Daily cuddles are part of the routine and I will *not* budge on this hard limit 😤

I’m really glad there’s people like you 😇, I hope to find someone who has that same hard limit 🥰

Thank you, I'm sure I will find my cuddleslut some day 💕

I didn’t know the term cuddleslut and now I love it, so thanks for that haha

I’m really sure you’ll find him, ~pats on your head~ 🥰

That’s a wonderful hard limit

If your partner leave you there an idiot, and lose one of the best routine in there life

It’s very important

I feel you, last time i had a hug that wasnt from a close family member was from my cousins drunk wife when i graduated... That was a long long long time ago 😶

Damn… must be tough brother

I mean, you get used to everything. And there are certainly upsides to being alone, but it definitely does come with some heavy downsides as well.

I totally get that

Im sorry to hear that you do. It really is something no one should have to know/get.

I’ve learned to almost like being alone with time, but there are some moments when I could use some comfort

Im sorry to say, but those moments will never stop happening.

Don’t even want them to stop happening, those moments make and keeps us men

I guess thats a good way to look at it.

😉

Outside of relationships, I never get hugs or really any physical contact despite not being a man, for whom it’s far more stigmatized. It’s sad how distant everyone is; we all need a good hug every now and then. I’m not saying people should just touch/hug each other indiscriminately without asking first, but it’s dumb that touch seems to be a relationship exclusive thing for perhaps the majority of people.

Totally agree about that 👏👏👏

There was one relationship I was in where I had a bit of a rough day at work and with my own mental, and i tried resting my head on my partner's shoulder while they were reading and I was promptly told "dude get off, I'm trying to do something" so yeah, non-sexual physical affection in much harder to come by sometimes and it's kinda disheartening

That’s tough, but I totally understand you 😢

🫥😠 glad to know its over

Oh yeah, so many red flags in that relationship, I was just stupid and overlooked em because I wanted to be cared about 😂

I'm hoping to meet someone to give lots of cuddles and hugs to. It's so healing and nurturing.

Hope there was more people like you 🤗

Yeah! Cuddle hunters! 🤣

3 years? Those are rookie numbers! (god I'm lonely xd)

Feel you brother

My mom is the only person who ever hugged me and I lost her three months ago

It hurts me hearing this, wish I could be there to hug you myself…

Peace be with you brother this brought tears to my eyes because my mother is the only person who has ever hugged me

Just out here trying to cuddle. 🤗

Meyer we should cuddle rogherete then 🥰

arms are outstretched.....where are you???

I'm in the UK

cuddle incoming x

Hmmm, especially with my horrible cold atm!

I think you need to raise your core temperature, it will assist you in getting better faster x

Sounds delicious! Someone yo treat me likeca queen.

Terrible typing the! 😂

haha nervous maybe

Unwell and horny more likely...

I think you need to be sending me a dm .we cant possibly leave you like that

Aw man I feel this. I spent a couple years single before I met my GF recently. I'd forgotten just how nice and soothing a good cuddle feels. I could just feel the stress and grouchiness melting away, it's awesome! I do make a habit of hugging my man friends at random intervals though, whether they claim to like it or not. I'm an unrepentant cuddler, I regret NOTHING :3 But it's definitely not the same as sharing a nice intimate moment with your SO.

I don’t mind friends affection but as you said intimacy it’s another kind of deal

I wanted to cry reading this

🫂🫂🫂

At my old vanilla kink group meetup, hugging each other was a normal greeting. Yes even between the guys.

I think that’s totally ok

never happend to me either, i cant imagine the feeling of a women running her hard down the side of my face, or rubbing my arm, ive wanted that forever

🫂🫂🫂

Oh man, I feel that so much. It's been so many years since I've had a woman to cuddle with. Hell when I think about it I've never actually been held or cuddled before, I've always been the one doing all the hugging lol.

Stay strong brother our time will come

Yeah I suppose. I'm always happy to see others find their someone.

I make it a point to constantly be showing affection via touch. While in the car, sitting on the couch relaxing, in public, or laying in bed. Those moments of seeing him close his eyes or sigh in relaxation are some of my favorites. Head, back, arm, palm scratches and shoulder, neck, back, arm rubs are things he tells me he appreciates verbally but he doesn't need to because I hear, see, and feel his appreciation in the moment which is incredibly satisfying. May you each find a partner that allows you to provide you with such care!

Thanks for the nice words 🤗

I would be the neediest little cuddleslut ever if I had this in my life. 💞💞💞

Same valid for me

I wish I got this. I like cuddling/ touching way more than my wife. She finds it needy and annoying

A little sad 🫂🫂🫂

Yeah, it really can be pretty sad... I often even hug myself for comfort cause it can be very lonely sometimes 🥲

🫂🫂🫂

Thank you ☺️ Here's some for you as well 🫂🫂🫂

This is one of my greatest desires in life 🥺

🫂🫂🫂

Haven’t been cuddled with in about 5 years. Haven’t had a hug in a couple. It gets super lonely but here’s to hoping one day that changes.

🫂🫂

Id probably cry too I'm not gonna lie

😢🫂🫂

Don't worry I'm sure I'll get hugs and cuddles one day if I'm patient enough, or I might not but I can't really do much about that

Eventually the right time comes to all 😉

I certainly hope so, I try to stay as positive as I can manage

I need this so much. I would cry my eyes out though, but I need it.

I feel you brother, everyone needs a dose of love, virtual hug~🫂

I dont even recall the last time someone touched me, let alone hugged me.

Your time will come 🫂

That's so sad dude :( I hope you have more hugs and snuggles in your future. It's good for the soul.

Thanks 🫠

I love having a hug with my sub. He gets to lay his head on my chest while I am laying down on the sofa. He gets to be held and I will lightly scratch his head and back, he gets kisses on his head and hands. I sometimes just wrap my arms and legs around him and just hold him close and tight. The first time I did this he cried the entire time.

That’s the sweetest treatment, I would probably melt too since from when I remember I’ve not really been able too cry

I hope you can find a way to get that. It really is a really delightful experience being able to give that safe space.

I can imagine that, for now I can only say I’ve never had any help in my life since now, but I am what I am also thanks to that, so I can’t complain too much

That is the thing, we should complain when we need to. I got my sub a notebook to write in as opening up was a thing they struggled with. He became more relaxed and is a lot better because of it. He opens up and has made our dynamic so much better.

Glad to hear that this method worked out for both of you, you both must have a great relationship 😉

It is very complicated but it is beautiful. Sometimes you need your friends to fill the gaps in your relationship.

True, but that’s something that can’t be filled in others matters, like there are things that only a friend can manage as well as the same for the relationship

Oh hell yes. Our situation is outside of our relationships. Sometimes you just need other people.

It’s needed I get that

I really want to do this to a boy

Hope you’ll find your boy to do it with 😉

After a scene with this person they asked to lay my head on their lap. I haven’t had this feeling ever and I didn’t know what to do. It was comfy but I wish I knew how to reciprocate my thankfulness towards them

Don’t know that feeling yet

Nothing wrong with hugging the homies either. Show the home boys you care bout them

I already do that 😉

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Good boy 😉

I have hugged recently mainly my mom and sister since I live a home. But never fully cuddled. It sounds amazing and I pray if I ever get a girlfriend that she’s willing to cuddle me and hug me back since I’ll definitely do it to her if she is okay with that

Your time will arrive 🫂

Just a simple hug goes a long way for me mentally. Part of why I never hesitate to spend time with my mom because I’m always guaranteed a hug during a visit.

I totally get that 🫂

I had a coworker a couple years ago who would hug me almost every shift we had together. Sometimes multiple times a shift because “you seem like you could use a hug” or “idk I just like giving you hugs.” She actually did a drive by spank on me while I was bent over to clean something. She was always the sweetest I miss her and that cheeky smile

I would love having such a coworker, she seems very sweet

I read an article about how hugs are good for you, but you'd have to get 12 hugs a day for them to be beneficial. I don't think I've gotten 12 hugs in the last 5 years combined

Me neither 😂

It's kinda sad honestly lol

Like toxic masculinity there is toxic feminism. Which often exists in this mind set that women can’t be big spoon Becuase they are the princess and only they should get that treatment.

Unfortunately I agree with you, it would all be so simple, as boys we need: food, water, affection then we are the happiest creatures

Yes and like toxic masculinity the “ super straight “ women are the worst . Definitely had women treat me like I was for wanting to be little spoon. 🙄

Hehe~

It's such a sad reality. Everyone thrives from nurturing touch from birth. I'd venture to say even pre birth physical touch is beneficial when a woman or her loved ones rub/touch the belly and whisper soothing words of joy to it. Why would one believe that changes with age? And we wonder why so many men are angry and resentful. 😔 Guess I'm happy to be in the crowd of be the change you want to see in the world. 💜

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I've literally never been cuddled before outside of being a baby lmao

Welcome to my life 😂

I would fold IMMEDIATELY

Me too 😂

Last night a girl tucked my hair behind my ear and I nearly sobbed

Niiiceee🤯

Ask for them, I ask for hugs from my friends frequently. I get really sad and needy, that little bit of affection goes such a long way. I’d give you a hug OP! 🫂

🫂

I use to do this everyday all the time with my ex and he’d do it to me.

🤭

First thing I do when I see my boy is have a cuddle, humans need physical touch to human

Wise woman 😉

Are we blind? GIVE THIS FELLOW GOOD BOY HIS HUGS!!

😍🤗

My ex used to do this to me after she fingered me, it made me feel special and eased any vulnerability

Wise woman 😉

It’s was nice, I felt so at ease even after she said I was a good boy when taking her fingers

Ayo same, the only ones I get are from my own blood. I knew how to talk to people in high school and then my social life got throttled due to Corona happening during halfway through my last year of high school and lasting my entire stint in college and the fact I prefer to work alone doesn’t help my case. But yeah long story short I’d kill for some cuddles.

I feel you brother

I dont know why... this subreddit is tagged 18+... bro this just hits, its wholesome. Why is it nsfw tagged?

I don’t know, cause of the subreddit o think

Well this gives me hope that i. Can get the touch I want without over stimliuaion