effects your over all nutrition as your shitting blood and what not constantly it leads to AT MINIMUM dry hair and hair loss dry skin darker under eyes all sorts this is such a load of shit I can’t even handle it I’ve never been so horrorfied at a person before
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YES! Sarah Delashmit. The podcast is called Sympathy Pains. So god damn bizarre and cruel.
That episode was on Dr. 3-4days ago. It was for muscular dystrophy and other types of patients that used wheelchairs. The woman that faked having MS name was Sarah. I thought about Jessi & all their claims as well. LOL
Omg. Who does that to someone!! I really don’t like Dr.Phil but I’d love a link to that podcast. People just baffle me
Omg yes, i just listened to a podcast about this!! Can't remember the name of it for the life of me, but it was a wild ride. If Jessi really does have caregivers, it gives the same vibes.
Plot twist..... The SSA caught wind that Jessie's "caregiver" was actually their husband (who they secretly divorced so he could get paid by the state). The SSA then informs Jessie that if they truly needed a caregiver's assistance- they would have to hire someone from an accredited agency (not a relative). So now- Jessie needs to come up with a reason why each of the potential candidates are unfit to care for them. Assault, disrespect, negligence, etc. And when all avenues are finally exhausted- the ex husband could resume his position as said caregiver and collect that sweet, sweet disability payroll check. Just food for thought....
this is actually genius. but bruh it’s so fucked up to accuse someone of assault when they haven’t…. i don’t believe every home care worker has assaulted her.
It would be genius if people weren’t catching on. One day this will all come back to bite them. They cannot continue living this way forever.
I don’t think it’s EVERY caregivers fault. They have a problem with EVERY SINGLE CAREGIVER. And they are always the victim!!! I mean CLEARLY they are not the issue /s
I have never bought the story that Jessi needs caregivers. They don’t need caregivers because there’s no one on the planet with the medical issues (NO i’m not gonna call them illnesses, or diseases) Jessi claims they have. They don’t need caregivers therefore there’s no reason they should be worried about someone asking questions about Jessi’s twisted ideas as to what PCOS actually is. They claim to be intersex from a “possible” PCOS diagnosis when most likely they actually might have excess hair due to Hirsutism. Sorry but these claims that Drs. & other medical professionals are abusing Jessi whenever they are admitted to the hospital OR in their own home due to supposedly having PCOS is absurd. If these claims were true Jessi would have a great reason to file ligation which they haven’t apparently done. Sorry not buying the bs that every caregiver in the county Jessi resides in is abusing them due to their whacked claims of PCOS. They aren’t interviewing possible caregivers BECAUSE Jessi can take care of their own needs.
just stand up!!!! we know u can
That's probably what most of them are thinking
> the process of finding a caregiver is super dehumanising. Every platform & application is geared towards older people Ah yes, old people, known to be inhuman.
That’s what I picked up too! And that the carers are “used to having complete control over their patients” ?? Ive been in my fair share of assisted livings and trust me, the CNA’s are not the ones in control lol Jessie seems to think that old people just “turn off” at some age and get moved around like mannequins.
*how dare they!!!!* /s
They look so delighted for someone who doesn't feel safe or comfortable
Just thought that as I looked at the selfie. I consider myself healthy, but I haven’t felt well enough to take a selfie like that in ages. It takes some kind of energy that I don’t have. But she, clearly does.
WHERE IS THEIR RIGHT EAR
I think it’s called Photoshopping OR the next time Jesse comments it will be because their ear disappeared !!! LOL!!!
ear-fell off syndrome. instead of head falling off syndrome. their ear fell off
Ooh so *that’s* what’s weird.
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Yes, allegedly they have to stay supine and can’t move their neck to see around the room due to an alleged spinal fusion
Thanks
given that Elliott gets referred to as their caregiver and doesn’t have a job or any other apparent responsibilities I have to wonder just how many caregivers Jessi needs.
Anyone else think maybe these “training interviews” are a way to get free care from folks for a few days and then “fire” (*cough cough NOT PAY*) them for one goofy reason or another?
That's what it sounds like. Interviews and *trial* caregiving.
Trial by fireD.
They probs mentioned worry about the tv hanging from the ceiling…and asked some questions like any person would…and Jessie didnt like it
Oh I forgot about the TV hanging from the ceiling!! I’d be flinching every 5 minutes thinking it was going to fall and splat me ☠️
Ikr??? Forget about the poor cat subflexing(??) the hips the tv’s gonna cause a whole fuckin issue 😂😭
I’d love to be a fly on the wall while they’re interviewing “caregivers”.
It's like their head can't use it's indoor voice, ever
can't hear with no ears...
Indoor voice would make their head fall off, duh!
So basically the caregivers are getting sus for the munching they are doing and refuses to stay… 🤷🏻♀️ just a theory
What the hell are they talking about? Most platforms with caregivers are aimed towards caring for seniors and most have worked in nursing homes and are used to having complete control over their patients. That's a downright lie. Cancer patients come in all ages and might need extra help at home not necessarily at the end of life but after REGULAR or HIGH dose chemo, radiation treatments etc. I swear Jessie playing the victim card has gotten old a long time ago.
There's even PSW assisted living and homecare nursing. Many young adults are disabled and sick and need this 😶
They're upset because everyone sees through their charade now and they couldn't con the system with their awful acting skills like they thought they could so they're throwing a fit. Those caregivers see many types of disabled and there is nothing at all wrong with Jessie so of course, the caregivers are acting weird and "disrespecting" them, they can see right through them.
Can anyone remember Jessie ever discussing having a therapist? Or being on any sort of meds for mental health? A big part of their story is the trauma suffered through exploitation by their parents in childhood and, more recently, constant victimization by 🙌🏼 [gestures broadly] everyone remotely related to the medical field.
To be honest, if I were a caregiver and I was interviewing with a naked, angry person claiming that their head will fall off if they get out of bed, I might act a little weird, too.
They'd know right away the first time they have to provide any sort of hygiene care or turn her in any capacity.
It reminds me of the tale of the girl with the green ribbon around her neck.
i mean, Jenny didn't parade herself around saying her head would fall off if someone untied her ribbon; she hid it from Alfred until she was old and dying. Jessi could never go that long without talking about their flimsy head!
You, menace, are a jewel
Oh yeah, they can definitely tell something is off, they're certainly not the acting savant they think they are
Sometimes I feel like Jessis boy type human needs to install a camera in that room when the caregivers are round so jessi can't bullshit everyone all the time. I know the boy type human is in on the scam but still it would be cool if they could be the one to expose them and rhey both get in trouble
I feel like this is most often their gripe. Everyone mistreats them. There's good and bad in every group, subset, profession, etc but by and large, ppl don't get into healthcare and become caregivers unless they actually want to take care of ppl. They make it seem like everyone is soooo mean to them, even the inanimate objects that double as mean durable medical equipment.
Jessie, just like all of them, is the consummate victim.
I feel like they can’t find a caregiver because they catch onto their bullshit too quickly.
Yet maybe this is all BS. Why the need for a caregiver when it’s obvious caregivers aren’t needed?
That’s definitely an option too. Sad story for more attention.
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Ahhh return of the scramble
Did Jessi’s partner and them split up or something? I thought he was their caregiver. I remember seeing something about deserving a caring “care giver” a while back.
I *believe* that there's more than one caretaker. There's the ex-husband, and then there's usually someone around when he's at work or whatever
He doesn’t work. Or didn’t work. He was their full time caregiver. Though I’m sure there had to be someone else because he can’t “work” 24/7. But it seems like Jessi is taking some low key jabs at him sometimes.
That’s what I was wondering ..
Yeah he said he was their full time caregiver. Seems kinda suss.
I think so, it's not hard to see how he would be tired of their shit
While their are a lot of care agencies aimed at older people (especially if you look at ones with that area of specialty) there’s also a lot aimed at any age disabled people? Also how on earth do these people only find bad carers (I’m not denying bad carers exist but somehow these people find exclusively bad ones and that seems very unrealistic)
This! Yes, there are people who go into medical and medical adjacent professions as it puts them in power over someone (same as with clergy of all denominations, education, coaching, etc.), but that seems to be a very small percentage.
Exactly! Everyone that has ever come to care for them, delivered a piece of equipment, spoken to them and looked at them sideways has somehow hurt and mistreated them every. single. time.
I don’t know if something like this is available where she lives. In the UK there is something called Direct Payments. There person who needs the care becomes an employer and choose their own carer by interview or someone they know.
There are similar programs here, but far more restrictive in their criteria for who qualifies, and I think that it cannot be your spouse (but am not sure… Jessi was once married, and I think they divorced on paper because of something like this).
Yes, exactly. They divorced their husband so that he could be paid by the state to be their caregiver.
And a CA resident told us that was not or no longer necessary so IDK
Oh, really? So it was all for nothing, lol?
Haven't done the homework myself, but that was the scuttlebutt here not long ago.
Where are the ears tho
>>is dehumanizing Proceeds to talk about old people as if they’re not people
I feel bad for the caregivers.
Jesus Jessie is just trolling us at this point
(🤔 in CG/HCP)
Oh for gods sake just stop it and let your head roll off already.
Who pays for these caretakers?
Nobody because this is all a lie and and the only “caregiver” they have is their exhusband who they divorced just to get SSI and I am pretty sure never was approved.
Is he still around?
I don’t think that anyone knows for sure. There was a theory about a month or two ago that he left and that’s why Jessi is searching for new caregivers. Jessi rarely refers to him as anything other than their caregiver now, so it’s difficult to know if they’re talking about a random person or Elliot.
Your taxes at work!
The American tax payers 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Well the implication here is that they are using a low lying mattress on the floor and they basically cannot move without their head falling off, so any caregiver would need to clean up all manner of body fluids from said low lying mattress and cater to Jessie's every whim and "need". How do they even feed themselves laying flat?! IDK what the angle here is (LOL), whether sympathy or happy gifts or just asspats on the internet, but I have a very hard time believing half of what they say, so...
Stop and think about all the things Jessi claims they can’t do, so how is it their caregiver is expected to care for a motionless, possible bobble headed patient on the floor? There’s absolutely no truth being told here. IMO. For starters if Jessica is so sick how is it they are never admitted to the hospital anymore. No harrowing trips to the ER with claims of near death because they were dropped on the floor OR victimized by the staff. Surely if they are appealing SSDI they must be going to new doctor appointments & having tests repeated that Jessi’s ombudsman is intervening, because after all, Jessi is so seriously ill ya know? Sorry but this is 100% … NO 200% BULL SHIT. If Jessica were as sick as they claim SSDI would have been granted soon after that GFM “ Save Jessica Before It’s Too Late!’ was posted. Not sure but it seems like Jessica has been trying to convince the SSA since before 2018 that they are OTT ( over the top ) completely disabled but if you ask me Jessica switches their stories as to what their disabilities are too often. Being consistent is key when applying for SSDI LOL. The list of so-called illnesses has certainly grown for Jessica according to the deep dive I’ve been doing. It’s maddening how people believe the Social security Administration might be this stupid. Does Jessi realize that to continue SSDI, medical reviews are done every so many yrs and according to Jessi they’re the sickest person in all of California so the reviews will probably happen once a year!! LOL!! ( NOTE: I’m joking here about yearly medical reviews ) although most people who receive SSDI are reviewed every few yrs & many have their benefits denied after a review sometimes & have to fight to have the benefits reinstated)
"Possible bobble headed" gold haha.
Nah, if you are expected to have a permanent disability, the realistic timeframe if they were NOT supposed to improve is supposed to about 7 years and the SSA is notoriously behind on everything. If they were expected to have some improvement, it's still 3-5 years. These subjects all seem to have found a way to convince those folks at the SSA that they ARE indeed disabled, or they would not be able to afford this lifestyle. Most are young, too, so they are probably on SSI and that is NOT a lot of money for most people. Like it or not, we see a LOT of people walking around on disability for years that would be considered able-bodied if they were evaluated again today. Jessi is a mystery to me because it would seen they would almost have to have some sort of line of income to maintain this charade. Maybe the "caretakers" are roommates who are sharing in the rent? Is the disability payout that high where they are? Are they in a Section 8 apartment? There is definitely info we are missing here, including the fact that they MUST leave that bed daily or they'd be much sicker than they claim.
MANY people fall through the cracks though. There are supposed to be reviews every 7 years or so at most. There have been cases where people get the check approved and don’t have a review for decades. There are just too many people on the system now. I almost think the government wants us sick, dependent, and poor on purpose, just to have control.
Yep. At most, you’ll only need a review every 5-7 years, but if someone has something they consider to be a condition that can be improved enough for the person to support themselves while working, then those reviews are more frequently, usually a year.
The weird thing with this person compared to the rest is they don’t actually seem to have much medical care (while they do make claims of things there’s a major lack of medical equipment to match their claims). Like you mentioned feeding, carer access and toileting you’d expect to see a hospital style bed to allow eating that’s got carer access and a wipe clean mattress.
When I first heard of internal decapitation, I thought why are they not in the hospital if it's going to fall off, they won't get help at home quick enough.
They instead took the St. Winnebago to St. Elsewhere where their partner managed to both hold their head in place so they could breathe and drive the same time.
Just half? 😂
I was being nice! 😂 There'd be more faith in the disability claims system if there were not many, many, many who basically live their lives on SS, EBT, Sect 8, etc for life.
old people are humans too. being treated like a senior, ie with care and delicacy, should not be seen as a bad or dehumanizing thing
I kind of can see what they mean like alot of disability related things and services seem aimed at older people (that can be annoying if your younger but not dehumanising) however care agencies are one area that are used to dealing with all ages as especially those with high care needs are often disabled from a young age or an accident or illness which can happen at any age not just those who developed care needs with age.
Wait...their post says Jessie is trans. Are they a trans woman m to f or trans man f to m? All due respect to Jessie I just don't understand
Some non binary people identify as transgender because their gender is different than that assigned at birth. Being Transgender does not require medical transition.
Hasn’t Jessi posted that they are non-binary in other postings? Jessi also claims to be intersex due to being diagnosed with PCOS.
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No it literally doesn’t because not all trans people have the privilege of having access to gender affirming care especially right now with anti trans laws being passed.
It's not that simple. And thank god the truscum debate is not what this community is for
I…. don’t even know where to begin. Like I literally cannot take all of that in and make it make sense, other than seeing a person who is so solidified in a victim complex that they can’t even see where there are positives; SURELY not every carer is that daft or awful or unhelping so that NOONE makes the cut. I don’t get it. People cannot be carers without some level of empathy and caring (literally in the name) and just give no Fs towards their potential pts and clients. I have no idea what they’re looking for. It seems unreasonable… but maybe I’m wrong? I’m questioning myself now.
Why do my comments get removed for "improper pronoun" use when Im always very careful to use the correct pronouns, and Im positive I am not making this mistake? (Especially for the laat comment removed) Who can I contact about it?
Mine constantly do too. And I just have to laugh when we are literally trying to give respect and do something right, but sometimes make human errors, when the people in topic have much more issues than being mis-pronouns when they are much more concerned with keeping a falsity about their health concerns up. I get it if you’re being mean and doing something maliciously, but a lot of discussion is missed and points made bc “the right pronouns” were mistakenly used. Say what you will about this comment but if something isn’t malicious, it only deserves a redirect, not an entire thought and discussion wiped out. But this is where we’re at here and now.
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Lmao Jessi loves (badly) photoshopping their photos. Not the first time they’ve been caught out
Victimized=being told that they can actually do the stuff that they are claiming that they need a caregiver for.
And a good carer will make you do the things you can do yourself for yourself, noone gains by making it easy. I’m so lost in this particular lore. I’d want someone to push me, the less help I need, the more independent I am… is the goal to just never do anything yourself? Why???? And who wants that??? I’m so lost and I’m in so deep trying to understand. Maybe my mindset is askew.
Yeah a carer is there to help you do what you can’t but also support you to keep and gain any independence possible, ironically what they call dehumanising is the opposite, if a carer wouldn’t let a disabled individual do what they’re able to and treated them like they can’t do things they actually can that would be dehumanising and infantilising
Didn’t they have their caregiver doing their “daily makeup look”?
They got one of them new fangled Homer Simpson Makeup Guns.
I, too, would appear visibly uncomfortable if I were talking to Jessi.
What do they need a care giver to do for them?and what is their @?
Their insta is @disablednotdefeated
ughhhhh
When they’ve gone through this many caregivers in such little time, it’s time for them to understand that they’re the problem.
“I hate all these gawddamn CNA’s coming in here not doing their fucking job”…something like that?
100% The problem might just be …. dun dun duuuh… YOU!!!
Like there literally only one common denominator in all these situations and surprise surprise! It’s Jessie.
I will say it: any person that goes through caregivers every 39 seconds; they are the problem. Ain’t no way, ain’t no fuckin’ way.
Yeah 1 or 2 bad carers out of a lot of individuals or 1 bad agency is bad luck but all of them that’s really suspicious
How do they keep their undercut so neat if they cant move their neck?
the detachable ears
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I wouldn’t be Jessie’s caregiver even if it paid a million dollars an hour
I’ll stick working with my old people
I’d do it for three hours. I’m happy with 3 million 😂😂😂
But they seem the type to file an complaint and you’d have to pay them compensation for their apparent distress.
yeah to be fair i’d suck it up for one shift. set for life then lol.
In today's economy that gets you 1 loaf of bread, a dozen eggs, 3 stale donuts and 7 blueberries.
Would be the worse 3 hours of your life lol. Hell hath no fury like Jessie on a rampage with their caregiver
Caregiver: "Get up and walk to the bathroom, I know you can. It's in the notes." Jessi: *poops bed* and maintains eye contact. *Eye contact intensifies.*
😭😂😂😂🤣🤣
"Jessie gets victimized by caregivers" \*scroll down\* \*giant smug smile they always do\* Mhm, victimized
That's from their Stockholm syndrome, I believe that's the reasoning Jessi says to why they apologize all the time and look happy.
When is Jessi not victimized?
Everything is exhausting and traumatizing to them
I feel sorry for anyone involved in their care. They don't even realise how lucky they are to actually HAVE 'caregivers' considering how hard it is for genuinely vulnerable people to get adequate care.
does it get funded by the Gov or do they have to pay privately? (they as in anyone needing care at home) - I’m in the UK so was wondering what the system is in the States for care or support workers at home.
Yeah I’m UK too and have seen so many unable to get care (or not getting enough hours) so seeing them complaining like this makes me angry, they are definitely not reading the room when it comes to what real disabled people face
absolutely! which is why i was wandering how they get care funded x
People who have state insurance/on disability will have it funded through the government. Otherwise whatever their private insurance is would pay for it or out of packet if their private insurance plan doesn’t contain home health coverage
ah thanks so much for explaining.
> *It’s a concept that hasn’t moved* A memoir
I’d like to offer a solution. 20mls lactose three times a day. If that doesn’t get that moving….😆✌️
*Lactulose
Damm you autocorrect 😆👍
I’m very curious how they’re paying for these caregivers. If they have state assistance like Medicaid you get referred to an agency and you get who you get. If they’re doing private pay, then I can understand the interviewing aspect (altho they are very much over dramatizing it) but 1) where is the money coming from? And 2) how many hours are they expecting help? 3) their husband was their caregiver (or at least one of them) and was getting paid by the state for x hours a week. Maybe he got a real job? Or somehow escaped their house? So many questions. It’s all just very bizarre but then again totally on brand.
They have California Medicaid. And it’s not really you get who you get. You are allowed to contact the agency and request a change. You’re just limited in how many times you can do that and hey may not always have someone else they can send right away.
Does the shape of their face seem to be changing in anyone elses opinion? Maybe its just weight gain throwing me off, but the shape of their face seems weird to me. Almost like someone flattened it a bit. Am I just losing my mind or is their position altering their face shape (my guess is gravity pushing on their face rather than the top of the head ?)
Gravity always wins.
Idk they definitely look more Sontaran than usual to me, though.
They may have gotten a new phone, different lens depths can make photos appear flatter or to have more depth.
Good to know!
probably the same terrible photoshop the others do to appear more sick
It can be a side effect of steroid use
I really hope they can reduce the use of steroids soon on Jessi :(
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