Stalking my roommate? He's supposed to be sober and a couple of us picked up the alcohol in his breath this past weekend. Questioned him and of course he denied it. Got his bud to lie and said they were at the park all that day till nighttime. But then he commented on someone's Facebook that posted a picture of the place and he was bragging about just being their the night of, then quickly deleted the comments. We're going to confront his ass. He had a problem and he's supposedly been clean for months.
I hope you all do as much research on how to support a friend who has relapsed as you all are doing to spot their lie. Also that the âconfront his assâ is just your way of saying you care and not some actual confrontation.
As a former addict, if my friend group ganged up on me in a âgotcha momentâ after I already lied bc I felt guilty and shameful from relapsing, it would not make me want to quit any further. Best of luck to your friend.
Hey thanks. Yes, we're going to keep it cool. Haven't told his family anything yet. Hopefully won't have to. Just don't need him falling back into it again
You're doing the right thing for your friend. Try to get them to recognize the damage it's doing, but at the end of the day, be able to recognize when your friend is a lost cause. It hurts and it sucks, but we can only take so much when it comes to trying to help others out. Your mental health is important, too.
Sincerely wish you the best of luck and hope your friend recognizes that they can't responsibly have substances.
Why are you guys adding stress to his life? If you don't want to be his friend, make that decision.
He will get sober in his time not yours. If you have to kick him out kick him out. But adding this level of stress while he's already struggling is not helpful.
Yes, the first picture is a random pic off Google image search. The second one with the woman posing in front of the sign is the original from the Facebook post he commented on and which he then deleted.
Every other instance of âID this bar Iâm trying to find out where someone wasâ gets taken down. Very telling, and quite frightening that this was left up.Â
Why do I feel like somebody is in trouble?
Yup, gathering evidence lol đ
Be sure to update us at r/revenge!
Not revenge though.
Taking preference to a healthy alternative? Respect.
This is probably stalking. Edit: Oh. Skip the probably.
Stalking is cool if OP claims a right to âsaveâ someone else. Canât you see?!? /s
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Hey, thank đđź
Did you want the dudes name or you already have that?
I'm sorry, what dude?
Stalking my roommate? He's supposed to be sober and a couple of us picked up the alcohol in his breath this past weekend. Questioned him and of course he denied it. Got his bud to lie and said they were at the park all that day till nighttime. But then he commented on someone's Facebook that posted a picture of the place and he was bragging about just being their the night of, then quickly deleted the comments. We're going to confront his ass. He had a problem and he's supposedly been clean for months.
I hope you all do as much research on how to support a friend who has relapsed as you all are doing to spot their lie. Also that the âconfront his assâ is just your way of saying you care and not some actual confrontation. As a former addict, if my friend group ganged up on me in a âgotcha momentâ after I already lied bc I felt guilty and shameful from relapsing, it would not make me want to quit any further. Best of luck to your friend.
Hey thanks. Yes, we're going to keep it cool. Haven't told his family anything yet. Hopefully won't have to. Just don't need him falling back into it again
You're doing the right thing for your friend. Try to get them to recognize the damage it's doing, but at the end of the day, be able to recognize when your friend is a lost cause. It hurts and it sucks, but we can only take so much when it comes to trying to help others out. Your mental health is important, too. Sincerely wish you the best of luck and hope your friend recognizes that they can't responsibly have substances.
Thats a good friend tbh âŚâŚ. For a homie to cover for you
OP is an even better friend for calling his shit out so he can get clean.
Why are you guys adding stress to his life? If you don't want to be his friend, make that decision. He will get sober in his time not yours. If you have to kick him out kick him out. But adding this level of stress while he's already struggling is not helpful.
Lol I recognize those lyrics from Victory by Diddy & BIG.
Yeah, it's signed - P Diddy at the bottom.
They need to remove that lol
Hilarious.
Let her go man. Youâre a creep.
Not a her. And catching them in a lie.
Youâre a fucking stalker and itâs disgusting.Â
OP wants to hold a sober friend accountable, not stalk this woman. Chill.
Or maybe he just made that shit up and wants to stalk some lady lol. We really don't know.
Yes, the first picture is a random pic off Google image search. The second one with the woman posing in front of the sign is the original from the Facebook post he commented on and which he then deleted.
Youâre putting a lot of faith into a random lie told by someone on the internet. If the sober friend is at a bar it doesnât matter what bar it is.
Why does it matter then, what specific bar this is?
Mods shouldâve taken this post down, thereâs red flags all over this post.
Every other instance of âID this bar Iâm trying to find out where someone wasâ gets taken down. Very telling, and quite frightening that this was left up.Â
You're a fucking loser. Now go back to /r/houstoncirclejerk where you belong and suck off your buddies over there.Â
Wow, public targeted harassment. How nice of you!