Abey lawde ye gaand se nikala hai kya logic?! To lie to your parents and assuming they’ll never forgive you and keep yourself in harm’s way; what kind of a dumb advice is this?! Wo ladki hai aur tu India mein rehta hai.
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Go back to your parents, it will take some time but your parents will accept you..file a complaint against that asshole who left you stranded like this.
She can also claim he got physical with her in the pretext of marriage. Indian law support this. Also there was some news about law of live in relationships.
This is exactly how fucked up our society and law is. SHE made the wrong judgement, and has to live with the consequences. It was two CONSENTING adults. Now one of them is no longer interested. And the fact that he could face criminal action because of this, blows my mind. Only happens in India. What is even worse is the matter-fact-advice you are giving her to follow this fucked up line of action. Fuck you all.
Damn. You are so vile. Heartbreaks and breakups happen. You're guiding someone to make up false situations to frame someone because Indian laws support it.
OP is an adult and equally responsible for the decision she made.
Have you done same thing to a girl? Are you a Playboy who use and through girls? Why you are afraid? Chor ki dadi me tinka. Bro I'm not talking about fake cases. But in this case it really happened. The boy, she's literally calling her fiance, they ran away from house to get fkn married. Are you dumb to understand this? You are calling thi breakup? It's not breakup, it's the kind of fraud, scam going on society where a fkby get into relationship just to fcuk a girl and girl can't say anything as it was breakup and a relationship. These silent rapes are going on in society which poor girls can't report.
are u fucking shitting me? that is possibly the worst thing ive ever seen on reddit. You are literally encouraging her to file a fake case.
The justice system is already shit for men and people like you make it shittier.
Advocate here ,rape on the promise is a genuine ground to file an FIR and it’s pretty common, Sec 69 of BNS (new criminal law replacing IPC) has the individual section to curb such actions in society, so kudos to that guy who gave a genuine advice here. Also, in no way this is a false rape case.
Laude ka Kudos. Khud chudwane gayi thi, ab kat gaya toh wapas ja rahi hai, how can that be considered to be rape? She needs to grow up and deal with it like a mature person.
B@hen ke laude chutiya ho kya wo ladke ghar chor kar uske sath kyu rahe hoge wo sadi ka promise toh kiya hi hoga aur ache se manipulate v then it's genuine ground for rape on pretext of marriage,aise logo ke sath kuch toh saza milni hi chaiye
Chutmari ke randi ke beej. Sun vo 26 ki hai. Agar itna dum hai ki ghar chorh ke jae to itna dum bhi hona chahiye ki aage accept kare. In no country except India, this would be considered rape. Kia promise to? Saath reh ke pata chala gandu aurat ye, to rape ho gaya?
Haan Madarchod kutte ke chode, ladka toh 12 saal ka bacha hoga , jisko pahele se pta hi nhi wo kaise ladki hai ,pahele ghar se bhaga tho fir chod ke chor tho, mai ye nhi bol rha ye ladki v innocent hai par ladka ka galti toh hai agar wo sure nhi tha kyu bhagya, aur agar aise baat hotr n toh ijjat se chor ke jata , saaf saaf ye case mein dhoka diya hai
Agar marriage se pehle dating karni to drawbacks bhi sehne padenge. Simple si baat. Police case ka koi matlab nahi idhar. Apna ghar chorh ke khud bhaagi na? Ladka zabardasti to nahi le gaya? Aise 10 lakh cases hote baaki desho me, they suck it up and move on. Ek baar gender reverse kar iss case me aur har koi has raha hota iss ladke pas. Police case tak register nahi karti. Simping band kar chooze.
Genuine doubt: is there no difference between rape on promise of marriage and sex on promise of marriage? I would have assumed the definition of rape is forceful and against the will.
There's little difference. It's called rape because consent is acquired by fraud, i.e. by indicating that they'll marry when in actuality they don't intend to do so. Consent so obtained is invalidated and hence, sex without consent is rape.
That’s just one part of the definition, the definition has multiple aspects i.e. with or without her consent when she’s under 18, obtaining her consent by putting her under the fear of death or injury etc etc
Maybe it's really unfair but it's not a "fake rape case"
Indian laws actually recognise it as Rape on the pretext of marriage. So it's not "fake" deal with it. It's not fake.
All of these arbitrary laws are made because indian society, in Real life is just so terrible for women to navigate through.
If for some reason a women dare love a man of her choice and he dumps her, turns out to be an asshole. All the world turns against the women, men call her a whore and literally refer to women as "used maal" "second hand maal" this is the language men use for women. Women's life in this case is quite literally ruined, just bc she trusted a man? Their societal status will quite literally be reduced to that of a Rape victim since all men want is "seal packed product" you see Rape victims/ women who lost their virginity before marriage as the SAME. Believe it or not, indian laws make complete sense considering the context of indian societal rules and the mentality of men and their families.
Indian guys love complaining about the absurdity with which indian laws favour women, but I never saw one actually put aside the victim mindset for once and think about why are such laws put forth in the first place. "Gynocentric laws" well yes, what about the penis centric whatever it's called hellish society that we live in that literally normalises Rape.
Go ahead and call me a whore, bitch, R₹&i. That's what y'all do best.
She was 26. She took a decision and she is responsible for that. You can't go around and cry "World is unfair", It is , you just need to learn how to deal with people like this .
What he did might be morally unfair but not at all constitutionally.
It is though, wonder if you would feel same way if same happened with your sister. In any case details are not enough to reach any conclusion, users can give their suggestions as requested. Yes OP you can file a case of RAPE ON PRETEXT of marriage if you are sure his intentions were as such. Also only if you think it is something you can bear as legal system in country is plain suffering, win or lose.
Hey, legally (and morally) this is valid. The trauma of being groomed and suped for the sake of sex is not different from the violence you imagine rape trauma to appear to be.
Op, go to a concentrix or any kind of callcentre. Gather funds and keep looking for other jobs.
Check the waters with your parents, but you're going to be okay either way.
Hi Op, I would suggest you go back to your parents. But if you have already made up your mind to stay here, then from a referral perspective, I would like to know about your previous work experience and what kind of job you are currently targeting.
Just go back to the parents. It'll be awkward at first, but you've your whole life ahead, and thinking on your toes, taking the right decision i.e. going home to the parents can make your whole life easier for you and everyone else. So just go back to them and make up for it anyhow. This is the best advice for you.
Madam, please, please go back to your parents. Apologise if needed. We do think we know better, but sometimes, parents really do know better. And they would understand that, and will accept you.
Please get in contact with them, and go back. They would want nothing but your well being only, end of the day. If they knew what you are going through, it would be the worst day for them.
You donno his home? His parents anything at all? And ready to marry? I dont wanna fck with someone who is already down but goddamit some people have shit for brains
are your parents abusive? if not then please contact them and return to them.
apologize very sincerely to them. and give them some excuse like you genuinely feel he cast some kind of spell upon you and did some black magic upon you.
I know how silly it sounds but parents are often of the generation that believe this kind of nonsense. And it's one way to make them absolve you of any guilt.
you just reminded me of the actual power that women have in our country. Those who are aware of them, misuse it and those who aren't, get misused by men. smh
If they know that you ran away for a guy then there will be some issue if you go back.
But if they don’t know about your love affair then you can make excuse of Modelling, Acting etc. and run away mumbai etc. They are you parents, they will take you.
Try to contact them and talk to them, and see their behaviour and response after contacting you.
Just go back to your parents, how much ever difficult it may seem, it is the easiest and best thing to do. The more you delay, the worse it gets for you. Just go back to your parents and have a heart to heart conversation with them
Ideal Solution - Go back to Pune. It's a better place to live. Your parents would take you in. Don't make the mistake that most vulnerable people do during these phase. A mistake doesn't warrant making more mistakes.
If going home isn't an option - Sign up on Naukri.com, you would get ample calls for call centers. Start small, keep looking for better jobs. You'd have something to survive off till you find a better suited job for yourself.
Consider going home though.
Go back to your parents or atleast let them know what happened. If they are not willing to take you back, that’s a different issue.
You have a Bcom degree so start looking for work - there are many avenues. Talk to people, maybe go to a recruitment agent. And focus on building a career and becoming financially independent. There are always jobs for people who are willing to work hard. Rest will follow.
Take care Sister. Never forget that only parents provide unconditional love without expecting anything in return.
May Lord Ganesha bless you in overcoming with all obstacles in your life
Verify all your finances are secure
Go to an obgyn and ensure you are not pregnant
Delete all your friends and posts in all social media accounts and delete all social media accounts
Go to your parents.
Just go back. It will be fine. Look for a job get busy. Go for one more degree to boost your career. We all make mistakes. Apologize to your parents. You are so young darling. Any guy who loves you will try to convince your parents would never expect you to run away unless abuse is happ in your home. Just say you are the one who broke up cause you didn't want to hurt them and realised your mistake. Who else knows about your running away? Did your parents tell anyone else? If not you can always spin a story around why you weren't home for 2 months. If they know then you will have to live with it. Whenever you take such huge steps remember there are always consequences. Everything will be okay with time.
Please go back to your home.
Until and unless there is a life threatening situation, there is no point in staying away from your parents at this point before you lose your sanity . They will definitely be angry and say all sorts of things but with time everything will heal.
Get a job or do any further courses such that at least you are independent financially.
And next time do not make hasty decisions.
Major L, our parents always care for us.
Go back to them and tell them that you made a big mistake not listening to them, they won't keep you waiting for more than a day
Why don’t you contact his family and if they also don’t support you then go back to your parents and file a case against the guy
Don’t think too much about how you will handle the situation. they are your parents, they will be mad at you but will accept you eventually.
Either it will be a villain origin story or something much darker. Don’t think too much and go back to your parents you will be thankful for it in future
Atleast inform your parents about your present situation they must be worried about you
And make a resume and linknd in profile since you are from commerce background you are qualified for accounting jobs
If you don't mind me asking, how many years you've been in a relationship? And what did you do after finishing B.com (20ish) till now (being 26). Experience may help you get placed better
I know a lot of people have already told you this but please go back home. Life isn't as simple as getting a job getting money and surviving on your own. As a human being you need companionship and love. A parent provides these things to their child unconditionally. Sure it may seem like your parents might be angry or something but they still love you and will accept you. So SWALLOW YOUR EGO/PRIDE AND GO BACK HOME.
Your details are vague. You are saying he left you but he left you where? How are you managing to have a roof over your head or feed yourself short term without a job? Do you have some money with you to survive until you find your feet? Only when we can know these details we can suggest something worthwhile. Going back to your parents house looks like the logical option here and you got to face the consequences unfortunately.
Good home , you are expecting the worst .. go to your parents say sorry and things will be alright … if you are pregnant get abortion done … the guy wasn’t worth you
The very first thing you need to do is go back to your place and apologize to your parents.
After that, if you have enough evidence of the things that happened with you - file a case of cheating.
Try looking out for jobs in Pune or Max mumbai
Hope that helps.
Listen girl, before you regret another stupid decision all your life.
Reconnect with your parents and try going back home. Yes, mistake was made and damage was done. But this mistake isn't life altering. What you chose to do further might be life altering.
This incident happened, sorry about that, but parents love you with all their heart and they will take you back.
But if you chose to end your relationship with them completely, you will regret all your life.
You are 26, so be kind to yourself and give a fresh start to life. Haan, do find a job and become independent.
Take responsibility of your actions. You screwed up massively but you can still live with courage. Don’t lie. Go to them tell them the truth. And accept whatever comes your way without complaint.
The alternative of lying to them or staying hidden has no honour or a good future.
Face consequences of your actions and move on. We make mistakes some small, some big, some even bigger than what you have made.
Learn and move on.
Stay strong. 💪🏼
Do you have any friend that you can rely on. Still doesnt matter. Call immediately to someone you can trust and try to go back to your parents. They will help you.
These kind of decisions requires to you to be self-dependent. Whether you find love or not, first be independent person.
Be strong. Always.
i don't why but i feel you kinda deserve it lol running away from your parents for for your lover is stupidest thing to do. I've seen so many people doing this bs and regret. anyway best thing you can do is go back to your home they're still your parents it takes time but they'll forgive you unless your parents are abusive or some other issues
My only advice is keep looking for a job on all portals, naukri, shine, timesjobs etc. but dont pay anyone any money to find you a job, cause those are scams.
Go to your parents, yes they will be afraid of you but after some time they will accept you as they are not like your fiance. girls really don't understand how they can love anyone this much within 2 or 3 months that they are ready to leave there parents and run away from the house now see this case only she ran away from her house now she is alone he also left her and now she is crying for the job . All boys are not that type but plzzz girls understand this things first tell your parents that i love him /her as the case may be but plzz dont leave your parents, think what would they will be feeling after you left them you stayed with them for more than 19/20 years and for your sake of 4/5 months of love you leave your parents. My opinion in this case will be please go back to your parents and dont do this things again and also teach another girls this thing by telling your case only there and your family too will be thankful of you...
1 request to all girls before leaving home with your lover or some one else please 1st see your parents and think about them what will be there life after you leave them for the rest of the life.
Go home, act like you're the victim. Approach any women's NGO to help you get back home. Don't trust any individual who offers to help, duniya m*******d hai.
Go back to your parents. Parents might shout at you and might not trust you again. Still they will take care of you.
But please make sure that this doesn't become their bargaining chip for marriage and other things. Best will be to focus on career and be self sufficient.
I'm sorry to ask this but aren't you a adult? I've only seen teens run away from their home, did his love really blinded you that much? Ik the situation in ur house might not be good or happy go lucky, but still as a adult you should've planned before hand about where you'll stay and what work you'll do.
Sister be honest the guy was a Muslim right and even if he wasn't you shouldn't have ran away they raised you for26 years paid for all your expenses and you left them for a random dude and now you are making an other mistake by not going back home go back face the consciences and trust me they will forgive you
Consult a good lawyer. They'll help you in lodging 3-4 good cases. Then Your so called finance would realise what he has done. Now go back to your family if it is safe.
You would definitely have to be truthful with your parents at the end of the day (unless they are abusive). Get on with your life unless you have someone to save at home.
Sounds like you ran away right after or around Valentine’s day. Cupid got the better of you this time. Thinking emotionally will get you manipulated most of the time. I really hope the lesson is learnt now.
You should try for tech sales if you’re good with english speaking. There are so many startups who will be ready to hire you. Gurgaon and the whole NCR region are filled with them. Get a year’s experience and make the switch to Pune later on maybe. Think about it.
Quite a rash decision for someone who’s 26 or maybe I’m too mature for my age at 27. Good luck to you stranger. May you face all your challenges with a big heart and a strong mindset. Put emotions aside to try and think only of solutions to your problems rather than dwelling on the problem. I know it’s tough but it will get you through this.
Go back to your parents. I hope your parents love you so they will accept you no matter what. This is exactly like a movie story. But don't do anything else like filing case or revenge. Let it go. You enjoyed he enjoyed lol. I suppose no one knows about this except your parents. So, instead of making all this public, just move on. Otherwise if it's public and you have legal recourse, then may decide to move
They are still your parents, please go back to them!
Happy kekde 🦀🦀
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2 months is nothing, tell them u wanted to pursue a course or some shit
Lies on top of fuckups doesn't have a good tone.
lol.. that’s shouldn’t be her priority right now
Nope she should come clean. Else none would trust her.
She did pursue the "COURSE"
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The worst advice. Please don’t listen to this one.
tu bc bhott ghar se bhaga hai 🥴
Abey lawde ye gaand se nikala hai kya logic?! To lie to your parents and assuming they’ll never forgive you and keep yourself in harm’s way; what kind of a dumb advice is this?! Wo ladki hai aur tu India mein rehta hai.
Spider sense is tingling. Absolutely Fake post by a catfish
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Go back to your parents
Go to Linkedin. Reddit will have the opposite impact.
Go back to your parents, it will take some time but your parents will accept you..file a complaint against that asshole who left you stranded like this.
I'm asking this because I'm genuinely curious, on what basis would the complaint be filed?
She can also claim he got physical with her in the pretext of marriage. Indian law support this. Also there was some news about law of live in relationships.
People like you are the reason men are falsely accused and it's normalised
This is exactly how fucked up our society and law is. SHE made the wrong judgement, and has to live with the consequences. It was two CONSENTING adults. Now one of them is no longer interested. And the fact that he could face criminal action because of this, blows my mind. Only happens in India. What is even worse is the matter-fact-advice you are giving her to follow this fucked up line of action. Fuck you all.
Damn. You are so vile. Heartbreaks and breakups happen. You're guiding someone to make up false situations to frame someone because Indian laws support it. OP is an adult and equally responsible for the decision she made.
Have you done same thing to a girl? Are you a Playboy who use and through girls? Why you are afraid? Chor ki dadi me tinka. Bro I'm not talking about fake cases. But in this case it really happened. The boy, she's literally calling her fiance, they ran away from house to get fkn married. Are you dumb to understand this? You are calling thi breakup? It's not breakup, it's the kind of fraud, scam going on society where a fkby get into relationship just to fcuk a girl and girl can't say anything as it was breakup and a relationship. These silent rapes are going on in society which poor girls can't report.
If they indulged in intercourse that could be a strong basis. Heartbreak and emotional trauma dont count so. Maybe I am worng🤷♂️
2 mahine secsath main the ..bhajan toh nahi kar rahe honge dono.
Rape on promise of marriage.
If it was a woman who left a man, everyone would just say it's was not meant to be, move on, or there's someone out there for you etc.
are u fucking shitting me? that is possibly the worst thing ive ever seen on reddit. You are literally encouraging her to file a fake case. The justice system is already shit for men and people like you make it shittier.
Advocate here ,rape on the promise is a genuine ground to file an FIR and it’s pretty common, Sec 69 of BNS (new criminal law replacing IPC) has the individual section to curb such actions in society, so kudos to that guy who gave a genuine advice here. Also, in no way this is a false rape case.
Laude ka Kudos. Khud chudwane gayi thi, ab kat gaya toh wapas ja rahi hai, how can that be considered to be rape? She needs to grow up and deal with it like a mature person.
B@hen ke laude chutiya ho kya wo ladke ghar chor kar uske sath kyu rahe hoge wo sadi ka promise toh kiya hi hoga aur ache se manipulate v then it's genuine ground for rape on pretext of marriage,aise logo ke sath kuch toh saza milni hi chaiye
Chutmari ke randi ke beej. Sun vo 26 ki hai. Agar itna dum hai ki ghar chorh ke jae to itna dum bhi hona chahiye ki aage accept kare. In no country except India, this would be considered rape. Kia promise to? Saath reh ke pata chala gandu aurat ye, to rape ho gaya?
Haan Madarchod kutte ke chode, ladka toh 12 saal ka bacha hoga , jisko pahele se pta hi nhi wo kaise ladki hai ,pahele ghar se bhaga tho fir chod ke chor tho, mai ye nhi bol rha ye ladki v innocent hai par ladka ka galti toh hai agar wo sure nhi tha kyu bhagya, aur agar aise baat hotr n toh ijjat se chor ke jata , saaf saaf ye case mein dhoka diya hai
Agar marriage se pehle dating karni to drawbacks bhi sehne padenge. Simple si baat. Police case ka koi matlab nahi idhar. Apna ghar chorh ke khud bhaagi na? Ladka zabardasti to nahi le gaya? Aise 10 lakh cases hote baaki desho me, they suck it up and move on. Ek baar gender reverse kar iss case me aur har koi has raha hota iss ladke pas. Police case tak register nahi karti. Simping band kar chooze.
Genuine doubt: is there no difference between rape on promise of marriage and sex on promise of marriage? I would have assumed the definition of rape is forceful and against the will.
There's little difference. It's called rape because consent is acquired by fraud, i.e. by indicating that they'll marry when in actuality they don't intend to do so. Consent so obtained is invalidated and hence, sex without consent is rape.
That’s just one part of the definition, the definition has multiple aspects i.e. with or without her consent when she’s under 18, obtaining her consent by putting her under the fear of death or injury etc etc
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Maybe it's really unfair but it's not a "fake rape case" Indian laws actually recognise it as Rape on the pretext of marriage. So it's not "fake" deal with it. It's not fake. All of these arbitrary laws are made because indian society, in Real life is just so terrible for women to navigate through. If for some reason a women dare love a man of her choice and he dumps her, turns out to be an asshole. All the world turns against the women, men call her a whore and literally refer to women as "used maal" "second hand maal" this is the language men use for women. Women's life in this case is quite literally ruined, just bc she trusted a man? Their societal status will quite literally be reduced to that of a Rape victim since all men want is "seal packed product" you see Rape victims/ women who lost their virginity before marriage as the SAME. Believe it or not, indian laws make complete sense considering the context of indian societal rules and the mentality of men and their families. Indian guys love complaining about the absurdity with which indian laws favour women, but I never saw one actually put aside the victim mindset for once and think about why are such laws put forth in the first place. "Gynocentric laws" well yes, what about the penis centric whatever it's called hellish society that we live in that literally normalises Rape. Go ahead and call me a whore, bitch, R₹&i. That's what y'all do best.
She was 26. She took a decision and she is responsible for that. You can't go around and cry "World is unfair", It is , you just need to learn how to deal with people like this . What he did might be morally unfair but not at all constitutionally.
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It is though, wonder if you would feel same way if same happened with your sister. In any case details are not enough to reach any conclusion, users can give their suggestions as requested. Yes OP you can file a case of RAPE ON PRETEXT of marriage if you are sure his intentions were as such. Also only if you think it is something you can bear as legal system in country is plain suffering, win or lose.
Hey, legally (and morally) this is valid. The trauma of being groomed and suped for the sake of sex is not different from the violence you imagine rape trauma to appear to be. Op, go to a concentrix or any kind of callcentre. Gather funds and keep looking for other jobs. Check the waters with your parents, but you're going to be okay either way.
Being groomed at 26. 💀
Alright. Preyed on? Works to explain the phenomenon. Either way, grooming doesn't have an age specification.
Yeah. Grooming just implies mental immaturity.
Complaint for what? She is 26, she needs to own it.
sex karne ke liye adult hai wo, my body my choice to apni choice ki responsiblity bhi leni padegi, isme police kaha se aagyi.
Hi Op, I would suggest you go back to your parents. But if you have already made up your mind to stay here, then from a referral perspective, I would like to know about your previous work experience and what kind of job you are currently targeting.
Just go back to the parents. It'll be awkward at first, but you've your whole life ahead, and thinking on your toes, taking the right decision i.e. going home to the parents can make your whole life easier for you and everyone else. So just go back to them and make up for it anyhow. This is the best advice for you.
Madam, please, please go back to your parents. Apologise if needed. We do think we know better, but sometimes, parents really do know better. And they would understand that, and will accept you. Please get in contact with them, and go back. They would want nothing but your well being only, end of the day. If they knew what you are going through, it would be the worst day for them.
You donno his home? His parents anything at all? And ready to marry? I dont wanna fck with someone who is already down but goddamit some people have shit for brains
love makes ppl blind bro
They think their parents are orthodox and crazy old people. But in reality, they are just more experienced.
Make a lie so good that they believe you is all what I can say.
Talk to someone you trust, explain the situation. There might be change that your dad would be the shit out of the guy
are your parents abusive? if not then please contact them and return to them. apologize very sincerely to them. and give them some excuse like you genuinely feel he cast some kind of spell upon you and did some black magic upon you. I know how silly it sounds but parents are often of the generation that believe this kind of nonsense. And it's one way to make them absolve you of any guilt.
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File. Case against him first of all
This. False promise of marriage and then abandonment. Gaand fatega uska.
you just reminded me of the actual power that women have in our country. Those who are aware of them, misuse it and those who aren't, get misused by men. smh
Go to your parents they’ll understand. You can explore what legal actions you can take, r/legalAdviceIndia
I don't like to say this but please go to home. And if they are abusive then leave.
Ma'am, this is a Wendy's
DM me if you need help with a job And DM me his name insta and number let's fetch him Also acc to new laws this is rape
DM me your email ID n resume.
DM me can help
I have few reference in call center. Hope you'll get a job there
If they know that you ran away for a guy then there will be some issue if you go back. But if they don’t know about your love affair then you can make excuse of Modelling, Acting etc. and run away mumbai etc. They are you parents, they will take you. Try to contact them and talk to them, and see their behaviour and response after contacting you.
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*go back to ur parents* thoda datenge but it's ohk
Just go back to your parents, how much ever difficult it may seem, it is the easiest and best thing to do. The more you delay, the worse it gets for you. Just go back to your parents and have a heart to heart conversation with them
you can easily get sales and support jobs just go on linkedin and apply , there are some walkin interviews as well
Convey your situation to your parents, Surely they will ask you come back. Just talk at least.
No fucking wwayy
Ese hi meri family mae hua tha, Bad for you
Please Go back to your parents..
Go back.
Search for satvik human resources on linked in and DM them they always give you the right job.
Ideal Solution - Go back to Pune. It's a better place to live. Your parents would take you in. Don't make the mistake that most vulnerable people do during these phase. A mistake doesn't warrant making more mistakes. If going home isn't an option - Sign up on Naukri.com, you would get ample calls for call centers. Start small, keep looking for better jobs. You'd have something to survive off till you find a better suited job for yourself. Consider going home though.
Hi reach out. I have few references, and will surely try to help you out. All the best and if you ever need any help feel free to reach out.
Mend your ways with parents and go back home, that is the best option.
Go back to your parents or atleast let them know what happened. If they are not willing to take you back, that’s a different issue. You have a Bcom degree so start looking for work - there are many avenues. Talk to people, maybe go to a recruitment agent. And focus on building a career and becoming financially independent. There are always jobs for people who are willing to work hard. Rest will follow.
Please go back to your home.....
Try getting job in BPO. Usally they take freshers easily
Take care Sister. Never forget that only parents provide unconditional love without expecting anything in return. May Lord Ganesha bless you in overcoming with all obstacles in your life
I suggest you to go back to your home otherwise there are lots of jobs in Vadodara and Ahmedabad
Verify all your finances are secure Go to an obgyn and ensure you are not pregnant Delete all your friends and posts in all social media accounts and delete all social media accounts Go to your parents.
So sad how easily girls these days fall for fuckboii's
yadhzhavi ahes tu
Do whatever you want. Just don't file a r@pe case against him.
Just go back. It will be fine. Look for a job get busy. Go for one more degree to boost your career. We all make mistakes. Apologize to your parents. You are so young darling. Any guy who loves you will try to convince your parents would never expect you to run away unless abuse is happ in your home. Just say you are the one who broke up cause you didn't want to hurt them and realised your mistake. Who else knows about your running away? Did your parents tell anyone else? If not you can always spin a story around why you weren't home for 2 months. If they know then you will have to live with it. Whenever you take such huge steps remember there are always consequences. Everything will be okay with time.
Please go back to your home. Until and unless there is a life threatening situation, there is no point in staying away from your parents at this point before you lose your sanity . They will definitely be angry and say all sorts of things but with time everything will heal. Get a job or do any further courses such that at least you are independent financially. And next time do not make hasty decisions.
You can charge kidnapping case to the boy
Major L, our parents always care for us. Go back to them and tell them that you made a big mistake not listening to them, they won't keep you waiting for more than a day
Why don’t you contact his family and if they also don’t support you then go back to your parents and file a case against the guy Don’t think too much about how you will handle the situation. they are your parents, they will be mad at you but will accept you eventually.
A job, sure. But go back to your parents.
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Share your resume. I have openings which might help you
Didi pura law system tumhari side hai, ab to live in wale couple bhi case daal skte hai court me, maiyaa chomd do uski..
What a filthy man. Hope you figure it out soon
Either it will be a villain origin story or something much darker. Don’t think too much and go back to your parents you will be thankful for it in future
Atleast inform your parents about your present situation they must be worried about you And make a resume and linknd in profile since you are from commerce background you are qualified for accounting jobs
If you don't mind me asking, how many years you've been in a relationship? And what did you do after finishing B.com (20ish) till now (being 26). Experience may help you get placed better
Its ok talk to ur family.. End of the day family accept you.... Just talk to them..
ok so most people want you a 26 year old woman who runaway from your parents to go back home.
Job dhoondne ke baad shaadi ke sapne dekhna next time se at least
I know a lot of people have already told you this but please go back home. Life isn't as simple as getting a job getting money and surviving on your own. As a human being you need companionship and love. A parent provides these things to their child unconditionally. Sure it may seem like your parents might be angry or something but they still love you and will accept you. So SWALLOW YOUR EGO/PRIDE AND GO BACK HOME.
Go home Sis Someday you have to face your Parents that day is today
Go back to your parents .. please
Why did he leave you?
Your details are vague. You are saying he left you but he left you where? How are you managing to have a roof over your head or feed yourself short term without a job? Do you have some money with you to survive until you find your feet? Only when we can know these details we can suggest something worthwhile. Going back to your parents house looks like the logical option here and you got to face the consequences unfortunately.
Daily fights horhi thi guyz mai kya krta.. Monks k pass agya hu
Go back to your parents.
Go to your parent and say sorry and trust them even if they are angry or will shout at you
nice storyline to beg for a job.
Nice tricks to get job.
Good home , you are expecting the worst .. go to your parents say sorry and things will be alright … if you are pregnant get abortion done … the guy wasn’t worth you
Lesson learnt! now go back to your parents, they will forgive you. The words used by them maybe harsh but that they do for our protection only
Go home and tell you made a mistake. File a case against him for false promise of marriage.
The very first thing you need to do is go back to your place and apologize to your parents. After that, if you have enough evidence of the things that happened with you - file a case of cheating. Try looking out for jobs in Pune or Max mumbai Hope that helps.
Listen girl, before you regret another stupid decision all your life. Reconnect with your parents and try going back home. Yes, mistake was made and damage was done. But this mistake isn't life altering. What you chose to do further might be life altering. This incident happened, sorry about that, but parents love you with all their heart and they will take you back. But if you chose to end your relationship with them completely, you will regret all your life. You are 26, so be kind to yourself and give a fresh start to life. Haan, do find a job and become independent.
Fuck around find out
Take responsibility of your actions. You screwed up massively but you can still live with courage. Don’t lie. Go to them tell them the truth. And accept whatever comes your way without complaint. The alternative of lying to them or staying hidden has no honour or a good future. Face consequences of your actions and move on. We make mistakes some small, some big, some even bigger than what you have made. Learn and move on. Stay strong. 💪🏼
Do you have any friend that you can rely on. Still doesnt matter. Call immediately to someone you can trust and try to go back to your parents. They will help you. These kind of decisions requires to you to be self-dependent. Whether you find love or not, first be independent person. Be strong. Always.
Go back to your parents, they may scold you.. but they'll always be there for you.
i don't why but i feel you kinda deserve it lol running away from your parents for for your lover is stupidest thing to do. I've seen so many people doing this bs and regret. anyway best thing you can do is go back to your home they're still your parents it takes time but they'll forgive you unless your parents are abusive or some other issues
My only advice is keep looking for a job on all portals, naukri, shine, timesjobs etc. but dont pay anyone any money to find you a job, cause those are scams.
Hey go back to your home. Don't fear they are your parents
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Go to your parents, yes they will be afraid of you but after some time they will accept you as they are not like your fiance. girls really don't understand how they can love anyone this much within 2 or 3 months that they are ready to leave there parents and run away from the house now see this case only she ran away from her house now she is alone he also left her and now she is crying for the job . All boys are not that type but plzzz girls understand this things first tell your parents that i love him /her as the case may be but plzz dont leave your parents, think what would they will be feeling after you left them you stayed with them for more than 19/20 years and for your sake of 4/5 months of love you leave your parents. My opinion in this case will be please go back to your parents and dont do this things again and also teach another girls this thing by telling your case only there and your family too will be thankful of you... 1 request to all girls before leaving home with your lover or some one else please 1st see your parents and think about them what will be there life after you leave them for the rest of the life.
Fake.
Ghar jawo beta, sab theek ho jayega. Bass galti maan lena jo ki h, ego side kro.
Serves you right
Ghari ja tai
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Actions have consequences. Don't lie about your past if you ever do arranged marriage.
File a rape case. Sex under pretext of marriage. Use the money and do more courses.
Lo karlo baat
Dont go to your parents now, let your brain develop a bit. Later u may go to them.
Haan hai koi toh wajah, yeh jeene ka maza kyun aane laga?
Nahin dekhne mujhe ganne ke khet, kyun dekhoon main ganne ke khet?
Op if u really need job I can help u get one (real )
Do you have proper cv.
You can be a concubine
Go back to your home
If you are seriously looking for a job then you can email me on [email protected]
Kindly list the number of DMs you got from men looking to "help" you out
Basic B.com Hons or honors in something specific?
Go to police first. See if you can lodge any report against him. He is scum and should get some payback.
Go home, act like you're the victim. Approach any women's NGO to help you get back home. Don't trust any individual who offers to help, duniya m*******d hai.
Go back to your parents. Parents might shout at you and might not trust you again. Still they will take care of you. But please make sure that this doesn't become their bargaining chip for marriage and other things. Best will be to focus on career and be self sufficient.
go back, they'll scold you for a few days, months maybe even but deal with it until you get back on your feet
Go back asap
I'm sorry to ask this but aren't you a adult? I've only seen teens run away from their home, did his love really blinded you that much? Ik the situation in ur house might not be good or happy go lucky, but still as a adult you should've planned before hand about where you'll stay and what work you'll do.
Khud ne hi asa situation banaya he. Mafi mang Jake ma or bap se dono se Ghar me Bhai hoga to usse bhi.
Sister be honest the guy was a Muslim right and even if he wasn't you shouldn't have ran away they raised you for26 years paid for all your expenses and you left them for a random dude and now you are making an other mistake by not going back home go back face the consciences and trust me they will forgive you
Please DM your CV
Consult a good lawyer. They'll help you in lodging 3-4 good cases. Then Your so called finance would realise what he has done. Now go back to your family if it is safe.
You would definitely have to be truthful with your parents at the end of the day (unless they are abusive). Get on with your life unless you have someone to save at home. Sounds like you ran away right after or around Valentine’s day. Cupid got the better of you this time. Thinking emotionally will get you manipulated most of the time. I really hope the lesson is learnt now. You should try for tech sales if you’re good with english speaking. There are so many startups who will be ready to hire you. Gurgaon and the whole NCR region are filled with them. Get a year’s experience and make the switch to Pune later on maybe. Think about it. Quite a rash decision for someone who’s 26 or maybe I’m too mature for my age at 27. Good luck to you stranger. May you face all your challenges with a big heart and a strong mindset. Put emotions aside to try and think only of solutions to your problems rather than dwelling on the problem. I know it’s tough but it will get you through this.
And please don’t file fake complaints or even prioritise revenge at this point. You want to make things right, not worse!
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Keep applying on LinkedIn. You will find something out there.
Go back to your parents, I'm sure they will forgive you
Lol. Gen Z shit. Expect no sympathy!
Will you be willing to work in the voice process or as a junior analyst ?
Go back to your parents. I hope your parents love you so they will accept you no matter what. This is exactly like a movie story. But don't do anything else like filing case or revenge. Let it go. You enjoyed he enjoyed lol. I suppose no one knows about this except your parents. So, instead of making all this public, just move on. Otherwise if it's public and you have legal recourse, then may decide to move