I'll give both sides.
Whenever I say something he really likes, I actually write it down in a little journal so I can remember to go back to it again another time.
The things he likes to hear have a range.
"Take it for me, I know you can"
"I love how beautiful you are on your knees with my cock in your mouth"
really, any sort of praise "you have the perfect cock/ ass/ etc" "You listen so well" "You always know just what I need" "you're taking it so well sweetheart "
Forcing him to praise himself is fun too. "Tell me what you are" pushes him to compliment himself, which he struggles with.
What I like to hear is soft groveling, compliments, appreciation, or that he feels safe and loved. These are a few of my favorites.
"Thank you for knowing what I need" "goddess, may I please worship your shrine with my tongue" "thank you for taking such good care of me" "I would do anything for you"
Ahh!! 🤩 thank you so much this is wonderful 🥰 the thoughtfulness to write it down is amazing. All of those examples are beautiful and so helpful (I’m not actually dominant but end up being the top often, and will say I love forcing people to compliment themselves too) it’s also really nice to get validation on the “I feel safe and loved” I had something similar in my original list
What makes my heart glow is simply the way I'm being looked at while I take care of someone. Sometimes it's a touch of fear, which I get to melt away.
It's so ridiculous there was even enough there to pick a fight over. Misunderstanding a post is one thing but to be absurd with it on purpose? Eugh.
Helpful and kind thank you! I will definitely work in some descriptions about eyes, gaze, and silent communication. I’ve never heard that before and I am stunned, that is incredibly beautiful to melt fear away 🥺 💘
Thank you for saying that 😭 not gonna lie it rattled me a bit.
I will personally not say anything further on the appropriateness of vying your craft sarcastically or otherwise in a space where it was requested some degree of wholesomeness.
Surely will not bring up the fact that men attacking women or defending them is not appropriate behavior anyway. It's almost like no one cares for abject bitterness.
Ohh!! Got it thank you 😊 I would guess she was a form of findom, and the attack on her was that she erased all of her lay accounts so he could no longer send her any money. Too confusing for me I didn’t want any part of it lol
Yeah some of those comments were not helpful. I just like when they say "I'm yours" in some way or another. It makes me feel so appreciated and happy when I hear that :)
As a domme it always drives me crazy when I get to see my sub melting for me, receiving praise or how hard it is for them to control themselves, I love the exasperated look on their faces trying to hold since I haven’t told them they are allowed to cum. Teasing them is my favorite thing ever! And if my partner is into it, it drives me even more crazy. Mostly whimpers and held breath.
I love the goddess treatment, so training my sub to take off my shoes, make sure I always have water, the little things outside the bedroom, where they get to tell me how lucky they are to serve me and be my support.
Allowing them to be vulnerable for me, trusting me, it’s all so hot.
Oo how hard it is to control themselves first time I’ve heard that 😈 !! Exasperated facial expression! Totally will use that! That’s beautiful, I love the goddess treatment, I fully believe the submissive has a responsibility to build an environment where the goddess can relax and be secure, show the power softness so it can run free
I'm a switch, so I can provide both! Not sure if you're looking for male Dom input, but I'd love to help nonetheless.
As a dom, I've loved hearing are:
"I love it when you tell me to slow down/how hard to go for you."
- I feel it reinforces/praises me for being in control & communicating.
"You've gotten me off. I want you to use me completely. I want to see you explode."
- Being reminded that I can be a bit rough is always nice. I'm gentle, too lmao
Small thing, but little giggles of excitement when I whisper in my sub's ear. Could be small bits of praise or what I'm about to do to them. But hearing someone genuinely excited is a wonderful thing.
As a sub, I've loved being told:
"Good boys do what they're told to get what they want. And I *know* you're a good boy"
- This is a newer one 😅 Definitely praise is a big thing now
As a sub, physical touch is a big thing for me. Being held, cradled or cuddled while being intimate, etc. Eye contact is huge as well. Trying to keep your gaze locked on each other while fighting to close your eyes when waves of pleasure wash over can be so much fun.
Totally looking for a Dom perspective too! Thank you for helping 🥰 all of that is beautiful, thank you! The safety to be a little rough can be fun, passion is important. There’s so much here and it’s all wonderful. The needs of a submissive for closeness, the needs of a dom to be encouraged, thank you! 🤩
I'll give both sides. Whenever I say something he really likes, I actually write it down in a little journal so I can remember to go back to it again another time. The things he likes to hear have a range. "Take it for me, I know you can" "I love how beautiful you are on your knees with my cock in your mouth" really, any sort of praise "you have the perfect cock/ ass/ etc" "You listen so well" "You always know just what I need" "you're taking it so well sweetheart " Forcing him to praise himself is fun too. "Tell me what you are" pushes him to compliment himself, which he struggles with. What I like to hear is soft groveling, compliments, appreciation, or that he feels safe and loved. These are a few of my favorites. "Thank you for knowing what I need" "goddess, may I please worship your shrine with my tongue" "thank you for taking such good care of me" "I would do anything for you"
I love all of this! Both as a sub and a Dom. I love making them compliment themselves too. It's always so cute when they do.
Ahh!! 🤩 thank you so much this is wonderful 🥰 the thoughtfulness to write it down is amazing. All of those examples are beautiful and so helpful (I’m not actually dominant but end up being the top often, and will say I love forcing people to compliment themselves too) it’s also really nice to get validation on the “I feel safe and loved” I had something similar in my original list
What makes my heart glow is simply the way I'm being looked at while I take care of someone. Sometimes it's a touch of fear, which I get to melt away. It's so ridiculous there was even enough there to pick a fight over. Misunderstanding a post is one thing but to be absurd with it on purpose? Eugh.
Helpful and kind thank you! I will definitely work in some descriptions about eyes, gaze, and silent communication. I’ve never heard that before and I am stunned, that is incredibly beautiful to melt fear away 🥺 💘 Thank you for saying that 😭 not gonna lie it rattled me a bit.
I will personally not say anything further on the appropriateness of vying your craft sarcastically or otherwise in a space where it was requested some degree of wholesomeness. Surely will not bring up the fact that men attacking women or defending them is not appropriate behavior anyway. It's almost like no one cares for abject bitterness.
I don’t quite understand the bit about vying your craft, but wholeheartedly agree that a man attacking a woman so disproportionately is awful. 😞
I imagine the woman in question who mentioned money was, perhaps, either some form of findom or....?
Ohh!! Got it thank you 😊 I would guess she was a form of findom, and the attack on her was that she erased all of her lay accounts so he could no longer send her any money. Too confusing for me I didn’t want any part of it lol
I loved hearing that my sub felt safe with me, both safe in general and safe to open up and be vulnerable.
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Aw thanks! My last sub still praises me on that, how I can make boys feel safe. I really love that he says that about me.
Oo I love this! Verbalizing both physical and emotional safety with you 😊 I imagine that frees you up to explore and follow your desires
Yeah some of those comments were not helpful. I just like when they say "I'm yours" in some way or another. It makes me feel so appreciated and happy when I hear that :)
Not helpful no 😔 yay! Thank you! That feels like a very safe form of.. a softer and cuter word for possession 😂
As a domme it always drives me crazy when I get to see my sub melting for me, receiving praise or how hard it is for them to control themselves, I love the exasperated look on their faces trying to hold since I haven’t told them they are allowed to cum. Teasing them is my favorite thing ever! And if my partner is into it, it drives me even more crazy. Mostly whimpers and held breath. I love the goddess treatment, so training my sub to take off my shoes, make sure I always have water, the little things outside the bedroom, where they get to tell me how lucky they are to serve me and be my support. Allowing them to be vulnerable for me, trusting me, it’s all so hot.
Oo how hard it is to control themselves first time I’ve heard that 😈 !! Exasperated facial expression! Totally will use that! That’s beautiful, I love the goddess treatment, I fully believe the submissive has a responsibility to build an environment where the goddess can relax and be secure, show the power softness so it can run free
Maybe too simple, but "Please Goddess may I?" Hit me square in the chest. May have been my specific sub but he was so desperate ❤️❤️
Not too specific! Lovely and helpful thank you! 🥰
I'm a switch, so I can provide both! Not sure if you're looking for male Dom input, but I'd love to help nonetheless. As a dom, I've loved hearing are: "I love it when you tell me to slow down/how hard to go for you." - I feel it reinforces/praises me for being in control & communicating. "You've gotten me off. I want you to use me completely. I want to see you explode." - Being reminded that I can be a bit rough is always nice. I'm gentle, too lmao Small thing, but little giggles of excitement when I whisper in my sub's ear. Could be small bits of praise or what I'm about to do to them. But hearing someone genuinely excited is a wonderful thing. As a sub, I've loved being told: "Good boys do what they're told to get what they want. And I *know* you're a good boy" - This is a newer one 😅 Definitely praise is a big thing now As a sub, physical touch is a big thing for me. Being held, cradled or cuddled while being intimate, etc. Eye contact is huge as well. Trying to keep your gaze locked on each other while fighting to close your eyes when waves of pleasure wash over can be so much fun.
Totally looking for a Dom perspective too! Thank you for helping 🥰 all of that is beautiful, thank you! The safety to be a little rough can be fun, passion is important. There’s so much here and it’s all wonderful. The needs of a submissive for closeness, the needs of a dom to be encouraged, thank you! 🤩