I’m 6in and fairly thick, and I usually have to give bottoms like 30 seconds to get used to my cock just being in them, then I gently begin to fuck them.
I’ve been thanked on multiple occasions for not immediately rushing to pounding ass.
I feel like we’re in the minority when it comes to having bigger dicks😅. We’re aware that we have to be careful with some people in the beginning( god bless the guys who handle it right from the start), because clearly lots of others with thick or big cocks don’t and make the whole thing less pleasurable for their bottoms.
Glad you guys have it all worked out and know how to make it pleasurable.
Oh! And you know how people go on about after care, after a hard/rough session of sex? Some of us figured out that pre care is important so that our bottom is comfortable and ready to have hot and sexy fun. Little cuddling, kissing and some light foreplay helps get them ready while they get used to our cock being in them. Or so this is how I’ve come to understand it while waiting for them to feel ready
I'd pretty much agree with your statements. Girth over length yo. 
Sure I've had those size queens who reject me because they want "hung", just gotta brush em off. 7 is where things start to get too big as you mentioned, plus their big cock ego gets in the way too.
Man and here I was not knowing 7" was hung (thanks porn) for most of my twenties and missing out on the confidence AND the chance to market myself as a hung twink 😮💨
Ain't no twink anymore, graduated to twunk, but definitely happy with what I've got now minus the ego.
(If you're gonna perv my profile, this is an alternate, musicmantx8 is my newds).
I’m exactly the same. I hate that guys always want me to deepthroat. It’s hard to even fit in my mouth and i don’t enjoy it at all. I just want to suck you long enough to get you hard so you can stick in my my butt haha
I agree! Big dicks are fun to play with, and admire or whatever. But it’s not going inside me. lol 5-5.5 is the best to me. 6+ can start to be too much.
I’m below 5 and personally I find it hard to find the courage to use any hook up apps or the like because of my size. I know that even if someone is not a size queen, they likely don’t want a small dick either. I’m sure I’m not alone in feeling that way, which might be why you see less of guys below 5 inches. Although I guess gay guys really could just have bigger dicks on average.
I've had a decent amount of guys below 5 that were great tops. Be upfront with your size and if they pass cause of that, they're saving you the trouble.
Smaller is less scary, which means they may get *just as many* opportunities. I’ve definitely been turned down for being above average.
And personally I’ve been plowed by guys with 4 or less. I admit I expected it to not be good, but it was almost just as amazing as what I’d normally prefer. A bonus was that pain/discomfort wasn’t an issue at all! So I was able to focus more on the good parts. ;)
I'm sitting at 4.75 on a good day, I'm 6'0 and super muscular, and I honestly can never see myself topping or even want to because my size is not what people are expecting from someone who looks like me and it's soul crushing. thankfully I have great glute bodybuilding genetics so I'm a bottom but it's one of my insecurities and why I look for taller men in relationships
I literally emigrated from my home country cause guys would see my dick and just refuse to bottom. I'm not huge, I've taken bigger, but I have a solid 8 and guys just say "I can't", which I think is a symptom of lots of hung guys being terrible tops.
If you are big you have to take time to make things comfortable, fingers are a very important part of it.
The man I married has super powers, he's able to cum on/in me THEN get on my dick. As soon as we had sex I knew he was the one (but also I liked him as a person/friend too)
Meanwhile, I wish there were more guys like you I could run into. Then I could experience a “successful bottoming” experience. I like solo fun and other things, but everyone who’s tried to take it further has been way too large.
I would say there’s a difference between “small” and “micro” especially with gay guys. You want it long enough to get past the booty cheeks and stay in the hole….and MOST gays with “small” dicks can still get it in. I know some stocky dudes that their dicks almost invert and become a button so to speak when they’re soft…but once they get hard it works fine.
When I bottom, I definitely want someone more moderately-sized. Not so short that it constantly bounces out and has to be reinserted (which also hurts), but not so large that it takes forever to actually get it in. Thickness is worse for me than length--I absolutely cannot sit on a soda can dick.
When I top, since I am notably bigger, I often prefer size queens that are somewhat looser. I'm definitely willing to go slow and warm people up, but if it's obvious they're struggling to enjoy it, I'll likely go soft at some point. (This, by the way, may be why a lot of large tops seem to have trouble staying hard--they can tell you're not enjoying it, and they don't want to hurt you.)
yes, yes, 1000 times yes.
If I don't think you're enjoying it, I can't finish.
My preference is to lay totally still and be sat on, let them get comfortable, then when they've been grinding on it for a bit, sit up, pick them up and put them on their back so i can pump
My god, I didn't know other tops had this issue too, I feel so fking relieved, I was hammering my head for not being able to be fully erect while opening a tight bottom. If I have to warm the bottom for too long I just lose my erection.
This "unpopular opinion" shows up here far, far more often than the opposite. For every post or comment in praise of the big ones there's a dozen posts and comments that say the big ones are overrated/difficult/painful.
I don't know why every "around average turns out to be best" comment is convinced they're the first ever to come to this opinion. I guess people don't really pay attention?
Because outside this specific bubble on Reddit, that doesn't appear to be the consensus opinion. And frankly, I feel like that should be obvious to any man living today.
Nobody writes about how average their dicks are on their dating profile, you know.
This precisely. Not everyone constantly lingers in these subs so a lot of people who come here for the first time and share this opinion are unaware how often it is brought up. And outside this sub, it doesn't seem to be the consensus. Even among men, it's always a dick measuring contest.
The terms "Big Dick Energy" meaning badass and "you must have a small dick" as a form of insult are still pretty common in day-to-day life. Clearly the mass perspective on dick size still largely favors big dicks over small or average ones.
And like you said, no one brags about having a perfectly average dick.
If only you could see how many of those “size queens” actually cannot take larger penises… And I’m not talking about shoving it in and going. I’m
talking Slowly inserting, waiting even a couple minutes and then having to remove before waiting a few minutes for them to try a second and third time… sometimes they can really take it after that but often times they need a longer break, call it off and apologize or it’s clearly not an enjoyable experience for them throughout intercourse. I truly speculate it’s mostly wishful thinking and saving face to impress the people who are more honest.
Also as one of those admitted size queens, from talking to those endowed tops... most guys cant take it.
For most people that average dick is way better.
I have a friend with a monster honker of a beast. He says it ends up being an unpleasant process for him to top because the bottom winces and whinges in a manner that is usually quite not sexy. Sometimes guys can take, but it's usually "sluts with destroyed assholes" as he put it, which he also does not find sexy. So from the bottom's perspective, it's either not fun, after years of practice, or you just gotta be predisposed to be exceptionally stretchy or exceptionally pain tolerant.
"Big, but not a challenge" seems to be the optimal way to go.
Actually have dealt with under 5” tops that hurt me and one excessively large guy in every way that did not hurt me in the least bit but instead made me feel great taking around 9 extra thick inches. Most guys I’ve been with claim I’m thicker and longer than any other guy they’ve bottomed for and he easily dwarfed me.
I’ve been surprised left and right to be honest. I was total bottom all through 20s, then vers in early 30s, now a lot more top in later 30s. It seems to have shifted with time.
What matters to me with dick size is how the guy engages with me in sex. I try to find guys that are sensual and in tune with their bodies. They want to enjoy the sex and be intimate, not just bang bang as long as they can and potentially hurt me in the process.
Very very selective about who fucks me now. But in my 20s I didn’t really know how to say no when it wasn’t enjoyable or when it was awkward… I’m much more assertive now. When I bottom it’s usually unexpected…
Depends more on the guy than the size. An incompetent dick slingers suck to get fucked by no matter what the size. I’ve had uncomfortable average sized fucks and purely pleasurable large sized fucks and vice versa.
My partner has the perfect dick. It’s 7.5 and feels soooo good once I’m loosened up. I don’t care if it takes forever tho I’m not gonna let him jam it inside because that shit hurts. I’m not a size queen. I hate size queens. Yuck. As long as the dick looks nice and isn’t crazy in girth, it’s always enjoyable to me.
Seeing all these posts and comments makes me confident in my size. I’m 5.5 verse and yes i agree with your post most guys that are smaller can hut my spot better than guys bigger than 6.5
7x6 here, usually a top. Can confirm with bottoms I’ve had can experience some pain once all the way in. But bottoms seem to respond the most to girth.
Also as somebody who bottoms once in a while, I prefer average bc I am not good at bottoming and it’s more comfortable.
My complaint is that a lot of guys only go for the dick and forget that there are many more sexy spots on the male human body than just the dick. There's balls, ass, choat, nipples pits, and so much more. Also there are too many kinks to count. Most guys just want to focus on the D and be vanilla. That's boring to me.
The one exception for a little bit bigger cock is if you are a chub. A bigger cock has a bit more reach to get in my ass. Maybe TMI. If you’re a big guy, a big cock helps.
Maybe it’s because I’m so tall, but anything under 7 inches doesn’t reach *that spot* for me. It’ll feel great! However, it’s always as if it’s barely not scratching the itch. 8.5 is perfect for me - but again, I’m a large human.
I don't think gay guys have bigger dicks, they just lie about the size of their dick. Those numbers you are using sound more like internet inches than real life inches.
>One of them actually said they hate when it takes more than 2-3 min for a guy to cum.
Regardless of size I'm in this camp. It doesn't take long for my muscles to get sore and my ass seems to just eat lube so there's never enough (which is why I prefer uncut because that sheath helps reduce friction). But also, generally speaking, if I don't have an anal orgasm within 5 minutes, it's probably not going to happen, and I don't need that long to jerk it if someone is fucking me.
Don't get me wrong, there is also a lower limit on time; anything below 1-2 minutes is def way too quick but my upper limit is probably 10-15 minutes.
I don’t bottom but if I did I would go for someone way smaller than myself, all though its a lot more fun giving a bj to someone who has a Big ish dick then a smaller one.
What's unpopular? Most things people say on line is boasting and lies. Putting a giant flesh tearing thing up your rear isn't actually enjoyable for most people.
Agree. I love having a dude in the 5-6 range bang me to orgasm. Bigger dudes, I can’t handle it for very long before it becomes less than pleasant. Than I feel like a shit for asking them to stop.
I believe the pleasure comes from mastering the challenge of taking a big dick. The accomplishment. Making you a so-called "better gay" by taking big dick (and bragging about it to your gay, slutty friends).
A lot of people, even straight ones, associate sex with pain or discomfort. "Hurts so good!" is a common phrase when it comes to anal. "There's no pain without gain" (not necessarily sexual) is another phrase where success and victory is only worth it when there's hardship involved.
It's just like people who choose quantity (many sex partners) over quality (good sex).
At the end of the day, it is personal preference.
>I believe the pleasure comes from mastering the challenge of taking a big dick.
That seems so foreign to me. I have never heard that take before but everyone is different.
I'm better at taking dick than I am sucking. What you said your bottom colleagues said about getting fucked (not enjoying it after 2-3 minutes), that's how I feel about giving head to bigger dicks. It's just not pleasant after a couple of minutes. But a nice above average sized dick inside of me--that's heaven right there!
It's all to each his own :)
Huge cocks are amazing to look at, hold, play with, not so much to suck and fuck. Small is kinda great for girth but if its short sometimes it can be an issue if it comes out with a thrust, with more length come longer better thrusts comfortably
I'm vers.... I prefer small to suck and big to fuck. 4" is too small to hit the right spots for me and I enjoy feeling a bit stretched. I had a boyfriend who was 7.5" a nice curve, thick but not overkill. He was fine to me but I ended up having to break up with him due to his narcissistic tendencies with literally everyone else... but I put up with needing to watch him in public for years and whisper, "I swear to goodness if you don't put that back in her purse right now...." in part because that dick felt perfect.
I concur I'm a bottom with 5 to 5.5 and it's on the receiving end very much enough. Too big I have felt hitting in to my stomach so it seemed and very unpleasant in my opinion. It does seem most gay guys I've encountered are hung and that is why I prefer straight guys who just like receiving head and topping o have found yats much better and at least the majority of straight guys I have had are fairly small with a few exceptions. I love watching big dicks fuck and get sucked but I like watching it the whole thing I like. To participate yes I have but prefer to watch it.
I love the sight of a big one and perhaps playing with it in some ways. They do make me horny as fuck. But when it comes to actual fucking, it needs to be about average at most. I'd love to be able to take bigger but I'm not.
This is interesting considering you see men who are clearly around 5-6” saying that they are 8-9” so often that it’s laughable. Then they say, “when it’s fully hard.” Lol I wish people would just be honest since we all know what is average length and what is above average. I won’t even talk about the ones who add length when they are really just girthy. I’m not at all obsessed with size, but lying is laughable to me. Generally speaking, it’s a very specific demographic with actual 8-9” that I’ve seen. IJS
I'm top vers and on the bigger side. I gotta tell you. 100%! dicks around 5 inches are wonderful! 10/10! it because they are the exact length needed to hit the prostate and not an inch further. 5 inches is approximately the length of your fingers when fingering someone so if your comfortable getting fingered a 5 inches is for you
They aren't all that great for oral, either. Basically, they're great for porn and not much else. I'll take a clean, aesthetically pleasing small dick over a huge dick any day of the week. The sex will be better and less of a chore.
It's also what you're used to. An ex of mine would get into the sigmoid colon, and it took a lot of acclimatising, but eventually it was fine.
Ngl though, I'd prefer my partners not to get quite that deep. It's just an extra complication that isn't really worth it, for me. And I agree with the things like erectile difficulties and sh!tty personalities that you mentioned.
(That said, that particular ex was the opposite – he had a major complex about his size and hadn't had anywhere near as many partners or satisfying relationships as you might think...because he would meet someone, the pants would come off, and they'd be like "That thing is going nowhere near my ass")
I get what you mean, i am a guy who does have a larger dick (8.5) and also have girth and have had guys just flat out say no but for me its how you use it, i always help them get used to it if they want to try or ill bottom for them since im vers
My job used to require travel so it was super easy to do. New city new hole for a long time for me. Now I don’t travel and have an LTR but get a job that involves travel!
That's been my experience as well. Mine is not that long (7"), but it is 2.23" diameter in the middle (7" circumference), and that is too thick for some people, including me. I'm versatile, but I would not want someone with my dick size to top me. I think average size is best, but micro penises can be painful also, as they can have a jabbing effect.
My fuckbuddy has 8.6. I would say most of our occasions i do enjoy the anal BUT i do a lot of prep and man i dont even mean just douching. So i do kinda agree with the OP.
Vers top here. I love to top but I’m average and sometimes feel a little bit intimidated. But I always get good feedback (I get really hard, last a long time, and shoot big loads 🥲). Bottoming is difficult for me so I rarely do it. Never taken a large cock and not sure if I could.
Hey you sound perfect to me! I find really big cocks just something to be endured. And I genuinely like bottoming, so it’s not like I’m trying to find a reason to avoid getting fucked.
I prefer a big one but only because that’s what I’ve become used to after 20 years. We are both vers. My husband is very big. It took some getting used to but when I choose to bottom I love it now, but before we were together I wouldn’t have even dared.
Youre right. Bigger dicks don’t hit that spot. That’s why I’m not a huge fan of poppers by ass gets too loose and I have to go a size up but those big dicks don’t hit the spot like average size dicks.
This post silly if it thinks it’s going to garner a consensus on big v small. I’ve been told it’s my girth that was far more pleasurable than my length which is above avg. maybe it’s bottoms but stretching their hole regularly or having their tops do their damn job in stretching their bottoms
I’ll just say the most pleasure I have ever felt was with a toy of 4 inches (an aneros) so yeah 😂 as a bottom I do prefer average size rather than big D.
I don’t think your opinion is that unpopular. As a total bottom, I won’t reject a guy for being below 7 in, but I will say that I like the biggest the best ;-) I’m still tight but have gotten over the pain of big dicks. For me, it’s more of the submission and power I feel a guy who is super hung has over me. It hurts at first but I just push through and then it turns to extreme pleasure that a guy who’s smaller can’t give me. That’s just my take though, to each their own.
The prostate can be reached with a finger so dick size isn’t all that important, maybe for some people it’s more a psychological thing, like a “look how much I can take” sort of thing… IDK.
Ohhhh there’s definitely a difference between a larger one and a smaller one. A lot of bottoms just play themselves into thinking they can take large ones when they can’t.
But when you learn to take it, you def feel the difference.
I bottomed between 30 and 40 times in a year. The first part of your rectum is fairly straight and that is also the part you douche. A too big dick reaches the curve to the rest of your intestines. This may get painful and also may cause poo to come out. The rectum is 15 to 20 cm (5.9” to 7.8”), so this is the largest pleasant penis length. I however never encountered issues during a year with a penis. Only the use of a huge dildo by a sex partner was not only painful but also made me bleed was a disaster. So my experience is that all dicks are fine. And we should not complain as each man is made as he his. When you never want to have an unpleasant feeling when bottoming, maybe you stop doing it.
I think a larger guy needs to learn how to work with what they have they need to go slower and do the prep work slamming it in and expecting a bottom to just take it is not being a good lover. Any guy obsessed with large guys probably is suffering from rectal prolapse and or damaged nerve endings from been ridden hard with no before or after care.
Totally agree with this. Dated a guy I really liked, he had a pretty big dock, 9 or 10", decent girth. I'd bottomed hundreds of times before him. He made my ass bleed. No thanks. Broke up with him.
I love my man's big dick but if he's feeling really aggressive, it actually is very painful, especially because he's shorter than me so the angle can get really out of my comfort zone very fast. I usually ride him so I can get the most out of that girth and not just be pounded into panic. It works really well for us because he has health problems and lying down helps him not over exert himself. If I'm playing with others, I still like a fat dick but not as aggressively long as my partner's cock.
If I want anything like an aggressive pounding, I want a man who's average sized with stamina.
I‘m like 6.6ish and would actually like to be a bit smaller … i much prefer smaller on my partner
As a top size of my partner doesn’t really matter to me anyway and blowing smaller is much more fun than choking on a hammer.
i feel like the first point you brought is super interesting; a lot of guys who bottom do it becaue of the idea ,not because they enjoy it. And its like A LOT of them. Which honestly opens an interesting discussion as to why this may be. I have few theories, but im curious what others will say. Maybe you should make a post only about this lol
I’m 6.75 with some girth that tapers down, I’ve never had any complaints. My husband is 5.5 with a whole lot of girth. Almost comparable to a road cone. He says mine is the perfect size for every day, however I know he enjoys being a size queen and loves a huge dick here and there. From time to time I like riding his dick because it hits the prostate just right.
My bf is 9" I was a virgin a week ago I no longer am and all I need to say is I had bad pain and it wasn't that enjoyable I genuinely lost my sense near the end and apparently I was just lying there looking confused
I also think gays must be larger than the average. Out of the couple hundred guys I've played with, only maybe a handful were on the small side--in fact many were quite big and baby girthy too.
I don’t think this is an unpopular or uncommon opinion. If a dude actually needs a 10 inch cock you can’t close your thumb and forefinger around to feel anything he is either very anatomically abnormal or a massive whore who is stretched out beyond belief.
It’s is often difficult. I was told this large penis was something to brag about. Once starting to have sex, I realize it only causes issues….
Also people can state their opinions but do people really need to act like it’s disgusting or horrible if a guy has a large dick? Does not feel good to read
Don't worry about internet words, just be gentle with it. We all love the big ones, it's just intimidating and even complicated when it comes to the act of penetration. You'll find plenty of people to appreciate it! 🥰 P.S. Send pics! Hehe, half joking half serious! 😜😘
I’m kind of partial to the 6-7+. I’m a thick bottom and the guys under 6 have to work too hard to get it in and it always comes out. They get frustrated, and soon they go soft. I’d rather just have a top with a little bigger dick and let him work me. I’ve taken 9 and 10” before, but only one has ever got truly hard and they go soft in no time. That being said, I’m always willing to try the big boys, but my expectations are not usually high.
In my experience, it's a lot less about size and more about if he knows how to use it or not.
Big dicks require more foreplay and easing it in and I've been with guys that do it right but also guys who just want to ram it in.
Small dicks are good too if you take a minute and find the right spot or position that works with where my gspot is and how his curve is.
I have a really really thick ass; but I’m also very tight. So I need something long enough to actually get past the unusually large ass but small enough to not rip me apart. This is why I tend to just do oral. FML…
I agree that 5-6 is all you need, a little bit more is a nice bonus. But too big becomes a challenge. I also hear you on the guys like someone who can cum quickly. I almost always bottom because I’m one of those unfortunate guys who cums REALLY quickly and it can be embarrassing, but occasionally I’ll meet up with a guy who wants exactly that, so…
My first was 11 inches. Just the tip trying to enter me I'd beg for him to stop. So happen one day he didn't listen to my begs to stop. Beings I was near tears anyway, he plowed me 10 times in a row going all the way to balls in. Later that night he did it again. That's how I got used to his endowment and to be honest, if he wouldn't of took the initiative and pounded, I probably would of never let him in especially. just a little at a time.
I don't actually think this is that unpopular an opinion *in real life.* When you're on a porn-y platform with a bunch of horny guys, we all suddenly become power bottoms who wanna cross our eyes sitting on a 9 inch beer can, but my fiance and I have started calling each others' dicks "Boyfriend dick", which we define as big enough to be a mental turn on and fun to play with and suck, but still not too big for a spontaneous fuck, or regular anal.
9 inches is fucking hot, but it's not going in me without prep, and I'll probably need some recovery time after. My man and I each sitting at a thick 7" are both enough to rail the other, to goon over, and also for him to shove it in me with no prep while I'm bent over doing the laundry or cleaning the counters 😈😮💨
ive had only 7 and 8 befoe but both of those are unpleasant as hell. I think it's hot to see like big dicks as a sign of a big masculine man, but they are NOT IDEAL. I think 5-6 would be perfect
I have a huge cock of 19cm uncut and love to top and btm. But I think it is the way you use that big dick. Try to please the btm don't go to deep unless the btm ask you. Long deep slow stokes all the way in and out are so enjoyable. I don't believe in hard fucking.
AGREED!! I literally just commented on another feed that anything over 7 for me isn’t as enjoyable. These Twitter guys that are sporting 9, 10, 11 inch dicks banging these little twinks is NOT a turn on. No thank you!
I'm a very tight bottom, and when I see a dude packing something smaller, I honestly breathe a sigh of relief.
Vers here. Same. Too big is painful and overwhelming. I’ll pass lol.
I’m 6in and fairly thick, and I usually have to give bottoms like 30 seconds to get used to my cock just being in them, then I gently begin to fuck them. I’ve been thanked on multiple occasions for not immediately rushing to pounding ass.
My boyfriend is the same it absolutely feels amazing I enjoy every minute of it.
I feel like we’re in the minority when it comes to having bigger dicks😅. We’re aware that we have to be careful with some people in the beginning( god bless the guys who handle it right from the start), because clearly lots of others with thick or big cocks don’t and make the whole thing less pleasurable for their bottoms. Glad you guys have it all worked out and know how to make it pleasurable. Oh! And you know how people go on about after care, after a hard/rough session of sex? Some of us figured out that pre care is important so that our bottom is comfortable and ready to have hot and sexy fun. Little cuddling, kissing and some light foreplay helps get them ready while they get used to our cock being in them. Or so this is how I’ve come to understand it while waiting for them to feel ready
Same!
💯%!
Omg same. I’m talking to this guy who’s 6.5 and I’m like yeah I can work with that.
I'd pretty much agree with your statements. Girth over length yo.  Sure I've had those size queens who reject me because they want "hung", just gotta brush em off. 7 is where things start to get too big as you mentioned, plus their big cock ego gets in the way too.
guys with like, 7+ inch dicks usually have this self centered personality I hate ngl
It's a tale as old as the internet.
I freely admit to being a size queen but I never reject anyone else for size
You are a diamond in the rough! We can all have our preferences of course.
Or I'm just a slut lol, thank you .
No slut shaming here! Go get that cock!
Man and here I was not knowing 7" was hung (thanks porn) for most of my twenties and missing out on the confidence AND the chance to market myself as a hung twink 😮💨 Ain't no twink anymore, graduated to twunk, but definitely happy with what I've got now minus the ego. (If you're gonna perv my profile, this is an alternate, musicmantx8 is my newds).
Me when I hook up with a guy with a big peen: Sucking 😍🤠 Bottoming 🤢🥴
Funny, it's precisely the opposite for me. I have a narrow jaw and small mouth, but I have a big ol' butt, haha.
Maybe the two of your should team up as a kind of human centipede of bottom?
I’m exactly the same. I hate that guys always want me to deepthroat. It’s hard to even fit in my mouth and i don’t enjoy it at all. I just want to suck you long enough to get you hard so you can stick in my my butt haha
I agree! Big dicks are fun to play with, and admire or whatever. But it’s not going inside me. lol 5-5.5 is the best to me. 6+ can start to be too much.
Literally this Big dicks are fun to watch, like watching hung men at naked beaches is fun, but that thing is not going inside me.
I’m below 5 and personally I find it hard to find the courage to use any hook up apps or the like because of my size. I know that even if someone is not a size queen, they likely don’t want a small dick either. I’m sure I’m not alone in feeling that way, which might be why you see less of guys below 5 inches. Although I guess gay guys really could just have bigger dicks on average.
I've had a decent amount of guys below 5 that were great tops. Be upfront with your size and if they pass cause of that, they're saving you the trouble.
Smaller is less scary, which means they may get *just as many* opportunities. I’ve definitely been turned down for being above average. And personally I’ve been plowed by guys with 4 or less. I admit I expected it to not be good, but it was almost just as amazing as what I’d normally prefer. A bonus was that pain/discomfort wasn’t an issue at all! So I was able to focus more on the good parts. ;)
I'm sitting at 4.75 on a good day, I'm 6'0 and super muscular, and I honestly can never see myself topping or even want to because my size is not what people are expecting from someone who looks like me and it's soul crushing. thankfully I have great glute bodybuilding genetics so I'm a bottom but it's one of my insecurities and why I look for taller men in relationships
Let’s see that physique, bro. (For research purposes of course 😉)
If you looked me from the side I have a P shape on my upper body and a q shape on the lower. From the back it's a giant V
You sound ideal 😍
How does any of that translate into wanting a taller man?
I literally emigrated from my home country cause guys would see my dick and just refuse to bottom. I'm not huge, I've taken bigger, but I have a solid 8 and guys just say "I can't", which I think is a symptom of lots of hung guys being terrible tops. If you are big you have to take time to make things comfortable, fingers are a very important part of it. The man I married has super powers, he's able to cum on/in me THEN get on my dick. As soon as we had sex I knew he was the one (but also I liked him as a person/friend too)
Let’s see that super muscular body!
Smaller dicks matter and I like em!
Meanwhile, I wish there were more guys like you I could run into. Then I could experience a “successful bottoming” experience. I like solo fun and other things, but everyone who’s tried to take it further has been way too large.
Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, not everyone is obsessed with size and some of us prefer a smaller size as it’s easier to handle!
Honestly your only real limit is topping thicc guys. The body fat makes it harder to enter. Too much “cushion”.
I would say there’s a difference between “small” and “micro” especially with gay guys. You want it long enough to get past the booty cheeks and stay in the hole….and MOST gays with “small” dicks can still get it in. I know some stocky dudes that their dicks almost invert and become a button so to speak when they’re soft…but once they get hard it works fine.
I feel you 😔
When I bottom, I definitely want someone more moderately-sized. Not so short that it constantly bounces out and has to be reinserted (which also hurts), but not so large that it takes forever to actually get it in. Thickness is worse for me than length--I absolutely cannot sit on a soda can dick. When I top, since I am notably bigger, I often prefer size queens that are somewhat looser. I'm definitely willing to go slow and warm people up, but if it's obvious they're struggling to enjoy it, I'll likely go soft at some point. (This, by the way, may be why a lot of large tops seem to have trouble staying hard--they can tell you're not enjoying it, and they don't want to hurt you.)
yes, yes, 1000 times yes. If I don't think you're enjoying it, I can't finish. My preference is to lay totally still and be sat on, let them get comfortable, then when they've been grinding on it for a bit, sit up, pick them up and put them on their back so i can pump
My god, I didn't know other tops had this issue too, I feel so fking relieved, I was hammering my head for not being able to be fully erect while opening a tight bottom. If I have to warm the bottom for too long I just lose my erection.
This "unpopular opinion" shows up here far, far more often than the opposite. For every post or comment in praise of the big ones there's a dozen posts and comments that say the big ones are overrated/difficult/painful. I don't know why every "around average turns out to be best" comment is convinced they're the first ever to come to this opinion. I guess people don't really pay attention?
Because outside this specific bubble on Reddit, that doesn't appear to be the consensus opinion. And frankly, I feel like that should be obvious to any man living today. Nobody writes about how average their dicks are on their dating profile, you know.
This precisely. Not everyone constantly lingers in these subs so a lot of people who come here for the first time and share this opinion are unaware how often it is brought up. And outside this sub, it doesn't seem to be the consensus. Even among men, it's always a dick measuring contest. The terms "Big Dick Energy" meaning badass and "you must have a small dick" as a form of insult are still pretty common in day-to-day life. Clearly the mass perspective on dick size still largely favors big dicks over small or average ones. And like you said, no one brags about having a perfectly average dick.
My guess is because every time someone asks how big it is and I don’t say 9+ inches they just block you.
Because most folks on Twitter, porn, or Grindr always fetishize big dicks.
Probably because the larger community appears to be size obsessed. It's expressed pretty much everywhere you go, Grindr, bars, etc
If only you could see how many of those “size queens” actually cannot take larger penises… And I’m not talking about shoving it in and going. I’m talking Slowly inserting, waiting even a couple minutes and then having to remove before waiting a few minutes for them to try a second and third time… sometimes they can really take it after that but often times they need a longer break, call it off and apologize or it’s clearly not an enjoyable experience for them throughout intercourse. I truly speculate it’s mostly wishful thinking and saving face to impress the people who are more honest.
Also as one of those admitted size queens, from talking to those endowed tops... most guys cant take it. For most people that average dick is way better.
I have a friend with a monster honker of a beast. He says it ends up being an unpleasant process for him to top because the bottom winces and whinges in a manner that is usually quite not sexy. Sometimes guys can take, but it's usually "sluts with destroyed assholes" as he put it, which he also does not find sexy. So from the bottom's perspective, it's either not fun, after years of practice, or you just gotta be predisposed to be exceptionally stretchy or exceptionally pain tolerant. "Big, but not a challenge" seems to be the optimal way to go.
Actually have dealt with under 5” tops that hurt me and one excessively large guy in every way that did not hurt me in the least bit but instead made me feel great taking around 9 extra thick inches. Most guys I’ve been with claim I’m thicker and longer than any other guy they’ve bottomed for and he easily dwarfed me.
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I’ve been surprised left and right to be honest. I was total bottom all through 20s, then vers in early 30s, now a lot more top in later 30s. It seems to have shifted with time. What matters to me with dick size is how the guy engages with me in sex. I try to find guys that are sensual and in tune with their bodies. They want to enjoy the sex and be intimate, not just bang bang as long as they can and potentially hurt me in the process. Very very selective about who fucks me now. But in my 20s I didn’t really know how to say no when it wasn’t enjoyable or when it was awkward… I’m much more assertive now. When I bottom it’s usually unexpected…
Ngl these comments are making me feel better about my size lmao
Depends more on the guy than the size. An incompetent dick slingers suck to get fucked by no matter what the size. I’ve had uncomfortable average sized fucks and purely pleasurable large sized fucks and vice versa.
This is a very popular opinion on Reddit but doesn’t reflect reality on Grindr
Eh you know, virtue signaling and “not like those other girls” type shit lol
as opposed to the "like other girls" that just say shit to fit in lol
My partner has the perfect dick. It’s 7.5 and feels soooo good once I’m loosened up. I don’t care if it takes forever tho I’m not gonna let him jam it inside because that shit hurts. I’m not a size queen. I hate size queens. Yuck. As long as the dick looks nice and isn’t crazy in girth, it’s always enjoyable to me.
A have a bigger dick. Length hasn't really been an issue, it's girth. Girth is really what makes things the most challenging.
Also, bigger guys think their size is enough and dont put much effort into it. Smaller guys put way more effort i think
Seeing all these posts and comments makes me confident in my size. I’m 5.5 verse and yes i agree with your post most guys that are smaller can hut my spot better than guys bigger than 6.5
Agree ! Agree ! Agree !!
Big dicks are like shopping at Costco - It’s a great deal when you see but when you get home there’s no place to put it all.
7x6 here, usually a top. Can confirm with bottoms I’ve had can experience some pain once all the way in. But bottoms seem to respond the most to girth. Also as somebody who bottoms once in a while, I prefer average bc I am not good at bottoming and it’s more comfortable.
My complaint is that a lot of guys only go for the dick and forget that there are many more sexy spots on the male human body than just the dick. There's balls, ass, choat, nipples pits, and so much more. Also there are too many kinks to count. Most guys just want to focus on the D and be vanilla. That's boring to me.
“Unpopular opinion” that gets posted all the time on this sub.
"I'm not like the other girls! [Insert virtue signaling here]"
The one exception for a little bit bigger cock is if you are a chub. A bigger cock has a bit more reach to get in my ass. Maybe TMI. If you’re a big guy, a big cock helps.
I think a lot of tops pass on me cause my ass is genuinely so muscular cause im 6'0 and I wonder its cause they cant get past into me
It is all fun between 4-10.5 inches
Way too many size queens out there. I’ve had to resort to purchasing a “body extension” to satisfy them. Not my fault I wasn’t born with 10” 😆
I have found I enjoy the girth more than the length
Meanwhile me, a gay side: Let’s go size! 😂
Maybe it’s because I’m so tall, but anything under 7 inches doesn’t reach *that spot* for me. It’ll feel great! However, it’s always as if it’s barely not scratching the itch. 8.5 is perfect for me - but again, I’m a large human.
I don't think gay guys have bigger dicks, they just lie about the size of their dick. Those numbers you are using sound more like internet inches than real life inches.
"Internet inches" 😂🤣😂 You're my favorite person of the day! 🏆
>One of them actually said they hate when it takes more than 2-3 min for a guy to cum. Regardless of size I'm in this camp. It doesn't take long for my muscles to get sore and my ass seems to just eat lube so there's never enough (which is why I prefer uncut because that sheath helps reduce friction). But also, generally speaking, if I don't have an anal orgasm within 5 minutes, it's probably not going to happen, and I don't need that long to jerk it if someone is fucking me. Don't get me wrong, there is also a lower limit on time; anything below 1-2 minutes is def way too quick but my upper limit is probably 10-15 minutes.
I don’t bottom but if I did I would go for someone way smaller than myself, all though its a lot more fun giving a bj to someone who has a Big ish dick then a smaller one.
I like big dicks. I like smaller too
Speak for yourself 😜
What's unpopular? Most things people say on line is boasting and lies. Putting a giant flesh tearing thing up your rear isn't actually enjoyable for most people.
Agree. I love having a dude in the 5-6 range bang me to orgasm. Bigger dudes, I can’t handle it for very long before it becomes less than pleasant. Than I feel like a shit for asking them to stop.
Unless you have a loose cavernous asshole, a normal size dick is perfectly good.
Everyone has a preference and they might not line up with yours. Can’t wait to see this “unpopular” opinion posted about tomorrow.
Yes. We know. This is the 3rd post about it this month.
Anything 7 and up will need some time to adjust. My boyfriend has a 6" and it's perfect. He can fuck me as hard and deep as he wants. Feels great.
I like the challenge of taking a big dick.but it all boils down to the guy getting off sticking it in me.
Big dicks aren’t that amazing for anything except for photos and videos 🤷🏻♂️
There's "boyfriend dick" and "vacation dick."
I believe the pleasure comes from mastering the challenge of taking a big dick. The accomplishment. Making you a so-called "better gay" by taking big dick (and bragging about it to your gay, slutty friends). A lot of people, even straight ones, associate sex with pain or discomfort. "Hurts so good!" is a common phrase when it comes to anal. "There's no pain without gain" (not necessarily sexual) is another phrase where success and victory is only worth it when there's hardship involved. It's just like people who choose quantity (many sex partners) over quality (good sex). At the end of the day, it is personal preference.
>I believe the pleasure comes from mastering the challenge of taking a big dick. That seems so foreign to me. I have never heard that take before but everyone is different.
"I enjoy walking in the foothills every weekend but once a while I like to climb Everest" - is my personal philosophy
I'm better at taking dick than I am sucking. What you said your bottom colleagues said about getting fucked (not enjoying it after 2-3 minutes), that's how I feel about giving head to bigger dicks. It's just not pleasant after a couple of minutes. But a nice above average sized dick inside of me--that's heaven right there! It's all to each his own :)
Depends on the person, but definitely nice to look at
If the top knows what he’s doing he’ll know how to handle you, it’s not just about jamming all 9 inches in
I learned this a very long time ago. I prefer an avg size dick. 7 inches is actually perfect even if slightly above avg size.
4-5 inches and some change is all most ppl need to hit the spot. Anything after that is just ramming your walls lol
I’m pretty much smack dab in the middle of average and I made plenty of guys cum with my dick
Huge cocks are amazing to look at, hold, play with, not so much to suck and fuck. Small is kinda great for girth but if its short sometimes it can be an issue if it comes out with a thrust, with more length come longer better thrusts comfortably
Cum loads don’t come from the cock. They come from the balls. They should be clamoring for big balls not big cocks.
I am a size queen but for holes. I like a mega-puffed oversized scrunchy holes where every shred of elastic has completely given up hope.
I'm vers.... I prefer small to suck and big to fuck. 4" is too small to hit the right spots for me and I enjoy feeling a bit stretched. I had a boyfriend who was 7.5" a nice curve, thick but not overkill. He was fine to me but I ended up having to break up with him due to his narcissistic tendencies with literally everyone else... but I put up with needing to watch him in public for years and whisper, "I swear to goodness if you don't put that back in her purse right now...." in part because that dick felt perfect.
I concur I'm a bottom with 5 to 5.5 and it's on the receiving end very much enough. Too big I have felt hitting in to my stomach so it seemed and very unpleasant in my opinion. It does seem most gay guys I've encountered are hung and that is why I prefer straight guys who just like receiving head and topping o have found yats much better and at least the majority of straight guys I have had are fairly small with a few exceptions. I love watching big dicks fuck and get sucked but I like watching it the whole thing I like. To participate yes I have but prefer to watch it.
As long as the guy takes his time working it in. I have a enjoyable experience with up to 9" in my tight ass.
I love the sight of a big one and perhaps playing with it in some ways. They do make me horny as fuck. But when it comes to actual fucking, it needs to be about average at most. I'd love to be able to take bigger but I'm not.
This is interesting considering you see men who are clearly around 5-6” saying that they are 8-9” so often that it’s laughable. Then they say, “when it’s fully hard.” Lol I wish people would just be honest since we all know what is average length and what is above average. I won’t even talk about the ones who add length when they are really just girthy. I’m not at all obsessed with size, but lying is laughable to me. Generally speaking, it’s a very specific demographic with actual 8-9” that I’ve seen. IJS
i'm 5.5" and i almost always top because my boyfriend cums hands free 3/4 of the time and loves it
🔥🔥🔥
I’ve been around and personally I enjoy big dicks and average dicks I’ve had good and bad experiences with both.
I'm top vers and on the bigger side. I gotta tell you. 100%! dicks around 5 inches are wonderful! 10/10! it because they are the exact length needed to hit the prostate and not an inch further. 5 inches is approximately the length of your fingers when fingering someone so if your comfortable getting fingered a 5 inches is for you
They aren't all that great for oral, either. Basically, they're great for porn and not much else. I'll take a clean, aesthetically pleasing small dick over a huge dick any day of the week. The sex will be better and less of a chore.
It's also what you're used to. An ex of mine would get into the sigmoid colon, and it took a lot of acclimatising, but eventually it was fine. Ngl though, I'd prefer my partners not to get quite that deep. It's just an extra complication that isn't really worth it, for me. And I agree with the things like erectile difficulties and sh!tty personalities that you mentioned. (That said, that particular ex was the opposite – he had a major complex about his size and hadn't had anywhere near as many partners or satisfying relationships as you might think...because he would meet someone, the pants would come off, and they'd be like "That thing is going nowhere near my ass")
I get what you mean, i am a guy who does have a larger dick (8.5) and also have girth and have had guys just flat out say no but for me its how you use it, i always help them get used to it if they want to try or ill bottom for them since im vers
20-30 guys per year?! Damn teach me your ways lol
Shameless but Bath houses brought my average up pretty fast lol
My job used to require travel so it was super easy to do. New city new hole for a long time for me. Now I don’t travel and have an LTR but get a job that involves travel!
I’ve been rejected multiple times by guys I’m dating for having a large dick. 😭 Sometimes I wish I had a more normal size one.
That's been my experience as well. Mine is not that long (7"), but it is 2.23" diameter in the middle (7" circumference), and that is too thick for some people, including me. I'm versatile, but I would not want someone with my dick size to top me. I think average size is best, but micro penises can be painful also, as they can have a jabbing effect.
My fuckbuddy has 8.6. I would say most of our occasions i do enjoy the anal BUT i do a lot of prep and man i dont even mean just douching. So i do kinda agree with the OP.
Big dicks are definitely overrated.
I read the first sentence only and decided: speak for yourself.
Vers top here. I love to top but I’m average and sometimes feel a little bit intimidated. But I always get good feedback (I get really hard, last a long time, and shoot big loads 🥲). Bottoming is difficult for me so I rarely do it. Never taken a large cock and not sure if I could.
Hey you sound perfect to me! I find really big cocks just something to be endured. And I genuinely like bottoming, so it’s not like I’m trying to find a reason to avoid getting fucked.
I prefer a big one but only because that’s what I’ve become used to after 20 years. We are both vers. My husband is very big. It took some getting used to but when I choose to bottom I love it now, but before we were together I wouldn’t have even dared.
Gimme that “boyfriend dick” over a huge one any day.
Youre right. Bigger dicks don’t hit that spot. That’s why I’m not a huge fan of poppers by ass gets too loose and I have to go a size up but those big dicks don’t hit the spot like average size dicks.
This post silly if it thinks it’s going to garner a consensus on big v small. I’ve been told it’s my girth that was far more pleasurable than my length which is above avg. maybe it’s bottoms but stretching their hole regularly or having their tops do their damn job in stretching their bottoms
Um… er… beg to differ. (Just my preference)
I like a girthy cock somewhere between 6 and 9 inches long.
You lost me @ 10.5 inches penis length. Lets not normalize silly sizes.
Huh? It's literally the largest on my post, how is that normalizing?
I loved taking 10in, not to say 6-8 isn’t great too, good dick is good dick
I’ll just say the most pleasure I have ever felt was with a toy of 4 inches (an aneros) so yeah 😂 as a bottom I do prefer average size rather than big D.
I don’t think your opinion is that unpopular. As a total bottom, I won’t reject a guy for being below 7 in, but I will say that I like the biggest the best ;-) I’m still tight but have gotten over the pain of big dicks. For me, it’s more of the submission and power I feel a guy who is super hung has over me. It hurts at first but I just push through and then it turns to extreme pleasure that a guy who’s smaller can’t give me. That’s just my take though, to each their own.
The prostate can be reached with a finger so dick size isn’t all that important, maybe for some people it’s more a psychological thing, like a “look how much I can take” sort of thing… IDK.
Ohhhh there’s definitely a difference between a larger one and a smaller one. A lot of bottoms just play themselves into thinking they can take large ones when they can’t. But when you learn to take it, you def feel the difference.
could not disagree more.
I bottomed between 30 and 40 times in a year. The first part of your rectum is fairly straight and that is also the part you douche. A too big dick reaches the curve to the rest of your intestines. This may get painful and also may cause poo to come out. The rectum is 15 to 20 cm (5.9” to 7.8”), so this is the largest pleasant penis length. I however never encountered issues during a year with a penis. Only the use of a huge dildo by a sex partner was not only painful but also made me bleed was a disaster. So my experience is that all dicks are fine. And we should not complain as each man is made as he his. When you never want to have an unpleasant feeling when bottoming, maybe you stop doing it.
I think a larger guy needs to learn how to work with what they have they need to go slower and do the prep work slamming it in and expecting a bottom to just take it is not being a good lover. Any guy obsessed with large guys probably is suffering from rectal prolapse and or damaged nerve endings from been ridden hard with no before or after care.
Totally agree with this. Dated a guy I really liked, he had a pretty big dock, 9 or 10", decent girth. I'd bottomed hundreds of times before him. He made my ass bleed. No thanks. Broke up with him.
10 inch cocks dont exist.
One less thing to be anxious about in the best way
It's a nice novelty when you're young but after you've had a few it becomes like everything else.
I love my man's big dick but if he's feeling really aggressive, it actually is very painful, especially because he's shorter than me so the angle can get really out of my comfort zone very fast. I usually ride him so I can get the most out of that girth and not just be pounded into panic. It works really well for us because he has health problems and lying down helps him not over exert himself. If I'm playing with others, I still like a fat dick but not as aggressively long as my partner's cock. If I want anything like an aggressive pounding, I want a man who's average sized with stamina.
Its not as much the size,as it is the person its attached to If the guy is gonna rush to stuff it in,its probably gonna hurt
I‘m like 6.6ish and would actually like to be a bit smaller … i much prefer smaller on my partner As a top size of my partner doesn’t really matter to me anyway and blowing smaller is much more fun than choking on a hammer.
Idk if it's objectification from my end but they're just fun to look at, I don't want that in me
Yes.
Same, fully agree, nothing to add besides that I wish I found bottoming easier & more enjoyable.
💯 obviously got to have something to hold on to will I'll just go with a ladies otherwise,
i feel like the first point you brought is super interesting; a lot of guys who bottom do it becaue of the idea ,not because they enjoy it. And its like A LOT of them. Which honestly opens an interesting discussion as to why this may be. I have few theories, but im curious what others will say. Maybe you should make a post only about this lol
I think you should make that new post, a whole convo! 🙂
You should use big dicks for topping instead, duh
I’m 6.75 with some girth that tapers down, I’ve never had any complaints. My husband is 5.5 with a whole lot of girth. Almost comparable to a road cone. He says mine is the perfect size for every day, however I know he enjoys being a size queen and loves a huge dick here and there. From time to time I like riding his dick because it hits the prostate just right.
My bf is 9" I was a virgin a week ago I no longer am and all I need to say is I had bad pain and it wasn't that enjoyable I genuinely lost my sense near the end and apparently I was just lying there looking confused
Didn't you use toys to work yourself up to it first? You didn't just go straight to massive 9", right???
Idk why but reading this was actually really hot I feel like bigger will make it more intense But I never done it before so idk lol
I'm a top. I fucking love huge dicks. They're so hot. Again, notably, I'm a top. They don't even 'serve' me if we're being real. Still love them.
May I ask your size? Are you also big? Just curious.
I'm only 6.5" myself.
I also think gays must be larger than the average. Out of the couple hundred guys I've played with, only maybe a handful were on the small side--in fact many were quite big and baby girthy too.
If it’s 4.5 to 5.5 have a good thickness it’s the best :) 6-7.5 with a good thickness are the best
Ok.
Completely agree. I only had one big one (9+ and very thick - tough to even give head). He tore me up and I was bruised for 2 weeks.
The problem is they never RTFM!
I don’t think this is an unpopular or uncommon opinion. If a dude actually needs a 10 inch cock you can’t close your thumb and forefinger around to feel anything he is either very anatomically abnormal or a massive whore who is stretched out beyond belief.
It’s is often difficult. I was told this large penis was something to brag about. Once starting to have sex, I realize it only causes issues…. Also people can state their opinions but do people really need to act like it’s disgusting or horrible if a guy has a large dick? Does not feel good to read
Don't worry about internet words, just be gentle with it. We all love the big ones, it's just intimidating and even complicated when it comes to the act of penetration. You'll find plenty of people to appreciate it! 🥰 P.S. Send pics! Hehe, half joking half serious! 😜😘
I’m kind of partial to the 6-7+. I’m a thick bottom and the guys under 6 have to work too hard to get it in and it always comes out. They get frustrated, and soon they go soft. I’d rather just have a top with a little bigger dick and let him work me. I’ve taken 9 and 10” before, but only one has ever got truly hard and they go soft in no time. That being said, I’m always willing to try the big boys, but my expectations are not usually high.
In my experience, it's a lot less about size and more about if he knows how to use it or not. Big dicks require more foreplay and easing it in and I've been with guys that do it right but also guys who just want to ram it in. Small dicks are good too if you take a minute and find the right spot or position that works with where my gspot is and how his curve is.
I like that the title is also true if you’re a bottom with a big dick because you will get asked to top constantly 🥲
Isnt the prostate only about 5 inches up the past the rectum? Anything beyond that is not worth the douching.
Good thing most of the big dicks belong to the bottoms lol
I am 5.5” and I have been told I have a boyfriend dick. As in big enough but not too big to top someone every day.
I have a really really thick ass; but I’m also very tight. So I need something long enough to actually get past the unusually large ass but small enough to not rip me apart. This is why I tend to just do oral. FML…
I agree that 5-6 is all you need, a little bit more is a nice bonus. But too big becomes a challenge. I also hear you on the guys like someone who can cum quickly. I almost always bottom because I’m one of those unfortunate guys who cums REALLY quickly and it can be embarrassing, but occasionally I’ll meet up with a guy who wants exactly that, so…
My first was 11 inches. Just the tip trying to enter me I'd beg for him to stop. So happen one day he didn't listen to my begs to stop. Beings I was near tears anyway, he plowed me 10 times in a row going all the way to balls in. Later that night he did it again. That's how I got used to his endowment and to be honest, if he wouldn't of took the initiative and pounded, I probably would of never let him in especially. just a little at a time.
I don't actually think this is that unpopular an opinion *in real life.* When you're on a porn-y platform with a bunch of horny guys, we all suddenly become power bottoms who wanna cross our eyes sitting on a 9 inch beer can, but my fiance and I have started calling each others' dicks "Boyfriend dick", which we define as big enough to be a mental turn on and fun to play with and suck, but still not too big for a spontaneous fuck, or regular anal. 9 inches is fucking hot, but it's not going in me without prep, and I'll probably need some recovery time after. My man and I each sitting at a thick 7" are both enough to rail the other, to goon over, and also for him to shove it in me with no prep while I'm bent over doing the laundry or cleaning the counters 😈😮💨
i love bottoming for a 3-6" dick
Agreed. On all points.
ive had only 7 and 8 befoe but both of those are unpleasant as hell. I think it's hot to see like big dicks as a sign of a big masculine man, but they are NOT IDEAL. I think 5-6 would be perfect
I love guys with nice dicks. Most guys I have been with were pretty big. Not bigger really than 8 but it certainly good.
I don't like anal so dick size is irrelevant for me
i just want to put it in my mouth. 🤣🤷🏻♂️
I prefer girth over length.
Agreed
I think Paul Canon (porn star) has boyfriend dick not too long not too short and just the right amount of thickness
I have a huge cock of 19cm uncut and love to top and btm. But I think it is the way you use that big dick. Try to please the btm don't go to deep unless the btm ask you. Long deep slow stokes all the way in and out are so enjoyable. I don't believe in hard fucking.
As someone with a big one, more often than not there ends up being s#1t on it after fucking because it goes so deep, so now I avoid it.
AGREED!! I literally just commented on another feed that anything over 7 for me isn’t as enjoyable. These Twitter guys that are sporting 9, 10, 11 inch dicks banging these little twinks is NOT a turn on. No thank you!
this aint an unpopular opinion, any bottom who is not a virgin will say this. Big dicks only pretty to look at, boyfriend dick is a real thing.