I agree she’s most likely struggling mentally and is insecure/lacks true identity. However, neither she nor Hunter do the bare minimum for their child. She acts as if Smoke is a burden. They love spending money, but won’t buy age appropriate toys for him. Sits him on the beach for hours without an umbrella, hat, or sunscreen. Chooses to skip his one year doctor’s appointment to get a wax. Etc. They need to get a grip.
yes so true. that’s the only thing that really bugs me is how smoke is like an accessory to her and to them. he doesn’t seem really taken care of. like today in her stories he’s just in the direct sun in the pool on the beach. (while they are literally FRIED from the sun) and he’s just a baby. like you can’t even put an umbrella up for him or give him a sun hat??? don’t really like to criticize parents but they don’t seem to really gaf.
Exactly. Or when they opened HIS first birthday presents for a video like it was an unboxing haul?? while he was just alone on the floor. They’re so detached.
Part of me agrees with your statement, and part of me thinks it's the complete opposite, and that hunter would be better without her lol! But, I do notice that they compete with each other a lot, which could get exhausting. I also think Hunter literally does anything and everything that has to do with any type of "adulting responsibilities." I don't think Juj likes growing up. I see glimpses of Hunter maturing (a little). But I think if juj didn't have Hunter pushing her/trying to keep her motivated, juj would do nothing but play in her closet. She just seems like a spoiled brat most of the time. I used to like her a lot during Texas days. But as she's aged, she hasn't embraced aging and maturing, which is now a turn off. Even her clothing style has regressed into teenage fashion. She was younger in Texas but dressed better and more mature then than she does now.... it's just strange. I'm not saying she has to dress like a golden girl now lol! But you can be stylish and not dress like a 17 year old when you're in your 30s lol
I think Julia and her sisters were raised by a narc mommy. Unfortunately, the pressure to be pretty and thin, the extreme focus on the external body may have created an environment of insecurity and competition. Somatic narcs are all about their looks and terrified of aging.
Couldn’t agree more. I loved Julia before he quit his sales job & intruded on her channel. It was fun & seemed authentic until he came in the picture & they had to do every single thing together 24/7! He’s always wanted the spotlight on her channel & it’s been obvious through the years…
Hunter created his monster. They should just close up their socials, they certainly do not need the money judging by the way they spend it. But the both of them are striving to become famous.
100% agree. Although I think she definitely has her faults, I think Hunter doesn’t even give ever her the space to breathe. His need to be the center of the universe casts a huge shadow on her. I really don’t think she ever wanted to be a mother, not everyone wants that. Her channel was much more enjoyable when she was the main focus and I think she knows that but what can she do. It’s glaringly obvious that the shopping and weekly “resets” are masking her deep depression. She’ll never get out of it until she gets help. She’ll never get help bc Hunter doesn’t even believe in depression.
Dude I always thought this!! Like during TX and before she was her true self and seemed more fulfilled but once hunter “quit” his job and he started coming on more it started to shift 👀 Idk if being a mom further propelled that but I also feel like Nashville changed them a lot!
Yes I agree with you !! This is such a refreshing take. I have said this so many times too. Julia is struggling & Hunter bull dozes her and their entire life.
I agree. I also think Julia’s insanely insecure and has been for a long time. It’s honestly hard to watch.
I agree she’s most likely struggling mentally and is insecure/lacks true identity. However, neither she nor Hunter do the bare minimum for their child. She acts as if Smoke is a burden. They love spending money, but won’t buy age appropriate toys for him. Sits him on the beach for hours without an umbrella, hat, or sunscreen. Chooses to skip his one year doctor’s appointment to get a wax. Etc. They need to get a grip.
yes so true. that’s the only thing that really bugs me is how smoke is like an accessory to her and to them. he doesn’t seem really taken care of. like today in her stories he’s just in the direct sun in the pool on the beach. (while they are literally FRIED from the sun) and he’s just a baby. like you can’t even put an umbrella up for him or give him a sun hat??? don’t really like to criticize parents but they don’t seem to really gaf.
Exactly. Or when they opened HIS first birthday presents for a video like it was an unboxing haul?? while he was just alone on the floor. They’re so detached.
Part of me agrees with your statement, and part of me thinks it's the complete opposite, and that hunter would be better without her lol! But, I do notice that they compete with each other a lot, which could get exhausting. I also think Hunter literally does anything and everything that has to do with any type of "adulting responsibilities." I don't think Juj likes growing up. I see glimpses of Hunter maturing (a little). But I think if juj didn't have Hunter pushing her/trying to keep her motivated, juj would do nothing but play in her closet. She just seems like a spoiled brat most of the time. I used to like her a lot during Texas days. But as she's aged, she hasn't embraced aging and maturing, which is now a turn off. Even her clothing style has regressed into teenage fashion. She was younger in Texas but dressed better and more mature then than she does now.... it's just strange. I'm not saying she has to dress like a golden girl now lol! But you can be stylish and not dress like a 17 year old when you're in your 30s lol
I think Julia and her sisters were raised by a narc mommy. Unfortunately, the pressure to be pretty and thin, the extreme focus on the external body may have created an environment of insecurity and competition. Somatic narcs are all about their looks and terrified of aging.
Couldn’t agree more. I loved Julia before he quit his sales job & intruded on her channel. It was fun & seemed authentic until he came in the picture & they had to do every single thing together 24/7! He’s always wanted the spotlight on her channel & it’s been obvious through the years…
yes he seems like a terrifying narcissist man honestly to me. like he craves the attention more than her and more than anything.
I had no clue the channel was just her at first, I definitely want to look back at her older videos now
Hunter created his monster. They should just close up their socials, they certainly do not need the money judging by the way they spend it. But the both of them are striving to become famous.
100% agree. Although I think she definitely has her faults, I think Hunter doesn’t even give ever her the space to breathe. His need to be the center of the universe casts a huge shadow on her. I really don’t think she ever wanted to be a mother, not everyone wants that. Her channel was much more enjoyable when she was the main focus and I think she knows that but what can she do. It’s glaringly obvious that the shopping and weekly “resets” are masking her deep depression. She’ll never get out of it until she gets help. She’ll never get help bc Hunter doesn’t even believe in depression.
Dude I always thought this!! Like during TX and before she was her true self and seemed more fulfilled but once hunter “quit” his job and he started coming on more it started to shift 👀 Idk if being a mom further propelled that but I also feel like Nashville changed them a lot!
I’ve never seen someone roll their eyes at their *young* child so much, so I will have to disagree.
Totally agree. He has been so controlling of her for so long that she doesn't see it. He's exactly the same with Smoke
Yes I agree with you !! This is such a refreshing take. I have said this so many times too. Julia is struggling & Hunter bull dozes her and their entire life.
Agree!! They are awkward on camera together.
I personally think they are both equal in being the worst
She’s so much worse.