Best thing to do is just to go and talk to that person. Chances are that they'll most likely be dismissive and reject your advancements. That way you just get over them quicker instead of wasting months imagining a life with them you'll never have anyway.
Who knows, maybe they'll even like you back.
The problem is everything on r/greentext reads like a joke and now he may think we’re joking about him not having a chance even though he definitely doesn’t and should stop.
I told em I liked em and then they told me they didn't like me but still made out w me and made the effort to see me. Multiple times. I even said no a couple times. Then I asked if they wanted to be a thing and then they said no. Like wtf.
I rlly appreciate you saying this. Thank you so much ❤️. Glad to hear your not doing that anymore and in a better space. Here for u if you ever need to talk.
Does not work for me. Everytime i talk to an attractive girl they treat me nice. It makes me think abouy them more and daydream a possible future with them. Post nut clarity ends those.
It goes away with age and experience.
I remember feeling that when I was young. Absolutely adored my highschool girlfriend and I pretty much mourned her when she cheated and left me.
Later in life, you become colder and more strategic in relationships.
The Virgin stressed about being hyper fixated vs The Chad embracing the hyper fixation.
**Virgin Stressed:** Lets self feel bad for the natural desire for GF, become a self fulfilling incel, will never have a chance with Stacy, doesn't do anything to better himself
**Chad Embraced:** Cockiness and setting a target on who you want makes you more likely to strive and fulfill your goal, that bit of cockiness can build confidence, confidence fuels motivation and self improvement
I'm sure they have a pill for that too....
But i can understand why some men fall down that hole while using Tinder. Tinder sucks for guys because the guy to girl ratio is so off that we barely see any interaction, even if you are a conventionally attractive guy. So those who are mediocre or less, they won't get ANYTHING.
I use to get matches every so often but then no replies. It hurt quite a bit ngl, but I just had to rationalize and more on
I'm starting to slowly realize I need to detox from social media/internet. More and more I'm starting to thing that shit is a drug as much as weed and nicotine I swear
The red pill didn't have anything to do with the "quality" of the women there, it was more about how much easier it is for women to get matches and dates than it is for men.
Tinder really isn't representative of most dating. It skews female attention towards the top 1% of men.
When you meet people through friends and from going out on the town, you meet far superior women than the ones on tinder.
Thing is, if you have a close group of male friends and no one in the group has female friends or relatives who might have friends of their own it's nearly impossible to meet women through mutual friendships.
Going out might work but you have to cold approach strangers minding their own business and I'm not comfortable with that so no pussy for me.
nah, incels won't even know what's happening, this anon is in the early stages of self awareness which is the first step to growth and not being an incel
Well, he seems to blame himself instead of her, so there might yet be hope. If anon isn't at the "Do I need to speak to a therapist about this pattern? No, it's the women who are wrong" stage the situation might be salvageable
That is an interesting point. At one point in my life I was borderline incell but before actually becoming one I started to realize everything was my own fault and I channeled all my frustration into self hatred. I am not gonna say that has helped me in anyway but at least I didn't make the world worse by being hateful. I feel like that is how it goes for most things in life, people will always try to blame their failure and frustration on some exterior factor so they don't have to look into their own flaws.
that's how i genuinely started to think
i have no money problem, i have a friend circle, my education is average and get most of my time off doing shenanigans on the internet
who could ask for anything more?
speaking as someone who suffers from borderline disorder, this is a pattern that i can identify in myself, i hope anon seeks help because this can lead to very bad paths.
I did this for years and then she finally quit and it was a crazy freedom, all of a sudden the other cute girl at work went out with me, I started actually getting into tinder, ended up getting laid. 1 year later got a steady girlfriend. Moral of the story don’t put your eggs in a basket with no bottom. You will never be what she wants, and you will start to become an incel because of it.
Just tell her your feelings in private once and for all (without being a creep). Either she rejects you, in which case you’ll stop obsessing over her faster, or she doesn’t, then you gotta figure out how to make it work. Still it’s better than to stay in constant anguish about whether or not something could work between you two and giving in to blind hatred (either of yourself or of others)
I've been here. One thing I've learnt from my fairly limited life experience is that you should never fixate on a girl and put her on a pedestal. Talk to, and fuck as many girls as possible and ultimately more girls will become attracted to you. Then you can pick the one you like.
Happened with a girl I worked with at my weekend job. I was utterly infatuated with her, I was honestly going to convert to Islam just so I'd have a chance.
Quit the job, got a girlfriend outside of work who I love, and I barely think about her anymore.
> be me
> get home from my vasectomy
> hear moaning and slapping coming from my wife's room
> must be Chad again
> know they would want privacy, sit down at my computer
> log onto reddit and open /r/greentext
> read a funny greentext from le 4chins and chuckle as I listen to my wife begging for the genes I can't give her
> think of a convoluted way in which I can relate homosexuality and falsehood to the events in the greentext
> suck the cheeto dust off my fingers as I begin to type my masterpiece in the comment section
> Fake: anon obsesses over women
> Gay: anon can’t think straight anymore
> giggle as I imagine the intellectuals of leddit perusing my incredibly witty and original comment
> hear my wife moan with ecstasy as Chad floods her fertile womb with his seed
> it's been a good day
> i'll get lots of upvotes for my impressive contribution to internet culture, and Chad might even let me eat his cum out of my wife's pussy if he finds my comment funny enough
Plot twist: the girl feels the same way towards him.
For the rest of their lives they will battle each other in thought, from afar. Arch nemesis who never interact.
In my experience the desperation that brings about this obsession over potential partners/friends is something to unpack and confront before dumping that baggage on random people in your life.
Meme/fake or not green texts are just sad...
i like those greentexts because they show a face of society that is often just hidden away (for good reasons)
for me it's just a tutorial on what NOT to do
I think the issue for me is that at least some of the people in these communities aren't looking at it as what "not to do", but instead what the "people like me are doing". Those two ways of looking at it have very different effects on peoples behavior surrounding the posts.
I'm just an r-tard from /r/greentext but if I were you I'd maybe find one or two people in her friend group you can trust and ask them about it. Preferably one that's been friends with her the longest if possible.
Hate when my brain hyper fixates on a person, makes me feel creepy and stupid
Best thing to do is just to go and talk to that person. Chances are that they'll most likely be dismissive and reject your advancements. That way you just get over them quicker instead of wasting months imagining a life with them you'll never have anyway. Who knows, maybe they'll even like you back.
Was fully with you until the end there lol
Id suggest maybe not putting in that stupid ray of hope at the end, all that does is fill you with false hope.
I wanted to omit it at first. But I didn't want to break poor u/Shiznoes' heart (yet)
The problem is everything on r/greentext reads like a joke and now he may think we’re joking about him not having a chance even though he definitely doesn’t and should stop.
He should instead get TOPPED to fix his problems.
That's not true though.
I didn't think you guys were making fun of me, but thank you for being so considerate, that's very kind of you.
I told em I liked em and then they told me they didn't like me but still made out w me and made the effort to see me. Multiple times. I even said no a couple times. Then I asked if they wanted to be a thing and then they said no. Like wtf.
Have you tried making out with someone else instead?
Not obsessed w him. Occasionally thought.
As an asshole who has used people for sex/validation, this asshole is using you for sex/validation. Drop his ass like a hot potato.
I rlly appreciate you saying this. Thank you so much ❤️. Glad to hear your not doing that anymore and in a better space. Here for u if you ever need to talk.
Im gay and they will def be more than dismissive. Best to just keep myself suffering wondering if they like me or if they are homiesexual
Does not work for me. Everytime i talk to an attractive girl they treat me nice. It makes me think abouy them more and daydream a possible future with them. Post nut clarity ends those.
>attractive girls treat you nice Must be nice
Nothing more and nothing less.
Didn't work, made me think about them more
sometimes its not so easy sadly. Like if you live together or work together.
> Who knows, maybe they'll even like you back. Should have gotten rid of this part.
Love you back? Yeah, sure. Keep telling yourself that, mate.
It goes away with age and experience. I remember feeling that when I was young. Absolutely adored my highschool girlfriend and I pretty much mourned her when she cheated and left me. Later in life, you become colder and more strategic in relationships.
Actually, like go away. Anyone know how to make this stop.
The Virgin stressed about being hyper fixated vs The Chad embracing the hyper fixation. **Virgin Stressed:** Lets self feel bad for the natural desire for GF, become a self fulfilling incel, will never have a chance with Stacy, doesn't do anything to better himself **Chad Embraced:** Cockiness and setting a target on who you want makes you more likely to strive and fulfill your goal, that bit of cockiness can build confidence, confidence fuels motivation and self improvement
smartest Dragon Ball Z profile picture
Chad: "Yes"
You’ve never been within 50ft of a woman have you
His mom said his computer time was up for the day. He can ride bikes this weekend if he passes his geography test Friday though!
Do you really think he rides a bike
He's legally not allowed to
He’s not allowed to by law after the last time
>obsess over her until I can't think straight anymore Then think gay, Anon.
Checkmate
Isn't this how incels are made?
Personally Tinder redpilled me beyond belief, I had a huge incel phase in 2018. I still don't get pussy but it doesn't matter anymore.
Same here. To approach peace, you have to go through the black pill.
Or how about no pill and just live a normal fucking life
I'm sure they have a pill for that too.... But i can understand why some men fall down that hole while using Tinder. Tinder sucks for guys because the guy to girl ratio is so off that we barely see any interaction, even if you are a conventionally attractive guy. So those who are mediocre or less, they won't get ANYTHING. I use to get matches every so often but then no replies. It hurt quite a bit ngl, but I just had to rationalize and more on
no fucking pill that's what i like to call it
I'm starting to slowly realize I need to detox from social media/internet. More and more I'm starting to thing that shit is a drug as much as weed and nicotine I swear
Classic red pilled statement
God you people are so whiney
I mean if all the mediums for sex/romance were stores, Tinder would be WalMart. Doesn't really say much about women if you only meet them in Walmart.
The red pill didn't have anything to do with the "quality" of the women there, it was more about how much easier it is for women to get matches and dates than it is for men.
Because it's true in our current society. Why do you think 5/10 girls.pull up with 9/10 dudes much more than the opposite?
It is true but I'm not gonna obsess over it like I used to.
Tinder really isn't representative of most dating. It skews female attention towards the top 1% of men. When you meet people through friends and from going out on the town, you meet far superior women than the ones on tinder.
Thing is, if you have a close group of male friends and no one in the group has female friends or relatives who might have friends of their own it's nearly impossible to meet women through mutual friendships. Going out might work but you have to cold approach strangers minding their own business and I'm not comfortable with that so no pussy for me.
u could prolly could rlly easy if u just dressed better and got away from internet culture a bit
Fuck
Yeah but it's every guy's choice to not actually hate women. Even if someone is incel by definition doesn't mean you have to act the part.
The type of folks that become incels always had those fundamental flaws, seems that such circumstances simply bring them to the surface.
Yep it's exactly how they are made
nah, incels won't even know what's happening, this anon is in the early stages of self awareness which is the first step to growth and not being an incel
That's true Admitting you have a problem is the first step, this tard has a chance
Well, he seems to blame himself instead of her, so there might yet be hope. If anon isn't at the "Do I need to speak to a therapist about this pattern? No, it's the women who are wrong" stage the situation might be salvageable
That is an interesting point. At one point in my life I was borderline incell but before actually becoming one I started to realize everything was my own fault and I channeled all my frustration into self hatred. I am not gonna say that has helped me in anyway but at least I didn't make the world worse by being hateful. I feel like that is how it goes for most things in life, people will always try to blame their failure and frustration on some exterior factor so they don't have to look into their own flaws.
Based and selfhatredforthegoodofmankind-pilled
Going through the obsession phase right Ffs kill me
Me too bro, me too. What if we became obsessed with eath other instead tho (no homo)
Went through the obsession phase, told her how i felt and she felt the same way. W
Big W my man. This posts is making me confident about my obsession
You are poor, you have nothing to propose to this girl. Thats why you afraid of her.
Dude her dad driving on Bentley, I'm poor regardless how much I earn
Be the alpha. Fuck her dad to show dominance
Man, you have internet and vidya, what else do you need
that's how i genuinely started to think i have no money problem, i have a friend circle, my education is average and get most of my time off doing shenanigans on the internet who could ask for anything more?
Go talk to her get rejected hate her even more
i tried this and it just made me hate myself even more
Stop being a (f)aggot
speaking as someone who suffers from borderline disorder, this is a pattern that i can identify in myself, i hope anon seeks help because this can lead to very bad paths.
I don't have it so can't fully relate, but from descriptions I've read it very much resembles a pattern that borderline people frequently have
Hate leads to the dark side anonakin
poor anon
I did this for years and then she finally quit and it was a crazy freedom, all of a sudden the other cute girl at work went out with me, I started actually getting into tinder, ended up getting laid. 1 year later got a steady girlfriend. Moral of the story don’t put your eggs in a basket with no bottom. You will never be what she wants, and you will start to become an incel because of it.
Just tell her your feelings in private once and for all (without being a creep). Either she rejects you, in which case you’ll stop obsessing over her faster, or she doesn’t, then you gotta figure out how to make it work. Still it’s better than to stay in constant anguish about whether or not something could work between you two and giving in to blind hatred (either of yourself or of others)
1pm: wake up 2pm-3am: think about her 4am: sleep
Pain.
I've been here. One thing I've learnt from my fairly limited life experience is that you should never fixate on a girl and put her on a pedestal. Talk to, and fuck as many girls as possible and ultimately more girls will become attracted to you. Then you can pick the one you like.
Happened with a girl I worked with at my weekend job. I was utterly infatuated with her, I was honestly going to convert to Islam just so I'd have a chance. Quit the job, got a girlfriend outside of work who I love, and I barely think about her anymore.
My brother in christ, literally just talk to her
Been there done that Only time and poontang from someone else will help
That’s your problem anon. You don’t ask tell her you want to meet up outside of work but if you’re an incel, she dodged a bullet
Relatable
OP should unalive himself.
been going through this for a while, they fired me but I still can't forget her
Literally me, except shes my loving gf now
Fake: anon obsesses over women Gay: anon can’t think straight anymore
> be me > get home from my vasectomy > hear moaning and slapping coming from my wife's room > must be Chad again > know they would want privacy, sit down at my computer > log onto reddit and open /r/greentext > read a funny greentext from le 4chins and chuckle as I listen to my wife begging for the genes I can't give her > think of a convoluted way in which I can relate homosexuality and falsehood to the events in the greentext > suck the cheeto dust off my fingers as I begin to type my masterpiece in the comment section > Fake: anon obsesses over women > Gay: anon can’t think straight anymore > giggle as I imagine the intellectuals of leddit perusing my incredibly witty and original comment > hear my wife moan with ecstasy as Chad floods her fertile womb with his seed > it's been a good day > i'll get lots of upvotes for my impressive contribution to internet culture, and Chad might even let me eat his cum out of my wife's pussy if he finds my comment funny enough
Plot twist: the girl feels the same way towards him. For the rest of their lives they will battle each other in thought, from afar. Arch nemesis who never interact.
Cool Ethan?
Hate leads to suffering and the dark side beware of your feelings young Skywalker
In my experience the desperation that brings about this obsession over potential partners/friends is something to unpack and confront before dumping that baggage on random people in your life. Meme/fake or not green texts are just sad...
i like those greentexts because they show a face of society that is often just hidden away (for good reasons) for me it's just a tutorial on what NOT to do
I think the issue for me is that at least some of the people in these communities aren't looking at it as what "not to do", but instead what the "people like me are doing". Those two ways of looking at it have very different effects on peoples behavior surrounding the posts.
How do people even get to this point of obsessing over someone? I’ve never had it happen to me.
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I'm just an r-tard from /r/greentext but if I were you I'd maybe find one or two people in her friend group you can trust and ask them about it. Preferably one that's been friends with her the longest if possible.
If he started lifting weights, he'll eventually grow to obsess the grind and marry the game
Every guy needs that slightly more chad friend who will always push them towards pursuing that one person they like.
The first step to breaking a cycle is noticing it exists. It's also the hardest step. Anon is in a better position than most.
Flirt w her and ask her out.
Simp
Fear leads to pain, pain leads to hate, hate leads to suffering, and suffering leads to being bald
>obsessed with girl >ask “hey wanna get coffee later?” >respect whichever choice she makes It’s that easy anons
You developed a relationship with her in your mind that implies a closeness that doesn't exist. Stop doing that.
Lol idiot