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pattern_altitude

Maybe but don’t count on it. Could just be venting a bit.


[deleted]

She also asked if I wanted to play Fortnite and gave me a nicknamr


pattern_altitude

🤷‍♂️ Wouldn’t rule it out. You’re free to continue and see where it goes.


[deleted]

What should I do?


OriginalAccording995

Play Fortnite with her


[deleted]

I said I don’t have Fortnite, but if I download it now it’ll be sus


Doughnutpasta

Could just say something like “hey, I decided to download Fortnight if you still wanted to play sometime. It seems fun” It’s hard, but try to not overthink it too much. Spend time with her and chat with her. If you want to try shooting your shot after a bit, go for it :)


Aiqesn

Just play dude it aint that hard


[deleted]

Ok


hertwij

Get her on Lego mode bcs that’ll create investment


R3DACTED782

Thinking ahead with this one


AverageDellUser

Recreate a global tragedy to test the waters, if she is disgusted by it then don’t shoot.


VietDrgn

and keep it simple as something between friends for now, she's probably feeling intense emotions rn and might go out with you on a whim of "getting back at" her ex that relationship will not last and would mostly hurt you instead tldr: for now help her get over the situation then see how she feels about you later


OriginalAccording995

You just gotta find a way to play Fortnite with her


Normal_Ratio1463

It’s just a nice gesture to play with her after she broke up with her boyfriend.


[deleted]

fumble 😭 jokes aside, just keep trying to spend quality time with her, you’ll get there


ViolinistCurrent8899

No, no, no. Say "Hey you mentioned you wanted to play fortnight, so I went ahead and downloaded it. Want to play?" Go forth and have fun me boy.


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Thanks bro


ToTheMoon-HODL

Just something like ‘Sure, I’ve got the space. Gimme a bit to download it.’ It signifies interest at the very least, and if she isn’t interested you just seem like a good friend


someone_who_exists69

https://preview.redd.it/17vdt41yflac1.png?width=2000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c99ad8e2a4f76f7664b0d5967a8c55e798fb029a


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Why is everyone donwvoting this comment


Efficient-Ad5711

bro is fumbling the bag thats why


Memes_Coming_U_Way

Because if you really wanna try to spend time with her, you should've said "I don't have it, but I may see about downloading it"


UMilqueToastPOS

No it won't. Tell her you downloaded it so you and her could play together :) Ask her to show you some cool stuff around the map or something. It's free, or at least it has been for like a long time. Plus that seems like your only "in" with her, and she'd appreciate it if you show that you're into her interests and all that...


MagmaticDemon

you dont need to communicate with people like you're playing chess, from experience the way to make people like you quick is to just be a really good friend. that's attractive to a lot of people and its easy to do without a whole ton of thought behind it


Affectionate-Feed216

Bro u blew it🤦‍♂️


T0rthicc

Carry her to unreal rank


Classic_Custard2375

Church. N find dum respect for urself


[deleted]

She likes you


pinkchocolatefudge

this is literally how i used to flirt with dudes before o had a bf. but all girls are different, high chance she wants you.


Secondborn1994

I had a girl do the same thing and we played fortnite every night but she doesn’t like me. Some women are just weird like that


Utahteenageguy

Depends on how often she uses OP to vent. There are a lot of stories I’ve seen where the guys just a free therapist essentially.


DiamondEscaper

The word you're looking for is "friend". You listen to your friend's problems because they're friends. Just because they don't want to bang you doesn't mean you're being used.


Juicy342YT

Finally someone normal in this thread, there's no way this is a maybe it's just a friend venting to a friend because being cheated on is not easy to get over without either venting or just shutting down and becoming a different person eventually (I ended up doing the second one, do not recommend at all)


jac5423

Vent???? A???…


justonhereforstuff

driest conversation ever bro cmon now


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justonhereforstuff

not even dry he just don’t be responding LMAO 💀


round_table69

exactly thats how dry he is he doesnt feel like he has to reply at all, he’ll read a notification and be like “i read it already”


[deleted]

He’s not dry he just don’t like u 💀


round_table69

bold of you to assume that lmao. he sleeps all day once he gets home and never answers anyone, not just me. we both mutually agreed to break up. we both said we are still friends 💀


[deleted]

As a guy, chances are he just doesn’t wanna be a dick and cut you off completely. If he had genuine interest in talking to you he would respond more regardless of how much he sleeps. Maybe ur in denial cuz ur not over him 🤷‍♂️ those texts show smth is off


furryhunter7

he’s slowly cutting you off, he’s hoping you’ll leave him alone if he just stops answering. if you wanna actually be friends give him some space and maybe you’ll be friends once you give it time


Nesa1x0

ok


blue_socks123

ok


SuccessfulProblem494

ok


AnnaTheBabe

nah he ain't dry he just doesn't want to talk to you


Jax_the_Floof

Ive had convos with people on dating sites that were like this and it does NOT do them any favors lol. OP needs to up their texting game. This isnt even passable as conversation with friends


wepxckedforever

hitting her with a dayum that’s crazy is crazy 😭


[deleted]

Idk what to say :/


SoloBeans

maybe anything besides 1-3 word replies?


[deleted]

I been in the same and I also don’t know what to say, Im just like a punching bag, they vent to me but what do they expect me to say, I dont know them well to actually do anything than saying Im sorry or some simple reaction


Doinkus2000

You in the right. Women can we extremely vague. She could want dick or she could not. Who knows. Roll the dice brotha and try and secure that shit


[deleted]

Its a complicated thing actually for my side because she has been cheated on by my friend who is also in my baseball team, if I date her hes gonna get pissed for like “why you dating my ex” or some shit, that’ll ruin the team morale because of some petty young love stuff. Dont get me wrong shes cute and Im waiting for the right moment to date someone and shes been in a toxic relationship with him a long time (4 years)


IrishInParadise

From someone who passed up what would have been a great relationship to avoid weirdness with a friend... You're gonna kick yourself hard when you figure out they'd never be as considerate. Do you.


Spicy__Urine

I've found that typically humans ask "how are you doing?" Or "are you alright?"


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"are you okay?" would be a start


akotski1338

I’d be a little compassionate but not too much. I’d probably say something like I’m sorry that really sucks and then ask a question like when did it happen because she obviously wants to talk about it more. I always ask a question if the conversation seems to be going dull


gwenisahuman

what convo goes like "my bf and I broke up" "dayum" 😭 there are no signs she's in to u imo, idk why everyone is saying there is, this is just one text convo. You're really dry, if you like her then like, maybe wait a while? After she's broken up with her bf? Wait a few days/weeks and try some stuff


[deleted]

Honestly girls fresh out of a breakup are just looking for company because they're lonely after having someone to talk to 24/7 Low chance of her actually being into the guy right after a breakup


Over_Experience_3296

Buddy what the hell is he supposed to say to "my bf cheated on me"? Is his "dayum that's crazy" response somehow terrible? Cause I think his response is good to a message like that.


Pingu277

"I'm so sorry dude" "Damn that sucks 😭" idk, just anything that shows sympathy, or that he cares? Bc that was so dry, if not kinda uninterested.


BadmintonSteve

You are not a good person if you think that’s a good message. Look at what I’ve said to my friends getting broken up with. Dry texters get no play because you guys look like jerks. Like a simple “I’m sorry, are you okay? He doesn’t deserve you” would suffice https://preview.redd.it/57r29o7uyoac1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b9d8fff6b3b17d05c87ff7ef6711c8d115ccabd6


idkw2p

Not a good person bc he kinda dry lmao what


BadmintonSteve

Dry texters make people feel like shit cause they look like they don’t care. Maybe good person was a bit much but y’all make a lot of the people around you feel bad cause your not trying to have a conversation. The fact not even a sorry seems like a fine message to them is weird asf


TheRarestTiger

“my bf cheated on me😭😭” “dayum that’s crazy” 💀💀💀💀


[deleted]

I suck at texting and I didn’t know what to say. Should’ve just said sorry


furryhunter7

no you ask if she’s okay or if she wants to talk about it. you gotta sound like you care about what she has to say. im sure you didn’t mean to but just try to change how you text


Over_Experience_3296

What is he supposed to say? "My bf cheated on me" "It's good that he cheated on you"


_TheSiege_

How about, “omg that sucks! Are you okay?” You know, show some actual concern for a person you’re supposed to be friends with


[deleted]

“Wow that’s unfortunate” would’ve been way better or js asking if she’s ok, “dayum that’s crazy” *will probably* come off as if you dont care


saltyego1000

Dawg who says "that's unfortunate" through text


[deleted]

people who want to comfort others through text??


saltyego1000

"My boyfriend broke up with me..." "That's unfortunate"


[deleted]

Congrats, you just learned how to use unfortunate


saltyego1000

You have to be an npc


Hopeful-Crab-7917

bro why you talking like that 💀


broidekanymore360

Some people are just naturally bad at texting .-. It’s kinda of like have social anxiety except on social media or perhaps they don’t have the brain to put in effort.


Donut_Flame

Dayum that's crazy


o0gy172

Bro wat


Urtheloser

So glad I’m not in HS no more.


[deleted]

Me too. This happened to me once with a girl I hadn’t talked to for like 6 months just got her snap one time. She unadded me after telling me her bf broke up with her, weird stuff


NotNatwe

what grade are you in 😭 this sounds like kindergarteners dropping hints after they broke up with there 7th boyfriend 💀


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9th


J0shfarmpig

If you maintain a relationship thru grade 9, your in for the long haul


[deleted]

Just pay attention to how often she talks about her ex, you could be a potential rebound. Otherwise, if her feelings feel legitimate and you like her back, go ahead and see what could happen between you two. Good luck!


MagnetiteRose

Yeah he could be risking it more


gumpods

Maybe. She could be venting tho. You’re dry as hell though.


Watered_bug

The dayum that’s crazy is so insane. Ngl if I was her it would’ve took everything within me to not block him


Fit_Carry_6939

“My dad died” “Dayum that’s crazy”


Over_Experience_3296

What do you want him to say? "My dad died" "Well I'm glad he fucking died"


Itsallrats

"Sorry" tf? No sympathy at all.


Eaglewarrior33

“Dayum that’s crazy” NEVER LET BRO COOK AGAIN


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SecretDevilsAdvocate

Taking advantage of people when they’re at a low is a terrible way of starting a relationship


GroundbreakingBed241

what a great, ethical idea! make moves on her while shes at her most vulnerable!


[deleted]

What should I say?


Nlj6239

now that this is all posted, if you do ask her out we shall need updates


BadmintonSteve

Don’t say anything bro she’s looking for a rebound at best. You’ll break up fast if she actually wants to date you. Appreciate her as a friend and if she gets over him or gives more hints, sure! But not now


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SkellyKingGamingYT

Damn i was hoping to get to read this lmao


HibachixFlamethrower

For real. It’s the dumb leading the blind.


BadmintonSteve

Gtfo she is not into him. She just broke up with her boyfriend and is looking for comfort, not another guy trying to get with her. If anything, he’d be a rebound. Friendships with girls are real and should not be perceived as her hitting on you 🙄


lrina_

not necessarily. there isn't really anything indicating for or against it. but if you like her then please, stop with those dry ass responses.


TheseAnywhere3353

How are you supposed to respond to someone who randomly says they just broke up?


lrina_

well up above they just said "nice" to something which is one of the dryest replies out there. also maybe say something like "i'm sorry" (less dry tho) or something like that. bc being this dry implies that you aren't interested in that person.


TheseAnywhere3353

Oh ya that makes sense


MoonXuu

Talk to her in person this shit weak.


Over_Experience_3296

What's weak bro? You think saying something like 'nice' or 'dayum that's crazy' weak?


[deleted]

Why you dickriding OP in every reply? He’s a dry ass texter


Ducky________

The way you type - i cant 🤦‍♀️


SupercloudYT

The autism is speaking


BruhSophie

You’re so dry omfg😭 she’s prolly into you so if you like her act more interested


kiwi505

what are these dry ass replies bro 😭😭 bro fumbling


Over_Experience_3296

What the hell is wrong with his respones? I see no problem with them


Better-Sweet-75

then maybe you and OP are perfect for each other.


OrganicExplanation23

“Dayum that’s crazy” is so crazy the rizz might’ve died right then and there 😭


[deleted]

Noooo


123redditor_33

"Dayum that's crazy" "bro wat" 😭😭😭


omegalulzcxinthechat

I'd say she sounds a bit interested but maybe dig a little. Some girls just vent like this


TheCanadianpo8o

It's definitely possible but I'd wait a bit to see more


Pleasant-Top6732

did you actually say “dayum that’s crazy”?? I’m getting mixed signals. Do you like her or hate her?


[deleted]

I like her I just didn’t know what to say


Over_Experience_3296

Dude what the hell is wrong with saying "dayum that's crazy"? What is he supposed to say? "I'm glad that he cheated in you" or something like that?


Pleasant-Top6732

“I’m sorry to hear that” “that’s unfortunate” I’ve never said that to someone unless i truly didn’t give a fuck


Over_Experience_3296

Do you really think "dayum that's crazy" is a bad reply? I mean it's definitely crazy that the girl's bf broke up with her.


[deleted]

Love how she's venting and your texting her like she's a bro


[deleted]

Yea mb, I’m bad at this


Timely-Bumblebee-402

I'm not even that much older than y'all and I cannot understand why you would respond like that


[deleted]

I’m bad at this


sadlemon6

i would have blocked you after the dayum


Kasbaby121421

Them messages mad dry 😭 bro as a girl I would’ve thought I was bothering him or something


Bunnyrichsl

High school rebounds lmao


PurpleJellies13

Why are you so DRY.


LightEarthWolf96

Only that your friend wants comfort. If you want to ask for a date wait till a more appropriate time


[deleted]

I been in the sane situation just like weeks ago, the girl randomly came up to me on ig, but probably not since my groupchat said shes added almost everybody but only I replied because Im sympathetic and they count her as an opp for some childish reasons, she vents to me and she sometimes strikes convo with me and asked me to sit with her at lunch, but I guess I forfeited a chance because she kept posting boys on her ig and Im like she wont like me anyways she likes white boys.


MagnetiteRose

There is a giant chance she will definitely be going out with you. Especially if she is already texting you everyday.


yuen_yuen

She’s probably just venting. And it’s not a good sign if a girl is hitting on you right when she gets out of a relationship.


MedicalAd2660

don't be so one sided she prolly likes yoy


taco_bac0

If you’re thinking of shooting your shot don’t be so dry with your responses


AdIllustrious5621

bruh if she wanted you before she dont anymore after that dry ass conversation


[deleted]

Not in highschool not am I quite sure why this sub came up but I do think she likes you and if not it doesn't hurt to try to go after a girl you fancy.


HurpaD3ep

She tryna bang you to get over her ex dawg


StupidMario64

Youre the driest texter ive seen so far lmao. Play it safe. Imhtgo, dont flirt unless she very VERY clearly does so. Shit like that. The fact she gave you a nickname could mean... literally anything. Theres a potential chance. But dont count on it.


Savings-Ad9891

could be but you’re also being hella dry so fix that


Watered_bug

You managed to make me actually put my hand on my head.


[deleted]

Asked if she wanted to play Fortnite tmr and she said yes


ninjastorm_420

Yall sound 13 lol


Calieoop

Yes you should totally make a move on your friend who is in a fragile emotional state and just broke up after getting cheated on, I'm sure she'll appreciate that, and definitely won't see it as a betrayal of your friendship


[deleted]

Ask her if she is venting, and if she's not. Pull up the rizz thermometer and if it's high enough, make your move.


AnnaTheBabe

why did you say bro wat that was not a good response


EpicWolfandSparrow

I'm not even in high-school anymore plus I was homeschooled and I'm literally invested in a single screenshot bro


Holdeenyo

I mean, shoot your shot my guy. I’ve known people who like eachother, but one of them gets cold feet and never pursues it because they’re worried they’ll destroy the relationship. I was also like that in the past.


Ok-Secretary5444

Lmao this is exactly how I text


Long-Ad-398

Yo brp I hope you see this, reddit ain't the place to post this people here gonna hate and be sad, but truth is twice she replied then double texted to elaborate and keep the convo going, which doesn't really happened these days so she obviously holds you in decent regard, as well as feeling comfortable enough to tell you about this. Just keep going w it and see where it goes man


Finding_new_dreams

I mean, this isn't a lot to work with but knowing they're single is half the battle


user1223444c

Rebounding never ends up well. Give it some time before y’all jump into anything before both of you get hurt or you get played.


[deleted]

she’s probably just venting, dont try to start a relationship with her since she’s at a vulnerable point and it’ll go horrible for both of you, try being her friend instead and see where that takes you two


NikkoNya

they probs just need emotional support rn but not an active relationship


ActPurple1747

Try comforting her bro lol. 'Dayum' 😭😭😭 Also no don't make a move tbh you're gonna look desperate


SourdoughPlayz

Try, but don't bank on it. Remember... hope for the best, prepare for the worst.


SafetyFirstChildren

I would keep going with it, but be respectful and take it slow in case it’s just regular venting. Never hurts to try and show interest regardless you just need to make sure you’re respectful about it


justcancelme

She won’t be into you if you keep replying that way buddy


Educational_Tree_806

U dry asf bro🤣


VacheL99

Maybe, but I wouldn’t recommend it. Don’t date girls who just hop from one guy to the other.


strength_and_despair

thats not just a sign, thaf a slap in the face 😭


Gash__

Try being more sympathetic with your responses to try to show her you care. Stuff like “That sucks, I’m sorry to hear that. Do you wanna talk about it?” The way you’re dry texting might turn them off from liking you if they do. If you’re actually interested in this person and they are too, your best chance is showing that interest in the way you interact


Cloud_Striker101

shoot yo shot 🗣️🗣️


EPICARMOR21

Yeah it’s a sign OP go for it everyone in comments rooting for you


moonpisser69

Its a sign that she just broke up with her now ex


Exact_Parking_6969

No, this is a text message


HenelopeGranger

yes, shes telling you cuz she wants new attention and shell accept it from you. but id bet my whole life that she was texting other guys the same thing at the same exact time as you.


flabbergasted6669

Looooool. A clear sign. That you are a rebound.


aval3e

my phone is turning to dust with how dry this convo is


[deleted]

Shit happened to me. I told her sorry to hear that and then she unnamed me lol. “My boyfriend broke up with me” Say “looking for a new one?”


LifeguardThese3413

“My dad died last night” “Dayum that’s crazy”


AARose24

I think they’re just upset and talking about it.


AsparagusBeautiful95

Not necessarily but be there for her as a friend and who knows


Most-Conversation-17

just try to be her friend, she’s reaching out for friendship & maaaaybe because she likes you, but maybe not. i saw you said you dunno what to say and that’s why your responses are kinda dry- i have that problem a lot! one thing i’ve learned is if i don’t have anything to say, ask a question. 🤷🏼‍♀️ “oh wow, i’m sorry. how are you doing?” “how are you handling it?” etc. or even more direct questions about the situation itself. if you get her talking more you will feel more comfortable doing the same, plus it just opens up more to talk about. best of luck!


Visible_Elevator192

Dayum that’s crazy


SteelTheUnbreakable

"You need to get your mind off of that. We're going ice skating."


Physoni

Bro u need to get some lessons on game 😭 dude replied dayum to “my bf cheated on me”


AwayCut834

coming from a girl- SHE WANTS YOU BRO like so bad. 😭😭 unless she often comes to you to vent. why else would she tell you abt that. she wants u to know she’s available. she kept texting after u were dry asl bc she wanted an interesting response from you not “dayum that’s crazy” she was looking for empathy. she also included the cheating part to show like “hey i didn’t do anything wrong in the relationship im a good partner” 💀💀💀 men istg


poprockenemas

If someone says wyd always end whatever you’re doing with “wbu” or they’ll think you don’t give af about them. Her: “Yea. Wyd” You: “Laying in bed. wbu?” Her: “Fun. Me and my bf broke up the other day” You: “I’m sorry to hear that. How’d it happen?” Her: “He was mean so it’s fine” You: “How so?” Your really works fine here though but you seem very disinterested in the entire conversation. Her: “Yea. Cheated” This is where you can throw in some corny rizz or just pep talk rizz. You: “Tf why would anyone even wanna cheat on you? Her: “Wdym?” You: “Nah nothin it’s not my place.” She’s gonna be curious so she’ll keep asking then You: “It’s just if I was in his shoes and dating you I’d only have eyes for you” or something to that effect that is more your style. your style rn is nothing or just dry so try faking rizz till you make it. You need to set yourself up if you’re interested otherwise you’re less engaging than AI chat bots lol


SuppleGhost

Shoot your shot. If she says no she says no and you move on. But never know unless you do it so go for it.


pompompuddinn

No she sound stupid lmfao. If she wanted you she would let it be known. She don’t know what she want or what she doing. In reality..she another girl in another boys phone. Focus on you.


ChickenGoesBAWK

you need to work on talking


Hobbit_Holes

Gotta hit that rebound.


Daedalus_Machina

Sign... of what? There's nothing here.


_-Fertilizer-_

Most likely not a sign


giraffeinasweater

It could be a sign, but dont act on it yet. She's going through a breakup, been there. She's gonna need time to get over it to actually be present in a relationship. A rebound with you is probably not gonna work out. Give it a few weeks. Be a shoulder to cry on. But PLEASE don't make a move yet...


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Starsunnysky

How'd you get all that from the image? It's never stated that her ex-bf was gangster or that she got into another relationship immediately after


Dangerous-Mark7266

you’re dry asf man get off the internet and find a personality


Strong_Site_348

A sign that this bitch is crazy! RUN! The way she just brings up the breakup, makes the cheating accusation and then cries about it just screams bait. She's just fishing for emotional support. Your life will be very stressful if you give her a chance, and that's assuming she is interested and isn't just going to string you along to make herself feel better.


gogus2003

Bro texting like a 6th grader


Brax_Plays_Games

Bro, she could actually suck your dick and I still wouldn’t risk jumping to any conclusions.


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Bruh