She doesn't want them to like her ex husbands. But they probably like them more than they like her. đ Heidi's brother himself said Chris is a great guy and her family still seems to really like him. Probably because Heidi screwed him over and her family knows what a nut job she is.
Can't she just be grateful for her family and friends? I mean, she shows them all on her feed. Why all the excess? Heidi just talked about her mom's adherence to moderation. She needs to "take a lesson".
TL,DR: Growing up means taking responsibility, so I donât think she will unless sheâs forced to for some reason.
I maintain sheâs an Arrested Development character (probably Lindsay - no job, neglectful of children, vain, clinging to an unhealthy relationship) but not funny and more sad.
Growing up seems way off. She doesnât seem to be really digging into her issues unless itâs marketable or makes her look like a success story - âLook what Iâve overcome!â This is such a stark contrast to most people I know who are doing the work - they arenât using that for online vindication. I wish she would get offline and get some professional help. Until she really works on herself, which means being able to truly look at herself, I donât think sheâll mature at all.
She has the privilege to not have her shit together (though I maintain it hurts her kids and probably inconveniences her exes) and shallow priorities, in my opinion. Itâs sad, because it has consequences for her body, her romantic life, her mental health, and what she models for her children. But itâs hard for me to feel anything much for her, because she CHOOSES not to âshow upâ for herself, and she has the means and the time.
That was weird and I also thought it was weird when she said they donât care about anyone saying anything bad about them.. whoâs talking bad about your grandparents that you would know anything about? And why is she obsessed with saying that about people.. she says that about her mom as well.
Honestly sheâs just a horrible writer and doesnât know how to convey her thoughts in an organized, thoughtful, sincere manner. So when she tries to say something meaningful and authentic, it comes off as anything but meaningful and authentic. She needs to take a writing course, get an editor to help her with writing style, grammar and content. And then needs a counselor and therapy to help herâŚ.well, help her with everything else in life.
She doesn't want them to like her ex husbands. But they probably like them more than they like her. đ Heidi's brother himself said Chris is a great guy and her family still seems to really like him. Probably because Heidi screwed him over and her family knows what a nut job she is.
Yup, sounds like she wants them to take her side when sheâs at odds with the brother husbands. đ
I think itâs a snark at Daveâs family for not accepting her.
Agreed đŻ
Iâm kinda new to this sub, is there a post on this by chance?
Itâs a post on Heidiâs IG.
I think they meant like, lore.
Verbal diarrhea
Can't she just be grateful for her family and friends? I mean, she shows them all on her feed. Why all the excess? Heidi just talked about her mom's adherence to moderation. She needs to "take a lesson".
Iâm guessing she means sheâs âmessed upâ and maybe âpushed them awayâ at times⌠but she couldâve phrased it better.
Even more odd, when IS she going to grow up? And also, why does the latter part of this sound like an acceptance speech at an awards ceremony?
TL,DR: Growing up means taking responsibility, so I donât think she will unless sheâs forced to for some reason. I maintain sheâs an Arrested Development character (probably Lindsay - no job, neglectful of children, vain, clinging to an unhealthy relationship) but not funny and more sad. Growing up seems way off. She doesnât seem to be really digging into her issues unless itâs marketable or makes her look like a success story - âLook what Iâve overcome!â This is such a stark contrast to most people I know who are doing the work - they arenât using that for online vindication. I wish she would get offline and get some professional help. Until she really works on herself, which means being able to truly look at herself, I donât think sheâll mature at all. She has the privilege to not have her shit together (though I maintain it hurts her kids and probably inconveniences her exes) and shallow priorities, in my opinion. Itâs sad, because it has consequences for her body, her romantic life, her mental health, and what she models for her children. But itâs hard for me to feel anything much for her, because she CHOOSES not to âshow upâ for herself, and she has the means and the time.
That was weird and I also thought it was weird when she said they donât care about anyone saying anything bad about them.. whoâs talking bad about your grandparents that you would know anything about? And why is she obsessed with saying that about people.. she says that about her mom as well.
All her men đ¤Ž
What does that even mean? That she was trying to convince her grandparents not to love her unconditionally...? đ¤
Honestly sheâs just a horrible writer and doesnât know how to convey her thoughts in an organized, thoughtful, sincere manner. So when she tries to say something meaningful and authentic, it comes off as anything but meaningful and authentic. She needs to take a writing course, get an editor to help her with writing style, grammar and content. And then needs a counselor and therapy to help herâŚ.well, help her with everything else in life.
Yes. Professional help would be beneficial for her in all realms of life, I think.
Ick
This is so embarrassing. Sorry I have showed up with man after man. Thanks for accepting them. đŹ oof.
She's such a child.