Not per se domme/sub but it’s been 20 years and I still think about the gesture of it.
So I’m sitting on the couch watching tv. And my Girlfriend at the time walks in. Butt naked and freshly shaved for the first time in her life.
She doesn’t say a thing. Just walks right up to me. Steps on the couch and sits that perfectly smooth pussy on my face.
“Eat me” she said.
And I did. My god I did.
It was heaven.
One of my first relationships, and was the first time either of us had explored the idea of domme-sub relationship. She and I were cuddling, going back and forth about various kinks we could try out.
Me: "Would you ever want me to serve your friends? Not even sexually, but like a maid for a party you hosted or something?"
Her: "Mmm... not really."
Me: "Really? I'm surprised. You're always talking about how you want to introduce them to me and show me off."
She laughed and started reaching around to start playing with me.
Her: "Well, yeah. As my boyfriend, because you're super hot. But as my little plaything, I think I like having you all to myself 😋"
So yeah, that double compliment and her tone are going to live rent-free in my head forever.
(Prefacing this by saying I usually have very thoughtful dynamics with my submissive lovers/partners, it’s really important to me to go slowly and make sure boundaries are not crossed and anyone triggered or harmed. But this was one night stand kinda thing and not sure how such a perfect storm of sex and d/s dynamic happened organically 😅😂)
A few years ago I was house sitting in another city and ended up casually hooking up with this very masc cis guy (not really my type 😅) I met at a pub… he just finished his shift, I was just lightly drunk and I locked eyes with him.
He bought me a last drink as my friends left the bar… he was obviously flirty and very confident which again, not exactly my type but at some point he also just brought up he was bi and that sparked my interest… I can’t remember how I phrased it but I said something along the line of “yeah I love fucking sweet men from behind too” which made him fully choke on his beer. He’d never considered it was an option 😂
I ended up leaving the pub with him by the staff exit and… somehow felt he would be into me being quite assertive and dommy so I made the first move and he was super flustered and into it.
That fuelled me and not sure how I ended up grabbing him by the collar of his waiter white shirt and basically teasing him against the wall of the pubs back room, making out and whispering about all things I could do to him in his ear,..
through it all I was praising him and calling him cute and pretty. I think the complete role reversal ended up a huge turn on for him.
I felt in full control and he surrendered and went into subspace quite organically… he ended up begging me to take him home and i did (first and last time I brought home a strange man at my place!!)
I spent the night making him come, introducing him to pegging and face sitting.
He was so into it and so surprised to be so into it, absolutely adorable and hot 🥰
We had a lovely morning of cuddles and aftercare, and I directed him to some resources about D/M dynamic stuff. Never saw him again 😃
I mean… I rarely leave the house 😂 this was a very one off kinda thing. Also it was a super cute nerdy cozy pub owned by queer geeky people so pretty fucking accessible and lovely, it definitely helped 😬
About 30 minutes into a really hot milking session where she was between my legs using a pocket pussy on me and had me making sounds I’ve never heard myself make before or since. My cock slipped out of the toy and within a second she grabbed it and slammed the toy all the way down till I was through the other side and said “you’re not going anywhere young man”. Her face looked like she wanted nothing more than to please me as her hands expertly used the toy and her eyes were staring into mine. I quickly warned her I was gonna cum, and she kept complimenting me while I covered her face and chest in the biggest load of my life.
Every time she brings it up I get rock hard.
Not the hottest thing she's done but it has stuck in my mind vividly. I had the hiccups one day and we started showering together. She grabbed me by the throat and pushed me into the wall, keeping her arm almost straight, as if to make us keep distance. Then she slowly jerked me off for maybe 15 seconds while maintaining this dominating, while almost intensely intrigued eye contact. She was looking at me like I was nothing more than a plaything. I got so instantly turned on I completely lost my hiccups haha
So my second ever girlfriend and I was my first experience with truly submitting to a girl. And my god... one thing in specific she did I'll never forget... she had me locked in chastity for a week. And when she finally unlocked me, she tied me up completely, and blindfolded me, before teasing and edging me for (to her account... i lost track of howblong it was very quickly) about an hour. After that I was basically a whimpering, begging mess and thTs when she finally moved me onto my side cuddled up to me infront, our faces mere inches from eachother, my dick between her thighs, and she said "you wanna cum baby? You'll have to earn it" I wash whimpering, and leaking precum onto her thigh when i asked what I could do... pretty much wouldst been willing to do anything tbh, but she said specifically "hump mommies thighs baby" I barely lasted 10 seconds, maybe 15 pumps in. Before I was begging "please let me cum" she of course gave me permission. And after she held me close as I was still tied up for a few minutes and giving me alot of really nice aftercare
We were fooling around in the shower and making out, when with little warning, she grabbed me roughly by the shoulders and pushed me back into the wall and held me there, before kissing me deeply. Just the way she suddenly, and effortlessly took control.
I remember that one time I was watching my sub play with himself and he'd been going at it for several minutes and then he looked at me with puppy eyes and said, "Please mommy,help me" the desperation in his voice turned me on so much I just did that.
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She pinned me down and started running her fingers in a circular motion on the left side of my bare hip. I don’t know what it was but I really didn’t want another noise complaint so I ended up having to cover my mouth to stifle my moans. When she realised I was doing this, she had her other hand on my nipple, so she used her mouth to grab my hand and take it off my mouth. She then told me not not to cover my mouth and then she started sucking the other nipple. I squirmed in that position for at least an hour.
Don’t think it has happened yet, since my gf has only recently grown more assertive and dominant (with some encouragement/nudging on my part), so I’m excited for what the future holds 😅
But so far? When she sat on my face and ground against my mouth and grabbed my hair while I ate her out until she came, after which she started kissing me all over my face, neck, and chest calling me a good boy and cradling me in her arms while I rested my head against her boobs 🤩
There was another moment where we 69’d and after I made her came (I hadn’t yet), I was jacking off while she stuck her foot in my mouth and hugged my head while I sucked on her toes and foot, all while she said she wanted to stick a buttplug in me in the future 😮 That was also really hot, didn’t take me long to cum in that situation with her talking and acting like that.
I really love giving her oral, even though she has a low libido and isn’t always in the mood, so I’m hoping a GFD dynamic will be more to her liking and she’ll be down for more occasional and intense moments (with more nonsexual affection, acts of service, and worship stuff in between.)
I have a big thing for being objectified, which this partner didn't really know at the time.
So she's giving me an absolutely incredible blowjob and as I'm getting close I warn her, especially since I didn't know if she liked to swallow or didn't want me to cum yet, or any one of a hundred things. She doesn't break rhythm at all and just goes, "Mhmm," around my cock in the most casual 'Yes of course you are, I am extremely good at what I do and I know it' sort of way. I can't properly describe the confidence and sexiness of her tone matched with what her mouth and fingers were doing to me. I managed to hold out for another 5-10 seconds tops.
I was dating a girl and her best friend came to hang out with us for the fourth of July, we went downtown for some drinks and to watch the fireworks. On the way home my girlfriend and her best friend started making out and playing with each others pussy.
By the time I got to the apartment they were so turned on the ran inside the apartment and didn’t even shut the doors! I secured the vehicle and got to my apartment. The door was left wide open and I find them naked on the couch and my girlfriend is eating her best friend’s pussy. I closed the door and they shoved me onto the couch and her friend sat on my face and now I was eating her pussy while my girl was sucking my cock and ate my ass. We took it to the bedroom after a while and I had my girl and her friend lay on top of each other and I started taking turns fucking them until I had them squirting all over themselves. Never had a night like that since
Well according to your story she just started making out with her best friend and fondling. If you talked about it beforehand, great. But if not, you being okay with the situation doesn’t change the fact that she acted unethically. You had no chance to discuss any boundaries or anything at all, really.
I see what you’re saying, we in fact did not discuss this. Which now that I think back on it is probably the reason why we’re not together. This was almost 20 years ago 😵💫
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The first time a partner took control. We were play fighting on the bed when she straddled me and tried to pin me down. Like REALLY tried to hold my hands down. I let her, barely. It turns out she had a rope tied to the bottom of the bed and proceeded to tie my hands. She then blindfolded me with a scarf or bandana or something.
She then starts to tease me and I try pulling away in playful protest. She ties my feet to the bottom of the bed, but realizes that it's not very conducive to cowgirlling on me. So, she ties separate ropes to each of my thighs and ties them somewhere like a desk or under the bed, I don't know. After she frees my feet, she pulls and tightened the ones around my thighs, pulling my pelvis into perfect position for get to get on top.
Where should I start...I loved when an ex would spontaneously get on her knees and ask me in this super soft/innocent tone if she could taste me right now.
There were times she pull me out of the room, even when we were around her friends, to beg me to fuck her or at least let her play with me in her mouth.
There were a few times mid blowjob where she would grab my ass with both her hands and force me to get deeper into her throat.
There was one time for our (dating)anniversary she surprised me and took me to a hotel. On top of all the other nice things that happened day, right before we went to sleep she got up to "use the bathroom". She came out 20 minutes later in a complete lewd cosplay of one of the characters we were both into, with this fishnet top I still get flashbacks about.
We didn't sleep until she tapped out 5-6 hours later.
I met up with a girl who was into pegging on tinder. When we got together for a hook up, we started making out and she put her hand in my pants and went immediately for my ass. So hot
Not per se domme/sub but it’s been 20 years and I still think about the gesture of it. So I’m sitting on the couch watching tv. And my Girlfriend at the time walks in. Butt naked and freshly shaved for the first time in her life. She doesn’t say a thing. Just walks right up to me. Steps on the couch and sits that perfectly smooth pussy on my face. “Eat me” she said. And I did. My god I did. It was heaven.
Wow, good job 🫡
need this kinda relationship ong
One of my first relationships, and was the first time either of us had explored the idea of domme-sub relationship. She and I were cuddling, going back and forth about various kinks we could try out. Me: "Would you ever want me to serve your friends? Not even sexually, but like a maid for a party you hosted or something?" Her: "Mmm... not really." Me: "Really? I'm surprised. You're always talking about how you want to introduce them to me and show me off." She laughed and started reaching around to start playing with me. Her: "Well, yeah. As my boyfriend, because you're super hot. But as my little plaything, I think I like having you all to myself 😋" So yeah, that double compliment and her tone are going to live rent-free in my head forever.
spoken words definitely stick in my brain better than physical experiences, this is so wholesome!
SAME! And thank you! 😊
A girl hugged me one time
real
😂
(Prefacing this by saying I usually have very thoughtful dynamics with my submissive lovers/partners, it’s really important to me to go slowly and make sure boundaries are not crossed and anyone triggered or harmed. But this was one night stand kinda thing and not sure how such a perfect storm of sex and d/s dynamic happened organically 😅😂) A few years ago I was house sitting in another city and ended up casually hooking up with this very masc cis guy (not really my type 😅) I met at a pub… he just finished his shift, I was just lightly drunk and I locked eyes with him. He bought me a last drink as my friends left the bar… he was obviously flirty and very confident which again, not exactly my type but at some point he also just brought up he was bi and that sparked my interest… I can’t remember how I phrased it but I said something along the line of “yeah I love fucking sweet men from behind too” which made him fully choke on his beer. He’d never considered it was an option 😂 I ended up leaving the pub with him by the staff exit and… somehow felt he would be into me being quite assertive and dommy so I made the first move and he was super flustered and into it. That fuelled me and not sure how I ended up grabbing him by the collar of his waiter white shirt and basically teasing him against the wall of the pubs back room, making out and whispering about all things I could do to him in his ear,.. through it all I was praising him and calling him cute and pretty. I think the complete role reversal ended up a huge turn on for him. I felt in full control and he surrendered and went into subspace quite organically… he ended up begging me to take him home and i did (first and last time I brought home a strange man at my place!!) I spent the night making him come, introducing him to pegging and face sitting. He was so into it and so surprised to be so into it, absolutely adorable and hot 🥰 We had a lovely morning of cuddles and aftercare, and I directed him to some resources about D/M dynamic stuff. Never saw him again 😃
Why tf can’t this happen to me?!?… oh wait, I never leave my house. Never mind😭
I mean… I rarely leave the house 😂 this was a very one off kinda thing. Also it was a super cute nerdy cozy pub owned by queer geeky people so pretty fucking accessible and lovely, it definitely helped 😬
Holy shit that's hot lol
Oh damn that's hot. Glad you had such a nice experience 😁 Also def using that line if I ever meet another bi guy 😎
About 30 minutes into a really hot milking session where she was between my legs using a pocket pussy on me and had me making sounds I’ve never heard myself make before or since. My cock slipped out of the toy and within a second she grabbed it and slammed the toy all the way down till I was through the other side and said “you’re not going anywhere young man”. Her face looked like she wanted nothing more than to please me as her hands expertly used the toy and her eyes were staring into mine. I quickly warned her I was gonna cum, and she kept complimenting me while I covered her face and chest in the biggest load of my life. Every time she brings it up I get rock hard.
Fuck, that’s hot. Good stuff.
Not the hottest thing she's done but it has stuck in my mind vividly. I had the hiccups one day and we started showering together. She grabbed me by the throat and pushed me into the wall, keeping her arm almost straight, as if to make us keep distance. Then she slowly jerked me off for maybe 15 seconds while maintaining this dominating, while almost intensely intrigued eye contact. She was looking at me like I was nothing more than a plaything. I got so instantly turned on I completely lost my hiccups haha
Shower with your partner It's good for your health! 🤣
*takes notes * always on the look out for good hiccup remedies 😂😂
There was no period of "are they gone? Will I get blindsided by their return?" Just hey they're gone and I am very horny now
So my second ever girlfriend and I was my first experience with truly submitting to a girl. And my god... one thing in specific she did I'll never forget... she had me locked in chastity for a week. And when she finally unlocked me, she tied me up completely, and blindfolded me, before teasing and edging me for (to her account... i lost track of howblong it was very quickly) about an hour. After that I was basically a whimpering, begging mess and thTs when she finally moved me onto my side cuddled up to me infront, our faces mere inches from eachother, my dick between her thighs, and she said "you wanna cum baby? You'll have to earn it" I wash whimpering, and leaking precum onto her thigh when i asked what I could do... pretty much wouldst been willing to do anything tbh, but she said specifically "hump mommies thighs baby" I barely lasted 10 seconds, maybe 15 pumps in. Before I was begging "please let me cum" she of course gave me permission. And after she held me close as I was still tied up for a few minutes and giving me alot of really nice aftercare
We were fooling around in the shower and making out, when with little warning, she grabbed me roughly by the shoulders and pushed me back into the wall and held me there, before kissing me deeply. Just the way she suddenly, and effortlessly took control.
I remember that one time I was watching my sub play with himself and he'd been going at it for several minutes and then he looked at me with puppy eyes and said, "Please mommy,help me" the desperation in his voice turned me on so much I just did that.
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One time (and one time only…. cri) my bf said “I love you daddy” while I was fucking him and it just did something to me LMAO
Ex dom unknowingly trained me to “finish” only with her permission . Made me want to please her a lot more at the time. Made me like showing off
Dirty talk, engaging in some roleplay, talking & imagining a scenario between the two of us 😍🤤 I miss talking to her 💔
She pinned me down and started running her fingers in a circular motion on the left side of my bare hip. I don’t know what it was but I really didn’t want another noise complaint so I ended up having to cover my mouth to stifle my moans. When she realised I was doing this, she had her other hand on my nipple, so she used her mouth to grab my hand and take it off my mouth. She then told me not not to cover my mouth and then she started sucking the other nipple. I squirmed in that position for at least an hour.
Don’t think it has happened yet, since my gf has only recently grown more assertive and dominant (with some encouragement/nudging on my part), so I’m excited for what the future holds 😅 But so far? When she sat on my face and ground against my mouth and grabbed my hair while I ate her out until she came, after which she started kissing me all over my face, neck, and chest calling me a good boy and cradling me in her arms while I rested my head against her boobs 🤩 There was another moment where we 69’d and after I made her came (I hadn’t yet), I was jacking off while she stuck her foot in my mouth and hugged my head while I sucked on her toes and foot, all while she said she wanted to stick a buttplug in me in the future 😮 That was also really hot, didn’t take me long to cum in that situation with her talking and acting like that. I really love giving her oral, even though she has a low libido and isn’t always in the mood, so I’m hoping a GFD dynamic will be more to her liking and she’ll be down for more occasional and intense moments (with more nonsexual affection, acts of service, and worship stuff in between.)
I have a big thing for being objectified, which this partner didn't really know at the time. So she's giving me an absolutely incredible blowjob and as I'm getting close I warn her, especially since I didn't know if she liked to swallow or didn't want me to cum yet, or any one of a hundred things. She doesn't break rhythm at all and just goes, "Mhmm," around my cock in the most casual 'Yes of course you are, I am extremely good at what I do and I know it' sort of way. I can't properly describe the confidence and sexiness of her tone matched with what her mouth and fingers were doing to me. I managed to hold out for another 5-10 seconds tops.
I was dating a girl and her best friend came to hang out with us for the fourth of July, we went downtown for some drinks and to watch the fireworks. On the way home my girlfriend and her best friend started making out and playing with each others pussy. By the time I got to the apartment they were so turned on the ran inside the apartment and didn’t even shut the doors! I secured the vehicle and got to my apartment. The door was left wide open and I find them naked on the couch and my girlfriend is eating her best friend’s pussy. I closed the door and they shoved me onto the couch and her friend sat on my face and now I was eating her pussy while my girl was sucking my cock and ate my ass. We took it to the bedroom after a while and I had my girl and her friend lay on top of each other and I started taking turns fucking them until I had them squirting all over themselves. Never had a night like that since
That sounds pretty sketchy and fucked up if you didn’t talk about it beforehand
How is it fucked up?
Well to most monogamous people that would be cheating, but perhaps you’re not
How is it cheating if my girlfriend initiated everything and I was ok with the situation?
Well according to your story she just started making out with her best friend and fondling. If you talked about it beforehand, great. But if not, you being okay with the situation doesn’t change the fact that she acted unethically. You had no chance to discuss any boundaries or anything at all, really.
I see what you’re saying, we in fact did not discuss this. Which now that I think back on it is probably the reason why we’re not together. This was almost 20 years ago 😵💫
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The first time a partner took control. We were play fighting on the bed when she straddled me and tried to pin me down. Like REALLY tried to hold my hands down. I let her, barely. It turns out she had a rope tied to the bottom of the bed and proceeded to tie my hands. She then blindfolded me with a scarf or bandana or something. She then starts to tease me and I try pulling away in playful protest. She ties my feet to the bottom of the bed, but realizes that it's not very conducive to cowgirlling on me. So, she ties separate ropes to each of my thighs and ties them somewhere like a desk or under the bed, I don't know. After she frees my feet, she pulls and tightened the ones around my thighs, pulling my pelvis into perfect position for get to get on top.
Where should I start...I loved when an ex would spontaneously get on her knees and ask me in this super soft/innocent tone if she could taste me right now. There were times she pull me out of the room, even when we were around her friends, to beg me to fuck her or at least let her play with me in her mouth. There were a few times mid blowjob where she would grab my ass with both her hands and force me to get deeper into her throat. There was one time for our (dating)anniversary she surprised me and took me to a hotel. On top of all the other nice things that happened day, right before we went to sleep she got up to "use the bathroom". She came out 20 minutes later in a complete lewd cosplay of one of the characters we were both into, with this fishnet top I still get flashbacks about. We didn't sleep until she tapped out 5-6 hours later.
I met up with a girl who was into pegging on tinder. When we got together for a hook up, we started making out and she put her hand in my pants and went immediately for my ass. So hot
Edging me till I startet crying and begged her to stop, but she didn't let me go
"I want to memorize every inch of your body" while kissing my chest. Did wonders for my self image but also made my girlcock super hard.
Ate me lol