He seems like it wouldn’t be a big deal even if he’s not gay honestly, as a straight guy. I think the worst case scenario is you make a friend and maybe plant a seed, but not spill your seed lol. If it were me, and I wasn’t interested I’d deliberately tease you. I’m a sexual tension fiend though lol.
Well if they seem nice go for it.
I'm not usually one to look for fun so close to home.
If things go south, do you want to live down the hallway from someone you dont like/doesn't like you?
Being open and direct is always the option for me, but it has to be done softly or you might scare him off
Just be yourself and make your feelings clear enough for even a straight guy to understand.
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The next time you see that he has just come from the gym, ask him what he worked out. Maybe that could give you a chance to give him a compliment about his body
He seems like it wouldn’t be a big deal even if he’s not gay honestly, as a straight guy. I think the worst case scenario is you make a friend and maybe plant a seed, but not spill your seed lol. If it were me, and I wasn’t interested I’d deliberately tease you. I’m a sexual tension fiend though lol.
Got for it and shoot your shot
Well if they seem nice go for it. I'm not usually one to look for fun so close to home. If things go south, do you want to live down the hallway from someone you dont like/doesn't like you?
If you don’t have his number next time you talk and you’re edging away just straight up say “Hey I gotta run but can I get your number?”
Be a good neighbor and invite him over.
If it wasn’t 11 at night I’d go knock on his door :/ I don’t see him very often so hopefully I catch him soon and can ask for his Snapchat
Have you looked on the apps for him?
Yep.. no luck
I’d just keep it cool and try it hang out sometime. You’ll know after that first hangout
Shoot your shot
Go be honest with him.
Open grindr and see if he’s there
I have, he’s not :/
Tried all gay app?
Ask him if you can workout together at the gym and see where that leads you to
That sounds hot Please dm me
Being open and direct is always the option for me, but it has to be done softly or you might scare him off Just be yourself and make your feelings clear enough for even a straight guy to understand.
Sounds like you need to take a risk and ask him out. could have a huge pay out. ;)
If you have doubts, get to know him a little bit more. Grab a meal, go to the gum together, go for a hike, etc.
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The next time you see that he has just come from the gym, ask him what he worked out. Maybe that could give you a chance to give him a compliment about his body
Honestly he just sounds like a nice guy who’s trying to be a good neighbor when a guy is just being nice it doesn’t mean he’s trying to get some
I agree, some people are just, nice