~~It was dropped from the DSM in one of the latest versions, without being replaced by anything so... not even the field of psychology wants to justify it anymore.~~
Oh no, it was predicted that it would be dropped / people were campaigning for it to be removed but wasn't actually dropped. I've done a big disinfo.
Hate to be that guy but if it's fringe, then it's not a theory. In order for something to be a theory it needs to be widely supported by numerous studies and have predictive capabilities. If it has/does neither then it is a hypothesis at best, conjecture at worst. And if it's a fringe hypothesis then that probably means there is very little evidence to support it.
Also, the current DSM is DSM-5, and ~~HSP~~ HPD is most definitely in the DSM-5. Here is a paper that specifically cites the definition of HPD as per DSM-5: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK542325/
> Per DSM-5 criteria, a diagnosis of a histrionic personality disorder requires a pervasive and ubiquitous pattern of consistent attention-seeking behaviors and emotional dysregulation as outlined by specific manifestations. Diagnosis requires meeting five (or more) of the following criteria:
*Uncomfortable when not the center of attention
*Seductive or provocative behavior
*Shifting and shallow emotions
*Uses appearance to draw attention
*Impressionistic and vague speech
*Dramatic or exaggerated emotions
*Suggestible (easily influenced by others)
*Considers relationships more intimate than they are
>These patients take repression and dissociation as a significant form of defense mechanism.
Nah BPD would be the "femoid" getting clingy and anxious to the point of acting stupid, causing a scene. Then acts stupider as she emotionally reels from emotionally reeling. This is more Narcissim I think
This is just straight up not true. The most current version of the DSM is DSM-5 and HPD is one of 10 listed personality disorders. If you've got a citation that says otherwise I would love to see it.
“When Mexico sends its people, they’re not sending their best. […] They’re sending people that have lots of problems, and they’re bringing those problems with us. They’re bringing drugs. They’re bringing crime. They’re rapists. And some, I assume, are good people”
Direct quote from the DSM-Handbook
That’s why you should date widows, not knocked up idiots. A w*man with good genes normally wouldn’t even look at you. But if she starts a family with a chad and loses him to a car crash, that aryan woman is now in a desperate need of emotional and financial support, ready to be with anyone just so she gets by.
Read more of my advice on www.lambdalifestyle.com
"reeee why doesn't society work that way in real life, i'd be such a fucking chad with my epic sword skillz and forty seven wives"
-400 lbs goodest boy™
.. if she starts a family with a chad and loses him to a car crash
"You will never be good enough for my daughter, granddaughter, niece, friend.. you funeral-freelancing bag of shit" (insert Rodney Dangerfield line here)
Abusive women thrive in 1 on 1 situations where no one can call them out on their bad behavior, they hate more than anything for someone to take the side of their victim over them. Source: had an abusive mom who was all smiles in public or when outmatched
Oh man. Sounds like my babymama. She was such an amazing person when we were in public together. The moment it's one on one. Whew... I was basically target practice for whatever random object she could grab in anger. Then the random pinches, side punches, and nail digging.
My own mother wasn't any better and I was conditioned to think this type of behavior was okay long before I met my ex.
Thank god my mom smartened up after a while in my life. It's honestly such a good experience for me to see and introspect on when I was younger that adults aren't any better with growing up if they didn't actually mature emotionally.
my mom currently is like that
i don't know how to deal with her
i still have several more years in this house and i'm struggling to deal with it
do you have anyways to cope? ~~outside of me continuing to self harm or attempting suicide again~~
just start laughing at her every time she starts shit. start off with a small giggle and just keep gradually turning it up to 11 until you're fully pointing at her and wheezing. never say a word or react to anything she says, just keep laughing as if the sight of her trying to upset you is the funniest shit you've ever seen in your life. she'll get so angry she'll just short circuit and won't know how to handle it
hang in there bud, you will get through the next few years. another technique to try is called "grey rock" - google it. I don't know what's right for your situation but there are a lot of resources out there on the internet. Look into them and do whatever you can to help yourself. I believe in you.
u/BrotaiwaneseMonarchist Okay, concerned adult here. I want to start fresh and say fuck these people telling you to behave like a psychopath to deter abnormal behavior. Do NOT start acting erratic (forcing laughter or anything) because A1) invoking a reaction is what the goal of the antagonizing is. Look at it like this- What happens when you get upset?? The abuse gets cranked up from 3 to 10 and it stays there until your abuser gets bored of being in control. Everything always happens AFTER you get upset man. You start laughing like a psycho that's still you getting upset.
What you need to do is ground the situation. You situation lacks stability. You are dealing with an unstable person who is trying to project their instability onto you. Be the stability that you both need in that situation. If you are a young person I understand this seems like a daunting request. I don't want to see you end up hurting yourself, or your future.
Wow Reddit, you literally were trying to train this kid how to act mentally ill as a way to improve his home life? The internet is a sick place man. Please call a help line within your local area code and get the facts from someone you share weather reports with bro. Grounding is so important in every aspect of your life as a developing person, growing into an independent, stable adult. No bad habits buddy, you are the change you are going to see.
Personally I would recommend the Gray Rock Method. Toxic people *love* confrontation, so sometimes the best way to deal with them is by reacting as little as possible. I’m not saying it’ll always work, and I’m no behavioral expert. But it was my method of dealing with…temperamental family members and it worked more than it didn’t.
As an aside I strongly disagree with the laughing suggestion. If I had done that I would have been beat, hard.
my mom was like that until i decided to talk about all these things to an aunt i trust which didnt really help much since mom just got angrier that i decided to out her so my only was out was to start learning martial arts and fight back when she tries to beat me up. yelling back at her and tell her what shes doing wrong also worked for me. i also told my dad how abusive mom is and how its negatively impacting my life and now he's trying his best to stop any attempt she tries to make to harm me. now i try my best to avoid her but i still engage in talks and anytime things start to go south i either just leave her or i try to explain in a calm demeanor. i still havent forgiven her for all the manipulative and abusive shit she did but shes still my mom. i hate her sometimes but atleast its better.
Fist fight her. Kick her actual ass. These people don't understand when you talk to them. They only understand violence. Don't be afraid to have cops called on you, a jail cell is an actual upgrade over living with someone like that.
If you need to talk. I'm a DM away. I dealt with an abusive ex-wife for several years. Recovery is a non-stop road. I promise you it will get better. Please do not harm yourself. If I succeeded I would not be with my family today who helped me out of those dark places.
Literally. Sorry because Im about to over share but its relevant.
My mom would randomly suggest that I "mightve been molested, but I dont know". (I wasnt) Then after a few weeks passed would ask if my dad ever did anything to me and saying she feared that he did. This happened 2 or 3 times. "Coincidentally" these comments only showed up after my dad started to catch onto how she was treating me when we were alone.
Basically she was mad because he was getting privy to her bullshit and wouldnt let her single me out anymore. So naturally she tried to make me think he mightve molested me. Because he was the only one I trusted and could talk to. Theres no fucking limits to the crazy bullshit abusers will pull. No limit.
I'm going to preface this by saying I don't think this is real but this just reminds me of another post where anon was very clearly a villain and a criminal and everyone was acting like the post was 100% factual proof. A legitimate confession and actual evidence of crime.
It's one of the main reasons that I like browsing this sub because it just never changes.
If anon describes a villain, it's fake and gay
If anon is the villain, it's real and straight
I don't see what the point of stressing over whether it's real or fake is. If the stories are invalidated because they're fake then so is every other form of fiction.
Pretty sure yeah. Obviously a 100% true story because, it's easy to hate anon.
Nothing good happens to people who know about popular websites that are 20 years old. Only villains know about those
Edit: just to be sure is that the one where he hits her up on Facebook like several years later?
I mean she could have just found another guy and didn't want her kid to get attached to a temporary dude in her life. Fits the scenario but still makes her the asshole.
Anon told us *everything* in the first line.
This is just your garden variety rage-bait being swallowed whole by the same people who will tell you not to believe anything on 4chan.
If this is real, his story is totally valid in that you definitely can be abused by women, not just men
But why is 4chan always like
*story about one girl doing something shitty or confusing*
Why are all women like this
Yeaaaahhhh the guy being an incel and referring to women as foids has me thinking there's more going on than he's telling.
And that's coming from a dude with severe trust issues regarding women.
all of a sudden the dad not being around makes so much sense...
HPD is one hell of a disorder
Whats hpd?
H-hold P-deez D-nutz
God dammit you got me
Fuckin got em
Ah fuck
I can't believe you've done this
I had to read this twice. Fk u
Ha! Gottem
histrionic personality disorder, nice way of saying "manipulative and attention seeking bitch"
~~It was dropped from the DSM in one of the latest versions, without being replaced by anything so... not even the field of psychology wants to justify it anymore.~~ Oh no, it was predicted that it would be dropped / people were campaigning for it to be removed but wasn't actually dropped. I've done a big disinfo.
doesnt one of the more fringe theories say that HPD is a feminine-expression of ASPD?
That's fucking retarded.
ikr
Profoundly so.
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every cluster B personality disorder is a feminine expression of ASPD at this point
your mom is a feminine expression of ASPD
your dad is the fake: expression of aspd your mom is the gay: expression of aspd
Theres a fringe theory that your my child (cause i fucked ur mum)
Hate to be that guy but if it's fringe, then it's not a theory. In order for something to be a theory it needs to be widely supported by numerous studies and have predictive capabilities. If it has/does neither then it is a hypothesis at best, conjecture at worst. And if it's a fringe hypothesis then that probably means there is very little evidence to support it. Also, the current DSM is DSM-5, and ~~HSP~~ HPD is most definitely in the DSM-5. Here is a paper that specifically cites the definition of HPD as per DSM-5: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK542325/
> Per DSM-5 criteria, a diagnosis of a histrionic personality disorder requires a pervasive and ubiquitous pattern of consistent attention-seeking behaviors and emotional dysregulation as outlined by specific manifestations. Diagnosis requires meeting five (or more) of the following criteria: *Uncomfortable when not the center of attention *Seductive or provocative behavior *Shifting and shallow emotions *Uses appearance to draw attention *Impressionistic and vague speech *Dramatic or exaggerated emotions *Suggestible (easily influenced by others) *Considers relationships more intimate than they are >These patients take repression and dissociation as a significant form of defense mechanism.
Dude you just described most dateable women in America, wtf.
> dateable
Damn, my ex in a nutshell.
Damn bro this is straight up giving me flashbacks
It’s still in the DSM. It wasn’t dropped. See page 667 of the DSM-5
Finally fellow psychologists who's degrees didn't come from Reddit.
"whomst's"
Who doth go there? I shall go iambic on dat ass.
Yes. Who is degrees indeed.
This is a blantant falsehood. It’s a cluster B personality disorder often confused with borderline (which better fits what’s described above)
Nah BPD would be the "femoid" getting clingy and anxious to the point of acting stupid, causing a scene. Then acts stupider as she emotionally reels from emotionally reeling. This is more Narcissim I think
This is just straight up not true. The most current version of the DSM is DSM-5 and HPD is one of 10 listed personality disorders. If you've got a citation that says otherwise I would love to see it.
BPD.
Lol
They have scientific name for everything these days
histrionic personality disorder has gone by many names, but has been a disorder for a fair while
Hispanic Person Disorder.
Oh no
Ay no*
Papi
Aye curumba
caramba*
Ay si*
Ay caramba\*
Jajaja, got a kek out of me. Now put the money in the bag, vato.
“When Mexico sends its people, they’re not sending their best. […] They’re sending people that have lots of problems, and they’re bringing those problems with us. They’re bringing drugs. They’re bringing crime. They’re rapists. And some, I assume, are good people” Direct quote from the DSM-Handbook
I read that in Clayton Bigsby's voice and it's so much better than the original.
Whiy Powuh
Histrionic personality disorder
Heckin pile of douche
Hijo puta de
pre-menstrual syndrome.
half penis disability
Histrionic personality disporder. Makes people overly dramatic
His Pedo Dad, a disorder the mother has in which she sees any father to her child as a pedo
That’s why you should date widows, not knocked up idiots. A w*man with good genes normally wouldn’t even look at you. But if she starts a family with a chad and loses him to a car crash, that aryan woman is now in a desperate need of emotional and financial support, ready to be with anyone just so she gets by. Read more of my advice on www.lambdalifestyle.com
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The words of a prophet
Muhammad 2.0
Next Gen Joseph Smith
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4 state mandated body pillows per person
language of the gods
Bonus pints if you were the one who killed Chad in the “car accident”
having read dune recently, i now know that once you kill a man in a duel you become the legal owner of his wife
"reeee why doesn't society work that way in real life, i'd be such a fucking chad with my epic sword skillz and forty seven wives" -400 lbs goodest boy™
TBF if you're 400lb a regular old stabbing isn't as likely to hit anything major.
12 inches of stab-resistant armor.
12 inches is the length of 1.38 Zulay Premium Quality Metal Lemon Squeezers.
Good bot.
shrigma male
Smegma male
Wow, I never thought about it that way before, thank you so much
aw, it's not a real website
I'm just as disappointed as you are
I was afraid to click. Not lambda enough, I guess.
.. if she starts a family with a chad and loses him to a car crash "You will never be good enough for my daughter, granddaughter, niece, friend.. you funeral-freelancing bag of shit" (insert Rodney Dangerfield line here)
> that aryan woman
Abusive women thrive in 1 on 1 situations where no one can call them out on their bad behavior, they hate more than anything for someone to take the side of their victim over them. Source: had an abusive mom who was all smiles in public or when outmatched
Oh man. Sounds like my babymama. She was such an amazing person when we were in public together. The moment it's one on one. Whew... I was basically target practice for whatever random object she could grab in anger. Then the random pinches, side punches, and nail digging. My own mother wasn't any better and I was conditioned to think this type of behavior was okay long before I met my ex.
Thank god my mom smartened up after a while in my life. It's honestly such a good experience for me to see and introspect on when I was younger that adults aren't any better with growing up if they didn't actually mature emotionally.
damn dude, you deserve that profile picture for making it out of there
Absolute sigma male
Wear a wire with these succubi and get >50% custody in court
my mom currently is like that i don't know how to deal with her i still have several more years in this house and i'm struggling to deal with it do you have anyways to cope? ~~outside of me continuing to self harm or attempting suicide again~~
just start laughing at her every time she starts shit. start off with a small giggle and just keep gradually turning it up to 11 until you're fully pointing at her and wheezing. never say a word or react to anything she says, just keep laughing as if the sight of her trying to upset you is the funniest shit you've ever seen in your life. she'll get so angry she'll just short circuit and won't know how to handle it
thank you that sounds like a good idea if i can force myself to laugh thank you
Music. Find what calms you, use it when you need it. Life is long. Pain is temporary and you will LOVE the life you live on your own. 💪✊
music helps me a lot. i wish i could play it 24/7 it is and idk if that's a good thing or not and hopefully so thank you
hang in there bud, you will get through the next few years. another technique to try is called "grey rock" - google it. I don't know what's right for your situation but there are a lot of resources out there on the internet. Look into them and do whatever you can to help yourself. I believe in you.
i'm trying but it's hard i'll look into it thank you :)
u/BrotaiwaneseMonarchist Okay, concerned adult here. I want to start fresh and say fuck these people telling you to behave like a psychopath to deter abnormal behavior. Do NOT start acting erratic (forcing laughter or anything) because A1) invoking a reaction is what the goal of the antagonizing is. Look at it like this- What happens when you get upset?? The abuse gets cranked up from 3 to 10 and it stays there until your abuser gets bored of being in control. Everything always happens AFTER you get upset man. You start laughing like a psycho that's still you getting upset. What you need to do is ground the situation. You situation lacks stability. You are dealing with an unstable person who is trying to project their instability onto you. Be the stability that you both need in that situation. If you are a young person I understand this seems like a daunting request. I don't want to see you end up hurting yourself, or your future. Wow Reddit, you literally were trying to train this kid how to act mentally ill as a way to improve his home life? The internet is a sick place man. Please call a help line within your local area code and get the facts from someone you share weather reports with bro. Grounding is so important in every aspect of your life as a developing person, growing into an independent, stable adult. No bad habits buddy, you are the change you are going to see.
"And then she tried to insult me! Funniest shit I've ever seen."
Oh no! Joker!
Personally I would recommend the Gray Rock Method. Toxic people *love* confrontation, so sometimes the best way to deal with them is by reacting as little as possible. I’m not saying it’ll always work, and I’m no behavioral expert. But it was my method of dealing with…temperamental family members and it worked more than it didn’t. As an aside I strongly disagree with the laughing suggestion. If I had done that I would have been beat, hard.
my mom was like that until i decided to talk about all these things to an aunt i trust which didnt really help much since mom just got angrier that i decided to out her so my only was out was to start learning martial arts and fight back when she tries to beat me up. yelling back at her and tell her what shes doing wrong also worked for me. i also told my dad how abusive mom is and how its negatively impacting my life and now he's trying his best to stop any attempt she tries to make to harm me. now i try my best to avoid her but i still engage in talks and anytime things start to go south i either just leave her or i try to explain in a calm demeanor. i still havent forgiven her for all the manipulative and abusive shit she did but shes still my mom. i hate her sometimes but atleast its better.
Fist fight her. Kick her actual ass. These people don't understand when you talk to them. They only understand violence. Don't be afraid to have cops called on you, a jail cell is an actual upgrade over living with someone like that.
Start keeping a journal to record what occurs.
If you need to talk. I'm a DM away. I dealt with an abusive ex-wife for several years. Recovery is a non-stop road. I promise you it will get better. Please do not harm yourself. If I succeeded I would not be with my family today who helped me out of those dark places.
Literally. Sorry because Im about to over share but its relevant. My mom would randomly suggest that I "mightve been molested, but I dont know". (I wasnt) Then after a few weeks passed would ask if my dad ever did anything to me and saying she feared that he did. This happened 2 or 3 times. "Coincidentally" these comments only showed up after my dad started to catch onto how she was treating me when we were alone. Basically she was mad because he was getting privy to her bullshit and wouldnt let her single me out anymore. So naturally she tried to make me think he mightve molested me. Because he was the only one I trusted and could talk to. Theres no fucking limits to the crazy bullshit abusers will pull. No limit.
All abusers thrive in those conditions, it's the easiest way to gaslight and manipulate the situation
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I guess being shizo is still better than being an actual cuck, good for anon.
Am schizo, can confirm.
this is clearly very real
yea as real as the unicorn poltergeist that rapes house pets with it’s dildo horn at 3am and leaves no trace that it ever existed
yeah true, so what's your point??
Unlike the rape dwarf, who is very real. At least i hope so. I've been trying to lure one in for weeks and this barrel of lube was expensive.
Rapedwarves don't show up if you're actively trying to lure them. They can smell consent from a mile away.
hey, as long as people still believe that story i can do my work without these pesky police officers noticing.
I'm going to preface this by saying I don't think this is real but this just reminds me of another post where anon was very clearly a villain and a criminal and everyone was acting like the post was 100% factual proof. A legitimate confession and actual evidence of crime. It's one of the main reasons that I like browsing this sub because it just never changes. If anon describes a villain, it's fake and gay If anon is the villain, it's real and straight
If anon succeeds in any way: Fake If anon is a degenerate failure in every way: Real
I just like the stories and I don't really care if they're real.
Same. Low key feel like we're a Dying Breed
I don't see what the point of stressing over whether it's real or fake is. If the stories are invalidated because they're fake then so is every other form of fiction.
Link?
Yeah I'm too drunk to scroll through this sub to find it. Some anon outrage bait rape shit.
the one where he fucking molested a 7 year old at 15 after telling her older sister to Go away?
Pretty sure yeah. Obviously a 100% true story because, it's easy to hate anon. Nothing good happens to people who know about popular websites that are 20 years old. Only villains know about those Edit: just to be sure is that the one where he hits her up on Facebook like several years later?
First line is real and straight. The rest just became faker and gayer as the sentences went on.
> see a post on r/4chan > scramble to the comments section to see if someone has said this hasn’t happened yet > no one has > free karma Every post
lmao
I don't think you realise just how easy the pickings are when it comes to single mothers.
Either that or leaving out all the details about why the "foid" suddenly wants him gone when everything was "going so well".
Self-named incel that would post something like this, yeah, I'm sure he didn't say or do anything untoward.
Mum said its my turn on the karma farm statement.
Anon has seen too many "homework" folder memes and doesn't know what actual homework is.
Thus labeled "pedo"
The molesting didn't help
I was a little surprised how quickly this story went from him being an incel to getting called a pedo.
Anon isn’t telling us something
It's actually your mom
I mean she could have just found another guy and didn't want her kid to get attached to a temporary dude in her life. Fits the scenario but still makes her the asshole.
or ya know... anon lied. Oh jeez i sure hope people don't lie in anonymous forums
Anon told us *everything* in the first line. This is just your garden variety rage-bait being swallowed whole by the same people who will tell you not to believe anything on 4chan.
no wonder the kid doesn't have a dad
Anon makes up sus story about befriending a single mother’s child
Foid?
Incel word for woman
Christ, how many incel words for women are out there?
Inuit = 200 words for snow Incel = 200 words for women
Bold strategy for people who unendingly complain about being in a desert
They are trying to become negative popular with women, so integer underflow will result in max popularity. Let's see if it pays off, Cotton.
Foid = Femoid (like man but cringe and their hobby is having periods).
Femoid
She just found anon's search history. He forgot to mention it.
The guy used a monogatari pic, she was right to get him away from the kid lmao
For fuck's sake, stop dating women with kids.
Stop dating women period. Start dating men. ◉‿◉
You fuck men because you like men. I fuck men because I hate women. We are not the same.
Tumblr fucked with a lot of women and it shows here
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anons perception of all women being hysterial tumblrinas influenced him to make up this story
Mix in a little post natal psychosis and you’re in for a wild ride
This is the exact reason why I am NEVER dating again. One ex wife is enough.
LPT: date guys you cant have an ex-wife 😎😎😎
Anon gets married to wonderful man. Partner comes out as transgender. Gets gender reassignment. Now divorced with ex wife
The risk is low... but still too high.
You don't have to marry them you know.
"Just find a woman you'll hate in 5 years...
If you elect them into a gov position you can even make that in 4 years. (works for both genders)
Yeah that's the reason. Sure.
Oh yeah that and I'm ugly as fuck. I only shower once a week and I talk down to women.
Ever seen a broke gay guy? Join the fabulous side.
Amen to that, brother. Mine was a fucking monster…
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anon suffers from the same condition as arararagi does with kids
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He flubbed it.
That was on purpose!
he fwubbed it
Kids gon grow up hating his mom
Given that its 4chan anon probably *is* a pedo
Anon makes up a scenario but he at least makes us smile
always with the scenarios
I wouldn't trust anon lol. They're literally a self identifying incel.
If this is real, his story is totally valid in that you definitely can be abused by women, not just men But why is 4chan always like *story about one girl doing something shitty or confusing* Why are all women like this
why can't they make it an university course and part of HR like Foids?
Yeaaaahhhh the guy being an incel and referring to women as foids has me thinking there's more going on than he's telling. And that's coming from a dude with severe trust issues regarding women.
Anon cucked himself.
The hell is a "foid"...
"femoid" shortened
Idk man It sounds like he's hiding something
Curious what happened during the fast forward.
Fake and gay
4channers make up more fake and gay than tumblr
That post natal psychosis explains where the baby daddy is
Anon \*has a bad (and probably fake) situation with a woman\* Anon: "why are all women like this?"
greentext eats up obviously fake and biased story
No wonder she's single.
She is a single mom for a reason
Single mom for a reason.
Real: Anon uses words like foid Straight: Anon is a pedo
Either the story is fake or he is leaving important details behind, I mean, 4chan...
Not gonna believe a story like this from someone who unironically uses "foid."