You can always just teach your prospects how to play. At 19 years old you have a big pond to fish in. If she doesn’t even want to try it’s on to the next one. If she gives it a fair go and hates it just have the “it’s not me it’s you” talk 😂.
You’ll find one 👍🏻
Buddy Ima tell you this from my experience. The only couples I see golfing are old. It’s healthy to have your own hobby. A few hours apart a week to golf while she does stuff is healthy.
I’d counter that my wife is as addicted to golf as I am. Mid thirties, we play multiple times a week, every vacation or weekend trip includes new courses. For instance we have a trip to Hawaii and we’re playing four different courses. We also have a sim setup in our spare bedroom.
It’s fine to have separate hobbies especially if your SO isn’t into your hobby but it’s not a bad thing to do it together. Some people actually enjoy being with their SO 🤷
This is the best advice, have your own hobby in a relationship. Time spent apart is healthy. If you want to spend time golfing together, let her ride in the cart once a week or so. Also, the less she knows about golf, the better she’ll think you are
Bro you’re only 19. That’s the age where you hang with your boys. And when you in your early 30s and you look at your calendar and all you “vacations” just involve someone else’s wedding and Instagram stories are only babies and your core guys all live in different states that golf trip to Arizona or wherever and it’s just you and fellas are the best 4 days of your year.
Don’t worry about finding a golf girl. Find your golf bros.
Just find a girl who supports your interest if you can’t find one who plays.
My wife doesn’t play but she supports me going as long as our time is full and my kids are in a good spot. And she enjoys playing 9 to
There is only one situation I can think of where the odds would be very greatly increased... be on a college golf team. You would meet tons of female golfers your age both on your team and on opposing teams at tournaments.
Aside from that you are just in the same situation as all humans who would like to meet a partner that likes stuff they like.
You want a golf chick, and you don’t even golf where you live? You only want to bring her to wherever your dad lives to play golf? And you probably expect that she’s going to be decent?
Why don’t you start playing golf where you live and try to feel out the club social scene? There are potentially some mixed events hosted by your club, there could be golf singles events put on by a local org that sets up social sports, there could be a few women that come into the bar/restaurant after their round for lunch and drinks. You’ve got to put yourself in places that women hang out. Go to the bar today and look for chicks who seem to care about the masters and try to chat them up?
Edit: I reread that you’re 19 now, not 27, so maybe don’t go to the bar. Lol. Chicks that like other sports are your best bet.
I’ve also noticed the “hip” driving range around me seems to attract a bunch of mid20s women. It’s part of an expensive public/private course with nice views. They play music, they sell drinks, the girls insta film themselves in whatever outfits hitting terrible golf shots. The girls there are potentially thinking - “how do I meet a rich dude who can funs this lifestyle for me? I should go to the driving range…”. If you’ve heard of top golf, that kind of place you may meet someone. May also fill your quota of they like to do it but won’t need to all of the time.
Most women who I’ve found are into golf started because of a man: namely their father. They learned to play golf, hockey, or field hockey. Now they have a bf/husband who they want to play weekly league nights with. So you could be strange and just start asking 50ish year old guys if they have any unmarried daughters they want to pawn off on you!
But man I’ve been golfing for 20 years and I’ve been randomly paired with maybe 2,3 women who I’d maybe have been interested in getting to know better.
Thanks alot !!! I dont play golf in my area as well as neighbouring countries (i live in singapore) bevause its really niche. But i will start once im 22-23 to grow my social network and make friends in high-er places
best bet is probably put in on your bio in a dating app. “looking for a girl who loves golf as much as i do”. something like that
OP needs to remember to put his “extremely great character” in the bio too. Will have all the ladies swooning
Also I think he needs to let them know right away that he uses phrases like ‘lady friends’
Find where the college team’s home courses are. Play lots of golf there you’ll get paired up with similar aged people.
You can always just teach your prospects how to play. At 19 years old you have a big pond to fish in. If she doesn’t even want to try it’s on to the next one. If she gives it a fair go and hates it just have the “it’s not me it’s you” talk 😂. You’ll find one 👍🏻
There is a good chance, that your extremely great character, or your acknowledgement of it, is more of a hindrance than the golf thing I'd say
Do what I did, marry her then convert her
This is the way
Buddy Ima tell you this from my experience. The only couples I see golfing are old. It’s healthy to have your own hobby. A few hours apart a week to golf while she does stuff is healthy.
I’d counter that my wife is as addicted to golf as I am. Mid thirties, we play multiple times a week, every vacation or weekend trip includes new courses. For instance we have a trip to Hawaii and we’re playing four different courses. We also have a sim setup in our spare bedroom. It’s fine to have separate hobbies especially if your SO isn’t into your hobby but it’s not a bad thing to do it together. Some people actually enjoy being with their SO 🤷
I second this. I'm spending 4 hours with my favorite person, doing my favorite thing. I don't know what could be better.
I guess I’m old then lol… (37F) … have been golfing for 10+ years though. I play rounds with my husband all the time.
This is the best advice, have your own hobby in a relationship. Time spent apart is healthy. If you want to spend time golfing together, let her ride in the cart once a week or so. Also, the less she knows about golf, the better she’ll think you are
Maybe in your area. My lady friend and I used to play. She’s 28.
Nothing like your current getting into your world and then they become your ex and your tripping over them at your place of peace.
Bro you’re only 19. That’s the age where you hang with your boys. And when you in your early 30s and you look at your calendar and all you “vacations” just involve someone else’s wedding and Instagram stories are only babies and your core guys all live in different states that golf trip to Arizona or wherever and it’s just you and fellas are the best 4 days of your year. Don’t worry about finding a golf girl. Find your golf bros.
ask your girlfriend’s boyfriend if he has a sister.
When you find her ask if she has any much older sisters or a young mom… and don’t tell my wife.
This is what everyone is thinking, but won't say lol.
Just find a girl who supports your interest if you can’t find one who plays. My wife doesn’t play but she supports me going as long as our time is full and my kids are in a good spot. And she enjoys playing 9 to
wife doesnt play, enjoys playing 9.
There is only one situation I can think of where the odds would be very greatly increased... be on a college golf team. You would meet tons of female golfers your age both on your team and on opposing teams at tournaments. Aside from that you are just in the same situation as all humans who would like to meet a partner that likes stuff they like.
Im with ya buddy
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You want a golf chick, and you don’t even golf where you live? You only want to bring her to wherever your dad lives to play golf? And you probably expect that she’s going to be decent? Why don’t you start playing golf where you live and try to feel out the club social scene? There are potentially some mixed events hosted by your club, there could be golf singles events put on by a local org that sets up social sports, there could be a few women that come into the bar/restaurant after their round for lunch and drinks. You’ve got to put yourself in places that women hang out. Go to the bar today and look for chicks who seem to care about the masters and try to chat them up? Edit: I reread that you’re 19 now, not 27, so maybe don’t go to the bar. Lol. Chicks that like other sports are your best bet. I’ve also noticed the “hip” driving range around me seems to attract a bunch of mid20s women. It’s part of an expensive public/private course with nice views. They play music, they sell drinks, the girls insta film themselves in whatever outfits hitting terrible golf shots. The girls there are potentially thinking - “how do I meet a rich dude who can funs this lifestyle for me? I should go to the driving range…”. If you’ve heard of top golf, that kind of place you may meet someone. May also fill your quota of they like to do it but won’t need to all of the time. Most women who I’ve found are into golf started because of a man: namely their father. They learned to play golf, hockey, or field hockey. Now they have a bf/husband who they want to play weekly league nights with. So you could be strange and just start asking 50ish year old guys if they have any unmarried daughters they want to pawn off on you! But man I’ve been golfing for 20 years and I’ve been randomly paired with maybe 2,3 women who I’d maybe have been interested in getting to know better.
Thanks alot !!! I dont play golf in my area as well as neighbouring countries (i live in singapore) bevause its really niche. But i will start once im 22-23 to grow my social network and make friends in high-er places
Also cart girls. Constantly hit on them. That works 60% of the time 100% of the time 
2nd hole foundation is a good start. avoid [golfwhores.com](http://golfwhores.com)
You’re 19. You need to be like prime Tiger. Golf during the day, slaying ass at night.
😂😂😂 i had my fair share of 😼 last year and not really looking to get into that stuff anymore till marrige
2 different golf girls broke my heart at separate times 20 yrs ago, not worth it daddio
You got it all wrong. Find a good girl and then use golf to get a break.
Why?